Toxic Mom Groups, Do You Stick It Out Or Run?!

Ashley Tisdale recently removed herself from a "toxic mom" group - So we're talking about it! On The Ellen K Morning Show, weigh in 

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Oh?

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No?

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Ellen came on show, Ellen.

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Caning you've become more fun in the new year and
coming up where to go inside entertainment? So what's happening
Mickey worked, We're gonna have to bleep this big time.
He's talking about this go fund me thing. Rourke needs
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asking for charity. So you're gonna hear that. Plus Stranger

(01:46):
Things a big spoiler alert. In fact, it happened in
our studio. All right, boy, Well it's set records and
now there's going to be a documentary to dive into
the making of Stranger Things. On Ashley Tisdale is still
sour about the women in her mom group, so she
has left her toxic mom group. It's a new year.

(02:07):
That's Ashley Tisdale's kind of new beginning is I'm not
going to deal with you women. So if you've been
part of a toxic mom group or maybe a toxic
dad group and you just want out, you can tell
us about that too, call us or put it on
the talkback. It's eight hundred and ninety two nine kost
tap that mic. Inside Entertainment coming out.

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K all right over. Eager fans think there's another episode
of Stranger Things coming out tomorrow. Obviously it's not likely,
but there's a documentary coming out Monday about the making
of season five. The Stranger Things series finale aired on
New Year's Eve, or did it. There's a theory going
viral that episode eight was a fake out and the
real finale airs tomorrow. Called the conformity gait. It basically

(02:57):
suggests that, well, I shouldn't say it because oh don't
say yeah anyway, that the finale that you did see,
if you're into it, was an illusion, I hope so,
and the real battle is yet to come. Good.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
That would be fitting for the show.

Speaker 8 (03:17):
That great.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yeah, it would make sense that they would do us.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
I love this music. Thank you, Ryan, You're very welcome.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
But by the way, Darlene did spoil it for my yesterday?

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Ye yeah, okay, tell him what happened?

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, So Ellen said, did you guys watch Stranger Things
and Mike goes, oh yeah, and jar said, well, I
can't believe blank happened, and Mike goes, I didn't see it.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Well, I didn't see the last episode, but you said
you saw it.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
It doesn't mean I'm done with it like you lead
with that. Yeah, someone goes, did.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
You one episode to go? She should a follow up
question saying did you watch the ending?

Speaker 5 (03:49):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Okay, No, okay, Brian, you be Dar, I'll be Mike.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Okay, uh oh did you see that this happened?

Speaker 6 (03:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Okay, did you see the end when this happened?

Speaker 4 (04:00):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (04:01):
No, that's exactly how.

Speaker 6 (04:04):
I come on.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Anyway, Monday it will be the making of season five
the documentary. Ashley Tisdale is still a sour about the
women in her mom group excluding her from events and
making her feel unwelcome. It's all wrapped around the really
important people in this the kids. Okay, So if you're
in a toxic mom group, tell us about it. These

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moms in Ashley Tisdale's group included Hillary Duff, Megan Trainer,
and Mandy Moore, all three very sweet people. I can't
imagine that that would be a toxic mom group. So
maybe it was the other moms, and maybe because there
are so many celebrities in this mom group, there was
a lot of tugging and pulling. I smell competition. Yes,

(04:49):
me too. And I got to tell you something. Lauren
Sanchez was in my high school mom's group right at
the time. She was dating Jeff Bezo and then got
married to him. So there was all of a sudden
mom's coming out of the woodwork buddying up to Lauren Sanchez.
And I've known her for twenty years, so I'd just
be sitting with her and then she'd get swarmed by

(05:11):
women I didn't even know at the high school. And
so I said, Lauren, Wow, you're the hot thing. And
then she said, well, you know, these moms just you know,
they've all come a calling.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Tends to happen when you land your helicopter on the
football field.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Good point. Okay, And what about this Mickey Rourke? And
Rourke needs a roof over his head. He's been threatened
to be evicted and he owes about sixty grand to
his landlord. Now he claims that the place that he's
lived in the last five years is in disarray and
that there are rats and it's all falling apart and

(05:47):
it needs repairs, and that the landlord will not fix
his place, leaky roof, you know, the whole thing. So
he's had to move into a hotel. Someone started to
go fund me and he just doesn't understand.

Speaker 9 (05:59):
This should make you, uh, and something's come up that
I'm really uh frustrated, confused, and I don't understand. Somebody
set up some kind of uh foundation or fun for
me to donate money like it a like charity, and

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that's that's not me. Okay, I'd rather I'd rather if
I needed money, I wouldn't ask for no charity. I'd
rather stick and done up and pull the triper.

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it was interesting because Mickey Orck, besides his licra leggings. Yeah,
tight ones right, Yeah, he had a dirty Bentley. Okay,
and I thought if you have a Bentley.

Speaker 8 (07:06):
No, no, I know that.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
I'm just saying it was a dirty Bentley.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
I would take a dirty Mendley.

Speaker 10 (07:10):
I would too.

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I thought it was great. But Mike here producer. Mike
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Really good at that.

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Welcome to the spoilers club.

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Well that was season one seasons Who comes up?

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I don't know, that doesn't matter. Sure someone's watching.

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Accept what you can't control and save your energy. That
is a huge one. Because we were talking about toxicity.
Ashley Tisdale left her Toxic Mom group. We're getting your talkbacks.
We'll get to that in a second.

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Speaker 12 (15:22):
This, Ellen, how do I get out of a toxic
mom group? I need out bad. They're draining the life
out of me. I can't keep up. Send help.

Speaker 3 (15:33):
Oh okay, so.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
That one is Lindsay and Ashley Tisdale had shared that
she's in a toxic mom group, saying that they're mean girls.
Yeah it feels like high school again.

Speaker 3 (15:46):
But what's keeping you stuck?

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Right?

Speaker 2 (15:48):
I think you're the only thing keeping you stuck that
goes for anything in life. Just stop stop responding, stop comparing,
stop competing.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
But when you're forced together, you know, around your kids
or school, just stop caring.

Speaker 15 (16:00):
I think what happens is you get sucked in because
you value your kids and your the experiences as you're
all going through.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
And what if your kid is really good friends with
the toxic mom kid, Yes, exactly, and then you start
feeling these.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
Is it competition? Is that what it comes down to.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
I think in Ashley Tisdale's case, there's a lot of
competition because a lot of famous moms in this group.
You know, there's I don't know, Hillary Duff and all
these nice girls. But she said that this is toxic.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
So like my sister in law, right, they she wanted
out of hers. And the thing that did it was
seeing how the women talked. The moms talked about the
other mom who stepped away immediately, and she goes, oh, well,
if they're doing that about her, of course they're doing
that about me.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
Oh I see. So no one was safe, nobody, No
one's safe.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
That's just such a They were so bad they moved
from Nashville to San Diego.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
That's how you get out.

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That's sure. They want you talking about that on your radio.
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We asked the question first caller with the right answers,
going to Ariana Grande the Eternal Sunshine Tour and compared
to men, women are slow when it comes to this.
So I've been accused here on the show that the
two men I work with Ryan and producer Mike of
making or bringing to the table questions that are about

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men and their bumbles.

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There's a skew. There's a definite SkELL with you.

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That's what I've been accused of. So compared to men,
women are slow when it comes to this.

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What is it?

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What are you doing? You're balancing it out?

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Yeah, I'm balancing New year, new el What do you
think it is? Compared to men, women are slow when
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Hi, Linda, we go to Cono the Park. She is Linda.
Welcome to the ellen KQ and A.

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How are you?

Speaker 5 (19:03):
Oh, good morning, I'm fine.

Speaker 14 (19:05):
How are you guys?

Speaker 1 (19:07):
We're good. How is your mindset this new year?

Speaker 4 (19:10):
Uh?

Speaker 16 (19:10):
I think I'm I'm trying to be happier.

Speaker 5 (19:12):
That's going to be my resolution.

Speaker 1 (19:14):
Good well, wobby sabby to you. That is a Japanese
term that means imperfection is not failure. It's beauty. So
you are beautiful?

Speaker 11 (19:22):
Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 5 (19:25):
I think the answer might be like if you go
to a restaurant, what to order?

Speaker 1 (19:30):
Okay, what to order? I know that it takes me
much longer than my husband and son. Compared to men,
women are slow when it comes to this. That's a
great guest, Linda. It is not the right answer, but
we value you. Thank you so much for having us on.
Try again.

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Oh all right.

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Yes now, I would never know other way.

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Oh, thank you. Do you have any passengers right now?

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I got one?

Speaker 1 (20:14):
But oh okay, all right Bobby. What is your guests
compared to men? Women are slow when it comes to what?

Speaker 8 (20:26):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (20:27):
Getting a joke? You know what I have to say.
I admit it. I am I'm slow sometimes me too,
great guest, Bobby, is not the right answer.

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Keep up the great work and I appreciate you for
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Thank you, Bobby. Hey, Bobby whoons on our way to
work in Coaston? Masa on the four or five. It's moving,
it's moving, We're moving all right. Well, Puna, what do
you think it is compared to men? Women are really
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Poona says they compared to men, women are slow when
it comes to falling in love, and you are.

Speaker 6 (21:12):
Right, it is falling in love.

Speaker 5 (21:14):
Way to go.

Speaker 1 (21:18):
Men fall in love four times faster than women.

Speaker 6 (21:22):
Why is that so?

Speaker 1 (21:23):
I think it's a physical thing.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
Oh really, mm hmmm.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
I think you guys get carried away by your emotions.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
The heart follows the body.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
That's right. My mama Eileen used to always say that
the heart follows the body, and I think maybe for
men that's more true than it is for women because
us women have our mothers telling us to be cautious. Congratulations, Poona,
thank you so much.

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twenty twenty six. Let's go back to twenty ten. You
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or oh or oh oh oh. There's just a lot
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earlier this morning from Lindsay Ellen.

Speaker 12 (24:38):
How do I get out of a toxic mom group?
I need out bad. They're draining the life out of me.
I can't keep up. Send help.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
And we believe this was, you know, inspired by Ashley
Tisdale saying she was in a toxic mom group at
school and had to get out of it. All the
moms and some of them friends of ours. Yeah, but
she didn't say they were toxic. In fact, some of
the mothers in the in the group have slapped back,
but Ashley Tisdale just not having it. Hillary Duff and

(25:11):
Megan Trainer in that mom group, but she did not
implicate them. However, Yeah, groups of women can can gang up.
I thought you're going to say something worse. Oh, oh,
dispose It feels like that. Yeah, I dispose discard.

Speaker 10 (25:33):
Oh boy.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
So if you're in one we said, leave the talkback
or call as Lynette, you can relate.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
I am sort of in the same position, and I
won't go too much into details where all of a sudden,
I am being the one that they're talking about. I
am being called a dictator, I am being called all
sorts of things, And I'm like, why don't just women
grow up and just be adults? Why is this only
on women? You don't see men doing this. Why are

(26:01):
women doing this? Women need to grow up, seriously, they
need to grow up.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
Well, okay, let me let me say Ryan was part
of a toxic men's group at one time, kind of
in the middle, in the middle of two guys kind
of arguing.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Yes, yeah, I was so.

Speaker 5 (26:17):
But when you guys argued, did you guys just argued
and did what you gotta do and then it stopped
or did it continue forever?

Speaker 3 (26:24):
I wasn't one of the arguers.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
I was just It's like when two friends kind of
split and then it just gets you don't know how
to split the front, Yeah, and it becomes weird.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
For everyone, and it is toxic.

Speaker 5 (26:33):
That's terrible. See I think, well, I mean, in this case,
we're just going to talk about the women, because that's
what it's all about. Yeah, but the women need to
just step it up a notch and just leave that
in high school because that's just so high school.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
Why do you suppose you're targeted, Lynnette?

Speaker 5 (26:48):
Well, I think in my case, my scenario is, you know,
you go in there as the female and you're trying
the correct things that were wrong, and then that just
doesn't seem to fit with everybody. If I was a
man and I was doing these changes and I was
making things work, there would be no issue. Everybody would
be saying, oh my gosh, look at him. He came

(27:11):
in here and he took care of business. But you know,
you're a female, and then all of a sudden, you're
a target because they don't like what you're doing. So
in that woman's group that she's dealing with, you know,
it just rights to the top, keep moving and just
let them be because obviously they're still in high school.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Oh wow, Okay, well it shouldn't even happen in high school,
that's for sure, because then you're just really not equipped,
you know, as much as you are as an adult
to handle to handle toxicity. But as a woman here
and to my fellow sisters who are working amongst a
lot of men, I have to say that maybe, and

(27:50):
I think that sometimes it is true that we are
afraid to speak up, therefore we allow the behavior. So
you just can't be afraid. If I see all the
guys down the hallway getting something and I want it
for our show, I have learned to walk into an
office full of men and look them in the eye
and strongly say, in a decisive manner, I want this.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
They have this, Yeah, yeah, let's make this. There's nothing
wrong with doing it. But you're right Ellen. Through the years,
and I'm not citing anyone currently, but I have watched
and they almost view it differently, like Ellen's complaining. You know,
I'm serious sometimes because if you look around and you go, hey,
they have this. You know if a guy, if a
guy went in there and did it, they wouldn't say

(28:35):
that same thing. They wouldn't right, that's not right.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
Well, so I have I have had to stand up,
I know, and call out behaviors and guess what, my
heart's great, And they've given it to us. So it's
one of those things where where you can't you can't
like you can't be afraid to say to your toxic
female group or whatever your situation is you maybe you're

(29:00):
inviting it because you're being meek.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
Yeah you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Yeah, so it probably is my fault because I wasn't strong.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
Enough to you're blaming yourself, but I'm not.

Speaker 10 (29:10):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
I'm saying that if you look, if you see something,
say something.

Speaker 3 (29:14):
There you go.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
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Speaker 5 (29:43):
Fame?

Speaker 6 (29:43):
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Speaker 1 (29:44):
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That sounds like you're on the road. Where are you headed.

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I'm heady to work.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
I'm kind of late.

Speaker 11 (29:56):
I'm going to work.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
What's kind of late?

Speaker 10 (29:59):
By twenty minutes late.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
Was it a pothole or just you couldn't get out
the door.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
It was hard to get out the door.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
Yeah, hard to get out the door.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
Yep.

Speaker 5 (30:11):
You really cold these mornings.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Okay, we understand you. Look, we accept you as you are,
and we think that being latest fine. There's beauty and imperfection. Yes, yes, yes,
I'm so excited. Thank you. You walk through that door
and you say, guys, I want a thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (30:32):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
I was meant to be late today.

Speaker 5 (30:35):
Yes, definitely, Oh my.

Speaker 12 (30:39):
God, I believe it.

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of ellen K and this just in acter Mickey work
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Lucky After just dropped a social video in which he
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Speaker 9 (31:08):
Somebody set up some kind of foundation or fun for
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Speaker 1 (31:19):
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asking for one hundred thousand dollars. So far that fund
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It was created by his manager's assistant. Mickey says, if
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(31:41):
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(32:04):
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many the same health and activity insights people get from
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they're getting smarter. And if you want to increase your
dating elect this year take a cooking class. A new
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food was a love language, and that they've met their

(32:25):
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(32:45):
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welcome first time talk back Tuesdays all right. Oh, we
just got this one from Brenda.

Speaker 6 (33:39):
Hey, it's Brenda from Londale. And my New Year's intentions
are to.

Speaker 7 (33:43):
Figure out what I'm supposed to eat because I just
found out I'm lactose intolerant and fruit us intolerant and
I can't have gluten.

Speaker 6 (33:50):
Please help me, all right, Love you guys.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
Bye. Oh, we love you too. That's a lot of intolerance.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
That's a triple whammy right there.

Speaker 1 (33:58):
Okay, so have you ever done that allergy test the
scratch test or the blood testers and blood tests? Yeah,
and what are you allergic to? Dar with your blood test,
I'm allergic to like dust, ragweed, certain grasses. Yeah, I
did it too, and I found out cash shoes, but
not really mean it's right fresh grass, which I love

(34:19):
to sit in the grass, and I never have itchy
or anything like that. There was another one. Oh my
favorite fish, salmon, No way, Yes, I am not allergic
to salmon. I refuse to believe my blood.

Speaker 3 (34:32):
So what do you do just to lead it?

Speaker 1 (34:34):
You've been with me, why do I order at lunch?
I am salmon salam? So Brenda, I would say, you
know you don't want to eat something you're allergic to
of course, but I mean I don't know. Yeah, No,
that's terrible test.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
That's awful advice. That's not medical advice.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
Do not listen to the bread, don't listen to us.
But I'm not going to stop sitting in grass and
eating salmon.

Speaker 3 (35:00):
All leftis Ellen.

Speaker 6 (35:02):
This is Carla.

Speaker 15 (35:03):
I'm calling for the talkback Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Okay, So volleyball Mom's gone.

Speaker 15 (35:08):
Well via text, I was on vacation and my phone
just was blowing up, blowing up, one mom telling the
other mom why did they leave their daughter? Out of
a TikTok? The other mom coming back and saying, well,
your daughter sucks, she's got a bad attitude. The apple
doesn't fall far from the treep. Crazy text volleyball mom drama.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Well see, there's mom group drama everywhere. Ashley Tisdale started
this morning with her leaving her toxic mom group, which
includes non toxic people like Megan Trainer and Hillary Duff.
But then, you know, we had so many talkbacks about
toxic mom drama. So hey, it's a new year. I'm

(35:51):
going to share some sayings you need to say to
yourself in your mind coming up to keep it positive.

Speaker 6 (35:57):
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Speaker 7 (35:59):
But I love it. Everybody out here turns you on
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You get thirty seconds to say whatever you like, whatever's
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Speaker 10 (36:21):
Carol Loft, This hi Ellen, Ryan and everyone over at Coast.
I want to wish you all a very happy, healthy
New Year. And in this world that seems to be
burning down, I find comfort in laughter and good music
that makes me happy, makes me want to sing, and

(36:45):
your calming voice is always a comfort. So happy New Year.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
Well, thank you, Carol. Carol, we hear you. We've had
a lot of talkbacks today just about leaving things that
don't serve you anymore and just leaving it in the
past and having this positive attitude towards life. And we've
had a lot of moms leave us talk backs about
the toxic mom groups they're in and how do you

(37:13):
go through every day and just keep it positive. So
here are some things we want to share. It is
a lunar Ear of the Horse as well, and that's
all about new beginnings. But I love this. I saw
this on Instagram. Don't leave anything for later. Later the
coffee gets cold, Later, you lose interest. Later the day
turns into night, and later people grow up, and later

(37:35):
people grow old, and later life goes by. So that's
so important to remember that one Also, this moment will
never return, so be here. And that goes along with
a lot of resolutions we've heard of, just looking up
and keeping your face out of your phone. Small steps
every day change everything except what you can't control. Savior energy.

(38:00):
Broken things become stronger when repaired with care. Love those
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Speaker 5 (38:10):
You guys have taught me out to a lot of
my life, and I just want to take you guys.
You guys are always there and we smile with you
and try with you, and I just wanted to thank
you guys for everything that you do.

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Coast one oh three point five beautiful things?

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Are you having a beautiful day? Happy birthday to you
if you are celebrating today. Eddie Redmain, one of my
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all love Kate McKinnon in this studio. Irena Shake Baby, Monitor,
Bradley Cooper's Oh yeah yeah, Julie Chen the Generator so

(38:48):
we call her Nora, and Rita's having his birthday. Also
TV shows that turn fifty this year. This is crazy,
This is mind blowing. Lavernon Shirley Happy fiftieth. Charlie's Angels,
You guys, what a classic. Let's see The Muppet Show.
It's fifty Family Feud.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
Oh yeah, and that was back in the day when
Richard Dawson used to just like lick women's faces.

Speaker 6 (39:14):
Was he was he?

Speaker 3 (39:16):
I'm serious? It was so inappropriate.

Speaker 6 (39:17):
I remember licking.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
Was he drunk when he did?

Speaker 8 (39:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (39:20):
Yeah, he was kissing all over their bodies.

Speaker 1 (39:22):
I love that, Yeah, I mean I loved that version
of Yeah.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
No, he was a great host. She was just a
little fresh.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Could you imagine him doing that today?

Speaker 2 (39:33):
No, no, man, And if they didn't kiss him on
the mouth, he'd go back up. No, no, no, right
on the lips, lady.

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You know.

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all about you from Jay, Anthony.

Speaker 8 (43:01):
Mortan, Ellen Morton, Ryan Morrian team. This is Jason calling
in and just saying Hi, Happy New Year, Happy twenty
twenty six. Special shout out to Ryan for being WWE fan.
I feel like he gets such a hard time from
the rest of you being such a big fan. But
just know there's a lot of female fans out there
these days, so layoff of Ryan in twenty six WWE.

Speaker 1 (43:24):
Let's go n not a chance not knowing Jason, We
appreciate you and everything. We're just getting started.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
Listen Jason, just so you know in here, just so
you know earlier today because they were talking about Stranger
Things and I said, oh, by the way, Monday night
Raw did a Stranger Things like crossover episode last night,
and Ellen goes, I bet that was great cricket. It's
just constant. Meanwhile, we have to listen Ell and Dartoo.
Did you hear Krishelle through a fun right phon.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
Quote of the Daily and every show with a quote
and a kiss. This one's from Kate McKinnon celebrating her
beautiful birthday day. You just have to work super hard
and if you have a passion that's the most beautiful
thing in life. Bust out and do it. Baby. Kiss
on three, kiss on me one two three.

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Jesus you try