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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Flavor Podcast Network.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
You're listening to Staycissura and Charlie's off the record your record, Hello, Hello,
Hell you doing? Welcome on and off the record. Everything
that we don't want to talk about on the radio.
It's just you and us.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
It's just you and me and everybody else's listening.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I don't know what we're talking about. Charlie's gonna bring
this thing to that.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay, here's here's here's the thing. Okay. I got a friend.
He is in love with someone that he's only just
been dating for about like three months. And this is
the thing. I went to ask him if I did
you just phone to Google something because my phone was dead,
And for some reason, I got a text message, you know,
on the iPhone. We need to get the texts messages,
(00:45):
the little drop notification, and i've seen it was from
the girls they're seen okay for I'm not gonna say
the girl's name, just in case they are listening.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I think they've only been going up for about two
three months.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So then I try to swipe up to like get
out of it. Yeah, but for some reason, rather than
swiping up, I actually pushed the notification.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Oh and when you do that, you see all their messages.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
I see everything, bro, and you know I had to
fight the urge not Charlie, don't do it. Don't do it.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
They look don't look don a color right now?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
They a fa a color. And I couldn't help myself.
But I read the messages and Bro, this is wild. Bro.
I want to ask you this question. When is it
right to say I love you to somebody that you
know that you're dating, to be honest, like, bro, like,
what are the are we talking weeks? Are we talking months?
A year? Like? What's what's the rule of thumb here?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
For me? Because I am a lover, my lover not
a fighter, right right, So I'm gonna state my love
for you. I'm gonna say maybe a month.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
A month, a month, okay, So you're telling me that
that's that's okay. Yeah, a month you can say I
love you to somebody.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, that's all good. It's maybe like a cute not
like a follow on. I love You're the love of
my life. But a little I love you once you
finished the date type of thing.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
That's today, you see. But but this is wild to
maybe maybe because I'm quite old school, you know, in
this whole approach. But like I think, for me, when
I first, you know, we're not saying you know, we're dating.
We didn't say I love you to each other for
about like a good maybe five six months. Man.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, okay, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
But it was about trying to understand her, and but
it was a whole heap before I could say that
I love you, Bro, I needed to know the flaws,
the you know, when she froze a tantrum and all
this stuff, you know, before I could actually say that, bro,
because I might say I love you and then tomorrow
we have a big fight over you know, me saying hey,
I can't take you because I gotta take mum to Bingo.
(02:44):
You know what I'm saying. Yes, So so I had
to really really like go through the whole trenches with
this relationship before I could actually say say that I
love you. Right, But this is wild to me that
my mate's only been going out with this girl for
this long, but they they're so in love with each other. Bro,
these me, I was like, Bro, I'm happy for him,
(03:04):
don't get me, yeah, happy, But it's just bro, you know,
he's just come out of a relationship, oh and just
jumped into this one and it's already I love.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
You, Okay. I think that switches up the situation, especially
if you've exited a relationship. You're straight into you, and I.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Wouldn't say it, well, straight into it. I would say
maybe like a good couple of months before he was
able to Okay. You know, everyone's different, and I'm not
saying that. You know, you could actually just get over
someone within their time frame and then say I love
you to your new partner. Yeah, but you know, everyone's
different in their approach. But to me, this is it's
still wild. And going back to what I was saying
(03:45):
earlier on, it's probably because I'm old school for you.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Was it always going to be you who said I
love you first? Or she was never going to say
I'm telling you that and she was probably waiting though
I will say you reckon.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Yeah, I have never asked her that question. But I
just thought to myself, you know, if I'm going to
say it, bro, I need to mean it. Yeah, you know,
and not just it's not a moment thing where I
just like, we're in the moment and we're having a
good time and then it's like I love.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
You no, And I do know those ones because you
have your your teenage relationships, you know, and it's and
those that you're like happy one week anniversary, I love.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
You after one week and yeah, you know this is funny, broke.
That's we call it popular, you know, the whole thing,
and now you want reading These messages just reminded me
of you know, my son Rob and and this little
girl that you know, they were sort of talking to
(04:42):
each other and you know, they just said I love
you to each other, and I was thinking, you.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Don't know what they mean.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
But as that type of I'm like, I'm looking at
my mate while I'm googling the thing, and he's like what,
He's like, what is are you really messages?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I'm like, yeah, bro, you know, at least it's that
you read and not some some other pictures.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Or like, you know, I'm glad that he's actually browsing
on private because I've had some you know. That's that's
for another Off the red.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
That's for another time. Thanks for listening to Stace, Azora
and Charlie's Off the record. Catch them live every weekday
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