OFF THE RECORD: Charlies SMEQ has increased!

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On today's episode, Charlie is really proud of himself for improving his social media emotional intelligence after noticing something on a mates posting habits. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Flavor podcast Network.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
You're listening to Stacis Zurah and Charlie's off the record.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's your record?

Speaker 3 (00:11):
Welcome to off the record with Staci, Zarah and Charlie.
This is where we bring things they didn't go on
the radio because sometimes they simply can't because you know,
Charlie could be stuck with a deformation case. Again if
you don't know, it's where Charlie's not allowed to well,
anyone's allowed to bring up someone's name, and she's.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
Quite bad at so it just slips out of my mouth.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Man. But you know what, I learn a lot from
you guys, eh, And this is something that I learned
and now I can't unsee it every time I'm looking
at people's pages.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
What's it called again, the sm EQ.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
We made it out Social Media Emotional intelligence.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
So it's when you're like reading and between the lines. Yeah,
because you tend to go read things at face value.
It's also sort of how you are as a person.
That's what they said, So that's what it is, and
we're like, oh, okay, so what I see there is
that they haven't posted their partner for a while, So
that means they're not together anymore, or it's complicated, or
they're thinking about it, or you go, I guess you

(01:12):
know when people say, for an instance, you wrote just
one one person's name, Manu and you know, rest in
peace or something. So that got Manuvatua having people go
hello you did, which wouldn't work, but it was another
memory of family, so you know, just like those little
subtle extra details.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
And see now every time I'm like going through people's pages, noticing,
noticing things, and this is one page in particular.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
There's this girl, right.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
And I had to look through her page because I
know for a fact that she's all about, you know,
her children and things that especially when it comes to
White Sunday, and this time around, like her White Sunday,
her White Sunday pictures were of her sharing her in laws,
like sharing the kids, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
But that's not that's not like they weren't there. They
weren't there. They were in there physically, they were shy.
So that means she wasn't there, wasn't there, Well, what
does that mean? What is your telling you? It didn't
mean anything?

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Like you know, like I said, but it wasn't until
I skipped through to the next story. And then I
seen the emojis with the crying and the sad face
and the heart broken you know what I mean. Like,
so they're re sharing all these videos of their children.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
At White Sunday.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
They're not attending, okay, but the emojis is giving me
the impression, the impression that something's not right, something's not happening.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
You know that's obvious.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
Don't give yourself obvious.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, I think crying heartbreak emojis you're saying in the
love life they've clearly, you know, had issues with the
partner slash. They're not with them anymore, which is why
they didn't get to go to White Sunday.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, boom there.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
How you think you are talking us through it? I know, No,
we just saw it a million steps.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
We're in the same light now, guys. You know I'm
here with this. He's just trying to prove. Yeah, and
then he understands.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
You know, Another really telling sign when someone's going through
it is when they are resharing quotes.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, just people just on the quote vibes.
But then they all like, you know, the quotes could
be taught recently exactly read the quote.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
They usually has drinked it someone they're not posting that
quote usually just to inspire.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
Not all the time. Some people do to inspire others.
Damn it.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Ones that I like when people go, you can try
to take me down, but I'm stronger than you realize,
and I'm like, what happened?

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, and I'll be I'll be honest.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
I used to post quotes when I wanted attention or
I wanted that person to see, like, yeah, I don't
have the balls to the woman, balls to tell the
guy you're actually doing me dirty and you're a piece
of shit and I hate you. So what I do
is i'd find a quote, and I would find a
quote that's that speaks on that situation. I had a

(04:07):
few poetry pages that I followed and then I would reshare,
and then your caption will be like something, oh nothing
I just posted. Oh okay, you don't want to write
like after SHU fits wear it?

Speaker 1 (04:17):
No? Okay, yeah, thank you for trying that. I remember,
I'm just the I'm just the lunar.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
I'm just on the bench at the I'm not a
starting lineup at this whole Is it me a thing
I did?

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Okay? How about this? I made a caption to one
of my Instagram's posts where I looked really good, duh,
that's what you're doing when you're trying to make someone
angry and jealous. And I'd been done dirty by this guy.
But I said play with my hair, not my feelings,
which I thought was so cool and witty and smart.

(04:49):
But someone commented and said play with your boobs, not
your feelings, and I was like, okay that Bagfid Massine.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
I was like, wow, yeah, so I'm slowly picking up
on these things. Guys. See the quote ones, here's a
reason for everything. If you think of it like that,
that's what's exhausting. Your husband's not on Yeah, that's why
he goes. Is this what people spend time doing?

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Okay, let's see this is the thing. Zara and I
are a lot younger than Stace. But Stace is in
the no. She knows she's up there, bro, she's she's
there with the kids.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
She has to know this stuff.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
She's she's working overtime because Scotty doesn't have social media.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
Thanks for listening to Stace, Azara and Charlie's Off the Record.
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