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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So this is pretty huge news. Who who saw this coming? Emily,
It's going to therapy. Congratulations the world, well, I mean
the world. I think we needed.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I mean, believe it or not, I've been to therapy before.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Doesn't need to hit the ground.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. What do you do like one
or two sessions and say you're good?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Like a couple of years ago, I did, I did
more than that. Oh I did more than that, But
I don't think it didn't It didn't take.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
It didn't take.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Did you have you ever tried the self health book route?
Like somebody that I recommend some.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Good ones, the one from Big Sean I'm Good's a
good one.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Yeah, So I mean I'm needing to start it back
up again.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Okay, you need to work some things out in my life. Good,
it is good.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So I decided that I was going to look for
a therapist. Okay, and I use like this cool program
thing we have at work. It's just we actually have,
believe it or not, we got like ten sessions free.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
From working this mental.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Health Could you do me a favorite? Could you copy
all that information send it to Scott.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Yeah, just do that.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Okay, please, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
We'll do we'll do, thank you. It was very quick
and easy. I heard has a great mental health plan.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So I was able to find look through a bunch
of therapists and found one that actually in person.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I don't I don't want to do video. I like
to be in person therapy.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
And are you just going for convenience like close to
you or are you actually like looking into something else.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Or so when I first picked this therapist, I just
pretty much went by convenience your area. And I saw
a picture of her. I mean, I don't know what
it matters, but I just she looks nice. Yeah, she
kind of had a.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Nice face, and so show the face, to show the
face in the photo there on the therapy app thing
that I have.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Yeah, I can see that when I look for therapists
saying kind of thing, I want to look a picture, okay,
because if they're too hot, I can I can't do
it's too uncomfortable. Yeah, I'll be talking about things to
it's just weird.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Sometimes like you'll see like it state's a dude. I
would go to a dude therapist, but I don't know.
He looks a little shifty.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
In his photos.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
They got a shifty look about it, or like you'll
see like a woman and she kind of has like
resting bitch face.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
A little bit. And I'm like, I don't think. I
don't think she's just going to be mean to me.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Maybe you need that, I think, so maybe.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I do need that. He has to tough love.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
So I did this whole thing, but that's all I
really did. It was right in like off Fairmont, which
is on the eight right there, so it's like close,
you know what I mean, right not far from my
house at all.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
So I'm like, this is perfect, give it a shot.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
She had openings very soon, and so I've actually gone
to her two times.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I've had two appointments, and.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I have my next appointment coming up here today this afternoon.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Really and so, uh.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
She's letting you come back.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
He's like, this is too much. Yeah, I actually can't.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
She's tapping at so I can't see her clipboard. Do
you think that there's just big, huge writing you get out,
crazy make up, ways to get out? Yeah, a mess,
all of these things just right. Oh yeah, probably lots
of crying has gone down the last two times.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
I mean, the least shocking thing I think I've ever
heard in my life.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Yes, yeah, I'm very fragile, especially when I start talking
about my feelings.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
No, you don't say, I might be a.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Little unstable at this point, So start talking about those feelings.
The second I'm sitting down at her office, I'm in tears.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I'm terrible signing with the receptionists, and you immediately start crying.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah, I feel like that therapist goes, hey, Emily, how's
it going, And Emily just goes, well.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Wait, sure, Like the first two times have been like,
you know, she's just getting to know me. Really, she
doesn't know anything about me obviously, and so that's kind
of going on. Yes, there's tears, and it's fine. I
know I'm not like the wildest about her, but I
also know that you got to give these things like
some time to like see if it's gonna be a
(04:09):
good fit for the most part. And just the other
day I decided that I was going to look her
up online, which I should have probably done before, but
look her up online and just see if there's any
reviews about her, maybe read up a little bit more
about like where she went to college or what her
history is and all that kind of stuff, right, So
I just decided to go into Google and I googled
(04:31):
her name, and that's when some.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
The stars aren't very great.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I'm seeing on a couple of the different you know,
there's like health grades, there's different websites where people can
rate different healthcare providers. And I'm seeing a three point
two average on one of these things. I'm seeing like
a two point eight on another one out of five stars.
But that's an average out of all the reviews. And
I automatically I get sick to my stomach and I go,
(05:00):
what's going on?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Like do I have? Like is she a monster? Is
this a horrible person?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
So then I start reading some of the reviews and
I see one of these reviews been to one star,
by the way, been to see her several times before
giving up. She literally watches the clock the entire time,
ask questions she knows you will go deep into, and
then just cuts you off and tells you your time's up.
And like, I'm seeing some stuff like that in a
lot of these different reviews, and it's like I'm a
(05:25):
big review person. Like on Amazon, me and Thor are
the same. We don't buy anything that's under like four
point five at all, you know.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
And it's got to have, like, you know, thousands of reviews. Yes,
like you, you're psychotic if you buy something with five reviews?
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Therapist?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I know.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Sorry, So if this therapist was an item on Amazon,
you wouldn't buy this therapist?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Oh, I drop it right away. Oh I dropped out
of the cart. But I but I do. But I
do like her.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Have you felt like she's looking at the clock?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Then no, not necessarily.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
But you realize one person's experience may not be yours.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Yeah, how many? How many reviews?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Like the time there's like on medical reviews, there's not
that many people that take their time.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
So I'd say on one of the sets of reviews,
there's probably ten, and then there.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Was if you give one. Of course, her average is
not going to be great.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Yes, you're right, but I don't think I can let
this go.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But what do you let this go? What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
So I've decided, Well, I was going to talk talk
about with you guys today, but you guys kind of
know that when I make my mind up and make
my mine up, I was thinking about talking.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
To her about the reviews and pulling them up.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
When I see her you're going to bring it up
to her?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Why would you it?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Because I need to see how she's going to react
to this. I mean, maybe she is a clock watcher.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
She's also not going to admit that, right.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Maybe, I mean she's not gonna watching the clock obviously
if she's a doctor. But like, I don't know if
I could just let this go now or it's just
gonna be creeping into my head today. When I go
see her later, it's all I'm gonna be thinking about.
Is I'm gonna be staring at her to see if
she's looking at the clock. I'm gonna see where the
clock is in this room.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Mean, like, what what do you think she? How would
she respond to that? Have you? What are you gonna say?
Have you seen your reviews?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
That was kind of the way I was going to
put it at first. Have you seriously?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Because I kind of saw some reviews last night, and
you know some of them are saying that you, you know,
cut people off and that you stare at the clock.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
And but what's she going to say other than I
can You're only gonna I guess you're experience.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
I feel like people will.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Complain about therapists when they don't like what they're being told.
Sometimes people don't like to be told what they need
to hear so or what they think they should hear,
so they will say that it's the therapist's fault and
then just blame the therapist, you know, and then they
stick with self help books.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
Yeah, okay, sorry, But what I mean, if you're your
experience is your experience, and if you're having an okay time,
what does it matter what other people say?
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:18):
And how many reviews did you say?
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Like?
Speaker 4 (08:20):
Ten? Nothing?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
I mean that's not for medical pages, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (08:24):
But you know, like how many clients has this person
seen that hasn't left a review? Like I don't. I
would never, I wouldn't even think about leaving a review
about a therapists.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Just those bad views seem to sink into me and
I just can't stop thinking about them. And I just
hope that like it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Is she going to mess you up? Ruined?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
My relationship?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Far gone?
Speaker 2 (08:44):
And now I only have ten of these iHeart free
sessions and I've already used two so that I got
eight more.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
So you're done after ten?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
No matter what, No, not necessarily she's done, might be healed.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
I mean, there's no way because.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I'm coming here completely.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
So is it kinda I don't know if this is
the right vibe I'm getting from you, But it's like
you're dating a new guy and you're hearing bad reviews
from other chicks, and you don't know if you want
to put more time into this relationship because it could.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Turn on you.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Yeah, that's actually a really good way to put it. Okay,
it's actually a really good way to put it. But
I mean, now saying it out loud to you, guys,
I guess that is wild to ask her about the
reviews because what she got to possibly say I suck.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Yeah, but I just like I'm going to have trouble
today and later to.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Like not be watching her to see if she's you know,
staring at the clock or not be over obsessing, if
she's going to interrupt me or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, that's insane. If you ask girls that dated thora
and I, you know, what did you think of them?
Any relationship didn't usually end Well, yeah, of course they're
not going to say great things about me. But then
when you meet us and we we date, you the
greatest or the greatest.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
Literally maybe yes, everybody's review.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
You know it's going to be different, all right, You
got to be on your own experience there, kiddo, you
need a lot of help. Maybe I was actually just
thinking only once a week.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Maybe this is just too much, too much after no, no.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
No, don't do that. Mom needs to go do Please,
don't do that.