August 1, 2025 • 12 mins
Ashley thought her boyfriend of four years was just busy with work — until the late nights, cold shoulder, and constant messages raised some serious red flags. In this dramatic episode of To Catch a Cheater, The Jubal Show helps uncover a betrayal that’s not only shocking… it’s shared.
A hidden affair. An assistant with secrets. A twist involving her husband.
Get ready for the kind of reveal that has listeners yelling “No. Way.” through their speakers.
Think your partner might be up to something shady? The Jubal Show has you covered. In this explosive segment, The Jubal Show helps suspicious lovers uncover the truth by setting up the ultimate loyalty test. We call their significant other, posing as a grocery store’s floral department offering a free bouquet. You know.. a War of the Roses. The catch? Who they choose to send the flowers to—and what they write on the card—could reveal everything. Will it be a romantic gesture for their partner or a shocking betrayal? Get ready for twists, surprises, and jaw-dropping confrontations as we help our listeners get the answers they deserve. Subscribe to The Jubal Show's To Catch A Cheater / War of the Roses.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Jubile Show. Ashley is on the phone
today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
boyfriend Ryan for four years, but now she thinks something
might be going on, so we'll see if we're can
to help her out. Ashley, thanks for coming on the show.
Sorry it has to be this way. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
and never thought that I would call it, but here
I am. So we've yeah, we've been together four years,
you know, ups and down like anybody else. I mean,
not what you see on Instagram with couples. But I
kind of just feel like he's done with the relationship.
(00:41):
So it's just kind of like heavy on my heart
right now. So I just want to test it. I
want to test it. And so basically, what's going on.
I used to travel a lot for work, but now
I'm not, and he's been traveling for his job. But
it just keeps kind of picking up, like he'll he'll
(01:01):
fly off somewhere for a week, and then he comes
home for a couple of days, and then he leaves again.
And then when he does come home, which has been like,
you know, increasing over the last couple of months, Like
when he's going away, so when he's coming home, he
always seems like he has something better to do. So
(01:23):
it's it's starting to be kind of it feels like
he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and I
feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's not
wanting to be intimate anymore, which is whatever?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
And what does he say? How does he start that?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
He kind of like when he comes home now she's
always hiding off in his office for hours. It's like
he makes a team, Like he's writing emails, but as
soon as I walk away, his messenger notification kind of
pings over and over and over, like there's a conversation
going on, and we're always like really open with each
(02:00):
other about like oh I'm talking to I'm Johnny Gonco.
Like they're so funny, and you know it's women's intuition.
You just kind of feel like he's he's messaging with someone,
like we know each other's friends, you know each other,
so for me, like we're really good friends with each other.
You know, like I care about him and so I
(02:21):
did comfort him about it. You know, I'm like you've
been gone more, you haven't really been wanting to touch me,
and you're hiding away in your office. He legit just
shrugged it off. He said, he has a new assistant
in his office and he's been showing her the ropes,
so that's kind of been taking a lot of time.
(02:43):
But I've seen I've seen her, and I'm really not
the jealous type, but she's legit his type, So so.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
You think it might actually be the assistant that he's
talking to.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
like I just I want to believe that you would
never shoot on me, because we're really not, like we've
talked about that in the past, like we love how
we wouldn't do it. I hope it's all in my head,
I really do. I just don't know. I don't know
how a worble feeling so here I am.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
You know, it sucks because I think they think about themselves,
like how I'm not whatever, and then the it's like,
but you're someone else is talking to you that you
care about, like it's about them at that moment, and
that's fine. Yeah, you know, like so anyway, yeah, that
sucks the way that was handled. All right, Well, you
told us what a grocery store he's a rewards card
member at.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right,
well play a song, comeback. You're to catch theater next
in the middle of to catch a teater if you're
just joining us, Ashley is on the phone. She's been
(04:06):
with her boyfriend Ryan for four years and now she
thinks that he might be cheating. So in a second,
we're going to call him and pretend to be from
the grocery store that he's a rewards car remember at,
and say that he's this month's big winner of flowers
delivered to anybody that he wants from our floral department.
And we'll see if he believes that first of all,
and then if he sends those flowers to Ashley or
to somebody else. But before we do that, Ashley, why
(04:27):
don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
So we've been together four years. I used to travel
a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's been,
you know, working in his office and you know, big
red flag for me and not wanting to be in it,
(04:50):
which no one should ever feel.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
him about it, like it's not like I'm like, hey,
did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
up to him like this was a really big deal.
I'm stelling like this and he said, nothing's going on.
But I still feel.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Like there is with his assistant too. Is who you
think it is?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yes, total opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
before me.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
I guess Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Hello, Hi, this is shorttle calling from I was looking
for our rewards card member named Ryan.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
your business. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Uh okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Of the flowers?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
The flowers every single month we who's one rewards card
member who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new
floral apartment to anybody that they want in the entire
United States. It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long
stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and
a card to be delivered to anybody that you want.
It's actually a three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (06:29):
Okay, cool?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Great.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Let me let me just give it to tell you
how it works. Then I can take the information over
the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
you back if you don't know who you want to
send them to right now?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Okay, and do you want to send a card along
with this?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Yeah, yeah, say something like I cannot wait to hold
you again and the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Okay, got that, And now at this point, I would
like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil
and I'm calling from a radio show that's called The
Jubil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
phone listening.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
No, yeah, hold on, yeah we.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Do, and that's what this is.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, yeah yep.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like I asked
you this and you told me nothing was going on.
But I can't believe it. I mean, I I asked
you about this and you told me now and now
it's your assistant. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
and I asked you and you did behind it. Why
(08:01):
would you do this? But I can't believe it? Actually
and you did this.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
It's not it's not something I'm happy about. It's look, Ashley,
I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's just you're not happy. You're so disrespectful, you're not
happy about Like what are you even talking about it
sounds like you you said you can't wait to be
in her arms again. It sounds like if you want
this to happen, Like what are you even thinking?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Look, it's just it's I don't I don't know. It's
it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
So like it's just we have things we connect on
(08:57):
the lifestyle, that travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
was a distance outside of.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
It, I just I'm sorry, Well, you should have broken
up with me, then you should have told me, and
you should have broken up with me. You've been together
long enough that you could have told me, and we
could have broken up, and then you can do whatever
you want love with her. I don't know, I don't know,
(09:27):
I don't know I want.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
Us to be broken up. I just I I don't know.
I'm just trying to figure things out. And it's something
I just kind of sell into and I should have How.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Long has this been going on? Like four or five months. Whoa,
I thought that this was legit only like two months,
And I asked you so long ago, like you're so
disrespectful to be doing that to me this long. And
I don't even know anything about her, you know what
I mean? Like you have been taking intimacy away from me,
(10:02):
which is so disrespectful to do to another human being.
But you're disrespecting my body too. Does she know that
you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 5 (10:13):
Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I mean.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I told her about my life, she told me about
her life, her husband, all that, and then we just
sort of fell into.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
This her husband, her husband, Oh my gosh, what are
you doing? Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship,
You're not like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Yeah. Now, I just feel like I should retouch her
husband and let him know so that he's not being
disrespected as well as ash.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
Come on, come on, you're already doing this on the radio.
You don't.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Look. I get. I get while you're married and I.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Care about you, But I but if you're going to
be vindictive about it.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
You know. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't.
I I deserve better than this. I am a good
person and I have treated them so well for four years.
I've always been there for you, and I don't deserve
to be treated like this. I deserve to be loved
by a good partner and you should be humiliated by
what you've done. Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just.
Speaker 5 (11:25):
Thank you for four years of treating me well and
one nightmare of a phone call that you're blasting to
the world. So get the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
I am too. I mean, I was on our list
that would end up this way and it did. So
I just need to go for a walk and clear
my head right now.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you got
to do, but just know this was a two for
you did your good deed, two for one for have.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
The rest of the day. I'm gonna go on to
walk in google her husband now that I have her
Latin name, okay, so I can let him know. The
jubile shows to catch a cheater
It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Jubile Show. Ashley is on the phone
today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
boyfriend Ryan for four years, but now she thinks something
might be going on, so we'll see if we're can
to help her out. Ashley, thanks for coming on the show.
Sorry it has to be this way. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
and never thought that I would call it, but here
I am. So we've yeah, we've been together four years,
you know, ups and down like anybody else. I mean,
not what you see on Instagram with couples. But I
kind of just feel like he's done with the relationship.
(00:41):
So it's just kind of like heavy on my heart
right now. So I just want to test it. I
want to test it. And so basically, what's going on.
I used to travel a lot for work, but now
I'm not, and he's been traveling for his job. But
it just keeps kind of picking up, like he'll he'll
(01:01):
fly off somewhere for a week, and then he comes
home for a couple of days, and then he leaves again.
And then when he does come home, which has been like,
you know, increasing over the last couple of months, Like
when he's going away, so when he's coming home, he
always seems like he has something better to do. So
(01:23):
it's it's starting to be kind of it feels like
he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and I
feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's not
wanting to be intimate anymore, which is whatever?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
And what does he say? How does he start that?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
He kind of like when he comes home now she's
always hiding off in his office for hours. It's like
he makes a team, Like he's writing emails, but as
soon as I walk away, his messenger notification kind of
pings over and over and over, like there's a conversation
going on, and we're always like really open with each
(02:00):
other about like oh I'm talking to I'm Johnny Gonco.
Like they're so funny, and you know it's women's intuition.
You just kind of feel like he's he's messaging with someone,
like we know each other's friends, you know each other,
so for me, like we're really good friends with each other.
You know, like I care about him and so I
(02:21):
did comfort him about it. You know, I'm like you've
been gone more, you haven't really been wanting to touch me,
and you're hiding away in your office. He legit just
shrugged it off. He said, he has a new assistant
in his office and he's been showing her the ropes,
so that's kind of been taking a lot of time.
(02:43):
But I've seen I've seen her, and I'm really not
the jealous type, but she's legit his type, So so.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
You think it might actually be the assistant that he's
talking to.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
like I just I want to believe that you would
never shoot on me, because we're really not, like we've
talked about that in the past, like we love how
we wouldn't do it. I hope it's all in my head,
I really do. I just don't know. I don't know
how a worble feeling so here I am.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
You know, it sucks because I think they think about themselves,
like how I'm not whatever, and then the it's like,
but you're someone else is talking to you that you
care about, like it's about them at that moment, and
that's fine. Yeah, you know, like so anyway, yeah, that
sucks the way that was handled. All right, Well, you
told us what a grocery store he's a rewards card
member at.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right,
well play a song, comeback. You're to catch theater next
in the middle of to catch a teater if you're
just joining us, Ashley is on the phone. She's been
(04:06):
with her boyfriend Ryan for four years and now she
thinks that he might be cheating. So in a second,
we're going to call him and pretend to be from
the grocery store that he's a rewards car remember at,
and say that he's this month's big winner of flowers
delivered to anybody that he wants from our floral department.
And we'll see if he believes that first of all,
and then if he sends those flowers to Ashley or
to somebody else. But before we do that, Ashley, why
(04:27):
don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
So we've been together four years. I used to travel
a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's been,
you know, working in his office and you know, big
red flag for me and not wanting to be in it,
(04:50):
which no one should ever feel.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
him about it, like it's not like I'm like, hey,
did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
up to him like this was a really big deal.
I'm stelling like this and he said, nothing's going on.
But I still feel.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Like there is with his assistant too. Is who you
think it is?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yes, total opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
before me.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
I guess Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Hello, Hi, this is shorttle calling from I was looking
for our rewards card member named Ryan.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
your business. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Uh okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Of the flowers?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
The flowers every single month we who's one rewards card
member who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new
floral apartment to anybody that they want in the entire
United States. It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long
stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and
a card to be delivered to anybody that you want.
It's actually a three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (06:29):
Okay, cool?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Great.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Let me let me just give it to tell you
how it works. Then I can take the information over
the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
you back if you don't know who you want to
send them to right now?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Okay, and do you want to send a card along
with this?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Yeah, yeah, say something like I cannot wait to hold
you again and the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Okay, got that, And now at this point, I would
like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil
and I'm calling from a radio show that's called The
Jubil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
phone listening.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
No, yeah, hold on, yeah we.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Do, and that's what this is.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, yeah yep.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like I asked
you this and you told me nothing was going on.
But I can't believe it. I mean, I I asked
you about this and you told me now and now
it's your assistant. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
and I asked you and you did behind it. Why
(08:01):
would you do this? But I can't believe it? Actually
and you did this.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
It's not it's not something I'm happy about. It's look, Ashley,
I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's just you're not happy. You're so disrespectful, you're not
happy about Like what are you even talking about it
sounds like you you said you can't wait to be
in her arms again. It sounds like if you want
this to happen, Like what are you even thinking?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Look, it's just it's I don't I don't know. It's
it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
So like it's just we have things we connect on
(08:57):
the lifestyle, that travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
was a distance outside of.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
It, I just I'm sorry, Well, you should have broken
up with me, then you should have told me, and
you should have broken up with me. You've been together
long enough that you could have told me, and we
could have broken up, and then you can do whatever
you want love with her. I don't know, I don't know,
(09:27):
I don't know I want.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
Us to be broken up. I just I I don't know.
I'm just trying to figure things out. And it's something
I just kind of sell into and I should have How.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Long has this been going on? Like four or five months. Whoa,
I thought that this was legit only like two months,
And I asked you so long ago, like you're so
disrespectful to be doing that to me this long. And
I don't even know anything about her, you know what
I mean? Like you have been taking intimacy away from me,
(10:02):
which is so disrespectful to do to another human being.
But you're disrespecting my body too. Does she know that
you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 5 (10:13):
Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I mean.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I told her about my life, she told me about
her life, her husband, all that, and then we just
sort of fell into.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
This her husband, her husband, Oh my gosh, what are
you doing? Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship,
You're not like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Yeah. Now, I just feel like I should retouch her
husband and let him know so that he's not being
disrespected as well as ash.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
Come on, come on, you're already doing this on the radio.
You don't.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Look. I get. I get while you're married and I.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Care about you, But I but if you're going to
be vindictive about it.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
You know. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't.
I I deserve better than this. I am a good
person and I have treated them so well for four years.
I've always been there for you, and I don't deserve
to be treated like this. I deserve to be loved
by a good partner and you should be humiliated by
what you've done. Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just.
Speaker 5 (11:25):
Thank you for four years of treating me well and
one nightmare of a phone call that you're blasting to
the world. So get the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
I am too. I mean, I was on our list
that would end up this way and it did. So
I just need to go for a walk and clear
my head right now.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you got
to do, but just know this was a two for
you did your good deed, two for one for have.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
The rest of the day. I'm gonna go on to
walk in google her husband now that I have her
Latin name, okay, so I can let him know. The
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