Christian & Kat - A Golf Date That Went Way Off Course

Christian thought he planned the perfect first date—18 holes of golf, laughs, and even matching dance moves on the green. But when his date Kat suddenly ghosted him with nothing more than a single thumbs-up emoji, he was left confused. Was it the flashy golf shoes, the endless cart rides, or something else entirely? In this episode of First Date Follow Up, we call Kat to get the real reason behind the ghosting—and her answer might surprise you.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Christian is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Kat.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Christian, how long
has it been since you heard from Cat.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
In a little while. I'm like super confused. You and
I we Uh, So, I like playing golf. So that
was our first date. It's to play golf. And I
mean I I thought the date was cool. I thought
it was fun. We had gone and we played. It

(00:44):
was about like eighteen holes.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
I guess does she like golf.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah, that's what we had talked about before, So I
thought it was good. I even got us like one
of those little golf cards too, so we didn't have
to walk everywhere. And she was laughing, you know, drinking
a little bit, and looked great in her golf clothes,
by the way. So we made up some good you know,
some dances, swing dances. Every time one of us made

(01:12):
a good shot, we would have this whole dance that
we would do and that was cool. Yeah, it was
like we were in our own little world, just annoying
everyone that was behind us playing. And I had texted
her probably like the next day, and I was just like,
you crossed that part, you know, I can't wait to

(01:34):
dance in the green with you again, like that's her thing,
and all she did just thumbs it up. Yeah, just
super passive, agressive. That was ghost mode.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Well, what could have happened? That's kind of weird.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
I don't know, like thinking about it, I I think
I might know why, but I'm just and I was
kicking myself for it because at the time, you know,
I thought it was I thought it was impressive. And
I wore these limited edition Jordan golf shoes and I

(02:13):
might have brought them up, but yeah, a few times,
for four or five times. I mean they're they're stickit.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
I'm looking these up Lord Jordan's.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Yeah, I was blowing kisses to him. I was reminding
everyone that they were limited edition. But I was meaning
it to be funny, you know, like, look, I'm good
because of my shoes without them on trash. Oh okay,
I'm sure you know. I was. I was more annoying
than endearing. And then we were supposed to go to

(02:43):
dinner after the play golf date, but Kat decided to
call it a day after the eighteenth hole, and.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
Uh, maybe she just got tired and maybe she didn't
want to play golf again, you know, because that was
a long time. Then when you text her, I can't
wait to get back on the green. Maybe she's just
that was too long, right, I don't know, because these
shoes look pretty cool. Well, I've never seen Jordan before.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
She had you know, like I said, we didn't really
eat or anything, but like she had some drinks and
she seemed to be okay.

Speaker 5 (03:23):
But maybe she got like sick from not eating and
all the drinking. So maybe you're in the clear.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
I don't know, but I I just thought we really
hit it off, and it was kind of it's appointing
when I just got the thumbs up because we had
just spent all that time together golfing and then that's
all I got, you know.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure
it out for you. We'll play a song, come back
and then call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay,
all right, we'll get your first day follow up next
if you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.
Christian is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

(04:02):
a woman named Kat. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But before we
do that, Christian, why don't you break down your date
again for us?

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah? So Kat and I went out on that date.
We played golf because we're both into that, and there
was an eighteen holer and everything was going good. We
were laughing, drinking, and I think something must have happened.
You're on the date. I think maybe because I had

(04:35):
been kind of drawing attention to my new limited edition
shoes and I don't know if that was a turnoff.
Maybe it was annoying.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
I don't know how to.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
Think so, and then I just got a thumbs up
on a check.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
All right, Well, you ready for us to see if
we could figure out what that thumbs up is all about.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
A little nervously, yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
All right, here we go.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Hello, Hi man, speak to Cat.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
Please? This is she?

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Hi Kat, how are you this is a radio show.
It's called The Jebile Show.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
Hi.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
I'm Nina.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Hi, I'm Victorian and.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
My name is Jubel. How are you.

Speaker 5 (05:25):
I'm good?

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Sweet.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 5 (05:29):
H Yeah, but I'm a little confused.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Oh well then maybe I can clear that up for you. No,
we're calling you today because we do a segment on
the show called the First Date follow Up. That's where
if you go out on a date with somebody and
ghost them, they can email us to get you on
the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And we got
an email about you from somebody.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Is this about Christian?

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yes it is. Christian said that all you did since
his date was give him a big thumbs up and
that's it.

Speaker 5 (06:00):
Your text, welles is hilarious.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Do you think it's funny what happened?

Speaker 1 (06:10):
Well?

Speaker 5 (06:10):
So, okay, he took me on a four hour outdoor
date in.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
The sun with no snacks.

Speaker 5 (06:21):
You were food. It was just vibes. We were living
off of vibes and golf balls. And I was basically
two tequila selters deep by Whole six and I nearly
ate one of those dibbits.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
Did you tell me you were hungry.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Oh I told I needed food twice, and he goes,
we'll eat after golf takes focus and I was like, bro,
I'm not Tiger Woods, I'm hungry. And then I'm like,
what kind of man thinks that four hours of day
drinking doesn't require snacks.

Speaker 5 (06:56):
But to give him the benefit of the doubt, he
actually tried to take me to dinner after playing golf,
But honestly, I was just ready to punch him in
the face and eat a burrito. I mean, I needed
to get out of there.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
So that's that's it. Because you were angry.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, I was starving.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
I mean it's fair, all right. Well, hey, thank you
for telling us why you gohos seeing him. Christian is
actually on the phone by the way, listening and wants
to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Wait. Cut, you're telling you about the snacks, Christian, it
was about the complete absence of snacks.

Speaker 5 (07:33):
I was borderline barrel by hotwelve.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Well, I probably more after you said you were down
for golf.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
But I didn't know golf. With the hunger game. You
played a date that was four hours in the sun,
and you all you gave me was seltzer.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Okay, okay, but I mean it was a good felt.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
It was to show oh delicious, nothing pairs with electro
like gloss, like carbon and regrets.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Okay, well, I didn't think that I was responsible for
your snacks. I ifigured you were an adult, and you know,
I maybe that was my bad, like we didn't talk
about it before, but I just don't think that I
should be. I don't know, you could have brought a
granola bar or something like that, right.

Speaker 5 (08:25):
Okay, so hold on. If I have to pack a
survival kit for our date, absolutely not. And I'm sorry,
but are you insinuating that I'm a toddler that I
need snacks?

Speaker 3 (08:37):
You're not?

Speaker 5 (08:37):
So, okay, hold on, because you were the one that
was driving the golf cart around like it was a
power wheel in the driveway, showing off your shiny shoes
to anyone that would look at them. They were like,
we're blowing kisses. But yeah, cool, I'm the one that
needs taken care of and I'm the one that's a toddler.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
Okay, Well, I mean, you went four hours without having
a snack and now you're throwing a fit.

Speaker 5 (08:58):
I mean I don't drinking.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
Yeah, all I'm saying is when I was driving the
golf cart around. You were whooping and screaming, and you
look like you're having a good time.

Speaker 5 (09:11):
I was whooping and screaming for help.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
Sounds like someone else is a toddler to me. I
don't know.

Speaker 5 (09:18):
That's absolutely unaccessible that you did not properly plan that
date at all. Who goes who goes drinking outdoors in
the sun and doesn't bring any type of food?

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Okay, well, next time if I were to go golfing
with you, I would be sure to bring some milk
in an app square. That's what you need.

Speaker 5 (09:40):
No, but thank you, but a little bit of advice.
Just make sure to feed your future dates.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Okay, Well, my future dates will be adults and they'll
bring your on snacks, So thanks to be a bet, and.

Speaker 5 (09:53):
My future dates will be adults who don't over compensate
with their shoes.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
That's the question, Kat. Would you like to go on
another day with Christian? Will pay for its?

Speaker 5 (10:04):
Absolutely not. I rather iron my socks oh for going
on a future date with him, And I'd rather eat
a heart than going on the sad Wow Wow.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
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