December 12, 2025 • 9 mins
Sky got information about some kids that are friends with her daughter. Now she is put in an awkward position becuase the parent that told her about it wants her to talk to the other kids parents. Will Sky jump at the opportunity or is she going to realize that it really isn't her place to say anything?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I mean she was at Karen before Karen was a term. Yeah,
that's a fact.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It was called the Sky. I remember people. Yeah, it
was like the word of the year.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Nobody said that twenty fifteen.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
I just keep my eyes peels, I'm looking out, I'm helping.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Does that mean that's what I do?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Your perfect job would be running.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
In h o A.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
Oh, amazing, amazing, amazing.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Oh if I could just walk around and criticize other
people's for a living.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Hell, yeah, I remember having people like this guy.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
People hate ho a people. If you're okay with that.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
I'm living my best life in the neighborhood looking great.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Sky is the person you remember. Yesterday we talked about
the people to ticket meter that was giving that was
giving tickets before the time was up. I bet you
Sky would get joy out of that. She gets joy
out of you get joy at a market, attire some fun.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
But.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
No, I need real estate stuff. Oh h o A
all day that.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
That's more up.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
You're out.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
So Sky's Karen. But we know that she kind of
wants to be the cool mom and hang out with
her daughter and the crew and you know, give him
some booze and cigarettes.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
She wants. She wants like to be the nark and
like telling other neighbors. But then she wants her daughter to, like,
you know, drink a martini. I don't want my daughter
to drink Yeah, boba martina.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
That's not a thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Let's go a fiesta island, have a blast bonfire.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yes the island, that is That is true. I let
my daughter and her friends hang out just themselves. I
don't try and give them booze or hang out with them.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, can you.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Not are doing each other's hair and that?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, not doing I don't do anyone hunger. I make
that guy that lives here get his food.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Okay, that's my husband, and no, that doesn't happen.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So this guy's having a real issue here of you know,
her karen senses are tingling, but she isn't sure if
she can do a full I'm one of her daughter's friends.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yeah, also one of her friends a friend. Well, and
it's not really one of my daughter's friends. It's somebody
who used to be in my daughter's social circle. You
know how they all evolve and have different friends. But
the point is is I know these people and I
know their family. So like a week ago. I was
(02:25):
at this little gathering. You know, the ladies in my
neighborhood sometimes like to get daughter no women my age,
women my age. Normally we call it book club, but
there's never any books.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
There's a lot of wine.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
There's just a lot of wine.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Well, like somebody will bring up the name of a book,
but it doesn't go farther than that, so it's really
an excuse to drink wine. So I'm hanging out with
all these other parents and this one mom who I
don't know very well because she's a boy mom, and
like you, when your kids are younger, you normally get
to know the people of the same gender because they're
(03:00):
on the same teams and stuff like that. So I
know a lot of girl moms more than I know
the boy moms. But there was a boy mom at
this thing, right and the kids now are you know,
fifteen sixteen years old for the record, And she kind
of asked if you know, hey, can can we talk
for a second. I'm like, this is weird, like what
is this about? And that's when she asked, me, Hey,
(03:22):
do you know the so and so family? And I said, yes,
you know, my daughter used to hang out with them.
Like back in the day, and you know, we don't
really talk anymore, but yeah, I still know them.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Bah blah blah. She goes, I want to get your
take on something.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
She said, that's a risk. Why would you ever imagine
asking Sky I want to get your take on something anything,
You'd be out of your mind. Okay, if I was there,
I'd go no, just jump from.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Okay, Well that's rude and her call as one of
my friends. Sorry she said that, but she's not really
asking my take. She's actually trying to get me to
do something. So turns out that there's a couple different
kinds of parents out there, and even though her son
is sixteen years old, she will still occasionally go through
his phone and look what's going on situation.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Yeah, got to look through that thing.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
And that is when the mom looked through the phone
and found that her son has been getting sex from
sex sex, sex, waist guy, sext sex with a t where.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You're not saying that, you're not saying that, you're saying
sex sex, You're saying sex. You're saying sex.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Sex has been getting sex sex sex.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
You're not putting the emphasis on the right salable sex.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
To sixt sext message, is that sex sext? A sext anyway?
Got there at the end that we're saying sex anyway.
That's really weird. I didn't realize I had until right now,
But either way, we all know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Next a sixth and she found.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
One on her son's phone and it was sent by
this other girl that my daughter used to hang out with.
And she is aware that I know the parents, and
so she said, it turns out that the kids have
been sending each other naked pictures, nudi petuities. Yeah, I
think one of them is fifteen, one of them is sixteen.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
It's crazy and I feel weird even talking about it.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Dude, I know they're gonna get arrested because they're kids.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But they're kids.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
But at the same time, you know, we all then
think back, what.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Were we I mean, if I was a fifteen, sixteen
year old, I'd be sending I'd be saying, send a
pick lola. Of course, of course, so did genius move
at sixteen? Yes, send a pick lol, Come on.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Okay, stop it.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
And this mom was basically saying, uh, would you feel
comfortable because I think it's important that this other mom
know and she says, I. I don't know this other
mom at all, but I know you know her. You
used to hang out with her, So how do you
feel about letting her know? We had this conversation and
(06:12):
this boy mom wants me to let the girl mom
know that your girl is sending naked pictures?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Well, are you even considering this?
Speaker 4 (06:23):
All I can think about is if my daughter was
doing this and another parent found out, would I want
to know? And honestly, I don't know the answer to
that question. I think it's important for parents to, you know,
make sure their kids grow up to be good humans
and not make stupid decisions. But they're like sixteen, and
(06:45):
I'm not super close to these people anymore. It's been
years since we like hung out.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
That's part of the major problem. Yeah, I don't know
that I can get involved in this either anyway. But
if it's somebody that I'm not close with, there's no
away I'm getting involved in that. That's that's some crazy
like family drama that I don't want to be a
part of it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
What do I always say, they're going to kill the
messenger because the kid's gonna say and that's not true,
And then they're gonna.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
See he was the one that's starting doing it, and
it's just gonna get ugly. You know.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
If anything, maybe take the opportunity to talk to your
own kid about it. Absolutely, you know what I mean,
because I honestly the advice I would give my own kid,
and I've told Haley this. I have a five week
old kid. When he hits like fifteen, sixteen, Yeah, the
advice and give him is make sure your face isn't it.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
That's the advice because.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
You're not gonna be able to stop him from doing it.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Okay, so you've already kind of know that this is
the thing once kids start.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
So make sure your face isn't it. I'd rather you
not do it, but don't be stupid and put your face.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
If you do do it, don't be stupid because.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You're gonna do it.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Like I'm not.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I'm not an idiot. It's like being me said, he's
never gonna drink. Well, that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
I'm so torn because at this age it's like they're kids.
But again, I go back to what was I I mean,
I wasn't even a virgin the age of sixteen.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I had already lost two Wow, So it's like, Wow.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Okay, you don't have to scream out Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Emily, do you think that mom is like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Mom, So I I mean, you don't get involved, Sky.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
I would just that mom needs to worry about her
own son and worry about what he's doing and handle
it on her. And I talked to Read about this
before my son, and I told him actually exactly what
Thorpe said.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I didn't. I said, don't do that in the first place.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
Yeah, I've never ever had your face in any photos
because those photos live on forever.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
They'll spread like wildfire through the school.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Everyone'll be making fun of you, and it'll follow you around
for the rest of your life if it gets in
the hands of the wrong person.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
So I've had that exact same discussion.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
But if I saw this on my son's phone and
it was the chick and I knew that kind of
like if that wasn't a close close friend, if it
wasn't like one of my close, close mom friends, if
it was a close close mom friend, I'd probably say
something to it, like.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
If it was Sky and you found out that her daughter, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Anything else, like God, no, it's not my business.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah, well I'm not I'm not good with confrontation, like I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Not how awkward it would be skyl Oh my god, like.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
You know the words that would come out of my
mouth would.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Be all wrong?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Yes, yes, so you know you know that this is
probably not a wise decision.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Is it okay for me to give the contact info
of the girl mom to.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
You're not involved at all?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I would just act like I never even heard that conversation.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yes, I got amnesia.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I don't because it's none of yours. It's just none.
It's not even and you're not it's annoying that this
mom even asked you to do this like that's and.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
You're not going to tell your daughter about this? Right?
Oh god?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
No, No, I don't need I don't need gossips.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
The kids priority know what's going on.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
I mean, come on, okay,
I mean she was at Karen before Karen was a term. Yeah,
that's a fact.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It was called the Sky. I remember people. Yeah, it
was like the word of the year.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Nobody said that twenty fifteen.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
I just keep my eyes peels, I'm looking out, I'm helping.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Does that mean that's what I do?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Your perfect job would be running.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
In h o A.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
Oh, amazing, amazing, amazing.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Oh if I could just walk around and criticize other
people's for a living.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Hell, yeah, I remember having people like this guy.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
People hate ho a people. If you're okay with that.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
I'm living my best life in the neighborhood looking great.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Sky is the person you remember. Yesterday we talked about
the people to ticket meter that was giving that was
giving tickets before the time was up. I bet you
Sky would get joy out of that. She gets joy
out of you get joy at a market, attire some fun.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
But.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
No, I need real estate stuff. Oh h o A
all day that.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
That's more up.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
You're out.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
So Sky's Karen. But we know that she kind of
wants to be the cool mom and hang out with
her daughter and the crew and you know, give him
some booze and cigarettes.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
She wants. She wants like to be the nark and
like telling other neighbors. But then she wants her daughter to, like,
you know, drink a martini. I don't want my daughter
to drink Yeah, boba martina.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
That's not a thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Let's go a fiesta island, have a blast bonfire.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yes the island, that is That is true. I let
my daughter and her friends hang out just themselves. I
don't try and give them booze or hang out with them.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, can you.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Not are doing each other's hair and that?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, not doing I don't do anyone hunger. I make
that guy that lives here get his food.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Okay, that's my husband, and no, that doesn't happen.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So this guy's having a real issue here of you know,
her karen senses are tingling, but she isn't sure if
she can do a full I'm one of her daughter's friends.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yeah, also one of her friends a friend. Well, and
it's not really one of my daughter's friends. It's somebody
who used to be in my daughter's social circle. You
know how they all evolve and have different friends. But
the point is is I know these people and I
know their family. So like a week ago. I was
(02:25):
at this little gathering. You know, the ladies in my
neighborhood sometimes like to get daughter no women my age,
women my age. Normally we call it book club, but
there's never any books.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
There's a lot of wine.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
There's just a lot of wine.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Well, like somebody will bring up the name of a book,
but it doesn't go farther than that, so it's really
an excuse to drink wine. So I'm hanging out with
all these other parents and this one mom who I
don't know very well because she's a boy mom, and
like you, when your kids are younger, you normally get
to know the people of the same gender because they're
(03:00):
on the same teams and stuff like that. So I
know a lot of girl moms more than I know
the boy moms. But there was a boy mom at
this thing, right and the kids now are you know,
fifteen sixteen years old for the record, And she kind
of asked if you know, hey, can can we talk
for a second. I'm like, this is weird, like what
is this about? And that's when she asked, me, Hey,
(03:22):
do you know the so and so family? And I said, yes,
you know, my daughter used to hang out with them.
Like back in the day, and you know, we don't
really talk anymore, but yeah, I still know them.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Bah blah blah. She goes, I want to get your
take on something.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
She said, that's a risk. Why would you ever imagine
asking Sky I want to get your take on something anything,
You'd be out of your mind. Okay, if I was there,
I'd go no, just jump from.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Okay, Well that's rude and her call as one of
my friends. Sorry she said that, but she's not really
asking my take. She's actually trying to get me to
do something. So turns out that there's a couple different
kinds of parents out there, and even though her son
is sixteen years old, she will still occasionally go through
his phone and look what's going on situation.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Yeah, got to look through that thing.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
And that is when the mom looked through the phone
and found that her son has been getting sex from
sex sex, sex, waist guy, sext sex with a t where.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You're not saying that, you're not saying that, you're saying
sex sex, You're saying sex. You're saying sex.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Sex has been getting sex sex sex.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
You're not putting the emphasis on the right salable sex.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
To sixt sext message, is that sex sext? A sext anyway?
Got there at the end that we're saying sex anyway.
That's really weird. I didn't realize I had until right now,
But either way, we all know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Next a sixth and she found.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
One on her son's phone and it was sent by
this other girl that my daughter used to hang out with.
And she is aware that I know the parents, and
so she said, it turns out that the kids have
been sending each other naked pictures, nudi petuities. Yeah, I
think one of them is fifteen, one of them is sixteen.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
It's crazy and I feel weird even talking about it.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Dude, I know they're gonna get arrested because they're kids.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But they're kids.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
But at the same time, you know, we all then
think back, what.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Were we I mean, if I was a fifteen, sixteen
year old, I'd be sending I'd be saying, send a
pick lola. Of course, of course, so did genius move
at sixteen? Yes, send a pick lol, Come on.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Okay, stop it.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
And this mom was basically saying, uh, would you feel
comfortable because I think it's important that this other mom
know and she says, I. I don't know this other
mom at all, but I know you know her. You
used to hang out with her, So how do you
feel about letting her know? We had this conversation and
(06:12):
this boy mom wants me to let the girl mom
know that your girl is sending naked pictures?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Well, are you even considering this?
Speaker 4 (06:23):
All I can think about is if my daughter was
doing this and another parent found out, would I want
to know? And honestly, I don't know the answer to
that question. I think it's important for parents to, you know,
make sure their kids grow up to be good humans
and not make stupid decisions. But they're like sixteen, and
(06:45):
I'm not super close to these people anymore. It's been
years since we like hung out.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
That's part of the major problem. Yeah, I don't know
that I can get involved in this either anyway. But
if it's somebody that I'm not close with, there's no
away I'm getting involved in that. That's that's some crazy
like family drama that I don't want to be a
part of it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
What do I always say, they're going to kill the
messenger because the kid's gonna say and that's not true,
And then they're gonna.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
See he was the one that's starting doing it, and
it's just gonna get ugly. You know.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
If anything, maybe take the opportunity to talk to your
own kid about it. Absolutely, you know what I mean,
because I honestly the advice I would give my own kid,
and I've told Haley this. I have a five week
old kid. When he hits like fifteen, sixteen, Yeah, the
advice and give him is make sure your face isn't it.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
That's the advice because.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
You're not gonna be able to stop him from doing it.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Okay, so you've already kind of know that this is
the thing once kids start.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
So make sure your face isn't it. I'd rather you
not do it, but don't be stupid and put your face.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
If you do do it, don't be stupid because.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You're gonna do it.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Like I'm not.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I'm not an idiot. It's like being me said, he's
never gonna drink. Well, that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
I'm so torn because at this age it's like they're kids.
But again, I go back to what was I I mean,
I wasn't even a virgin the age of sixteen.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I had already lost two Wow, So it's like, Wow.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Okay, you don't have to scream out Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Emily, do you think that mom is like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Mom, So I I mean, you don't get involved, Sky.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
I would just that mom needs to worry about her
own son and worry about what he's doing and handle
it on her. And I talked to Read about this
before my son, and I told him actually exactly what
Thorpe said.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I didn't. I said, don't do that in the first place.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
Yeah, I've never ever had your face in any photos
because those photos live on forever.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
They'll spread like wildfire through the school.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Everyone'll be making fun of you, and it'll follow you around
for the rest of your life if it gets in
the hands of the wrong person.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
So I've had that exact same discussion.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
But if I saw this on my son's phone and
it was the chick and I knew that kind of
like if that wasn't a close close friend, if it
wasn't like one of my close, close mom friends, if
it was a close close mom friend, I'd probably say
something to it, like.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
If it was Sky and you found out that her daughter, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Anything else, like God, no, it's not my business.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah, well I'm not I'm not good with confrontation, like I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Not how awkward it would be skyl Oh my god, like.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
You know the words that would come out of my
mouth would.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Be all wrong?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Yes, yes, so you know you know that this is
probably not a wise decision.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Is it okay for me to give the contact info
of the girl mom to.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
You're not involved at all?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I would just act like I never even heard that conversation.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yes, I got amnesia.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I don't because it's none of yours. It's just none.
It's not even and you're not it's annoying that this
mom even asked you to do this like that's and.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
You're not going to tell your daughter about this? Right?
Oh god?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
No, No, I don't need I don't need gossips.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
The kids priority know what's going on.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
I mean, come on, okay,
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