Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

Relationships are complex. They are filled with ups and downs, highs and lows. And sometimes, it can feel like you're struggling just to keep your head above water. If you're feeling like this, then it's important to reach out for help. That's where Tom and Staci Bartley come in. As relationship experts, they have helped countless couples overcome the challenges that they're facing. And now, they're here to help you. The Love Shack Live Show is filled with advice and tips that will help you get your relationship back on track. So if you're struggling in your relationship, make sure to tune in, it could be the best decision you ever make.

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October 31, 2025 62 mins

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You’re not fighting. You’re just… quiet. The kind of quiet that hums with tension instead of peace. Conversations stay about the calendar, the kids, and dinner, but not each other. You can feel the gap growing even while you sit side by side, and you catch yourself wondering, when did we stop being best friends?

If you’re tired of “fine,” tired of feeling like roommates, and unsure how to turn things around without sta...

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Living together but feeling miles apart.

You still share a home. Maybe even a bed. But the real stuff, the fears, the wants, the touch, has gone quiet. You keep telling yourself, “It’s just a phase.” But deep down, you know the distance isn’t shrinking.

This episode is for that moment.

I’m Staci Bartley, here with my partner Tom and our daughter Brooke. Inside Love Shack Live, we help people who are stuck between holding...

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If your partner asked for space and your whole body has been bracing ever since, you are not broken. You’re in survival mode.

On this episode of Love Shack Live, we’re speaking directly to you, the partner who’s been asked for space.

You know that feeling of walking around with your stomach in knots, checking your phone every few minutes, wondering if reaching out will make things worse? You’re not crazy for feeling thi...

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Have you ever said yes just to avoid an argument? You take it on, you promise you’ll change, you nod along. Even though inside you’re thinking, “I can’t keep doing this.” That’s not weakness. That’s an agreement that needs a closer look.

Last week we shared part one of this two-part series from The Better Love Club on how real connection is created. In part two, we’re looking at what blocks it: unhealthy agreements. We...

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Feeling close but not connected? You talk, you share a couch, you share a life… and yet the room feels cold. This episode of Love Shack Live is for anyone at a relationship crossroads who’s worn down by daily conflict and a widening emotional gap, but still wants a bond that feels genuine and lasting.

This special replay comes straight from the Better Love Club. Tom and I are in Italy scouting a venue for our 2026 coup...

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Have you ever stared at your phone, heart pounding, wondering if one wrong text could push your partner even further away? You're not alone. In this raw and practical episode, we break down the real reason relationships don't survive space - and it's not what you think.

The Hard Truth: Most relationships don't end because of space. They end because of miscommunication during that space.

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September 19, 2025 34 mins

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When someone you love pulls away, the question on loop is: Can we come back from this, or is the distance proof it’s over? If you’ve lived through weeks of silence, guarded talks, and feeling miles apart while sitting side-by-side, this one’s for you.

Relationship mentor Staci Bartley, with Tom and Brooke, answers real listener questions about what happens after space: when reconnection is actually possible, how to han...

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September 13, 2025 47 mins

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Your chest is tight. Your brain won’t stop spinning. Do you send the text…or go silent?

In this episode of Love Shack Live, Staci, Tom, and Brooke unpack what to do when your partner asks for space, and it feels like the beginning of the end.

You’ll hear Mia’s story, why “space” isn’t proof you’re unlovable, and how couples slide into the Default Option (limbo) when they haven’t learned the skills to stay connected unde...

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When a partner says they need space, most of us freeze, wait, and hope, until reality lands like a punch in the gut. In this episode, Staci, Tom, and Brooke unpack the “default option”: the unconscious choices (shutting down, chasing, over-explaining, policing “boundaries”) that slowly erode connection. You’ll learn why love isn’t the problem, missing skills are, and how simple, repeatable practices (regulating your b...

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Have you ever stared at your phone, heart pounding, wondering if the silence from your partner means they’re slipping away for good? You replay old conversations. You imagine what they’re thinking. You tell yourself to “give them space,” but inside, you’re screaming for connection.

Here’s the problem: space without connection is like cutting the power and expecting the lights to stay on. Sooner or later, everything goe...

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Have you ever felt like your relationship was running on empty, like the emotional gas tank hit “E” and suddenly your partner said, “I need space”? In that moment, everything can feel terrifying. The silence. The distance. The questions you can’t stop spinning in your head.

But here’s the truth: needing space isn’t always a sign the relationship is over. More often, it’s a survival response, the human need to regroup, ...

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When someone asks for space, it can feel like the ground falls out from under you. You start spiraling, Googling, second-guessing everything, and trying to hold it all together, but underneath, you’re unraveling.

This week, we’re opening up about the real reason we rebuilt our entire brand, launched a brand-new website, and created the Relationship Space Survival Quiz. Because too many people are walking through space ...

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They didn’t say it’s over. They just said they need space. But the silence that follows? It’s deafening. You’re still in the relationship, but not really. Still sleeping in the same house, maybe. Still scrolling their old messages. Still wondering if you’re holding on or just afraid to let go.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads. If you’re navigating daily conflict, emotional...

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You love them. You want it to work. But no matter how hard you try, something keeps getting in the way of that deep connection you crave.

This episode is for anyone standing at the edge of love, wondering why it feels so lonely even when you’re not alone.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads. If you’re facing daily conflict, growing emotional distance, or just aching for a more...

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When your partner asks for space, what are they really stepping away from, and how long should you wait before reaching out?

If you’ve been stuck in limbo, quietly wondering if silence means it’s really over… this one’s for you. In this deeply-requested rebroadcast, we’re breaking down one of the most agonizing questions in modern relationships:

“How do I restart the conversation without pushing them further away?”

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Why are we doing all the “right” things, but still feel so alone?

You plan the dinners, agree to keep the peace, perform the role of the supportive partner, and try not to rock the boat. And yet, something still feels off. The spark is gone. The intimacy is missing. The disconnection is unbearable.

In this episode of Love Shack Live, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood (and most essential) pa...

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Ever find yourself biting your tongue just to keep the peace, only to feel more alone than ever?

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads, navigating daily conflict, emotional distance, and the longing to rebuild a bond that feels real again. We’re here for the ones who want more than just “getting by” in love; you want connection that lasts.

This week, we’re asking: What’...

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Have you ever been told to “just give them space” but all it did was leave you with more questions, more pain, and zero real answers? If you’re at a relationship crossroads, wrestling with daily conflict, growing emotional gaps, or the panic that comes with feeling your partner drift away, you’re not alone. Love Shack Live is the podcast for those who want to rebuild real, lasting connection, not with more clichés, bu...

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Ever set a boundary in your relationship, only to feel more misunderstood, guilty, or disconnected than before? You’re not alone. In fact, so many of us try to draw healthy lines, only to end up in new arguments, feeling shut out, or wondering if we’re doing something wrong.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads, feeling the gap widen, and searching for a way back to g...

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You’re not angry. You’re not yelling. You’re just… tired.

The kind of tired that sinks in so deep, you’re not even fighting anymore, you’re just holding it together in silence, hoping things will somehow fix themselves. If love feels like a burden lately, if you find yourself walking on eggshells or wondering why it’s so quiet at home, you’re not alone. In fact, you’re living through one of the most common, yet least t...

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