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June 2, 2025 12 mins
Sky told us that her husband crossed a line and she is not happy about it at all... Of course we had to tell her that it is kinda her fault...
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So I'm fascinated to hear what this is. I don't
know where we could be going here. This guy says,
not too happy where their husband the boo all because
he's She says he got too invasive, too intrusive, too
much in something, too much certain that his whole thing.
Doesn't he always do that?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, but this is like different, So I get it.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Uh, some one, one or two humans out there may
think that me and my husband are a little codependent
on one another.

Speaker 4 (00:32):
You go to doctor's appointments together, same room, very weird.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
We may do things together that most normal adults do separately.
Like you said, said physical where we've literally got physicals
at the same time in the same room by the
same doctor.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
I've literally never heard that in my life.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
But we do choose to do a lot of things together.

Speaker 5 (00:53):
Share a look at hippolaws or something that's right.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
I don't know. I think your spouse is allowed.

Speaker 5 (00:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Maybe if they sign off. I don't really know how
it works. You're probably right, but whatever that, that's just
how we roll. So we like to plan our appointments together.
If we can go grocery shopping together. We like to
pull weeds together. So we do a lot of stuff together,
and we share a lot of things. But this thing
he did without asking me, I feel crossed the line.

(01:21):
Oh okay, so here's something that may be weird.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
My husband and I share an Apple ID.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Well don't you and your daughter and husband. You guys
are all like on the same thing, right.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
So we all shared an Apple ID for many years.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
And then it was probably two.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Or three years ago my daughter said, hey, am I
allowed to have my own Apple ID so I can
have my own music thing, so I can have my
own photo stream.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Uh, I bother you.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
No, it was fine, and honestly it was better because,
you know, like all all of our pictures were in
the same photo stream, so she would like ask questions like,
you know, why are you doing this thing at work?
You know, because there's a lot of weird pictures of
weird things we do here at work that make no.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Sense to anyone.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
So anyway, so she split off from us a couple
of years ago. But the hobby and I have the
same Apple ID and it's fine. It's never really been
a problem. The only time it's a problem is when
we get an update on our phone and then we'll
start getting each other's text messages and voicemails and stuff,
which is kind of weird. And we actually have to

(02:37):
manually go in our phone and unselect the numbers because
it has two numbers for each thing, right, because we're
both on the same thing.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
But besides that, it hasn't been one.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
You just have your own Apple ID.

Speaker 5 (02:49):
I didn't even know you could share nothing, Like, Yeah, once.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
You open your own Apple account, it's free, like you
like me and my wife are under the same eighteen.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
T yes, like I'm the head of it.

Speaker 6 (03:01):
Yeah, but like, but we have separate accounts, like separate
Apple accounts where I don't see your photos or anything
like that.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
So this happened when like literally we got when they
invented an Apple ID, and I just opened one on
my phone, and then we bought him a phone, and
then we're like, well, why do we need to you know,
we'll share the same iTunes because that was literally the
only thing they had back then. But since then, clearly
it's evolved it would make sense to have separate ones.

(03:31):
But here we are, and this is our life, so
we've just accepted that for the rest of our lives.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
We're gonna sha an Apple ID.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
And again hasn't really been an issue.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Do enjoy that I can track his devices he can
track my devices because again we're all on the same
Apple ID. But the other day guy went too far
and I didn't even see this coming, Like I I
wouldn't even consider crossing this line. So again, same Apple ID.
I make playlists. I like to make playlists on our

(04:03):
music thing. My husband likes to make playlists. My playlists
around like stretching, meditating, working out. His is kind of
more like when he finds new music, when he gets
into some weird new band. Yeah, he's always finding something weird,
like this marching band he fell in love with from Cachella.
I'm like, okay, great, put that whatever. That's you, bro,

(04:26):
that's you, so no problem, that's fine. Well he made
some weird comment. The other day. We were on the
pool and I put on the blue tooth speaker and
decided to put on my playlist entitled beautiful.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
What the hell? What is that? What's under that?

Speaker 5 (04:44):
Beautiful?

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Is my playlist that I go to in the Morning's
here at work, normally for stretching. But it was a
lovely day. So you'll find things like audio slave like
a Stone, but it'll also go into Maclamore Cha Aunt,
then into Moby Porcelain, Uh into Lady Gaga always remember

(05:06):
us this way. So it's some slower what I think
are beautiful songs.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
That's what it's called. Beautiful, beautiful, Yes it is.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
These are my.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
Inducing okay, and you stretch in the morning, yes.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
This morning and this morning.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Kelly Clarkson's The Trouble with Love and Love was played.
It's on the Beautiful Playlist. It's on the Beautiful God.
It follows Hozier's too Sweet If if you were wondering,
so great, Okay, So I decided to play this in
the backyard, order the pool whatever. I kind of hijacked
the bluetooth speaker. Fine, whatever, well the boo. My husband

(05:45):
enjoyed the playlist, commented, oh what is this? And I said, oh,
this is my beautiful playlist, which he as well laughed at.
And then it ended, and then he did make some
comment going, oh, that's kind of a short playlist, which
I didn't think so because it seventeen songs. But I
guess to him, that's a short playlist, so I don't
think anything of it. Yeah, how long do I need

(06:08):
a playlist to be like, what am I doing here?
So I don't really think anything of it. And then
I come into work and I'm gonna do my morning stretches.
So I go to open my beautiful playlist to see
what song would I like to stretch to this morning.
I normally only get one song's worth, you know, because
we don't got all day here.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
Stretching for four minutes. Yeah that's it.

Speaker 5 (06:27):
Oh yeah, it was longer.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
Oh no, no, no, now that I am doing my
you know, daily.

Speaker 5 (06:33):
You've never walked in mid stretching session.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
No, no, that'll be really uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
I won't cut it that close. Okay, you don't need
to say that. I mean maybe you'd get turned on.
You know, you don't know what these stretches are all about.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
I don't so anyway, So I go to open my
beautiful playlist and that is when I notice that six
songs have been added to my playlist.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
And you didn't that I did not add these six songs. Huh?

Speaker 3 (07:05):
And then I go home and you know, cause my
brain's recking, like did I mess up?

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Did I know?

Speaker 3 (07:12):
Two of these songs? I don't even know what they are?
One is from a band called Dispatch. The other is
from a band everything but the girl. I don't know
who these people are. Okay, they may be nice songs.
I don't know what you're doing here. So I immediately recall
the hubby's comment about my playlist being too short, and

(07:34):
I go home and I go, did you add some
songs to my playlist? He goes, oh, yeah, you're welcome,
like in all seriousness, like in all seriousness, like not joking,
like you're welcome.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
And I go, you can't do that.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
I say, you can't go into another man's playlist and
start adding songs another human's playlist, have another You can't
do that. There's like it's like going into a diary
and writing like a journal entry, like making some notes
like this is my playlist.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
I put this together.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
You can't just.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Jump in there and add songs.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
And he was so confused, like he was doing me,
he was doing something nice, he was doing a favor,
he was helping.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
He doesn't understand that that a playlist is kind of
personal and obviously it's what you want, right.

Speaker 5 (08:19):
Super personal.

Speaker 4 (08:20):
Yeah, yeah, but this is.

Speaker 6 (08:21):
I understand everyone's right. And I remember when you two
had their new album put on all of our iTunes
and it was like I felt violated. Yeah, so I
totally get it. But but how they are and how
sky is. I don't see anything wrong here because she
tracks the guy wherever he goes and there's no big deal.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
He doesn't care. I don't care. It's not because I
am worried or anything. I just want to know where
he is.

Speaker 6 (08:49):
So if you're that close and you could do that
much together that I don't think he did anything wrong
because I could.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
See her doing this to him.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
But don't do that.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
That is zach r far. That's too fun.

Speaker 6 (09:01):
Making sure the guy, make sure you know where the
guy is twenty four to seven is okay, yes, but
putting on his playlist is too far.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
My playlist.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
Yes, Wait, I don't agree. I don't.

Speaker 6 (09:09):
I don't think he did anything wrong with the way
you are in his doctor's appointment with him.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
Okay, So I don't think he's anything.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
You and Haley shared this weird love of like Eminem
right where you guys are like anything new comes out,
You're chattering, You're chattering, you're sharing, you're sharing. If you
had an Eminem playlist and she added some extra Eminem wouldn't.

Speaker 6 (09:28):
Be able to because we don't share a count but
if she did, but it's but it's it's but we
don't share accounts. You guys share accounts. So I think
it puts it at that weird level. I can't relate. Well,
we don't do doctors appointments together.

Speaker 3 (09:41):
Well, for twenty years, homeboys never added something to my playlist,
and then all of a sudden, Homie Homie the clown
thinks he can get in.

Speaker 6 (09:50):
Here normal people like if Haley had a new Eminem song,
she would text me it.

Speaker 4 (09:54):
That's what normal, That's what I know. Yeh, did the
songs like make sense.

Speaker 5 (09:59):
With the play did you check out Homie songs?

Speaker 3 (10:02):
Homie songs go? They're nice songs, they are beautiful songs.
They go, but like I have.

Speaker 4 (10:10):
This you want to have behind them? Or well, I.

Speaker 5 (10:13):
Didn't pick them.

Speaker 3 (10:15):
I feel violated. I feel like something was done without
me asking. I kind of want to delete them out
of spite now, even though I do like, well, I
like the songs, so I'm mess.

Speaker 4 (10:25):
Then he actually did help you out?

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Yeah, but you're not. You're not allowed to help me
out unless I asked you to help me out.

Speaker 6 (10:29):
It's it's Sky's rules on this one, Like, it's Sky's rules.

Speaker 5 (10:35):
You share all this stuff and you share the same account.
This is bound to happen the.

Speaker 6 (10:39):
Way, And if she did something maybe not like the playlist,
but something like this to him, she'd be defending yourself
right now and we'd all be like, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
So I come home, he's wearing my clothes.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's like, Oh, we don't know what goes on.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
That was probably a bad example.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
Yeah, that was. That wasn't a great example. If you
like it, what what's the issue?

Speaker 2 (11:03):
I feel violated? I feel like, like, what's what's he.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
Going to do?

Speaker 4 (11:06):
I get it if you didn't like it, But if
you liked it, then what do you care?

Speaker 3 (11:11):
I again, I feel like, what what are you going
to tamper with next?

Speaker 2 (11:14):
You got to keep it, tamper with.

Speaker 5 (11:15):
It, and you guys share it all like you guys.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
It's aunt like if he would have, like if.

Speaker 5 (11:20):
He knew your Apple password and you guys had separate
accounts and.

Speaker 4 (11:22):
He like win and log down, it would be weird.
That's a violation. That's a violation, you guys.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
It's all one.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
But out of twenty years, this has never happened.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Welly, now, yeah, because times do you listen to a
playlist and then it comes to conversation and this whole thing.

Speaker 6 (11:35):
Also, I think I could all agree you guys have
gotten weirder over the last twenty years.

Speaker 4 (11:40):
So sunny, I mean, they've gotten weirder. Every day it
gets weirder.

Speaker 6 (11:45):
So it's only getting weirder and weirder, and who knows
what's next.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
I definitely can't argue that.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
Oh I don't. I don't know where to go with that.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
Comment because I definitely can't argue them. I think I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
I mean, honestly, I don't understand what the add stuff
to his just yeah, that does make sense.

Speaker 5 (12:05):
Whatever that is that you got.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
About you're beautiful beautiful playlist?

Speaker 1 (12:12):
Oh wow, there you go, all just songs, beautiful beautiful.

Speaker 4 (12:20):
Dad.

Speaker 6 (12:20):
Keep going to start sending you start sending the messages
like stuff that you want to change, and you add
songs like that you want to eat less dessert to
have a song about, like, you know, getting in shape.

Speaker 4 (12:31):
You know what I mean, physical, your.

Speaker 6 (12:33):
Physical stuff like that. Start setting them psychological messages.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
Boy, Okay,

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