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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Flavor Podcast Network Flavor Breakfast Podcast with stace A,
Zorah and Charlie.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
On today's podcast, you'll hear us ketch Up with Ganesh
from The Humble Yum Yum, and Jane and Bussi from
Black Creators Old All and when it.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Comes to school athletics, especially for your children, Oh, this
guy takes their cups smoking all the parents.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Yeah, way too much. And also is it stealing or
is it just you.
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Know, community sharing? You're here right here, Oh, good morning man,
and you're not wrong. Eh.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
I can walk out of the house, the sun is out,
and I'm like, oh, brah, I'm late automatically.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Do you know what I'm saying? Pidially is half true?
But I know what you mean. It's so light. You go,
What time is it? Did I sleep? I gotta go.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I gotta go, Guys, I need to update you. I
need to get it off my cheese straight away. First thing,
So you know how I've been talking about my dad's
dating life. Oh yes, yes, yes, So here he met
a woman en route to Nelson, where he's been doing
work down south, and she stood him up, as we know,
which I don't like, Yes, don't like her, not a
fan off to a bad start, and he was on
(01:08):
the phone with me yesterday and he has said he's
not given up with her. Yeah, so they ended up
actually catching up over coffin. He said it was fine
and he's hoping to see her before Christmas, but you
know he's not getting his hopes up.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Did you like what the vibe was when you when
they caught up.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
No, I didn't, But I don't think it's I don't
think she's the one based on his.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
Come down.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
If he didn't seem like wolf sparks are flying or
he would have said that, so it was just build ups.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
No, I think he's quite shy though.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
I think you are actually being in like a kind
of smothering parent.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
He gave me all of this information at his own
will after a few questions.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
But you're great, But I don't think she's the one.
You know, you didn't tell him that. I didn't tell
him that.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
You're definitely reversing.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
He said it was a bit awkward when they finally
saw each other in person, but he said there was
lots of people around, so that could have been why.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I'm not sure. See see what I.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Mean, Well, I know you've given that information, what sort
of conclusion are.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
You going to draw?
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You know what this is giving it it's hard to
date it in fifty it's giving.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
This is Asia's favorite new show. Wow your words, no mind,
stay mind. So this is relevant because it's I think
we can say for sure it's summer. We're seeing lots
of blooming flowers. I see people with hey fevers. Sorry
about that, but then I saw it. So when I
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know on Facebook saying no, officer, I'm not stealing in
the high Drangers, they were a gift. They are standing
on the footpath and the hydrangers, those big fluffy flowers
are coming out from obviously the front of a house,
but they're out on the footpath. Is a public Yeah,
pushing out a little bit on the foot pass.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
But you know that they are on the other side
of the things accessible from the foot path. So incredible. Yes,
my question is.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
As much as I'm not dubbing in that particular person,
she's just being honest about it. Is it fear game
to take flowers that are out on the footpath side?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
All right, miss me over the fence line, let's say that.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Yeah, yeah, no, But if it's like if you're walking
on the foot path.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
This is my thing.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
If you're walking on the foot path and the flowers
are like with an arms reach.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
On how you reach over the fence line? No no,
no, no no no, it's like your inside. Yeah yeah, and
it's and it's over the footpath, right. And let's just say.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
You're about to go on a special date and you're
walking through this date at a cafe and the flowers
are right there.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Pick me, pick me, take me?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Such a taking this flower. I am taking this flower.
And for me, I think this is not stealing.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
This is just you know, okay, there are a gift
from the path, this gift from nature.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, well I think it's stealing. I think it's stealing.
And so I feel very strongly about this because you
know how you know it's wrong. You get that feeling
in the pit of your stomach that you're doing something
bad hard because I have picked a flower before, don't
get me wrong, and I feel like I'm stealing. I
get a feeling like I look around, I'm trying.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
To make sure the coast is clear, you know, I'm going.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
The adrenaline starts and then I take sith think and
I'm like, you know, trying to sort of fast walk away,
and then I'm like, oh, not too far. That is
a clear indication that you know you're doing something you
shouldn't be doing, which anyway, No, I don't.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I have done it before because I don't care. I'm
about a snitch, man, I'm about a snitch real bad.
My nana does this so bad. Every walk we go
on together, we have a bouquet on the way home
to the point where she knows the streets, she knows
the houses. Okay, they have the plants she likes.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
She's been scoping it out.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
She's been living in pok A Core her whole life.
She knows where to go, she knows what time of year.
And this is the thing with you. She don't care.
She's got no shape. And I've talked to her before.
If she gets caught, she's like, I don't care, She'll
just have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
She knows people in your neighborhood. But Producer, Anna, you've
seen this be a neighbor issue, haven't you.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
I was actually walking home the other day and I
saw this lady. She was out doing a great job
looking after a garden. But she had like her a
little garden outside her front fence, and she had put
two signs up which were like nicely not just a
paper sign like she had got signs made saying please
do not touch my flowers because she had done, like
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worked so hard, and you could tell that she had
put in so much effort to make even the outside
on the street look presentable.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Fair, cool. And there's the thing that's still your house.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm pretty sure your property line goes after the fence line,
doesn't it go up to the pavement. I don't understand
how property only properties were, but I mean.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
You can have my weeds that are popping out the stage,
like I have flowers to offer us.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
No, the flowers are actually no, we do have flowers,
but this slightly like sort of come over our fence,
but from a like a public property, so it's not
like someone's our neighbor. You actually planted some color cover
saying I know you use cover cover, so I planted
something that you can have too.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
That's nice, sure, like I say.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Yeah, but on the text already, yeah, pick those flowers,
especially if they're over the fence.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Really for I don't know, I feel I feel nervous,
you know, the only thing I take, and I still
feel nervous about it.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Whenever I will be on.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
A walk and I see a lavender bush, I always
take a levender so I can snuff it while walking.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Even then, I'm like, you got to compare it to
like picking a flower like that's on the footpath, to
like plums fijos that are on the ground, like you
know what I mean, Like, yeah, yeah, when you're walking home,
like peak when it's peach season, when it's plum season, fijos,
You're not gonna just walk past the tree.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
You're gonna actually pick it. I probably wouldn't know.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Because I'm like, I know that if someone has tended
to a garden or they've put in the work for
that garden, you know, I don't want to go miss that.
If I can tell it's just a rogue plant that's
growing over and it's got something I want, I don't
feel as bad about it.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
But if I know that someone has put their love
and energy, just give me a yuse or no, yes
or no no. I don't think. Okay, what do you
guys think? Can you pack the flowers?
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Can take flowers that are on the street side, on
the footpath that you can see on the footpath.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Is that okay? Yes?
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Or no?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Eight two double h eight hundred full flavor. That is,
let's settle this. And the question is is it stealing?
If you take flowers from someone's garden but those flowers
are going over the fence line, you know they're on
the footpath side.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Is that stealing? They might be saying, the bill.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
K is me.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I'm going to say, and that's only because I get
a really nervous feeling.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
You think it's wrong.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, I get a feeling in the pit of my
stomach like I'm doing something wrong. If someone's put in
the effort for their garden.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
I don't really want to be mucking it up.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
I'm taking them. Man, you're like hocking rich it. It's
man if I can reach it. That's what she said.
What did you think that sounded?
Speaker 5 (08:13):
It sounded like, yeah, anyway, we have jack on the
lfe more than a jack. What do you reckon? Well,
you see those climbing roses. Someone stick out a pretty
high and if they're over the fence line, you might
walk into it and it'll poke you in the eye.
Now that's dangerous.
Speaker 8 (08:31):
For my reason being, I will pick that rosy take
it away, but only on the other side.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
Right, Just you got a fruit tree and your neighbor's
got a fruit tree, and the fruit starts palling off
on your side of the fence. Well that's yours. Yeah,
that's what Steven know.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Stephens says, our next door neighbor has some awesome apples
hanging over our side, which is fear game.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I think so, I think that's fear game. But you know,
in terms of the front of someone's town.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
No, but Jack saying that it's a health and safety
thing and you're just picking it the rose, so that
does poke someone in the eye.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
Yeah, okay, that Jack, Jack.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
I do want to know this when you pick the rose,
do you feel a weird sense of guilt?
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Um?
Speaker 5 (09:14):
You right, be honest, you do. You do a quick
scan see if anyone's.
Speaker 8 (09:20):
Wanting No, she just.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
Damn it's okay, don't give it, jack Man. Honestly, this
ticks on a two double O.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Sums it up perfectly.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
With what you should do.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
If you know someone has a manicured flower garden out
in the front hanging over it doesn't really matter.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
You know, it's not gone rogue.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
It's clearly you know, looked after, and someone's put a
bit of energy into it. It says I would ask
first before packing the flowers.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I think that's a nice middle ground. Charlie's like, nah, no, no, no,
that's that's actually fair.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
You know what I don't like is when I've come
home from the shop a fifteen dollars okay, and they
go look at those ones just sitting there.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
They're not free? Are you too? I can't, stays Azora
and Charlie.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Now, this is yes, looking back at time at a
pretty pivotal movie, but it's also topical, just as of
the last couple of days. I'm talking about Boomerang. It's
a movie from nineteen ninety two. It's a romantic comedy.
It stars Eddie Murphy as Marcus Graham. But we've also
got massive stars in there like Halle Berry, Martin, Lawrence Grace, Jones, Eartherkit,
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Chris Rock, also Robin Gibbons. And I know the soundtrack
was massive, like give You My Heart and Don't Forget
End of the Road was on that soundtrack as well.
Boys to Men, Tony Braggs in Love should have brought
(10:59):
you home.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Your nussy. So this kind of gives you the vibe
of what it was about Boomerang. This movie.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
It stars Eddie Murphy as a playboy called Marcus.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
That never happens to.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Me, That stuff like that never happens that anybody except
from Marcus with me.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Oh Christy, no, it's just too soon. Like the only
reason stuff like that happens in the all the time.
So I pay attention to women.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Take it.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Yeah, but he gets his own medicine from Robin Gibbons character.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
Good morning, MICUs Graham, where's your pride?
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Where's your.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Mama?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Stars?
Speaker 5 (11:43):
So you can walk around look like.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
A chump, sad dad man. And that's Chris Rock talking
to Eddie Murphy. And then two other characters met in
this movie who are now in the news at the moment.
So that's Martin Lawrence listened out for him. Here in
a scene with Eddie Murphy is when they're in the
pool hall.
Speaker 9 (12:01):
Look, it's because of the white man's fear of the
social cultency of black balls.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
That one was kind of interesting that you see what
was I say?
Speaker 9 (12:17):
Where you're going in the pool table is the earth?
Speaker 5 (12:19):
That's why it's green.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Yeah, Okay, so this is topical because that is where
Martin Lawrence and Eddie Murphy first, you know, worked together
on a movie. And this week Jasmine Lawrence, the daughter
of Martin Lawrence, has got engaged to Eric Murphy, the
son of Eddie Murphy.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
There would have been like little kids the street, you
know what I mean, just chilling out. They've known each
other for a very long time.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Yeah, little kids.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Well, actually, Jasmine Lawrence sees that they actually met through
her uncle, not through their dad's you know, because time
would change, you know, but their head over heels and
so it all comes together and that is part of
why we remember this.
Speaker 5 (12:59):
Great maybe from nineteen ninety two boomerang.
Speaker 6 (13:02):
It's literally a boomerang, yeah, joined by a very special
special years from the humble Yum yam.
Speaker 9 (13:12):
Can thank you so much now, everybody, thank you so
much for having me in the studio.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
This is so exciting.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
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That is insane.
Speaker 9 (13:30):
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power to the fact that we can still cook for
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in twenty twenty four, crazy man.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
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Speaker 9 (13:45):
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I got five kids, seven days a week. Three meals
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Speaker 5 (14:09):
Yeah right.
Speaker 9 (14:10):
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Right.
Speaker 9 (14:53):
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Speaker 5 (15:04):
Man, I need to tell my wife to you have
to if you need to call it right now. You
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Speaker 9 (15:18):
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to be able to tell her this.
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You'd be able to do it, though, tell you. And
that's the beautiful thing about you know this menu. As
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it does feel a little bit overwhelming. And then, like
you said, when you're tired and you're exhausted and you
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don't have a lot of money to contribute, you give up.
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All right?
Speaker 9 (15:57):
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That's like us.
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Speaker 5 (16:47):
That's the how to guy.
Speaker 4 (16:48):
I love Yeah, I know how to eat and this
is delicious. Thank you so much, Thank you for having me, guys,
love you amazing.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
I just wanted to bring.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
Up, now, what about when kids are a complete mystery
to their parents because they have a really different personality.
I've had people say recently to me when they if
they see a picture of my daughter, who's sixteen, if
they only know me, they say, she looks like me.
But if they know my sister, they go, no, no, no, no,
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she looks exactly like her auntie.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
She does look particularly like Tash. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
And the weird thing is is their personality is quite similar.
And then my sister's daughter, I wouldn't I wouldn't flavor
myself to say she looks like me, but she's probably
personality wise a bit more like me.
Speaker 5 (17:33):
Wow. Interesting.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Well, there's the thing where you know, you guys both
have kids, and I would say that your kids are
so similar to each of you in terms of personalities,
but you know, you gotta think there must be parents
out there who have had kids who the polar opposite.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Yeah, sod't you say that you've got?
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Is it a niece who's really different to her maa
like way more quiet and reserved and not.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Oh yeah, yeah, no, it's definitely a thing.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Lots of people will have kids who are complete different personality.
I've got friends to say, Yeah, my kids into you know, mathematics.
I don't know how because it's like you having a
childhood's into mathematics, not your wheelhouse, not family wheelhouse.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
See, my mi kids are pretty funny as similar to
you space because I see my older boy Rob, right,
he sort of takes it after not not in a
bad way like my my brother, Like you know, he's
just real relaxed, like he doesn't care what police says
to him, Like it just goes in one eend, comes
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at the other type of thing.
Speaker 5 (18:38):
But like that's not something I have, like yeah with.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
That nons yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So he's just real relaxed.
Whereas Pilly, I sort of see this is something that's
that's funny. I see myself in him, like just a
real pain in the rear end.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
You know when it's yourself that is.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
I'm just like, man, I feel so for my parents
broke because like this child on mine I love, I
love the bit, but he just does my head at
ages because he's like you that specializes in that.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
So you would think that it would be easier when
they like you, but sometimes it's not. But what about
when they're completely different from you and and interested in
different things to you? It's quite facinating. Well will you
end up finding out about that? You go, oh, okay,
this is what we do now, and you know, try
to sort of understand.
Speaker 5 (19:26):
That, you know, because I mean as appearing, you just
go with it. You're going to just roll with the
punches man like.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
Yeah, they are what they are. Sometimes I just go
they let you know who they are.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Okay, Well, I hope they still don't like cricket because
I don't want to stand on the sidelines for six hours.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
They will definitely like cricket because you said that it's
just like me. It's like, I'm never going to reach yourself.
I'm never going to marry a guy who's into golf.
What was my husband really into when we got together?
Speaker 5 (19:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (19:52):
So, yes, your kids really different from you and personality,
love to hear about it.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
How does it work out? Man?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
What's wrong with crocket man police getting into cricket?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Standing there for five hours on a Sunday watching ten
year olds at a ball?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Yeah, just saying, and they sat most sports. It's pretty boring.
Why is this swarm of bees right here around.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
Rugby field just there for the orangers? Stays just there for.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
The IELs stace A, Zorah and Charlie talking about the
polar opposites between your personality and your kids.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
But I quite like this text you on eight two
double oh, because it's like me and my brother. It's
not the opposite between me and my kids, it's the
opposite between the siblings.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And that's the same
with me and my brother was very different. Yeah yeah,
Well he was a gamer. Growing up.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
I couldn't watch the game for longer than ten minutes
without getting a headache.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
It just wasn't for me.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Now he's in the army and he's mister fitness and
rolls it from he's literally walking the length of New Zealand.
I'm struggling to go on a walk. There we go, So.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
You don't g they week challenge Marty can relate though.
Marty says, my child is quiet and demure and studious,
and yeah, his mother is not well maybe.
Speaker 5 (21:13):
He gets it from from from the father.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
Or that all the grandparents and as that pops out,
all right, Yeah, isn't that weird?
Speaker 2 (21:20):
You know, I've even got my cousin who's nothing like
her parents, but she's like apparently our late granddad.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
Yeah, that's like a time thing as well. Like the
parents could be like the best, like they're so perfect,
then the child is just rebellious. They're like, see, do
you take after your papa?
Speaker 5 (21:40):
Yeah, I've never met him, but yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
Also think sometimes it's a response like one of my
friends she says, oh, no, you just have to beat
You're not mean enough to your kids like that. That's
the problem, as you have to be meaner to them
and then they're always nice to you.
Speaker 5 (21:55):
That's her idea.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
And also the kids who her parents who party a lot,
to go the opposite way.
Speaker 5 (22:01):
True, Yeah, it's not always party a lot. Kids go
to church.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
Yeah, and Ben says, where my kid is good, they're
like me.
Speaker 5 (22:11):
When they're not, they're like their mother.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Oh no, yeah, Benny, they says some advice for you.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
No, it's not me actually as an actual expert, which
is always better. So, Charlie, when you are encouraging your
kids on the sideline, tell me some of the things
that you say that you think are kind of helpful
for them.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Okay, So if my son's not really doing much on
the film, like, come on, Believe, get involved, Belly, come on,
get involved, Rob, come on, have a run, have him run,
get involved. Okay. So here's an expert.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
His name's Jason Assosa, and he is a coach. He says,
you know, he actually knows quite a lot about this.
So he says, here are a few five things that
sports parents can say to a young athlete to help
reduce the pressure and anxiety they feel before a big competition.
Here is number one, and listen to the way he
(23:09):
says it.
Speaker 10 (23:10):
Number one, I just want to see you work hard
and do your best, nothing more. Number two, You have
worked really hard for this moment, so go out and
enjoy it. Number three, today is just another day for
you to continue learning and improving.
Speaker 5 (23:22):
Number four.
Speaker 10 (23:23):
I love every opportunity I get to watch you compete.
Number five, focus on what you can control and let
everything else go, I like.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
The last one.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
Yeah, I guess whenever I see these things that it's
an American. I think, well, we just wouldn't say it
like that.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Yeah, but so I love every chance to see you compete.
You could just say I love I always love watching
you play here because I love watching you play. You
know that can go, you know, the kid can go, Wow,
You're really here for me, and it's not just based
on I enjoy it more if your results are better.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
I do tell my kids when they're about to start
or play a sport, you know, just go out there
and have fun. I do say that, But what do
you say after I didn't say much like you know,
I know seriously, I do ask.
Speaker 5 (24:09):
A quiet car right home. And that's better than how
you used to have.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
You used to do like that when when it was
with me and my dad, you know what I mean,
it was like I'll get all the coaching tips all.
Speaker 5 (24:18):
The way home.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
I'm like, bro okay, So he didn't see me set
up a try or make all these tackles.
Speaker 5 (24:23):
It's like it was for home. It was all about
getting a try.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
But it's different when I when the car rides home
with with my kids. I just make sure that they
feel that they've accomplished something, you know, and to.
Speaker 5 (24:37):
Quit, I like you.
Speaker 4 (24:39):
Yeah, also to peak too, really yeah yeah, And I
think that's the other thing too.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Our parents must think that your child is going to
be in and around like under teams.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
Yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
So so we try not to predict, yeh, and we
try to go yeah cool. Every day is a day
to learn, and it's true for all of us. Please, Okay,
there is a new list out of New Zealand's highest
earning athletes.
Speaker 5 (25:06):
Top ten. You guys ready for this? Okay?
Speaker 4 (25:08):
Yeah, I think you might be surprised. Number ten Aerin
Rotelift Okay, who she erin? Yes, she plays doubles tennis
and they reckon two point two million. Trent Bolt the
cricketer two point five million. I think Scott Dixon car
racing two point six million.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Is this including like endorsements or just actually salaries?
Speaker 4 (25:30):
They've had to do some estimates, but yeah, they're going
earnings over the Yeah, it must be all of it. Yeah,
because then you get to number seven, Ryan Fox golfer
three point one million.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
They Fox's son. Yeah. Fun fact, I used to play
like rugby together with them.
Speaker 4 (25:44):
Yeah, you probably thought rugby was going to best thing
in the end. Golf earns more money, as Steven Alka
knows as well. Also a golfer four point one million.
Joseph Parker at number five, they estimate he's earned five
point three million dollars this year.
Speaker 5 (25:59):
Shy.
Speaker 4 (26:00):
Yeah, yeah, might have forgoten about Danny Lee the golfer,
but apparently five point one million overseas Lydia Coe six
point three million, Chris Wood best Footballer eight point nine
million because he's saying for Nottingham Forest.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
And then at number one you probably think of who
it is Israela Desagnya.
Speaker 4 (26:19):
No, no, they think they haven't put israel Adisaanya in
the list, but they think one point two million, so
not on there. They also think probably Peter Billing and
Bleird Chuck would be on the list, but they can't
find any incomes. No number one really, come on, guys,
is an athlete own earning the most money? Roger to
Vassa Steven Adams, Oh god, he's.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Been all over those Powerade commercials and meadow Meadow Fresh
Yeah in New Zealand, In New Zealand, Yeah, this guys,
everywhere you're.
Speaker 5 (26:47):
Right, NBA, there's that. That's his actual job.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
He had signed a two year, forty two point seven
million dollar contract, so.
Speaker 5 (26:56):
They think this year twenty one million. Okay, do you
know what?
Speaker 3 (27:00):
But like he's like the highest earning sportsman, but he's
so humble, Like I just see him like wearing hunting
gears jandles.
Speaker 4 (27:08):
He probably has even custom made because of the size,
to be fair. But yeah, yeah, that's what I'm I
think you guys should think about. You guys not being
to guess that one. That's pretty bad.
Speaker 5 (27:16):
We're sorry, Steven Adams, I've seen you everywhere. Sorry.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
The back end of the year for a lot of
primary schools is athletics. You know, it's the athletics are
season for a lot of the primary school kids. Do
you remember athletics back in school, Like it's around this
time of the year.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Well, summer time.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I remember going to the one in Toucco that was
after school though, you know you'd go and do school.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
Oh yeah no, but then this remember that that quintessential
moment of Princess Diana going in the parents race. Yes, school,
it was all like it's such a break of royal proud.
Speaker 5 (27:53):
But those are all kind of yeah. She was.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
She was like, no, I'm going to lose this there
longly since she knew she she goes, I'm working out.
This is my moment because that's one of the fun
things they do at the end of the.
Speaker 5 (28:05):
School year as well. That's right.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
So somebody that we all know who's a who's an
amazing athlete, and we all know this, we get it,
we get it. Okay, he plays for the Warriors X
All Black as well. Roger to with us as sick.
I've seen him at his at his children's athletics.
Speaker 4 (28:22):
Team, basically doing a Princess Diana, right, he had his
Princess Diana moment. This is one hundred meter race when
the parents all come together and this is the moment,
like your kids are like, oh.
Speaker 5 (28:32):
My gosh, my dad is racing Roger.
Speaker 3 (28:35):
We all get Roger as the man tell me why
they go on Mark is it go?
Speaker 5 (28:42):
Roger smokes every parent.
Speaker 4 (28:44):
Because he's Roger to with us as shick like it
was loaded, it was stacked.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
He was.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
I mean, the others would just be happy that they're
in the same race.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
If you could just see the smiles on the appearance
faces like oh man Roger. Honestly, the first forty meters
he didn't stop, you know, I mean like maybe after
forty minutes and looks around. It's like, oh my gosh,
I'm smoking. I'm smoking him. I need to slow down.
Speaker 4 (29:08):
But you know, Diana just like took that when they
just slow doing this situation.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Though, if you are an athlete, you do want to
be that too serious guy. But then naturally you are
faster than most people.
Speaker 5 (29:22):
So it's like, you know you're gonna win, you can't lose.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
His mentality was like I didn't care if you're old,
you're young, You're still going to get the smoke. But
just imagine all the little kids like go daddy go
Rogers just like smoking everyone.
Speaker 5 (29:38):
I how old is Rogers charter their boy or girl? Yeah? Boys?
I think it is a desire, yeah, because like fast.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Yeah I know, I know, but man, what do you
you are right here?
Speaker 5 (29:52):
What do you do? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (29:53):
I think just to reference another moviem incredible. So they
let Dash go in the race and he's like it
goes so far ahead of everybody.
Speaker 5 (30:01):
They go slow down, slows down. He's like okay, they no,
no go fast again. You know he's in control.
Speaker 4 (30:07):
I think that it's an iconic moment for everyone at
the school. If you were there, if you're one of
those parents. We don't know what school we're talking about,
then let us know, because I'd love.
Speaker 5 (30:15):
To see it. Man, at least they could see that. Mate.
You know, I raced Roger. Oh, It's like I played
touch against Stacy Jones. Once I touched.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
It's right, I touched, you got you got cha.
Speaker 5 (30:27):
The latest celebrity goss from around the world wave a
breakfast oh m goss.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Oh man, Okay, this is massive, this is huge. So
Kendrick Lamar and Scissor have announced a joint national tour.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
My wind honest gars yep.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
So there head in the road together. It's called the
Grand National Tour. That's about all the details. We've got
the baby, I know. I imagine that. Kendrick Lamar and Scissor.
Speaker 4 (31:00):
That's pretty amazing. Now, some sad news for Eminem. His mum,
Debbie Nelson, has died at the age of sixty nine.
She had lung cancer and she has had quite a
long battle with lung cancer and finally passed away. Eminem's
fifty two now, and they've had a rocky relationship, although
you know, she's inspired a lot of his songs. I
(31:23):
guess he apparently called her out in that song cleaning
out my Closet, but you know Mum's spaghetti all of those.
Speaker 5 (31:29):
Yeah, well that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
She inspired a lot of the songs, and not in
a positive way, you know when you really think about
his music and whatnot. And you know, people in the
comments I was reading are already saying, oh, you know,
are you going to stick to what your lyrics said?
And that Hayley's not going to go to her funeral
and this was things that he said when Haley was
a little baby, and his lyrics so changed.
Speaker 5 (31:51):
Yeah, that's a bit silly to take someone back. And
also the reality of it.
Speaker 4 (31:54):
You know, she was sixteen when she married Eminem's father
and then she had him in nineteen six to, so
I mean she she was young. She was a very
young mother as well. Eighteen nineteen probably. Yeah, well that
is your goss. You know, center in the mall. When's
it too old to go get a photo with Canta?
(32:15):
I know I've seen asking for a friend. No, I've
seen adults do that. Yeah, you should do it. She
definitely do it.
Speaker 5 (32:21):
These days.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
Maybe twenty yeah, twenty bucks is ext y. Or don't
sit on his knee though there that's weird. I was
going to say that that would be weird.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
Whatever you did, don't sit on his knee and I'll
break his lat away wisp in his ear. I've been
a good little girl.
Speaker 4 (32:40):
Last year this event sold out as Jingle Beats was
Zany from Black Creatives, and it's back and it's bad.
Speaker 5 (32:48):
It's going to be amazing.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Would like to work a bud Jane and Bussy from
Black Creatives out there.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
My had of my Cela welcome, so thank you for
having us so Bussy, tell us what.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
This event is because it's sounds like my kind of
Christmas vibe.
Speaker 11 (33:02):
Basically, it is just where all African creators, all Black
creators come together and just bring together that nostalgic feeling
of Christmas, but with an African twist to.
Speaker 5 (33:12):
It, like is it like Afro Carol's Top Lily. I
can't wait.
Speaker 11 (33:18):
So it's a lot of dancing and how we take Christmas,
you know, like in the African community or with the
Black community is more of like just celebrations and dancing
and singing, and you know, we have a gymbi and goma.
Speaker 5 (33:31):
You know, people are playing.
Speaker 11 (33:32):
All that and it's just such a festive moment and
we want to bring that to New Zealand.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
And if you're you know, if you're scratching your head going,
I still don't quite understand the sound, Well, let me
show you. This is Christmas a bugle.
Speaker 5 (33:58):
Oh wow, this is a full band as well.
Speaker 8 (34:01):
A full band, yeah, one percent of full band. We've
got six musicians, all of whom are African or African descent.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
I would imagine for the both of you a real
beautiful thing.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
How much efro music and efrobeats has.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Taken off over the last you know, five years. It's
become so so so mainstream. You know, I think of
artists even like Tims you.
Speaker 5 (34:20):
Know pretty much in it by Burner Boy.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah yeah, so I never in a million years would
think Christmas and effort and then.
Speaker 4 (34:30):
Okay much for related Sunday night vibes, Jane. So you
know where do we go on Saturday night? How do
we get out tickets? So you go to mush Techs.
Speaker 8 (34:40):
Your tickets are there own much texts and where the
venue is the Tuning Fork which is right next to Spark.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Arena and then you could kick on, because kicking on
is the African way, isn't it? Yeah? Definitely Christmas, Yes,
and can you share with us tricks that you will
be doing, like what will you both be performing in?
Speaker 8 (34:58):
I will be performing Mary. You know, Wow, that's a
tough song.
Speaker 5 (35:02):
It is a tough song. It is a gorgeous she's
sailing it.
Speaker 8 (35:06):
And I've got a lovely duet partner, Josh, so that's
really stunning. And I'm also doing Santa Baby.
Speaker 5 (35:16):
Are all doing it like in the Star? Yeah? In
this type of stuff? Oh wow? The ballads.
Speaker 8 (35:22):
Some of the ballads are a bit less of a
look at like a guitar, sound like a slow African
sexy guitar.
Speaker 4 (35:30):
Yeah, I think I've found how I want to hear carols.
Speaker 5 (35:35):
Sometimes I just can't really vibe with them.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
But see what else are you're looking for to like
with some of your performance pieces.
Speaker 11 (35:40):
So I'm going to be doing oh come on ye faithful. Yeah,
I'm doing this one Christmas, I go.
Speaker 7 (35:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (35:47):
And I am also doing a silent noctune, which would
be silent Night, silent nocturnal.
Speaker 8 (35:56):
What hasn't mentioned which is so special is that some
of the verses are going to be in local dialects,
so some of them are on Igbos, some of them
are on Shunner.
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (36:07):
Yeah, so including our local you know, one of the
fifty four country languages.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
Yeah, and all brought together and are so lucky then,
cardor thank you so much for sharing your tickets.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
Yeah Warzani, which means come one, come.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Allan, Hey, I need to update you guys.
Speaker 5 (36:29):
You know how I was talking about.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
I said, you know, it's summer and I just saw
a friend on Facebook. Won't say who they are saying.
I'm not stealing officer, I'm just these hydrators were a
gift and she was taking them from the front of
a footpath. Did come over on to the footpath, and
she's a very sweet person, very good person, she mes
said to me. She goes, oh my gosh, Stacey, I
heard my flower photo on Flavor. Even though no names
(36:52):
were mentioned, I know it was me so funny good
as she though, given the variety of comments and return
but just to put it in context, has been empty
for a while. I don't think I'm brave enough to
pick even from the pavement if there were people living there.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
See, so she just wants you to know. So I
love how she's just had a very quickly go but juy.
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Jury, I've got something. I said, I know you're an og.
Speaker 4 (37:15):
Your original gangs to bab Mama DNA and she suggest
to see average hood rat who's but you know.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
All over taking flowers. Some can, some can't. Well she
can by the looks of it.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
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See mate. I want to hear more of Stacy'ser and Charlie.
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