July 22, 2025 • 15 mins
Sky is in the middle of ANOTHER home project which invloves putting in turf. With something so simple you wuldn't think there would be much drama involved... but you're wrong
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well, there's one thing you got to know about our
friend's guy over here. Pretty dramatic. She's a dramatic lady,
you know. I mean sometimes she thinks he's having a
stroke when really she's just got a headache.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Well, I think you could ask friends to check your
smile to see if it's crooked.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
And I don't think that's a little dramatic.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I think it's a little If her husband doesn't answer
the phone, she thinks that he's passed.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Out, but he's lost on arm, yes, and not bleeding
out on the ground. Definitely a limb has been chopped off.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
She's a worst case scenario chick. That is true, which
is wild because you're you know, I have this outlook
on life that's supposed to be sunny, and you always
go to the worst case.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So I have been worst case scenario girl. My whole
life plan for a rainy day, Like I've been thinking
and planning about will I have enough money to retire
since I was like eighteen, because the last thing I
want to do is be the elderly person with no
money for medical care and then I end up in
some weird eighteen probably since I was sixteen.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I don't know you think of retiring when you're eighteen.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So honestly, my whole thing of the last couple of
years of doing these self help audio books, which I
know you guys love when I tell you all about them,
is to try and change that mindset because that like
mindset of going to the worst case scenario is like
so bad for you.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You said the last couple of years.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Yeah, that I've been doing myself help. I mean, you
went out and bought a retirement house in Oregon. It's
not working. No, I still not working.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I still feel that as smart planning because I'm a
seven year old woman. But I can now reflect back
at sixteen years old. That's that's not healthy thoughts to have.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, if you're trying to change the mindset though it's
not working.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Right, Well, I'm still working on it and you're still
wildly dramatic.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Yes, so I don't know, and I.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Still know you're right.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Why not? Why not actual therapy? No, that's too much.
I have to do work and figure out why.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Because I have to put a brawn for that. And
you know, I know I don't want to deal I
don't want to deal with that. But but now there
is a little bit of progress.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Still, immediately we'll have that thought.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
But then I'll try and like talk myself out of
that thought, whereas before I was fully in that thought.
Like I'm practically calling nine one one because I know
my husband is laying on the ground bleeding out right now. Yeah,
he was in a bad sel servers area, so he
didn't get.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, this is uh, this is Sky, this is who
she is. And so yesterday we had a lot of
drama at Sky's house yesterday really over nothing. Well it
was over nothing. Don't try to don't try to spitch
on this thing, Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Like honestly, I'm still trying to come down from it,
and I'm still going on and I'm still.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Trying to not be mad at my husband.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Now you need to be a little mad at yourself yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
What Okay, So we have decided to rent out the
a du in our backyard.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Yes, we've heard tenant lovely.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Choice.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
By the way, going to UCSD. Uh, we'll be moving
in August first.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh, I can't wait for this. By the way, this
is gonna be phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I know I've already had like wild thoughts, you know
of like if I run into her bringing dinner in, Like,
do I invite her in for dinner?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
You know my weird overtalk you know, like I don't
I've never done this before. I don't know the rules.
I don't know face Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Can you imagine you've read you find this place and
you're like, all right, finally this is, you know, a
cool little rental, you know, an adu. Hopefully the people
are cool, they seem cool, and then this starts happening.
They invite you in for dinner.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
I read granny flash from somebody years ago. The last
thing you want to do is talk to the lamb. Yes,
that's the absolute last thing you want to do because
close to see them, and if you do see them.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
High are a little uncomfortable. That's it. The last thing
you want to do. You don't want them in your
business at all.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You want to act like they don't exist, and you
hope they about puppins.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Nope, Like even me, who's like really good friends with
my neighbors, for me, that's different, Like I like, I'm
okay with that, But even me, like who like likes
being around people and stuff, this is too far, Like
I would actually not talk to those people just because
you're so close you don't want to know each other
exists almost Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
So we'll see how that interactions is. I've already been
happened weird thoughts like what will I do in this scenario?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
What will I say.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Because you just want to wear a bron No.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
I'm definitely unable that braun so uh.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Basically, the reason I'm mentioning that is because within the
last month, because this just came down like confirmed a
month ago, we have like, okay, the remaining projects at
our house. We got to tidy them up because all
of them are basically the entrance to her Adu.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
We got to put a.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Fence, we got to move the shed, we got to
actually make a walkway, all this stuff. So that's been
going on and it's like been fast moving. Whereas normally
we take ten thousand years to complete a project, this one,
it's like August first is coming.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
We gotta go, yeah, deadline.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
So we've gotten some help with our project, and you know,
the hubby has been doing a lot of like the
building of the fences and all that. But we've gotten
help from this company putting turf in because the front
area is gonna have some turf where like the walkways
are and stuff.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Great, well probably, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
A week ago when the company started, you know, cleaning
out the area, they brought over the role of turf.
And if anybody has ever put turf in their yard,
you know that stuff is crazy stupid expensive.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Oh yeah, like on a wild level.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Like the first time I got a quote for turf,
I was I was like, this guy's trying to scam me.
And then I realized, oh no, that's just the price
for turf. It's just like defensive makes sense because it
lasts forever and you don't have to maintain it. So okay, whatever,
So we got a scream and deal on this turf.
So I'm talking the roll of turf we have is
(06:11):
about six grand worth of turf.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Okay, which six grand.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
That's no joke, No for anybody, six grand is a
lot of money, especially right now in this economy, like crazy.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
So I was surprised when.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
The company put the roll of turf in our front yard,
like cause we have a little gate blocking off the courtyard,
but right next to our driveway there's a little strip
of rock and that's where they put the roll of
turf and It was probably the second morning it was there.
I was here at work. It was like four thirty.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
In the morning.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
My ring cam goes off and it's a truck going
like by our house really slow that early in the morning.
And immediately my mind does what my mind does, and
I know for a fact that this truck is loading
up our six grand worth of turf in the back
(07:10):
and they're driving away.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I mean, that would be pretty wild. It's probably really heavy, right, I.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Mean, yeah, we're not, wouldn't you What time is it?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Four in the morning.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I just feel like you would hear.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
That, like yeah, but you don't like really hear like.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Is really heavy?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Yeah, it would take it would take a while a
few guys to load it onto a truck.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, But if you guys loaded it off a truck
in front of my house. So in my mind, I'm like, well,
if a few guys can load it off a truck,
then a few guys.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Can load it on a truck.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
So I am freaking out to the point where I
don't even mention it to you guys, because I'm so
sick to my stomach about it. Last week at work
and as soon as the hobby wakes up, I go.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Hey, can you go out front and check? Blah blah
blah blah.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Did the truck stop? Yeah, in front of your house?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well?
Speaker 4 (07:57):
And keep watching the ring footage yees.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
So it's kind of weird, Like basically I see it
pull in and kind of like stop with the lights on.
But the way our ring cam is my husband's car
in the parking lot blocks like half of the view,
so all I can see is that the car is
still there, it's idling the like because I can see
the lights, but I can't see what's going on in
(08:22):
the area where the turf is, like it's blocked by
my husband's car. So I'm sick to my stomach. I
call my husband as soon as he gets up and
I'm like, can you check? And that's when he says
it's still there and says exactly what you guys said.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Do you know how heavy that is?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Ye? Do you know how hard that would be even
if you had a pickup truck, The role would be
like hanging off the back because it's longer than a
pickup bend.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I mean, I understand the worry. Uh, But then after that,
did you move it?
Speaker 3 (08:55):
No?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
Because he like kind of topped me down, and like
I and and and then I started feeling bad and
again with all my self help books, I'm like, hey, dummy,
stop focusing on this, because if you focus on things,
you manifest things. You can make things happen if you
think about them too much.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
So now other tools to use other than saying hey dummy,
focus on something else, Like other tools to use, like hey,
do this, write this, or do here's this?
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Okay, yeah, like not actual sounds like they're actual psychologists
doing this book.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
So yes, there are actually big Sean but well that's just.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
One of all books.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
But at this point, you know, I'm I'm going, hey, dummy,
don't do that. You're first off, driving yourself crazy, and
second of off, you can manifest this thing and make
this thing happen, and that's the last thing you want
in the world. That's the last thing you want. So
I've been doing my best.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
It's safe, it's good. The turf is fine.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yes, you have six grand worth of products sitting in
your driveway all day, all night, but it's fine.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
It's safe. Everyone says.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
That's say, okay, great, So yesterday doing my business, come home,
take the dogs for a walk with the daughter walking
back up with the dogs, and it had been trash day.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Neighbors left their cans out of there.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Oh hey, they're cans right in front of the area
where the turf is. So I notice the cans are crazy,
like it's like somebody has pulled them and they're halfway
in front of their the neighbor's driveway, but they're in
the street. They're like at a weird colock eyed angle,
and so I'm like, hah. So it draws my attention
(10:32):
to where the turf fizz where's the turf? The roll
of turf is gone, Okay, the workers must have brought
it behind the gate.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
They're probably getting ready to install it.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
It's fine, and so I walk in and then the
dogs start barking at the workers. So I'm distracted. And
then later in the evening bring it up to my husband. Hey,
I swear when I came home the roll of turf
was gone. Is it in the front? Is it behind
the gate? Did I not see it? And he goes, no,
it's still out there. You just must be seeing things.
And I'm like, okay.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
God, I swear, I like, really, okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
And then later in the evening, normal evening routine. He
takes the trash out every night, which we've discussed you guys.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
He takes takes it.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Out and it's always I don't know why how we're
doing different trashes, but our kitchen trash is always full
at the end of the night.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Every night empties, no way, empties.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Crash out like once a what twice a week your
kitchen trash.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Yeah, he empties all the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
We have a thirteen gallon I don't know, maybe sisic
the tall kitchen, and he empties every bathroom trash every night.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
A lot. We do a lot of tissues still, like
every night. Yeah, so that's just the routine, guys.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:49):
I thought that. I thought everybody did that. I guess the.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Ass to go around to your bathroom trash every night.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
So as he's.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Bathroom trash once every two weeks because it doesn't get
it doesn't get full.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
So as he's getting ready to take the trash out,
I go, hey, can you just check and see if
that turf's there? And that's when he rolls his eyes,
doesn't even acknowledge me, and walks out with the trash bag,
comes back in white as a ghost.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Uh oh the turf is gone. Oh no, the turf
is completely No.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
So I immediately go call the landscaper guy, like, see
maybe something I don't know something happened, Like I have
no idea what could have happened, but call him immediately,
and he goes, no, we need to check the ring
camera footage.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
We need to go through and see what happened.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
And so again the cause of the landscape guy a
text real quick, ago, did you remove the turf?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Yeah, that's exactly what I told you. I probably told
him like three times, and he's adamant. It's almost like
we're calling the cops and we need to have the
story mapped out first. That's so odd, And so we're
like having an argument of call the landscaper, check the camera,
blah blah blah blah. So I'm checking the camera for
like fifteen minutes, going through different time frames because it's
(13:03):
the front, so anytime a car goes by, it goes off,
so there's so much to check. And so finally I'm
getting frustrated. We're fifteen minutes. In my mind's already going
to do I call the cops first? Do I call
my other neighbors and asked to see their ring camera footage, like,
what's my next move here?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Only move should be to call the lantern. Guess should
be the only move.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
So because especially you told me he's responsive to Oh
you can tell me he answers right away.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Answer. It's weird though if he took it and didn't
tell you guys, But that's odd.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
I agree. But the only move that's the first page
you take it. We can't we all know where it is.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
So I'm now like upset.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Worried, and then also matt at the husband, why won't
you call the landscaper.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
Call this guy? What do you just do you have
his number? But I've never like, I.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Don't you know that's that you don't communicate.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah, like I think we've said hello three times and
that's the extension tician.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Yeah, that's It's just I.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Don't even know if he knows where he and so
finally I get so mad, I say just call him,
and so the husband walks back and calls him, like
for some reason, walks in the backyard to call him.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
And doesn't come back out.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
So again I'm thinking police, neighbors, where am I going next?
And then I can't handle it anymore. So I walk
into the backyard to find the hobby smiling and laughing
and chatting it up with landscaper guy. And then I
give him a look of like of like WTF, like
what's going on? And then the husband just looks at me.
(14:38):
He gives me the thumbs up and mouths he took
the turf and yeah, So all of that, I was like,
literally like internally I was dying. I was like, I
was like level twelve out of ten, internally, like ready
to call the police. And it turns out, I mean
the landscaper guy apologized. The next level he goes, oh
(15:01):
my god, I was gonna tell you, but then I
got distracted by this other thing. Yes, he found out
that morning the turf had been cut wrong, so he
needed to bring it back to have it cut again,
and he was gonna tell us, but forgot and loaded
it on the truck, which was blocked by the ring cam.
So crisis overt?
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Well was it? Though?
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Well?
Speaker 4 (15:21):
I aged like fifteen.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Again, this is all very dramatic. I mean, all the things,
all the steps are incorrect, and you could have saved
yourself so much.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
Why didn't he just call? Why didn't he just I
don't know why didn't he just call.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Guy? You are a mess, tune nightmare.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'll be excited when this is over and then we'll
have a whole yeah, yeah, yes, all right
Well, there's one thing you got to know about our
friend's guy over here. Pretty dramatic. She's a dramatic lady,
you know. I mean sometimes she thinks he's having a
stroke when really she's just got a headache.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Well, I think you could ask friends to check your
smile to see if it's crooked.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
And I don't think that's a little dramatic.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I think it's a little If her husband doesn't answer
the phone, she thinks that he's passed.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Out, but he's lost on arm, yes, and not bleeding
out on the ground. Definitely a limb has been chopped off.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
She's a worst case scenario chick. That is true, which
is wild because you're you know, I have this outlook
on life that's supposed to be sunny, and you always
go to the worst case.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So I have been worst case scenario girl. My whole
life plan for a rainy day, Like I've been thinking
and planning about will I have enough money to retire
since I was like eighteen, because the last thing I
want to do is be the elderly person with no
money for medical care and then I end up in
some weird eighteen probably since I was sixteen.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I don't know you think of retiring when you're eighteen.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So honestly, my whole thing of the last couple of
years of doing these self help audio books, which I
know you guys love when I tell you all about them,
is to try and change that mindset because that like
mindset of going to the worst case scenario is like
so bad for you.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
You said the last couple of years.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Yeah, that I've been doing myself help. I mean, you
went out and bought a retirement house in Oregon. It's
not working. No, I still not working.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I still feel that as smart planning because I'm a
seven year old woman. But I can now reflect back
at sixteen years old. That's that's not healthy thoughts to have.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, if you're trying to change the mindset though it's
not working.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Right, Well, I'm still working on it and you're still
wildly dramatic.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Yes, so I don't know, and I.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Still know you're right.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Why not? Why not actual therapy? No, that's too much.
I have to do work and figure out why.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Because I have to put a brawn for that. And
you know, I know I don't want to deal I
don't want to deal with that. But but now there
is a little bit of progress.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Still, immediately we'll have that thought.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
But then I'll try and like talk myself out of
that thought, whereas before I was fully in that thought.
Like I'm practically calling nine one one because I know
my husband is laying on the ground bleeding out right now. Yeah,
he was in a bad sel servers area, so he
didn't get.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, this is uh, this is Sky, this is who
she is. And so yesterday we had a lot of
drama at Sky's house yesterday really over nothing. Well it
was over nothing. Don't try to don't try to spitch
on this thing, Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Like honestly, I'm still trying to come down from it,
and I'm still going on and I'm still.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Trying to not be mad at my husband.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Now you need to be a little mad at yourself yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
What Okay, So we have decided to rent out the
a du in our backyard.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Yes, we've heard tenant lovely.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Choice.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
By the way, going to UCSD. Uh, we'll be moving
in August first.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh, I can't wait for this. By the way, this
is gonna be phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I know I've already had like wild thoughts, you know
of like if I run into her bringing dinner in, Like,
do I invite her in for dinner?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
You know my weird overtalk you know, like I don't
I've never done this before. I don't know the rules.
I don't know face Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Can you imagine you've read you find this place and
you're like, all right, finally this is, you know, a
cool little rental, you know, an adu. Hopefully the people
are cool, they seem cool, and then this starts happening.
They invite you in for dinner.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
I read granny flash from somebody years ago. The last
thing you want to do is talk to the lamb. Yes,
that's the absolute last thing you want to do because
close to see them, and if you do see them.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
High are a little uncomfortable. That's it. The last thing
you want to do. You don't want them in your
business at all.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You want to act like they don't exist, and you
hope they about puppins.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Nope, Like even me, who's like really good friends with
my neighbors, for me, that's different, Like I like, I'm
okay with that, But even me, like who like likes
being around people and stuff, this is too far, Like
I would actually not talk to those people just because
you're so close you don't want to know each other
exists almost Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
So we'll see how that interactions is. I've already been
happened weird thoughts like what will I do in this scenario?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
What will I say.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Because you just want to wear a bron No.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
I'm definitely unable that braun so uh.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Basically, the reason I'm mentioning that is because within the
last month, because this just came down like confirmed a
month ago, we have like, okay, the remaining projects at
our house. We got to tidy them up because all
of them are basically the entrance to her Adu.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
We got to put a.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Fence, we got to move the shed, we got to
actually make a walkway, all this stuff. So that's been
going on and it's like been fast moving. Whereas normally
we take ten thousand years to complete a project, this one,
it's like August first is coming.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
We gotta go, yeah, deadline.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
So we've gotten some help with our project, and you know,
the hubby has been doing a lot of like the
building of the fences and all that. But we've gotten
help from this company putting turf in because the front
area is gonna have some turf where like the walkways
are and stuff.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Great, well probably, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
A week ago when the company started, you know, cleaning
out the area, they brought over the role of turf.
And if anybody has ever put turf in their yard,
you know that stuff is crazy stupid expensive.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Oh yeah, like on a wild level.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Like the first time I got a quote for turf,
I was I was like, this guy's trying to scam me.
And then I realized, oh no, that's just the price
for turf. It's just like defensive makes sense because it
lasts forever and you don't have to maintain it. So okay, whatever,
So we got a scream and deal on this turf.
So I'm talking the roll of turf we have is
(06:11):
about six grand worth of turf.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Okay, which six grand.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
That's no joke, No for anybody, six grand is a
lot of money, especially right now in this economy, like crazy.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
So I was surprised when.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
The company put the roll of turf in our front yard,
like cause we have a little gate blocking off the courtyard,
but right next to our driveway there's a little strip
of rock and that's where they put the roll of
turf and It was probably the second morning it was there.
I was here at work. It was like four thirty.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
In the morning.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
My ring cam goes off and it's a truck going
like by our house really slow that early in the morning.
And immediately my mind does what my mind does, and
I know for a fact that this truck is loading
up our six grand worth of turf in the back
(07:10):
and they're driving away.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I mean, that would be pretty wild. It's probably really heavy, right, I.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Mean, yeah, we're not, wouldn't you What time is it?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Four in the morning.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I just feel like you would hear.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
That, like yeah, but you don't like really hear like.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Is really heavy?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Yeah, it would take it would take a while a
few guys to load it onto a truck.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, But if you guys loaded it off a truck
in front of my house. So in my mind, I'm like, well,
if a few guys can load it off a truck,
then a few guys.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Can load it on a truck.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
So I am freaking out to the point where I
don't even mention it to you guys, because I'm so
sick to my stomach about it. Last week at work
and as soon as the hobby wakes up, I go.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Hey, can you go out front and check? Blah blah
blah blah.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Did the truck stop? Yeah, in front of your house?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well?
Speaker 4 (07:57):
And keep watching the ring footage yees.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
So it's kind of weird, Like basically I see it
pull in and kind of like stop with the lights on.
But the way our ring cam is my husband's car
in the parking lot blocks like half of the view,
so all I can see is that the car is
still there, it's idling the like because I can see
the lights, but I can't see what's going on in
(08:22):
the area where the turf is, like it's blocked by
my husband's car. So I'm sick to my stomach. I
call my husband as soon as he gets up and
I'm like, can you check? And that's when he says
it's still there and says exactly what you guys said.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Do you know how heavy that is?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Ye? Do you know how hard that would be even
if you had a pickup truck, The role would be
like hanging off the back because it's longer than a
pickup bend.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I mean, I understand the worry. Uh, But then after that,
did you move it?
Speaker 3 (08:55):
No?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
Because he like kind of topped me down, and like
I and and and then I started feeling bad and
again with all my self help books, I'm like, hey, dummy,
stop focusing on this, because if you focus on things,
you manifest things. You can make things happen if you
think about them too much.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
So now other tools to use other than saying hey dummy,
focus on something else, Like other tools to use, like hey,
do this, write this, or do here's this?
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Okay, yeah, like not actual sounds like they're actual psychologists
doing this book.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
So yes, there are actually big Sean but well that's just.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
One of all books.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
But at this point, you know, I'm I'm going, hey, dummy,
don't do that. You're first off, driving yourself crazy, and
second of off, you can manifest this thing and make
this thing happen, and that's the last thing you want
in the world. That's the last thing you want. So
I've been doing my best.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
It's safe, it's good. The turf is fine.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yes, you have six grand worth of products sitting in
your driveway all day, all night, but it's fine.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
It's safe. Everyone says.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
That's say, okay, great, So yesterday doing my business, come home,
take the dogs for a walk with the daughter walking
back up with the dogs, and it had been trash day.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Neighbors left their cans out of there.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Oh hey, they're cans right in front of the area
where the turf is. So I notice the cans are crazy,
like it's like somebody has pulled them and they're halfway
in front of their the neighbor's driveway, but they're in
the street. They're like at a weird colock eyed angle,
and so I'm like, hah. So it draws my attention
(10:32):
to where the turf fizz where's the turf? The roll
of turf is gone, Okay, the workers must have brought
it behind the gate.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
They're probably getting ready to install it.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
It's fine, and so I walk in and then the
dogs start barking at the workers. So I'm distracted. And
then later in the evening bring it up to my husband. Hey,
I swear when I came home the roll of turf
was gone. Is it in the front? Is it behind
the gate? Did I not see it? And he goes, no,
it's still out there. You just must be seeing things.
And I'm like, okay.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
God, I swear, I like, really, okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
And then later in the evening, normal evening routine. He
takes the trash out every night, which we've discussed you guys.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
He takes takes it.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Out and it's always I don't know why how we're
doing different trashes, but our kitchen trash is always full
at the end of the night.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Every night empties, no way, empties.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Crash out like once a what twice a week your
kitchen trash.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Yeah, he empties all the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
We have a thirteen gallon I don't know, maybe sisic
the tall kitchen, and he empties every bathroom trash every night.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
A lot. We do a lot of tissues still, like
every night. Yeah, so that's just the routine, guys.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (11:49):
I thought that. I thought everybody did that. I guess the.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Ass to go around to your bathroom trash every night.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
So as he's.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Bathroom trash once every two weeks because it doesn't get
it doesn't get full.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
So as he's getting ready to take the trash out,
I go, hey, can you just check and see if
that turf's there? And that's when he rolls his eyes,
doesn't even acknowledge me, and walks out with the trash bag,
comes back in white as a ghost.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Uh oh the turf is gone. Oh no, the turf
is completely No.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
So I immediately go call the landscaper guy, like, see
maybe something I don't know something happened, Like I have
no idea what could have happened, but call him immediately,
and he goes, no, we need to check the ring
camera footage.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
We need to go through and see what happened.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
And so again the cause of the landscape guy a
text real quick, ago, did you remove the turf?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Yeah, that's exactly what I told you. I probably told
him like three times, and he's adamant. It's almost like
we're calling the cops and we need to have the
story mapped out first. That's so odd, And so we're
like having an argument of call the landscaper, check the camera,
blah blah blah blah. So I'm checking the camera for
like fifteen minutes, going through different time frames because it's
(13:03):
the front, so anytime a car goes by, it goes off,
so there's so much to check. And so finally I'm
getting frustrated. We're fifteen minutes. In my mind's already going
to do I call the cops first? Do I call
my other neighbors and asked to see their ring camera footage, like,
what's my next move here?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Only move should be to call the lantern. Guess should
be the only move.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
So because especially you told me he's responsive to Oh
you can tell me he answers right away.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Answer. It's weird though if he took it and didn't
tell you guys, But that's odd.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
I agree. But the only move that's the first page
you take it. We can't we all know where it is.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
So I'm now like upset.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Worried, and then also matt at the husband, why won't
you call the landscaper.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
Call this guy? What do you just do you have
his number? But I've never like, I.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Don't you know that's that you don't communicate.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah, like I think we've said hello three times and
that's the extension tician.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Yeah, that's It's just I.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Don't even know if he knows where he and so
finally I get so mad, I say just call him,
and so the husband walks back and calls him, like
for some reason, walks in the backyard to call him.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
And doesn't come back out.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
So again I'm thinking police, neighbors, where am I going next?
And then I can't handle it anymore. So I walk
into the backyard to find the hobby smiling and laughing
and chatting it up with landscaper guy. And then I
give him a look of like of like WTF, like
what's going on? And then the husband just looks at me.
(14:38):
He gives me the thumbs up and mouths he took
the turf and yeah, So all of that, I was like,
literally like internally I was dying. I was like, I
was like level twelve out of ten, internally, like ready
to call the police. And it turns out, I mean
the landscaper guy apologized. The next level he goes, oh
(15:01):
my god, I was gonna tell you, but then I
got distracted by this other thing. Yes, he found out
that morning the turf had been cut wrong, so he
needed to bring it back to have it cut again,
and he was gonna tell us, but forgot and loaded
it on the truck, which was blocked by the ring cam.
So crisis overt?
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Well was it? Though?
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Well?
Speaker 4 (15:21):
I aged like fifteen.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Again, this is all very dramatic. I mean, all the things,
all the steps are incorrect, and you could have saved
yourself so much.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
Why didn't he just call? Why didn't he just I
don't know why didn't he just call.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Guy? You are a mess, tune nightmare.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'll be excited when this is over and then we'll
have a whole yeah, yeah, yes, all right
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