August 27, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Allegra is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Gary.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how long
has it been since you heard from Gary?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It has been five days?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Who's keeping tracker? You know anything? Five days on the dot?
What was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Like?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Uh, it was great, Like he asked me to maybe
go on a second date and I was looking for that,
just even a text from him, And yeah, now it's
a fifth day. I've been feeling I haven't been sleeping.
I know that's embarrassing, but I just really liked him
a lot.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
Have you tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Yeah, I sent, like, I sent three texts and I
think that's about it. Like, I'm not gonna push it anymore.
Speaker 6 (00:56):
What are you saying in the text?
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Are you just like hey, yeah, I'm just like hey,
I had a great time. And then the other one
was like hope you're doing well. Third one was like, hey,
do you want to go to six Flags together or something?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, well let's try to figure it out. Why don't
you tell us about your date.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Yeah, so we had a picnic at the park and
we went to a market, got some sandwiches, and I
brought Monopoly.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
That was fun.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
We went to go see a movie after so I
thought like things were going really well.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
There was chemistry, in my opinion.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
We just talked about like where we went to school,
like what our hobbies are, and I feel like I
really liked how quirky he was and and that like
he had he was interested in, like reptiles, and I
really tried to engage with him and telling how him
how my dad also has like like esoteric interests.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And I was really nervous, honestly.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So I don't I'm afraid if I like messed up
or anything, but I was just really anxious.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Maybe I like that's something.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Out of the blue or made him feel bad about
liking reptiles.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Do you remember anything awkward that you might have said?
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Yeah, well, I think he told me before, like on
his previous relationship. He uh, he cheated on his last girlfriend,
and so I kind of maybe said like, yeah, like
that wasn't a good.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Thing to do, Like maybe I wasn't supportive to him.
You know, it's a pretty.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Bold thing to come out on a first date and
cheated on their last person. I san you, I have
a track record of cheating in my relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah, I was like, you probably don't want to be
supportive of that. I think it's okay to say that
that was a bad decision.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Yeah, yeah, So I don't know what's happened since.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
And yeah, we've been texting for two weeks on it
from a dating app.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
So we were like, we've already gone through the first
stages of like ice breakers.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
So that's why we died pretty deep that day.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, well, we'll play a song come Back, and then
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
All Right, we'll play song come Back, get your first
Day follow up next. Right in the middle of today's
first date follow up, And if you're just joining us,
Allegra is on the phone, and Allegra is getting ghosted
by a guy named Gary, and we're about to call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's a ghostinger
and see if we can get her another date. But first, Allegra,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Yeah, it's been five days since he texted me, and
I thought our first.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Date went amazing.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Maybe I heard his feelings on something that was personal,
and yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Just curious to see like what he's up to. It's
been a while.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
You ready? Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hi, I speak
to Gary please.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, this is Gary, Gary.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Gary, I'm Nina also
on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Hi everyone, how are you? I'm good? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Do you ever listen to the radio show at all?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I have?
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Okay? Great? Have you ever heard a first date follow
up before?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yes? I have?
Speaker 6 (04:22):
Perfect.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Well, then you know that that's the segment that we
do where if you go on a date with someone
and then end up ghosting them, they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yeah, so we got an email about you, Gary.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Oh did you Yes, we did.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Any idea who would email us and say that you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I can think of one person.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Yeah, okay, does it start with an a?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Did it with agra? Yes?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
She emailed us. We talked to her. She told us
about your date, said she really liked you, but she's
confused and wants to know why you're ghosting He would
you mind telling us?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Sure? But well, did she tell you about the date?
Speaker 6 (05:07):
She did?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
She said it was good. She said, you guys went
to like to a park and then you like reptiles. Yeah,
she said, She said, you guys talked about a bunch
of stuff, including the fact that you like reptiles, and
she said it was a really good date.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah. We went to a I guess you could call
it a park, but it was actually a graveyard. What. Yeah,
she laid out a picnic blanket over just you know,
like a random person's grave, and then she wanted us
to eat on it.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Okay, so you guys met at the graveyard. She took
you to the graveyard and took her to the graveyard.
How did you get to a graveyard?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Well, she said she wanted to have a picnic, and
so I met her and she took me to it.
She said was going to be a great spot for
picnic and then she, like I said, she just laid
that brought me to a graveyard. I kind of thought
we were walking through the graveyard to go to the
next you know that there was a park on the
other side, huh. But no, No, it was like full
(06:06):
picnic basket on top of someone, you know, someone who
is decomposing.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You didn't say anything about that, like, hey, can we
go to the like where there's a picnic table that
part and not dead people?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was, I mean, I was shocked, frankly, and I
was I was hungry, so I was too hungry to look.
She was just talking the whole time, so I maybe
got like two words, and I was I was just
sort of in shock. It just felt like you know,
when you're running out the clock and it just couldn't
move any slower.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Did she address the fact that you guys were at
a graveyard while she was talking to you and you
were eating.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Oh? Yeah, she loved it. She thought it was fantastic
and it's so cool that this is here and that
we can enjoy this sort of stuff.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
My mom likeyard.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
She totally would my mom loves going to different graveyards
and just sell brading people's lives and learning about them.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
I don't think that's what they were doing. I mean,
I don't know. Maybe she's got a fascination with it too.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I thought maybe it was someone that she loved. But
then she started talking about how she, you know, likes
to go to different grave sites and do the.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Same thing, like have picnics at the graveyard.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Yeah, and sometimes she goes by herself, she said. Sometimes
it's just she likes to bring a blanket and sunbathe.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
My mom always says that the whole idea is that
if you don't acknowledge them, then they are forgotten. I mean,
for me, I would be very creeped out in a graveyard.
I'm just wondering if her mentality is similar to my mother's,
where it's just as she wants to honor people that
she doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
It was. If we weren't at a graveyard, it was
just a picnic in a park, but it was on
a grave. I just I thought it was It was
super weird, and if I'm being honest, it was probably
the worst situation that I've ever been in.
Speaker 6 (08:00):
Okay, well, Lego felt differently. She thought it was great.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Oh I know, yeah, she made that very clear. It's
like it felt like maybe she was. At one point
I was like, is this is is she wanting to
leave me in the grave? And is there?
Speaker 6 (08:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah, come over here back behind the behind this building. Well,
Gary Allegra is on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Oh yeah, that's right, that's right. I forgot that. She
that that's what you do. She's right there on the phone.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Uh high Allegra, Gary, you're a buyer. You you loved it.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
So I I was uncomfortable when you kept saying do
you do you love it? Isn't this great? Don't you
love it? And I said yeah, like that you think
that's how somebody says yeah when they're excited about something.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
Well, you could be a little more honest because I
didn't get the cue once.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
The cheater always here.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I know you're gonna cheater?
Speaker 4 (09:04):
How did I what?
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:06):
You should feel guilty like still to this day. So yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
Told me what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
You told me that cheer fast relationship?
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Absolutely not. I don't know what are you talk this?
I never said that plastic cheater mode.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Honestly, I don't even know who you are. Gary. I
wish I never met you.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Well, don't say that too quickly, Gary, would you like
another date with a legro?
Speaker 6 (09:34):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
No, No, thank you?
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Yeah you Gary
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Jule's First Date follow up
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Allegra is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Gary.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how long
has it been since you heard from Gary?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It has been five days?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Who's keeping tracker? You know anything? Five days on the dot?
What was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Like?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Uh, it was great, Like he asked me to maybe
go on a second date and I was looking for that,
just even a text from him, And yeah, now it's
a fifth day. I've been feeling I haven't been sleeping.
I know that's embarrassing, but I just really liked him
a lot.
Speaker 6 (00:48):
Have you tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Yeah, I sent, like, I sent three texts and I
think that's about it. Like, I'm not gonna push it anymore.
Speaker 6 (00:56):
What are you saying in the text?
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Are you just like hey, yeah, I'm just like hey,
I had a great time. And then the other one
was like hope you're doing well. Third one was like, hey,
do you want to go to six Flags together or something?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, well let's try to figure it out. Why don't
you tell us about your date.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Yeah, so we had a picnic at the park and
we went to a market, got some sandwiches, and I
brought Monopoly.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
That was fun.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
We went to go see a movie after so I
thought like things were going really well.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
There was chemistry, in my opinion.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
We just talked about like where we went to school,
like what our hobbies are, and I feel like I
really liked how quirky he was and and that like
he had he was interested in, like reptiles, and I
really tried to engage with him and telling how him
how my dad also has like like esoteric interests.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
And I was really nervous, honestly.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So I don't I'm afraid if I like messed up
or anything, but I was just really anxious.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Maybe I like that's something.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Out of the blue or made him feel bad about
liking reptiles.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Do you remember anything awkward that you might have said?
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Yeah, well, I think he told me before, like on
his previous relationship. He uh, he cheated on his last girlfriend,
and so I kind of maybe said like, yeah, like
that wasn't a good.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Thing to do, Like maybe I wasn't supportive to him.
You know, it's a pretty.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Bold thing to come out on a first date and
cheated on their last person. I san you, I have
a track record of cheating in my relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah, I was like, you probably don't want to be
supportive of that. I think it's okay to say that
that was a bad decision.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Yeah, yeah, So I don't know what's happened since.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
And yeah, we've been texting for two weeks on it
from a dating app.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
So we were like, we've already gone through the first
stages of like ice breakers.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
So that's why we died pretty deep that day.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, well, we'll play a song come Back, and then
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
All Right, we'll play song come Back, get your first
Day follow up next. Right in the middle of today's
first date follow up, And if you're just joining us,
Allegra is on the phone, and Allegra is getting ghosted
by a guy named Gary, and we're about to call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's a ghostinger
and see if we can get her another date. But first, Allegra,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Yeah, it's been five days since he texted me, and
I thought our first.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Date went amazing.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Maybe I heard his feelings on something that was personal,
and yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Just curious to see like what he's up to. It's
been a while.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
You ready? Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hi, I speak
to Gary please.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, this is Gary, Gary.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Gary, I'm Nina also
on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Hi everyone, how are you? I'm good? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Do you ever listen to the radio show at all?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I have?
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Okay? Great? Have you ever heard a first date follow
up before?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yes? I have?
Speaker 6 (04:22):
Perfect.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Well, then you know that that's the segment that we
do where if you go on a date with someone
and then end up ghosting them, they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Yeah, so we got an email about you, Gary.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Oh did you Yes, we did.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Any idea who would email us and say that you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I can think of one person.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Yeah, okay, does it start with an a?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Did it with agra? Yes?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
She emailed us. We talked to her. She told us
about your date, said she really liked you, but she's
confused and wants to know why you're ghosting He would
you mind telling us?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Sure? But well, did she tell you about the date?
Speaker 6 (05:07):
She did?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
She said it was good. She said, you guys went
to like to a park and then you like reptiles. Yeah,
she said, She said, you guys talked about a bunch
of stuff, including the fact that you like reptiles, and
she said it was a really good date.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah. We went to a I guess you could call
it a park, but it was actually a graveyard. What. Yeah,
she laid out a picnic blanket over just you know,
like a random person's grave, and then she wanted us
to eat on it.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Okay, so you guys met at the graveyard. She took
you to the graveyard and took her to the graveyard.
How did you get to a graveyard?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Well, she said she wanted to have a picnic, and
so I met her and she took me to it.
She said was going to be a great spot for
picnic and then she, like I said, she just laid
that brought me to a graveyard. I kind of thought
we were walking through the graveyard to go to the
next you know that there was a park on the
other side, huh. But no, No, it was like full
(06:06):
picnic basket on top of someone, you know, someone who
is decomposing.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You didn't say anything about that, like, hey, can we
go to the like where there's a picnic table that
part and not dead people?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was, I mean, I was shocked, frankly, and I
was I was hungry, so I was too hungry to look.
She was just talking the whole time, so I maybe
got like two words, and I was I was just
sort of in shock. It just felt like you know,
when you're running out the clock and it just couldn't
move any slower.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Did she address the fact that you guys were at
a graveyard while she was talking to you and you
were eating.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Oh? Yeah, she loved it. She thought it was fantastic
and it's so cool that this is here and that
we can enjoy this sort of stuff.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
My mom likeyard.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
She totally would my mom loves going to different graveyards
and just sell brading people's lives and learning about them.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
I don't think that's what they were doing. I mean,
I don't know. Maybe she's got a fascination with it too.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I thought maybe it was someone that she loved. But
then she started talking about how she, you know, likes
to go to different grave sites and do the.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Same thing, like have picnics at the graveyard.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Yeah, and sometimes she goes by herself, she said. Sometimes
it's just she likes to bring a blanket and sunbathe.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
My mom always says that the whole idea is that
if you don't acknowledge them, then they are forgotten. I mean,
for me, I would be very creeped out in a graveyard.
I'm just wondering if her mentality is similar to my mother's,
where it's just as she wants to honor people that
she doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
It was. If we weren't at a graveyard, it was
just a picnic in a park, but it was on
a grave. I just I thought it was It was
super weird, and if I'm being honest, it was probably
the worst situation that I've ever been in.
Speaker 6 (08:00):
Okay, well, Lego felt differently. She thought it was great.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Oh I know, yeah, she made that very clear. It's
like it felt like maybe she was. At one point
I was like, is this is is she wanting to
leave me in the grave? And is there?
Speaker 6 (08:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah, come over here back behind the behind this building. Well,
Gary Allegra is on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Oh yeah, that's right, that's right. I forgot that. She
that that's what you do. She's right there on the phone.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Uh high Allegra, Gary, you're a buyer. You you loved it.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
So I I was uncomfortable when you kept saying do
you do you love it? Isn't this great? Don't you
love it? And I said yeah, like that you think
that's how somebody says yeah when they're excited about something.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
Well, you could be a little more honest because I
didn't get the cue once.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
The cheater always here.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I know you're gonna cheater?
Speaker 4 (09:04):
How did I what?
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:06):
You should feel guilty like still to this day. So yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
Told me what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
You told me that cheer fast relationship?
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Absolutely not. I don't know what are you talk this?
I never said that plastic cheater mode.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Honestly, I don't even know who you are. Gary. I
wish I never met you.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Well, don't say that too quickly, Gary, would you like
another date with a legro?
Speaker 6 (09:34):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
No, No, thank you?
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Yeah you Gary
Speaker 6 (09:44):
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