June 11, 2024 • 45 mins
Today on the show we decide which generation's had it the hardest, whether you should fuse your engagement and wedding rings, and look into the newest trend in beauty pageants... AI?
0:00 Intro
0:40 What Generation’s Had it the Hardest
6:35 Have You Got a Fused Ring
9:25 AI Beauty Pageant
12:40 Complicated Workout Machines
17:00 Can You See Your Own Willy
19:00 How to Save For Retirement
23:40 First Born Daughter Theory
26:55 The Chasers
30:55 Special Trips You Used to Take with Your Parents
35:10 Giving Away $5000!
37:55 Health Check for Men's Health Week
41:40 Miranda Derrick Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist Their Policy
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Tony Jason Sam's Fair Good Breakfast Can't Shot podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Today on the show, we discussed the theory that the
firstborn daughter always has the female version of her father.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
And what is it that men, according to men's health,
we can't see as they get older.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
And this is the tery thing. One in three key
we guys are affected by this. Also, the trip you
remember you used to do with the parents right when
you were a kid, that pop in the car, you
go downtown, you do a certain thing. Maybe it was
the butchery, maybe it was the fish and chip shop,
maybe it was the hot bread shop, those old school
trips down memory lane. So what generation do you reckon
has had it hals growing up? Because boomers, you know,
(00:44):
people who are born between nineteen forty six and nineteen
sixty four. So our parents basically they reckon they actually
had it pretty easy. The boomers reckon they had it easy.
I would argue that I don't know if they did well.
The dates again, Okay, so born between nineteen forty six
and nineteen sixty four, that's the baby boomer generation.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
Mum was born nineteen sixty that's straight.
Speaker 6 (01:02):
After the wars exactly, that's it.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yeah, so they've most of the wars there and then
they've walked into prosperity and growth.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
But I also think they are a generation that were
close enough to the war to know the impact of
the war and to have all those stories from their parents.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
The appearances exactly right, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
And you know the closer you are to something like that,
the more you feel it.
Speaker 6 (01:23):
That's why I think, Yes, it's Generation X, which is
what I am.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
So these are people born between nineteen sixty five and
nineteen seventy nine. So there's Gen X, right, that's the
generation where your parents were working.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
You're coming from from school.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Often you'd have a key to the house yourself, You're
looking after your siblings. You were making your own lunch
a lot earlier than a lot of other generations have done.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
They said, don't pretend you I never did it.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
I had friends that have made their own lunches.
Speaker 7 (01:46):
This is the gravy generation.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Kit a minute.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Why were people specifically in their era making their lunches.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Because a lot of their parents were out working. So
this is the first generation kind of where mums are
also working as well, So both mom and dads were
both working.
Speaker 7 (01:59):
It's not exactly intensive labor, though, was it, you know?
Speaker 6 (02:01):
Well, I was Is this for a young person? I suppose?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But then you know it was the generation who we
grew up having a program of video and then learning
all the technology as well. You know, we need to
learn how to use the microwave, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
You're not selling me honest.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
So you still had the good old days, but quite
a nice introduction of technology to make your life easier.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
So, millennials born between nineteen eighty and nineteen ninety four,
this is the generation they reckon is the hardest one.
Now you have seen this article come out the other day.
Unluckiest generation. Could you think about it. You've got economic headwinds,
you've got natural disasters, skyrocketing home prices, recessions, pandemics, you
live through them all.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I think it also depends what year in that millennial
chunk you were born in, because my sister's in there,
and so am I. Right, so she is she was
born in nineteen ninety I was nineteen eighty three. Now
I would argue that she has been captured far more
by technology at a young age than I have, right,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, And I think for her as well, I think
she just missed that kind of initial introduction to the
property market where you know, you could still buy a
house for a relatively decent price, where for them it
was all of a sudden it was over a million
bucks here in Auckland.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
You know, I'd almost argue that generation Z.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
So there's the people born between nineteen ninety five and
two thousand and nine.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
I reckon they've got it hardest, do you.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Think with all the social social media pressures. There's the
keeping up with the jones is, there's the fashion, there's
the bullying, the cyber bullying, all the cabs goes on
at school. Yeah, bully's been at school, but now it's
the next level at social they have you turn it off.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That graph around children's mental health, the crisis for our kids,
it corresponds absolutely with smartphones.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
The graphs are wild, Yeah exactly. But do you know
what that means?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I do think that that means that us as parents
just need to we need to be more influential. And
I don't know how we do that, but it is
up to us.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
What generation is that?
Speaker 7 (03:46):
What do you call it? Gen Z?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
That's Gen Z and nine.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
They have a standard of living higher than any generation
before them. They are exposed to opportunity on an international scale.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
I don't know if they've had at the hardest, but.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Also doesn't have the credit cards for they're wrecking up
these massive debts like student debts and all these sort
of the differences.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
They have access to money through those credit cards, so
they're not exactly doing it tough.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Money by your happiness. They might have been to health
issues because.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Of it, and I would imagine a lot wo So
what do you reckon? What generation do you think has
had it hardest? Let's break this downe shall we are
eight hundred double od Port Coast flicker texts to two
six nine nine.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
We're talking about this.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Article that came out the other day saying that baby
boomers reckon they've actually had it easiest growing up. So
I don't know, not being a baby boomer myself, but
I know that my parents and a lot of our
parents are baby boomers born between nineteen forty six and
nineteen sixty four.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
They had pretty tough I would think, yeah, I recollecting.
Speaker 8 (04:37):
They do.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
But then it's it's interesting because we talk about it's
all relative, isn't it to where you live? Like you
try living in Palestine or Ukraine right now and try
and say that, oh, it's not like the war era.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, that's exactly right true that Yeah, yeah, I think
we are focusing on kind of New Zealand though, aren't
we would we?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Well, this is yeah, what in particularly they said that,
this is what they're saying. They're saying, for example, in
New Zealand, recessions pandas mixed natural disaster, skyrotting home prices
just a few of the challenges millennials have faced during
young adulthood. Economic headwinds in particular, have led to some
people doubling the millennials the unluckiest generation.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Is that really true? Though? Millennials have they had it
the hardest? What do you reckon?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I don't feel, as a millennial sitting here right now,
that we've had the hardest.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
I think we've had the easiest. I think so well, yeah,
in some respects, you know.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
I think it's way worse now I do too.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Yeah, what do you reckon? Who's had the hardest growing up?
Speaker 9 (05:29):
Do you reckon now, well, generation, he's the best generation.
But the Boomers, the Boomers, they had the hardest. And
the reason I say that is that I was watching
the news, bass bit. A lot of these boomers are
struggling out there because of the cost of what do
you call it, the living and everything like that, And
(05:53):
I was watching the news and they had that mir
who was telling them to reverse mortgage to their house.
So they' what a rude thing to say, No.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
You're right out A little thing, a lot of it.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, And a lot of the older people now are
actually going flatting again because they can't afford to live
on their own anymore. The spouses have passed away. Now
they're going getting flat mates again. In your seventies and eighties.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
That's tough or lovely, you know what I mean to
live my flating days. She was a good old.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Times, you know.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Just quickly Jason saying that sum's this whole situation up.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
Hard times creates strong men.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Strong men create good times, good times create weak men,
and weak men create hard times. And that's a complete
cycle of this whole Boomers now, for don't you think from.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Huge shout out to our farmers and our rural workers
off the field days.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Today big opening day for a field Days and it
goes real Saturday, Super Saturday. They call it.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Make sure you get yourself a proder.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
I've always wanted a product.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
There's orange thicks everyone, that's all I wanted.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Same and the other little hot tip if you've got
grandkids or kids, little Swan dries, Mini Swan drives thing for.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Your dog as well.
Speaker 7 (06:54):
That's really just on the prod.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I don't want to seem like I'm not rural anyway,
because I have a very now that I'm married to
a farm girl, I'm a very, very rural background.
Speaker 7 (07:05):
Is the product, the thing with the little thing that
you put the electric fence.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Through, it's the little orange stick that's going to knob
at the top.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
And then one year they brought out white ones. Like
every one of the white ones and the orange ones
are the ones you want.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
Though, how's your ring this morning? You have? You got
a fused ring?
Speaker 3 (07:20):
That is the question, because we ran this past Tony
and she was oblivious to it, and we.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
Thought the boys were across jewelry chat more than me.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Yeah, so fusing your ring is something that a lot
of people are doing now.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
And that basically means welding your engagement ring to your
wedding ring. And you do that because they can shift,
they can move back and forth, and they can damage
the ring.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
And your wife's done it as well.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
So my wife's left handed, so she used to left
hand for pretty much everything, and so I got her.
Speaker 6 (07:47):
Yeah, as you say, Sam, her engagement ring and the
wedding ring.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Sort of fused together because when they're rub when they
chafe against each other, you can damage the diamonds and
the claws.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Idea of having my rings fused, I don't like it,
I do. You know why?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Because I had four different rings that I like to wear,
and sometimes I mix a match and change them around
and I don't want them to see in a particular way.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
Oh no, but to see.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
The thing is if the engagement ring shuffles against the
main ring, it can pop the diamonds of diamonds, which
is what you did.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I did do that, but.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That was on Actually maybe that was why maybe I
need to it's so weird. But it wasn't my engagement
ring that popped. The diamond That was my ring from
my parents, like the ring I got when I had
my first child.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Okay, they gave me which was lovely.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
That's nice.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Can you not see the value in having them all
as one unit?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
No, because I don't think they I don't think all
four rings would go well together, and I don't want
on a big chunk of four.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
Would you just do two of them? Like but you did?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Just you're wedding an engage ring and then the mix
and match the other two, because those two will always
go together, won't they?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I could, I could probably, yeah? But do other people
do this? Two six nine nine? This was a completely
new thing. I had no idea people were doing that.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
We had a twisting incident the other day on the
fuse rings. So Sarah twisted it and she had weird
to go and take it back in and get it
re refused.
Speaker 7 (09:02):
Refused, Well really, yeah, the.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
First fusing wasn't actually that great. She's she's stilling something.
It's really yanking her wings.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
A lot of hurrying, pulling on something.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
So Sam's wife has it. My wife has it.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
A lot of women are they are they fusing their
rings or is this something like like Tony says, is
quite foreign to a lot of women.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Let us know. I send her six to two, six
ninety nine, Chilly.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Glly's that lovely intro jas. We want to talk about
the world of beauty pageants now, but God, God, it's
provided some lolls over the years, hasn't it. I used
to I'm not gonna lie. I remember sitting in the
eighties as a kid, begging Mum and Dad to let
me stap and watch Miss Universe. And I used to
love it. And I used to get so excited.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
When's Miss New Zealand coming on, and it was just
so awesome looking all their pretty dresses. I loved it.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
Round beauty pageants changed a.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Lot, because now you have Miss Earth, Miss Fillings, Save
the Planets.
Speaker 7 (10:09):
Miss Beach, Miss Alabama. I don't know if you saw
that last week.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Well that's what I was just about to bring it up,
Sam Miss Alabama.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
And there's no sort of nice way to say this.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
She's an obese woman, right, and she has won Miss
Alabama and it's caused her as a huge stir As
you can imagine. Half of them is saying, finally, you
don't have to be a Barbie doll to win Miss Universe,
and the other half is saying that's unhealthy, that should
not be something that is celebrated. Now I bring you
something even stranger, I reckon, and now I'm bringing you AI. Okay,
(10:53):
so there's a new beauty pageant and it's fully AI.
Speaker 10 (10:57):
What what?
Speaker 5 (10:58):
So they're not even real now?
Speaker 7 (11:01):
But not even real that competition you know over there.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
I feel like the speeches might be better by the
AI generated ones.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
So essentially what's happened? This is in the UK.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
One hundred and fifty thousand tech experts have entered this
to try and come up with. I love how it's
women's beauty, a like, where's the men's AI pageant? And
they've calling it miss willed AI. So you thought it
was weird having Miss World Environmental Misworld Earth. Now we've
got misworled iiwy thousand dollars for the winner but not
(11:35):
even real, and you go, well, this sounds ridiculous.
Speaker 5 (11:38):
I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I started scrolling through it and I kind of got
hooked in that they are like look.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
At that one.
Speaker 7 (11:43):
There is there a Miss Alabama? Have they gone less woke?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
There's no Miss Alabama? I don't think. But the one
I just saw was kind of a little space agenc.
So these are still like real people.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
These are still based on looks, right, they'd still win
based on looks. What's the criterion winning.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
This based on looks?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
It's how good you are with your tech and how
realistic you can make a face.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Oh wow, yeah, because I think at the core of it,
it's less of a beauty pageant and more of an
indication of how well AI can fit the brief of
that pageant, isn't it.
Speaker 7 (12:17):
They've just chosen a moot point, haven't they?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
And do you know what the clincher for this is,
because then you're like, well, the humans still picking who
they find most attractive? Right?
Speaker 5 (12:25):
Is it the blonde? Is it the bruni is at
the redhead?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
But actually no, because the judges are also AI generator?
Speaker 6 (12:31):
Oh my god?
Speaker 11 (12:33):
Genuinely, what's the point?
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Here's a scary stand out right in time for Men's
Health Week one and three. Key, we guys have got
this in common, and it's not a good thing. That's
quite scary and depressing. And yeah, your man could be
the one and three. We'll tell you more about this
after seven. Two factors involved with that, isn't there two factors?
Speaker 12 (12:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (12:50):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I don't know what the second factor is, and I
look forward to hearing about it.
Speaker 6 (12:53):
Break it down a few minutes.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
It could actually link to going to the gym, if
that gives you a little hint. And that's where I
was yesterday on my quist to lift heavier weights.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
And the reason I'm doing this is because if you're
a woman over.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Forty and you are heading towards perimenopause, look, ladies, we
all are.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
We should all be lifting heavyweights.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
The research, the stats are absolutely effusive. Every expert will
tell you that that's what you should be doing, not
only for your best chance of losing weight and staying
in good shape, but also to stop you getting dementia,
to stop you.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
Getting heart to disease. It's like the stats are in.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Ability, getting off the toilet, getting out of bed. All
those stringth factors are amazing.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
You told us you couldn't wipe your own bum yesterday.
And you do a lot of weights.
Speaker 7 (13:37):
You don't want to take it too far, you don't
want to become ny, and you can do and do
some mobility and flexibility work as well. Now.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I first learned how to lift weights when I was
in my early teens because I was put into a
representative sports program where I can't believe it now, but
we got free gym membership and free gym programs and
we had trainers take us through it. But back in
those days, right, free weights were where it was at,
particularly for women. That's all you did, right, so it
was it would be bar bells, dumbbells, or free weights.
(14:10):
And then I started doing forty five and an older
age and got across that as well.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
But I hadn't really done a lot of weights with.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Machines right, And I think traditionally machine weights very much
were the bulking men at the gym doing machines. But
now that women are wanting to lift heaps heavier, machines
are coming back as a thing.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Can I say why machines are coming back is because
people are training later in their life because we've found
out that strength is so important and there's nothing that's
going to tweak a shoulder like a freeweight dumbell. You
get on a machine, you're all stabilized, So all of
a sudden, you can train later in life and live
more weights, which.
Speaker 7 (14:44):
Means you get more gains and more benefits.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
You're not wabbling around the machine is say tell.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
You what the Some of the machines these days, though,
they are a thing, and I've had to come to
grips with some of the machines. And by and large
I got two people. I go to Hal Dane, who
was the head of the gym. He showed me a
cup times. And then there's this guy that follows me
around like a bad smellt.
Speaker 7 (15:05):
Not there.
Speaker 11 (15:05):
She begrudgingly comes over. He's like trapped in a machine.
Speaker 7 (15:16):
I was trying to watch a podcast yesterday while I
was on the cardio machine.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
I kept getting alerts from the streets stuck in another one.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
So there's this machine. You know, if you want to do.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Pull down, any variety of a pull down where you're
pulling a handle from the top or a bar and
you're pulling it down, and this for your lats.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
Generally you're sitting down there.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And you're sitting down and as you sit down, there's.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Like a little what do you call it, a spongy
benchy thing that has resistance across your thighs so that
you can pull down and don't start like pulling.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
Up figure shooting towards the ceiling.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
And my friend and I for about three weeks have
been trying to work out how we keep our legs
under the bar and.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Also grab the weight of the top, which is way
taller than us.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
It was a six inch gap between her fingers which
is stuck in the chair. So what she's doing she
had the thing flopping around at the top and it
wasn't working.
Speaker 7 (16:10):
She couldn't get locked in well because.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
The stupid thing wouldn't wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Wouldn't clasp And I was like, what is going wrong here?
Speaker 5 (16:17):
And I must have looked like an absolute tool.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Anyway, Sam and this other boy from the gym gladly
told me that what you do and if this happens
to you and you need to go and look at
the video, we'll share it on the Coast Breakfast Instagram
story page. As you actually have to donkey kick the
bar once it's up and then it presses down on
your ship.
Speaker 6 (16:36):
Apparently, see, there's some tips you can use.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
You will tell me you knew that or didn't know that.
I hope it's not.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
Just meaning if you want to change it, if you're
after the gym this morning, you want to change your life.
At Coast Breakfast and Instagram, have a looked that you'll
see this tip for your life.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
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Speaker 2 (16:53):
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Jays Reeves and Sam Wallace.
Speaker 7 (17:00):
Can you see your own Willy? Which is this?
Speaker 12 (17:03):
Is?
Speaker 7 (17:04):
It's a topical.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
It's a topic that we need to talk about because
it is Men's Health Week and if we carry weight
around our middles, it is a bad place to carry.
It increases our blood pressure, it's bad for our organs.
It can go on to lead to stroke, diabetes, all
sorts of things like that.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
Isn't this?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Isn't this a little bit sizest towards the poor person
that even in a trim steak might not be able
to see it.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Well, there's two factors.
Speaker 11 (17:29):
So there's wily size and then there's Willy size.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
Camest that is one and three. Ken we men can't
see their own crumbs.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
There's three of us here.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
Can you see yours?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Tone?
Speaker 13 (17:45):
You can?
Speaker 5 (17:47):
So?
Speaker 7 (17:47):
I can?
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I mean, no, off's to Jace, because he has done
a brilliant job of getting himself back to shape.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
No, you can't say, is less of this than I
see of mine? I don't reckon if I had to
predict without knowing, I don't know if that would be career.
Speaker 7 (18:07):
Well, there are two factors.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You know what they say about people that talk about
it a life.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
I heard the stent last so of course I checked
and you know, I'm okay, I'm all right.
Speaker 9 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
How much did you have to bed?
Speaker 3 (18:24):
You just have to go, You have to just you
can only your only ad to move your chin.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
I reckon, there's a nick mobility issue as well, like
what if you can't put your.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Chin on your chairs that would be your bed, Like
if you had bad nick member there, You're part of
the You're part of the problem.
Speaker 11 (18:39):
You can't see it.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I don't know if you guys are telling the truth.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
I'm saying, well, I'm going to put out there as
a public service announcement today.
Speaker 7 (18:47):
If what you need to do is go and see
if you can see it. And if you.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Can't, go to a chiropractor or you might need.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
And I was saying before it close to the retirement
or maybe your parents are in that sort of ballpark.
Speaker 6 (19:02):
Now, how do we make the money go around?
Speaker 4 (19:04):
So we go to get some trips from the head
of personal wealth at Milford Asset Management. So this is
basically Philip Morgan Reese, head of private wealth from Milford
Asset Management, answering a few questions. Remember that this is
just information to help you understand more and it's not
financial advice. Philip, thank you for joining us. How much
are we going to need when we start to retire?
Speaker 14 (19:22):
Well, thank you for having me a pleasure to be here. Well,
the answer is quite simple. It depends. It really depends
on what you need to be doing with it. So
I think what I'll say first of all, is there
are two quite important steps to get across. The one
is we all know it's really important to accumulate for
your retirement and you need a plan for that. But
(19:42):
you also need a plan for retirement. So there are
two different things going on here. One is you've accumulated
amount of money, how do you spend it? Is a
plan in and of itself. And then secondly, there's an
emotional transition you need to go through because actually retirement
isn't just about the day you retire.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
It's quite a big d.
Speaker 5 (20:00):
I mean emotional transition.
Speaker 14 (20:02):
Well, think of it. You know you've been used to
getting up at four in the morning. Three two, it's
got a four. Yeah, okay, so you've been used to
getting it, but four every day you've been used to
meeting these excellent and charming fellers every day and then
maybe you maybe you go out for coffee with them
because they're so they're such great fun.
Speaker 6 (20:21):
Or whatever you do.
Speaker 14 (20:23):
That's been your routine. It's also been or for all
of us, it's been our value. My value is tied
up with what I do and who are who I
spend time with. End of when you're retirement kicks in,
that's just stopped.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
And that's why a lot of people go back and
work because they can't handle that side of it.
Speaker 14 (20:42):
Yeah, a lot, a lot of that value comes in there. Well,
part of it is afford affordability. Part of it is
to do with your value and your contribution. Interestingly, statistical
New Zealand, I won't get too boring, but statistically in
New Zealand, we in New Zealand between the ages of sixty,
sixty five and six nine have more people working than
(21:02):
most other countries. Right, so overall in retirement stats in
New Zealand show that it's twenty four percent of people
continue working after the age of sixty five. Now that's
double the level of Australia and it's more than double
the level in the UK.
Speaker 10 (21:21):
Wow, and it's a.
Speaker 14 (21:22):
Combination of things, right, but think of that emotional Well,
you know we'll finance people, right, so we talk about
planning the retirement from a financial point of view, but
you know, it's really important to plan that transition.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
What am I going to do? What am I going
to spend my time doing?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
What about people that haven't thought about it and then
think oh it's too late for me, they can't do
anything about it.
Speaker 14 (21:42):
There is a saying, you know, the best time to
plant the trees twenty years ago, the next best time
is right now?
Speaker 7 (21:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Yeah, yeah, So on that, how do we maximize it? Like,
I mean, I'm doing kiwisaber, but what can I do
on top of that? Or should I be doing something
on top of that? Are your clients doing stuff on
top of just normal.
Speaker 7 (21:56):
Key we saver?
Speaker 10 (21:57):
Our clients are doing lots of different things.
Speaker 14 (21:59):
Remember, thinking about retirement and your plan in retirement is
what I'm going to be? What am my first of all?
Setting up your goals? What do I want to be doing?
And then what can I afford to do? And what
have I got to do?
Speaker 10 (22:12):
That with?
Speaker 14 (22:14):
So our clients to a range of things, and think
of it, you're in the phrase is decumulation. Decumulation applies
to any range of assets. So what we see our
clients doing. We see our clients coming to us and saying,
I've got this investment pot, but I've also got.
Speaker 10 (22:29):
I've got the house. Some have got a batch, some
have got a rental.
Speaker 14 (22:33):
All of those are assets that you can flow through
an investment portfolio to create the outputs that you want.
And your outputs could be anything from a retirement income approach.
Ideally I want income for life. We'll come back to that. Next,
I want to have a pot for holidays. Next I
want to pot for purchases. Next I want a legacy.
(22:54):
I'm unfortunately the bank of moment Dad, so I'll need
some for that.
Speaker 10 (22:58):
So it's thinking.
Speaker 14 (22:58):
About all of your assets and how you can de
accumulate any of them. I mean, generally we talk about
the investments, but with a lot of our clients, we
think of those assets that they have and to and
liquidating them at some point through the portfolio. That they
have to crystallize those plans that they've got because you'll
need the cash at some point.
Speaker 5 (23:20):
Message here is having a plan.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
It's exactly and it's a lot bigger plan than perhaps
we all thought that's right.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
So have the retirement you want by planning it with
Milford and for free initial nabligation chat today. You can
go to the website if you want Milford Asset dot
com for slash retire dash well, or quickly send a
text to two six nine nine will expect the details.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
This is a scientific theory that I want to test
this morning on you have a look at your own
family and tell me whether this is the case or not.
So the theory is that the firstborn daughter is always
the female version of her father. And they're saying not
necessarily in looks, but in personality.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
And the reason this spoke to me is because I
am like a replica of my father, and you are.
And my mother SEUs to me all the time. She goes,
I thought, you know, in the younger days that you
were more like me, she goes. But as you've got older,
you are absolutely your father.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
So you've even got his massive hands.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
I actually do have quite large hands, so do look.
I actually probably look a mix of both my parents.
But when it comes to personalities, my dad is very competitive.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
He is very very.
Speaker 15 (24:31):
Positive, infinitely positive. That can be very socially.
Speaker 5 (24:36):
Dogged at times, and that's what I am as well.
Speaker 7 (24:38):
Very social, loves to talk to people.
Speaker 5 (24:40):
Hates being on his own.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
And I'm like, oh my gosh, I am the firstborn daughter,
and I am a female replica of him.
Speaker 5 (24:48):
I actually am.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Because we don't have daughters in our in my immediate family,
we have said to his sons. But I look at
my sister Cynthia, right, and as she gets older, and
I love her for this. She's so much like Dad,
Like she's extremely little to a but she takes no
pup you know, you know when you've crossed the line
with Cynthia.
Speaker 6 (25:04):
And I love that about her so exactly the same
as Dad.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
That will mean so is Amy like a version of
your father, your sister Amy just trying to think personality
traits and think about the traits, think about things like
you know, because as you get older, I think our
traits become more obvious, don't they.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah that's right, Yeah, yeah, I think, Synthia.
But it certainly may not be like me saying that.
But Dad's a wonderful, wonderful man, one of my best mates.
And Cynthia is now too, and I love that about her.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Who's the first born twin of Cozy, and so that
means you will probably end up playing out like you Sammy.
Speaker 6 (25:36):
Yeah, maybe?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Or is it with twins they both end up playing
like me. I don't know, because you guys have always said.
Speaker 7 (25:42):
To me that Cosey's more like Sarah and Sina is
more like me.
Speaker 5 (25:47):
I know, And I just wonder if that's going to
keep going.
Speaker 16 (25:51):
Because last night, I tell you, oh my God, was driving,
she threw down a she's three year old now, and
she threw year old threw down a proper two year
old chance like it was kicking and screaming.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
There was pig headedness, there was stubbornness that I have
only ever seen within myself.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
N the is this just an old wivestyle or is
this the case in the family the firstborn daughter is
always the female version of her father.
Speaker 6 (26:18):
Sam She'll be in court in no time.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
You got off for years license Tony Street to try
to defend one thousand dollars in The Chasers.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
Today.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
I can just hear my father, Jeff Street saying right now, well,
you're not.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Like me in The Chasers because you always have a premiere.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
He lets me know about it. Every day competitive street.
Speaker 7 (26:40):
It's like you do to us exactly.
Speaker 6 (26:42):
Okay, it's so cool now.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
I eight hundred double O four coast five general knowledge
questions and if Tony can't chase you down, she can't
match your score.
Speaker 6 (26:50):
You were a grand on Coast, the chasers on Coast.
Speaker 8 (26:56):
Ah right, I'm Sheilaine, I'm from New Plumbers, and I'm
going to be facing Tony today. If I win the money,
would love to shout my lovely colleagues out for breakfast
and maybe go shopping.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
Two thousand bucks on the line hasn't been up there
for a long time.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
So can I just ask, Sheelini? You the eldest born
daughter and your family?
Speaker 8 (27:17):
Yes, how don't you know?
Speaker 5 (27:18):
I didn't know. I've just asked. Do you take after
your dad? Do you think?
Speaker 8 (27:23):
Possibly?
Speaker 13 (27:24):
Hope?
Speaker 8 (27:25):
Yeah, but of both I think.
Speaker 4 (27:26):
Okay, now these colleagues you speak of, No, we're about
to your working scholene.
Speaker 8 (27:30):
I'll work an administration for a health health facility.
Speaker 6 (27:34):
Oh nice, it's nice, all right, we'll for that. Your
colleagues will love this. If you want a grand, I feel.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
Like it's a win win today, because if I lose,
I'll be disappointed. But at least the money's going to
my hometown.
Speaker 6 (27:45):
Class full.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
Okay, so we're seeing Tony out of the studio now, Sholene,
you can't hear what's about to happen.
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Okay, we're going to start o'clock with thirty seconds on it.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Sam's going to ask you some questions you can pass
if you want to, or the third time we'll come
back to those ones. Otherwise with at your first dance
only and if Tony can't match your school, you will
want a thousand dollars to.
Speaker 6 (28:03):
Shout your colleagues. Are you ready? Yes, your time starts now.
Speaker 11 (28:08):
A Dalmatian is a breed of what?
Speaker 7 (28:11):
Yes?
Speaker 11 (28:11):
How many months end in the letter?
Speaker 12 (28:13):
Why?
Speaker 8 (28:16):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (28:18):
Huh?
Speaker 7 (28:19):
What's the name of London's main airport?
Speaker 12 (28:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
Who's been named the Warriors halfback for the game against
Melbourne Storm?
Speaker 7 (28:28):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Who is the lead singer of Dragon? How many months
ended the letter?
Speaker 6 (28:35):
Why got you? The buzzer got you?
Speaker 8 (28:41):
Really?
Speaker 7 (28:42):
Are you going to be that cruel?
Speaker 6 (28:43):
The buzzle ends?
Speaker 4 (28:45):
I would love to that I shot it right, but
the buzzer got there first.
Speaker 7 (28:50):
You're a tough master.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
That's a good one, though.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
You are chasing a two and she would have been
a three, but it was after the buzz, on the
after the bus.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
What is there? A bit of conjection, same thing it
was on the verb.
Speaker 7 (29:08):
I just I just think sometimes it's nice to be
in the rules.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
I would love you know me, I'd love to Jase
is being a stickler?
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Is?
Speaker 5 (29:14):
Is that what I'm picking up?
Speaker 6 (29:16):
Just in case? Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Do we need to replay it? No?
Speaker 7 (29:19):
No, no, I'm going from the bottom to the top.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Okay, okay, defending the two, trying to chase down the two,
defending one thousand dollars.
Speaker 6 (29:26):
Your time starts now.
Speaker 7 (29:28):
Who was the lead singer of Dragon Pass.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Who's been named the Warriors Harfeck for the game against
Melbourne Storm Pass?
Speaker 11 (29:36):
What's the name of London's main airport?
Speaker 12 (29:39):
Yes?
Speaker 11 (29:40):
How many months? Ending the letter?
Speaker 7 (29:42):
Why? Two?
Speaker 12 (29:46):
No?
Speaker 11 (29:46):
At Dalmatian as a breed of what? Yes?
Speaker 7 (29:49):
Oh, I forgot.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
May was that January February?
Speaker 5 (29:55):
I only said two May in July. Oh gosh, I
should thought about.
Speaker 7 (30:00):
This, but that's a cruel question.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Come on street half back for the Warriors.
Speaker 5 (30:11):
I was going to say that if I had come
back to it, I didn't need to.
Speaker 7 (30:15):
And the lead singer of the band Dragon was.
Speaker 5 (30:18):
I should know this?
Speaker 7 (30:20):
Really, this is a tough question.
Speaker 5 (30:21):
I should I got half of us. Yeah, what does
it start with?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
Starts with Mark?
Speaker 3 (30:27):
It starts with Mark. It's Mark, Alexander Hunter or Mark Hunter.
I was never going to so it was too The
money has offended.
Speaker 7 (30:35):
We're up to one thousand, one hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
To hear more from Tony Street try we need to
talk Tony's health and lifestyle podcast. Now back to Coasts,
Feel Good, Brukfast s Ketch Up with Tony. Jason. Sam
Cushing went back to.
Speaker 4 (30:54):
When you were growing up, you're excited when you go
for a special trip with mumble Dad in the car.
Speaker 6 (30:57):
Where did you go? What were those sort of trips?
Because it was always an ocasion when you went to town,
it was something on right.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Sometimes we just went for a drive, and us kids
used to go like, what do you mean just for
a drive, not to anywhere. But I do remember those
special trips, Jays. I remember we'd finished brownies on a
Wednesday night or a Thursday night, and it would be
Chinese Fugus board night, so it was a shop and
you'd go and you'd be able to fill up one
of those little cartoons.
Speaker 5 (31:22):
Yeah, and that was our Thursday night trip.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
I remember waiting for an hour to get our photos developed,
and the Highbury.
Speaker 7 (31:29):
Shops and the burking here in Auckland wait there nervously.
Speaker 3 (31:33):
As you know, Dad had snapped a couple of shots
from one with her top off Onday camping trips.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
They looked at your photos.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
They always looked some answering.
Speaker 6 (31:46):
They always bring it a second to keep in the shop.
Speaker 11 (31:49):
A wall out in the back.
Speaker 5 (31:51):
Did you use the word set then for a reason?
Speaker 6 (31:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (31:56):
We see on a Sunday morning there was a hot
breed shop, wasn't It was a hot breach shop and
past things.
Speaker 5 (32:01):
When did it flip to bakery eh?
Speaker 4 (32:03):
I don't know, but it was always toll the hot
breade shop on Sunday mornings for jumping the yuke with Dad.
Speaker 6 (32:06):
We go there and you can smell the cheese, you know,
the cheese loa cooking.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
So good.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
So what are the trips you remember doing with your
mum and dare? We'd love to go to our memory
lane with you this morning. Call us that eight hundred
double O four coast. We'll see it takes to two
six nine nine. If you're listening on iHeartRadio who used
the talk back feature a little red microphone there. We
can join the discussion right now on Instagram and Facebook.
At Coast Breakfast had good luck with lot of tonight.
Four million dollars off the line to lotto.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
And you might think it's playing at that. It's not
fifty four million. There's still a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It's probably a good time to play. Least people will
be buying tickets. I wonder what the stats are on that,
do you know?
Speaker 7 (32:41):
I where's the rest of the money. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
You know, there was a forty million dollar draw the
whole country when it bought lot of tickets. You can't
tell me that they've they've only got four million dollars left.
Speaker 7 (32:51):
There is no way.
Speaker 15 (32:53):
You've got some questions up Take the fore and runs anyway.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
We're talking about way back. You know, think back to
your childhood when it was a spech trip. Mom and
dad put you in the car and you'd go somewhere.
You go to town and it was an event, right
bring in What was that event for you?
Speaker 6 (33:05):
Where did you go?
Speaker 17 (33:08):
Look a very long time ago. I have fond memories.
We used to go down and play mini golf in
Mission Bay.
Speaker 5 (33:16):
Minute.
Speaker 17 (33:17):
It's still there today.
Speaker 5 (33:19):
I've been there. It's a goodie, is it that one
with like the dinosaurs and everything?
Speaker 17 (33:22):
Yeah, it is. It didn't have them back when I
used to go. I used to have the big lips
and a few other quirky things, but the main event
afterwards was to head on down to Mission Bay and
go visit the Danish Delight store afterwards and get a
nice big Danish Delight ice cream. I can still still
smell these cooking miles down the road.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
Smell they've got one on marine paryed and napier and
that smell you smell coming.
Speaker 6 (33:46):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
I love that your family created that memory for you.
It makes me as a mum think what am I doing?
You know, like, what are the memories that they have? Yeah,
and it makes you want to put in more ecent.
Speaker 11 (33:59):
Sharon.
Speaker 18 (33:59):
What we were old school trips that you remember, Oh, Dad,
Mom and Dad would take us we lived in Fielding
at the time, and take us across to the open
fish and chip shop and Palms to the North on
a Friday night and the Holden Special and the three
of us were.
Speaker 12 (34:12):
Sitting in the back seat with our packs, but like
the Caft kids, but without the song. And we'd have
our fish and chips and our little parcels and we
ripped the top open and eat them out of there,
and we had our long necked giraffe and milkshakes.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
You're in a good situation just to rip the corner
of the fish and chip shop and end reach into that.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
Yes, it was a skill over question. Were you allowed
to eat in the Holden special? We were Wow, greasy
hands on the vinyl seats hold.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
And isn't it funny that the long giraffe milkshakes they
probably went away for a while, but they are back
with a vengeance.
Speaker 5 (34:47):
My kids love a good sick shake in those cups.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
And actually, when you actually look at the portion size,
it's actually better than you think because it's a big cup.
Speaker 7 (34:54):
Yet but they froth it up so much.
Speaker 5 (34:56):
Can you not bring this size?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (35:02):
And people out there can't see the willies, That's what
I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Liftop money, think about this. Okay, what would you do
with five thousand dollars?
Speaker 6 (35:17):
Right now? There's an amazing travel deal on that you go.
You know, it's like a nice little island resort, hang
out for a week or so free meals. Would it's
just what.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
You feel like? Is there's the winters upon us?
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (35:28):
Yeah, do you know what the old creeping credit card though,
reality would strike home.
Speaker 11 (35:33):
And I wouldn't see a dollar of it.
Speaker 4 (35:35):
Jason, all right, if you've been kind enough to help
us create the ultimate playlist on Coast, you could be
about to win five thousand dollars right now.
Speaker 6 (35:43):
I remember if you went to our website help rate
our music. Hopefully this is your phone ringing now five
grand for helping us.
Speaker 4 (35:50):
This is basically our way of saying thank you.
Speaker 6 (35:53):
You have to answer.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
Hello, cutcher, It's Tony Jason Sam from Cosy, So it'll
call you so well, you're not too busy at the moment.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
You've got a secretary for a chat? Yeah, I do great.
Speaker 7 (36:05):
Cool?
Speaker 6 (36:05):
Hey, what's your favorite song that we play on Coast?
Speaker 3 (36:09):
Oh? Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 10 (36:12):
Anything from Pink?
Speaker 6 (36:14):
Oh cool?
Speaker 1 (36:15):
I love that you're a Pink fan and thank you.
We just want to say thank you so much for
raising the music. So you did that survey, didn't you online?
Where you told us what you liked? What other what
other artist did you say you liked?
Speaker 5 (36:26):
Pink? Anything?
Speaker 12 (36:27):
Else it's here in I'm also going back like to
abaka soundtracks like from Judy Dancing or anything.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
You've got those on the We really appreciate it mainly
because people like you going through and doing this allows
us to shape our music to ensure that our music
continues to be on track.
Speaker 7 (36:44):
Do you think we've got it on track?
Speaker 5 (36:46):
Is?
Speaker 14 (36:46):
I think because you guys do have a good mix
of everything.
Speaker 5 (36:49):
Oh that's so.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
Good to know. Oh well, thank you so much for
your time. We'd like to give you five thousand dollars.
Speaker 14 (36:55):
You a freaking joking.
Speaker 5 (36:56):
No, no, it's true.
Speaker 14 (37:00):
This is insane.
Speaker 6 (37:02):
Five thousand dollars will be put into your account.
Speaker 9 (37:06):
Oh my gosh, you're.
Speaker 11 (37:10):
Is it handy right now?
Speaker 4 (37:12):
Oh yeah, yeah, it's always handy.
Speaker 5 (37:15):
What do you think you could spin five thousand dollars
on right now?
Speaker 3 (37:20):
I think it partly will go to one on one
next holidays.
Speaker 7 (37:23):
Now you're anything particular location in mind?
Speaker 8 (37:28):
Maybe a cruise?
Speaker 6 (37:31):
How about this? There's a deal on at the moment.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
You can say Musket Cove Island resort off the coast
of Fiji, flights, transfers, breakfast, lunch ending for seven days.
Let's just have a two and a half thousand dollars, right,
so you could shout someone with you and it's taking
care of right now.
Speaker 12 (37:43):
That sounds even better?
Speaker 7 (37:44):
Do you go, musket? It really is.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
That's what happens when you rate our music, cuts you out,
well done, you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 6 (37:53):
So much, thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
There was the headline of the morning, wasn't it from
ten New Zealand. It came out and it said one
in three we men can't see their own penises. And
you know, with Men's Health Week upon us, I think
if there's any kind of motivation to be in shape
and look after your health, it's that's.
Speaker 5 (38:11):
Able to see it.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
So you can go and find out your score Men's
Health Week. What's your score to kind of assess where
your men's health is at? And we've done it, Tony's
done it. And we had to make a few substitutions
for Tony because she doesn't have a penis, so I
know that's the correct.
Speaker 5 (38:34):
Can we just stop to say we don't know that
I can confirm.
Speaker 7 (38:40):
Okay, okay, so you can't see it.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
We're actually we're actually doing a lot to celebrate Men's
Health Week. We are we're getting behind it, we get
behind the boys. We're heading to bargain chemist to stock
up this afternoon.
Speaker 4 (38:52):
Yeah, magnesium, vitamin B, you proteins, that sort of stuff,
you know, Yep, I get it.
Speaker 7 (38:56):
I am a big vitamins guy.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
That wasn't on the question here though, which is disappointing
because I would have done very well on that.
Speaker 7 (39:01):
I got a twenty four, which lower is better that.
Speaker 3 (39:04):
Actually twenty four has me in the most successful category.
Speaker 6 (39:08):
Wow, was very fit.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
Eighteen to forty five is the most successful category. Forty
six to seventy is your time to tighten up, and
seventy one to ninety looks like you're in trouble.
Speaker 5 (39:19):
It looks like it's time of some changes. What did
you get, Jason?
Speaker 6 (39:22):
I got thirty four.
Speaker 7 (39:23):
Yeah, And the difference between me and Jason, interestingly enough,
was vegetables.
Speaker 6 (39:26):
That's it.
Speaker 7 (39:26):
That's the only difference.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
Five thirty eight and I reckon the difference between you
sore me is truth?
Speaker 6 (39:35):
Do you think we lie on?
Speaker 7 (39:36):
I'm just worried about Jason eating his vegetables.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Well, just for a to start, Jason, when when it
came to the do you limit fats in your diet?
Speaker 5 (39:43):
Did you put always or mostly nice in most of
the time. Okay, same, I know you're doing.
Speaker 7 (39:48):
Nice looking over your.
Speaker 5 (39:50):
I had to do it right because you're most I
was honest.
Speaker 6 (39:53):
I was honest to you. I had to good. Sand
was beating me down.
Speaker 7 (39:56):
No, Jay's that I have fifteen grams a day. So
that's where I'm at. Yeah, I think I'm over here.
Speaker 11 (40:01):
For the crown.
Speaker 4 (40:01):
The fruit and video one got me because I do.
I do have fruit and vegy But I'm like, do
I have five servings every single meal?
Speaker 7 (40:06):
Come through it? You definitely do?
Speaker 8 (40:08):
Do you?
Speaker 6 (40:08):
Reckon?
Speaker 5 (40:08):
I take the most. I seed mostly for that.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
I think most mostly days where you don't eat five
servings of fruit and vegetables every meal.
Speaker 5 (40:16):
It would be absolutely days where I don't.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I might have not a single piece of fruit in
a day, and yeah, I might have four vegetables, but
not five.
Speaker 7 (40:25):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
See, I start every day with spinach and blueberries in
my in my shake in the morning, so there's two
servings straight away. Right then I have like a morning
tea with some rice pudding and that has berries, and
there's three servings. And then with lunch I have I
have three servings with my lunch my dinner, my.
Speaker 4 (40:41):
Powdered greens. I've got some powdered Greens's my smooth. But
you say they don't count, Well, I don't count them.
Speaker 5 (40:46):
I would count.
Speaker 3 (40:47):
Don't count them because it's all it's about fiber, mate,
Just other questions do you think separated us? The most
recent research and in terms of bell cancer, for for
younger people is the fact that there's too much sugar,
not enough fiber, which is why I don't count though.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Okay, speaking of the bow, one of the questions was
have you discussed your bowel cancer risk? No, I haven't
said to my doctor, Hey, what's my bow cancer risk?
Speaker 15 (41:10):
But you haven't either, Yes, because I have just done
a men's health check.
Speaker 5 (41:16):
So have I.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
But the question was not that there was a separate
question for have you had an overall men's health check?
Speaker 7 (41:23):
That was part of the questionnaire that in the health check.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
But there was another question, have you asked about your
bow cancer risk?
Speaker 5 (41:30):
Specific to your family?
Speaker 1 (41:32):
Now, remember I told you the story about Miranda Derek.
Speaker 5 (41:43):
Now, Miranda was a young woman and very.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Very good dancer, and actually she shot to fame with
her sister. The two of them started doing TikTok dancers
on Instagram and TikTok and became really big, right, really
really good dancers, and then she got picked up. Miranda
got picked up or luid into a group of dances
called seven m where there was this guy in charge,
(42:07):
and he said, let's start monetizing all of these videos
you're doing on social media. So they all started dancing
for him, hence the series name Dancing for the Devil.
Speaker 5 (42:16):
And as she did this.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
She started moving further and further away from her family.
Now the guy that's running the dancing group is also
involved with the church, and the family of Miranda Derek
got so desperate that they hadn't seen their daughter in
over a year. In that time, she got married to
someone inside the church. The sister's going, what happened to
(42:38):
my best friend? She won't even reply to my messages anymore.
We're really worried that she's part of a cult and
that this guy is taking all of the money that
they're earning and taking it for himself, and they've brainwashed
our sister.
Speaker 6 (42:50):
And all this is on the documentary.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
A yeah, and so they got so desperate that they've
literally gone and put a docco out.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
Now.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Since they've come out, dozens of other people who have
either got out out of this organization or have also
got children in there, have come and supported them and said, yes,
we think this is the case too. But what does
Miranda Derek think about all of this. She's the woman
at the center of it, still posting dancing videos on TikTok,
She's got a seemingly loving husband.
Speaker 5 (43:16):
Finally, she has spoken before this documentary.
Speaker 13 (43:20):
My husband and I we felt safe. Now that this
documentary is out, we feel.
Speaker 5 (43:26):
Like our lives have been put in danger.
Speaker 13 (43:28):
We have both been followed in our cars, we have
received hate now death threats, and I honestly, I don't
understand how my parents and my sister thought that this
documentary would help me or would help our relationship in
any way.
Speaker 7 (43:46):
I just don't.
Speaker 13 (43:47):
I don't understand that, And honestly, I think that my
parents and my sister have focused so much on this
documentary that they've forgotten about working on any relationship and ship.
Speaker 5 (44:00):
With me, pretty cassing back towards her parents.
Speaker 4 (44:04):
I'm no family counseling expert, but I think if you're
having issues, you don't make a documentary and put on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
Yes, yes, I totally agree with you. But what if
you literally can't access your child? You're completely shut out?
But that's their choice.
Speaker 5 (44:18):
But you imagine if your child was sitting in Colorio
Vale right now? Would you not fight? Of course?
Speaker 7 (44:24):
But I wouldn't say I wouldn't make a documentary about it.
Speaker 1 (44:27):
No, I think we all we all laugh at it.
But the this is a desperate family. And remember it's
not just them, there are multiple other families the same.
Speaker 5 (44:36):
I guess their idea was public pressure.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
And I hope that one day that that family will
be connected with their daughter again for bost of their sakes.
Speaker 7 (44:44):
That's interesting a dance, current community, church cult.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
It seems to be a matter of perspective in some respects,
doesn't it?
Speaker 5 (44:50):
Well?
Speaker 1 (44:51):
She seems she seems. She didn't actually say she was happy,
did she? She didn't say she was unhappy either.
Speaker 4 (44:57):
She looks healthy and she's obviously marriede She's found love,
So you know who would are?
Speaker 18 (45:00):
You know?
Speaker 6 (45:00):
I can't wait for the movie. That's all to put
that out.
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Speaker 1 (00:12):
Today on the show, we discussed the theory that the
firstborn daughter always has the female version of her father.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
And what is it that men, according to men's health,
we can't see as they get older.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
And this is the tery thing. One in three key
we guys are affected by this. Also, the trip you
remember you used to do with the parents right when
you were a kid, that pop in the car, you
go downtown, you do a certain thing. Maybe it was
the butchery, maybe it was the fish and chip shop,
maybe it was the hot bread shop, those old school
trips down memory lane. So what generation do you reckon
has had it hals growing up? Because boomers, you know,
(00:44):
people who are born between nineteen forty six and nineteen
sixty four. So our parents basically they reckon they actually
had it pretty easy. The boomers reckon they had it easy.
I would argue that I don't know if they did well.
The dates again, Okay, so born between nineteen forty six
and nineteen sixty four, that's the baby boomer generation.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
Mum was born nineteen sixty that's straight.
Speaker 6 (01:02):
After the wars exactly, that's it.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yeah, so they've most of the wars there and then
they've walked into prosperity and growth.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
But I also think they are a generation that were
close enough to the war to know the impact of
the war and to have all those stories from their parents.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
The appearances exactly right, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
And you know the closer you are to something like that,
the more you feel it.
Speaker 6 (01:23):
That's why I think, Yes, it's Generation X, which is
what I am.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
So these are people born between nineteen sixty five and
nineteen seventy nine. So there's Gen X, right, that's the
generation where your parents were working.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
You're coming from from school.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Often you'd have a key to the house yourself, You're
looking after your siblings. You were making your own lunch
a lot earlier than a lot of other generations have done.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
They said, don't pretend you I never did it.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
I had friends that have made their own lunches.
Speaker 7 (01:46):
This is the gravy generation.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Kit a minute.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Why were people specifically in their era making their lunches.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Because a lot of their parents were out working. So
this is the first generation kind of where mums are
also working as well, So both mom and dads were
both working.
Speaker 7 (01:59):
It's not exactly intensive labor, though, was it, you know?
Speaker 6 (02:01):
Well, I was Is this for a young person? I suppose?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But then you know it was the generation who we
grew up having a program of video and then learning
all the technology as well. You know, we need to
learn how to use the microwave, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
You're not selling me honest.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
So you still had the good old days, but quite
a nice introduction of technology to make your life easier.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
So, millennials born between nineteen eighty and nineteen ninety four,
this is the generation they reckon is the hardest one.
Now you have seen this article come out the other day.
Unluckiest generation. Could you think about it. You've got economic headwinds,
you've got natural disasters, skyrocketing home prices, recessions, pandemics, you
live through them all.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I think it also depends what year in that millennial
chunk you were born in, because my sister's in there,
and so am I. Right, so she is she was
born in nineteen ninety I was nineteen eighty three. Now
I would argue that she has been captured far more
by technology at a young age than I have, right,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, And I think for her as well, I think
she just missed that kind of initial introduction to the
property market where you know, you could still buy a
house for a relatively decent price, where for them it
was all of a sudden it was over a million
bucks here in Auckland.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
You know, I'd almost argue that generation Z.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
So there's the people born between nineteen ninety five and
two thousand and nine.
Speaker 6 (03:14):
I reckon they've got it hardest, do you.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Think with all the social social media pressures. There's the
keeping up with the jones is, there's the fashion, there's
the bullying, the cyber bullying, all the cabs goes on
at school. Yeah, bully's been at school, but now it's
the next level at social they have you turn it off.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That graph around children's mental health, the crisis for our kids,
it corresponds absolutely with smartphones.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
The graphs are wild, Yeah exactly. But do you know
what that means?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I do think that that means that us as parents
just need to we need to be more influential. And
I don't know how we do that, but it is
up to us.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
What generation is that?
Speaker 7 (03:46):
What do you call it? Gen Z?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
That's Gen Z and nine.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
They have a standard of living higher than any generation
before them. They are exposed to opportunity on an international scale.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
I don't know if they've had at the hardest, but.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Also doesn't have the credit cards for they're wrecking up
these massive debts like student debts and all these sort
of the differences.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
They have access to money through those credit cards, so
they're not exactly doing it tough.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Money by your happiness. They might have been to health
issues because.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Of it, and I would imagine a lot wo So
what do you reckon? What generation do you think has
had it hardest? Let's break this downe shall we are
eight hundred double od Port Coast flicker texts to two
six nine nine.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
We're talking about this.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Article that came out the other day saying that baby
boomers reckon they've actually had it easiest growing up. So
I don't know, not being a baby boomer myself, but
I know that my parents and a lot of our
parents are baby boomers born between nineteen forty six and
nineteen sixty four.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
They had pretty tough I would think, yeah, I recollecting.
Speaker 8 (04:37):
They do.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
But then it's it's interesting because we talk about it's
all relative, isn't it to where you live? Like you
try living in Palestine or Ukraine right now and try
and say that, oh, it's not like the war era.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, that's exactly right true that Yeah, yeah, I think
we are focusing on kind of New Zealand though, aren't
we would we?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Well, this is yeah, what in particularly they said that,
this is what they're saying. They're saying, for example, in
New Zealand, recessions pandas mixed natural disaster, skyrotting home prices
just a few of the challenges millennials have faced during
young adulthood. Economic headwinds in particular, have led to some
people doubling the millennials the unluckiest generation.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Is that really true? Though? Millennials have they had it
the hardest? What do you reckon?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I don't feel, as a millennial sitting here right now,
that we've had the hardest.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
I think we've had the easiest. I think so well, yeah,
in some respects, you know.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
I think it's way worse now I do too.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Yeah, what do you reckon? Who's had the hardest growing up?
Speaker 9 (05:29):
Do you reckon now, well, generation, he's the best generation.
But the Boomers, the Boomers, they had the hardest. And
the reason I say that is that I was watching
the news, bass bit. A lot of these boomers are
struggling out there because of the cost of what do
you call it, the living and everything like that, And
(05:53):
I was watching the news and they had that mir
who was telling them to reverse mortgage to their house.
So they' what a rude thing to say, No.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
You're right out A little thing, a lot of it.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, And a lot of the older people now are
actually going flatting again because they can't afford to live
on their own anymore. The spouses have passed away. Now
they're going getting flat mates again. In your seventies and eighties.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
That's tough or lovely, you know what I mean to
live my flating days. She was a good old.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Times, you know.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Just quickly Jason saying that sum's this whole situation up.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
Hard times creates strong men.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Strong men create good times, good times create weak men,
and weak men create hard times. And that's a complete
cycle of this whole Boomers now, for don't you think from.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Huge shout out to our farmers and our rural workers
off the field days.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Today big opening day for a field Days and it
goes real Saturday, Super Saturday. They call it.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Make sure you get yourself a proder.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
I've always wanted a product.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
There's orange thicks everyone, that's all I wanted.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Same and the other little hot tip if you've got
grandkids or kids, little Swan dries, Mini Swan drives thing for.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Your dog as well.
Speaker 7 (06:54):
That's really just on the prod.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I don't want to seem like I'm not rural anyway,
because I have a very now that I'm married to
a farm girl, I'm a very, very rural background.
Speaker 7 (07:05):
Is the product, the thing with the little thing that
you put the electric fence.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Through, it's the little orange stick that's going to knob
at the top.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
And then one year they brought out white ones. Like
every one of the white ones and the orange ones
are the ones you want.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
Though, how's your ring this morning? You have? You got
a fused ring?
Speaker 3 (07:20):
That is the question, because we ran this past Tony
and she was oblivious to it, and we.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
Thought the boys were across jewelry chat more than me.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Yeah, so fusing your ring is something that a lot
of people are doing now.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
And that basically means welding your engagement ring to your
wedding ring. And you do that because they can shift,
they can move back and forth, and they can damage
the ring.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
And your wife's done it as well.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
So my wife's left handed, so she used to left
hand for pretty much everything, and so I got her.
Speaker 6 (07:47):
Yeah, as you say, Sam, her engagement ring and the
wedding ring.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Sort of fused together because when they're rub when they
chafe against each other, you can damage the diamonds and
the claws.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Idea of having my rings fused, I don't like it,
I do. You know why?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Because I had four different rings that I like to wear,
and sometimes I mix a match and change them around
and I don't want them to see in a particular way.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
Oh no, but to see.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
The thing is if the engagement ring shuffles against the
main ring, it can pop the diamonds of diamonds, which
is what you did.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I did do that, but.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That was on Actually maybe that was why maybe I
need to it's so weird. But it wasn't my engagement
ring that popped. The diamond That was my ring from
my parents, like the ring I got when I had
my first child.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Okay, they gave me which was lovely.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
That's nice.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Can you not see the value in having them all
as one unit?
Speaker 5 (08:35):
No, because I don't think they I don't think all
four rings would go well together, and I don't want
on a big chunk of four.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
Would you just do two of them? Like but you did?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Just you're wedding an engage ring and then the mix
and match the other two, because those two will always
go together, won't they?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I could, I could probably, yeah? But do other people
do this? Two six nine nine? This was a completely
new thing. I had no idea people were doing that.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
We had a twisting incident the other day on the
fuse rings. So Sarah twisted it and she had weird
to go and take it back in and get it
re refused.
Speaker 7 (09:02):
Refused, Well really, yeah, the.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
First fusing wasn't actually that great. She's she's stilling something.
It's really yanking her wings.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
A lot of hurrying, pulling on something.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
So Sam's wife has it. My wife has it.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
A lot of women are they are they fusing their
rings or is this something like like Tony says, is
quite foreign to a lot of women.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Let us know. I send her six to two, six
ninety nine, Chilly.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Glly's that lovely intro jas. We want to talk about
the world of beauty pageants now, but God, God, it's
provided some lolls over the years, hasn't it. I used
to I'm not gonna lie. I remember sitting in the
eighties as a kid, begging Mum and Dad to let
me stap and watch Miss Universe. And I used to
love it. And I used to get so excited.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
When's Miss New Zealand coming on, and it was just
so awesome looking all their pretty dresses. I loved it.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
Round beauty pageants changed a.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Lot, because now you have Miss Earth, Miss Fillings, Save
the Planets.
Speaker 7 (10:09):
Miss Beach, Miss Alabama. I don't know if you saw
that last week.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Well that's what I was just about to bring it up,
Sam Miss Alabama.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
And there's no sort of nice way to say this.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
She's an obese woman, right, and she has won Miss
Alabama and it's caused her as a huge stir As
you can imagine. Half of them is saying, finally, you
don't have to be a Barbie doll to win Miss Universe,
and the other half is saying that's unhealthy, that should
not be something that is celebrated. Now I bring you
something even stranger, I reckon, and now I'm bringing you AI. Okay,
(10:53):
so there's a new beauty pageant and it's fully AI.
Speaker 10 (10:57):
What what?
Speaker 5 (10:58):
So they're not even real now?
Speaker 7 (11:01):
But not even real that competition you know over there.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
I feel like the speeches might be better by the
AI generated ones.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
So essentially what's happened? This is in the UK.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
One hundred and fifty thousand tech experts have entered this
to try and come up with. I love how it's
women's beauty, a like, where's the men's AI pageant? And
they've calling it miss willed AI. So you thought it
was weird having Miss World Environmental Misworld Earth. Now we've
got misworled iiwy thousand dollars for the winner but not
(11:35):
even real, and you go, well, this sounds ridiculous.
Speaker 5 (11:38):
I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I started scrolling through it and I kind of got
hooked in that they are like look.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
At that one.
Speaker 7 (11:43):
There is there a Miss Alabama? Have they gone less woke?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
There's no Miss Alabama? I don't think. But the one
I just saw was kind of a little space agenc.
So these are still like real people.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
These are still based on looks, right, they'd still win
based on looks. What's the criterion winning.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
This based on looks?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
It's how good you are with your tech and how
realistic you can make a face.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Oh wow, yeah, because I think at the core of it,
it's less of a beauty pageant and more of an
indication of how well AI can fit the brief of
that pageant, isn't it.
Speaker 7 (12:17):
They've just chosen a moot point, haven't they?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
And do you know what the clincher for this is,
because then you're like, well, the humans still picking who
they find most attractive? Right?
Speaker 5 (12:25):
Is it the blonde? Is it the bruni is at
the redhead?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
But actually no, because the judges are also AI generator?
Speaker 6 (12:31):
Oh my god?
Speaker 11 (12:33):
Genuinely, what's the point?
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Here's a scary stand out right in time for Men's
Health Week one and three. Key, we guys have got
this in common, and it's not a good thing. That's
quite scary and depressing. And yeah, your man could be
the one and three. We'll tell you more about this
after seven. Two factors involved with that, isn't there two factors?
Speaker 12 (12:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (12:50):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I don't know what the second factor is, and I
look forward to hearing about it.
Speaker 6 (12:53):
Break it down a few minutes.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
It could actually link to going to the gym, if
that gives you a little hint. And that's where I
was yesterday on my quist to lift heavier weights.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
And the reason I'm doing this is because if you're
a woman over.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Forty and you are heading towards perimenopause, look, ladies, we
all are.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
We should all be lifting heavyweights.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
The research, the stats are absolutely effusive. Every expert will
tell you that that's what you should be doing, not
only for your best chance of losing weight and staying
in good shape, but also to stop you getting dementia,
to stop you.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
Getting heart to disease. It's like the stats are in.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Ability, getting off the toilet, getting out of bed. All
those stringth factors are amazing.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
You told us you couldn't wipe your own bum yesterday.
And you do a lot of weights.
Speaker 7 (13:37):
You don't want to take it too far, you don't
want to become ny, and you can do and do
some mobility and flexibility work as well. Now.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I first learned how to lift weights when I was
in my early teens because I was put into a
representative sports program where I can't believe it now, but
we got free gym membership and free gym programs and
we had trainers take us through it. But back in
those days, right, free weights were where it was at,
particularly for women. That's all you did, right, so it
was it would be bar bells, dumbbells, or free weights.
(14:10):
And then I started doing forty five and an older
age and got across that as well.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
But I hadn't really done a lot of weights with.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Machines right, And I think traditionally machine weights very much
were the bulking men at the gym doing machines. But
now that women are wanting to lift heaps heavier, machines
are coming back as a thing.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Can I say why machines are coming back is because
people are training later in their life because we've found
out that strength is so important and there's nothing that's
going to tweak a shoulder like a freeweight dumbell. You
get on a machine, you're all stabilized, So all of
a sudden, you can train later in life and live
more weights, which.
Speaker 7 (14:44):
Means you get more gains and more benefits.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
You're not wabbling around the machine is say tell.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
You what the Some of the machines these days, though,
they are a thing, and I've had to come to
grips with some of the machines. And by and large
I got two people. I go to Hal Dane, who
was the head of the gym. He showed me a
cup times. And then there's this guy that follows me
around like a bad smellt.
Speaker 7 (15:05):
Not there.
Speaker 11 (15:05):
She begrudgingly comes over. He's like trapped in a machine.
Speaker 7 (15:16):
I was trying to watch a podcast yesterday while I
was on the cardio machine.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
I kept getting alerts from the streets stuck in another one.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
So there's this machine. You know, if you want to do.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Pull down, any variety of a pull down where you're
pulling a handle from the top or a bar and
you're pulling it down, and this for your lats.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
Generally you're sitting down there.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And you're sitting down and as you sit down, there's.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Like a little what do you call it, a spongy
benchy thing that has resistance across your thighs so that
you can pull down and don't start like pulling.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
Up figure shooting towards the ceiling.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
And my friend and I for about three weeks have
been trying to work out how we keep our legs
under the bar and.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Also grab the weight of the top, which is way
taller than us.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
It was a six inch gap between her fingers which
is stuck in the chair. So what she's doing she
had the thing flopping around at the top and it
wasn't working.
Speaker 7 (16:10):
She couldn't get locked in well because.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
The stupid thing wouldn't wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Wouldn't clasp And I was like, what is going wrong here?
Speaker 5 (16:17):
And I must have looked like an absolute tool.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Anyway, Sam and this other boy from the gym gladly
told me that what you do and if this happens
to you and you need to go and look at
the video, we'll share it on the Coast Breakfast Instagram
story page. As you actually have to donkey kick the
bar once it's up and then it presses down on
your ship.
Speaker 6 (16:36):
Apparently, see, there's some tips you can use.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
You will tell me you knew that or didn't know that.
I hope it's not.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
Just meaning if you want to change it, if you're
after the gym this morning, you want to change your life.
At Coast Breakfast and Instagram, have a looked that you'll
see this tip for your life.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
Just There.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Coasts, Feel Good Breakfast catch up podcast with Tony Street,
Jays Reeves and Sam Wallace.
Speaker 7 (17:00):
Can you see your own Willy? Which is this?
Speaker 12 (17:03):
Is?
Speaker 7 (17:04):
It's a topical.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
It's a topic that we need to talk about because
it is Men's Health Week and if we carry weight
around our middles, it is a bad place to carry.
It increases our blood pressure, it's bad for our organs.
It can go on to lead to stroke, diabetes, all
sorts of things like that.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
Isn't this?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Isn't this a little bit sizest towards the poor person
that even in a trim steak might not be able
to see it.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Well, there's two factors.
Speaker 11 (17:29):
So there's wily size and then there's Willy size.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
Camest that is one and three. Ken we men can't
see their own crumbs.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
There's three of us here.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
Can you see yours?
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Tone?
Speaker 13 (17:45):
You can?
Speaker 5 (17:47):
So?
Speaker 7 (17:47):
I can?
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I mean, no, off's to Jace, because he has done
a brilliant job of getting himself back to shape.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
No, you can't say, is less of this than I
see of mine? I don't reckon if I had to
predict without knowing, I don't know if that would be career.
Speaker 7 (18:07):
Well, there are two factors.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You know what they say about people that talk about
it a life.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
I heard the stent last so of course I checked
and you know, I'm okay, I'm all right.
Speaker 9 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (18:20):
How much did you have to bed?
Speaker 3 (18:24):
You just have to go, You have to just you
can only your only ad to move your chin.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
I reckon, there's a nick mobility issue as well, like
what if you can't put your.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Chin on your chairs that would be your bed, Like
if you had bad nick member there, You're part of
the You're part of the problem.
Speaker 11 (18:39):
You can't see it.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I don't know if you guys are telling the truth.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
I'm saying, well, I'm going to put out there as
a public service announcement today.
Speaker 7 (18:47):
If what you need to do is go and see
if you can see it. And if you.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Can't, go to a chiropractor or you might need.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
And I was saying before it close to the retirement
or maybe your parents are in that sort of ballpark.
Speaker 6 (19:02):
Now, how do we make the money go around?
Speaker 4 (19:04):
So we go to get some trips from the head
of personal wealth at Milford Asset Management. So this is
basically Philip Morgan Reese, head of private wealth from Milford
Asset Management, answering a few questions. Remember that this is
just information to help you understand more and it's not
financial advice. Philip, thank you for joining us. How much
are we going to need when we start to retire?
Speaker 14 (19:22):
Well, thank you for having me a pleasure to be here. Well,
the answer is quite simple. It depends. It really depends
on what you need to be doing with it. So
I think what I'll say first of all, is there
are two quite important steps to get across. The one
is we all know it's really important to accumulate for
your retirement and you need a plan for that. But
(19:42):
you also need a plan for retirement. So there are
two different things going on here. One is you've accumulated
amount of money, how do you spend it? Is a
plan in and of itself. And then secondly, there's an
emotional transition you need to go through because actually retirement
isn't just about the day you retire.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
It's quite a big d.
Speaker 5 (20:00):
I mean emotional transition.
Speaker 14 (20:02):
Well, think of it. You know you've been used to
getting up at four in the morning. Three two, it's
got a four. Yeah, okay, so you've been used to
getting it, but four every day you've been used to
meeting these excellent and charming fellers every day and then
maybe you maybe you go out for coffee with them
because they're so they're such great fun.
Speaker 6 (20:21):
Or whatever you do.
Speaker 14 (20:23):
That's been your routine. It's also been or for all
of us, it's been our value. My value is tied
up with what I do and who are who I
spend time with. End of when you're retirement kicks in,
that's just stopped.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
And that's why a lot of people go back and
work because they can't handle that side of it.
Speaker 14 (20:42):
Yeah, a lot, a lot of that value comes in there. Well,
part of it is afford affordability. Part of it is
to do with your value and your contribution. Interestingly, statistical
New Zealand, I won't get too boring, but statistically in
New Zealand, we in New Zealand between the ages of sixty,
sixty five and six nine have more people working than
(21:02):
most other countries. Right, so overall in retirement stats in
New Zealand show that it's twenty four percent of people
continue working after the age of sixty five. Now that's
double the level of Australia and it's more than double
the level in the UK.
Speaker 10 (21:21):
Wow, and it's a.
Speaker 14 (21:22):
Combination of things, right, but think of that emotional Well,
you know we'll finance people, right, so we talk about
planning the retirement from a financial point of view, but
you know, it's really important to plan that transition.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
What am I going to do? What am I going
to spend my time doing?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
What about people that haven't thought about it and then
think oh it's too late for me, they can't do
anything about it.
Speaker 14 (21:42):
There is a saying, you know, the best time to
plant the trees twenty years ago, the next best time
is right now?
Speaker 7 (21:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Yeah, yeah, So on that, how do we maximize it? Like,
I mean, I'm doing kiwisaber, but what can I do
on top of that? Or should I be doing something
on top of that? Are your clients doing stuff on
top of just normal.
Speaker 7 (21:56):
Key we saver?
Speaker 10 (21:57):
Our clients are doing lots of different things.
Speaker 14 (21:59):
Remember, thinking about retirement and your plan in retirement is
what I'm going to be? What am my first of all?
Setting up your goals? What do I want to be doing?
And then what can I afford to do? And what
have I got to do?
Speaker 10 (22:12):
That with?
Speaker 14 (22:14):
So our clients to a range of things, and think
of it, you're in the phrase is decumulation. Decumulation applies
to any range of assets. So what we see our
clients doing. We see our clients coming to us and saying,
I've got this investment pot, but I've also got.
Speaker 10 (22:29):
I've got the house. Some have got a batch, some
have got a rental.
Speaker 14 (22:33):
All of those are assets that you can flow through
an investment portfolio to create the outputs that you want.
And your outputs could be anything from a retirement income approach.
Ideally I want income for life. We'll come back to that. Next,
I want to have a pot for holidays. Next I
want to pot for purchases. Next I want a legacy.
(22:54):
I'm unfortunately the bank of moment Dad, so I'll need
some for that.
Speaker 10 (22:58):
So it's thinking.
Speaker 14 (22:58):
About all of your assets and how you can de
accumulate any of them. I mean, generally we talk about
the investments, but with a lot of our clients, we
think of those assets that they have and to and
liquidating them at some point through the portfolio. That they
have to crystallize those plans that they've got because you'll
need the cash at some point.
Speaker 5 (23:20):
Message here is having a plan.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
It's exactly and it's a lot bigger plan than perhaps
we all thought that's right.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
So have the retirement you want by planning it with
Milford and for free initial nabligation chat today. You can
go to the website if you want Milford Asset dot
com for slash retire dash well, or quickly send a
text to two six nine nine will expect the details.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
This is a scientific theory that I want to test
this morning on you have a look at your own
family and tell me whether this is the case or not.
So the theory is that the firstborn daughter is always
the female version of her father. And they're saying not
necessarily in looks, but in personality.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
And the reason this spoke to me is because I
am like a replica of my father, and you are.
And my mother SEUs to me all the time. She goes,
I thought, you know, in the younger days that you
were more like me, she goes. But as you've got older,
you are absolutely your father.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
So you've even got his massive hands.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
I actually do have quite large hands, so do look.
I actually probably look a mix of both my parents.
But when it comes to personalities, my dad is very competitive.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
He is very very.
Speaker 15 (24:31):
Positive, infinitely positive. That can be very socially.
Speaker 5 (24:36):
Dogged at times, and that's what I am as well.
Speaker 7 (24:38):
Very social, loves to talk to people.
Speaker 5 (24:40):
Hates being on his own.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
And I'm like, oh my gosh, I am the firstborn daughter,
and I am a female replica of him.
Speaker 5 (24:48):
I actually am.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Because we don't have daughters in our in my immediate family,
we have said to his sons. But I look at
my sister Cynthia, right, and as she gets older, and
I love her for this. She's so much like Dad,
Like she's extremely little to a but she takes no
pup you know, you know when you've crossed the line
with Cynthia.
Speaker 6 (25:04):
And I love that about her so exactly the same
as Dad.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
That will mean so is Amy like a version of
your father, your sister Amy just trying to think personality
traits and think about the traits, think about things like
you know, because as you get older, I think our
traits become more obvious, don't they.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah that's right, Yeah, yeah, I think, Synthia.
But it certainly may not be like me saying that.
But Dad's a wonderful, wonderful man, one of my best mates.
And Cynthia is now too, and I love that about her.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Who's the first born twin of Cozy, and so that
means you will probably end up playing out like you Sammy.
Speaker 6 (25:36):
Yeah, maybe?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Or is it with twins they both end up playing
like me. I don't know, because you guys have always said.
Speaker 7 (25:42):
To me that Cosey's more like Sarah and Sina is
more like me.
Speaker 5 (25:47):
I know, And I just wonder if that's going to
keep going.
Speaker 16 (25:51):
Because last night, I tell you, oh my God, was driving,
she threw down a she's three year old now, and
she threw year old threw down a proper two year
old chance like it was kicking and screaming.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
There was pig headedness, there was stubbornness that I have
only ever seen within myself.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
N the is this just an old wivestyle or is
this the case in the family the firstborn daughter is
always the female version of her father.
Speaker 6 (26:18):
Sam She'll be in court in no time.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
You got off for years license Tony Street to try
to defend one thousand dollars in The Chasers.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
Today.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
I can just hear my father, Jeff Street saying right now, well,
you're not.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Like me in The Chasers because you always have a premiere.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
He lets me know about it. Every day competitive street.
Speaker 7 (26:40):
It's like you do to us exactly.
Speaker 6 (26:42):
Okay, it's so cool now.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
I eight hundred double O four coast five general knowledge
questions and if Tony can't chase you down, she can't
match your score.
Speaker 6 (26:50):
You were a grand on Coast, the chasers on Coast.
Speaker 8 (26:56):
Ah right, I'm Sheilaine, I'm from New Plumbers, and I'm
going to be facing Tony today. If I win the money,
would love to shout my lovely colleagues out for breakfast
and maybe go shopping.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
Two thousand bucks on the line hasn't been up there
for a long time.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
So can I just ask, Sheelini? You the eldest born
daughter and your family?
Speaker 8 (27:17):
Yes, how don't you know?
Speaker 5 (27:18):
I didn't know. I've just asked. Do you take after
your dad? Do you think?
Speaker 8 (27:23):
Possibly?
Speaker 13 (27:24):
Hope?
Speaker 8 (27:25):
Yeah, but of both I think.
Speaker 4 (27:26):
Okay, now these colleagues you speak of, No, we're about
to your working scholene.
Speaker 8 (27:30):
I'll work an administration for a health health facility.
Speaker 6 (27:34):
Oh nice, it's nice, all right, we'll for that. Your
colleagues will love this. If you want a grand, I feel.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
Like it's a win win today, because if I lose,
I'll be disappointed. But at least the money's going to
my hometown.
Speaker 6 (27:45):
Class full.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
Okay, so we're seeing Tony out of the studio now, Sholene,
you can't hear what's about to happen.
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Okay, we're going to start o'clock with thirty seconds on it.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Sam's going to ask you some questions you can pass
if you want to, or the third time we'll come
back to those ones. Otherwise with at your first dance
only and if Tony can't match your school, you will
want a thousand dollars to.
Speaker 6 (28:03):
Shout your colleagues. Are you ready? Yes, your time starts now.
Speaker 11 (28:08):
A Dalmatian is a breed of what?
Speaker 7 (28:11):
Yes?
Speaker 11 (28:11):
How many months end in the letter?
Speaker 12 (28:13):
Why?
Speaker 8 (28:16):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (28:18):
Huh?
Speaker 7 (28:19):
What's the name of London's main airport?
Speaker 12 (28:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
Who's been named the Warriors halfback for the game against
Melbourne Storm?
Speaker 7 (28:28):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Who is the lead singer of Dragon? How many months
ended the letter?
Speaker 6 (28:35):
Why got you? The buzzer got you?
Speaker 8 (28:41):
Really?
Speaker 7 (28:42):
Are you going to be that cruel?
Speaker 6 (28:43):
The buzzle ends?
Speaker 4 (28:45):
I would love to that I shot it right, but
the buzzer got there first.
Speaker 7 (28:50):
You're a tough master.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
That's a good one, though.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
You are chasing a two and she would have been
a three, but it was after the buzz, on the
after the bus.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
What is there? A bit of conjection, same thing it
was on the verb.
Speaker 7 (29:08):
I just I just think sometimes it's nice to be
in the rules.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
I would love you know me, I'd love to Jase
is being a stickler?
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Is?
Speaker 5 (29:14):
Is that what I'm picking up?
Speaker 6 (29:16):
Just in case? Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Do we need to replay it? No?
Speaker 7 (29:19):
No, no, I'm going from the bottom to the top.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Okay, okay, defending the two, trying to chase down the two,
defending one thousand dollars.
Speaker 6 (29:26):
Your time starts now.
Speaker 7 (29:28):
Who was the lead singer of Dragon Pass.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Who's been named the Warriors Harfeck for the game against
Melbourne Storm Pass?
Speaker 11 (29:36):
What's the name of London's main airport?
Speaker 12 (29:39):
Yes?
Speaker 11 (29:40):
How many months? Ending the letter?
Speaker 7 (29:42):
Why? Two?
Speaker 12 (29:46):
No?
Speaker 11 (29:46):
At Dalmatian as a breed of what? Yes?
Speaker 7 (29:49):
Oh, I forgot.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
May was that January February?
Speaker 5 (29:55):
I only said two May in July. Oh gosh, I
should thought about.
Speaker 7 (30:00):
This, but that's a cruel question.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Come on street half back for the Warriors.
Speaker 5 (30:11):
I was going to say that if I had come
back to it, I didn't need to.
Speaker 7 (30:15):
And the lead singer of the band Dragon was.
Speaker 5 (30:18):
I should know this?
Speaker 7 (30:20):
Really, this is a tough question.
Speaker 5 (30:21):
I should I got half of us. Yeah, what does
it start with?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
Starts with Mark?
Speaker 3 (30:27):
It starts with Mark. It's Mark, Alexander Hunter or Mark Hunter.
I was never going to so it was too The
money has offended.
Speaker 7 (30:35):
We're up to one thousand, one hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
To hear more from Tony Street try we need to
talk Tony's health and lifestyle podcast. Now back to Coasts,
Feel Good, Brukfast s Ketch Up with Tony. Jason. Sam
Cushing went back to.
Speaker 4 (30:54):
When you were growing up, you're excited when you go
for a special trip with mumble Dad in the car.
Speaker 6 (30:57):
Where did you go? What were those sort of trips?
Because it was always an ocasion when you went to town,
it was something on right.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Sometimes we just went for a drive, and us kids
used to go like, what do you mean just for
a drive, not to anywhere. But I do remember those
special trips, Jays. I remember we'd finished brownies on a
Wednesday night or a Thursday night, and it would be
Chinese Fugus board night, so it was a shop and
you'd go and you'd be able to fill up one
of those little cartoons.
Speaker 5 (31:22):
Yeah, and that was our Thursday night trip.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
I remember waiting for an hour to get our photos developed,
and the Highbury.
Speaker 7 (31:29):
Shops and the burking here in Auckland wait there nervously.
Speaker 3 (31:33):
As you know, Dad had snapped a couple of shots
from one with her top off Onday camping trips.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
They looked at your photos.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
They always looked some answering.
Speaker 6 (31:46):
They always bring it a second to keep in the shop.
Speaker 11 (31:49):
A wall out in the back.
Speaker 5 (31:51):
Did you use the word set then for a reason?
Speaker 6 (31:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (31:56):
We see on a Sunday morning there was a hot
breed shop, wasn't It was a hot breach shop and
past things.
Speaker 5 (32:01):
When did it flip to bakery eh?
Speaker 4 (32:03):
I don't know, but it was always toll the hot
breade shop on Sunday mornings for jumping the yuke with Dad.
Speaker 6 (32:06):
We go there and you can smell the cheese, you know,
the cheese loa cooking.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
So good.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
So what are the trips you remember doing with your
mum and dare? We'd love to go to our memory
lane with you this morning. Call us that eight hundred
double O four coast. We'll see it takes to two
six nine nine. If you're listening on iHeartRadio who used
the talk back feature a little red microphone there. We
can join the discussion right now on Instagram and Facebook.
At Coast Breakfast had good luck with lot of tonight.
Four million dollars off the line to lotto.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
And you might think it's playing at that. It's not
fifty four million. There's still a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It's probably a good time to play. Least people will
be buying tickets. I wonder what the stats are on that,
do you know?
Speaker 7 (32:41):
I where's the rest of the money. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
You know, there was a forty million dollar draw the
whole country when it bought lot of tickets. You can't
tell me that they've they've only got four million dollars left.
Speaker 7 (32:51):
There is no way.
Speaker 15 (32:53):
You've got some questions up Take the fore and runs anyway.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
We're talking about way back. You know, think back to
your childhood when it was a spech trip. Mom and
dad put you in the car and you'd go somewhere.
You go to town and it was an event, right
bring in What was that event for you?
Speaker 6 (33:05):
Where did you go?
Speaker 17 (33:08):
Look a very long time ago. I have fond memories.
We used to go down and play mini golf in
Mission Bay.
Speaker 5 (33:16):
Minute.
Speaker 17 (33:17):
It's still there today.
Speaker 5 (33:19):
I've been there. It's a goodie, is it that one
with like the dinosaurs and everything?
Speaker 17 (33:22):
Yeah, it is. It didn't have them back when I
used to go. I used to have the big lips
and a few other quirky things, but the main event
afterwards was to head on down to Mission Bay and
go visit the Danish Delight store afterwards and get a
nice big Danish Delight ice cream. I can still still
smell these cooking miles down the road.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
Smell they've got one on marine paryed and napier and
that smell you smell coming.
Speaker 6 (33:46):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
I love that your family created that memory for you.
It makes me as a mum think what am I doing?
You know, like, what are the memories that they have? Yeah,
and it makes you want to put in more ecent.
Speaker 11 (33:59):
Sharon.
Speaker 18 (33:59):
What we were old school trips that you remember, Oh, Dad,
Mom and Dad would take us we lived in Fielding
at the time, and take us across to the open
fish and chip shop and Palms to the North on
a Friday night and the Holden Special and the three
of us were.
Speaker 12 (34:12):
Sitting in the back seat with our packs, but like
the Caft kids, but without the song. And we'd have
our fish and chips and our little parcels and we
ripped the top open and eat them out of there,
and we had our long necked giraffe and milkshakes.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
You're in a good situation just to rip the corner
of the fish and chip shop and end reach into that.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
Yes, it was a skill over question. Were you allowed
to eat in the Holden special? We were Wow, greasy
hands on the vinyl seats hold.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
And isn't it funny that the long giraffe milkshakes they
probably went away for a while, but they are back
with a vengeance.
Speaker 5 (34:47):
My kids love a good sick shake in those cups.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
And actually, when you actually look at the portion size,
it's actually better than you think because it's a big cup.
Speaker 7 (34:54):
Yet but they froth it up so much.
Speaker 5 (34:56):
Can you not bring this size?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Mate?
Speaker 3 (35:02):
And people out there can't see the willies, That's what
I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Liftop money, think about this. Okay, what would you do
with five thousand dollars?
Speaker 6 (35:17):
Right now? There's an amazing travel deal on that you go.
You know, it's like a nice little island resort, hang
out for a week or so free meals. Would it's
just what.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
You feel like? Is there's the winters upon us?
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (35:28):
Yeah, do you know what the old creeping credit card though,
reality would strike home.
Speaker 11 (35:33):
And I wouldn't see a dollar of it.
Speaker 4 (35:35):
Jason, all right, if you've been kind enough to help
us create the ultimate playlist on Coast, you could be
about to win five thousand dollars right now.
Speaker 6 (35:43):
I remember if you went to our website help rate
our music. Hopefully this is your phone ringing now five
grand for helping us.
Speaker 4 (35:50):
This is basically our way of saying thank you.
Speaker 6 (35:53):
You have to answer.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
Hello, cutcher, It's Tony Jason Sam from Cosy, So it'll
call you so well, you're not too busy at the moment.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
You've got a secretary for a chat? Yeah, I do great.
Speaker 7 (36:05):
Cool?
Speaker 6 (36:05):
Hey, what's your favorite song that we play on Coast?
Speaker 3 (36:09):
Oh? Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 10 (36:12):
Anything from Pink?
Speaker 6 (36:14):
Oh cool?
Speaker 1 (36:15):
I love that you're a Pink fan and thank you.
We just want to say thank you so much for
raising the music. So you did that survey, didn't you online?
Where you told us what you liked? What other what
other artist did you say you liked?
Speaker 5 (36:26):
Pink? Anything?
Speaker 12 (36:27):
Else it's here in I'm also going back like to
abaka soundtracks like from Judy Dancing or anything.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
You've got those on the We really appreciate it mainly
because people like you going through and doing this allows
us to shape our music to ensure that our music
continues to be on track.
Speaker 7 (36:44):
Do you think we've got it on track?
Speaker 5 (36:46):
Is?
Speaker 14 (36:46):
I think because you guys do have a good mix
of everything.
Speaker 5 (36:49):
Oh that's so.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
Good to know. Oh well, thank you so much for
your time. We'd like to give you five thousand dollars.
Speaker 14 (36:55):
You a freaking joking.
Speaker 5 (36:56):
No, no, it's true.
Speaker 14 (37:00):
This is insane.
Speaker 6 (37:02):
Five thousand dollars will be put into your account.
Speaker 9 (37:06):
Oh my gosh, you're.
Speaker 11 (37:10):
Is it handy right now?
Speaker 4 (37:12):
Oh yeah, yeah, it's always handy.
Speaker 5 (37:15):
What do you think you could spin five thousand dollars
on right now?
Speaker 3 (37:20):
I think it partly will go to one on one
next holidays.
Speaker 7 (37:23):
Now you're anything particular location in mind?
Speaker 8 (37:28):
Maybe a cruise?
Speaker 6 (37:31):
How about this? There's a deal on at the moment.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
You can say Musket Cove Island resort off the coast
of Fiji, flights, transfers, breakfast, lunch ending for seven days.
Let's just have a two and a half thousand dollars, right,
so you could shout someone with you and it's taking
care of right now.
Speaker 12 (37:43):
That sounds even better?
Speaker 7 (37:44):
Do you go, musket? It really is.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
That's what happens when you rate our music, cuts you out,
well done, you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 6 (37:53):
So much, thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
There was the headline of the morning, wasn't it from
ten New Zealand. It came out and it said one
in three we men can't see their own penises. And
you know, with Men's Health Week upon us, I think
if there's any kind of motivation to be in shape
and look after your health, it's that's.
Speaker 5 (38:11):
Able to see it.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
So you can go and find out your score Men's
Health Week. What's your score to kind of assess where
your men's health is at? And we've done it, Tony's
done it. And we had to make a few substitutions
for Tony because she doesn't have a penis, so I
know that's the correct.
Speaker 5 (38:34):
Can we just stop to say we don't know that
I can confirm.
Speaker 7 (38:40):
Okay, okay, so you can't see it.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
We're actually we're actually doing a lot to celebrate Men's
Health Week. We are we're getting behind it, we get
behind the boys. We're heading to bargain chemist to stock
up this afternoon.
Speaker 4 (38:52):
Yeah, magnesium, vitamin B, you proteins, that sort of stuff,
you know, Yep, I get it.
Speaker 7 (38:56):
I am a big vitamins guy.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
That wasn't on the question here though, which is disappointing
because I would have done very well on that.
Speaker 7 (39:01):
I got a twenty four, which lower is better that.
Speaker 3 (39:04):
Actually twenty four has me in the most successful category.
Speaker 6 (39:08):
Wow, was very fit.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
Eighteen to forty five is the most successful category. Forty
six to seventy is your time to tighten up, and
seventy one to ninety looks like you're in trouble.
Speaker 5 (39:19):
It looks like it's time of some changes. What did
you get, Jason?
Speaker 6 (39:22):
I got thirty four.
Speaker 7 (39:23):
Yeah, And the difference between me and Jason, interestingly enough,
was vegetables.
Speaker 6 (39:26):
That's it.
Speaker 7 (39:26):
That's the only difference.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
Five thirty eight and I reckon the difference between you
sore me is truth?
Speaker 6 (39:35):
Do you think we lie on?
Speaker 7 (39:36):
I'm just worried about Jason eating his vegetables.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Well, just for a to start, Jason, when when it
came to the do you limit fats in your diet?
Speaker 5 (39:43):
Did you put always or mostly nice in most of
the time. Okay, same, I know you're doing.
Speaker 7 (39:48):
Nice looking over your.
Speaker 5 (39:50):
I had to do it right because you're most I
was honest.
Speaker 6 (39:53):
I was honest to you. I had to good. Sand
was beating me down.
Speaker 7 (39:56):
No, Jay's that I have fifteen grams a day. So
that's where I'm at. Yeah, I think I'm over here.
Speaker 11 (40:01):
For the crown.
Speaker 4 (40:01):
The fruit and video one got me because I do.
I do have fruit and vegy But I'm like, do
I have five servings every single meal?
Speaker 7 (40:06):
Come through it? You definitely do?
Speaker 8 (40:08):
Do you?
Speaker 6 (40:08):
Reckon?
Speaker 5 (40:08):
I take the most. I seed mostly for that.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
I think most mostly days where you don't eat five
servings of fruit and vegetables every meal.
Speaker 5 (40:16):
It would be absolutely days where I don't.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I might have not a single piece of fruit in
a day, and yeah, I might have four vegetables, but
not five.
Speaker 7 (40:25):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
See, I start every day with spinach and blueberries in
my in my shake in the morning, so there's two
servings straight away. Right then I have like a morning
tea with some rice pudding and that has berries, and
there's three servings. And then with lunch I have I
have three servings with my lunch my dinner, my.
Speaker 4 (40:41):
Powdered greens. I've got some powdered Greens's my smooth. But
you say they don't count, Well, I don't count them.
Speaker 5 (40:46):
I would count.
Speaker 3 (40:47):
Don't count them because it's all it's about fiber, mate,
Just other questions do you think separated us? The most
recent research and in terms of bell cancer, for for
younger people is the fact that there's too much sugar,
not enough fiber, which is why I don't count though.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Okay, speaking of the bow, one of the questions was
have you discussed your bowel cancer risk? No, I haven't
said to my doctor, Hey, what's my bow cancer risk?
Speaker 15 (41:10):
But you haven't either, Yes, because I have just done
a men's health check.
Speaker 5 (41:16):
So have I.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
But the question was not that there was a separate
question for have you had an overall men's health check?
Speaker 7 (41:23):
That was part of the questionnaire that in the health check.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
But there was another question, have you asked about your
bow cancer risk?
Speaker 5 (41:30):
Specific to your family?
Speaker 1 (41:32):
Now, remember I told you the story about Miranda Derek.
Speaker 5 (41:43):
Now, Miranda was a young woman and very.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Very good dancer, and actually she shot to fame with
her sister. The two of them started doing TikTok dancers
on Instagram and TikTok and became really big, right, really
really good dancers, and then she got picked up. Miranda
got picked up or luid into a group of dances
called seven m where there was this guy in charge,
(42:07):
and he said, let's start monetizing all of these videos
you're doing on social media. So they all started dancing
for him, hence the series name Dancing for the Devil.
Speaker 5 (42:16):
And as she did this.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
She started moving further and further away from her family.
Now the guy that's running the dancing group is also
involved with the church, and the family of Miranda Derek
got so desperate that they hadn't seen their daughter in
over a year. In that time, she got married to
someone inside the church. The sister's going, what happened to
(42:38):
my best friend? She won't even reply to my messages anymore.
We're really worried that she's part of a cult and
that this guy is taking all of the money that
they're earning and taking it for himself, and they've brainwashed
our sister.
Speaker 6 (42:50):
And all this is on the documentary.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
A yeah, and so they got so desperate that they've
literally gone and put a docco out.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
Now.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Since they've come out, dozens of other people who have
either got out out of this organization or have also
got children in there, have come and supported them and said, yes,
we think this is the case too. But what does
Miranda Derek think about all of this. She's the woman
at the center of it, still posting dancing videos on TikTok,
She's got a seemingly loving husband.
Speaker 5 (43:16):
Finally, she has spoken before this documentary.
Speaker 13 (43:20):
My husband and I we felt safe. Now that this
documentary is out, we feel.
Speaker 5 (43:26):
Like our lives have been put in danger.
Speaker 13 (43:28):
We have both been followed in our cars, we have
received hate now death threats, and I honestly, I don't
understand how my parents and my sister thought that this
documentary would help me or would help our relationship in
any way.
Speaker 7 (43:46):
I just don't.
Speaker 13 (43:47):
I don't understand that, And honestly, I think that my
parents and my sister have focused so much on this
documentary that they've forgotten about working on any relationship and ship.
Speaker 5 (44:00):
With me, pretty cassing back towards her parents.
Speaker 4 (44:04):
I'm no family counseling expert, but I think if you're
having issues, you don't make a documentary and put on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
Yes, yes, I totally agree with you. But what if
you literally can't access your child? You're completely shut out?
But that's their choice.
Speaker 5 (44:18):
But you imagine if your child was sitting in Colorio
Vale right now? Would you not fight? Of course?
Speaker 7 (44:24):
But I wouldn't say I wouldn't make a documentary about it.
Speaker 1 (44:27):
No, I think we all we all laugh at it.
But the this is a desperate family. And remember it's
not just them, there are multiple other families the same.
Speaker 5 (44:36):
I guess their idea was public pressure.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
And I hope that one day that that family will
be connected with their daughter again for bost of their sakes.
Speaker 7 (44:44):
That's interesting a dance, current community, church cult.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
It seems to be a matter of perspective in some respects,
doesn't it?
Speaker 5 (44:50):
Well?
Speaker 1 (44:51):
She seems she seems. She didn't actually say she was happy,
did she? She didn't say she was unhappy either.
Speaker 4 (44:57):
She looks healthy and she's obviously marriede She's found love,
So you know who would are?
Speaker 18 (45:00):
You know?
Speaker 6 (45:00):
I can't wait for the movie. That's all to put
that out.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
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