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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Sierra is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
But first, Sierra, how long has it been since you
heard from Alie?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Oh? It's been gosh, like maybe a week, two weeks now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Have you reached out to him in that time?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I texted him once and I haven't heard anything back yet,
and so he's just ghosting me.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
It's just it's not awesome. Let's go backwards. Why don't
you tell us about how you guys met how the
date was. Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yeah, I met Ali online and we decided we should
do something that's super fun for our first date.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
So we did something.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
A little non traditional and went glow bowling. It's like
glow night again like us. Yeah, it was so much fun.
It was like a rave, lots of glow lights everywhere,
body paint, you know, like black light everything in loud music,
lots of drinks.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
It was so much fun.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Yeah, that sounds fun.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Yeah, and it was a really good date. I mean, like,
you know, we were dancing and there's a lot of
a lot of music and drinks and like, we had
a fun time. And then we went back to his
place afterwards.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Okay, because I was going to ask if you've got
a chance to talk to him much. Glow bowling is
not necessarily a place for talking. It's a place for
glowing and bowling.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, yeah, and we we kind of, you know, knew
that going in, but we just wanted to see, like
if the chemistry was there, and it was, okay.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
I see what you mean. You just got artistic with
your body paint or.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Yeah, yeah, that's a good way cool.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
And so the chemistry was there, Yes, I felt it.
I feel like we had a really great time. But
I will say I think maybe I had maybe one.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Too many drinks at the Bullerina. So I feel like.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
My like I didn't come off as good as I
could have, Like I should have just kept myself to
two drinks, and instead I had three, and I just
think that it took me to the next level. Maybe
maybe I scared him. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Do you remember anything that you did that was too much.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
I just think maybe he didn't expect me.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
To drink as much.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
I mean, three drinks isn't terrible bad, I mean unless
I mean some people are kind.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Of, you know, light light, total lightweight. So I am
such a lightweight. It's just like one drink for me
and then it's like.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Oh, okay, she's gone. But he was like, oh, i'll
drive you home.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
We'll go to my place, you know, and he drove
me home.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
So like, I don't know, were you sloppy? Were you
saying things?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Maybe I don't no, I don't know, Like I definitely
was tipsy, but I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
I don't think.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I don't think it was that bad.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Okay, but if you were to say something weird happened
on the day, it would be that you were wasted. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
What's the last thing that he said to you?
Speaker 6 (03:18):
I think he said like, have a good night.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
You know that I said, after you guys had chemistry,
he said have a good night oof.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
M hm, not like I'll see you again, and did
you guys pland another date or anything.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I kind of pushed that where I was like, hey,
let's use this against it.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
Let's let's do something later this next week, and he
was like, I'll have to wait and see.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Like I have to go and check some things. And
he didn't get He gave me like a non answer,
you know.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
Okay, all right, so it got weird.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, all right, Well we'll play a song come back,
and then call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay,
thank you, Okay, we'll play a song, come back and
get your first a follow up next. In the middle
of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us,
Sierra is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a dude named Allie. We're about to call him and
(04:07):
see fatals why he's ghostinger. But first, Sierra, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah? Ali and I went to glow Night at the
Bowlereina near us and we had a great time. I
got a little too tipsy, I think, and now he's
ghosting me and we went back to his place and then.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I went home later after and got a strike. He
hasn't gotten back to back to you. Are you ready
for us to call him? Okay, here we go, hell
(04:51):
I may I speak to Allie please, this is him, Ollie.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
How are you?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Hi, Ali, I'm Nina. Also on the show. I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
Oh oh hello, oh hello.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
I've heard it before? Yeah, definitely, I definitely recognize the name.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Okay, sweet, that's what we try to go for. I've
heard it before, so thank you for hearing it before.
Have you ever heard a first day follow up before?
Speaker 6 (05:17):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Well, I'll tell you what it is.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
A first day follow up is the segment we do
on the show where if you go out on a
date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got
an email about you from somebody really, Yes, have you
been globaling lately?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Globaling?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Mm hmm, yes, okay. Was it with somebody named Sierra Sierra?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Yeah? Sierra, uh huh okay.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
And it's been a few weeks since you talked to Sierra.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
You had to spoon feed them? Then are you really
seeing that many people?
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Well, you know, I don't think I'm ghosting anyone in
their own Okay. Yes, Erra was a lot of fun.
We had a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
She told us about She said that you guys really
hit it off, but now you're not responding to her,
which would be ghosting.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
It was fun. I had a lot of fun. And yeah,
I just haven't gotten back to her. I guess.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
I mean generally, when you don't get back to somebody
for a few weeks, that kind of is the find
is ghost Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, I mean I'm I was very busy with work,
and like my work's a very intense and kind of
takes a lot of my attention.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
Not so you want to go out with her again.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
It sounds if you really like somebody, you're going to
make sure you talk to them.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Well, I mean we had fun. We definitely had a
lot of drinks. And then I took her to my
place and you know, we had another drink and.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Well, she pat herself, what, Ollie, that's that's Sierra.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you. Wait, yes, holos the way till we got
the answer, all the way out of you. But Ollie,
I didn't think you'd go there they asked, why you know,
I know you look.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I mean it was fine. I'm not mad. He had
a lot to drink.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I was laughing, by the way I was. I was
in the middle of laughing, like he had me laughing
and that's why I peed.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Okay, Like it was just a little ddle. What it
means when he laughed really hard and a little bit
comes out, that's not a big deal. It happens to
everybody all the time.
Speaker 6 (07:38):
No, I mean it was more than a piddle. I
had to get paper.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Towels and you know, and I was like, not upset.
I was just like, it's fine, it's fine.
Speaker 6 (07:50):
But then it.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Wasn't that bad.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Okay, Seriously, seriously, I'm not saying it's bad that you
peede and it's fine.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
I'm not saying is bad. It's what I totally get it.
We have Oh my gosh, I peed behind a donuts store.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
One serious.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
You know the amount of people that I that have
peed on dates with me a lot? Wait, are you serious?
Speaker 4 (08:19):
Likes especially when drinking is involved.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
It's not that uncommon. I mean, and I've also done
it too.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
So.
Speaker 6 (08:29):
It's not it's not a bad thing. You drinking had
a lot to do with this, you know, like.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
It was just sort of a first impression thing that
like like I can't do that.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
I mean, it was fun, definitely fun.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
But then I think once that happened, I was like, okay,
let's get you home.
Speaker 4 (08:51):
Where did that happen? Were you guys like on the
couch or was this in bed?
Speaker 6 (08:55):
Kind of bold?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay, I mean I make a comment that her piece
I could smell her pee.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
Strong.
Speaker 6 (09:08):
I mean at this point, I'm just it's just commentary.
What's going on? It did not smell that, Okay, it
did not just smelled. It was like it could definitely
smell the sense of it. It was like a stronger
you were drinking. It was just an observation.
Speaker 4 (09:31):
Out.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Well, Ollie, would you like to go out another day
with Sierra? Will pay for it?
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
But I like, Siera, You're you're definitely like a weekend
only girl, like I want to like get you know, wild.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
And be entertained. I'm not a weekend only girl. Just
because I peed while I was.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Drunk, there's I mean, there's nothing wrong with the weekend
only girl.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
No thanks, So that's a yes, Allie.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I mean, yeah, if on the weekend you want to
do something, they're going to pay for it.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
I would glow ball again. I just put down some like.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Packs, actually considering it because it was a lot of fun.
But no, I'll find someone who is an every day
a guy who wants an every day of the week
kind of girl.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Well you know, if you're ever you know, bored on
a Saturday or something and you need somewhere to come
and see.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
No, I'll find somewhere else to be.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
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