July 3, 2024 • 13 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Okay, shit, hang on.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
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check out more from James, Mike and Kezy on their
Instagram at Hadarky Big Show. Fortune into them four to
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Speaker 3 (00:17):
Thanks mate, Yeah, thanks man, thanks a lot, thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Pugson here he is. Oh pugaroo. Ladies and gentlemen. Pugson
makes Necessario.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Oh no, they love you. They listen to them.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Listen to them, man, wow, really yeah, we can't get
her now. My head's like, what's your middle name? Pugson William?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
People don't like them their middle names is a rule,
but you come to like it as you get older.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
It's pretty regal.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
For me.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
I think James William, James Christ William, Pugsley, I.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Know a guy called James williams. Oh now about that
any relation? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Last night we were doing my gaming party with the
girl that I do it with, Ellie. Her name is Brooke,
and then these two people came in for an interview.
One was called Brook and one was called Ellie. So
that was extremely confusing for all of us, would have
been it was, so we just ended it, just told
to leave it.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Was great you getting guests on there.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Man, thanks man, Yeah, Man, No Jase today he's got
a POOI virus.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, I think he's drilling the boy.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Is that actually a.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
But the good news about that is he shot.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
But how does he know? It would be my question
because he would have been wiping his as anos. I
guess you'd hear it.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
All I know was all I know is he was
up all night.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Apparently he's like, well, you know the rules, You're.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Only I don't care what happened. I was actually talking
about it runs down the crack.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah. I was swet about him last night about that.
At the premiere thing, I went to you.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Were talking about that?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I was talking to me. Yeah, I was to who
was that? I can't remember.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Somebody important? Had they auired?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
They agreed that No. I brought it up and they
agreed it was a woman, and she said, sometimes it
needs more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
We all agree that the woman.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You all agree.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Standing there, like eating an order or something, you went, hey,
get a load of this. A horse, a horse, and
you're like, hey, lady, get a load of this.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
That horse reminds me it was stinking too. They had
these many cheeseburgers and they stink.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
You just eat them. Those are so delicious.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, they stunk too much?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Was it the one?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Not good meat? Not good meat at all? You can
smell it a long way away.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Yes, no, no, no, I didn't joke from me man Field. Yeah,
it wasn't that more.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Damn.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I when I went to this TV premier, I ate
like five of those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, they had fish ones and chugen ones. I should
have had someone.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I fucked it up, you really did.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I can't go back in time now. You know what's
done is done? Man.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Yeah, what's the TV show? And you'll probably talk about
this in the old What's on TV?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, and also earlier I think, yeah, yeah, true?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Was it a good show where you stoked to be
a part of it?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
It is a good show. Yeah. I wasn't sure what
it was going to be like, but it is definitely
worth a watch. What I really like about it, there's
lots of things. It's an easy watch like that, and
it's half an hour long and I really love that.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Can't complain, can't complain.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I'm not sure if it's going to be binging or
if it's I think it might be binge able. But
also a weekly release. They do that, so it's all
of TV three. But then I went home and I
had dreams about Lymphomer.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Of course of course she did, so, yeah, have you
booked in with a doctor?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Well, I have booked in. So I get this as
a result of me having my smelly onion armpet, which
we talked about on the show yesterday. And then somebody
texted and said, hey, I had that. I had a
smelly onion armpet and a couple of other things, and
then I went to the doctors and now I start
chemo next week.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It was stage three Lampooner.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Stage three, and I was like, oh sweet, because actually
I said to my wife after I came back from
Shape Shifter.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Did I tell you this part of the story, No.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Which is what when we were talking about shape Shifter,
which being a ship break, because I coudn't remember what
was funny about it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Well, it ends up that you were just watching it
at home.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
That was great.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
You were just like I think, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Go well, what was happening was I was getting I know,
I did talk about where I was sweeting in your
left and I cared to get my left arm down
because it stunk so much it was grossing me out.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Right, did she smell it?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Who?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Your wife?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
She was in front of me, but there was a
woman behind me. I didn't know, right, But when we
got home, I put my each of my arm pets
into my wife's face and she's like, yeah, right, but
you shouldn't be able to smell yourself. No, you know
normally you're oblivious.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Yes, And if you smell yourself, everybody else has already
been smelling it.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
That's right. And then this this guy on the text
yesterday was saying, oh yeah, and I also had heartburn
as well, and I was like, I've been having heartburn
lately and been quite burpie. I'm not very not a
burpie individual, but I have been burpie lately. So anyway,
I booked a doctor's appointment. The first one available is
Friday week. Everybody else. The next one, so the surgery
you can pick any doctor you want, was like five
(05:20):
doctors here. The next one was like the twenty fifth
of July. So I've gone to the worst doctor there. Sure.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
In other words, yeah, the most readily available way.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
I just cannot believe how hard it is to get
a doctor's appointment, because I haven't been to the doctor
for probably two years, right, for like an appointment thing,
And I feel like two years ago it wasn't that hard,
and I feel like it's in the next The last
two year or at least my local doctor out west
that I go to wasn't very hard, I agree, And
so it's obviously real hard now.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
The last guy that I went to was easy enough
to get into, but it was eighty dollars as eighty
five bucks a visit, right, which is just astronomical and
fucking new useless, right, So it's not a great Yeah,
I don't know. We were reading it yesterday, went we
and it was they were aging out. So the gps
(06:08):
are aging out, yeah, and retiring. Then there's not enough
new ones coming through, and then the ones that are
coming through are leaving the country because the systems under pressure.
You'd know about that pigs.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Well, the system being under pressure. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's
a pressure.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
His system was massive und pressure over the weekend, a
lot of pressure after that hot burger.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yea. The Whole Archy Big Show week days from four
on Radio Hierarchy, They Big Show Podcast.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Hey Pug's question, can you help me with a dilemma?
So I've got a friend tonight, right, we're going out
for dinner.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
That's awesome. Jealous monch Jesus sorry, one.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
A friend tonight's coming up from Todonga to have dinner
with us.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
She's pregnant, right. She has digestion issues. She throws up
three times a day already, just with the pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
It's awesome.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
She's dairy free. She can't eat onions. And there's one
other thing. I can't remember what it is that she
can't eat. It's not gluten, which is good. Which cuisine
would you go to out for dinner? Because I've asked her,
I've said, hey, which one is best suited. She's like, man,
I'm sure I can usually find something anywhere. And I'm
just like, notice I didn't say this much.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It needs to be put on her. It can't be.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
It can't be up to Like, I'd love to help
you with a cuisine right now. But the only person
that's really going to be able to point you in
the right direction as the person who's going to suffer.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Where did you go last time? Where'd you go last
time that you really enjoyed?
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Maybe reframe with her, Oh yeah, that's not you just
dinner that I would say to her, what was the
last place restaurant you went to that? You really rephrase
the quick because what I did instead was my other
mate who's coming. I just talked to her, and I
was because he does. He works in the sort of
food industry. And he's like, here's five options. All of
them I looked at and when I don't think she
(07:46):
can eat that. I don't think she can eat that.
I don't think she can eat that. And he's like,
I don't care. This is about more than just her.
It's about everyone that's going, Yeah, we're going to go
to this place. It's delicious. Yeah, great, So we're going
to this career. So you gave me the option, and
after that, it's tough shit. I would not even give
a fuck.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
If she leaves it to you to pack. She leaves
it to you to pack, totally right. And so she's
chill and it happens is on here, And she also
said she's chill, so she doesn't actually care. She's like,
even if I get a bowl of chips, I don't
give a ship.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I would have so much fun with that. Anyway, she's
not going to complain. Then that's great. But she starts
complaining even better.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
But she won't. That's the thing. She's good chill.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
As if that's true, I thought you were saying that
she was saying she's chill, but there's nothing here can eat.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
No, she's very, very chill.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
She's not more focused on eating properly for her pregnancy.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Yeah, she's like obviously came a sushi and I was like,
what about this? Places like as long as I don't
leave their salads out and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah, it is. I tell you what. When we were
when my wife was pregnant, it was a fucking ball
like right, because because it's the first one, you're worried
that everything is going to have some kind of an
effect on the baby. And as James could probably tell you,
by the time you get further along, the more kids
(08:58):
your hair, you don't give a ship. But because you
realize that they're made out of fucking kryptonite or they're
just amazing, and so you can have a mother who
has a heroin addict and all this sort of stuff.
Now not ideal obviously, And there's a limit to this
because there's a point where this becomes untrue. But what
(09:21):
the what the system is set up for is to
for the baby to suck every single good nutrient from
its host. Is a parasite, just suck everything good out
of it, and it doesn't suck in any of the
bad ship unless there is no good ship left, at
which point it will suck in the good right, the
bad stuff. Right, they're amazing, it's fucking amazing, and they
(09:42):
will just suck the mother dry. Yeah, so it is.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
Yeah, And as someone who's like early thirties recently married forties,
it's hard to believe me single Chris, but like, no,
no me, guys, all this stuff is very scary to
think about.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Oh yeah, it should be.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
It's terrified.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Oh yeah, and you know, and what I love about it,
kis And I'm looking forward to going through this with
you when you finally you have kids. You know, everything
out the window, man, everything you love about your life
is gone.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Even my truck.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Ah, no, you probably, I mean you won't be able
to drive it obviously with a kid, but that's probably okay.
But yeah, play well went like when yeah, there's no
PlayStation small, there is no PlayStation. It's all over. It
is all over you have to find new joy, which
is not as good as the old joy because it
(10:40):
took you thirty odd years or forty ideas to find
the things that brought you joy. And you find new joys,
which is really the joys that you previously were like, fuck,
that's not a joy. This is a joy and those
joys are called drinking. And that's over now, right.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Well, I'm just if we could wrap things up to
I'm gonna go get.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Just say it's so rewarding being a parent.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
It's fucking bullshit. Because half the people I meet like, Yo,
you gotta have kids.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
It's great.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
The other half and literally like, don't have kids. As
a joke, Yeah, is it a joke.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I'm not sure it's a joke.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
It comes from a place of truth.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
There was a period, there was a period where I
was one hundred percent serious about that. Yeah, I was like, what,
why are people having kids? And what now?
Speaker 2 (11:26):
I love?
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Well, for me, it was sort of well, it was
I had nothing to do with me but between two
and three and it was just an ABBS for a
year and we were working together then yeah, absolutely, and
it was a fucking out and out night and I
loved it. And now I love it because on the
other side of it, yeah, it's great, it's awesome, and
it is worth doing, but it's a lot. It's parents
talk and things like, oh, just have another one. It's
(11:48):
only a few years. Like, it's only a few years,
and then it's worth it because I'll have a friend
when it's never I never understood it because it's okay,
So I write three years of my life off so
that this one who's a night you can have another
one that's a nightmare and they can be friends. So
rather than having one nightmare, I have two nightmares. Hell yeah, man,
that's such a good idea. But she is not a
(12:08):
nightmare anymore. It's the best.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Well, I met her quite a few times, and it's
very hard for me to patchure that. But you'd come
in and say something and just be like and then
Jason would just be like, yeah, in the face of
a man who's.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Gone through it four times, oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
But then the other thing is that people don't It's
like when you've got a mate that's got a missus
who is just constantly complaining about his missus. Yeah you
know what I mean, and they never come and tell
you any of the good stuff. So when I was younger,
I was like, oven a, missus must be terrible, but
they never tell you about the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, there.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Was like, oh, man, Zach is that and the other.
And it's the same. I think with that parenting stuff.
It's like you moan about it, but now I don't
mean at all because I love it.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Well you were saying off, Yeah right, Hey.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
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Speaker 1 (12:54):
Also check out pugs Man. Yeah, would you get around
pugs Man?
Speaker 3 (12:59):
So good? Call me by my name, call me.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
By your name, and I'll call you mine.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Puxa.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I love that movie.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
I haven't seen it. I know what you're talking about.
H mm hmm.
Okay, shit, hang on.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Fan of the Hurdarky Big Show podcast, make sure you
check out more from James, Mike and Kezy on their
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Speaker 3 (00:17):
Thanks mate, Yeah, thanks man, thanks a lot, thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Pugson here he is. Oh pugaroo. Ladies and gentlemen. Pugson
makes Necessario.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Oh no, they love you. They listen to them.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Listen to them, man, wow, really yeah, we can't get
her now. My head's like, what's your middle name? Pugson William?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
People don't like them their middle names is a rule,
but you come to like it as you get older.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
It's pretty regal.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
For me.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
I think James William, James Christ William, Pugsley, I.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Know a guy called James williams. Oh now about that
any relation? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Last night we were doing my gaming party with the
girl that I do it with, Ellie. Her name is Brooke,
and then these two people came in for an interview.
One was called Brook and one was called Ellie. So
that was extremely confusing for all of us, would have
been it was, so we just ended it, just told
to leave it.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Was great you getting guests on there.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Man, thanks man, Yeah, Man, No Jase today he's got
a POOI virus.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, I think he's drilling the boy.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Is that actually a.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
But the good news about that is he shot.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
But how does he know? It would be my question
because he would have been wiping his as anos. I
guess you'd hear it.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
All I know was all I know is he was
up all night.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Apparently he's like, well, you know the rules, You're.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Only I don't care what happened. I was actually talking
about it runs down the crack.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah. I was swet about him last night about that.
At the premiere thing, I went to you.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Were talking about that?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I was talking to me. Yeah, I was to who
was that? I can't remember.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Somebody important? Had they auired?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
They agreed that No. I brought it up and they
agreed it was a woman, and she said, sometimes it
needs more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
We all agree that the woman.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You all agree.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Standing there, like eating an order or something, you went, hey,
get a load of this. A horse, a horse, and
you're like, hey, lady, get a load of this.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
That horse reminds me it was stinking too. They had
these many cheeseburgers and they stink.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
You just eat them. Those are so delicious.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, they stunk too much?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Was it the one?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Not good meat? Not good meat at all? You can
smell it a long way away.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Yes, no, no, no, I didn't joke from me man Field. Yeah,
it wasn't that more.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Damn.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I when I went to this TV premier, I ate
like five of those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, they had fish ones and chugen ones. I should
have had someone.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I fucked it up, you really did.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I can't go back in time now. You know what's
done is done? Man.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Yeah, what's the TV show? And you'll probably talk about
this in the old What's on TV?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, and also earlier I think, yeah, yeah, true?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Was it a good show where you stoked to be
a part of it?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
It is a good show. Yeah. I wasn't sure what
it was going to be like, but it is definitely
worth a watch. What I really like about it, there's
lots of things. It's an easy watch like that, and
it's half an hour long and I really love that.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Can't complain, can't complain.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I'm not sure if it's going to be binging or
if it's I think it might be binge able. But
also a weekly release. They do that, so it's all
of TV three. But then I went home and I
had dreams about Lymphomer.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Of course of course she did, so, yeah, have you
booked in with a doctor?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Well, I have booked in. So I get this as
a result of me having my smelly onion armpet, which
we talked about on the show yesterday. And then somebody
texted and said, hey, I had that. I had a
smelly onion armpet and a couple of other things, and
then I went to the doctors and now I start
chemo next week.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It was stage three Lampooner.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Stage three, and I was like, oh sweet, because actually
I said to my wife after I came back from
Shape Shifter.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Did I tell you this part of the story, No.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Which is what when we were talking about shape Shifter,
which being a ship break, because I coudn't remember what
was funny about it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Well, it ends up that you were just watching it
at home.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
That was great.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
You were just like I think, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Go well, what was happening was I was getting I know,
I did talk about where I was sweeting in your
left and I cared to get my left arm down
because it stunk so much it was grossing me out.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Right, did she smell it?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Who?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Your wife?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
She was in front of me, but there was a
woman behind me. I didn't know, right, But when we
got home, I put my each of my arm pets
into my wife's face and she's like, yeah, right, but
you shouldn't be able to smell yourself. No, you know
normally you're oblivious.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Yes, And if you smell yourself, everybody else has already
been smelling it.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
That's right. And then this this guy on the text
yesterday was saying, oh yeah, and I also had heartburn
as well, and I was like, I've been having heartburn
lately and been quite burpie. I'm not very not a
burpie individual, but I have been burpie lately. So anyway,
I booked a doctor's appointment. The first one available is
Friday week. Everybody else. The next one, so the surgery
you can pick any doctor you want, was like five
(05:20):
doctors here. The next one was like the twenty fifth
of July. So I've gone to the worst doctor there. Sure.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
In other words, yeah, the most readily available way.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
I just cannot believe how hard it is to get
a doctor's appointment, because I haven't been to the doctor
for probably two years, right, for like an appointment thing,
And I feel like two years ago it wasn't that hard,
and I feel like it's in the next The last
two year or at least my local doctor out west
that I go to wasn't very hard, I agree, And
so it's obviously real hard now.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
The last guy that I went to was easy enough
to get into, but it was eighty dollars as eighty
five bucks a visit, right, which is just astronomical and
fucking new useless, right, So it's not a great Yeah,
I don't know. We were reading it yesterday, went we
and it was they were aging out. So the gps
(06:08):
are aging out, yeah, and retiring. Then there's not enough
new ones coming through, and then the ones that are
coming through are leaving the country because the systems under pressure.
You'd know about that pigs.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Well, the system being under pressure. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's
a pressure.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
His system was massive und pressure over the weekend, a
lot of pressure after that hot burger.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yea. The Whole Archy Big Show week days from four
on Radio Hierarchy, They Big Show Podcast.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Hey Pug's question, can you help me with a dilemma?
So I've got a friend tonight, right, we're going out
for dinner.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
That's awesome. Jealous monch Jesus sorry, one.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
A friend tonight's coming up from Todonga to have dinner
with us.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
She's pregnant, right. She has digestion issues. She throws up
three times a day already, just with the pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
It's awesome.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
She's dairy free. She can't eat onions. And there's one
other thing. I can't remember what it is that she
can't eat. It's not gluten, which is good. Which cuisine
would you go to out for dinner? Because I've asked her,
I've said, hey, which one is best suited. She's like, man,
I'm sure I can usually find something anywhere. And I'm
just like, notice I didn't say this much.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
It needs to be put on her. It can't be.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
It can't be up to Like, I'd love to help
you with a cuisine right now. But the only person
that's really going to be able to point you in
the right direction as the person who's going to suffer.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Where did you go last time? Where'd you go last
time that you really enjoyed?
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Maybe reframe with her, Oh yeah, that's not you just
dinner that I would say to her, what was the
last place restaurant you went to that? You really rephrase
the quick because what I did instead was my other
mate who's coming. I just talked to her, and I
was because he does. He works in the sort of
food industry. And he's like, here's five options. All of
them I looked at and when I don't think she
(07:46):
can eat that. I don't think she can eat that.
I don't think she can eat that. And he's like,
I don't care. This is about more than just her.
It's about everyone that's going, Yeah, we're going to go
to this place. It's delicious. Yeah, great, So we're going
to this career. So you gave me the option, and
after that, it's tough shit. I would not even give
a fuck.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
If she leaves it to you to pack. She leaves
it to you to pack, totally right. And so she's
chill and it happens is on here, And she also
said she's chill, so she doesn't actually care. She's like,
even if I get a bowl of chips, I don't
give a ship.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I would have so much fun with that. Anyway, she's
not going to complain. Then that's great. But she starts
complaining even better.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
But she won't. That's the thing. She's good chill.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
As if that's true, I thought you were saying that
she was saying she's chill, but there's nothing here can eat.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
No, she's very, very chill.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
She's not more focused on eating properly for her pregnancy.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Yeah, she's like obviously came a sushi and I was like,
what about this? Places like as long as I don't
leave their salads out and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah, it is. I tell you what. When we were
when my wife was pregnant, it was a fucking ball
like right, because because it's the first one, you're worried
that everything is going to have some kind of an
effect on the baby. And as James could probably tell you,
by the time you get further along, the more kids
(08:58):
your hair, you don't give a ship. But because you
realize that they're made out of fucking kryptonite or they're
just amazing, and so you can have a mother who
has a heroin addict and all this sort of stuff.
Now not ideal obviously, And there's a limit to this
because there's a point where this becomes untrue. But what
(09:21):
the what the system is set up for is to
for the baby to suck every single good nutrient from
its host. Is a parasite, just suck everything good out
of it, and it doesn't suck in any of the
bad ship unless there is no good ship left, at
which point it will suck in the good right, the
bad stuff. Right, they're amazing, it's fucking amazing, and they
(09:42):
will just suck the mother dry. Yeah, so it is.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
Yeah, And as someone who's like early thirties recently married forties,
it's hard to believe me single Chris, but like, no,
no me, guys, all this stuff is very scary to
think about.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Oh yeah, it should be.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
It's terrified.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Oh yeah, and you know, and what I love about it,
kis And I'm looking forward to going through this with
you when you finally you have kids. You know, everything
out the window, man, everything you love about your life
is gone.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Even my truck.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Ah, no, you probably, I mean you won't be able
to drive it obviously with a kid, but that's probably okay.
But yeah, play well went like when yeah, there's no
PlayStation small, there is no PlayStation. It's all over. It
is all over you have to find new joy, which
is not as good as the old joy because it
(10:40):
took you thirty odd years or forty ideas to find
the things that brought you joy. And you find new joys,
which is really the joys that you previously were like, fuck,
that's not a joy. This is a joy and those
joys are called drinking. And that's over now, right.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Well, I'm just if we could wrap things up to
I'm gonna go get.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Just say it's so rewarding being a parent.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
It's fucking bullshit. Because half the people I meet like, Yo,
you gotta have kids.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
It's great.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
The other half and literally like, don't have kids. As
a joke, Yeah, is it a joke.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I'm not sure it's a joke.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
It comes from a place of truth.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
There was a period, there was a period where I
was one hundred percent serious about that. Yeah, I was like, what,
why are people having kids? And what now?
Speaker 2 (11:26):
I love?
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Well, for me, it was sort of well, it was
I had nothing to do with me but between two
and three and it was just an ABBS for a
year and we were working together then yeah, absolutely, and
it was a fucking out and out night and I
loved it. And now I love it because on the
other side of it, yeah, it's great, it's awesome, and
it is worth doing, but it's a lot. It's parents
talk and things like, oh, just have another one. It's
(11:48):
only a few years. Like, it's only a few years,
and then it's worth it because I'll have a friend
when it's never I never understood it because it's okay,
So I write three years of my life off so
that this one who's a night you can have another
one that's a nightmare and they can be friends. So
rather than having one nightmare, I have two nightmares. Hell yeah, man,
that's such a good idea. But she is not a
(12:08):
nightmare anymore. It's the best.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Well, I met her quite a few times, and it's
very hard for me to patchure that. But you'd come
in and say something and just be like and then
Jason would just be like, yeah, in the face of
a man who's.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Gone through it four times, oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
But then the other thing is that people don't It's
like when you've got a mate that's got a missus
who is just constantly complaining about his missus. Yeah you
know what I mean, and they never come and tell
you any of the good stuff. So when I was younger,
I was like, oven a, missus must be terrible, but
they never tell you about the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, there.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Was like, oh, man, Zach is that and the other.
And it's the same. I think with that parenting stuff.
It's like you moan about it, but now I don't
mean at all because I love it.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Well you were saying off, Yeah right, Hey.
Speaker 5 (12:50):
Listen to the Hudarky Big Show for it or seven
every weekday on Darky.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Also check out pugs Man. Yeah, would you get around
pugs Man?
Speaker 3 (12:59):
So good? Call me by my name, call me.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
By your name, and I'll call you mine.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Puxa.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I love that movie.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
I haven't seen it. I know what you're talking about.
H mm hmm.
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