As part of the 12 First Date Follow Ups of Christmas, Shane thought he’d found an instant connection after a flirty arcade bar date that took a very unexpected turn. But three weeks later, he’s completely ghosted. When The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up team tracks down Carolina, the truth behind her silence isn’t awkward… it’s calculated. What starts as a steamy, confusing first date quickly unravels into a shocking revelation that no one saw coming.
This unforgettable First Date Follow Up is packed with betrayal, revenge, and one of the most explosive explanations in show history. Listen to find out what really happened and why this date was never what Shane thought it was.
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com
This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…
➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts
The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places:
- Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com
- Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow
- X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow
- Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show
- Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow
- YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh
Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribe
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Episode Transcript
First Day follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the twelve first
day follow ups of Christmas has voted on by you. Yeah,
we countdown all the way to the number one first
day follow up that you voted on. Shane is on
the phone today for our first date follow up, and
he's getting ghosted by a girl named Carolina. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Shane, how long has it
(00:28):
been since you heard from her?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
It's been probably like three weeks?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Okay, have you reached out to her in that.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Time, Yeah, like maybe four or five times.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
That is a definite ghosting.
Speaker 6 (00:42):
So I don't think that's why he's tell him that
he knows tell us about your day.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
I'm sorry, Shane.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah, So I actually met her on Instagram. She just
slid my DMS and apparently we'd gone with the same
college together, but I didn't know her while we were
both there. But we chatted for probably a few weeks,
and then we met up at this bar. It had
arcade games in it. We played Papa Shaw and ski
(01:10):
ball and stuff. It was cute. What really attracted me
to her was that she was competitive about it. You know,
I love that and a girl. But we did that,
had some drinks, had some snacks, and it was a
great time. Like a lot of floriding, a lot of
touching going on. We talked endlessly, we laughed like it
(01:31):
really seemed like perfect date. Yeah, I mean, the only
thing that I can think of is that we both
ubered there, and then after the date we both went
in our respective ubers now. But before that, she pulled
me into the alley and we made out like pretty intensely,
(01:51):
and it escalated into like this weird dirty talk. I mean,
she told me to tell her that I was a
piece what she Yeah, she made me do this little
strip tease and she was filming this and.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
We were okay with that.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
It was weird, but something about it was kind of hot,
like I was kind of into it. She kept asking
me if I wanted more, and obviously I said yes,
And then on a dime, it just completely.
Speaker 6 (02:28):
Stopped because your cars came or just all of a sudden,
She's like okay, I'm done now.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
No, it's like the switch was just turned off, and
she thanked me for the night. She gave me one
more kiss, and then she asked me if I knew
what I did, and I didn't know how to answer that.
I mean, I don't know if it was some kind
of like kinky build up thing.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yeah, but that was it.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I mean, that was the That was the last time I.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
Talked to her, So, you know, you did something, he
did a strip tease.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Maybe I did something to her.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I don't know, I have no idea. It was so bizarre.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Yeah, okay, and you've texted her and she said nothing
to you.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
I was just so invested.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Yeah, like, what was like the last thing you did
before she just stopped.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
I mean I think I just you know, said I
like to see her again, and I had a great time.
You had the usual end of day small talk.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, but I mean, like when you was a naughty
little boy, well transition, Yeah, Like was there something that
you did when she was like, okay, I'm done.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Like pull your pants up, proclaim.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
No. The way that she actually it didn't seem like
she was reacting to something that I did. It just
all of a sudden, she just stopped. I really have
no idea why right.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
In the middle of your first date follow up? If
you're just joining us. Shane is on the phone, and
Shane is getting hosted by Carolina. So we're about to
call her and see if just alice why she's ghosting
and maybe get him another date. But first, Shane, why
don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah? So in our on Instagram we went out, had
a great time in Arcade bar. Afterwards she had me
do like this weird kinky stuff in the alley and
I was pretty into it, and then she just suddenly
stopped and I have not heard from her since.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Okay, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
I would want to know what I'm ready?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Yeah, all right, here we go.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
She will go laugh.
Speaker 7 (04:37):
Sorry, Hi, Hey, Hey is this Carolina?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
H Yeah, this is the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show.
My name is Jewbul.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
How are you Hi?
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Am Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
I I do?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Actually, yeah, do you have any idea why we're calling
you today?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Well?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
No, not really.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
Okay, have you heard a first date follow up? Before.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Oh yeah, yeah, well that's why we're calling you.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
We got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Okay, okay,
his name is Shane.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Really yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Shane emailed us and told us about your date and
he said it's been three weeks since he heard from you,
and he wants to know if you'll tell us why
you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Oh okay, I am ghosting him because I got what
I want from him. It wasn't Oh my god, I
can't believe you actually called you. It wasn't. It like,
was not a real date.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Fore, it wasn't a real date.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay? So I was literally just on Instagram. You probably
told you that that's how we met, But I was
and I saw himma, and I recognized him because he
screwed over my sister in college.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Oh how so.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
My older sister, Elena and him were together and he
was totaled, just sleeping with anything that moved, just mind her,
making empty promises and all this crap. And she was so,
oh my god, I've never seen her more heartbroken. It
was ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
This was in college.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Mm hm.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
So you saw him on Instagram and set up a
date with him to get revenge.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yes, Oh, so.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
He never met you when he was dating your sister,
Like he had no clue who you were.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
No, No, I said that. I told him that we
went to college together. He just went to college with
my sister. And I wasn't even like in the picture.
But I mean he believed it. I guess he believed
what he wanted to believe that a girl would want
to go out with him.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And girl, Okay, does your sister know that you did this?
Speaker 1 (07:02):
She knows now, she didn't know before the fact, but
I wanted to give it to her kind of like
a surprise because she's like fine now, I mean she's
over him because she's garbage. But I and I wasn't
even thinking about it. I just saw him on Instagram
and I was like, oh my god, I have to
do this.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
So is that why you filmed him doing all kinds
of weird things in an alley?
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Like which part is revenge? Because it sounded kind of hot.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
He definitely seemed to think that it was because he
was really into it, but I that was for Yeah,
that was for the wrench. I showed my sister the
video and we were cracking up about it. It was
so freaking funny mm hmmm, and him saying I wanted
to make sure that I made him say that he
was a piece of.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Because he.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Thought that that was okay. He thought you were like
you know, that was your thing.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, I was like the grade him or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Okay, Well, the next time someone pulls out their cell
phone in an alley and wants to film me doing
weird things, I'm gonna question it.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Twice made it.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
He made it so easy.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
He made it so easy.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Thank you for being honest with us. Karlina. Shane is
actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Oh my god, seriously, I honestly I can't believe what
I'm hearing.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Are you serious?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
It's uh after like, do you just not really want
to talk after what you did to my sister? This
is just like if you heard someone I love like, like.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Seriously, that was years ago.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
You are seriously crazy for doing.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Oh my god, you're the one who would do whatever
a girl tells you in an alley, So I don't
really know, Like whatever.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
You talk, I was in college, Like I'm a completely
different person now.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
You are.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
Absolutely psychotic Okay, seriously, you're gonna record me like that?
Who else has seen this video?
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Ja? Oh my god, literally read this Me and my
sister calmed down.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Why should I believe you? No, honestly, Carolin, I should
get a warrior.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Oh my god, oh my god, please always overreacting literally like,
chill the f out?
Speaker 3 (09:37):
What do you? You don't even know me?
Speaker 1 (09:40):
No, I know what you're like, I know you did out.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
How should I react to this?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I mean, this is insane. It's insane what you did.
You don't check people like that, you have.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Like, oh my god, absolutely, sever.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Man, it's just calm and it's just coming back around.
You just can't handle it.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Go yeah, sure, sure, Wow you're real. I really missed out.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Huh Yeah, I mean I guess you did. You're having fun.
You're the one who did all who was so willing
to do all this stuff in the alley with me,
Like you didn't take any convincing.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah, because I thought I was on a real date
and it turns you're doing a revenge on me. It's
just absolutely crazy.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Whatever. You just can't you just can't take it. Don't
dis it happen if you can't take it. Look Oh
my god, I'm gonna delete it anyway. I already said
my sister, and I'm gonna delete it after I show
one of my coworkers.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
You'll be hearing from me, okay, getting legal advice about this.
I'm serious. I'm dead serious.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Okay, I'll hear from me on Instagram.
Speaker 6 (10:51):
Yeah, you can do anything, though, What does you say?
I willingly did a strip teeth and now it's public?
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:56):
Yeah, I'm sorry, Shane. I know that sucks on both sides.
I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Yeah, okay, I guess I wont to net to video.
Then I'll just puld on to it and tase I
need to show it in court and we'll just entertain
me until then.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Yikes.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
Well, Caroline, would you like another date with Shane? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
If you're paying for it, I'll just record him doing
more stupid stuff. That's fine me.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
You're gonna hear from my lawyer.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
You know what, I'm glad I cheated on your sister.
Speaker 5 (11:25):
Oh is that the second date for you guys?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Yeah? No way in hell?
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Yeah I don't think so. He obviously doesn't learn from
his mistakes, all right them? Bye, then stripper Boy Jubile's
first date follow up
Host
Jubal Fresh
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
The Burden
The Burden is a documentary series that takes listeners into the hidden places where justice is done (and undone). It dives deep into the lives of heroes and villains. And it focuses a spotlight on those who triumph even when the odds are against them. Season 5 - The Burden: Death & Deceit in Alliance On April Fools Day 1999, 26-year-old Yvonne Layne was found murdered in her Alliance, Ohio home. David Thorne, her ex-boyfriend and father of one of her children, was instantly a suspect. Another young man admitted to the murder, and David breathed a sigh of relief, until the confessed murderer fingered David; “He paid me to do it.” David was sentenced to life without parole. Two decades later, Pulitzer winner and podcast host, Maggie Freleng (Bone Valley Season 3: Graves County, Wrongful Conviction, Suave) launched a “live” investigation into David's conviction alongside Jason Baldwin (himself wrongfully convicted as a member of the West Memphis Three). Maggie had come to believe that the entire investigation of David was botched by the tiny local police department, or worse, covered up the real killer. Was Maggie correct? Was David’s claim of innocence credible? In Death and Deceit in Alliance, Maggie recounts the case that launched her career, and ultimately, “broke” her.” The results will shock the listener and reduce Maggie to tears and self-doubt. This is not your typical wrongful conviction story. In fact, it turns the genre on its head. It asks the question: What if our champions are foolish? Season 4 - The Burden: Get the Money and Run “Trying to murder my father, this was the thing that put me on the path.” That’s Joe Loya and that path was bank robbery. Bank, bank, bank, bank, bank. In season 4 of The Burden: Get the Money and Run, we hear from Joe who was once the most prolific bank robber in Southern California, and beyond. He used disguises, body doubles, proxies. He leaped over counters, grabbed the money and ran. Even as the FBI was closing in. It was a showdown between a daring bank robber, and a patient FBI agent. Joe was no ordinary bank robber. He was bright, articulate, charismatic, and driven by a dark rage that he summoned up at will. In seven episodes, Joe tells all: the what, the how… and the why. Including why he tried to murder his father. Season 3 - The Burden: Avenger Miriam Lewin is one of Argentina’s leading journalists today. At 19 years old, she was kidnapped off the streets of Buenos Aires for her political activism and thrown into a concentration camp. Thousands of her fellow inmates were executed, tossed alive from a cargo plane into the ocean. Miriam, along with a handful of others, will survive the camp. Then as a journalist, she will wage a decades long campaign to bring her tormentors to justice. Avenger is about one woman’s triumphant battle against unbelievable odds to survive torture, claim justice for the crimes done against her and others like her, and change the future of her country. Season 2 - The Burden: Empire on Blood Empire on Blood is set in the Bronx, NY, in the early 90s, when two young drug dealers ruled an intersection known as “The Corner on Blood.” The boss, Calvin Buari, lived large. He and a protege swore they would build an empire on blood. Then the relationship frayed and the protege accused Calvin of a double homicide which he claimed he didn’t do. But did he? Award-winning journalist Steve Fishman spent seven years to answer that question. This is the story of one man’s last chance to overturn his life sentence. He may prevail, but someone’s gotta pay. The Burden: Empire on Blood is the director’s cut of the true crime classic which reached #1 on the charts when it was first released half a dozen years ago. Season 1 - The Burden In the 1990s, Detective Louis N. Scarcella was legendary. In a city overrun by violent crime, he cracked the toughest cases and put away the worst criminals. “The Hulk” was his nickname. Then the story changed. Scarcella ran into a group of convicted murderers who all say they are innocent. They turned themselves into jailhouse-lawyers and in prison founded a lway firm. When they realized Scarcella helped put many of them away, they set their sights on taking him down. And with the help of a NY Times reporter they have a chance. For years, Scarcella insisted he did nothing wrong. But that’s all he’d say. Until we tracked Scarcella to a sauna in a Russian bathhouse, where he started to talk..and talk and talk. “The guilty have gone free,” he whispered. And then agreed to take us into the belly of the beast. Welcome to The Burden.