June 7, 2024 • 15 mins
Our favourite moments from the show this week - Sam asks his nice smelling friend for some tips, would you trust men to use the new contraceptive gel, and Toni breaks down the reasons couples get into arguments!
0:00 What Are Your Qualifications
6:05 New Male Contraceptive
9:05 The Secret to Smelling Great
12:05 Why We Get into Arguments
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's best show Moments podcast, the
very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This week we talk about New Zealand at the moment.
Right our prime minister is out of the country this week.
Our Deputy Prime Minister Winston Peters, he's out of the
country this week, So who's in charge? David Seymour is
that acting prime minister this week?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
There you go, Okay, well let's see if anything happens
this week.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
The now a responds, But you.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Think about what is what's the sort of qualification from that?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
You know, he's never been a prime minister before, But
I guess now.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
You're doubting his quals not at all.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Most politicians study polls at university, don't they study politics?
So yeah, they study politics and then they become a
career politician. And then there are some that come from
different fields. So I can think of Shane restI, who's
a doctor and that's right, and then he's become a
politician and that leads me to qualifications.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
So this eighty I found this article over the weekend.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Eighty five year old woman who is working towards her
fourth university degree. Wow, and the reason and she says
she's doing it is she can't just sit around, And
she said she feels far better on the days that
she's studying than if she's just sitting at home in
a chair, not doing a hell of a lot.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
I love the plasticity of her mind.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
I dread the thought of having to go and upskill
and go to it and do it another degree like that.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
So the degree she's doing is in religious studies, philosophy
and ethics. The very first degree she did was pharmacy,
and then she had two in between. And in between all.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Of that, she was a teacher.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
So she just has spent her entire life learning basically.
And I feel like there's something in this. She says
she wasn't particularly brilliant at school. She did a levels
but didn't get a's. She's from the UK, so I
feel like there's something in this.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
I feel like that constant learning.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I mean, you either do that or you do the saduko,
don't you when your eighties?
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Keep the minds up. I do it in different ways.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
I kind of self teach, you know, Like all my
camera stuff is self taught. And I love to go
and I'm a YouTube learner from the University of YouTube.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
You you come down on me for my interior styling
course that I didn't complete because I didn't get the certificate.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
I don't see a certificate.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
For yourself looting video skills over there until I see.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
The frame degree, which doesn't count. Where's you mine?
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Where's YouTube? Send me the certificate?
Speaker 7 (02:14):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Why don't they start giving us corese certificates?
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But if you had to literally say all the things
that you're qualified in and think about it. For example,
you didn't know you're sitting next to a bronze medallion
Surf Life Saver.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Did you?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
No? No, that's a qualification on top of a degree
in a postgram when.
Speaker 6 (02:35):
It comes to Surf Life Saving. The thing that scares
me there is the bronze.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I was.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
You got a double degree? You got two degrees? Have
a year? Oh well I've got I've got a major
in a minor.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
I'm psych and bio in science, which probably makes me
the most highly qualified person in the room.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Are getting over there?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
What do you need? Degrees do you have because you
keep saying a double degree but you've actually one? Do
you or do you not have one? Do you or
do you not have one degree.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
How many have you got.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
I've only got one, but you did a postcrap. Yeah,
but that's not a degree.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And I've got one, then I've got a major degree.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I've also got majors and miners in marketing and management
as well.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But I don't count those post grade diploma and journals.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I don't have a dog in this qualified and something.
Surely you've got a certificate for your elliptical writing?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Did you do.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
University entrants and stuff that's university injuryes? You didn't go
to university? About my degree I got when you're sitting
over there with a.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
But do you have any other qualifications?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I mean, like I honestly I will get my certificate
for the interior styling.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Is there anything in that role?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
What do you mean you will get it?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Qualification?
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Qualifications?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
We did.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
We do it because because before we had children, we
thought we've been going to brush up on that sort
of stuff.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
We did.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
God ever happens to me in here, I don't know
who I'm going to go with, the bronze medalist over
here or the.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Guy that can't find his certificate. If I'm in trouble
and you're worried about my degree.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
And by the way, I think, I think to make
my Broms medallion relevant, I have to do a refresher.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
In that case, I'm still my Lord's license. So what
have you got? What qualifications are you allan? It's all about.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Qualifications you have, because this is a woman overseas is
studying up for her fourth degree.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
But the cool thing about this is is.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Her age eighty five, eighty five years of age doing
her fourth degree. The first one was in pharmacy, this
latest one is in religious studies. And she said it's
to keep her mind active and if she sits there
without doing a day of study.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
She doesn't feel as good. I love it.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
It's so positive and it's a message for us all.
Even if you thought you were going to retire, maybe
not from learning.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Keep the brain active as well. Michelle, what have you
got certificates?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
In?
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I want to.
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Crystal healing court five years ago in Australia before I
moved home. So I did that course, which was wonderful,
and then I went to a lovely lady Andy and
Tearron Go and I did my raiki one.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Ah see, this is what I'm talking about. It's you know,
you say qualifications, and it doesn't just mean degrees. It
can be certificates and lots of things. Jace, you failed
to mention you also have a Scout.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Certificate exactly Queen something or other Queen Scout. You're a queen?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
How did you become the queen? Was the Queen's middle
at the time.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I graduated from browning with you and I did a
bit of.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Girl guides as well.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Is the queen's Guides you?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
No, just because I didn't do it into my twenties,
but you should say he's not.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
And he can make some great damn But I tell
you have you got a queen's ward.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I solute you we're talking the male contraceptive and I
kind of wish Jas was here for this, and ironically
Stam has brought it to the table. The most responsible
person on the show.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
Jase, is the very guy you could trust with this
kind of responsibility of taking the male contraceptive gel.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
You would argue because in your relationship you look at
each other and you go who's most likely to not
forget to take their pill?
Speaker 6 (06:25):
Which I think is why the evolution up until this
point has trusted the woman. I mean, the woman is
the one that effectively has to deal with the consequences
of getting pregnant as well.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Well, well, I still think any day now, I love
child's gonna knock on your door.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
To be fair, I'm waiting for that.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
While there is hope for people like me in the
future because there is a new male contraceptive gel. That's
all you have to do is rub it on your
shoulders and it's very promising it at the stages apparently
it starts to work within eight weeks. That's when you
start to see the decrease in spom cow.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I don't like the idea of a gel because I mean,
I have taken the contraceptive pill as a very responsible
female for many years, and I just feel like a
gel feels really flimsy to me, like a pill is
a A gel feels like, oh, you didn't quite put.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Enough off, yeah? Or have I rubbed up agatest something
and it's come off. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
So I went and did a gym workout and then off.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
It's a very good point.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Two drugs in it, nees serone and test sorscerone, which
effectively brings down your testosterone.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And how I can see why you want to take
this because it's got tea in it.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
That's it. It's got a little testosterone.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
So not only will I not get you prigedant, but
I am ready to go, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
So you have to rub it between your shoulder blades.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Now, I think that is a cruel twist of fate
for most men who can't reach the middle of their back.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
So in order to be safe, you have to rub
it on my back.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I don't think I could reach the middle of my
own back. To be fair, I'm trying now. I'd have
to put the gel on the back of my hand
and then kind of do.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
A little I'm going to put the gel on a
loop and then rub it on a stick so that
I can do it myself.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
No, the loofer would absorb the gel. There's no way.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
It's a tough cell, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
I just don't I just don't think this would work.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
And I think the woman would have to do just
as much work, if not more than if she just
took the pearl.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Welln look, it would mean that they don't have.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Any of the pill side effects, which would be a
welcome change. But to wait eight weeks as well, I
mean that part's quite good.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Tell us the woman is.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Just trying to get out of this the whole time.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Tell us what you think would the male contraceptive honestly
work in your relationship. You can give us a call
on eight hundred double oh four Coast or one hundred
double oh for two six two.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Text us on two six nine. We would love to
get would.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Love to hear from you this morning. It's a it's
a very fun interesting topic. It's the future, really, isn't it?
Males taking the male contracepsion film.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
It is.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Your weekly feel good breakfast, best show moments, the very
best of Coasts Tony Street, Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Now we want to smell beautiful, don't we? So I
want to introduce to you this morning a man called
Travis mcdoner. Now you probably don't know, but he is
just a fleet manager for andrew Sims, which is a
car company. But every time I have an interaction with
this business and the man himself, Travis is there.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
He always smells amazing.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
So I fronted up the other day and I said, Travis,
how do you always smell so good?
Speaker 4 (09:25):
And that's confronting for Thomas, isn't it.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Well, the thing is here. There's actually two secrets to it.
The first thing was how he gets the perfume or
the cologne.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
You don't call it perfume.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
I don't think when you're a male, do yet.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
To remain smelling after you know, applying it in the
morning and it's still smelling great right into the evening.
But also the actual choice of clone that he uses.
Now he said he refuses to give that away because
it is the cologne that he gets the most comments
about from women and men.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
He wouldn't tell you what coloney wear is.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I got it out of him.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
This is Thomas sounds like a Travis.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
Sorry Trump, but I got it out of him.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
I said, I will not share your cologne with the
single person, but I am prepared to give away his
secrets today.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
So the first thing he does, do you know what
he does? He puts vassaline.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Oh, I don't know if I want to hear.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
This on his wrists and on his carotid artery. So
just a poor Travis. I just wanted to congratulate the guy.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Now I'm giving away a secret and you're you're saying
he's rubbing vascaline on his crotch.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
The poor guy.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Why did you have to say corotid artery? Don't you
just mean his neck?
Speaker 5 (10:36):
On the carotid arterye.
Speaker 6 (10:37):
According to to Travis, it's the absolute secret because that's
you know, that's where the pulse is giving out the
warmth and the smell.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Did he have a slippery looking neck?
Speaker 5 (10:46):
No, you couldn't even tell.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
He's wearing a beautiful suit despite your ripping on, poor Travis.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
He's a lovely man, so you're.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Giving away his secrets.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Mate.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
So a little bit of vasciline on the carotid arterie
and the rest.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
Then he sprays the perfume on it, and that's what
is the scent through the afternoon.
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Do woman do anything like that in terms of making
the scent last.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
I'm glad you brought this up because if you'd listen
to my We Need to Talk podcasts with Joe Malowe,
you would note what.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Is Joe Malone the baron of perfume? Trevorner, I tell
you what.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
So what she said if you've missed it, and by
the way, you can get this on iHeartRadio or wherever
you listen to your podcast. She basically does a double dip,
so every single day of her life, she puts on one.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Or the toilette first all over her skin.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
And body, like everywhere, including the crowded artery and the crops.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I'm guessing.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
And then on the daily she chooses a different scent
on how she's feeling that day.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
So she's doubling up.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I think Travis should think about doubling up rather than
his second one being a vassiline.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
What does she know over a fleet manager?
Speaker 4 (11:47):
I don't hate speaking.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
I need to I need to see the coloone.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Okay, reveal a secret.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
The secret is Jean Paul Gortier and it's lamel elixa
and it's in a gold container. Jean Paul grtier alixe lameil.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Okay, write it down ahead of Father's Day and ahead
of Birthday and Christmas.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
This is Coast Breakfast. God, I love that song. It's
so uplifting, isn't it? Certainly is, especially if you have.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Argued with your partner last night. Did you have an argument, Sammy?
Speaker 5 (12:19):
No, not really, not really. The day to day there's always.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
I've got I've got the answer of you. I think
Archie Bargie intimates physical argument you're not having those.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Oh no, no, if I did, I'd lose, so.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Would my husband. So I stumbled across this and I thought.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
This is a really good thing to consider the next
time you are arguing. So it's from Meat Underscore the
Freeman's and they are essentially relationship coaches. They're a couple,
but they give you really good tips and advice, and
I started following them and it really rings true.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
So this is what I read.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Many arguments occur because you and your partner are actually
having two different conversations.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
Okay, does that make sense to you?
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Yeah, yestin.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Okay, So what they're talking about here is one of
you is talking about your feelings. The other is trying
to talk about logic, which one of those of you
saying logic, I think most males.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Are, yeah, yeah, what are you study?
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I think I fall into the gray area a bit
of a logic, bit of feeling, depending whether I'm experiencing
strong perimenopausal symptoms or not.
Speaker 5 (13:30):
So the same as Jace as well.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
See, Jason would be on the emotional side as well,
and so his wife.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
No, I think his wife's the logic. I think Jason's Yeah,
you're probably right there. Okay, So what do we do
about this? This is what I like about this page.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
It tells us what to do solutions. Don't give me problems,
give me solutions. Study.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
So, first of all, one of you is sharing how
something has impacted you emotionally, and the other is focused
on how it wasn't their intention to do so. So
you're essentially saying I didn't mean to offend you, but
I'm saying, but I was a few and I'm sad
about that.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
And so now you're arguing you're and.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
You keep going to me but I didn't mean to
and I said, I know that, but you.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Still hurt me.
Speaker 6 (14:07):
So you've still got a problem here. And do you
know that actually translates to kids too, you know, like
when there's a fight or say, for instance, Yesterda, I'm
a little girl because he slipped over and banging her
knee and grace it. What I found is that if
you please the fact that they're injured, like I know
you're injured, it's going to be okay. If you give
them the fact that they're injured, it's almost like curing
(14:28):
the problem.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yes, exact makes sense.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
And I have that exact problem with my own kids too,
because Let's say Juliet will accidentally not glocky and she'll
go but I didn't mean to, And I'm like, you
could still show some empathy because he's still crying. I
know you didn't mean to, but can you still go
see if he's okay?
Speaker 5 (14:44):
One hundred percent okay.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
So the reason we do this is one of you
is talking about the present situation. The other is trying
to talk about the unresolved past. So the problem is
we're not just dealing with that. We're also dealing with
the fact that you didn't empty the dishwasher that morning.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
That's that's the emotion. Person is yelling, that's bringing up
the past.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Yep. So one of you is trying to provide feedback
to be better, the other is perceiving it as personal criticism.
So next time you have an argument, just think about
those two sides.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
How to feel the.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Logic, have a bit more empathy, and if you're the EmPATH,
maybe just you know, don't bring up the past.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
I don't know. It's man versus woman.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
This week we talk about New Zealand at the moment.
Right our prime minister is out of the country this week.
Our Deputy Prime Minister Winston Peters, he's out of the
country this week, So who's in charge? David Seymour is
that acting prime minister this week?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
There you go, Okay, well let's see if anything happens
this week.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
The now a responds, But you.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Think about what is what's the sort of qualification from that?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
You know, he's never been a prime minister before, But
I guess now.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
You're doubting his quals not at all.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Most politicians study polls at university, don't they study politics?
So yeah, they study politics and then they become a
career politician. And then there are some that come from
different fields. So I can think of Shane restI, who's
a doctor and that's right, and then he's become a
politician and that leads me to qualifications.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
So this eighty I found this article over the weekend.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Eighty five year old woman who is working towards her
fourth university degree. Wow, and the reason and she says
she's doing it is she can't just sit around, And
she said she feels far better on the days that
she's studying than if she's just sitting at home in
a chair, not doing a hell of a lot.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
I love the plasticity of her mind.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
I dread the thought of having to go and upskill
and go to it and do it another degree like that.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
So the degree she's doing is in religious studies, philosophy
and ethics. The very first degree she did was pharmacy,
and then she had two in between. And in between all.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Of that, she was a teacher.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
So she just has spent her entire life learning basically.
And I feel like there's something in this. She says
she wasn't particularly brilliant at school. She did a levels
but didn't get a's. She's from the UK, so I
feel like there's something in this.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
I feel like that constant learning.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I mean, you either do that or you do the saduko,
don't you when your eighties?
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Keep the minds up. I do it in different ways.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
I kind of self teach, you know, Like all my
camera stuff is self taught. And I love to go
and I'm a YouTube learner from the University of YouTube.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
You you come down on me for my interior styling
course that I didn't complete because I didn't get the certificate.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
I don't see a certificate.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
For yourself looting video skills over there until I see.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
The frame degree, which doesn't count. Where's you mine?
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Where's YouTube? Send me the certificate?
Speaker 7 (02:14):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Why don't they start giving us corese certificates?
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But if you had to literally say all the things
that you're qualified in and think about it. For example,
you didn't know you're sitting next to a bronze medallion
Surf Life Saver.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Did you?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
No? No, that's a qualification on top of a degree
in a postgram when.
Speaker 6 (02:35):
It comes to Surf Life Saving. The thing that scares
me there is the bronze.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I was.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
You got a double degree? You got two degrees? Have
a year? Oh well I've got I've got a major
in a minor.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
I'm psych and bio in science, which probably makes me
the most highly qualified person in the room.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Are getting over there?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
What do you need? Degrees do you have because you
keep saying a double degree but you've actually one? Do
you or do you not have one? Do you or
do you not have one degree.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
How many have you got.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
I've only got one, but you did a postcrap. Yeah,
but that's not a degree.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And I've got one, then I've got a major degree.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I've also got majors and miners in marketing and management
as well.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But I don't count those post grade diploma and journals.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I don't have a dog in this qualified and something.
Surely you've got a certificate for your elliptical writing?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Did you do.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
University entrants and stuff that's university injuryes? You didn't go
to university? About my degree I got when you're sitting
over there with a.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
But do you have any other qualifications?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I mean, like I honestly I will get my certificate
for the interior styling.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Is there anything in that role?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
What do you mean you will get it?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Qualification?
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Qualifications?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
We did.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
We do it because because before we had children, we
thought we've been going to brush up on that sort
of stuff.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
We did.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
God ever happens to me in here, I don't know
who I'm going to go with, the bronze medalist over
here or the.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Guy that can't find his certificate. If I'm in trouble
and you're worried about my degree.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
And by the way, I think, I think to make
my Broms medallion relevant, I have to do a refresher.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
In that case, I'm still my Lord's license. So what
have you got? What qualifications are you allan? It's all about.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Qualifications you have, because this is a woman overseas is
studying up for her fourth degree.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
But the cool thing about this is is.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Her age eighty five, eighty five years of age doing
her fourth degree. The first one was in pharmacy, this
latest one is in religious studies. And she said it's
to keep her mind active and if she sits there
without doing a day of study.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
She doesn't feel as good. I love it.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
It's so positive and it's a message for us all.
Even if you thought you were going to retire, maybe
not from learning.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Keep the brain active as well. Michelle, what have you
got certificates?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
In?
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I want to.
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Crystal healing court five years ago in Australia before I
moved home. So I did that course, which was wonderful,
and then I went to a lovely lady Andy and
Tearron Go and I did my raiki one.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Ah see, this is what I'm talking about. It's you know,
you say qualifications, and it doesn't just mean degrees. It
can be certificates and lots of things. Jace, you failed
to mention you also have a Scout.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Certificate exactly Queen something or other Queen Scout. You're a queen?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
How did you become the queen? Was the Queen's middle
at the time.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I graduated from browning with you and I did a
bit of.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Girl guides as well.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Is the queen's Guides you?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
No, just because I didn't do it into my twenties,
but you should say he's not.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
And he can make some great damn But I tell
you have you got a queen's ward.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I solute you we're talking the male contraceptive and I
kind of wish Jas was here for this, and ironically
Stam has brought it to the table. The most responsible
person on the show.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
Jase, is the very guy you could trust with this
kind of responsibility of taking the male contraceptive gel.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
You would argue because in your relationship you look at
each other and you go who's most likely to not
forget to take their pill?
Speaker 6 (06:25):
Which I think is why the evolution up until this
point has trusted the woman. I mean, the woman is
the one that effectively has to deal with the consequences
of getting pregnant as well.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Well, well, I still think any day now, I love
child's gonna knock on your door.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
To be fair, I'm waiting for that.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
While there is hope for people like me in the
future because there is a new male contraceptive gel. That's
all you have to do is rub it on your
shoulders and it's very promising it at the stages apparently
it starts to work within eight weeks. That's when you
start to see the decrease in spom cow.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I don't like the idea of a gel because I mean,
I have taken the contraceptive pill as a very responsible
female for many years, and I just feel like a
gel feels really flimsy to me, like a pill is
a A gel feels like, oh, you didn't quite put.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Enough off, yeah? Or have I rubbed up agatest something
and it's come off. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
So I went and did a gym workout and then off.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
It's a very good point.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Two drugs in it, nees serone and test sorscerone, which
effectively brings down your testosterone.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And how I can see why you want to take
this because it's got tea in it.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
That's it. It's got a little testosterone.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
So not only will I not get you prigedant, but
I am ready to go, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
So you have to rub it between your shoulder blades.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Now, I think that is a cruel twist of fate
for most men who can't reach the middle of their back.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
So in order to be safe, you have to rub
it on my back.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I don't think I could reach the middle of my
own back. To be fair, I'm trying now. I'd have
to put the gel on the back of my hand
and then kind of do.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
A little I'm going to put the gel on a
loop and then rub it on a stick so that
I can do it myself.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
No, the loofer would absorb the gel. There's no way.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
It's a tough cell, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
I just don't I just don't think this would work.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
And I think the woman would have to do just
as much work, if not more than if she just
took the pearl.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Welln look, it would mean that they don't have.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Any of the pill side effects, which would be a
welcome change. But to wait eight weeks as well, I
mean that part's quite good.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Tell us the woman is.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Just trying to get out of this the whole time.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Tell us what you think would the male contraceptive honestly
work in your relationship. You can give us a call
on eight hundred double oh four Coast or one hundred
double oh for two six two.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Text us on two six nine. We would love to
get would.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Love to hear from you this morning. It's a it's
a very fun interesting topic. It's the future, really, isn't it?
Males taking the male contracepsion film.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
It is.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Your weekly feel good breakfast, best show moments, the very
best of Coasts Tony Street, Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Now we want to smell beautiful, don't we? So I
want to introduce to you this morning a man called
Travis mcdoner. Now you probably don't know, but he is
just a fleet manager for andrew Sims, which is a
car company. But every time I have an interaction with
this business and the man himself, Travis is there.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
He always smells amazing.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
So I fronted up the other day and I said, Travis,
how do you always smell so good?
Speaker 4 (09:25):
And that's confronting for Thomas, isn't it.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Well, the thing is here. There's actually two secrets to it.
The first thing was how he gets the perfume or
the cologne.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
You don't call it perfume.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
I don't think when you're a male, do yet.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
To remain smelling after you know, applying it in the
morning and it's still smelling great right into the evening.
But also the actual choice of clone that he uses.
Now he said he refuses to give that away because
it is the cologne that he gets the most comments
about from women and men.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
He wouldn't tell you what coloney wear is.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I got it out of him.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
This is Thomas sounds like a Travis.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
Sorry Trump, but I got it out of him.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
I said, I will not share your cologne with the
single person, but I am prepared to give away his
secrets today.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
So the first thing he does, do you know what
he does? He puts vassaline.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Oh, I don't know if I want to hear.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
This on his wrists and on his carotid artery. So
just a poor Travis. I just wanted to congratulate the guy.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Now I'm giving away a secret and you're you're saying
he's rubbing vascaline on his crotch.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
The poor guy.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Why did you have to say corotid artery? Don't you
just mean his neck?
Speaker 5 (10:36):
On the carotid arterye.
Speaker 6 (10:37):
According to to Travis, it's the absolute secret because that's
you know, that's where the pulse is giving out the
warmth and the smell.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Did he have a slippery looking neck?
Speaker 5 (10:46):
No, you couldn't even tell.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
He's wearing a beautiful suit despite your ripping on, poor Travis.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
He's a lovely man, so you're.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Giving away his secrets.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Mate.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
So a little bit of vasciline on the carotid arterie
and the rest.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
Then he sprays the perfume on it, and that's what
is the scent through the afternoon.
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Do woman do anything like that in terms of making
the scent last.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
I'm glad you brought this up because if you'd listen
to my We Need to Talk podcasts with Joe Malowe,
you would note what.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Is Joe Malone the baron of perfume? Trevorner, I tell
you what.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
So what she said if you've missed it, and by
the way, you can get this on iHeartRadio or wherever
you listen to your podcast. She basically does a double dip,
so every single day of her life, she puts on one.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Or the toilette first all over her skin.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
And body, like everywhere, including the crowded artery and the crops.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I'm guessing.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
And then on the daily she chooses a different scent
on how she's feeling that day.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
So she's doubling up.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I think Travis should think about doubling up rather than
his second one being a vassiline.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
What does she know over a fleet manager?
Speaker 4 (11:47):
I don't hate speaking.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
I need to I need to see the coloone.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Okay, reveal a secret.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
The secret is Jean Paul Gortier and it's lamel elixa
and it's in a gold container. Jean Paul grtier alixe lameil.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Okay, write it down ahead of Father's Day and ahead
of Birthday and Christmas.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
This is Coast Breakfast. God, I love that song. It's
so uplifting, isn't it? Certainly is, especially if you have.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Argued with your partner last night. Did you have an argument, Sammy?
Speaker 5 (12:19):
No, not really, not really. The day to day there's always.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
I've got I've got the answer of you. I think
Archie Bargie intimates physical argument you're not having those.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Oh no, no, if I did, I'd lose, so.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Would my husband. So I stumbled across this and I thought.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
This is a really good thing to consider the next
time you are arguing. So it's from Meat Underscore the
Freeman's and they are essentially relationship coaches. They're a couple,
but they give you really good tips and advice, and
I started following them and it really rings true.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
So this is what I read.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Many arguments occur because you and your partner are actually
having two different conversations.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
Okay, does that make sense to you?
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Yeah, yestin.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Okay, So what they're talking about here is one of
you is talking about your feelings. The other is trying
to talk about logic, which one of those of you
saying logic, I think most males.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Are, yeah, yeah, what are you study?
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I think I fall into the gray area a bit
of a logic, bit of feeling, depending whether I'm experiencing
strong perimenopausal symptoms or not.
Speaker 5 (13:30):
So the same as Jace as well.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
See, Jason would be on the emotional side as well,
and so his wife.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
No, I think his wife's the logic. I think Jason's Yeah,
you're probably right there. Okay, So what do we do
about this? This is what I like about this page.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
It tells us what to do solutions. Don't give me problems,
give me solutions. Study.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
So, first of all, one of you is sharing how
something has impacted you emotionally, and the other is focused
on how it wasn't their intention to do so. So
you're essentially saying I didn't mean to offend you, but
I'm saying, but I was a few and I'm sad
about that.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
And so now you're arguing you're and.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
You keep going to me but I didn't mean to
and I said, I know that, but you.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Still hurt me.
Speaker 6 (14:07):
So you've still got a problem here. And do you
know that actually translates to kids too, you know, like
when there's a fight or say, for instance, Yesterda, I'm
a little girl because he slipped over and banging her
knee and grace it. What I found is that if
you please the fact that they're injured, like I know
you're injured, it's going to be okay. If you give
them the fact that they're injured, it's almost like curing
(14:28):
the problem.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yes, exact makes sense.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
And I have that exact problem with my own kids too,
because Let's say Juliet will accidentally not glocky and she'll
go but I didn't mean to, And I'm like, you
could still show some empathy because he's still crying. I
know you didn't mean to, but can you still go
see if he's okay?
Speaker 5 (14:44):
One hundred percent okay.
Speaker 3 (14:45):
So the reason we do this is one of you
is talking about the present situation. The other is trying
to talk about the unresolved past. So the problem is
we're not just dealing with that. We're also dealing with
the fact that you didn't empty the dishwasher that morning.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
That's that's the emotion. Person is yelling, that's bringing up
the past.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Yep. So one of you is trying to provide feedback
to be better, the other is perceiving it as personal criticism.
So next time you have an argument, just think about
those two sides.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
How to feel the.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Logic, have a bit more empathy, and if you're the EmPATH,
maybe just you know, don't bring up the past.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
I don't know. It's man versus woman.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
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