Laura & Chris - Is it Really a Catfish? - War of the Roses - To Catch a Cheater - The Jubal Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time say catch a cheater. Only on the Double Show,
Laura is on the phone today for to catch a Cheater,
and she thinks that her husband of five years named
Chris might be messing around, so we'll see if we
can catch him if he is. In a second, Laura, sorry,
you have to come on the show this way, But
what's going on? Why do you think Chris is cheating?

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Well, okay, so I mean, yeah, Chris and I've been
married for five years, but we've actually been together for
nine years total, so you know, it's a very long
term relationship. There have been some rocky moments, but we've
we've always been able to work through them in the past.
So I'm in a little bit of a conundrum right now.
I'm super in love with Chris. This is what I

(00:40):
would call a pretty happy marriage. But last month I
was on the couch, I was watching TV and Chris
was sitting next to me. He had a phone by him,
which is not unusual, and his phone lit up and
I just kind of glanced at it because it distracted me.
It wasn't like, you know, it wasn't anything weird. I
just like caught it out of the corner. Of my eye,
but it looked like a Tinder notification. Oh yeah, I mean,

(01:03):
I you know, I've never used Tinder myself. Again, we've
been together for nine years, but like I have single girlfriends,
I know what to Tinder looks like. So later that
same night, we were lying down in bed, we were like,
you know, ready for bed, just kind of like on
our phone, and I saw it again, like I saw
this notification flash and he very quickly picked up his

(01:24):
phone and turned it off. And I was like, okay,
that's a little bit weird, right, And again I didn't
I didn't want to jump to conclusions because I mean,
it could be anything, could be work, it could be whatever.
But it was still bothering me the next day, so
I got a brain wave and I don't know if
it was a good idea, but it was definitely an

(01:46):
idea that I ran with and I went ahead and
I downloaded Tinder onto my own phone and I made
fake profile, bake picture. I said my name was Bailey,
and I found Chris. He was on Tinder. Yeah, so

(02:10):
I matched with him, as you know, Bailey. And at
first I didn't do anything about it. It was just
sort of like, you know, a gotcha moment, Like I
was like, okay, he was on here and he matched
with me. So finally though, I mustered up the strength
to message him, and he was honestly just really nice.
He wasn't weird, he wasn't aggressive, he was just super kind.

(02:33):
He didn't ask me for nudes, he didn't like be like,
you know, let's hook up or anything. He did. It
seemed like he just wanted to talk. So as Bailey,
we start talking together, and I knew that I should
be like super pissed about this, as as Laura, as
now my two personalities, like as myself, he should have
been pissed, and I kind of was, but I really

(02:55):
just wanted to see where this was going. So you know,
I go into Bailey mode and started talking back to him.
And the truth is I kind of got addicted to it,
like that little adrenaline rush, you know. And after a
while of chatting over like the period of a couple
of weeks, I knew when he'd leave the room to
message her as me Bailey, you know, and I you know,

(03:18):
kind of wait for the look on his face after
he read whatever eye slash Bailey had sent him, and
it was you know, it was a little bit cute.
It kind of felt like that new relationship, like you
know when you're excited to talk to somebody, Like that's
that's how he appeared a little bit. That's kind of
how I felt. But you know, at the end of
the day, it's still it's cheating.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
He doesn't know that it's me someone else though, I mean, it.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Doesn't exactly exactly, and so that's my dilemma, Like I
realized that I'll let it go too far, but like,
it was just really nice to kind of see my
husband in a new light that wasn't and it wasn't
like I said, it wasn't super gross or predatory. It
seems like he just really does like talking to Bailey,
But I don't know what he's doing with other people
on Twitter, and that me, Yeah, that.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
Sounds very, very accepting of it.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
I think there's really one big takeaway here, honestly, is
that I think roleplay maybe something that is.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Exciting for you.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
I mean, I'm serious, it sounds like that's something that
may work for you guys, once you get to the
bottom of what's actually happening.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Well, I hope we get to the bottom of it.
I mean, I'm it kind of depends on what else
is going on on there. You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
You already told us what grocery store you guys are
Rewards card members at. So we'll call him and pretend
to be from the grocery store and say that he's
this month's big winner of flowers from our Florida department
to be sent to wherever he wants. We'll see if
he sends us to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
all right, place, don't come back get your to Catch
a Cheater next if you're just joining us for today's
to Catch a Cheater. Laura is on the phone and

(04:45):
she thinks that her husband of five years, Chris, might
be messing around. So in a few minutes, we're gonna
call him and see if we can catch him by
pretending to be from the grocery store that they are
reward card members at and say that every single month,
we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers
delivered from our Florida department. See if he sends those
to his wife, Laura or to somebody else. Before we
do that, Laura, why don't you catch everybody up on
your situation.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
I think that my husband may be cheating on me
because I saw a Tinder notification on his phone, and
in order to find out, I made a fake profile.
I said my name was this girl Daily. She doesn't exist.
I made her up and he started chatting with her.
But it hasn't gone beyond just talking. So I don't
know if he's doing anything else on Tinder. I don't

(05:29):
know what's going on. I just know that he's been
talking to me as this girl named Bailey, and I
want to figure out what's going on.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
All right? You ready for us to call on?

Speaker 2 (05:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:38):
I guess, so here we go.

Speaker 4 (05:51):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Hi, my name is Gorvin calling from SIRS. I was
looking for our rewards card member named Chris.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
Oh yeah, speak Chris.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're listen, most big winner,
thank you very much for shopping with us.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
All right, well, what does that mean?

Speaker 1 (06:09):
Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
gets free flowers delivered from our floral department. It's our
way of saying thank you for shopping. You've won thirty
six long sim red roses a box of chocolate or
candy and a car to be delivered to anybody that
you want with in the fifty United States of America.
It's absolutely free.

Speaker 4 (06:24):
Oh wow, okay, cool.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah. So here's how it works. If you know who
you want to send the flowers to right now, I
can take the information down over the phone in no
matter of minutes.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
Well, we can knock it out right now. Oh, I
got you?

Speaker 1 (06:36):
All right? Great. So what's the first and last name
of the person who'd like to send him to.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
It's the same last name. It's just my wife, Laura. Okay,
you have the address, but with the account.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
H yes, I too. Do you want to put anything
on a card?

Speaker 4 (06:52):
Well, just tell her.

Speaker 5 (06:55):
I love you very much and you're you're you're my one?

Speaker 4 (07:00):
Yeah, you're my one? Does that make sense?

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:02):
Got it? How on an you guys been married, by
the way, five years? Oh boy, that's a long time.
Do you ever have another one? Oh? No, Chris, this
is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. My
name is Jubil. Yeah, Hi, Chris, I'm mean.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Also on the show, Hi.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
And I'm Victoria. We do a segment call to catch
a cheater and your wife Laura is actually on the
other line, and she has some questions for you.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
Hey, baby, Hi missed, took the right turn.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
What's happening.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
I just want to know if you've been with other women,
or if you've thought about it, or if you're kind
of leaning in that direction.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
I'm like on the radio right now. Well, the answer,
regardless of.

Speaker 4 (07:44):
Whether I'm on the radio or not, is no, I've
never been with anybody but you in our marriage.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Do you want to be with somebody else? Is there
anybody else that you've been like thinking about getting together with?

Speaker 4 (07:56):
No, No, I haven't.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
If I ask someone named Bailey, what would she say?
Do you know who I'm talking about? Do you know
who Bailey is?

Speaker 4 (08:08):
No?

Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, you do, because I'm Bailey. I'm Bailey. I made
that account and I've been messaging you. I saw, I saw,
I saw a tender on your phone. I saw a
notification come up. So I made the Bailey profile. That's
that's just a random photo of a random girl I
found online.

Speaker 5 (08:29):
Okay, so we should probably like talk, Yeah, yeah, yeah, can.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
We please talk right now? Because like, as long as
we've done this much on the radio, I just like
to wrap this up. So I don't go through like humiliated.

Speaker 5 (08:42):
Yeah, well you shouldn't be humiliated. I did something very stupid. This,
this character you created was the only person I've been in.

Speaker 4 (08:51):
Contact with, which is you, which is it's probably my mind.
I'm blown right now.

Speaker 5 (08:59):
I mean, as you can see, since you were very
much in on this, like I wasn't. I crossed the
line by opening it, but I wasn't like being inappropriate.
I've talked to no one else, no one's sent anything inappropriate.
I've not gotten anything inappropriate from anybody. I was just
chatting and I you know, i'd like to ironically this

(09:22):
Bailey was and I just wanted to talk. It kind
of like felt like we were just things are stale
with us or something, and I wasn't looking to cheat. Look,
I'm I'm really sorry. I that was extremely stupid. But
I can promise you that I'm not cheating or doing
anything like that. Not that this wasn't wrong, but like

(09:43):
I didn't I didn't step out in a way that
was physical or even or even like well hopefully you
can attest to like wasn't even like inappropriately conversing with anybody,
you know.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
All right, Well, I mean clearly there was something we
both got from this, Like it was thrilling for me
in a certain way. It seems like it was thrilling
for you to be able to talk to somebody else.
But I feel like that's something we can work on
in our relationship. Like I'm still kind of mad, but
I can see what has been lacking, and I hope
we can work through it.

Speaker 4 (10:19):
Yeah, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (10:20):
I'll show you all of it. You'll at least be
somewhat self assured by that, but I'm really sorry.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
N Yeah, I mean it sounds like he wasn't cheating,
but at least if he was going to, it would
be with you. Yes, you guys obviously got some stuff
to work out, so good luck. Good luck is right.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Thanks guys, This was actually really helpful. I really appreciate
you helping me out with this.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
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