Grayson thought his cozy first date with Annabel was perfect—homemade pizza, board games, and even a kiss. But just days later, she ghosted him. In this First Date Follow Up segment, the shocking (and seriously weird) reason comes out… and it’s not what you’re expecting. Listen now to find out what turned Annabel off!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Grayson is on the phone today for a first a
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named
annabel So in a few minutes we'll call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe get him another date. But first, Grayson, how long
has it been since you heard from Annabelle.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's been it's been It's less than a week, but
it's been a few days.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, okay, but long enough for you to feel worried.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, I guess it was like it was last weekend.
So it's been yeah, three four days, And yeah, I'm
starting to feel confused because we had pretty confident. We
had an awesome time. So I don't understand where the
disconnect is maybe coming in here.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So why don't you tell us about the date? Then
let's see if you can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yeah, I mean, I'm not you know, I'm not the
most handsome guy in the world, but I'm decent looking.
And annabel came over and we had I mean, I
thought we had a spark. We were like, we were smiling,
we were laughing immediately. I mean, she's got these really
great comeback and she's got this really kind of charming
(01:09):
just kill her smile. You know, she kind of like
looks up at you and side smiles and it just
kind of makes you feel something cool. And I don't know,
we played board games. She was crushing me on trivial Pursuit.
I mean, she's got she you know, there's there you go,
this is a.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Triple the way. So she came to your to your place.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, we just had like a cozy, you know, quiet
night at my place, which was great. I like to cook,
so we made some like homemade pizza, you know, something
I thought would be fun, throwing toppings on flower everywhere.
It was a good time. And uh, like I said,
we played like a marathon of board games, which is
I love doing that. I always did that grown up.
(01:51):
And you know, we got nineties playlists. I mean, I
mean it was just like it was this amazing fun night.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Well what do you think could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You know, we were a little you know, there's you
know the night, we got a little flirty. You know,
we did some wine. We're kind of cleaning up and
finally found ourselves kind of next to each other, had
a kiss, which was really amazing. You know, I just
kind of clar it cool and kept cleaning. And then
she sits down on the counter and we're just chatting.
(02:24):
And while I was cleaning and this short this is like, honestly,
the only thing I can think of is that while
I'm cleaning, I like accidentally splashed a little bit of
pizza sauce under under her like Swede sneakers, they're pretty nice,
they're like white sneakers. And she kind of freaked out
me a little bit, and she said it was late
and she just had to go, and she kind of
(02:46):
just got of set and it was kind of a
quick exit. I guess it was. It was a fun
It was just like a super fun style date with
pizza kiss. Chemistry was really strong. And then yeah, she
actually her the next day. You know, I was like
round two question mark and like nothing. She's just totally
not I mean, she doesn't have any read receipts, but
(03:07):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Okay, she's like a little sauce.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I mean, if that's if that's the reason.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
It's like, come on, maybe she really loves her shoes
and if they're swayed, that's not always the easiest to clean. Yeah, yeah,
that's really expensive. And she's waiting for you to be like, hey,
I'll buy you a new pair of shoes.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, maybe that's what she wants, you know, I don't know.
All right, well we'll try to figure it out for you.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll sell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Grayson is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Annabelle.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date. But before we do that, Grayson, why
don't you break down your date again for us real quick.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
We had a great night. She came over, We watched
Netflix play four games, homemade pizzas just like the coach
e night at home. We had lots of chemistry. We
were laughing, the conversation flowed naturally. We had a nice
kiss at the end. I thought was really like sexy
kiss and then she just kind of like abruptly laugh
after I splashed some pizza sauce on her. And I
(04:22):
don't know if that's the reason, but I've not heard
from her since.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
All right, well, I feel like she's waiting for you
to offer to buy anyone. Let's see if the pizza
sauce on the shoe did it? Are you ready for
us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Here we go, Hi, mespeak to Annabel please she Hey Annabel,
how are you?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
This is a radio show. It's called the Jubile Show. Hey, Annabel,
I'm Nina Hima for it. Y. My name is Jebel. Oh.
I guess you know the show? What's up? Well?
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Then heard a first date follow up before I have awesome?
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Well, guess what, Annabel? Somebody email us about you?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
They did?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It's the segment where if you go out on a
date with somebody and they end up ghosting you, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why any idea who would email us?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Yep, I know I know exactly who it is, and
I'm sure he's on the.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Phone right, Yes he is.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Grayson told us about your date and said he really
liked you, but can't figure out why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Do you want to tell him?
Speaker 5 (05:38):
And I great, I'm just wondering, what do you think
that I'm ghosting you for? Like, what is your concern?
Why do you think I am?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Well, I don't know. We have an amazing night and
obviously have no problem answering the phone numbers that you
don't recognize on your phone or you won't answer my calls.
My guest is maybe because I splashed pizza sauce on
your shoe and you were kind of episode by that.
So that's the only knock on the entire night that
I can think of.
Speaker 5 (06:06):
Grayton, You're so funny. It wasn't the sauce. Thank you
for caring about my safety about answers numbers that I
call and accept. That's really kind of you. But Bracon, Honey,
it was not a sauce. I looked down to look
where the sauce was slunk, and there was a giant
(06:27):
mountain of nail things on the floor.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Like his apartment floor.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Like like, I looked where the sauce was slung because
I was like, oh, you know, like he was true.
We had a great time, And and I looked down
and on the like on the splash right next to
it on the floor that was like under this stink
like someone had tried to get them into a trash can.
Was a literally like a DNA pile of nails.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, really over nail clippings is why you will We
had an amazing night and you saw some nail clippings
on my floor and you're not You're just gonna.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Grayson, you know, that's gross.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Like I don't know, it was a small, you know,
maybe small hamster sized pile.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
It was I'm sized pile of nail clippings. That's a
big pile.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
I think if I were talking about a pile of
nail clippings, you guys like, why didn't you like, we
like want to clean that up before she got to
your apartment.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
But I mean, come on, though, first of all, nail
clippings is is really what threw you totally off? I mean,
what about what about our kiss at the end of
the night. I mean, come on, that was amazing.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Well that kiss was amazing. But now I'm sort of like, hmm,
you're welcome, So I mean, bring it on to tech
of pautical what's what going on? What are the nail clippings?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
We all have little gross corners in our apartments or
our houses, and you know, it's like everybody, Oh my gosh, so.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
You you know you, so you know you have the
pile of nail clipping.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yes, I am aware that she found my nail clipping corner.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Your nail clipping corner.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
Which is describing, Oh my gosh, it's just like he
grew another person with those nails, a tiny, tiny person
is running around the fantastic long nails.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Yes, okay, so found my nail clipping corner. But why
wouldn't you just say something? Why don't you just say
something about it?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Why would I say something about it?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, what's the deal? You don't have your nailipping corner
established in your home to really figure that out? Because
you don't, then it's just disgusting because you're clipping your
nails anywhere you want.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
I don't. I'm confused. I'll say you the way, get
them away, either way, clean them away.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Can I explain a little bit around this slason what
exactly happened here? I'm kind of joking because I think
this whole thing is ridiculous, but can I explain a
little something to you that maybe we'll set some light
on this whole situation?
Speaker 5 (09:08):
Of course, of course for it.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
So, I actually have a small phobia around mail clippings.
I think they're disgusting. I don't like seeing them. I
don't like being around them myself. I mean, I don't know.
This whole thing seems pretty silly. I'm pretty sure everybody
has a place that they should be clipping their nails,
and you don't have one.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Maybe that's a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Are you serious?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I mean, I don't know, Annabel, is this is the
mail clippings that the deal breaker? If it is for you,
maybe it is for me.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Listen, dude, you do your thing. If I if the
lack of my having a dedicated nail clipping corner is
just crushing your ego, I'll let.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
It go like it's cool.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I get it, I get it. Not everyone has a
place to do that. But I'll think about it. But
I really appreciate, you know, I appreciate all the time
taking up feel bead.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Thank you. Well, how about this. I don't want this
nail clipping thing to destroy what I thought was an
amazing time. If you maybe want to be over for
a second date, I'm happy to help you find the
nail clipping corner.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, Annabel, would you like to run another day with Grayson?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
No, I don't want you to help me with that.
I don't need any help with that. Thank you. No, no, no,
thank you. I don't need a nail clipping corner.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think anybody does.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
No, go ahead, Grayson, you do you. I'm going to
go be like this gross, disgusting mail clipping monster at
large so
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You will first date, follow up
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Grayson is on the phone today for a first a
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named
annabel So in a few minutes we'll call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe get him another date. But first, Grayson, how long
has it been since you heard from Annabelle.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's been it's been It's less than a week, but
it's been a few days.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, okay, but long enough for you to feel worried.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, I guess it was like it was last weekend.
So it's been yeah, three four days, And yeah, I'm
starting to feel confused because we had pretty confident. We
had an awesome time. So I don't understand where the
disconnect is maybe coming in here.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So why don't you tell us about the date? Then
let's see if you can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yeah, I mean, I'm not you know, I'm not the
most handsome guy in the world, but I'm decent looking.
And annabel came over and we had I mean, I
thought we had a spark. We were like, we were smiling,
we were laughing immediately. I mean, she's got these really
great comeback and she's got this really kind of charming
(01:09):
just kill her smile. You know, she kind of like
looks up at you and side smiles and it just
kind of makes you feel something cool. And I don't know,
we played board games. She was crushing me on trivial Pursuit.
I mean, she's got she you know, there's there you go,
this is a.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Triple the way. So she came to your to your place.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, we just had like a cozy, you know, quiet
night at my place, which was great. I like to cook,
so we made some like homemade pizza, you know, something
I thought would be fun, throwing toppings on flower everywhere.
It was a good time. And uh, like I said,
we played like a marathon of board games, which is
I love doing that. I always did that grown up.
(01:51):
And you know, we got nineties playlists. I mean, I
mean it was just like it was this amazing fun night.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Well what do you think could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You know, we were a little you know, there's you
know the night, we got a little flirty. You know,
we did some wine. We're kind of cleaning up and
finally found ourselves kind of next to each other, had
a kiss, which was really amazing. You know, I just
kind of clar it cool and kept cleaning. And then
she sits down on the counter and we're just chatting.
(02:24):
And while I was cleaning and this short this is like, honestly,
the only thing I can think of is that while
I'm cleaning, I like accidentally splashed a little bit of
pizza sauce under under her like Swede sneakers, they're pretty nice,
they're like white sneakers. And she kind of freaked out
me a little bit, and she said it was late
and she just had to go, and she kind of
(02:46):
just got of set and it was kind of a
quick exit. I guess it was. It was a fun
It was just like a super fun style date with
pizza kiss. Chemistry was really strong. And then yeah, she
actually her the next day. You know, I was like
round two question mark and like nothing. She's just totally
not I mean, she doesn't have any read receipts, but
(03:07):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Okay, she's like a little sauce.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I mean, if that's if that's the reason.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
It's like, come on, maybe she really loves her shoes
and if they're swayed, that's not always the easiest to clean. Yeah, yeah,
that's really expensive. And she's waiting for you to be like, hey,
I'll buy you a new pair of shoes.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, maybe that's what she wants, you know, I don't know.
All right, well we'll try to figure it out for you.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll sell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Grayson is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Annabelle.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date. But before we do that, Grayson, why
don't you break down your date again for us real quick.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
We had a great night. She came over, We watched
Netflix play four games, homemade pizzas just like the coach
e night at home. We had lots of chemistry. We
were laughing, the conversation flowed naturally. We had a nice
kiss at the end. I thought was really like sexy
kiss and then she just kind of like abruptly laugh
after I splashed some pizza sauce on her. And I
(04:22):
don't know if that's the reason, but I've not heard
from her since.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
All right, well, I feel like she's waiting for you
to offer to buy anyone. Let's see if the pizza
sauce on the shoe did it? Are you ready for
us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Here we go, Hi, mespeak to Annabel please she Hey Annabel,
how are you?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
This is a radio show. It's called the Jubile Show. Hey, Annabel,
I'm Nina Hima for it. Y. My name is Jebel. Oh.
I guess you know the show? What's up? Well?
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Then heard a first date follow up before I have awesome?
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Well, guess what, Annabel? Somebody email us about you?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
They did?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
It's the segment where if you go out on a
date with somebody and they end up ghosting you, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why any idea who would email us?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Yep, I know I know exactly who it is, and
I'm sure he's on the.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Phone right, Yes he is.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Grayson told us about your date and said he really
liked you, but can't figure out why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Do you want to tell him?
Speaker 5 (05:38):
And I great, I'm just wondering, what do you think
that I'm ghosting you for? Like, what is your concern?
Why do you think I am?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Well, I don't know. We have an amazing night and
obviously have no problem answering the phone numbers that you
don't recognize on your phone or you won't answer my calls.
My guest is maybe because I splashed pizza sauce on
your shoe and you were kind of episode by that.
So that's the only knock on the entire night that
I can think of.
Speaker 5 (06:06):
Grayton, You're so funny. It wasn't the sauce. Thank you
for caring about my safety about answers numbers that I
call and accept. That's really kind of you. But Bracon, Honey,
it was not a sauce. I looked down to look
where the sauce was slunk, and there was a giant
(06:27):
mountain of nail things on the floor.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Like his apartment floor.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Like like, I looked where the sauce was slung because
I was like, oh, you know, like he was true.
We had a great time, And and I looked down
and on the like on the splash right next to
it on the floor that was like under this stink
like someone had tried to get them into a trash can.
Was a literally like a DNA pile of nails.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, really over nail clippings is why you will We
had an amazing night and you saw some nail clippings
on my floor and you're not You're just gonna.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Grayson, you know, that's gross.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Like I don't know, it was a small, you know,
maybe small hamster sized pile.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
It was I'm sized pile of nail clippings. That's a
big pile.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
I think if I were talking about a pile of
nail clippings, you guys like, why didn't you like, we
like want to clean that up before she got to
your apartment.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
But I mean, come on, though, first of all, nail
clippings is is really what threw you totally off? I mean,
what about what about our kiss at the end of
the night. I mean, come on, that was amazing.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Well that kiss was amazing. But now I'm sort of like, hmm,
you're welcome, So I mean, bring it on to tech
of pautical what's what going on? What are the nail clippings?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
We all have little gross corners in our apartments or
our houses, and you know, it's like everybody, Oh my gosh, so.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
You you know you, so you know you have the
pile of nail clipping.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yes, I am aware that she found my nail clipping corner.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Your nail clipping corner.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
Which is describing, Oh my gosh, it's just like he
grew another person with those nails, a tiny, tiny person
is running around the fantastic long nails.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Yes, okay, so found my nail clipping corner. But why
wouldn't you just say something? Why don't you just say
something about it?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Why would I say something about it?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, what's the deal? You don't have your nailipping corner
established in your home to really figure that out? Because
you don't, then it's just disgusting because you're clipping your
nails anywhere you want.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
I don't. I'm confused. I'll say you the way, get
them away, either way, clean them away.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Can I explain a little bit around this slason what
exactly happened here? I'm kind of joking because I think
this whole thing is ridiculous, but can I explain a
little something to you that maybe we'll set some light
on this whole situation?
Speaker 5 (09:08):
Of course, of course for it.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
So, I actually have a small phobia around mail clippings.
I think they're disgusting. I don't like seeing them. I
don't like being around them myself. I mean, I don't know.
This whole thing seems pretty silly. I'm pretty sure everybody
has a place that they should be clipping their nails,
and you don't have one.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Maybe that's a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Are you serious?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I mean, I don't know, Annabel, is this is the
mail clippings that the deal breaker? If it is for you,
maybe it is for me.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Listen, dude, you do your thing. If I if the
lack of my having a dedicated nail clipping corner is
just crushing your ego, I'll let.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
It go like it's cool.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I get it, I get it. Not everyone has a
place to do that. But I'll think about it. But
I really appreciate, you know, I appreciate all the time
taking up feel bead.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Thank you. Well, how about this. I don't want this
nail clipping thing to destroy what I thought was an
amazing time. If you maybe want to be over for
a second date, I'm happy to help you find the
nail clipping corner.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, Annabel, would you like to run another day with Grayson?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
No, I don't want you to help me with that.
I don't need any help with that. Thank you. No, no, no,
thank you. I don't need a nail clipping corner.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think anybody does.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
No, go ahead, Grayson, you do you. I'm going to
go be like this gross, disgusting mail clipping monster at
large so
Speaker 1 (10:35):
You will first date, follow up
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