October 11, 2024 • 42 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Flavor Podcast Network Flavor Breakfast producer.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Jodefano, I hope you're having a great start to your weekend, producer,
and here taking you through the bisbits of Stace, Azerra
and Charlie from the last week. Charlie was away for
a few days, spending most of the time on the toilet,
but Friday arrived and the full team was back together.
Kicking off this week, Stace came up with a new phrase,
social media emotional intelligence. We all know about your other
emotional intelligence, but this is directly for social media, the
(00:28):
ability to read between the lines when it comes to
what people are posting on social media. Stace and Azira
get river to the lines pretty well. But Li's just say,
Charlie not so much.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
So another thing that you might care about it is
social media.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
But I want to.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Talk about social media intelligence. So you talk about intelligence IQ,
you talk about sort of emotional intelligence EQ, but what
about the EQ you apply to social media so it
becomes social media? And tell for instance, I reckon that
(01:04):
some people they apply a kind of emotional intelligence to
social media so that they pick up things like a
friend of mine, I was looking at how it was
posting last week. I don't see him a lot. I
haven't seen him in person for ages. I was like, Oh,
I don't know, is he okay? Like he seems really
angry and he's like starting fights with everyone. And then
(01:24):
a couple of days later, he goes, you can always
tell how I'm feeling by my posting on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
And that's the thing you've got.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
To remember, Like before getting offended with someone starting a
fight with you go, oh, they actually okay, you know
what I mean. So that's an example of you go,
you're using emotional intelligence on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Oh okay.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Like, for example, you see a friend, right, they were
all about hurl him and their couple as a couple
on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Then he goes the next couple of days just post
on themselves.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Yeah, they go, that's exactly what she's talking about. Looking
a little deeper, it's for me. I feel like it
finds me. Not my fault. I've noticed that you've unfollowed,
or they haven't liked your photo, or you haven't posted
them in six months.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Not my fault. The information just presents itself. Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
I would love to be all up in everyone's business
if I could, But you know, that's the best I
can get. So I would say my social media intelligence
is actually really high, and I think I can speak
for you, Charlie.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Yours is very low. You don't know what on the internet.
You don't. You don't.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Stace and I are the ones that like it's pretty obviously,
you know, we see those changes.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
You're looking a little deeper, seeing through the veil.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Like I said to someone recently, I go, oh, hey,
I think that've broken up. Oh no, she hasn't told
me that, mm hmmm.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Or she did.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I said, oh, she hasn't posted with them for a while.
I just haven't s going away differentlyan without them.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
She tacked to it.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, no they have. They're broken up a few months ago.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
On Tuesdays, I'm so my My social media intelligence is
so high that I know when someone's not actually on
holiday and they're posting on photos.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
That's social media intelligence. This is this is buzzy because
I know.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
When they've over it to their photo. Social media intelligence. See,
I don't really take a deep dive in through things
like that.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
You know, your social media i Q is not great.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Because guess what he's doing on social media. He's re
rewatching his own story ten times bro.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
That's our secret change change.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
The teammates actually created a quiz to tiss your social
media and emotional intelligence. If you haven't checked it out already,
be sure to hear long to flavor dot co dot
inzi and see what your EQ is. School holidays are
just about over. But three out of four of us
on the two AD managed to go to some sort
of camp without realizing what it was all about.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
So what is going on?
Speaker 5 (04:06):
That's what I thought as a we eight year old
child when arriving to this holiday camp.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yeah, so I was just saying, three out of four
of us here have had this experience of someone in
our family. In my case, it was my sister. She
was like, yay, I'm going on school holiday camp. I'm like, wow,
you're lucky, and so she's going with the neighbors. What
she didn't realize and what Mum did not check the
detail of I'm gonna say, sorry, mom, Dad wouldn't have.
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We didn't live with dad at the time. What they
didn't check was that it was actually a Christian faith camp,
which is fine if you know what you're doing, but
in this case, she didn't realize that it was the
whole cope up. But the whole theme was about being
on Christian camp and you Azara did.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
What I'm big to go on it and I ended
up at a Christian camp myself. So in my defense,
I went to Tortada Springs. That was a camp that
we did with my school, Harrisbool Primary School, and there
wasn't Christian at all.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
It was just normal camp and so I loved it
so much.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
It had like the second largest hydro slide in the country.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
That's where you want to go.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I want to go back, man, Like I had just
done it maybe a month beforehand.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
So you know, when when being asked what do we want.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
To do for school holidays, I said, I want to
go to the Tortada Springs again.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
That was amazing, But so it.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Was actually a Chich camp and you're not a Chich
family and you had to do a Bible study and
all of that.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Did you Yeah, But the way we learned that it
was a Christian camp, which, by the way, what are
you up to, mum, because I've looked up Tortado Springs.
It's literally called Tortado Springs Christian Center.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
But then sometimes schools just hire them and that this
isn't for a school camp. Yes, okay, but Mum didn't.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I mean she had to sign me up, so she
would have had to see I'm like.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
So, how did you figure it out that you're actually
on a Bible bar?
Speaker 2 (06:07):
You know?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
That first night we had finished dinner, we got a
little hot chocolate and a cookie and we went to
the big auditorium. It was fine, did that on the
first camp, except we started breaking into songs.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
We're in sight. We were already in our groups.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
So my little brother, who would have been on his
six at the time, he was all at the front.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I was near the back of the big kids, and
we'd broken a song. And as the.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Songs were going and all the kids were standing up
holding their arms up, they had the lyrics on the
screen and I, in that moment, realized we were singing
worship songs. And my little brother, let me tell you
the side, I was bombasted. He literally from the front.
It was like we knew we telepathically. We looked at
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each other. He tuned around with the thanky is because
I convinced him to I'm with me, and he looked
around at me.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Like, what have you done? What have you done?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
So of course we had to, you know, fill out
books and do quite a bit of talking about God
and our relationship with God.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
So it's all good if you know you're doing it,
but you didn't know you were doing it, and I
can't believe that. So my sister, you and your brother
and Anna, and that happened to you as well to me.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I went on a too, like an overnight Easter camp,
but it was called amped camp, like it wasn't actually
called Easter camp, it was it was told it was
like the junior version and was yes, human eights, and
they described it as intermediates from all over christ Church, cream,
heaps of sports activities, music, dance and challenges and good food.
I didn't get the memo. And until the same thing Zara,
(07:45):
we were they're singing songs and then the lyrics and
then it was all just I don't know what was happening.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I think that's the catch is that they highlight all
the slides, the flying foxes, the beach trips. They owned
them like camp, and you get there and then it's like, hey, as.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I say, it's fine if you know that's what you're doing,
but why are so many of these children just going
there and going, wait, what.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
My mom's and a campground they owned. It was just
at the showgrounds.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Oh that's crash.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Camps are like, especially the Christian camps. Thats where people
going home. This one time at Christian camp.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Oh, I don't under start that it was. It was
still fun. I still went on the higher slide like,
we still did all the things. I just also had
to write in a book about what God meant to me.
And there's things I remember turning. I remember it so vividly,
even though I was young, turning to the girl next
to me in my group, and then I just go,
is this God camp doing the songs?
Speaker 4 (08:45):
And I was like, what did she say?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
She looked at me like, yeah, you idiot. And it's
funny because my grandparents were super proud of me for going,
because he was a pastor and my nana she ran
the account for the church set my papa worked at,
so you know, they were pretty happy about how I
spent my school holidays.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I will also say that my daughter's behavior was much
improved after she came back from church camp for a week.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
When she when.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
God is watching everything, He's like, I'll tell you this, man,
I bet you your grandparents and your parents like they're
geeing it up. You know, my daughter, she went to
this Christian camp. She wanted to go, she wanted to go.
She begged, she begged to go to this Christian camp.
It was honestly so much fun. That's what I have
to say.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
I don't even really remember that, only really the worship songs, which,
by the way, jams.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Let's not deny it. They're actually jams.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
The only downfall wasn't actually having to personally do the stuff,
the stuff about you know, God and Jesus. It was
some of the heart outs. The other kids were like
real heart out and that was that was where it
was like, I was like, oh, oh damn.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
My brother read the.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
DEAs and said, it's holiday, there's one of the just go,
let's just get out of the house.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
He got my h.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
We also figured out that since Charlie had lived with
his parents until he was married, that means he never
went through the experience of flatting.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Charlie.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
I feel like we've we've talked a lot about you today,
but this, well, this got me.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
Charlie has never flattered, and it shows.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
So you've never gone flatting because you lived at home
until you married your wife and then lived together, but
not with anyone else.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Nah, never never, I've never done it. So this is
why I muste all the questions like because obviously you
guys have flattered and when flatting rules are different. See
when I met, when I was you know, lived at
mom and dad's house for as long as it took
me to get married and find my own place.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
Which when you're twenty five or something.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yeah, yeah, correct, Like whatever wasn't a pantry was everybody's right.
So the milk, if it wasn't the fridge bro it
didn't have no one's name on it, It didn't have
beans name, didn't have no no.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Okay, okay, Charlie. No one writes their name on their stuff.
But usually you have a shelf each or you know,
what's not your suf and you don't use it.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Some things you do share, some things you don't.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
As there, I will say, in some flats people do
write their name on it. I'm glad I'm not in
one of those.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Yeah, because that is that is I suppose that if
you've got a flat man that keeps seating all your stuff,
I would probably start to get.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
To that like, you know, if I was flat with somebody,
because the way I grew up in my household is
that we all share everything, you know what I mean?
Like whatever we have is what we're.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
Going to eat.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
If I was to leave mom and Dad's house and flat, bro,
you would have I wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (11:55):
I would have survived. No, I would to survive, honestly.
Guess what happens. So someone's cooking their dinner. Oh, you
gotta wait first and first serve. You've got to wait
for them to finish before you can start. Same with washing,
You got to put your washing on you. You drag
everything you need to the washing machine. Oh, someone else
is already using it. You gotta wait.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Line it up. Leave your laundry barsket that line up?
Can't you just go? You you can watch wash my
blacks with your blacks. You could, depending on the relationship
you have, But.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
No, not really, like why not you just you do it?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
And then there's chores as well. And how you figured
that out in the flat?
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Yeah, what's your system in your flat? Thankfully I'm in
a really good flat. People actually just clean up. It's
shared here, is like he does that? Yeah? No, all
of us, it's and it's sheard very evenly. I've been
in flats where I've had to do a CHRR chart
in the past, charlling so you would have a job
each week or all the jobs for that week, so
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that would be you included. Imagine if imagine if your
wife did.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
That to you.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Okay, but see this is the thing, like, if you
like you and your flat myths, you're just you're just
a clean freak and you just like to clean, Like
without even having to look at the chor chart, do
you have an obligation to clean or go back to
their chor chart and do these chores or what happens.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
If that's what your flat has decided to do. Just
because you're super clean, doesn't mean you don't do your
job that you got for the week, if that's what
your flat is doing.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
Nowadays, everyone's great.
Speaker 5 (13:29):
People empty the dish rusher when it's time to be emptied.
They changed the bin when it's time to be changed.
But you know, I've lived in flats where people didn't
do that, so that had to be on the on
the torch chart.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Can you be honest with me, have you ever had
an argument with any flipmants have.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah, definitely, it happens quite a bit people butt heads.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
I think it's the sharing the toilet too. There's that part.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Yeah, need to go, someone's in there. Oh well, got
to wait, you're not gonna like that day. He's like,
I don't like.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
I don't like their life.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
Charlie fletting As, maybe we teach you a thing or two, well.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Other shocking things, because like Iara is giving you one version.
I've been in the flat where there were seven rooms,
so there are lots of different people. This is in Duneda,
and we didn't have proper heating all of that, you know,
and one lady, you know, she always liked to go,
I'm cooking livers.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
Because it's that time of the month.
Speaker 5 (14:22):
I'm like, great, Yeah, I don't even know what that means,
but I'm like, that's just I hate that.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
She gave you that reason.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
This is what I mean, bro, for you guys, You
guys didn't choose the flat life, the flaoting life choose
you guys.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
You just choose the privileged life.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Yeah, I chose the I literally couldn't live at home.
Dad stays, Azora and Charlie therea caught.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Her partner Divin doing something in the shower the edge.
She just doesn't really know what to think about it.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
And I feel like this was rude. What my partner did.
I think it's rude to the flatmates because he's been
working on Papa Toy Toy and he saw a cash
converters and he went and had a little nosey and what.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Did he find? A bunch of golf clubs. Guys. He
lost his mind.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
He's like, oh, there's a tailor maiden here. They had
no idea what they was selling. He got the bundle.
I think it was like ten clubs for twenty bucks.
Pretty good, pretty good, And maybe he was right.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
They didn't know what on earth they were looking at.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
So I sold them for cheap and he was very happy,
so happy that when he got home.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
He took them into the bathroom. He said, what are
you doing? He had a shower with the golf club
so that he could clean them.
Speaker 5 (15:44):
He bought a scrubbing brush and he got in the
shower and yeah, it was like scrubbing them. So because
I went in there to get my washing and I
was like, what are you doing? He's like, I'm just
cleaning the clubs before this weekend, But.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Like, why could he just do it over a sink
or something? Back, was he like naked in the shower
with the clubs? Yes, he really loves.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
And I was like, what they hit we don't have
He could have done over the kitchen sink. So I
guess this was his way of because that is our laundry,
our bathroom as our laundry, So it's not really wrong
outside tap, I think we might.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Have one because you know what they say, bro, like
you've got to be one with them. You got to
be one of your clubs. You got to shower together
with it. Would you bother that? Or you walking and
he's doing something else?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Those are not the only two options. I'm just saying.
But I'm just saying, you've been washing his body? Yeah,
probably washing his body. No, it definitely struck me, But
I mean, good on him.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I don't know why when he gets excited over stuff
like that, I'm like, it makes you realize that we're
all just kids, we're adults now, because like that fires
him up, Like he was just so excited about.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
This golf clubs.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
I just didn't know that you should wit them, like
that's how you should clean them. I felt like this,
don't you use you know, the same thing is for
dusting or something.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Actually, no one can see Stacey's action. We'll leave it there,
will leave it.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
We found out something interesting about Stacey's family and how
they drive their cars, and more people seem to back
her up, more than I expected. I was always under
the impression that this style of driving was dangerous and
an automatic.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
You see some sites, I mean yes, in New York
for instance, but also in Toma, Kimikodo, Auckland driving I
have never seen this before. I don't know if I'll
ever see it again. So there's this guy and he's
driving a transit van, quite a big van. Must be
doing it for a job I think they had inside. No, no, no, no,
it wasn't a career. I have to say it's not.
It wasn't a career, but some sort of trade company.
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He's driving along on the motorway and he has his
run leg up on the dashboard on the right hand
side of the steering wheel. For one thing, props to
his flexibility. That's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
For another thing, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (18:12):
It's quite funny too, because I would assume you'd put
the lift leg up if you're you know, if you
are right right side dominant.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
Well, I mean because if you're right with your.
Speaker 5 (18:21):
Right hand, like when I when I use my if
I'm on a road trip, you know, I switched to
my left foot just to give the right foot of
break and it always feels like a little bit more
dangerous and not automatic. But what No, yes, yeah, but
I'm a big toe girl as well. I don't even
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bother with the rest of the toes is.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Just one and so they didn't even talk about tost No,
but two you don't drive with two feet, but.
Speaker 4 (18:57):
One drive to two feet? Did they do special drivers?
Speaker 5 (19:01):
But if you're automatically, No, no, people do that. What
you'd move your left foot over the break? Yeah, well
you have articles an accident.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
No no, not over like you know people have it poised.
Speaker 4 (19:14):
God, does anyone hear me? Use the thing you do this?
Speaker 1 (19:17):
No?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
But I know that it's a thing. Anyway, I'm talking
about the guy doing yoga in his car.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
I wouldn't know who this guy is because that's like
a special type of skill. Like you're in New Zealand,
like we're full of surprises, like you expect to see
something like that in like Las Vegas, because you know,
you see the most randomest things in the stage.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
Like yeah, but well chance reckons on the tics that
they hears cruise control and that's.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Why he's doing it. But why does he have his
leg up? Chance?
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Why?
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Chance?
Speaker 5 (19:45):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:46):
Why has he got his leg up on the dashboard?
If you're a passenger, that's it is way more comfortable
to have a leg up on the dashboard.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Not while driving. I love it.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
I haven't done that, but as a passenger, Oh yeah,
oh yeah, my partner hates it.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Where does he hate it?
Speaker 5 (20:03):
You know?
Speaker 4 (20:05):
I don't, I don't know. Just doesn't like my legs,
my foot being up on the side.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I don't really care because you start drawing, because you
know what, you start drawing on the No, no, no, no,
I'm not that flexible.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Reach the windows.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
It feels like, I mean, it's comfortable as a passenger,
but I've never seen it in the driver. And the
other thing that I need to get to the bottom
of is anyone with me. Are you supposed to use
both feet if you're driving an auto car?
Speaker 4 (20:30):
I thought you were. I mean, not that I do,
but I thought that it was a thing that.
Speaker 5 (20:34):
Would be so dangerous in my mind is right.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
I'm with your I'm with you.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
So you left in your left foot isn't as good?
Speaker 4 (20:42):
I think I would be like, you know, do stop.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
You have to learn, you have to be better, you
have to be like you know, Formula one.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Race can you can't say anything you don't even know it.
I sometimes, honestly, I just drove roll on my big toe.
And sometimes you're saying the thing is bearfoot, beerefoot.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Before because that's uncomfortable driving with you sometimes man, but
then also driving well taking off your shoe solace huh yeah, yeah,
yeah sucks that like shoes could be a bit uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Came I, guys, threw down the tics. It's the thing
people drive with two feet in an.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
Oh no, there's one tics, there's one. Ticks proved me right? Please?
I want to know by we did get a license from?
No where did you get yours from? Mister one toe driving?
Speaker 5 (21:29):
I got mine and Tim's if you're wondering, because I
failed and put a cord here, so drove all the
way to Tims quick.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
One toe, So we're talking about driving.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
Stace claims that people use their lift foot to break
and drive with their right foot.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
If you're driving an auto, so it's supposed to be
a thing. Immediately, I get a message from my husband.
Pro drivers like me, yep, two feet, but you have
to train your left foot though, to break. I've got
I've got a list. He's given me.
Speaker 4 (21:59):
One bullet point.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
You can stop quicker because your foot is already on
the brake, so sitting there two cornering is smoother and easier.
I will say that. Let's talk about your hand on
the steering wheel where it is gotty.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
But you know the thing is, you know what's influenced
people doing this watching the if one show on Netflix
of the race car drivers, because that's what they do.
Speaker 4 (22:23):
Scotty, you're not a race car driver. You can use
your right footage strong enough, my bro to just you know,
do both well.
Speaker 3 (22:29):
Here on the text, I drove with two feet maybe
twice after a really intense leg day workout at the gym.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
It was an emergency. Another one says.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
I drive an auto with two feet and have done
so for the last twenty odd years. If I use
one foot, I jerk. Well, I jerk if I use
the left Yeah, But that doesn't mean that.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
It's not a thing.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Another one says Michael Schumacher broke with his left foot.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
Yeah, because he's an IF one driver. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Another one says, I driver two feet. I call it
balance fair play.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Well, there's a lot of people that drive with two feet.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
But you know this is why break. We're talking about
you two feet to drive. This is my friends Brocelly
tixing me personally. Yeah, Bro, I drive in one middle league, but.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
There is unnecessary man, Okay, okay, what about you, Chance?
Speaker 4 (23:12):
What do you drive with dragging up in the middle league?
What did you drive with?
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Chance?
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Please don't say middle league.
Speaker 8 (23:26):
This morning I dropped my partner off and I drove
my right football with my big toe. Yeah, a big
toe because I had just because I feet this morning.
But yeah, there's a foot wrist on the left side,
and that's supposed to be where your foot goes and
you use your right foot to break and accelerate.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 6 (23:45):
A lot of.
Speaker 8 (23:45):
People do, a lot of horse drivers because horse drivers
use both feet, and some people have that there's a
habit and they break an accelerate with feet. Anything with that.
I've seen it a couple of times, and I heard
it times when that's get into an excent, both feet
go down and they excelerate their break at the same time.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
What does that do?
Speaker 8 (24:07):
Well?
Speaker 4 (24:08):
Spin?
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Probably that's what someone says on the text. I was
always taught that driving with two feet is super dangerous.
When you need to break quickly, you could accidentally use
the wrong foot. And someone's just agreeing with me about
being the biggest issue. Well, yeah, I just think you
have to be more coordinated, you know, like you got
two feet on the two feet Do you know.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
What you've started, Todace. You're going to have me out
here trying to practice with my left foot.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
Yep, Well we all need to leave. I'm already not
very safe on the road.
Speaker 5 (24:37):
But you know, if you see the twy doors coming,
you better move out my way.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
So I don't know whether this is a good thing.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
To well, look another text, use another one. A lot
of people seem to think you cannot get a license
using two feet.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
That feet coordination is not part of the weird today.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I'm today is old. Like I found out that people
are still driving with two feet. I started driving on
two feet when I first learned how to drive. Bro
I've been drivering since I was like men thirteen, Yeah,
illegally with.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
The school holidays nearing Stace put a zorra to the
teast to see how well she could pare it. Because
people that don't actually have kids love to give advice.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
And feel free to tell us Zura what you would do.
And a couple of parenting scenarios because and my experience,
the people who are most sure of how to respond
in the parenting situation are people who have not yet
had children. It's very easy when in theory. So here's
a scenario. So you notice that your kid likes a
(25:43):
particular type of food, so you buy that in bulk.
You go, oh, this is genius because it's cheaper like that.
Then they decide immediately the next day they don't like
it anymore.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
What do you do? They're eating it? How it how they.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Can honestly, no, I don't know. Part that is the
parenting dilemma. So you can have this theory, my kid's
gonna eat everything, my cad is not going to be fussy,
and then in reality, how do you make that happen?
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Well, I guess what I would do is I would
get creative in the kitchen.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
I would still find a way to not waste that.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
Food, the package stuff that was just like bolt buying
over here, or.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
If okay, nothing's still going to go to waste, I'd
end up having to be the one that eats it.
The next time they want something they're not getting it,
I'll be like, no, no, last time we did this. Actually,
it'll be a three strikes and you're out. If you
think you're really into a food, cool, I'm happy for you.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I'll get it for you. If you turn.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
Around and decide you don't want it, it's just too bad.
Once you get to the third time of doing that, right,
chances right out.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
So even if they do this at like say six
years old, for the you know, until they're eighteen years old, okay, right, okay.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Six is they're having conversations with you. They know what's okay.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
So second scenario for you, a zerah not yet a mother.
So you have a two year old and I know
you like your sleep a zero. So this two year
old has actually been sleeping okay, but it has a regression,
and so what's a regression. Oh, let's go backwards. So
they are waking you up at one o'clock in the morning.
Then two o'clock in the morning in three like for
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an entire week.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
So what are you going to do? They're just coming in, they're.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
A bit scared. They maybe gottics.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
They can just come into the bed as the bed
doesn't That doesn't bother me. I mean, what are you
supposed to do leive a two year old crying? Isn't
there like a legal Oh?
Speaker 5 (27:36):
I don't know, but I mean that I feel like
that is something that I have accepted, that is truly
a part of it. I'm not going to neglect my
child for sleep, but I would be really annoyed. I mean,
I'll probably take it out on my partner.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
Oh yeah, good to.
Speaker 5 (27:51):
I won't be angry at the child, I'll be angry
at somebody else. I'll find someone too, right now, shopkeeper, Yes,
the sun, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
Everyone does it. Everyone does it.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
That is that you've spoken a universal truth right there?
Speaker 4 (28:06):
Are you mad at me?
Speaker 5 (28:07):
No?
Speaker 4 (28:07):
I was just your kid didn't sleep last night? Okay? Good?
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Okay, good? But just quickly on that. Will you do
sleep training? Do you reckon for a baby?
Speaker 4 (28:17):
I will, I will, but you know me, I will
also give up. I've been there, so I've got nothing.
I got nothing. You know, I don't believe in it.
I'm like, yeah, ooh, your kid sleeps twelve hours. I'm
so happy for you. I know, yeah, I know, shut up.
Speaker 5 (28:34):
I mean even when I hear adults tell me they've
slept at twelve hours, like, no one wants to know
you're great sleep.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
I think you're idioz. I think you should maybe that.
Right now, I'll be dropping my kid off to your house.
I said it's gonna be okay, but it's not. Stays
Azora and Charlie.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Big changes are coming for the household. Charlie and his
wife kicking Noah there, four year old out of the bed.
And let's say Charlie got really excited when he first
heard this, until his wife, Sadie, then dropped a bombshell.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
Charlie, big changes in your house. That's right.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
So you know, my wife and I we are we
have no that's in bed of us. So Harold is
none now not a four but like he just letches
on to sayye and it's not in for you and
me as well, but more more as mum. Anyways, the
other day, Saynie and I had this conversation. She goes,
it's time for none to leave, to leave the bed.
(29:36):
I'm like, oh, okay, talk to me in the conversation.
I want to hear because you know, this is with
the opportunity for a daughter.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
That way. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Yeah, She's like, I just want to you know you
it's about your relationship.
Speaker 4 (29:54):
That's pretty cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
But then okay, okay, say let's let's let's do this.
She goes, yeah, you know, because the week challenge is starting,
and I'm like, okay, this is not where I thought
this conversation. We challenge is starting, and you know, sleep,
I want to prioritize my sleep because I'm all about
the gains, getting the.
Speaker 4 (30:18):
Muscles, gaining a sleep.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Because then she gave me this whole spiel about you know,
because of sleep, when you're sleeping and you're resting, it's
that's when the muscles are growing. And I'm like, bro,
I don't even want to hear this, Like, do you
even know who you're talking to you here?
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Woman?
Speaker 5 (30:32):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Like you you've only just started working out like yesterday, like,
and you're telling me about this. I thought you were
gonna want You're taking this conversation to another place, so
obviously that's not even in the plan, So like, I
think it's safe to say that we're cutting.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
It off at three. Yeah, there is baby baby stuff.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
She's going all right, that kid's out now, my body's
back to me sleep.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
She should be.
Speaker 5 (30:56):
Cooking you out of the room too. Don't be like, yeah,
well he just remember what he said. He rabbit holes
every night on the on the phone, deep diving into
random things like how big tornadoes get and speaking of
that man.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, it's about your performance in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Basically, I've gone pretty foot now, so the stamina's definitely there.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
Another week, another hip hop mystery presented by Stace. This
week focused on the female R and B group that
was popular in the nineteen nineties, Brownstone.
Speaker 5 (31:36):
Mystery.
Speaker 4 (31:39):
And you're gonna know about Brownstone. So Brownstone, of course.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
It's American female R and B group that was popular
in the mid nineties. The best known for this song
from nineteen ninety four, if You Love Me Love, that
was nominated for Best R and B Performance Grammy Awards.
They also had another song, You Made No Great Fine.
(32:03):
This was all off their debut albums and the rendition
of the Eagle song I Can't Tell You Why I
did well as well.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
So the three.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
Original members of Brownstone were Monica Dobe Charmaine, Maxie Maxwell,
and Nicole and Nikki Gilbert. So they sat out in
LA they met each other. After doing lots of auditions
around the city, they formed the group and then they
were signed to Michael Jackson's MJJ Music record.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Label about a year later, and that.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Originally been working on rap songs, going yeah, we're going
to be like Queen Latifa, but their first single and
the type of sound that they would go with was
actually chosen when they performed at a music industry gig.
Speaker 6 (32:46):
And then we went and performed at one of those
conferences and we did if You Love Me, and I
just remember we got like a three or four minute
standing ovation at the door on the song and they're like, Uh,
change your plans.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
That's the record. That's record, that's sound.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
And their debut album, From the Bottom Up, which had
if You Love Me and grape Vine on it, actually
earned that Grammy Award nomination and a Billboard Music Award
as well. So they toured around the world and then
one of the women, Adobe, she left because of.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
Health reasons bronchitis.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
But then the rumor was actually it's just that there
was a bit of drama in between the girls as well.
She got replaced by Kena Cosper, and then they've had
a few other members in the group, and then they
brought out a song that actually, you know, they made
a second album and they managed to get on the
Players Club soundtrack with this song.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
Don't Play Me Rong. It was actually a really good
song that was nineteen ninety eight.
Speaker 3 (33:45):
But from there some sad news that Maxie actually died
in a accident in twenty fifteen when she was forty six.
In twenty nineteen, they decided they were going to reunite
and reunite and they did a performance at the s
Since Festival, and then a couple of years ago they went, Okay,
we've got a new member and we're going to bring
out a new song called All I Want.
Speaker 5 (34:11):
It's crazy to me that they're like stuff, we're going
to put out music.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
Yeah, well, they said, we're just gonna have a different sound.
Now they've been doing some covers as well, like of
eight and amounton High Enough, all of those things, And
if you check out Brownstone dot com, you can see
that they've got another album back again that is coming
out as well, but we still think about Brownstone and
I guess the quintessential hit, the one that went well,
that's the song standing over for this one from nineteen
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ninety four, if you love Me Brownstone, Because if you
don't know now, you know.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Kids, these days have defically gone a bit softer, and
I don't know whether these school yard sayings would still fly.
But man, you guys had so many examples.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
I felt like having sayings was a part of you know,
it was something you had. It was a requirement we
had to have as Kiwi kids growing up here and
old dear oh you know, talk to the handkers of
face saying listening and.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Sometimes you do a remix like this, I'm pitching the
pants for the first of the month.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
They spit in the eye for being so sly. I
love that one.
Speaker 5 (35:11):
What about you, Tony, What what school did you go to?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
And what was the saying you always said?
Speaker 7 (35:17):
I went to Cleveland Park Primary. I'm at the age
of nine. That's about twelve months. We go and play
for many are a rugby club.
Speaker 9 (35:26):
Every time we take out board, everybody all meets up
and we start walking to school. But these are these
are saying and one of the boys always used to
stay because you see the concrete slaves, they got cracks
in each one.
Speaker 7 (35:40):
I'm on the foot of a concrete foot path. And
the one we used to say a lot or he sages,
you stip on the crack, you marry a rat, to
step on your eyes, to marry your grass. So we
try to keep on it because.
Speaker 9 (35:52):
He always had to be lunch and he had to
see his lunch with twelve boys.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
You marry the grass? Did you say, you.
Speaker 7 (36:00):
Step on the crack, you marry a rat, You step
on the grass, you marry you ut?
Speaker 5 (36:04):
But I haven't, and it somehow that translates to him
having to give you guys lunch.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
I just want to say, when you know, the step
on the crack, marry a rat. That was really really
stressful when we were kids and our cult saca no.
But the boys next door the surname is Rat, So
like Mary a Rat. That's like, oh my gosh, you
have to marry leon rat.
Speaker 4 (36:29):
Like that. Those steaks are high, man, I love that. Tony.
What about you, Michael? What school did you go to?
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Him?
Speaker 4 (36:36):
What was the popular one that you guys were.
Speaker 10 (36:38):
Saying, You know, I went to go to high school
and popular.
Speaker 9 (36:42):
Saying, especially when we were.
Speaker 10 (36:44):
Walking to and from school and around town when we
saw other rival schools out and about, like say college
or Colornene or Intllegiate, was got our problem on?
Speaker 5 (36:58):
You know, I know what was sort of the eye
problem as well, you know sometimes and pokokoho would be
saying eye problems and so word there ah you right.
Speaker 3 (37:09):
Well, also also that the old did you get eyes
for breakfast or something?
Speaker 10 (37:14):
Did you say that, Michael, Oh, it's just got our
problem when they said to yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
Yeah, yeah, I love that one. See, I say, bring
their back.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
Why why, why?
Speaker 5 (37:23):
Why have we become adults and we just like no
longer say these sayings because they're so good. I still say,
punching a punch for the first of the month. Someone
said I can hear you, but I'm not listening. Oh
my gosh. Me and my brother used to rinse that one.
Uh yes, starting many fights back in the day.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
This love it.
Speaker 5 (37:42):
I'm the king of the castle and you're dirty rascal.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
That's another one we should just say. For no reason.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
Someone said I went to a Southern Cross campus and
when you went to fight, we.
Speaker 4 (37:54):
Would say, do you want to bettle?
Speaker 5 (37:56):
I make your thumb cheeks reddle I feel like he
made that one up, or maybe there was just a
Southern Cross campus ting.
Speaker 3 (38:06):
Very specific would be I'm way back at marrying grouse.
Speaker 4 (38:09):
How would they? Yeah, yeah, no, not adding that to
my arsenal. No, that that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (38:14):
Growing up was you had to have these things focab,
not hire saying.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
Your bum cheek's red. Okay, it's quite visual. Wanna bettle,
I'll make your bum checks redd.
Speaker 5 (38:23):
I'm like, I'm not sure that's going to get the
desired effect of wanting a battle or someone.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
We had such an influx of saying. So we've chucked
up a set us on our Facebook. If you have
any more you can think of that wasn't she here?
Be sure to hear along to the Flavor Radio Facebook page. Lastly,
come Friday, Charlie is back with us and he has
a new theory on how to get rid of his
writer's blox when he's been writing his music.
Speaker 5 (38:45):
As you know, Charlie, he is actually a singer. I
mean he is in three houses down. So before he
was the Ranio guy.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
He you know, was known for that.
Speaker 5 (38:56):
And it was quite interesting what you revealed to us
yesterday about how you write songs and how what helps
you write songs?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Yeah, well it's true, you know the music, you need
to be inspired, right, so.
Speaker 3 (39:13):
You know, even if you started off the wrong place, baby.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Yeah, you know, if you that's right, and this is
what I'm talking about, you are definitely right, Stace. Like
when you're in the studio, right, sometimes you get to
a point where your creative juices are not there.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
Right, it's much freaky.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
It is because you're like, oh my gosh, we've paid
for the studio.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
Yeah, the time don't stop for no one.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
And that you know, the guy that's behind the desk,
he doesn't care whether we've got any material or not.
He's still getting paid. So you know, it's on us
to come up with something.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
So how do you break through that? This is? This
is the magic.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
Like I could have absolutely nothing, and I find myself
scrolling through the phone to find some inspiration to you know,
to get me going. But then it's not until I
go to the bathroom to the toilet, you know, and
I have an acoustic guitar and this is I.
Speaker 4 (40:07):
Am not take a guitar into the toilet.
Speaker 1 (40:09):
Yeah, it's a massive toilet in the in the studio
and I take a guitar into the toilet and I
just played like the most simplest course while I'm on
the toilet. It's because the acoustics in the toilet. It
just it gives you this. It influences me.
Speaker 5 (40:26):
You do realize you could just go in there with
the guitar and not go to the toilet.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
No, so it inspires you.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
You know how you sit on the toilet and you're
just like, Broth, No, you are. You're in a happy
place with your guitar. I have the guitar and then
you know, you're quite No, I don't know what's that feeling.
It's like you're almost you're looking forward to this. So
when you're when you're happy and you're looking forward to
doing what you gotta do, and then you have a
guitar on your lap, broth where it's just come to
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you and.
Speaker 5 (40:53):
Honestly tell me that when you okay, you you did
have the runs the last the days.
Speaker 4 (41:00):
Yeah, any any songs come from that? No?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
No, because that that that was the runs that I mean,
like you're in you're sick, but this is fun.
Speaker 4 (41:09):
So fun.
Speaker 3 (41:09):
So I think what you're saying is you are literally
getting rid of Yes, that's right, ideas that lending new.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
That's what I'm saying. And you know I'm not lying.
And I've done that. I've written two.
Speaker 5 (41:23):
Songs that I've done it on the toilet on my heart, honestly,
on my heart, on my toilet, on my heart and
what's that gette world?
Speaker 4 (41:33):
I did that, and you know I voiced.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
Memod them and then when I went on the toilet,
on the toilet, so then when I went into back
into the booth, I go, bro, I've got an idea.
Speaker 4 (41:40):
Can we do it like this, this, this and that?
Speaker 1 (41:42):
And the guy goes wow, goes into the toilet for
almost twenty minutes and comes out with two songs.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
That's that's that's actually crazy. And I don't know why
it makes me feel yuck. Like now, if I listen
to those songs, I'm just going to know. I'm going
to know it's like those people that pick up the
phone and talk on the phone, well on the toilet,
I just don't do that.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Listen to me, You listen to these songs, You're going
to be like WHOA. Yes, I'm telling you.
Speaker 5 (42:08):
Man out there struggling with the Rods Block.
Speaker 4 (42:13):
Just go to the toilet, guys.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
So you know, Drake, Drake, I'm telling you man, I'm
not the only one out there.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
And that wraps up another week of Producer picks sharing
the best bits of Stacy's and Charlie from the past week.
They'll be back six you on Monday, but if you
miss anything, be sure to check out the full show
pods and also the off the Record. This week, Get
off the Record, Stacy's Are and Charlie actually managed to
get themselves in a bit of
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Thanks for listening to Flavor Breakfast Charlie Live every weekday
from six am on Flavor
The Flavor Podcast Network Flavor Breakfast producer.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Jodefano, I hope you're having a great start to your weekend, producer,
and here taking you through the bisbits of Stace, Azerra
and Charlie from the last week. Charlie was away for
a few days, spending most of the time on the toilet,
but Friday arrived and the full team was back together.
Kicking off this week, Stace came up with a new phrase,
social media emotional intelligence. We all know about your other
emotional intelligence, but this is directly for social media, the
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ability to read between the lines when it comes to
what people are posting on social media. Stace and Azira
get river to the lines pretty well. But Li's just say,
Charlie not so much.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
So another thing that you might care about it is
social media.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
But I want to.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Talk about social media intelligence. So you talk about intelligence IQ,
you talk about sort of emotional intelligence EQ, but what
about the EQ you apply to social media so it
becomes social media? And tell for instance, I reckon that
(01:04):
some people they apply a kind of emotional intelligence to
social media so that they pick up things like a
friend of mine, I was looking at how it was
posting last week. I don't see him a lot. I
haven't seen him in person for ages. I was like, Oh,
I don't know, is he okay? Like he seems really
angry and he's like starting fights with everyone. And then
(01:24):
a couple of days later, he goes, you can always
tell how I'm feeling by my posting on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
And that's the thing you've got.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
To remember, Like before getting offended with someone starting a
fight with you go, oh, they actually okay, you know
what I mean. So that's an example of you go,
you're using emotional intelligence on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Oh okay.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Like, for example, you see a friend, right, they were
all about hurl him and their couple as a couple
on social media.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Then he goes the next couple of days just post
on themselves.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Yeah, they go, that's exactly what she's talking about. Looking
a little deeper, it's for me. I feel like it
finds me. Not my fault. I've noticed that you've unfollowed,
or they haven't liked your photo, or you haven't posted
them in six months.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Not my fault. The information just presents itself. Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
I would love to be all up in everyone's business
if I could, But you know, that's the best I
can get. So I would say my social media intelligence
is actually really high, and I think I can speak
for you, Charlie.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Yours is very low. You don't know what on the internet.
You don't. You don't.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Stace and I are the ones that like it's pretty obviously,
you know, we see those changes.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
You're looking a little deeper, seeing through the veil.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Like I said to someone recently, I go, oh, hey,
I think that've broken up. Oh no, she hasn't told
me that, mm hmmm.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Or she did.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I said, oh, she hasn't posted with them for a while.
I just haven't s going away differentlyan without them.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
She tacked to it.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, no they have. They're broken up a few months ago.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
On Tuesdays, I'm so my My social media intelligence is
so high that I know when someone's not actually on
holiday and they're posting on photos.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
That's social media intelligence. This is this is buzzy because
I know.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
When they've over it to their photo. Social media intelligence. See,
I don't really take a deep dive in through things
like that.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
You know, your social media i Q is not great.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Because guess what he's doing on social media. He's re
rewatching his own story ten times bro.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
That's our secret change change.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
The teammates actually created a quiz to tiss your social
media and emotional intelligence. If you haven't checked it out already,
be sure to hear long to flavor dot co dot
inzi and see what your EQ is. School holidays are
just about over. But three out of four of us
on the two AD managed to go to some sort
of camp without realizing what it was all about.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
So what is going on?
Speaker 5 (04:06):
That's what I thought as a we eight year old
child when arriving to this holiday camp.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yeah, so I was just saying, three out of four
of us here have had this experience of someone in
our family. In my case, it was my sister. She
was like, yay, I'm going on school holiday camp. I'm like, wow,
you're lucky, and so she's going with the neighbors. What
she didn't realize and what Mum did not check the
detail of I'm gonna say, sorry, mom, Dad wouldn't have.
(04:38):
We didn't live with dad at the time. What they
didn't check was that it was actually a Christian faith camp,
which is fine if you know what you're doing, but
in this case, she didn't realize that it was the
whole cope up. But the whole theme was about being
on Christian camp and you Azara did.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
What I'm big to go on it and I ended
up at a Christian camp myself. So in my defense,
I went to Tortada Springs. That was a camp that
we did with my school, Harrisbool Primary School, and there
wasn't Christian at all.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
It was just normal camp and so I loved it
so much.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
It had like the second largest hydro slide in the country.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
That's where you want to go.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I want to go back, man, Like I had just
done it maybe a month beforehand.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
So you know, when when being asked what do we want.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
To do for school holidays, I said, I want to
go to the Tortada Springs again.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
That was amazing, But so it.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Was actually a Chich camp and you're not a Chich
family and you had to do a Bible study and
all of that.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Did you Yeah, But the way we learned that it
was a Christian camp, which, by the way, what are
you up to, mum, because I've looked up Tortado Springs.
It's literally called Tortado Springs Christian Center.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
But then sometimes schools just hire them and that this
isn't for a school camp. Yes, okay, but Mum didn't.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I mean she had to sign me up, so she
would have had to see I'm like.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
So, how did you figure it out that you're actually
on a Bible bar?
Speaker 2 (06:07):
You know?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
That first night we had finished dinner, we got a
little hot chocolate and a cookie and we went to
the big auditorium. It was fine, did that on the
first camp, except we started breaking into songs.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
We're in sight. We were already in our groups.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
So my little brother, who would have been on his
six at the time, he was all at the front.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I was near the back of the big kids, and
we'd broken a song. And as the.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Songs were going and all the kids were standing up
holding their arms up, they had the lyrics on the
screen and I, in that moment, realized we were singing
worship songs. And my little brother, let me tell you
the side, I was bombasted. He literally from the front.
It was like we knew we telepathically. We looked at
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each other. He tuned around with the thanky is because
I convinced him to I'm with me, and he looked
around at me.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Like, what have you done? What have you done?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
So of course we had to, you know, fill out
books and do quite a bit of talking about God
and our relationship with God.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
So it's all good if you know you're doing it,
but you didn't know you were doing it, and I
can't believe that. So my sister, you and your brother
and Anna, and that happened to you as well to me.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I went on a too, like an overnight Easter camp,
but it was called amped camp, like it wasn't actually
called Easter camp, it was it was told it was
like the junior version and was yes, human eights, and
they described it as intermediates from all over christ Church, cream,
heaps of sports activities, music, dance and challenges and good food.
I didn't get the memo. And until the same thing Zara,
(07:45):
we were they're singing songs and then the lyrics and
then it was all just I don't know what was happening.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I think that's the catch is that they highlight all
the slides, the flying foxes, the beach trips. They owned
them like camp, and you get there and then it's like, hey, as.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I say, it's fine if you know that's what you're doing,
but why are so many of these children just going
there and going, wait, what.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
My mom's and a campground they owned. It was just
at the showgrounds.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Oh that's crash.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Camps are like, especially the Christian camps. Thats where people
going home. This one time at Christian camp.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Oh, I don't under start that it was. It was
still fun. I still went on the higher slide like,
we still did all the things. I just also had
to write in a book about what God meant to me.
And there's things I remember turning. I remember it so vividly,
even though I was young, turning to the girl next
to me in my group, and then I just go,
is this God camp doing the songs?
Speaker 4 (08:45):
And I was like, what did she say?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
She looked at me like, yeah, you idiot. And it's
funny because my grandparents were super proud of me for going,
because he was a pastor and my nana she ran
the account for the church set my papa worked at,
so you know, they were pretty happy about how I
spent my school holidays.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I will also say that my daughter's behavior was much
improved after she came back from church camp for a week.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
When she when.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
God is watching everything, He's like, I'll tell you this, man,
I bet you your grandparents and your parents like they're
geeing it up. You know, my daughter, she went to
this Christian camp. She wanted to go, she wanted to go.
She begged, she begged to go to this Christian camp.
It was honestly so much fun. That's what I have
to say.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
I don't even really remember that, only really the worship songs, which,
by the way, jams.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Let's not deny it. They're actually jams.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
The only downfall wasn't actually having to personally do the stuff,
the stuff about you know, God and Jesus. It was
some of the heart outs. The other kids were like
real heart out and that was that was where it
was like, I was like, oh, oh damn.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
My brother read the.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
DEAs and said, it's holiday, there's one of the just go,
let's just get out of the house.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
He got my h.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
We also figured out that since Charlie had lived with
his parents until he was married, that means he never
went through the experience of flatting.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Charlie.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
I feel like we've we've talked a lot about you today,
but this, well, this got me.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
Charlie has never flattered, and it shows.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
So you've never gone flatting because you lived at home
until you married your wife and then lived together, but
not with anyone else.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Nah, never never, I've never done it. So this is
why I muste all the questions like because obviously you
guys have flattered and when flatting rules are different. See
when I met, when I was you know, lived at
mom and dad's house for as long as it took
me to get married and find my own place.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
Which when you're twenty five or something.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yeah, yeah, correct, Like whatever wasn't a pantry was everybody's right.
So the milk, if it wasn't the fridge bro it
didn't have no one's name on it, It didn't have
beans name, didn't have no no.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Okay, okay, Charlie. No one writes their name on their stuff.
But usually you have a shelf each or you know,
what's not your suf and you don't use it.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Some things you do share, some things you don't.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
As there, I will say, in some flats people do
write their name on it. I'm glad I'm not in
one of those.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Yeah, because that is that is I suppose that if
you've got a flat man that keeps seating all your stuff,
I would probably start to get.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
To that like, you know, if I was flat with somebody,
because the way I grew up in my household is
that we all share everything, you know what I mean?
Like whatever we have is what we're.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
Going to eat.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
If I was to leave mom and Dad's house and flat, bro,
you would have I wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (11:55):
I would have survived. No, I would to survive, honestly.
Guess what happens. So someone's cooking their dinner. Oh, you
gotta wait first and first serve. You've got to wait
for them to finish before you can start. Same with washing,
You got to put your washing on you. You drag
everything you need to the washing machine. Oh, someone else
is already using it. You gotta wait.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Line it up. Leave your laundry barsket that line up?
Can't you just go? You you can watch wash my
blacks with your blacks. You could, depending on the relationship
you have, But.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
No, not really, like why not you just you do it?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
And then there's chores as well. And how you figured
that out in the flat?
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Yeah, what's your system in your flat? Thankfully I'm in
a really good flat. People actually just clean up. It's
shared here, is like he does that? Yeah? No, all
of us, it's and it's sheard very evenly. I've been
in flats where I've had to do a CHRR chart
in the past, charlling so you would have a job
each week or all the jobs for that week, so
(12:54):
that would be you included. Imagine if imagine if your
wife did.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
That to you.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Okay, but see this is the thing, like, if you
like you and your flat myths, you're just you're just
a clean freak and you just like to clean, Like
without even having to look at the chor chart, do
you have an obligation to clean or go back to
their chor chart and do these chores or what happens.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
If that's what your flat has decided to do. Just
because you're super clean, doesn't mean you don't do your
job that you got for the week, if that's what
your flat is doing.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
Nowadays, everyone's great.
Speaker 5 (13:29):
People empty the dish rusher when it's time to be emptied.
They changed the bin when it's time to be changed.
But you know, I've lived in flats where people didn't
do that, so that had to be on the on
the torch chart.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Can you be honest with me, have you ever had
an argument with any flipmants have.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah, definitely, it happens quite a bit people butt heads.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
I think it's the sharing the toilet too. There's that part.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Yeah, need to go, someone's in there. Oh well, got
to wait, you're not gonna like that day. He's like,
I don't like.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
I don't like their life.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
Charlie fletting As, maybe we teach you a thing or two, well.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Other shocking things, because like Iara is giving you one version.
I've been in the flat where there were seven rooms,
so there are lots of different people. This is in Duneda,
and we didn't have proper heating all of that, you know,
and one lady, you know, she always liked to go,
I'm cooking livers.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
Because it's that time of the month.
Speaker 5 (14:22):
I'm like, great, Yeah, I don't even know what that means,
but I'm like, that's just I hate that.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
She gave you that reason.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
This is what I mean, bro, for you guys, You
guys didn't choose the flat life, the flaoting life choose
you guys.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
You just choose the privileged life.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Yeah, I chose the I literally couldn't live at home.
Dad stays, Azora and Charlie therea caught.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Her partner Divin doing something in the shower the edge.
She just doesn't really know what to think about it.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
And I feel like this was rude. What my partner did.
I think it's rude to the flatmates because he's been
working on Papa Toy Toy and he saw a cash
converters and he went and had a little nosey and what.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Did he find? A bunch of golf clubs. Guys. He
lost his mind.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
He's like, oh, there's a tailor maiden here. They had
no idea what they was selling. He got the bundle.
I think it was like ten clubs for twenty bucks.
Pretty good, pretty good, And maybe he was right.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
They didn't know what on earth they were looking at.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
So I sold them for cheap and he was very happy,
so happy that when he got home.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
He took them into the bathroom. He said, what are
you doing? He had a shower with the golf club
so that he could clean them.
Speaker 5 (15:44):
He bought a scrubbing brush and he got in the
shower and yeah, it was like scrubbing them. So because
I went in there to get my washing and I
was like, what are you doing? He's like, I'm just
cleaning the clubs before this weekend, But.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Like, why could he just do it over a sink
or something? Back, was he like naked in the shower
with the clubs? Yes, he really loves.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
And I was like, what they hit we don't have
He could have done over the kitchen sink. So I
guess this was his way of because that is our laundry,
our bathroom as our laundry, So it's not really wrong
outside tap, I think we might.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Have one because you know what they say, bro, like
you've got to be one with them. You got to
be one of your clubs. You got to shower together
with it. Would you bother that? Or you walking and
he's doing something else?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Those are not the only two options. I'm just saying.
But I'm just saying, you've been washing his body? Yeah,
probably washing his body. No, it definitely struck me, But
I mean, good on him.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I don't know why when he gets excited over stuff
like that, I'm like, it makes you realize that we're
all just kids, we're adults now, because like that fires
him up, Like he was just so excited about.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
This golf clubs.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
I just didn't know that you should wit them, like
that's how you should clean them. I felt like this,
don't you use you know, the same thing is for
dusting or something.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Actually, no one can see Stacey's action. We'll leave it there,
will leave it.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
We found out something interesting about Stacey's family and how
they drive their cars, and more people seem to back
her up, more than I expected. I was always under
the impression that this style of driving was dangerous and
an automatic.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
You see some sites, I mean yes, in New York
for instance, but also in Toma, Kimikodo, Auckland driving I
have never seen this before. I don't know if I'll
ever see it again. So there's this guy and he's
driving a transit van, quite a big van. Must be
doing it for a job I think they had inside. No, no, no, no,
it wasn't a career. I have to say it's not.
It wasn't a career, but some sort of trade company.
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He's driving along on the motorway and he has his
run leg up on the dashboard on the right hand
side of the steering wheel. For one thing, props to
his flexibility. That's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
For another thing, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (18:12):
It's quite funny too, because I would assume you'd put
the lift leg up if you're you know, if you
are right right side dominant.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
Well, I mean because if you're right with your.
Speaker 5 (18:21):
Right hand, like when I when I use my if
I'm on a road trip, you know, I switched to
my left foot just to give the right foot of
break and it always feels like a little bit more
dangerous and not automatic. But what No, yes, yeah, but
I'm a big toe girl as well. I don't even
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bother with the rest of the toes is.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Just one and so they didn't even talk about tost No,
but two you don't drive with two feet, but.
Speaker 4 (18:57):
One drive to two feet? Did they do special drivers?
Speaker 5 (19:01):
But if you're automatically, No, no, people do that. What
you'd move your left foot over the break? Yeah, well
you have articles an accident.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
No no, not over like you know people have it poised.
Speaker 4 (19:14):
God, does anyone hear me? Use the thing you do this?
Speaker 1 (19:17):
No?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
But I know that it's a thing. Anyway, I'm talking
about the guy doing yoga in his car.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
I wouldn't know who this guy is because that's like
a special type of skill. Like you're in New Zealand,
like we're full of surprises, like you expect to see
something like that in like Las Vegas, because you know,
you see the most randomest things in the stage.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
Like yeah, but well chance reckons on the tics that
they hears cruise control and that's.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Why he's doing it. But why does he have his
leg up? Chance?
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Why?
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Chance?
Speaker 5 (19:45):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:46):
Why has he got his leg up on the dashboard?
If you're a passenger, that's it is way more comfortable
to have a leg up on the dashboard.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Not while driving. I love it.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
I haven't done that, but as a passenger, Oh yeah,
oh yeah, my partner hates it.
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Where does he hate it?
Speaker 5 (20:03):
You know?
Speaker 4 (20:05):
I don't, I don't know. Just doesn't like my legs,
my foot being up on the side.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I don't really care because you start drawing, because you
know what, you start drawing on the No, no, no, no,
I'm not that flexible.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Reach the windows.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
It feels like, I mean, it's comfortable as a passenger,
but I've never seen it in the driver. And the
other thing that I need to get to the bottom
of is anyone with me. Are you supposed to use
both feet if you're driving an auto car?
Speaker 4 (20:30):
I thought you were. I mean, not that I do,
but I thought that it was a thing that.
Speaker 5 (20:34):
Would be so dangerous in my mind is right.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
I'm with your I'm with you.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
So you left in your left foot isn't as good?
Speaker 4 (20:42):
I think I would be like, you know, do stop.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
You have to learn, you have to be better, you
have to be like you know, Formula one.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Race can you can't say anything you don't even know it.
I sometimes, honestly, I just drove roll on my big toe.
And sometimes you're saying the thing is bearfoot, beerefoot.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Before because that's uncomfortable driving with you sometimes man, but
then also driving well taking off your shoe solace huh yeah, yeah,
yeah sucks that like shoes could be a bit uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Came I, guys, threw down the tics. It's the thing
people drive with two feet in an.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
Oh no, there's one tics, there's one. Ticks proved me right? Please?
I want to know by we did get a license from?
No where did you get yours from? Mister one toe driving?
Speaker 5 (21:29):
I got mine and Tim's if you're wondering, because I
failed and put a cord here, so drove all the
way to Tims quick.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
One toe, So we're talking about driving.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
Stace claims that people use their lift foot to break
and drive with their right foot.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
If you're driving an auto, so it's supposed to be
a thing. Immediately, I get a message from my husband.
Pro drivers like me, yep, two feet, but you have
to train your left foot though, to break. I've got
I've got a list. He's given me.
Speaker 4 (21:59):
One bullet point.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
You can stop quicker because your foot is already on
the brake, so sitting there two cornering is smoother and easier.
I will say that. Let's talk about your hand on
the steering wheel where it is gotty.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
But you know the thing is, you know what's influenced
people doing this watching the if one show on Netflix
of the race car drivers, because that's what they do.
Speaker 4 (22:23):
Scotty, you're not a race car driver. You can use
your right footage strong enough, my bro to just you know,
do both well.
Speaker 3 (22:29):
Here on the text, I drove with two feet maybe
twice after a really intense leg day workout at the gym.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
It was an emergency. Another one says.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
I drive an auto with two feet and have done
so for the last twenty odd years. If I use
one foot, I jerk. Well, I jerk if I use
the left Yeah, But that doesn't mean that.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
It's not a thing.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Another one says Michael Schumacher broke with his left foot.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
Yeah, because he's an IF one driver. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Another one says, I driver two feet. I call it
balance fair play.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Well, there's a lot of people that drive with two feet.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
But you know this is why break. We're talking about
you two feet to drive. This is my friends Brocelly
tixing me personally. Yeah, Bro, I drive in one middle league, but.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
There is unnecessary man, Okay, okay, what about you, Chance?
Speaker 4 (23:12):
What do you drive with dragging up in the middle league?
What did you drive with?
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Chance?
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Please don't say middle league.
Speaker 8 (23:26):
This morning I dropped my partner off and I drove
my right football with my big toe. Yeah, a big
toe because I had just because I feet this morning.
But yeah, there's a foot wrist on the left side,
and that's supposed to be where your foot goes and
you use your right foot to break and accelerate.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 6 (23:45):
A lot of.
Speaker 8 (23:45):
People do, a lot of horse drivers because horse drivers
use both feet, and some people have that there's a
habit and they break an accelerate with feet. Anything with that.
I've seen it a couple of times, and I heard
it times when that's get into an excent, both feet
go down and they excelerate their break at the same time.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
What does that do?
Speaker 8 (24:07):
Well?
Speaker 4 (24:08):
Spin?
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Probably that's what someone says on the text. I was
always taught that driving with two feet is super dangerous.
When you need to break quickly, you could accidentally use
the wrong foot. And someone's just agreeing with me about
being the biggest issue. Well, yeah, I just think you
have to be more coordinated, you know, like you got
two feet on the two feet Do you know.
Speaker 5 (24:28):
What you've started, Todace. You're going to have me out
here trying to practice with my left foot.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
Yep, Well we all need to leave. I'm already not
very safe on the road.
Speaker 5 (24:37):
But you know, if you see the twy doors coming,
you better move out my way.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
So I don't know whether this is a good thing.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
To well, look another text, use another one. A lot
of people seem to think you cannot get a license
using two feet.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
That feet coordination is not part of the weird today.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I'm today is old. Like I found out that people
are still driving with two feet. I started driving on
two feet when I first learned how to drive. Bro
I've been drivering since I was like men thirteen, Yeah,
illegally with.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
The school holidays nearing Stace put a zorra to the
teast to see how well she could pare it. Because
people that don't actually have kids love to give advice.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
And feel free to tell us Zura what you would do.
And a couple of parenting scenarios because and my experience,
the people who are most sure of how to respond
in the parenting situation are people who have not yet
had children. It's very easy when in theory. So here's
a scenario. So you notice that your kid likes a
(25:43):
particular type of food, so you buy that in bulk.
You go, oh, this is genius because it's cheaper like that.
Then they decide immediately the next day they don't like
it anymore.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
What do you do? They're eating it? How it how they.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Can honestly, no, I don't know. Part that is the
parenting dilemma. So you can have this theory, my kid's
gonna eat everything, my cad is not going to be fussy,
and then in reality, how do you make that happen?
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Well, I guess what I would do is I would
get creative in the kitchen.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
I would still find a way to not waste that.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
Food, the package stuff that was just like bolt buying
over here, or.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
If okay, nothing's still going to go to waste, I'd
end up having to be the one that eats it.
The next time they want something they're not getting it,
I'll be like, no, no, last time we did this. Actually,
it'll be a three strikes and you're out. If you
think you're really into a food, cool, I'm happy for you.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I'll get it for you. If you turn.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
Around and decide you don't want it, it's just too bad.
Once you get to the third time of doing that, right,
chances right out.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
So even if they do this at like say six
years old, for the you know, until they're eighteen years old, okay, right, okay.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Six is they're having conversations with you. They know what's okay.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
So second scenario for you, a zerah not yet a mother.
So you have a two year old and I know
you like your sleep a zero. So this two year
old has actually been sleeping okay, but it has a regression,
and so what's a regression. Oh, let's go backwards. So
they are waking you up at one o'clock in the morning.
Then two o'clock in the morning in three like for
(27:21):
an entire week.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
So what are you going to do? They're just coming in, they're.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
A bit scared. They maybe gottics.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
They can just come into the bed as the bed
doesn't That doesn't bother me. I mean, what are you
supposed to do leive a two year old crying? Isn't
there like a legal Oh?
Speaker 5 (27:36):
I don't know, but I mean that I feel like
that is something that I have accepted, that is truly
a part of it. I'm not going to neglect my
child for sleep, but I would be really annoyed. I mean,
I'll probably take it out on my partner.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
Oh yeah, good to.
Speaker 5 (27:51):
I won't be angry at the child, I'll be angry
at somebody else. I'll find someone too, right now, shopkeeper, Yes,
the sun, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
Everyone does it. Everyone does it.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
That is that you've spoken a universal truth right there?
Speaker 4 (28:06):
Are you mad at me?
Speaker 5 (28:07):
No?
Speaker 4 (28:07):
I was just your kid didn't sleep last night? Okay? Good?
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Okay, good? But just quickly on that. Will you do
sleep training? Do you reckon for a baby?
Speaker 4 (28:17):
I will, I will, but you know me, I will
also give up. I've been there, so I've got nothing.
I got nothing. You know, I don't believe in it.
I'm like, yeah, ooh, your kid sleeps twelve hours. I'm
so happy for you. I know, yeah, I know, shut up.
Speaker 5 (28:34):
I mean even when I hear adults tell me they've
slept at twelve hours, like, no one wants to know
you're great sleep.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
I think you're idioz. I think you should maybe that.
Right now, I'll be dropping my kid off to your house.
I said it's gonna be okay, but it's not. Stays
Azora and Charlie.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Big changes are coming for the household. Charlie and his
wife kicking Noah there, four year old out of the bed.
And let's say Charlie got really excited when he first
heard this, until his wife, Sadie, then dropped a bombshell.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
Charlie, big changes in your house. That's right.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
So you know, my wife and I we are we
have no that's in bed of us. So Harold is
none now not a four but like he just letches
on to sayye and it's not in for you and
me as well, but more more as mum. Anyways, the
other day, Saynie and I had this conversation. She goes,
it's time for none to leave, to leave the bed.
(29:36):
I'm like, oh, okay, talk to me in the conversation.
I want to hear because you know, this is with
the opportunity for a daughter.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
That way. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Yeah, She's like, I just want to you know you
it's about your relationship.
Speaker 4 (29:54):
That's pretty cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
But then okay, okay, say let's let's let's do this.
She goes, yeah, you know, because the week challenge is starting,
and I'm like, okay, this is not where I thought
this conversation. We challenge is starting, and you know, sleep,
I want to prioritize my sleep because I'm all about
the gains, getting the.
Speaker 4 (30:18):
Muscles, gaining a sleep.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Because then she gave me this whole spiel about you know,
because of sleep, when you're sleeping and you're resting, it's
that's when the muscles are growing. And I'm like, bro,
I don't even want to hear this, Like, do you
even know who you're talking to you here?
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Woman?
Speaker 5 (30:32):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Like you you've only just started working out like yesterday, like,
and you're telling me about this. I thought you were
gonna want You're taking this conversation to another place, so
obviously that's not even in the plan, So like, I
think it's safe to say that we're cutting.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
It off at three. Yeah, there is baby baby stuff.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
She's going all right, that kid's out now, my body's
back to me sleep.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
She should be.
Speaker 5 (30:56):
Cooking you out of the room too. Don't be like, yeah,
well he just remember what he said. He rabbit holes
every night on the on the phone, deep diving into
random things like how big tornadoes get and speaking of
that man.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, it's about your performance in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Basically, I've gone pretty foot now, so the stamina's definitely there.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
Another week, another hip hop mystery presented by Stace. This
week focused on the female R and B group that
was popular in the nineteen nineties, Brownstone.
Speaker 5 (31:36):
Mystery.
Speaker 4 (31:39):
And you're gonna know about Brownstone. So Brownstone, of course.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
It's American female R and B group that was popular
in the mid nineties. The best known for this song
from nineteen ninety four, if You Love Me Love, that
was nominated for Best R and B Performance Grammy Awards.
They also had another song, You Made No Great Fine.
(32:03):
This was all off their debut albums and the rendition
of the Eagle song I Can't Tell You Why I
did well as well.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
So the three.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
Original members of Brownstone were Monica Dobe Charmaine, Maxie Maxwell,
and Nicole and Nikki Gilbert. So they sat out in
LA they met each other. After doing lots of auditions
around the city, they formed the group and then they
were signed to Michael Jackson's MJJ Music record.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Label about a year later, and that.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Originally been working on rap songs, going yeah, we're going
to be like Queen Latifa, but their first single and
the type of sound that they would go with was
actually chosen when they performed at a music industry gig.
Speaker 6 (32:46):
And then we went and performed at one of those
conferences and we did if You Love Me, and I
just remember we got like a three or four minute
standing ovation at the door on the song and they're like, Uh,
change your plans.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
That's the record. That's record, that's sound.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
And their debut album, From the Bottom Up, which had
if You Love Me and grape Vine on it, actually
earned that Grammy Award nomination and a Billboard Music Award
as well. So they toured around the world and then
one of the women, Adobe, she left because of.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
Health reasons bronchitis.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
But then the rumor was actually it's just that there
was a bit of drama in between the girls as well.
She got replaced by Kena Cosper, and then they've had
a few other members in the group, and then they
brought out a song that actually, you know, they made
a second album and they managed to get on the
Players Club soundtrack with this song.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
Don't Play Me Rong. It was actually a really good
song that was nineteen ninety eight.
Speaker 3 (33:45):
But from there some sad news that Maxie actually died
in a accident in twenty fifteen when she was forty six.
In twenty nineteen, they decided they were going to reunite
and reunite and they did a performance at the s
Since Festival, and then a couple of years ago they went, Okay,
we've got a new member and we're going to bring
out a new song called All I Want.
Speaker 5 (34:11):
It's crazy to me that they're like stuff, we're going
to put out music.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
Yeah, well, they said, we're just gonna have a different sound.
Now they've been doing some covers as well, like of
eight and amounton High Enough, all of those things, And
if you check out Brownstone dot com, you can see
that they've got another album back again that is coming
out as well, but we still think about Brownstone and
I guess the quintessential hit, the one that went well,
that's the song standing over for this one from nineteen
(34:35):
ninety four, if you love Me Brownstone, Because if you
don't know now, you know.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Kids, these days have defically gone a bit softer, and
I don't know whether these school yard sayings would still fly.
But man, you guys had so many examples.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
I felt like having sayings was a part of you know,
it was something you had. It was a requirement we
had to have as Kiwi kids growing up here and
old dear oh you know, talk to the handkers of
face saying listening and.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Sometimes you do a remix like this, I'm pitching the
pants for the first of the month.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
They spit in the eye for being so sly. I
love that one.
Speaker 5 (35:11):
What about you, Tony, What what school did you go to?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
And what was the saying you always said?
Speaker 7 (35:17):
I went to Cleveland Park Primary. I'm at the age
of nine. That's about twelve months. We go and play
for many are a rugby club.
Speaker 9 (35:26):
Every time we take out board, everybody all meets up
and we start walking to school. But these are these
are saying and one of the boys always used to
stay because you see the concrete slaves, they got cracks
in each one.
Speaker 7 (35:40):
I'm on the foot of a concrete foot path. And
the one we used to say a lot or he sages,
you stip on the crack, you marry a rat, to
step on your eyes, to marry your grass. So we
try to keep on it because.
Speaker 9 (35:52):
He always had to be lunch and he had to
see his lunch with twelve boys.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
You marry the grass? Did you say, you.
Speaker 7 (36:00):
Step on the crack, you marry a rat, You step
on the grass, you marry you ut?
Speaker 5 (36:04):
But I haven't, and it somehow that translates to him
having to give you guys lunch.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
I just want to say, when you know, the step
on the crack, marry a rat. That was really really
stressful when we were kids and our cult saca no.
But the boys next door the surname is Rat, So
like Mary a Rat. That's like, oh my gosh, you
have to marry leon rat.
Speaker 4 (36:29):
Like that. Those steaks are high, man, I love that. Tony.
What about you, Michael? What school did you go to?
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Him?
Speaker 4 (36:36):
What was the popular one that you guys were.
Speaker 10 (36:38):
Saying, You know, I went to go to high school
and popular.
Speaker 9 (36:42):
Saying, especially when we were.
Speaker 10 (36:44):
Walking to and from school and around town when we
saw other rival schools out and about, like say college
or Colornene or Intllegiate, was got our problem on?
Speaker 5 (36:58):
You know, I know what was sort of the eye
problem as well, you know sometimes and pokokoho would be
saying eye problems and so word there ah you right.
Speaker 3 (37:09):
Well, also also that the old did you get eyes
for breakfast or something?
Speaker 10 (37:14):
Did you say that, Michael, Oh, it's just got our
problem when they said to yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
Yeah, yeah, I love that one. See, I say, bring
their back.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
Why why, why?
Speaker 5 (37:23):
Why have we become adults and we just like no
longer say these sayings because they're so good. I still say,
punching a punch for the first of the month. Someone
said I can hear you, but I'm not listening. Oh
my gosh. Me and my brother used to rinse that one.
Uh yes, starting many fights back in the day.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
This love it.
Speaker 5 (37:42):
I'm the king of the castle and you're dirty rascal.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
That's another one we should just say. For no reason.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
Someone said I went to a Southern Cross campus and
when you went to fight, we.
Speaker 4 (37:54):
Would say, do you want to bettle?
Speaker 5 (37:56):
I make your thumb cheeks reddle I feel like he
made that one up, or maybe there was just a
Southern Cross campus ting.
Speaker 3 (38:06):
Very specific would be I'm way back at marrying grouse.
Speaker 4 (38:09):
How would they? Yeah, yeah, no, not adding that to
my arsenal. No, that that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (38:14):
Growing up was you had to have these things focab,
not hire saying.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
Your bum cheek's red. Okay, it's quite visual. Wanna bettle,
I'll make your bum checks redd.
Speaker 5 (38:23):
I'm like, I'm not sure that's going to get the
desired effect of wanting a battle or someone.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
We had such an influx of saying. So we've chucked
up a set us on our Facebook. If you have
any more you can think of that wasn't she here?
Be sure to hear along to the Flavor Radio Facebook page. Lastly,
come Friday, Charlie is back with us and he has
a new theory on how to get rid of his
writer's blox when he's been writing his music.
Speaker 5 (38:45):
As you know, Charlie, he is actually a singer. I
mean he is in three houses down. So before he
was the Ranio guy.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
He you know, was known for that.
Speaker 5 (38:56):
And it was quite interesting what you revealed to us
yesterday about how you write songs and how what helps
you write songs?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Yeah, well it's true, you know the music, you need
to be inspired, right, so.
Speaker 3 (39:13):
You know, even if you started off the wrong place, baby.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Yeah, you know, if you that's right, and this is
what I'm talking about, you are definitely right, Stace. Like
when you're in the studio, right, sometimes you get to
a point where your creative juices are not there.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
Right, it's much freaky.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
It is because you're like, oh my gosh, we've paid
for the studio.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
Yeah, the time don't stop for no one.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
And that you know, the guy that's behind the desk,
he doesn't care whether we've got any material or not.
He's still getting paid. So you know, it's on us
to come up with something.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
So how do you break through that? This is? This
is the magic.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
Like I could have absolutely nothing, and I find myself
scrolling through the phone to find some inspiration to you know,
to get me going. But then it's not until I
go to the bathroom to the toilet, you know, and
I have an acoustic guitar and this is I.
Speaker 4 (40:07):
Am not take a guitar into the toilet.
Speaker 1 (40:09):
Yeah, it's a massive toilet in the in the studio
and I take a guitar into the toilet and I
just played like the most simplest course while I'm on
the toilet. It's because the acoustics in the toilet. It
just it gives you this. It influences me.
Speaker 5 (40:26):
You do realize you could just go in there with
the guitar and not go to the toilet.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
No, so it inspires you.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
You know how you sit on the toilet and you're
just like, Broth, No, you are. You're in a happy
place with your guitar. I have the guitar and then
you know, you're quite No, I don't know what's that feeling.
It's like you're almost you're looking forward to this. So
when you're when you're happy and you're looking forward to
doing what you gotta do, and then you have a
guitar on your lap, broth where it's just come to
(40:53):
you and.
Speaker 5 (40:53):
Honestly tell me that when you okay, you you did
have the runs the last the days.
Speaker 4 (41:00):
Yeah, any any songs come from that? No?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
No, because that that that was the runs that I mean,
like you're in you're sick, but this is fun.
Speaker 4 (41:09):
So fun.
Speaker 3 (41:09):
So I think what you're saying is you are literally
getting rid of Yes, that's right, ideas that lending new.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
That's what I'm saying. And you know I'm not lying.
And I've done that. I've written two.
Speaker 5 (41:23):
Songs that I've done it on the toilet on my heart, honestly,
on my heart, on my toilet, on my heart and
what's that gette world?
Speaker 4 (41:33):
I did that, and you know I voiced.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
Memod them and then when I went on the toilet,
on the toilet, so then when I went into back
into the booth, I go, bro, I've got an idea.
Speaker 4 (41:40):
Can we do it like this, this, this and that?
Speaker 1 (41:42):
And the guy goes wow, goes into the toilet for
almost twenty minutes and comes out with two songs.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
That's that's that's actually crazy. And I don't know why
it makes me feel yuck. Like now, if I listen
to those songs, I'm just going to know. I'm going
to know it's like those people that pick up the
phone and talk on the phone, well on the toilet,
I just don't do that.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Listen to me, You listen to these songs, You're going
to be like WHOA. Yes, I'm telling you.
Speaker 5 (42:08):
Man out there struggling with the Rods Block.
Speaker 4 (42:13):
Just go to the toilet, guys.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
So you know, Drake, Drake, I'm telling you man, I'm
not the only one out there.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
And that wraps up another week of Producer picks sharing
the best bits of Stacy's and Charlie from the past week.
They'll be back six you on Monday, but if you
miss anything, be sure to check out the full show
pods and also the off the Record. This week, Get
off the Record, Stacy's Are and Charlie actually managed to
get themselves in a bit of
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Thanks for listening to Flavor Breakfast Charlie Live every weekday
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