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October 10, 2024 • 12 mins
On today's P1 Podcast, we talk about sending explicit pictures and how to be a gentleman when asking for them
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, I have heard four years that there is one
way and one way only that you can ask a
girl for nudes, and that.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Is send a pic.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
That's it?

Speaker 3 (00:14):
Wait, what's it? Is he joking?

Speaker 1 (00:17):
I don't know. I don't know is he is he?
Or is he not? Maybe send it and see what happens?

Speaker 4 (00:24):
Wait or not? I mean listen and if you're not,
if you don't want to getting around joking, he wrote.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
You didn't really want to send it?

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Well, I don't know if send the pick lo o
L is going to be in this way to ask
for nudes like a Gentleman't done yet.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
It's time for the podcast, completely uncensored and unacting filtered
except for that part the.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Shows after show starts.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
Now, it really sucks that I missed out on two things.
I missed out on online dating because it seems just
so easy and so like ways to hook up Tinder
that was past my time. And I also missed out
on really the sending nudes thing because because cell phones.
We had cell phones, but I got basically hitched up

(01:24):
by two thousand and five, and so they then the
starting sending pictures and stuff like that really happened after that.
So I didn't really get to ask for nudes. You know,
maybe polaroids. That's creepy.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
There's my address it.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Eventually I'll get it, But no, I never get I
got to get the film developed, and I mean it's
not as cool such a thing, the sending the nudes.
I never got to be a part of that thor though.
You get some pretty pretty fun pictures back.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
The yeah, back in the day, I get some picks. So, yeah,
it's a weird girl love sending that stuff. They act
like they don't like they've never done it. They don't
have a roll of decks of pictures. They said, give
me a break.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
Everyone knows.

Speaker 6 (02:08):
That's why it was before my time to the picks
and stuff. No, I just have Robert, who doesn't really
ask for them anymore.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
You still send them, he doesn't send.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
You have to look at this, Yeah, look at I
don't like it for him.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
I can't imagine the boot how much he would love
a pick. Send him a pick, yeah, freak out, quick
titty picks guy, quick titty Yeah.

Speaker 7 (02:33):
I don't I don't even know how that would just
go bathroom here, pull them out, tick pice face you go,
no face, no face.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
I don't know how to do that.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
To tilt head. You can't get over why you can't
see your head?

Speaker 7 (02:48):
You just stand there with them hanging. Do you push
them together?

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Do you need to lie?

Speaker 1 (02:53):
It's no longer sexy. Forget it. You've done it again?
What are you doing? Stretchy?

Speaker 2 (02:57):
When do you ever reach like that?

Speaker 3 (02:59):
I don't know, I don't I've never I've never taken
a picture of my naked breasts, so I don't know
how to do that. So it's okay, pass my time.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
So yeah for your stores. Told us the way you
asked for a picture from a girl, is he say,
send a pic? Lol? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:15):
And I would.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
I would when I was just dating, and I didn't.
I just didn't care what anyone thought. So we would
start talking on tender or or was the other one
bumble pretty? And then within like twenty minutes, I wouldn't
give a ship. I wouldn't give up.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Give me a percentage of how.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Really ninety five percent?

Speaker 4 (03:39):
I mean, most people act like it's chicks love sending picks.
Jamie's young, he knows chicks love sending picks.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Chicks love.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
He's married up to chicks.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Well, I'm saying when he was single. Are you ever single?

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (03:55):
It was Chicks love sex and sending picks just as
much as dudes, Okay, especially nowadays.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
And I'm looking at in.

Speaker 6 (04:02):
Here, well, I mean, I'm just yeah, I feel like
I do it more in the beginning of a relationship.
But I did like sending him because I love the
response i'd get of like, how hot.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
You tagine, big fake titty, I would family threat, I
didn't care whatever I did.

Speaker 6 (04:24):
Wait, family thread, Wait a minute, I almost passed over that.
I did have photographs taken though, that's different. And I
did have print ounce hard copies of them that I
did share with a couple of dudes over to my
house and we're like hanging.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
Out like the mailman, not the mail man, Addie.

Speaker 6 (04:44):
The guys I was seeing or whatever. Give a I
don't remember how it would come up, but I didn't. No,
I didn't give it to him. I showed showed him.

Speaker 4 (04:53):
You also know if you're talking to a sky or
a regular chick, like when you're on bumble and.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
You're talking to.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
A regular check I don't think it's offensive because a
sky is conservative.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
You know pretty quickly.

Speaker 4 (05:07):
If you're not getting there and you're not going to
go there, and then you're just gonna be like, all right,
and she's not into this because.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
You don't, you say. Most of the time, the conversation always.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Goes to sexual.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
It always leads to sex, at least when I I mean, listen,
I haven't been on bumble in eight years, but when
I was seven years, when I was on bumble or
tender within fifteen minutes.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
It always leads to what's your favorite position? You know
what I mean?

Speaker 6 (05:29):
And how does that pivot take?

Speaker 2 (05:31):
So you're I don't know it.

Speaker 6 (05:34):
From from San Diego?

Speaker 2 (05:36):
How do you take that turn? I don't know.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
You just start talking about something like things you like,
and then it just takes. And then usually she throws
it out there or I'll throw it.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
Out there like you.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yes, and then and then it just and then and
then it and then it turns.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
And then you know, and send a pick now and
it comes and it comes ding years of pick and
sometimes you think I'll get a pick and it'll be like,
oh please, this is a stock photo.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
You know, if it's cloth or their clothes, you know,
give me a break.

Speaker 6 (06:12):
Its a pick they took of themselves, like six years,
six years ago.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yeah, and then what you sorry? Sky? Once you send
the pick, you know you're getting late.

Speaker 7 (06:22):
So this would be my response if you're like, send
a pick l O L, because.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
You don't just throw it out there like lead up
like you.

Speaker 7 (06:31):
But I'm Sky, I'm Sky. So he's talking more sex than.

Speaker 4 (06:34):
I am, saying what's your favorite position?

Speaker 2 (06:37):
And you're like missionary lights out? And then I go
send a pick.

Speaker 7 (06:41):
I would say napping. But but I had any chick
ever done this, because this is what I would do.
I would find like a ridiculous picture of just anything,
like a flower, and then I'd send.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
It to you and that yes, as you just said,
send a pick, and then you'll yeah. And then if yah,
it's like a pick I've had that happened, whre it's
a picture of their armpit and I go ha, And
then I just stopped replying.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
Ghosts, ghost you don't want the challenge, no, God, because.

Speaker 4 (07:11):
Then because then you're that kind of chick, you know
what I mean, You're that kind of chick.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Kind of sends a picture of strawberry shortcake.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
Hell yeah, Garfield, Rather you just say I'd rather you
just say why don't you? Because I've had that too.
Why don't you send one? They and they're right, lollll.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
What you do?

Speaker 4 (07:34):
I would go, I would go may, I'd say maybe,
and then I get them to send.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
One first, and then I wouldn't send home you are
so used to send back. I have just just not impressive,
just dick. I mean, I don't think it wasn't impressively zoom.
It wasn't zoom average. It's hard to get a good
angle of a dick, you know, with the boobs, Like.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Listen, that may be a gentleman will way of handling.
It's it's not blatantly saying like.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yeah, but the ghosting them after all gentlemen.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
No, no, no, I like this, but there are ways
I guess to be a gentleman and still ask for
a pick.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (08:20):
The people that ask men put out a whole article
about this because they say the creeper risk is really
strong and a lot of guys don't know how to
do this properly.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Oh guys are idiots.

Speaker 7 (08:31):
Yeah, So they say, if you want to have a
little tact, here are a couple tips.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
First, you should actually for know.

Speaker 7 (08:38):
The person and have some sort of existing relationship, not
that you just met on Tinder.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
Like I would even go as far as say ninety
the time.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
But that doesn't mean you were a gentleman.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
It just does.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
It works, doesn't.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Mean you're I know Emily, we have a good relationship. Yes,
can I now ask her for a pick?

Speaker 2 (08:58):
I don't think you can?

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Why not? Don't?

Speaker 5 (08:59):
I know?

Speaker 2 (09:00):
We're both.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
And I feel like coworkers make it not gentlemen.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
We're friends. We're not coworkers. We're friends.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
Okay, we're in pretenders.

Speaker 7 (09:09):
So I mean if you're both single and you're both friends,
so that's the caveat.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Well, I feel like you're I don't think that.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
Needs to be written.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
I didn't hear her say that.

Speaker 7 (09:19):
I feel you're not a gentleman. If you're cheating on somebody,
asking for cheating, yes, well, asking for picks, yes.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
That's cheating.

Speaker 7 (09:26):
Asking for nude physical cheating, that's not cheating.

Speaker 3 (09:31):
Ask your wife. I'm sure she'd think.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
That's she would upon that she did think.

Speaker 3 (09:38):
I think I think she'd more than frown upon that.

Speaker 7 (09:41):
Next they say, interesting, be subtle, but start a conversation
about something sexual.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
I mean the game a little bit, so I don't
remember what I used to say, but I don't know
how I would turn it into it, but sometimes the
girl would like and then it's like, oh okay, and
then you're getting and we then we go.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Okay, and you get it.

Speaker 4 (10:03):
Every once in a while you get the video. The
video you gotta work for whoa the video you gotta wolds.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (10:09):
So they say, if you want to be a gentleman,
once the talk starts to get a little bit sexual,
they say, do not cannon ball in at this point.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
Do not be like send nudes. No you're not there yet.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
Let me see that sweet pussy.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
Yeah, you don't want to.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
You don't want to be aggressive. Trying to pick L
O L will always work. Not finger blast yourself. I think,
little a.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
Little Eddie, don't get this.

Speaker 7 (10:37):
Uh, start with the compliments and make the compliments a
little bit like sexual, about how sexy she is and
she has a great body, you know, these kinds of things.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
So now we're talking about our bodies and sex and
all this.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
But talking to Sky, if you're.

Speaker 4 (10:54):
Talking to Scott, you be like, and the way you
tilt your heads and these selfies so hot, thank you.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
And then she'd be like, oh, maybe I will send.

Speaker 7 (11:01):
A picture my head tilt, I'll send a picture. Yeah
that They say, Okay, So now you're there. Now you're
to the point where you can start asking, not asking
for the picture, but start asking about their feelings about
sending news.

Speaker 4 (11:20):
Oh my god, that's like when you watch The Bachelor
and the guy ask if he can kiss you.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
That is the biggest cringe sheet thing you could do.

Speaker 1 (11:32):
God. Just it's just.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Something that you're into. Do they turn you on?

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Blah blah blah blah blah.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
This is like fifty years. This is like my parents
doing this. That's what this sounds like.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
Boo, like Sky doing this is Sky doing this. If
you want to Sky was at a picture.

Speaker 7 (11:48):
And then they say finally, because you're now at the
point where either there's going to be nudes exchanged or not,
and they say, if you want to be a gentleman,
and she declines or says we're not there yet or whatever. Joey,
don't be a baby about it, don't ghost her, don't
be an asshole, be telling.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
You know what. I like Thor's advice better
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