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June 16, 2025 11 mins

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jenna is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Luca.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her another date. But first, Jenna, how long has it
been since you heard from Luca?

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Uh, it has been a week. I haven't heard anything
in a week.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Okay, that's usually the spot where everybody starts to panic
a little bit. How many times did you reach out
to him in that time?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
Probably like once a day, you know.

Speaker 5 (00:35):
I just usually sent him photos of my dog because
he that's how we met. Our dog totally hit it off,
and at first I was getting like a little bit
of feedback and now just nothing.

Speaker 6 (00:50):
Okay, Well let's talk about the date then.

Speaker 5 (00:54):
Well we met at the dog park, well actually our
dogs met first. His golden doodle literally tackled my pug
beans and it felt meant to be. And we ended
up grabbing coffee after and I got a lavender oat
milk latte obviously, and then the he got like black

(01:15):
drip coffee. So I was like, okay, edgy.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:24):
And then so we sat on this cute patio outside
and we just talked for like two hours about astrology,
about oat milk conspiracies, about his tattoo that he swears
is the moon but it totally is.

Speaker 6 (01:42):
Okay, he has tattoo he says isn't the moon, but
it is.

Speaker 5 (01:47):
Yeah, he was trying to say it was like some
other I don't even like, some other edgy kind of
niche thing, but I was like, that's literally a moon.

Speaker 4 (01:57):
When people are like that's an artist hooke, and You're like, oh,
the tattoo on my neck he is a lotus flower.

Speaker 6 (02:02):
But so yeah, okay.

Speaker 5 (02:07):
And at one point he literally watched me parallel park
and he didn't even he didn't even judge.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
So I feel like that's intimacy.

Speaker 6 (02:17):
Oh yeah, I mean in a way, okay, and you
feel comfortable.

Speaker 5 (02:21):
Yeah, absolutely, it felt so comfortable and so natural.

Speaker 6 (02:26):
Well, then what could have gone wrong?

Speaker 5 (02:29):
I I truly don't know. At one point he wiped
oat milk foam off of my nose.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
With his finger and he licked it. It just made
me feel like he was really.

Speaker 5 (02:41):
Into me, Like I don't know how else to interpret that,
Like it feels like he's he's into me.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
He was into it.

Speaker 6 (02:46):
I didn't lick it off your nose.

Speaker 5 (02:48):
No, he he wiped it off of his finger and
then licked it off of his finger, which still I'm like,
I think too.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Yeah, for sure, i'd be a little weird now if
you li liked it straight off the night.

Speaker 5 (03:01):
And yeah, he said at one point of the day,
he said, you're really call me to be around, Like
that's not the friend zone, Like that's future wife in
a linen dress. Energy.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Okay, so what do you think the thing is? Well,
why do you think you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Well? Okay, so when he when he wipes the oat
milk off of my nose, I leaned.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
In to kiss his nose. I just licked into he
licks the foam off off my nose or with his finger.

Speaker 5 (03:31):
I just thought it was only right to balance it
with like a romantic, like little nose peck.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
In the moment, it.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Felt really romantic. But but the way he reacted was
was shocked.

Speaker 6 (03:44):
Really, so what did he do?

Speaker 3 (03:46):
We laughed about it, what about how stilly it was?
I thought I was embarrassed, but I thought we were
back on track. But maybe he's still thinking about it.
I hope not.

Speaker 6 (03:57):
I'm thinking about it. Okay, Son, you think maybe it
was the nose kiss that did it.

Speaker 5 (04:07):
That's the only thing I can think of, because other
than that, we really vibed.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
We really did.

Speaker 6 (04:13):
Did you use tongue on?

Speaker 3 (04:17):
No?

Speaker 6 (04:21):
No French kiss? Okay, that goes too far. I feel
better about that then, Okay, all right, we'll see if
we can figure it out for you.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up, next.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (04:42):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
and if you're just joining us, Jenna is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Lucas.
So we're about to call him and see if he'll
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
a second date if she still wants one. But before
we do that, Jenna, why don't you break down your
date for us again?

Speaker 6 (04:56):
Real quick.

Speaker 5 (04:57):
Well, our dog's got to meet cute in the park.
We hit off the absolutely vibe. So we went to
get coffee and talked for like two hours about everything
under the sun, really, and he the craziest part is
that he like, I had oatmelt foam on my nose
and he wiped it off with his finger and licked it.

(05:19):
And I think I'm getting ghosted. So I'm just confused because.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
That would be like, I'm into you moment, I'm not
licking foam off of my finger if I don't like
you exactly.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
And you think you might be getting ghosted because at
the end of the day, you kissed his nose to
balance the nose action.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
At the there was one awkward moment.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
I was trying to roll with the whole like kissing
the nose thing, and so I kissed his nose and
it was awkward, but we laughed it off, led it off,
and so I'm hoping it I'm hoping it's not that.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
But that's the only thing.

Speaker 6 (05:50):
I can what bass his nose action like that's flaws.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
Not a lot of dates, first dates, I have no
All right, you're ready for us to call him? Yeah, Okay,
here we go. Hell, hi, man, I speak to Luca.

Speaker 6 (06:21):
Please. This is this Hey Luca, how are you? This
is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi Luca.
I'm Nina. Hi, I'm and my name is Jebel. How
are you? What's up?

Speaker 7 (06:32):
I'm alright?

Speaker 6 (06:33):
So the three you guys, Yeah you listened to the
show ever?

Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (06:37):
Yeah, I've listened to you guys before. I mean, it's
just kind of weird that you guys are calling me.

Speaker 6 (06:42):
Sure.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yeah, well we're calling you today because we got an
email about you from somebody.

Speaker 7 (06:47):
Okay, a good email or like a bed like what
kind of email?

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, it's a great email. Actually, But we do a
segment called the First Aid follow Up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
you end up ghosting them, that person can email us
us to get you on.

Speaker 6 (07:00):
The phone and ask why you're ghosting.

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Then.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Okay, so we got an email about you from somebody
that you're ghosting.

Speaker 7 (07:06):
Okay, you know that would be I mean, I got
a guess, I got a guess.

Speaker 6 (07:15):
Take a guess.

Speaker 7 (07:16):
I mean Jenna the Lavender Latte girl, Yes.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Jenna, Yeah, tell us why you're ghosting? Her.

Speaker 9 (07:28):
I mean she was just she's just kind of weird,
you know, like I mean, I mean, be unique sign
you know, but like she brought a crystal to the
coffee date, like she's like a little amethyst, and sat.

Speaker 7 (07:42):
On the table set and needed to charge. Then she
proceeded to give me like a twelve minute speech about
how she and her dog are twin souls.

Speaker 8 (07:51):
Oh you know, like okay, she asked me if I
ever felt emotionally manipulated by her coffee order, you know.

Speaker 6 (07:58):
Like emostly manipulated by her coffee order. What does that mean? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, that was a conversation starter.

Speaker 6 (08:08):
Lu to you.

Speaker 8 (08:11):
Yeah yeah great, Yeah, mindsighted, but that's nice.

Speaker 5 (08:15):
What's up, Jenneral, I was just being authentic, but you
literally said that you wanted someone grounded and real, so
I should.

Speaker 7 (08:24):
Have reel you.

Speaker 8 (08:25):
You asked the barista if the oak milk had been
vibe checked, like there's a.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
Lot because mercury was acting weird. Energy matters.

Speaker 8 (08:36):
I mean you also tried to stage the table, you know,
like it was palasanto.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
I was protecting our connection. I just slightly lightly burned it.

Speaker 7 (08:48):
Jenne listen, you're super interesting.

Speaker 8 (08:51):
You're funny, but did you notice that I barely said
two words about myself?

Speaker 5 (08:58):
What?

Speaker 3 (08:59):
No, Well, we had like a great flow.

Speaker 8 (09:03):
Listen, you had a monologue, right, I know about your dogs, dreams,
your third eye chakra, you're playing abandonment issues.

Speaker 7 (09:12):
What about me? Did you even know that I'm an engineer?

Speaker 3 (09:16):
Oh, you're an engineer. That's cool, that's dope.

Speaker 6 (09:21):
So I guess that's j didn't know. You didn't know that.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
No, I didn't.

Speaker 7 (09:27):
Yeah, that's that's because we never got to meet in
the conversation.

Speaker 8 (09:31):
It was just, I mean, you don't know that I
moved here where I moved from, or that I just
simply don't believe in the chakras and the crystals and
all this.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
You just moved here from where.

Speaker 6 (09:46):
I don't think that's the point, Jenna.

Speaker 5 (09:49):
Okay, I'm sorry for being in tune with myself.

Speaker 8 (09:54):
I'm not trying to knock it all right, Like, you know,
I just felt you weren't really open who I am.
You know, you were interviewing me for a vibe check,
like you wanted to see if we are vibes match.

Speaker 7 (10:06):
And that's it.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
I thought that we clicked.

Speaker 8 (10:10):
I mean, you're not You're not boring all right, I'll
give you that.

Speaker 3 (10:15):
Well, okay, what if.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
We try again and maybe we do something quieter, like
a walk with the dogs and no talking about past lives.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
Would you like another day with Jenna? Will pay for it?

Speaker 8 (10:29):
Listen, Jenna, I think you're a lot of things, but
just maybe not my thing.

Speaker 7 (10:35):
Okay, Like you're cool, but I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
Just admit it.

Speaker 5 (10:41):
You vibed more with my dog than me.

Speaker 8 (10:45):
Oh yeah, one hundred percent. Your dog is chill like
I love the dog.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
That's because the grounded unlike some people.

Speaker 7 (10:55):
Can I can I go on a second date with
just a dog? Is that cool?

Speaker 3 (11:02):
I mean no, we're inseparable. He gets separation anxiety. I
couldn't just give you him.

Speaker 6 (11:08):
I think he was joking.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
But oh okay, well then I mean yeah, sure, okay
you will first date, follow up,
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