Letters To Ellen - Husband's Talking Too Much About Someone Else In His Sleep

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, good morning, thank you for joining us. We're the
L and K Morning Show. I'm Ellan Kay, I'm Ryan Mano,
good morning. I'm producer Mike Cramos, and guys, I'm so
proud to announce this morning that it is National Fishing Day.
I grew up fishing my daddy Dale and you did too.
We'd go to those creeks in Indiana. Yep, you call

(00:21):
them creeks. We call them craiks. Go down to the creek.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
There's like quarries and just weird things that you would
get into.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yes, yeah. And in Indiana where Ryan and I grew up,
the river bottoms are mud. So if you go in
there and you're wade to catch the catfish, which tastes
like dirt, then you could get leeches all over your life.
Did I knew that we had something more in cotton?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Just radio It's baked into us and you think back
on that, like, how did we survive? I mean just
le Our parents are like, yeah, go in the mud
and go and just come out and leech it.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
I mean, going on herelin, here's a warm it through
the hook. It was like, okay, Dad, you fold it
and then he'd show me how to hook it. And
I mean there are a lot of gross things that
we did. Yeah, gross, but it's fun to fish. It's
fun to catch a fish and then filay it and
eat it. And even though catfish are famous in Indiana
and some of them are big, they don't taste great.

(01:18):
We had fish fries all the time in the backyard
and I never really loved the taste. I would just
douse it in like tarters catch it for something. But anyway,
I do love fishing. We've been on fishing trips together
on boats or at least cruises where some people are fishing. Well,
we drink. But it wasn't too long ago my family

(01:40):
I decided we wanted to go catch on Marlon because
we thought for Calvin, he could catch a Marlon and
frame it. He could have it over his desk the
rest of his life. That was the motivation. I love
that because sometimes you'll go in to an office and
you see a guy within Marlon and he'll have a story.
So we thought, O, Calvin, let's get you one of those.

(02:01):
So that the boat in Cabo gave us two choices.
We can go out one hour. You're catching big tuna, big,
big tuna four two hours out. We could try for Marlin.
We have not caught one yet this season, so we said, wait,
we want the marlin over the desk. Let's go for Marlin.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
I don't like the odds, but I love the adventure.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
Yes, right, well, look what happened.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
Oh you want to know how big ninety nine inches.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
It's framed. Yeah, it's in our TV room. Yeah, it's
a b Marley.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Okay, okay, she's held it, Okay, and she's naked.

Speaker 5 (02:47):
My day, she held it.

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Okay, okay, okay, okay, everday Coach.

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Does mammalian have anything to do with a mammogram?

Speaker 6 (03:20):
Oh no, not?

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Okay, good because I just had him. By the way,
I didn't tell you. I had a mammogram you did
with doctor stand Schweimer, who looks like Carson for it.
So I had to say shout out to you, doctor Schweimer,
and thank god, all clear, he tells me right away.
And then we go for the ultrasound as well, which

(03:42):
is the next step because I have breast cancer in
my family and so everything was clear and good, good,
and I love doctor Schweimer. I bet he makes a
mammogram fine, Oh, okay, he doesn't do the actual smushing
of the breast in the plates. That's done by an
X ray tech. And she was amazing.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Its Lisa, when the doctor actually is involved. Is there
a physical part of.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
Yes, there is, so he also he does so what
he does what you do in a mammogram just because
men don't know.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
I have no idea.

Speaker 9 (04:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
So we put on a rope a gown and you
put it on so the front opens and you stand
at different angles and you actually get your breast tissue.
And if you have implants, they just squeeze the tissue
around the implant and then they smash it between plates.
It's pressure but not pain. And you've got to do
all these different poses. Arms up, you know, turn left, right,

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and then the doctor sees you in a separate exam
room where you lay on your back with the gown open,
and he does the physical test where it's like your
own self test where you're feeling all around your breasts,
and then I go for the ultrasound, So he puts
the goop on my breasts and then he does the
ultrasound all over them. And that's like, I think, almost
as far as you can go. You find something that

(04:57):
is a byops, right, and if you if you catch
it early, you're good. So thank god I didn't have
to have a biopsy of anything.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
Great job.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah, thanks, and I'm glad you got your tetre. Yeah, yeah,
thank you. I mean, look, it's a scary thing because
you're afraid, but then why wouldn't you want to know
if you do need to take action? Right, So anyway,
shout out to you, Schminy. That was a long way
to go to No, it's funney.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
We're talking about the mammalian dive rethings the man.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah, the mammalian dive reflex and what is that in
this case?

Speaker 2 (05:26):
Mammalian is for mammal Okay, okay, So in all of
us as we are mammals, we you know, tend to
lose focus here and there throughout the day. Sometimes we
get distracted or we just feel out of sorts. Well,
science says there's one thing you can do every day,
and it's it takes you ten seconds and it's splashing
cold water on your face.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
It resets your focus. Oh you don't can't do it.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
Well, I just don't like cold water.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Okay, well then you I'm sorry, but your mammalian dive
reflex won't be active.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
It's your call.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
But it's an evolutionary response, so like this is aped
into our DNA, so it's designed to help humans survive
when they emerge in cold water. Really, it just kicks
your body into fight mode, which is enough to bring
you back and regain your focus.

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Ryan Man, that producer.

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My grandma todis go fishing Day. Oh, it's International Panic
Day but also International Picnic Day. So do you think
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Right to Ellen for advice, because she's seen a thing
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She is Ellen.

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And this one comes from for Rankie. Okay, And if
you want to submit your letter to Ellen, go to
Coast one of three five dot com slash letters. Frankie writes,
Dear Ellen, my husband Curtis has always been a sleep talker.
It used to be kind of cute. He'd mumble about
work or make weird noises. We'd laugh the next morning.
But lately all of that has changed. For the past

(07:19):
three weeks, he's been talking and laughing in his sleep
about someone. He says things like you always make me smile, Sophie,
or I've missed you clear as day. One night he
was don't tell Frankie. I sat up in my bed
my heart pounding. I asked him. The next morning, he
laughed it off. He said he doesn't even know anyone
named Sophie. It's just a dream and it's just gibberish.

(07:42):
It doesn't feel like gibberish though to me. I want
to believe him. I love him, but hearing him talking
to someone else night after night for three weeks makes
me feel a certain way. Am I silly for being
jealous of someone who may not even exist? Am I overreacting?
Or do I dig deeper? Thank you, sleepless and confused Frankie, Ryan,

(08:04):
you are asleep mumbler.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
I make weird sounds and I don't know that I
do it. My I track my sleep with a sleep
app and so it'll record my sounds in the morning
and I'll listen to me.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
And it's really embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
It's hard sleeping in a bed, sharing a bed with
someone for the first time, because you have to prep
them and go, look, I'm gonna make a bunch of weird.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
Noises, okay, right, and it just it sounds like, mmmmm, well,
we could play one of them if you want to.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
I don't want to.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Okay, I know you want to here whatever.

Speaker 6 (08:36):
Okay, Well, but but but when you're saying words, yeah,
now I have acted out in my sleep like chewing
when I think I'm eating.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
I thought I was eating a sandwich, actually chewing. And
when my husband is you know, like shook me from
a really deep dream. He said that I was. I
was moving and talking, but he couldn't really understand, saying,
so you can go that deep, you can And it
sounds like Curtis goes that deep.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
The Sofi when he okay, so is he? Curtis says
the name Sophie.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
You always make me smile. Sophie.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
The other one though that I think this one's even
worse for he said, don't don't tell Frankie.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
Right, yeahy Is he living out a fantasy? Or is
he dreaming of a real life love? And as it
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Oh my god?

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Yeah?

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Don't really want to talk about her.

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At the time it was highly romantic.

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It's from Frankie. Her husband Curtis has always been a
sleep talker, but now he's being specific and he's talking
about someone named Sophie. Quote you always make me smile, Sophie,
or I've missed you Sophie one day, clear as day,

(13:26):
he whispered, don't tell Frankie. So Frankie's sleepless, confused, and
a little heartbroken. Sleep talking could be very real, like
this TikToker.

Speaker 11 (13:38):
The way I found out my boyfriend is cheating is
actually by what he said in his sleep. So we
were laying in bed, and in his sleep he said
a girl's first and last name. And usually when people
are asleep talking, you know, it's hard to make out
or it just doesn't really make sense.

Speaker 8 (13:55):
No, this was clear as day, straight out of a movie.

Speaker 11 (13:59):
So I get out of bed and I look up
this girl on Facebook, and I notice how she's married
and she has kids. So I don't really think too
much of it. And when he wakes up in the morning,
I asked him about her, and he was like, oh,
it's just some girl I went to high school with.
But I wasn't fully convinced, so I messaged the girl
and I was like, Hey, I'm so and So's girlfriend.
I was just wondering if you guys have talked recently.

Speaker 8 (14:19):
And the way she.

Speaker 11 (14:20):
Responded is what put me even more on edge. She
was like, you need to mind your own business. You're
just his crazy ex girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
So Frankie wants to know she's overreacting. Should she dig deeper?
Just let it go?

Speaker 3 (14:32):
After hearing that, I say, digg yeah.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
Book, you've never got He's got to know a Sophie
or or they have a code name grab.

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A shovel digging.

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Let's party together.

Speaker 8 (22:16):
Party Hardy Coast one oh three point five