September 26, 2025 • 10 mins
We get emails now and then from listeners and this one we couldn't pass up. A P1 emailed us about a situation where a girl he was going out with was wearing a wig and wanted our input
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So you know how it goes. And you start dating somebody,
you start learning their little quirks, and you're learning their
little likes and dislikes and things like that. You guys,
you get to know them. That's just kind of what happens. Well,
one guy was seeing a girl and I guess has
discovered something and is really not sure how he feels
about this. Thinks it's a little I don't know. I'll
(00:21):
read the email. We got an email here says what's up? Show.
I recently found myself in a predicament and thought, if
anyone can help with this, it would be you.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Guys.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You couldn't be more right. Well, we're great at this day.
We always agree, we.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Always help, let's argue and then never come to it.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay, he says. I always hear these emails that are
the p one scent, and I didn't think I'd ever
need to reach out until now. I'm on the day,
in the dating scene and on the apps, and recently
I met someone that I really like. We've been talking
on the app for a little bit and finally met
a few weeks ago. Since then, we've out a few
(01:00):
more times. One thing I noticed about her, ever, since
the app picks was that she had really nice, thick,
long hair. Now, once we finally met, her hair was
the same in person, nice and thick. Well. On our
first on our last, dad excuse me, we went on,
I complimented her on it. That's when, to my surprise,
(01:21):
she told me it's a wig. She then said she's
not wearing it because of any health conditions or anything
like that. Instead, she's just wearing it because it's easier
and she could do more styles with it. She did
say that her hair is very thin and not her
favorite part about her. So with all that being said,
I'm not sure how I feel about this. Not sure
(01:42):
if I feel slighted by her almost faking what she
looked like. And I'm not sure if the wig thing
ekes me out too much. What do you guys think?
Am I being too weird about this? Hope you can help,
love you guys, p one, Dave, wow wit Now I
know that the extension things. That's a big deal with
you ladies, right, Yeah, you guys wear extensions a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah yep.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
And if you I could speak on this big extensions
got extension since I was eighteen, off and on. It's
a long time. I'm forty one. Now I've had every
extension under the sun. I don't need to say that.
Oh sorry, expensive, right, very very expensive. I actually did
get them as an eighteenth birthday gift.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Oh you don't need to. You don't need to.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
I'm a big girl, and I paid for them on
my own right now. Side note, I have very thin hair.
I'm balding.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I mean the extension doesn't help with that, right, No, That's.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Why I've been extension free, permanent extension free.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
It's like my sobriety date, stension free for over a
year and a half.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Radio. Those are clipping, and didn't you do it just
this last week?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Those are clipping?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Okay, so you have That's like me say, I don't drink,
but I still smoke weed. Okay, you're Californias sober. Yeah
you're California. You're not really so we're all taking back
the clapp California.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You clap again. Those I'm very proud of myself because
those just clip in. They're like little clips, and they
don't they don't ruin it.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't drink, I just get high.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
They're not permanently pulling on your hair to get out
of your skull.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
No, we can tell they're cheapost you could tell the
starts the.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Real human hair.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Hey, I have no idea, Okay, okay, So so what
I'm saying is I could speak on this is because
I've I've I've dabbled in all this.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
You have.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
What I've I've never worn a wig. But you know,
I follow all of the celebrities. I like to follow trends.
I like to follow fashion and beauty stuff. And what
I have known about for the last couple of years
is that the wig game is pretty strong right now,
and wigs that they make nowadays look so freaking real.
(03:58):
And I've found out since that most celebrities are wearing wigs.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Wait, most is a crazy thing.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
It's weird though, when you see, like, you know, Millie
Bobby Brown on the Red Carpet and she's got short,
blonde hair, and then you see her like two weeks
later and she's got this long, luscious hair.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Get that. Yeah, But I don't know what was just
on the Emmys. I can't tell were they wearing wigs.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, if it was a big down update or
a big carpenter wears.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Wigs really, you know, Jamie told me she wears.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Huge and she's got that big wave in her.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
But her hair is very like flat and like straight.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Really yeah, I actually like her pre wig more, but
that's a whole we don't need to get the super
car break here.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Well you're the one brought it up, but Jamie told me, okay, yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Well to back up Emily's point about like wigs are
a thing right now, I saw a friend that I
haven't seen in a long time, and her hair was
so like beautiful and luscious. I kept asking her, I'm like,
are you taking supplements? Are you doing some weird shampoo?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Well?
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Yeah, like and then and then I finally felt like
a jerk about it because I guess I was saying
it so much, which I didn't realize that.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
She finally like whispered.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
She goes, oh, I'm actually just wearing a wake tonight,
And I was like, oh, yeah, but about it. Yeah,
but she's no like celebrity or Kardashian, So that kind
of let me know, like, oh, are wigs like a
mainstream thing?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
They're becoming mainstream. And with that being said, I've been
thinking about wearing one.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
You you me, what are we talking about I'll have
my wife wear a wig from time to time.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Different Amazon twelve.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Creepy Yes.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Pages retired from Oh no, heard she's with child?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
She's with child?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wonder pages we have an issue?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Good?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
So yeah, so the wig thing, I have no problem
with it. I just I just it depends on the
wi you get, not all wigs. If you go to
like weird like short pink wig, it's like, okay, em.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Concert, what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Like like a light brown just with waves, so kind
of own hair, but like thicker, completely different color.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, no, I want it to be realistic.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
You could still do realistic and like some people, how
about blonde Emily walking in here?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Whoa, I'm not jumping into the deep end right away.
I'm gonna I'm gonna walk in. I'm gonna wait in
the water because I'm gonna start out with expensive Yes,
one of the reasons.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Getting in there.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Getting in there, like we're talking hundreds of bucks for
a good way.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
How do you do you clean it? Just like regularly?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Haven't gotten that far, but I know my washing machine,
throw it in washing dishwasher. I don't think I feel
like that would be a rat SPUs when you open
my hair extensions. I can wash with soap and water,
blow dry and style just like ric as it's human
hair and there's human hair. The wings are hair, oh gez,
So you just treat them like regular hair, wash them.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
But then at night, isn't that like weird? I mean,
I guess you just take it off and put it
on a little stand. Yeah, but like Robert clearly knows
what your real hair looks like. But like in this email,
isn't that kind of weird if.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Your false advertising?
Speaker 6 (07:28):
I mean, like because at night, you know, when they
start spending the night together, she's going to take that
thing off.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
I think the sky is coming from a place of
pain because she probably couldn't wear a wig, and the
boo has to see this hair all the time.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
She has Why can't you wear it? Because their head's
too I think.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Her head's too small. And b I don't think you
can get hair over this hair. Okay, don't the children's size,
that is true. Sure they do, I'm sure they do it.
I don't think or you get with a Barbie doll wig?
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Yeah, I mean the ones I have worn for our
previous Halloween parties.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And other other things.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
I have had like in the back of them a
little extra time.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Yeah, we know, I'm not kidding, we know. Yeah, that's
probably where the hurt is coming from. But I understand
what you're saying. If I was dating a girl and
she took off her wig her hair, it.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Would be she'd look like weird Barbie.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Yeah, but great call with that being said, though, Like
I mean with girls now and all the makeup, yeah,
I mean i'd take up, I'd take.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Off their makeup and look like gollm. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
I'd rather take off a wig than take off your
makeup and be like, oh my god. Like I could
deal with a wig. Oh yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Wig doesn't do me, doesn't harm me as much as makeup.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I think the.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Tricky part for this guy, though, is going to be
that he's gotta neat Like I feel like he needs
to see her without it. Yeah, judge if he's going
to still be attracted to her because he's I think
he needs to be attracted.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
To her without the wig. Yeah, as well.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
You can wear the wig all the time though, right, No, especially.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
When you're closer and you're just lounging around the house.
The wig's not gonna come out all the time. I
would think, how do.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
How does Robert and your man take the hair the
way it is now?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Robert loves me? I am up? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Really not not no, I mean like physically like the rest.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Excuse you, Edie, excuse me.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
This is a lot. I again, I see you in
a different light. I don't think your hair is as
bad as you think it is. I know it's an
insecurity thing. I don't think it is as bad as
you think it is. And so if I was your guy,
I would I would say, I don't want you to
wear a wig. I like you the way that you are.
You don't need to wear.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
It, but I want to. I need to.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
I appreciate that. But it's her. It's her own insecurity
that makes you. That's why she's wearing it. It's her
own insecurity.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
But but now I'm seeing you not as you, so
I'm not not I find that less attractive.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I'm not ditching the wig.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Bro Okay, So I mean I guess, sorry, Dave, Yeah,
I guess you don't matter at all. Okay, now that
sucks
So you know how it goes. And you start dating somebody,
you start learning their little quirks, and you're learning their
little likes and dislikes and things like that. You guys,
you get to know them. That's just kind of what happens. Well,
one guy was seeing a girl and I guess has
discovered something and is really not sure how he feels
about this. Thinks it's a little I don't know. I'll
(00:21):
read the email. We got an email here says what's up? Show.
I recently found myself in a predicament and thought, if
anyone can help with this, it would be you.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Guys.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You couldn't be more right. Well, we're great at this day.
We always agree, we.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Always help, let's argue and then never come to it.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay, he says. I always hear these emails that are
the p one scent, and I didn't think I'd ever
need to reach out until now. I'm on the day,
in the dating scene and on the apps, and recently
I met someone that I really like. We've been talking
on the app for a little bit and finally met
a few weeks ago. Since then, we've out a few
(01:00):
more times. One thing I noticed about her, ever, since
the app picks was that she had really nice, thick,
long hair. Now, once we finally met, her hair was
the same in person, nice and thick. Well. On our
first on our last, dad excuse me, we went on,
I complimented her on it. That's when, to my surprise,
(01:21):
she told me it's a wig. She then said she's
not wearing it because of any health conditions or anything
like that. Instead, she's just wearing it because it's easier
and she could do more styles with it. She did
say that her hair is very thin and not her
favorite part about her. So with all that being said,
I'm not sure how I feel about this. Not sure
(01:42):
if I feel slighted by her almost faking what she
looked like. And I'm not sure if the wig thing
ekes me out too much. What do you guys think?
Am I being too weird about this? Hope you can help,
love you guys, p one, Dave, wow wit Now I
know that the extension things. That's a big deal with
you ladies, right, Yeah, you guys wear extensions a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah yep.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
And if you I could speak on this big extensions
got extension since I was eighteen, off and on. It's
a long time. I'm forty one. Now I've had every
extension under the sun. I don't need to say that.
Oh sorry, expensive, right, very very expensive. I actually did
get them as an eighteenth birthday gift.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Oh you don't need to. You don't need to.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
I'm a big girl, and I paid for them on
my own right now. Side note, I have very thin hair.
I'm balding.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I mean the extension doesn't help with that, right, No, That's.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Why I've been extension free, permanent extension free.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
It's like my sobriety date, stension free for over a
year and a half.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Radio. Those are clipping, and didn't you do it just
this last week?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Those are clipping?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Okay, so you have That's like me say, I don't drink,
but I still smoke weed. Okay, you're Californias sober. Yeah
you're California. You're not really so we're all taking back
the clapp California.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You clap again. Those I'm very proud of myself because
those just clip in. They're like little clips, and they
don't they don't ruin it.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't drink, I just get high.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
They're not permanently pulling on your hair to get out
of your skull.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
No, we can tell they're cheapost you could tell the
starts the.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Real human hair.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Hey, I have no idea, Okay, okay, So so what
I'm saying is I could speak on this is because
I've I've I've dabbled in all this.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
You have.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
What I've I've never worn a wig. But you know,
I follow all of the celebrities. I like to follow trends.
I like to follow fashion and beauty stuff. And what
I have known about for the last couple of years
is that the wig game is pretty strong right now,
and wigs that they make nowadays look so freaking real.
(03:58):
And I've found out since that most celebrities are wearing wigs.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Wait, most is a crazy thing.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
It's weird though, when you see, like, you know, Millie
Bobby Brown on the Red Carpet and she's got short,
blonde hair, and then you see her like two weeks
later and she's got this long, luscious hair.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Get that. Yeah, But I don't know what was just
on the Emmys. I can't tell were they wearing wigs.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, if it was a big down update or
a big carpenter wears.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Wigs really, you know, Jamie told me she wears.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Huge and she's got that big wave in her.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
But her hair is very like flat and like straight.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Really yeah, I actually like her pre wig more, but
that's a whole we don't need to get the super
car break here.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Well you're the one brought it up, but Jamie told me, okay, yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Well to back up Emily's point about like wigs are
a thing right now, I saw a friend that I
haven't seen in a long time, and her hair was
so like beautiful and luscious. I kept asking her, I'm like,
are you taking supplements? Are you doing some weird shampoo?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Well?
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Yeah, like and then and then I finally felt like
a jerk about it because I guess I was saying
it so much, which I didn't realize that.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
She finally like whispered.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
She goes, oh, I'm actually just wearing a wake tonight,
And I was like, oh, yeah, but about it. Yeah,
but she's no like celebrity or Kardashian, So that kind
of let me know, like, oh, are wigs like a
mainstream thing?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
They're becoming mainstream. And with that being said, I've been
thinking about wearing one.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
You you me, what are we talking about I'll have
my wife wear a wig from time to time.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Different Amazon twelve.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Creepy Yes.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Pages retired from Oh no, heard she's with child?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
She's with child?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wonder pages we have an issue?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Good?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
So yeah, so the wig thing, I have no problem
with it. I just I just it depends on the
wi you get, not all wigs. If you go to
like weird like short pink wig, it's like, okay, em.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Concert, what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Like like a light brown just with waves, so kind
of own hair, but like thicker, completely different color.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, no, I want it to be realistic.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
You could still do realistic and like some people, how
about blonde Emily walking in here?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Whoa, I'm not jumping into the deep end right away.
I'm gonna I'm gonna walk in. I'm gonna wait in
the water because I'm gonna start out with expensive Yes,
one of the reasons.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Getting in there.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Getting in there, like we're talking hundreds of bucks for
a good way.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
How do you do you clean it? Just like regularly?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Haven't gotten that far, but I know my washing machine,
throw it in washing dishwasher. I don't think I feel
like that would be a rat SPUs when you open
my hair extensions. I can wash with soap and water,
blow dry and style just like ric as it's human
hair and there's human hair. The wings are hair, oh gez,
So you just treat them like regular hair, wash them.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
But then at night, isn't that like weird? I mean,
I guess you just take it off and put it
on a little stand. Yeah, but like Robert clearly knows
what your real hair looks like. But like in this email,
isn't that kind of weird if.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Your false advertising?
Speaker 6 (07:28):
I mean, like because at night, you know, when they
start spending the night together, she's going to take that
thing off.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
I think the sky is coming from a place of
pain because she probably couldn't wear a wig, and the
boo has to see this hair all the time.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
She has Why can't you wear it? Because their head's
too I think.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Her head's too small. And b I don't think you
can get hair over this hair. Okay, don't the children's size,
that is true. Sure they do, I'm sure they do it.
I don't think or you get with a Barbie doll wig?
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Yeah, I mean the ones I have worn for our
previous Halloween parties.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
And other other things.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
I have had like in the back of them a
little extra time.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Yeah, we know, I'm not kidding, we know. Yeah, that's
probably where the hurt is coming from. But I understand
what you're saying. If I was dating a girl and
she took off her wig her hair, it.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Would be she'd look like weird Barbie.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Yeah, but great call with that being said, though, Like
I mean with girls now and all the makeup, yeah,
I mean i'd take up, I'd take.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Off their makeup and look like gollm. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
I'd rather take off a wig than take off your
makeup and be like, oh my god. Like I could
deal with a wig. Oh yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Wig doesn't do me, doesn't harm me as much as makeup.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I think the.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Tricky part for this guy, though, is going to be
that he's gotta neat Like I feel like he needs
to see her without it. Yeah, judge if he's going
to still be attracted to her because he's I think
he needs to be attracted.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
To her without the wig. Yeah, as well.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
You can wear the wig all the time though, right, No, especially.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
When you're closer and you're just lounging around the house.
The wig's not gonna come out all the time. I
would think, how do.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
How does Robert and your man take the hair the
way it is now?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Robert loves me? I am up? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Really not not no, I mean like physically like the rest.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Excuse you, Edie, excuse me.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
This is a lot. I again, I see you in
a different light. I don't think your hair is as
bad as you think it is. I know it's an
insecurity thing. I don't think it is as bad as
you think it is. And so if I was your guy,
I would I would say, I don't want you to
wear a wig. I like you the way that you are.
You don't need to wear.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
It, but I want to. I need to.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
I appreciate that. But it's her. It's her own insecurity
that makes you. That's why she's wearing it. It's her
own insecurity.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
But but now I'm seeing you not as you, so
I'm not not I find that less attractive.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I'm not ditching the wig.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Bro Okay, So I mean I guess, sorry, Dave, Yeah,
I guess you don't matter at all. Okay, now that
sucks
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