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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The new hits one of six point one first Date
of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
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Speaker 2 (00:10):
Kristin is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Cruse.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if this house why is ghostinger and maybe get her
another date. But first, Kristen, how long has it been
since you talked to Cruz?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Uh? Too?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Meet?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, that's a while.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
I know I should have just forgot about it, but
I don't know. This date was really good and that
he's a catch.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So he's got a cool name. Yeah too. You know we.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Didn't cruise along together, so hopefully that was cute.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
I guess you have to have a sense of humor
about the idea of being ghosted anyway.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, I mean happens all the time, no kidding.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Did you reach out to Cruz though in that time
at all to try to get.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
A hold of him, Oh, definitely. I was not about
to let him go. I was like, like, hey, how
are you Nothingnick?
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Do anything to call me? I even then called him
and left a voicemail. I don't do that a lot.
But I left a voicemail letting him know, like, Hey,
what's going on. I thought you were gonna call me
when like you wanted to hang out again?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
And then nothing, okay, us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Well, I first actually met him at my friend's boyfriends
as a sun twister.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
My friend's boyfriend's softball game.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
He was a player, okay.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
And after we all went out to eat, so technically
that was the first date.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
You know, it went so good. We had a second
date and I don't know, I had a great time.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
He was such a gentleman, opened the door for me,
was polite, really good looking call, which is the plus.
And I really liked him. And then all of a sudden,
just he gave me a kiss. You know, we had
a little makeout session, and then he just said, I'll
call you later and nothing.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
What is your gonna do on your date?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Though?
Speaker 5 (01:59):
So the first unofficial date was when you guys met
at the with food, and then when you went out together.
What did you guys do?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Well, we got pizza and beer after the game, and
then when we went out the second time, we went
mini golfing like low in the Dark, ones, you.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Know, yeah, so much.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
But my teeth are really bright, you know, so I
thought I was going great. I might have used a
little too much tongue. I was trying to hold back, but.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Like what it is? It's like, did you do this long?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Di?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Do that wrong?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Did I did.
Speaker 6 (02:31):
I do that?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
You start thinking it's you, and then I'm like, did
I use too much? Tub? Did you not use too
much tong on.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
The first day?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
What is the I like to use the side, the
left side, because that's my dominant side, but I will
not use the right side on a first date. So
I just you know, I don't get a lot of
calls back though.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
So you only like stick your tongue on one side
of the yah?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Anything? Can you think of anything awkward? I mean, is
it only the tone so funny?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I can't get over what you like. We'll give you
a dog.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Figure it out, and yeah, people can handle it.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
It's on the left side. Like, no, I can't think
of anything. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
I just felt like we had a great time and
then all of a sudden, I don't know if like
someone I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
That's why I'm calling you, guys. I have no idea
because I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
We had a great session, you know, makeout session, like
I said, but there was one thing that I guess
did happen. His eyes saw someone that came in, and
I kind of just like started kissing him really quick
to hide my face.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
What do you mean by that?
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Well, like, I don't know. I just don't want them
to see me. I'm a private person. I just don't
want them to see me out with.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
People, Oh like somebody you recognize.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
So I just like quickly tried to like, you know,
kissed him, and I told him like jokingly, like huh,
I'm just trying to hide away from someone.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
And I don't know if that was weird to him,
that is something that happened.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Okay, we'll try to figure it out for you to play.
So on, come and then call him and see if
he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get
you another data.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Right, All right, cool, all right?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Place, So come back, get your first day follow up, next,
running little of today's first date follow up and if
you're just joining us, Kristen is on the phone. She's
getting ghosted by a guy named Cruz. So we're about
to call him and see if he tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But
before we do that, Kristen, why don't you catch everybody
up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Uh? Yeah, So I pretty much went on a first
date with the guy that I met at my friend's
softball game, and then we had a great.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Time with mini golfing at the end of it. We
had a good makeout session. But before that, I did see.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Someone kind of come in that I knew, and I
tried to hide by making out with him.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I don't know if that threw him off. I just
didn't want them to, like see my face. So I
don't know. I don't know if that's the reason why
he's ghosting me. But I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
He was a gentleman, checks all my boxes, So I
kind of want to see.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
What's going on, all right? You ready for us to
call him?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
I guess, so yeah, to do it.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Hello, Hi'm I speaking the Cruise. Please this zim, Hey Cruz,
how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from
a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. Hi Cruz,
I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Hey, I listen to you guys.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Oh now you're on the show. Ohow what's going on? Well,
if you listen to us, have you heard a first
date follow up before?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Yeah? I have.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Oh okay, is that what this is? Yes? It is.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
So you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us to get
ahold of you and find out why you're ghosting them.
Do you know who would email us?
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I got an idea. Is it Kristin? Yes it is.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Kristin answered the first question correctly. Now the other question
is do you mind telling us why you're ghostinger?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Yeah, I'll tell you. Listen.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
First of all, she seemed like a great person. She
was really really cool. The day was great, like we
hit it off and it just got a little shady. Yeah,
it was. It was really suspicious. So we met up
at softball. I play softball with a friend mine who
knows her, and so you know, they were out and
(06:24):
we kind of hung out afterwards and hit it off
like we were talking to chatty.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It was great.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
So we actually went out went out, so I took
her mini golfing, which I think is a good way
to kind of get to know people, and we walked
on the beach wanted to see sunset at the park,
you know, like it was really nice and romantic and
she was really cool. But then at the parking lot
when we're mini golf, like she just attacks me, like
like starts making out with me, like it forcefully.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
So it kind of threw me off.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
It wasn't that sweet, like you know, kind of get
nose to nose and you're gonna get that first kiss,
like it was right there, and I was like, what
was that. She goes, oh, I just saw somebody I knew.
I just wanted to I don't want to see me.
And I'm like, are you embarrassed by me? Are you
embarrassed to be out with me?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I just don't want people in my business.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
That doesn't make sense to me that you would make
out with me so that they wouldn't be in your business,
Like now.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
You're giving them something to talk about. It was a
little odd.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
So I went and and talked to my friends and
I was like, yeah, I went out, and they're like,
how to go?
Speaker 3 (07:20):
And I was like, oh, it went great.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
It just she did this weird thing and they're like, yeah,
she's kind of she's kind of addicted to drama, and
I'm like, what, yeah, she she kind of does that,
like like her baby daddy is is pretty mean and
kind of bad news. But she keeps calling them over
like they're always involved and all they do is fight
in public. And I'm like, I'm sorry, hold on, she
don't have kids, and they're like, no, no, no, she's she's pregnant. Now.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Oh yeah, see that reaction. That was my reaction. I said,
I'm sorry, what.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Well, yeah, pregnant, Prue, I'm allowed to date? Say you
can't date I'm pregnant.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
Oh forgot that she'd be listening.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Yes, that is Kristen. She's on the phone and has
been listening this whole time.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Hey, well you know I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah, my side is the truth. You didn't tell me
that you were pregnant.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
So you're hating on a woman that's pregnant and saying
she can't date. Is that what you're telling me right now?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
See? You see that drama. That's the drama. That's the
drama right there. You're putting no, no, no, you're putting words
into my mouth. I don't want to be part of
that drama. I don't want you need to tell me
up front if you're pregnant. That's not something that I
should find out.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
That letter telling you that I'm pregnant right away. Like, ky,
nice to Misha, I'm Christian and I'm pregnant.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
How you doing? What do you want to eat?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
No?
Speaker 5 (08:43):
Well when do you think that? Is that something you
thought that you were going to tell them at some
point Kristin.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Of course, Well maybe I'm showing.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (08:53):
Okay, listen, listen, hey, you do you. I'm not gonna
I'm not judging you for anything. You do your thing.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I'm just saying that's not right. I'm not until you
first off, it was a first date. It's not your
business until maybe two months. I'm sorry, So if I want.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Sorry, you kept saying it was our second date.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
You've corrected me on that, so I'm trying to go
on the same page you're on because you're like, not
technically our birth date.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
So I'm telling you right now is our second date.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
But you said before it was our first, So it's
our first because you want to count it as our first,
because you don't count the fear and people as well.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
I mean, we can change, you can change the verbiage.
Now you can say our last date. That's that's how I.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Don't want to up. I don't can't man up? Are
you kidding me? Can't man up? You're not a man.
You want to sign my grade, whether my dad or
something like. Okay, I'm pregnant.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
You're not mad, you're pregnant that you're.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Actually the opposite of dead. You've got more life in you.
I know. I don't want you to get it out.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
And you've cheated it many golf right, you can't.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Even Hey, well, I have to ask the question, Cruz,
would you like another day with Kristen?
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Will pay for it? No?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Okay, Chris, And I'm sorry, no second date.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
Congounts on your baby though.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Yeah, thank you. I'm definitely not naming him, okay. Jubile's
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