November 21, 2024 • 6 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Flavor podcast Network.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
You're listening to Staycissura and Charlie's Off the Record.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's your record?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Welcome to Off the Record. You are weather Zi and
Schalie this morning. This is where we don't hold back.
We take the chains off. We are released. We can
talk about whatever we want. We can say swear words
like shit.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Ooh my mama, you're bad and you are bad area
because I blame you for this. So yesterday we had
a meeting right straight after work and we needed to
kill time. So I said, you know, I'm gonna go
get a message and you get Oh, go to the
one just down the road from work. So this one
literally just down the road. You can walk there, right.
(00:45):
So I'm like, okay, then I'll take your advice. I
google the place, I find it, I give them a call,
I book and for ninety minutes because I'm like, you
know what, this will give me some time, you know,
just to stay around town. And because our meeting was
like quite local, I get there right. The receptionist answers
the phone, this is when I'm booking. It's a male,
(01:05):
by the way, and I'm like, okay, he must just
be the receptionist. I get there and it's the same receptions.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
He goes follow me to the.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Room, and I'm like, Okay, maybe this is part of
his job where he gets to take the shows. Because
I've seen ladies and all that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So
I'm thinking, oh, he's just the broces doing his job.
And then he'll go back to that and man the desk.
So then I'm like, okay, I mean that's really truly Charlie.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
How How busy is a massage parlor in Central City,
especially on the block that we we work on, And
it's what eleven thirty in the morning, Probably.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Not that busy.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm not gonna lie. It was pretty busy. It's pretty popular.
It's pretty popular, maybe because it's by lots of our work.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You go in there, it's pretty flash. It doesn't look
really telling. Well okay, I'll put my hand up.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I've never been I know. I've just seen this for
seven years that i've worked here.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
It's one of those like a hidden jim to be honest.
I get there, Zoo, and then I had to ask
the question. I had to ask him. I'm like, excuse me,
you messaging and he's like, yes, yes, At that moment,
like and honestly, I have a lot of friends, so
they judge me on this.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I have a lot of friends who are gay. I
have a lot of friends.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
You know, Charlie, you always do this, you carry on
carry and I love them, I have family, I love them.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But I mean for me personally, that was a little bit.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I say, why is it? No? But why is it?
Because to me, I don't I don't understand because obviously
for me, women would do my messages.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Yeah I know that, but dant majority of the masseuse
woman like, if you're going to do these, so what
is it about having a male I don't know. I
couldn't put my finger on it. And you know what,
I'm just like, what the heck? I don't care.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
You know, you're not going to say you're not going
to say no, Yeah, you're gonna remember they're professional and
it was respectful everything, but they're not going to not
be But I'm telling you, like, you know what, Actually
I needed that I needed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I needed his strength, the brute strength to like, because bro,
I've been complaining about my lawyer back for a long time.
But the message that I got on Tuesday, I had
the that.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I needed the strength of a male, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Like I had the I had the ladies stand on
my back and it didn't even know effect not like
you can even took my back. But this guy didn't
even need to stand on my back.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I was just straight with the thumbs.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
With the thumbs, bro, like getting into this pressure points
and I'm like, bro, you are the man. You are
the man, Thank you for this. But when I left
the message place, I just couldn't really put my finger
on it. Like as to what you know what you know?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Way I think it might be because you know, as
a woman, uh you know, I'm speaking for myself and
probably quite a few other women. Men they just have
that vibro they have that men make.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Us feel uncomfortable for no reason.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Like nine times out of ten, it takes the You've
got to build trust with males in your life before
you feel comfortable around them. How do you think we
feel like day and day out with any male? So
maybe you being in that position where you're vulnerable for once,
do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Please, because to me, I'm not that feeling you're describing
that you can't put your finger on it. That's a
very familiar feeling for women and for me for some reason, yeah,
and for some reason, I don't know why. I can't
put my finger on it. Sometimes I just don't feel
comfortable around men because I am more vulnerable than someone
like you, and you would then put in a position
(04:47):
of Wow, I'm actually this is a vulnerable place to
be and I'm around a man, and this man is
close to me, and I don't have the power in
this situation.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I feel weird vulnerability than anything else.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
And you didn't have the control in that situation or
the power, which is something that is unfamiliar for most men.
That's a a but that's the facts though, Whereas for me,
I'm like, fuck, oh, I just said the iff word.
Oh my god, I forget it's off the record. I
figured it's off the record. See what I mean? I
do swear when I get patiently this. Yeah, And that's
the thing. Like for me, if I was to go
(05:21):
get a message, but that feeling, it would be there,
and I'm not unfamiliar to it, so it would be
fine for me. I'd like, okay, so you're fine. I
feel like that when I'm walking in a walking down
a quiet street.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
My guys, I'm so you can mind me with you know,
same sex message, right, What if it was like a
male I wouldn't mind because, to be honest, I'd feel
less comfortable being less uncomfortable being in that situation with
a man because he's a paid professional, right, And it's
actually a safe place to be somewhere that people know
I've booked, Whereas I would.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Rather be with a male masseuse than just walking down
a quiet street and knowing that there's a guy walking
across the road behind me. Imagine it being like I
don't know, the evening, sun's going down and it's like
across the street. They're across the street. I don't know why,
but I always think about where I am, my surroundings,
how close they are to me, you know, how far
I've got to go. I look at my phone usually
(06:14):
and beer in mind. This is just the two of
us on a street and there's still sunshine.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
It's good to get a different outlook on the seat. Yeah, yeah,
I understand it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Nice, Thanks for that. It's all good. We got deep.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
We don't usually get deep and off the record.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
No, I mean it.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You took it to a different place, which is like Wow,
we have an understanding.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Yeah, hey, there you go in the Beninia.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Thanks for listening to Stace, Azora and Charlie's off the record.
Catch them live every weekday from six am on Flavor
It's the Flavor podcast Network.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
You're listening to Staycissura and Charlie's Off the Record.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's your record?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Welcome to Off the Record. You are weather Zi and
Schalie this morning. This is where we don't hold back.
We take the chains off. We are released. We can
talk about whatever we want. We can say swear words
like shit.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Ooh my mama, you're bad and you are bad area
because I blame you for this. So yesterday we had
a meeting right straight after work and we needed to
kill time. So I said, you know, I'm gonna go
get a message and you get Oh, go to the
one just down the road from work. So this one
literally just down the road. You can walk there, right.
(00:45):
So I'm like, okay, then I'll take your advice. I
google the place, I find it, I give them a call,
I book and for ninety minutes because I'm like, you
know what, this will give me some time, you know,
just to stay around town. And because our meeting was
like quite local, I get there right. The receptionist answers
the phone, this is when I'm booking. It's a male,
(01:05):
by the way, and I'm like, okay, he must just
be the receptionist. I get there and it's the same receptions.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
He goes follow me to the.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Room, and I'm like, Okay, maybe this is part of
his job where he gets to take the shows. Because
I've seen ladies and all that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So
I'm thinking, oh, he's just the broces doing his job.
And then he'll go back to that and man the desk.
So then I'm like, okay, I mean that's really truly Charlie.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
How How busy is a massage parlor in Central City,
especially on the block that we we work on, And
it's what eleven thirty in the morning, Probably.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Not that busy.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm not gonna lie. It was pretty busy. It's pretty popular.
It's pretty popular, maybe because it's by lots of our work.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You go in there, it's pretty flash. It doesn't look
really telling. Well okay, I'll put my hand up.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I've never been I know. I've just seen this for
seven years that i've worked here.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
It's one of those like a hidden jim to be honest.
I get there, Zoo, and then I had to ask
the question. I had to ask him. I'm like, excuse me,
you messaging and he's like, yes, yes, At that moment,
like and honestly, I have a lot of friends, so
they judge me on this.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I have a lot of friends who are gay. I
have a lot of friends.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
You know, Charlie, you always do this, you carry on
carry and I love them, I have family, I love them.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But I mean for me personally, that was a little bit.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I say, why is it? No? But why is it?
Because to me, I don't I don't understand because obviously
for me, women would do my messages.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Yeah I know that, but dant majority of the masseuse
woman like, if you're going to do these, so what
is it about having a male I don't know. I
couldn't put my finger on it. And you know what,
I'm just like, what the heck? I don't care.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
You know, you're not going to say you're not going
to say no, Yeah, you're gonna remember they're professional and
it was respectful everything, but they're not going to not
be But I'm telling you, like, you know what, Actually
I needed that I needed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I needed his strength, the brute strength to like, because bro,
I've been complaining about my lawyer back for a long time.
But the message that I got on Tuesday, I had
the that.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I needed the strength of a male, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Like I had the I had the ladies stand on
my back and it didn't even know effect not like
you can even took my back. But this guy didn't
even need to stand on my back.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I was just straight with the thumbs.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
With the thumbs, bro, like getting into this pressure points
and I'm like, bro, you are the man. You are
the man, Thank you for this. But when I left
the message place, I just couldn't really put my finger
on it. Like as to what you know what you know?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Way I think it might be because you know, as
a woman, uh you know, I'm speaking for myself and
probably quite a few other women. Men they just have
that vibro they have that men make.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Us feel uncomfortable for no reason.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Like nine times out of ten, it takes the You've
got to build trust with males in your life before
you feel comfortable around them. How do you think we
feel like day and day out with any male? So
maybe you being in that position where you're vulnerable for once,
do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Please, because to me, I'm not that feeling you're describing
that you can't put your finger on it. That's a
very familiar feeling for women and for me for some reason, yeah,
and for some reason, I don't know why. I can't
put my finger on it. Sometimes I just don't feel
comfortable around men because I am more vulnerable than someone
like you, and you would then put in a position
(04:47):
of Wow, I'm actually this is a vulnerable place to
be and I'm around a man, and this man is
close to me, and I don't have the power in
this situation.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I feel weird vulnerability than anything else.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
And you didn't have the control in that situation or
the power, which is something that is unfamiliar for most men.
That's a a but that's the facts though, Whereas for me,
I'm like, fuck, oh, I just said the iff word.
Oh my god, I forget it's off the record. I
figured it's off the record. See what I mean? I
do swear when I get patiently this. Yeah, And that's
the thing. Like for me, if I was to go
(05:21):
get a message, but that feeling, it would be there,
and I'm not unfamiliar to it, so it would be
fine for me. I'd like, okay, so you're fine. I
feel like that when I'm walking in a walking down
a quiet street.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
My guys, I'm so you can mind me with you know,
same sex message, right, What if it was like a
male I wouldn't mind because, to be honest, I'd feel
less comfortable being less uncomfortable being in that situation with
a man because he's a paid professional, right, And it's
actually a safe place to be somewhere that people know
I've booked, Whereas I would.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Rather be with a male masseuse than just walking down
a quiet street and knowing that there's a guy walking
across the road behind me. Imagine it being like I
don't know, the evening, sun's going down and it's like
across the street. They're across the street. I don't know why,
but I always think about where I am, my surroundings,
how close they are to me, you know, how far
I've got to go. I look at my phone usually
(06:14):
and beer in mind. This is just the two of
us on a street and there's still sunshine.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
It's good to get a different outlook on the seat. Yeah, yeah,
I understand it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Nice, Thanks for that. It's all good. We got deep.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
We don't usually get deep and off the record.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
No, I mean it.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You took it to a different place, which is like Wow,
we have an understanding.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Yeah, hey, there you go in the Beninia.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Thanks for listening to Stace, Azora and Charlie's off the record.
Catch them live every weekday from six am on Flavor
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