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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I think our show is very well known for giving
out great relationship advice. Well, listen, you have four different people,
four different opinions, not always on the same page, so
you could pick whichever advice you like the best. Yes,
you do get a variety of advice.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
So, yeah, that's a good point because if you're talking
to if you're outside of this, you're talking to just
one friend, you're only going to get.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
That one loser. Okay, Well I don't think that makes
them a lose. Yeah, okay. And so every once in
a while, you know, we'll get an email or a
text or whatever DM and we'll get, you know, a
person asking us a question about their relationship, and we
get in there as experts, you know. And so we
did get an email here that says, hey show. First off,
(00:45):
let me say I love you guys. I've been listening
for years and whenever I miss anything, I make sure
to podcast it. Very smart enough for heart radio app.
I'm writing to you guys because I know you sometimes
give relationship advice. There you go. I've been with this
girl for about a month and things have been going well.
(01:05):
While this past weekend I stayed the night at her place,
I hope just had to sleepover married We're not married.
Everything was great until we woke up the next morning.
Right after we woke up, she said what I think
was one of the oddest things I've ever heard. She
looked over at me and said, quote, I missed you
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so much last night. I asked her what is she
talking about? And she said, I missed you because I
didn't get to dream with you. What what? What did
you like me to repeat that I missed you so
much last night. I missed you because I didn't get
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to dream with you. I was taken aback and just
kind of chuckled. But wtf. I ended up leaving after breakfast.
But am I crazy? Or is this girl a stage
five clinger? Missed me because we couldn't dream together. That's
so weird? Right? Am I overreacting? Or am I right?
(02:11):
And she's a stage five clinger? Helped me? I help guys,
P one, Steve bro I don't even know where to
begin with this. Listen, we all get crazy in the
beginning of a relationship. Our heads in the clouds. You know.
I think women is maybe even a little bit more
of like you know, they get a little you know,
(02:33):
daffy and say kind of crazy things like this, and
you know, maybe start writing the you know your name
with their last name and see maybe immediately that.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Was three months one.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
You're talking about what at least give me that. Wow,
that's wild. Did you ever say to Robert that you
missed him because you think it's a dream together.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
To be honest, I don't ever remember saying those exact words,
but that's neither here nor there. I remember being that
like obsessed with him in the beginning that I could
see myself saying something stupid.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Sure, yes I do.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Like honestly, like I think, I think, I think this
guy needs to just like wait it out a little
bit and see how she ends up being. I don't
think this is a this is a deal breaker at all.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I think she could be kind of this is coming
from a crazy chick though, so like you have to do,
you have to take with a grain of yeah, yeah,
she's a crazy Yeah, I am.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
A crazy chick, and it's the little things that get
me excited. So I could see myself, like I could
see myself saying like if I did think about that,
and I woke up and I was like, oh, man,
like it's so good to see you again after sleeping.
I could see myself maybe saying something stupid now in
the right state of mind, I'm not I think it's stupid,
but like, if you're all just like waking up and
you know kind of people are feeling it, sometimes.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Away from you is a waste of time. So true,
so true. I don't understand. Okay, so you just think
it's it's lovey dovey land right now, and don't get
too freaked out.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
No, but if she continues saying stuff like this, like
often in there.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Though, that's in there, and that's.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
A weird mind well, and I think some people like
express their feelings differently. That may seem a little kookie
to you, but that doesn't mean that they're like a
stalker or a clinger. Like right now, I'm deep into
this Big Brother conspiracy theory about there's a couple in
the house, two people who've met in the house on
my brother for saying this Riley and Catherine. Riley is
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this like country guy and.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
The Internet is super hot.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
The Internet is super concerned that he's like love bombing
her because of all these things he's saying, Like she'll
walk by and he'll be like, you know, you can't
walk by without giving me a kiss. And so it
depends how you take that, Like but where well, but
maybe where he's from. That's like, oh, I'm being cute
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and playful and this is our banter. But then like
stalker wise, you can be like I'm not allowed to
walk past you without kissing.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I'm not allowed to sleep without dreaming about you. Right,
So I mean it.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Seems like this Riley guy's doing this over and over again.
If you can name multiple there are multiple things. One comment, So.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
A guy does it? Creepy girl does it? You know
what I'm saying I'm talking about. Oh, yeah, she's a
weird I'm not a weirdo.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
So it just could be like an an outside perspective. Yeah,
it's a weird thing to say about the dreaming about
you thing.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
But do you get sad that you don't dream about
the boosing him?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
I've actually never had that thought. But that's but that's
very sweet. But maybe she just says over the top
sweet things. That doesn't mean she's going to be like
following you around and looking in your windows. I agree
with Emily, like give it a little time and see
what we're doing here?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Or you wake up gal you slept with She says
that she was missed you so much because she didn't
get to dream of with you. What is your response?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
My response in that moment is probably missed you too,
because because I just don't know what to say, and
I lie. I have a tendency to do that with
early relationship, So then I'd probably a little freaked out.
Thor in his twenties would just say I missed you too,
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and then just keep lying because I'm getting late and
I'm excited. Thor now would go would say I missed
you too, and then just ghost her because she's not
If you're If you're saying that that early, you're you're
a whack job. Bro, You're it's only been a month.
You're a whack job. It's only gonna get worse. She's
gonna get jealous. You're not gonna be able to look at
only fans chicks anymore on Instagram. We're done here.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Here's the thing about Eddie. You need to know. Eddie
doesn't have the ability to not be Eddie really, And
so when I'm lying there and the girl says that
to me, I am going to laugh out loud, and
I'm going to make fun of you. And if you're
not the girl that can hang with that, then we're
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not right for each other. I'd be like, you didn't
dream about me? Oh no, Like how do we fix this?
Like what are we gonna do now? Oh my god?
You know what, Let's just stay up all night the
way we can dream about each other whatever. I can't help,
but that's how I am, and I and and I
get it. Like if if you are offended by that,
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then we're problem not right for each other. But if
you laugh back and me and realize I'm a little
bit of a dope for saying that, and then okay,
we're cool, all right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
I would say I miss you, and then I probably
say I love you, and then I leave there.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
What I just do?
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Oh my god, oh my god, my buddy, Like, I
don't know what I do?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Dude, that seed, run bro, run, get out of there.
That's crazy.