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July 1, 2024 • 39 mins

Today on the show we discuss what the best form of exercise is for you, the places you've gotten stuck, and whether this bride is overreacting to something her groom did!

0:00 Intro
0:40 What Is the Best Form of Exercise
4:25 Where Have You Gotten Stuck
11:20 Producer Rosie Reviews the Love Boat
16:05 Why Did You Leave Your Job
18:15 Sams Holiday Update
20:30 Getting Appointments Booked for You
23:50 The Chasers
27:40 Has This Bride Overreacted
35:30 Chat with Money Guru Hannah McQueen

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Sharp podcast.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Today on the show, we talked about the new thing
experts are doing to make you stick to your appointments.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
They are literally spin feeding us and I don't know
why I'm okay with it if your audacity.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Also, there's a woman who has left her marriage the
very next day after the wedding because she asked for
one specific thing not to happen on the wedding day
and it did and a new husband didn't listen. And
we're on his side, her side, we're on her side.
Whose side are you on? He listen?

Speaker 1 (00:37):
A friend of mine, Katie Wesney, friend of the show,
has just text and said.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
I have to get out of the car to go
to IF forty.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Five and I'm really intrigued as to what you're going
to say about this perfect form of exercise.

Speaker 4 (00:47):
Okatie, I'm with you. I'd be almost I'll be in
the car like aety forty five right now if I
wasn't here myself. I get it. I you be fair.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
I could be too, because I'm a big IF forty
five fan, and I know that people get different things
from exercise.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
And we have this tobait with Sam. God bless him,
he's not.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
Here all the time, because Sam's idea of exercise is
you lift heavy weights and that's what everyone should be
doing and if you're not doing that.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
You're a half wit.

Speaker 4 (01:09):
Basically, what you're doing it wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Yeah, And so we have this debate all the time
and we discuss the fact that not everyone is just
exercising to get the perfect physique.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
Look, I'm sure that's part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
We all, most of us are always trying to lose
a bit of weight, gain a bit of muscle. But
there are other reasons why you exercise, right, and those
other reasons might be I particularly, I think if you're
a stressed out mum and you have one window of
the day, it might be a one time to go
see some mates.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
Right. It's a really nice social part of it. You
meet a couple of people at those classes, especially you
say you're forty five, which I only got into because
of you. You know, you meet those people there and
as a real family, like a real community.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
It really is a buzz and it gives you.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Sometimes it can be like the best part of your day,
like eat to see a couple of people, and for me,
a lot of my girlfriends would be there, and if
they turned up on the same class as me, it
was just such a buzz.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
You also might be.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Going for your men health, right, So a lot of
people get anxiety or depression and exercise has been prescribed
by them by their doctor in a lot of cases
to this is your best medicine.

Speaker 4 (02:09):
Dolphins flying.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
But I've always have wondered, you know, if you've got
limited time, what should you actually be doing if there's
only a small window and you have to do the
very best thing for you to take all the millions
of boxes and I think we've stumbled across it all.
This is the new research that has just come out.
So this particular form of exercise, I'm going to not
reveal it to the end.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
I'm going to tell you all the benefits.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
For es.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
You have up to four times greater weight loss than
if you do an indoor activity. It reduces your heart disease,
potential development of cancer. It improves your longevity, it can
reduce type two diabetes. It's good for your cardiovascular muscular, skeletal,
lung tissue.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
What else I got here?

Speaker 1 (02:51):
It improves your cholesterol levels, It's good for your balance,
your coordination, your mental health. It is less dangerous most
other forms of exercise.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
And you sink, it's full time. You got me at
four times faster to losing weight, and.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
I'll get you at this particular stat which got me.
It's the best three to one activity they think. There
is where it balances cardio, balance and weightlifting all in
one exercise.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
And what is it?

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Sixty million people do this in the US, and I
know a lot of people will do this in New Zealand.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
And it is hiking or tramping.

Speaker 4 (03:26):
Is that right?

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (03:27):
So if you so saying it an average tramp, you
should be able to lose forty or four hundred to
six hundred calories. And it's just ticks all the boxes.
But it has to be outdoor. So walking on the treadmill,
they say, doesn't give you the same benefits. It's got
to be out in nature for the mental benefits as well.
So if you're someone that goes for a big long walk,

(03:49):
particularly if you're in hilly Ish, apparently that's where it's at.
And we should all be doing more of it. And
do you know what, It instantly made me think of
those Hollywood stars that you see in the hills, Jennifer
Annison and going for a heart why they doing it?

Speaker 4 (04:03):
When Tom Cruise was here filming in the last summer
in Tartanucky, one of the favorite things he said, there's
so many great hiking trails around Tartanucky and even locals
like do we the Tom Cruise found you got to
go for a.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
Hike, Like, where else would you want to hike other
than New Zealand when you look at our scenery, I
think we need to start a group Jays.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
That's a great idea. This is one of the most
horrific stories. Or it happened right here in New Zealand. Honestly,
I thought of you when I heard it this Tony Street.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Yeah, and I very quickly shared this to the group
chat because I suffer from claustrophobia, so and it's such
an irrational fear, and I don't feel like I'm typically
someone that's a fearful person, like I will go and
bungee jump. I'm not scared of heights, but you put
me in a closed space and I panic.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
And once I got Once I got locked in an
E forty five toilet, the lock.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Broke and it was one of those toilets that had
no windows or ventilation, and I panicked and started trying
to break the door down. And I'm not proud of
but that is what happens. And when you have an
irrational fear, it's very very hard to overcome it. So
when I heard about this, I just just felt so
sorry for these people. So they just arrived from Sri Lanka,
this family, mom and dad and the kids, and they

(05:14):
decided where do you go first in New Zealand.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
Well you go up the Skytower, don't you.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
So they're going up the Skytower and they get to
floor thirty five and it stops dead right, one of
those those in betweeny floors where you're not looking out,
you're just seeing the black And so they were very
calmly pushed the button, got someone and said hey, we
are here to be stopped. And they were very very
unhappy with the way things were dealt with. They basically said, yet,

(05:40):
someone will be there in ten minutes. Ten minutes ticked by,
they called back, Oh, sorry, the security person's off site.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
They'll be here soon and twenty minutes.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Anyway, forty five minutes later, the lift then started going
a bit a well up and down with no warning,
and they're all traumatized. The kids are having nightmares now.
They were having breathing difficulties, worst nightmare. And I just
think if that can happen there at like a lift
like that that you'd think would be Man twenty four

(06:08):
to seven, it can happen anywhere.

Speaker 4 (06:10):
So the question this morning is where have you been trapped?
Where did you get stuck? We'd love to heal, sorry
because it almost happened to Tony again and a little elevator
and Krasher, Oh.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
We're not talking about that incident, are we.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Oh? I don't even think we were anywhere near stuck
that time.

Speaker 3 (06:24):
I just reacted like a caged bit.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
It was it was it a.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Bird get stuck inside and it starts flying at the windows.

Speaker 3 (06:30):
That's basically one day did it.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
It was miserizing to watch. So what about you? Where
have you been stuck? It's top story is eight hundred
double four Coast South phone number or ficause it text
to two six nine nine. There's a family that's out
there on holiday in New Zealand decided to got the
skytwer and got stuck in the lift and got stuck
like forty five minutes waiting for you technician. But it's
one of those horrible places, like between the windows so
that you couldn't see anything outside.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Now and I've just arrived from sril Anka, not the
best tourism and for us.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
Either, we haven't seen a postcard.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
So the question is where did you get stuck?

Speaker 1 (07:02):
And I just shared that I once got stuck in
any forty five toilet as a severe claustrophobic, and it
wasn't good. And that led to me being fearful of
just any small spaces even more. And Jace, you and
I were in an elevator at a christ Church hotel
last year and the moment I think that it's even
remotely not going to open, I'm not proud of this.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
I start to panic and I panicked with you, jas,
what Tony.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
Did Its peton fisture were in there, and it was
it was it was a relatively new elevator, but it
sort of creaked a little bit, and it creaked, it stopped,
the it like shuttered and the door didn't opened fast
enough of Tony. So she ran forward, ran past me
and started clawing the doors open.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
And I don't think that's going to drive them open
like the whole and I would do that again.

Speaker 4 (07:46):
So where have you been stuck on the text on
two six ninety nine? The honest is, I was stuck
on a water slide in Topal once or another one here.
I remember Lady in the Night. I remember this too.
I think I remember hearing this. I remember Lady in
the nine. He's got stuck in the lift in Victoria
car Park for a whole weekend. Peoples in their cell phones.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
Oh not, because there's this text has pointed out you
need to go to the bathroom and things like that,
and how do you do that?

Speaker 3 (08:12):
What about you, Doug? Where did you get stuck?

Speaker 4 (08:16):
I was.

Speaker 5 (08:18):
Primate caving?

Speaker 4 (08:20):
No, my gosh, see that's why was I watched things
on TV like that, like you know, the black Water caving,
the White Water caving and things, and that's my biggest nightmare.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
Have you ever done it?

Speaker 4 (08:28):
Chase caving years ago? Yes, I've been through the White
Tormal caves, the large ones.

Speaker 6 (08:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
I had to do caving for seventh form Pe and
it was it took all of my strength. So how
did you get stuck, Doug? Were you in between a
tight space?

Speaker 7 (08:43):
Yes? The group.

Speaker 8 (08:46):
In charge of the carrying the rope backpacks a lot
in the mud.

Speaker 9 (08:52):
And I went up a hill and jammed.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
And how long were you jammed?

Speaker 1 (08:58):
There? Aut innutes, I'm going to take your caving story
and I'm going to give you another one. So a
friend of mine in seventh form pe so year thirteen
at New Plymouth Girls High School, and it was for
our PE credits, so we had to do it. And
we were up around the Awakenaor area which is just

(09:18):
north of Tartanaki. And my friend is six foot three
slash six foot four. She's a big, tall netballer, and
you can imagine her trying to get through the small
little cracks in the caves and she got stuck halfway,
like half body through, half body out, and it's pitch
black with water laughing underneath you.

Speaker 4 (09:36):
No, no, that's just one more real cook and Colin,
when did you get stuck.

Speaker 10 (09:43):
Underneath a messy fig and grade blade would know?

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Would yes?

Speaker 10 (09:51):
A greater blader.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
I want to know how you got there though?

Speaker 10 (09:54):
Well, I was working late at night. I had a
Brandy stable, and it was late at night because finished
where and I was there during all the yards, late
at night, and I got undeered because it wouldn't adjust
to get a different angle. And as I was there,
it came down. Oh my god, it's about what I
know about a thousand thousand pounds or something CAGs. I

(10:18):
couldn't move it. So on there. It wasn't in stress,
but it was getting late. My phone was going. My
wife was ringing me because it wasn't at our place.
It was a building, a new one, and I'm just
lying there four hours. My wife started to wonder at
twelve o'clock where's Colin? So she sent her father across
the road where it's from the stables. And here I

(10:39):
was still under the tractor. The track hadn't run out
of diesel because it was still going.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
Oh my lord.

Speaker 10 (10:46):
Eventually I tried to dig my way out, but it's
hard digging through gravel, so I just laid until someone came.
It was because well it was just going to be
the next morning, wasn't it. Oh my god?

Speaker 1 (10:56):
So can you just tell me where your cell phone was?
When your wife was trying to ring you? Could you
not reach.

Speaker 10 (11:00):
It in my pocket.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
And you couldn't even give me your pocket. That's how
stuck you were.

Speaker 10 (11:06):
It's across it's across my my waist. Michelle phones in
my pocket. You can't get.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
Colin. Thank you very much. Do you remember this Hello?
Exciting the Pacific princess making his way from hought to
court and people falling in love and falling out of
love and refinding the romance on board you got the captain,
you got Julie, captain's daughter. That's right. I was lucky

(11:42):
enough to meet him in real life.

Speaker 3 (11:45):
Actually on a on a boat, isn't he in Italy?
Are that's like a love boat?

Speaker 4 (11:49):
Maybe so? Twenty two year old producer has watched this
for the first time with these fresh eyes. Rosie, what's
your review on the Love Boat?

Speaker 6 (11:55):
Well, the first thing I have to say is this song.
I had no idea it was from the series. I
thought it was just a song on its own. You
guys come in here all the time going no, it
was from I'm part.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
Of embarrassed for us set. We've been hubbing The Love
Boat just because.

Speaker 6 (12:12):
Don't judge us, And so I've written down my live
thoughts again. As I was watching it. I was actually
watching it at the gym on the treadmill, and I
was thinking, if anyone saw me watching this, they were
wonder on earth.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
I was watching two years old watching the love Boats
so desperate to squeeze it.

Speaker 6 (12:30):
So the first thing I put down here is the
intro is so long, and all the credits run at
the start.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
Which is barely ever done.

Speaker 6 (12:36):
Now you never have the intro, like all the credits
and who's I don't want that though?

Speaker 4 (12:40):
It's because a lot of the big stars of the
eighties on the love Boat as a cameo appearance. So
if you love that star, like Michael Knight was on
the Ones, Michael Knights on the Love Boat today, would
have watch this line.

Speaker 6 (12:50):
I read that and I thought, I know none of
these characters. I know none of the actors on there,
so I don't.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
Know how famous they really were.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Also, they did that because they knew you were going
to sit through them, because you had to, whereas no
respecting twenty two year old is going to sit through
credits anymore because they don't sit through anything that's true.

Speaker 6 (13:10):
So I've also put down here the fake laughter is
so overused like that is it can after can laughter.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
Is that like when they add laughter in the background. Yeah, exactly.
But I don't even know if it is a comedy.

Speaker 6 (13:25):
I feel like TV shows are very specific genres nowadays,
whereas this is kind of a comedy, even though I
don't get half of the jokes, A drama, a romance
mixed together.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
But I actually kind of love it.

Speaker 6 (13:35):
It means your whole family can sit down and watch
the same TV series but actually enjoy it together.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
I feel like that was a big thing in the eighties,
where you could all watch the same show. I struggle
now with my kids because everything's really sweary and violent.

Speaker 6 (13:51):
But very set to a certain certain demographic. Right, But
is that just because we have so much option now,
I think, so.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
That can sit down and everyone's watching it on their own, Yeah,
you don't creepy individual?

Speaker 4 (14:04):
What do you think about some of the characters? Isaac
the barman, he was always cool.

Speaker 3 (14:07):
They were, to be honest, I didn't.

Speaker 6 (14:10):
I only watched the first episode, okay, so I was
just getting introduced to all of the different characters. But
some of their takes on things were very interesting. They
had some rated magazines and they were reading them.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
Openly and chatting about them would never happened. I don't
remember that either.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
But I feel like we just took those things for
granted now because everything is so PC these days.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
That's right exactly.

Speaker 4 (14:40):
Vicky the captain's daughter, Julie who was the cruise to that,
she was lovely. Gopher was cool. But Doc Doc, in
my opinion, was a bit of which one was.

Speaker 3 (14:49):
Have you meet him yet?

Speaker 4 (14:50):
Glass?

Speaker 3 (14:51):
He was the doctor on the book on the Doc
Doc Doctor. Yeah, and he was the one with the magazines,
you know, Yeah, there you go. It does not Doctor
can't be going around with Porno's. It's not okay.

Speaker 4 (15:03):
This is kind of guy. Doc was, in my opinion,
like he'd see something, your sore throats stipp into my cabin.
Let's chick you out thin that dock was. He was dodgy,
you know.

Speaker 6 (15:11):
And Jace you said just before that this would be
a great series for a remake, and it literally something
clicked in my brain. Sweet Life of Zack and Cody,
Sweet Life on Deck. I don't know if you guys
have seen that show. It was a Disney Channel show
that I used to watch when I was younger.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
And on Cruiser and it's like a remake of not
really but it was people on a boat.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
But do you know what? This has come full circle
because below.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
The deck is now that it's reality shows are exciting.

Speaker 4 (15:41):
So five what do you reckon?

Speaker 11 (15:43):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (15:44):
Like a three out of five? It could be better.
You get it to do.

Speaker 8 (15:51):
Everywhere?

Speaker 4 (15:53):
A creepy one.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Your daily feel good breakfast catch up podcast with cos
Tony Jason Sam.

Speaker 4 (16:09):
The reasons why people change jobs are being revealed. Life
balance like opportunities for growth and promotion and redundancies top
the list. There's also another big reason kiwis are giving
and I was surprised to see this.

Speaker 10 (16:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
So people are leaving their jobs for a number of reasons,
and a lot of it is because of the work environment.
So whether that's someone that's been nasty to you, it's
a colleague, or maybe it's someone that's your boss.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
And you just don't want to deal with it anymore.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
And I love that people are taking action, actually leaving
their jobs because of that.

Speaker 4 (16:36):
Yeah. Same. Actually a lot of texts on two six
nine nine say the same thing. Boss was a bully,
too old for that sort of behavior.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
Yeah, get it.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
I left my job at Christmas after eight years as
the boss played mind games.

Speaker 3 (16:47):
He would constantly talk.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
About other staff to you, bagging them and then would
play you off against each other. It was terrible and
expected you to be a mind reader as things would happen,
but he wouldn't tell you about it and then told
you off for not doing it, although you were never
told him the first place. I've since left so much
happier not having to deal with all the stuff. And
I think that's a good message this morning. You don't
need to tolerate that.

Speaker 4 (17:06):
That's right. You're not a tree. You can move exactly. Carol.
What about you? What did you leave your job for.

Speaker 11 (17:11):
I'm an EC teacher, so that job stressful enough, but yeah,
I was just bullying as well a person, not being
very kind to myself and our other colleagues that work.

Speaker 5 (17:21):
Yeah, and it's got too much.

Speaker 11 (17:22):
It made me question my judgment as a teacher and
stuff like that, and I thought, oh, no, I'm better
than this, So I just left. And now I'm in
a place that is amazing stuff and they look after
their teachers.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
And you know what, that whole making you question what
you're doing and is of your and the wrong that's
called gas lighting, and that is a classic out of
the Bully playbook. So good on you for recognizing that
and not, you know, hating on yourself and thinking, am
I the problem?

Speaker 4 (17:51):
Because it was you are enough? Exactly, that's right. And
another one here from Cindy. I moved because we moved
house and suddenly it took over an hour get to work.
That was one of the big things that came through.
The commute. People are over the commute and so they're
quitting their jobs because of this.

Speaker 8 (18:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
I've got another text here from Sally who says it
was all about the flexibility. My last boss wouldn't let
me pick up the kids occasionally, my new boss does
because he knows I'll get the work done.

Speaker 4 (18:11):
See that's you've got to trust people too, right Exactly.
I love that. Thank you very much for being honest
about That's a nice little holiday. So basically what's happened
is his his mum and dad word all their lives
and stuff. But then his grandparents passed away and because
of an inheritance, mom and dad want to do this
big family trip and so then here are cool.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
With Sam, his three children, his sister Amy, her husband
and their two kids, and Barry and Judy his parents.

Speaker 3 (18:36):
Now unfortunately as keenelvan hopping on.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
Holidays, especially when you're you know, you've been a bit,
you've been working very hard, like Sam has, particularly on
those abs he's got over there and he's got a
wee little medical issue.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
He's got some conjunctive fires.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
I'm not laughing.

Speaker 3 (18:52):
He's getting it sorts.

Speaker 4 (18:53):
Gidio's thoughted. But where is it? He's just checked them
from Italy on the boats. Well, hello, guys, how are
you going?

Speaker 7 (18:58):
I am heading from a city called Mrano to a
city called Burano, which are basically two little islands off
Venice one Mrano known for its glass blowing and Barano
someone for its colorful houses. I want to tell you
a story about in Morana, the glass blowing, because these
guys make the best glass blown things in the entire world.

(19:20):
I have made a purchase at what it was expensive,
It was two hundred and forty euros. And to describe it,
and it probably sounds horrible to describe it, like your
grandfather clock. It will have a little swinging piece of
glass at the bottom, and it's like a starfish sunflower,
and every leaf on that starfish sunflower is a different
color from blues, greens, reds, like very very bright glass.

(19:42):
And I when and I saw the clock, I said,
that's the piece that will forever live in my house,
will remind me of Morano. And I paid my two
hundred and forty euros, which is about I know, I
guess four hundred dollars, and I walked out of the store.
I walked one hundred meters down of the road and
I saw it at another store four hundred euros. So
I'm living that tourist life. So yes, I'm four hundred

(20:04):
dollars poorer, but I have a glass cloth in multiple colors.

Speaker 4 (20:09):
Bessy guys Seyah.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
What I love about Sam is every time he buys
a nice and for his house, it always sounds so classy,
and it sounds like it works with everything else in
his house, because why wouldn't he have a random sun
in his house, a random glass clock that'll go really well.

Speaker 3 (20:24):
With the electric fire, don't you, Regod.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
I just want to put my hand out first and
foremost and say I am I'm an offender. I am
the person that buys the dentist package where you get
what is it called when they clean your teeth? Hi genus,
So you get to Hygienis a year and you get
a couple of checkups, and if you pay at the
beginning and commit to that yearly package, it's way way cheaper.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
Like I think you get about three or four hundred
dollars off.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
So I was like, okay, yep, I am that person,
and then I forget about it, and you know, it's
too months until the package runs out, and I haven't
had any of the appointments, right, so I have to
be chased via email to say, hey, you've still got
some of your package to use. You better use it
before December thirty first or it's going to expire. And
I appreciate that email hurry up, But what I don't

(21:17):
understand is how now.

Speaker 3 (21:20):
And I don't know if this is just dentist surgeries
or what.

Speaker 1 (21:23):
But they go they go about making the appointment for you,
and they email and say you've got an appointment on
this day, and then if you miss that email, you
get a text saying please confirm you're eleven thirty appointment tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
We will give this to someone else if you don't reply.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
And then I start to panic because I look at
my calendar and I was like, I didn't poll write
this in as an eleven thirty appointment for the dentist tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (21:47):
They've got this wrong.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
And then I text back and say, sorry, I didn't
make an appointment, and now it's no, we've made it
for you. Oh when do people start making appointments for
you when it's not even a specialist.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
I get it if it's a specialist, heart to appoint.

Speaker 1 (21:59):
Mentor I don't know, sure, something really specialized, but shouldn't
you be part of the decision making process. I mean,
they could have made my appointment at eight am in
the middle of the show, and there's no way I'm
going exactly.

Speaker 4 (22:11):
They're taking some liberties there, especially when they give it
a hurry up email or the hurry up TEXTA and
please confimil I didn't make this in the first place.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
No I got. I got a miss call. I've watched
my phone must have been on silent.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
And then I got quite an aggressive text you yes
I did, and I said, please cancel the appointment that
I didn't even make in the first place.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
You know who DST day.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
This is DST and look, I want to be chased
to tell me that my my subscriptions expiring. But when
did we go about just saying this is your appointment,
deal with it.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (22:43):
It's weird either, very very brave, and I've always admired you,
Tourney Street, but you're very brave. Bring this up because
this is not just any specialist. This is a dentist.
This is someone who's now going to poke and prode
your mouth.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
Looks.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
Luckily, I've had no feelings, but suddenly they might find
one next time I'm there.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
I didn't say who my dentist was. It turns out
might have the shift.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
The chasers on Coast for.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
A rough masking. Just make me part of the process
of my own life.

Speaker 4 (23:08):
Okay, let me pull my diary.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
I'm not live this out to get my act like
a child.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
All right, here we go, Let's roll the nice, shall
we Now? Every lands on the pears for Sam? We
played papers?

Speaker 6 (23:19):
Is wrong?

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Oh I want a shame. It's landed on the j
dizzle dazzle.

Speaker 4 (23:22):
We don't anyway today I can't Jase.

Speaker 3 (23:29):
Turns out he is a five year old and he
can't do papers.

Speaker 4 (23:32):
Always going a timing wrong?

Speaker 1 (23:33):
Anyway, Get that video that on our Coast page because
Sam will be horrified all the way from Italy.

Speaker 4 (23:38):
I'm horrified. All right, cool Now I'll wait hundred double
O four Coast. If you call it in, I gotta
face you in a general knowledge battle, and if I
can't match your score, you will win six hundred dollars
on coast the chasers on.

Speaker 12 (23:50):
Coast, Hi's Leanne, I'm from New Commerce. I'm taking on
Jase today. If I win, the money is going and
the kiddy for our Christmas lunch for work.

Speaker 4 (24:03):
Oh very nice?

Speaker 8 (24:04):
Nice?

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Are you representing a workplace like? Are you coming from
work this morning?

Speaker 3 (24:08):
Leanne?

Speaker 12 (24:10):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Whereabouts a new poet. I have a sneaking suspicion. I
know where and I'm excited. I love tataducky girl winning
this quiz. Now, I'm going to tell you I just
did it myself and I got a three out of five.
I didn't know the fourth question, but I've got flustered
and blurted out a wrong answer.

Speaker 3 (24:29):
I think this could be one that trips someone up.
And let's hope for you it's Jay.

Speaker 4 (24:36):
Good luck.

Speaker 3 (24:37):
Okay, we'll send the dad out of studio today.

Speaker 1 (24:41):
Highly gettable quiz, I think, and six hundred dollars on
the line as well, so that would go quite away
to your work Christmas funds.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
So I'd love to see you guys get it. I'll
be down in Tadahuki for Christmas this year too, so
I might pop long now, all right, are you ready
to go?

Speaker 12 (24:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (24:56):
Okay, Leanne for six hundred dollars your time arts now,
Kermit the Muppet was?

Speaker 3 (25:02):
What animal?

Speaker 10 (25:04):
Frog?

Speaker 3 (25:04):
Yes? What three colors is the Jamaican flag?

Speaker 12 (25:10):
Gold, black and green?

Speaker 3 (25:12):
Yes? Who played Donna in the original mumamea?

Speaker 1 (25:17):
What British Music festival has been canceled for twenty twenty six?

Speaker 7 (25:20):
Pa?

Speaker 3 (25:22):
What are the prongs of a fork called.

Speaker 7 (25:26):
Tom?

Speaker 3 (25:27):
Who played Donna? And Mama mea Meryl Street?

Speaker 8 (25:29):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (25:31):
It was a solemn three. Well done.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
It was a no to the prongs, but I just
moved on because it wasn't right, and I wanted to
get that Meryl Street question, and because.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
I knew you'd get it. So well done.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
That's a good three. We'll bring Jase Beck in, thank you? Okay, Jase,
you're chasing a three out of five? Question three was
snuck in just before the buzzer. Okay, ah right, I
think you will probably get a three today, but you
just know I'm going to reverse the order of the question.
All right, Jace defending six hundred dollars, Your time starts.

Speaker 6 (26:04):
Now.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
What are the prongs of a four called pass?

Speaker 1 (26:09):
What British music festival has been canceled for twenty twenty six?

Speaker 7 (26:13):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (26:13):
Who played Donna in the original Mamma.

Speaker 4 (26:15):
Mia Real Street?

Speaker 10 (26:17):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (26:18):
What three colors is the Jamaican flag?

Speaker 8 (26:21):
Green?

Speaker 4 (26:21):
Red, and yellow?

Speaker 1 (26:24):
No, Kermit the Muppet was an animal? What sort of animal?

Speaker 4 (26:27):
Frot?

Speaker 7 (26:29):
She almost said.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
Animal was one animal? I nearly said Kermit the fro Lucky.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
The reason I hesitated there is it's a lot of
colors to check off. You said red, which was incorrect,
so you got a solid three.

Speaker 3 (26:44):
Well done. I also have a hard day for the reader.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
I'm just gonna say I feel sad pain because Leanne
also said black, gold, and green, and I decided yes
to give gold.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
It would have accepted yellow or gold.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Okay, the three colors you said, reader, which color didn't
you say?

Speaker 4 (27:01):
I didn't say golden, I don't say black. Oh did
I say black?

Speaker 3 (27:05):
I can't remember if I forget black on the flag?

Speaker 1 (27:07):
Anyway, frog was correct, black, yellow, and green, as the
Jamaican flag was the prongs called on a four. Yeah,
no one got this. They are called times.

Speaker 4 (27:17):
I almost said prong with it, it's too obvious.

Speaker 3 (27:20):
So you caught the end with the three out of five.
Sorry I got lucky though.

Speaker 4 (27:23):
Girls. Thank you very much for playing tomorrow Now we
play for seven hundred dollars.

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Thanks for listening to the Feel Good Breakfast catch Up
podcast with Coast Tony Street, Jace Reeves, and Sam Wallas.

Speaker 4 (27:36):
This is woman and she wanted to get married, and
so her boyfriend finally proposes to her. She goes, Yay,
my dreams about to come true. Let's do this, and
so what's happened is the winning win ahead. But the
very next day she has ended her marriage. She wants
to get it a nulled.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
So for it, can you just tell me how long
do we know how long they've been together?

Speaker 4 (27:52):
Yeah, they've been together for a few years. Yeah, so
actually he proposed back in twenty twenty. There's been a
long engagement and so this so, she says, I never
really cared too much about it. We all talk about
half the responsibility for organizing the wedding, so so far
he's taking on half the responsibility for the winning. A
lot of grooms don't do that. So far, I like
the guy, right, so pretty reason about the compromise. When
he really wanted something, he compromised that I compromised. It

(28:13):
was so so far. The partnership's working. The been here
for a while. But a take that's cool, Okay. The
next day of the relationship was over because the one
thing she did not want she did not want. You
know how everyone does it down again, a little cute
to you to cut the cake, and like they're pushing
each other's face, like, oh, you know, you go to
bite the cake and he pushes in her face.

Speaker 6 (28:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (28:32):
Usually that's just like a little but just above.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
The last half of the photo, smooth devising on the
nose and that's about it, right, So she said, I
don't want that. Please just don't put any cake on
my face. I don't wantny cake on my face.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
I think it usually started with the groom or the
bride actually feeding a piece of cake to them right hand,
first bite.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
That's it. Yeah. Yeah, So anyway, not only did he
not listen to her, what he's gone and done is
he grabbed it by the back of the head and
smashed her face into the cake in front of everyone,
and everyone was like, oh, we don't even laugh or
clap or do what. You know, she stood up wiped
the thing off, and he was obviously not just a
spur of the moment because what he did as he
organized cupcakes as the backup cake. So he ruined the

(29:11):
first cake with her face and then brought out the cupcakes. Everybody,
here you go, here you go.

Speaker 1 (29:14):
I have so many emotions about this. First of all,
don't ruin my makeup on my big wedding day, she said. Secondly,
you've ruined the cake that probably cost half a mortgage,
so good one, buddy.

Speaker 3 (29:26):
Thirdly, she specifically asked for you not to do it.

Speaker 4 (29:29):
But that's where I had my problem. She asked him,
and he still did it. So the next day she goes,
I can't be with this guy.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
Do I think it's worth divorcing someone over because I
don't think this guy.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
I don't think this is a one off of this guy.
I think this guy's a prankster.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
And I think she knew that he was like that,
least not pretend he's just randomly gone rogue, because I
can tell you categorically right now, Jason Rees, you would
never have done that to your bride on the wedding date.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
My husband would never have done that to me.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
You can't usually know the type of person they are,
unleast he's gone fully rogue, which I doubt it.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
I just speak she should have.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
Ended this long before the wedding up day, is what
I'm saying. I think he was bad news. Why do
it long before he slammed her face into a cake.

Speaker 4 (30:09):
I think she's done the right thing. People are now
saying she's ever reacted though, so she's coughing a bit
of feedback from this bit of backlash.

Speaker 10 (30:14):
Skin.

Speaker 4 (30:14):
Come on, it's a bit of a joke. No one
got hurt.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
What if it's the straw that broke the camel's back?
What if he was on his last like, I'll give
him one more shots.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
I just think it's it's the straw because she asked
him specifically. She made it clear, I don't want this
to happen, Please don't let it happen, and he went.
He didn't just push it in the face, He pushed
her face into the cave.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
But what if he was an amazing What if he
was Jason Reeves up until that point, and Jason Reves
has had a brain explosion. No, you're not divorcing him,
are yet giving him another shot?

Speaker 4 (30:41):
Jason Reave doesn't give another shot with that in my parma,
know whose side are you on? What do you reckon?
Has she ever reacted or is this fair enough? Eight
hundred double O forecast. I flick it's it's to two
six nine nine. This, by the way, is going right
through the media in Australia. A lot of your sides
in this right now. This is the husband and bride
were talking about. If you just turned your radio on.
A couple of minutes ago we talked met this bride
who leading up to the wedding, her fiance, her groom

(31:03):
to be said I'll take care of half the wedding.
She's like, what an amazing man. Sure, so they shared
the operational duties, right, But she had one request on
the day, please don't push any cake into my face.
It's kind of been there, done that. I don't want
any cake on my face on the big day. So
you think, cool, it's the one wish. Just do that.
As he grabbed the back of her head and pushed
her into the cake like.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
That, I just feel like this guy.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
The fact that she even had to say that to
her groom. I mean, I just know that my husband
would never have done that, because.

Speaker 3 (31:30):
He's not a twit.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
I just feel like this guy, she should have ditched
long before the big don Look. I'm glad she has now,
but I feel like the story is kind of slightly
skewed because everyone's going, oh my gosh, she got rid
of him just for that.

Speaker 3 (31:44):
I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
I think this was the last and a long line
of dumb behavior from this guy.

Speaker 4 (31:50):
Yeah, so she said at that moment, at that very moment,
she knew she couldn't spend the rest of her life
with this man. But she went through with the ceremony.
She went through the rest of the night, you know,
the reception, everyone chinking their glasses, doing speech and things.
But the next morning she work up sick and she goes,
you know what, No, this is over. I can't do this.
So the very next day she tried to get the wedding,
and the.

Speaker 3 (32:06):
Old well will he ruined, he a big day, didn't he?
I agree not to mention her makeup.

Speaker 4 (32:12):
And there's probably cake on the dress to hear, how
could you? So I'm with you, I'm with the bride
on this, Corey, what do your take? What's your take?

Speaker 8 (32:21):
I think in any relationship demands with some reason respect
on both sides. And I mean to divorce over a cake,
but then for her not to respect her wishes even
when she used the word please. You know it's at
the start of the relationship, these alarm bells already. Then
they can't work through that. Then obviously it's a good

(32:43):
decision probably not to move for both of them.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, I agree, he totally didn't respect it. He should
have known that this was not going to go well
for him, and it's like he purposely sabotaged to well.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
The thing with me is so premeditated. He had the
backup cupcakes that she didn't know about, do you know
what I mean?

Speaker 3 (32:58):
He's just like heard of it. She deserves better. Why
are these women sticking with these douches?

Speaker 4 (33:05):
She's not What are your thoughts?

Speaker 9 (33:10):
Basically retired wedding photographers forty years of weddings in Australia
around the Pacific New Zealand. I've seen some pretty crazy stuff.

Speaker 13 (33:22):
The fact that, as Tony said, a bit of a
douche was premeditated. But I think for listeners here I've
seen that alcohol do some crazy crazy I can.

Speaker 9 (33:35):
Issue you from brides and grooms, So yeah, I think
one of the most disturbing things is when you do
a wedding and the groom's actually got a roving line
and then yeah, pretty much we're right in your assumption
that they're no longer together. So that's probably for me,

(33:56):
probably a lot worse than you know, our face play,
but yeah, there we go.

Speaker 1 (34:02):
You writing this down for the new TV and Z
series Confessions of a Wedding Photographer, I'd watch watch. How
sad is that? Like, hold your alcohol in a roving
iron your weddings?

Speaker 4 (34:16):
Disgusting?

Speaker 3 (34:16):
Oh my god?

Speaker 1 (34:17):
Well, just I just don't know how these people don't
understand that that's what they were like before the wedding
and then they're still going through with it.

Speaker 4 (34:24):
If the photographer sees that everyone's.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
Everyone said, but you know what it's like, love can
be blind sometimes that's what.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
You get told.

Speaker 4 (34:31):
One more, Julie, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?

Speaker 14 (34:34):
Yeah, I kind of agree. I think there was probably
red flags before the wedding, but you get caught up
in the moment and you think, you know, you always
see the better and the honeymoon phase. And yeah, I
totally agree with her. It's the trust thing. She specifically
asked them. If she hadn't asked them, well then yeah,

(34:55):
but she specifically said, no.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Do you think do you think that do you think
that you know he had too much to drink?

Speaker 3 (35:02):
Is an acceptable excuse?

Speaker 14 (35:06):
Well depends how far through Na.

Speaker 4 (35:08):
Yeah, No, I'm with you because he had the backup cupcakes.
He wasn't drunk. When you organize this and every single
bar two texts, every other text has come from on
two six nine nine saying the same thing. She did
the right thing to run yep, good and Kate Bullock.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
Can we just say cakeface is not a cool thing
at a wedding. I don't even think i'd want my
husband to have done that at my fortieth let alone
my wedding day. You've been told Matt Hannah McQueen. She
is the money guru and you might have seen her.
I first interviewed Hannah back in My Breakfast TV day.
She kind of burst onto the scene and anyone that
can kind of explain money and finances in lay terms

(35:44):
is a hero to me, right, and specifically she's very
good at telling you that it is possible to crack
into your mortgage and to save for your retirement. And
we all know that the quicker we can do that,
the better our lives will be long term.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
So she's got a book out called Kill Your Mortgage
and Sought Your Retirement. So before Sam's up on a
plane with the three of us sat down with Hanna McQueen,
how do we chat?

Speaker 5 (36:06):
Good morning?

Speaker 4 (36:07):
So, Kill your Mortgage Sought Your Retirement. I love this,
you say, it lays the foundations that underpin real financial progress.
So what's the most important thing that we have to do,
the key thing that's going to lay that foundation?

Speaker 5 (36:18):
Well, I guess the first thing you've got to do
is a sess if your current foundation is strong enough.
And the first thing you've got to ask is are
you able to save twenty percent of your income? And
if you are, then you know that your foundation kind
of has the necessary strength to start building and creating wealth.
But if you don't, we've got to fix that.

Speaker 4 (36:35):
Right.

Speaker 5 (36:35):
And most people earn enough money that the earning isn't
enough that the money comes in and then it goes out,
and there's a lot of reason for that, but we've
got to unpack that and solve it before we focus
on growing wells and getting rid of your mortgage and
all those other cool things.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
How do you go about that?

Speaker 1 (36:50):
Because my husband and I actually just had this conversation
recently where I just didn't feel like I was across
things and he was more than me, and I said,
let's sit down and have a look at it all,
and then midway through I get a bit flustered because
it feels like there's just so many things that are
hard to account for.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
At times.

Speaker 5 (37:06):
Yeah, I think there are a lot of unknowns, and
when it's an area you're not that confident in, the
unknown's almost paralyze you, right, you know, yes, if we
don't know that, then how can we even answer this question?
And we can't answer that, well, then what's the point?
Is that point doing anything?

Speaker 1 (37:21):
That's what I get to So how do I not
be like that?

Speaker 5 (37:25):
Well, I think you've got to unpack it with someone
who can make calls in some of these areas you're
not sure of, or can benchmark or kind of use
average numbers to kind of move you along. The problem
with money, which I try and address in my book,
is that it is emotional and there are all these
sort of triggers that come up that make it quite

(37:46):
hard to be honest with yourself around your money beliefs,
that your money behaviors and your money tendencies. We've just
got to get a hold on those things because they're
neither good nor bad, but they have an impact in
a way you deal with money. So we've got to
understand the impact to try and mitigate it.

Speaker 7 (38:05):
So what you're saying is you have to live life
a life more miserable to think of your future or
are good.

Speaker 5 (38:11):
You know, that is the role thing.

Speaker 4 (38:14):
It's emotion get involved.

Speaker 3 (38:16):
What I'm seeing in the book.

Speaker 7 (38:17):
I want to run it so tight that I'm not
I don't have a freedom to do the things that
I want to do, you know exactly.

Speaker 5 (38:23):
But you've got to be able to name the things
you want to do instead of there's sort of generic
I want to feel good. It's like, well, everyone wants
to feel good, and a good financial plan should allow
you to feel good. But what they're feeling good for
you mean for me, feeling good means I can pay
a cleaner, I can go on holidays, my kids have
the opportunities they want.

Speaker 7 (38:43):
But I said, finding that twenty percent though, something's going
to have to be sacrificed.

Speaker 5 (38:47):
Yes, But for most people that I've got twenty percent
of inefficiency.

Speaker 3 (38:52):
Pressure is Yes.

Speaker 4 (38:54):
It's called kill your mortgage and sort your retirement. Take
control of your money and make it work for you.
This is the one celebrity set about this. One is
concerned about money needs to read this book that's from
a Tony Street in the book.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
No. I have read the book and I think it's fantastic.
And not only that, and this is not an ad
in any way, shape or form.

Speaker 3 (39:10):
I paid for your.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
Services, Hannah, and I feel like there's no way I
would have had the rental property that we ended up
getting without your help, because I am one of those
people that put my hand up in the air and go,
I just spent too much and there's no way out
for me.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
So I can vouch for this myth it.

Speaker 7 (39:24):
I am also a Paine client, and you didn't ask
for a review from me.

Speaker 4 (39:28):
Why is that about this?

Speaker 3 (39:33):
She's worried.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
She's worried it might all come crumbling down for one
of us.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
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