July 23, 2024 • 41 mins
Today on the show we discuss how quick is too quick to date after your partner dies, the rumoured performers at the upcoming Olympics opening ceremony, and the life skill that nearly a third of adults can't do!
0:00 Intro
0:40 32% of Adults Can’t Do This
6:05 The New Barbie in Town
8:25 How Soon Can You Move on After Your Partner Dies
22:20 Saving for Retirement with Jess from Milford Asset
25:05 The games Opening Ceremony Rumours
28:30 The Chasers
32:25 Do You Like Your Name
38:30 Jase the Criminal
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shot podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Today on the show, we carried on our criminal updates
with Jason running a red light not paying for his
petrol and so far we have no resolution.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
No that you'll hear what happens, but I'll tell you.
I promise you it's not me anyway. Also, seventy five
percent of key we do not like their names and
abound six thousand people every year trying to change them.
So we talked to a few people who have done
just that. Chances are you may have already done this
life skill. This morning, there'll be some people who already
have done this.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Is it an important life skill?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I think it is?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
And how many of us aren't doing it?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Thirty two percent of adults can't do this.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It's quite a large number. It is a when you
get these stats, it's only ten percent, you know, but thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Percent a third of us can't do this. Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Think that I do this.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I know you can do this, I hope because last
time you said it, I think you can do it,
and I feel like it was brushing my teeth, And
I was like, you think I've brushed my teeth, Jase,
how are you not one hundred percent competent?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No, I know you can do this. I know I
can do this. I don't I don't know if how
producer Rosie can do this. Rosi is twenty two years old.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Is it a generational thing?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
May?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh, it shouldn't be. Maybe for some people it is.
I don't know. It's a hard one answer. I don't
know if it is.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Is this a skill that I might hire a hubby for.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Nah, I don't think so. I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
No, not that I'm trying to say it's a sexist now.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
But in the same studies So Insurance Company's done the study,
twenty percent of people don't know how to change the
light bulb. That's shocking. Twenty percent don't know how to
change the light bulb. The same number don't know how
to boil an egg.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
That's what it is, boiling egg.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
No, it's not that, oh, twenty percent of people don't
know how to boil an egg.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
But I it's about to be a bit shocked to
say that you're looking at our producer and you're like,
I don't even reckon she can boil anything.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
That is rough.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I know Rosie can do that.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
However, from the guy whose father once put an egg
into a jug to boil.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
It jug, Yeah, exactly. No, Actually, look at that though,
I don't think my dad can do this, the skill
that we're talking about.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
We can't boil an egg. Can he change a light bulb?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I can change a light bulb? Come on, what's about that?
You just shove it in there.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Thirty two percent of us cannot do this certain skill.
What do you think it is? O eight hundred double
or forecast flick? It's eas to two six nine nine.
We're asking the question this morning because apparently it's estimated
thirty two percent of the world's adults don't know how
to do this. Tony, does I do I don't think.
I'm pretty sure my dad does not know how to
do this.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
And we're in the realm here on that same list
of people who can't change a light bol people who
can't boil an egg.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, that's exactly right.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Yeah, how can you not boil an egg?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
That's what I thought, because even if you over boil it,
you just literally chuck it in hot water. Right, yeah,
there's no other trick to her. I'm starting to doubt
my own boiler, Paula.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Apparently nearly a third of adults can't do or can?
Speaker 5 (02:58):
I just say, poor old suggesting that she couldn't boil me.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I didn't say that, thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I thought Jace was very, very judging rosiest and yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Jason's tuned into a bit of a criminal this week.
So just you're gonna forgive me speaking that he's been No,
he's under investigation from the police.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Watch.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
We're going to go into after seven story.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
But anyway, what do you think it is? That's a
great guess. It's not change a tire though, Okay.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Well that's definitely a blue job.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
I don't think I could change a tire right now.
I'm embarrassed to say.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Could you do it? He could you do? You could
do it though?
Speaker 7 (03:40):
Change your tire?
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Is that lifting up thing called the winch the jack? Okay,
that pretty much sums it up.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
You're so good, Paula, Thank you so much. Really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
By the way, why would you learn to change a
tire when you could just ring the AA road.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I get it. Hell Hellen, what do you think it is?
It's not a great guess, but it's not swim.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, I would be worried if he didn't think producer
Rosie could swims. I'm always shocked though, when I meet
an adult that can't swim.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Can you swim?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Are there? Ellen?
Speaker 8 (04:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Good?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Just checking yep. Before I come down on people who
can't swim.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I like to think that you're living in New Zealand
where we're so close to the coastal outlines. Anyway, we
should all learn how to.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
So many people are a product product of their parents.
If your parents didn't get them lessons, that's just.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
You know, and that's it. You know. We grew up
the schools had swimm pools, but a lot of schools
don't have pools anymore. Yeah, I get it. One more, Helen,
What do you think it is?
Speaker 7 (04:39):
Is it they can't distinguish between AI and real people.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
They're from higher than thirty percent. I struggle at times
the way I AI is now like, is that a
real person?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Who are the AI people that you talk to?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Jason? No, I mean sometimes on billboards and things like that. Oh,
the way that CGI is working. Now it's time to tell.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
I'm sitting here going I don't think I've ever spoken
to an aar person, which probably means I fall into
the category of not knowing.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Helen's not fair, but are you ready for this? It's
changed an eppie. A third of adults don't know how
to change, Helen.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Can you change a nappy?
Speaker 7 (05:10):
I certainly can, Yes, I.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Suspect, so, Rosie, could you change an eppy?
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Thumbs up?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Thumbs that No, No, I reckon you could. I mean
there might be a bit of a few issues getting
it to the right place. We're talking about a child's napier,
not those creepy adults that wear them for you know,
those kinky people that wear them.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
No, I watched that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Once on Oprah and it disturbed me for life. And
I'm sorry for bringing it up. Thing to have it
in your mind.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
My dad has never changed a nappy, and he's like,
I don't know if I could do it.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Has your dad never changed?
Speaker 3 (05:40):
And I think when you said before it's a generational thing,
maybe it is.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
No, no, no, my dad is the same generation he
changed men.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Your dad there is naughty from him.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
What was your mum's thinking leading away.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
With that crazy bird of the world's adult population cannot
change an eppy.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I think when you had when your children have children,
or did he change your grandchild? Barbie Mania it is
still sweeping the globe since the explosion of the film
with Margo.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Robbie still smashed.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So many different records, and even now if you go
into a lot of stores, there's still a whole lot
of Barbie merchandise everywhere. So it's clearly made such an
impression on us. And you will have noticed that mattal
has had a massive boost in sales as well, so
there is a whole new range of products and we've
actually seen that locally too, with the likes of sports Barbie,
(06:33):
Rugby Barbie with Melanie Robinson. Remember you got a Barbie
made about herself. Well, there's a new Barbie in town.
What do you think that Barbie is? You know, because
we've had we had a down syndrome Barbie, didn't we
Wi Barbie, Wilty Barbie, We've had political Barbie, We've had
doctor Barbie, and now we have blind Barbie.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Blind Barbie.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, so little blind children can have well not just
blind children, children that want a blind Barbie you can
get a blind Barbie. And they've had a girl that
went blind twelve years ago. When I say girl, she's
like in her thirties, and she said, what an amazing occasion.
It is, so the blind Barbie, because I did think,
how do they how do they make it obviously a blind.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Can you distinguish that one's the blind one?
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Well, they've got a blind walking stick?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Oh do we white stick?
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
I see yep. So does that mean if this is
the blind Barbie, the other ones could see? Were they
watching us?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Well, when you look at the eyes, you don't see
anything different in the eyes, Jase. I assuming the other ones, yes,
could see, this one can't. And they've also because they
are thinking it'll be mainly blind people that buy them.
This is what Mattel has said, even though I don't
know if that's necessarily true. They've even done things like
giving her an elastic waist skirt for better access because
(07:54):
the user of the barbie can't see.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Oh of course, very very.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Clever, isn't it. Barbie?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Do you think they should bring out next? Do you
think he's coaching Barbie?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
There, they'll be coaching.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I'd like to get a coach.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
But we wanted a track suit, surely, yeah, exactly eighties tracksuit.
I can just picture it now with a whistle and
a sponsored cat. Jason, I wonder if this criminal, Barbie,
I'm not a criminal. Listen, we need to get an
update on that after seven.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
If you've missed us, we'll tell you everything. That's after
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paper Plus has been loved by Keywis for over forty
years and they have helped us set up Tony's book Club.
And this week you've been flicking through the pages and
loving a book called The Love of My Afterlife. A.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Yeah, it's about a woman that dies, and I'm not
giving you anything away because it literally is on the
cover and having on the first page and she meets
the love of her life in the afterlife. But there
are a lot of twists that go with that. And
that sparked a topic, can you jays.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, bother if you want to be going to copy
that textbook to two six nine nine to get in
the drawer for that. Because you remember Bob Sagat who
used to host America's funniest term videos and he was
the on full House. Yeah, yeah, lovely lovely man. Anyway,
he sarely passed away a couple of years ago. Now
his widow has started dating again.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
What's her name.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Her name's Kelly Rizzo, Kelly Rizzo. And so she's found
love again with a guy called Brick and Maya. Now
you might not brick and Meyer who was in that
movie road Trip was on TV and ZID last week.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Yeah, I just googled him and if you if you
do google him, you'll know his face.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
He yeah, lots of movies. He's kind of the funny
guy that's right here.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
So she's in a relationship with him now. They started
dating about eighteen months after Bob Second passed away. A
lot of people had a lot of things to say.
In fact, just on Sunday, she's just hit out again
about the ugly truth about being a widow a widow,
and she's saying people have no right to comment.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Yeah, I'll read the comment that she made after getting
this feedback, and I mean, you've got to take the
feedback with a bit of a grain of salt, because
this is fearal social media feedback. Remember, people sitting on
their couches and just tap tap tapping.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
She says, unless you're a widow or a widower, you truly.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Have absolutely no place and no right to comment on
this because you do not know what it's like. You
just don't understand the incredible complexity of this and the difficult,
dynamic thoughts and feelings that come up during this entire process.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
So we just thought it would.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Be interesting to know whether you have found yourself either
in this position or whether you have known a close
friend or maybe a family member. And has there been
a time where people were shocked? I think eighteen months,
And I know you can't really put a time limit
on these things, but eighteen months at their age she
had no children with Bob Saggat, Because I'm sure if
you've got children with that person, that comes into it
(10:30):
as well, change the game. Not that they need our permission,
but I feel like eighteen months at the age they
were at they're in their fifties, no children, Why be miserable?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
It is my perspective.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Now, I totally agree with you. Okay, so eighteen months
about them? Would you got any earlier, let's say six months?
Is that too soon?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Do you think I cannot in a million years imagine
that for me.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Right now, I have three young children, love my husband,
and out of respect to them, I can't imagine it.
But then also I'm not in that position, So you
don't actually know this.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Is exactly that, neither of my I and God forbid.
But you know, if you've ever been there, or you
know someone who has, what sort of timeline is? Is
there a timeline? What are the rules around this? Let
us know, oh, eight hundred double four coast I figure
takes the two six ninety nine.
Speaker 7 (11:12):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Bob Saget, the dad on Full House, played Danny Tanner
and he was also the host of America's Funniest Home Videos. Anyway,
he sadly passed away with about seventeen months later, his
widow found love again and she's copped it. And still
months later, she's still defending herself on social media for
these Hollywood trolls.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, it cracks me up how people feel like they
have to explain themselves, particularly to randoms who don't even know.
You might be a bit different with your family and friends.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
But we have got the question.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Today about how it rolls when you lose someone that
you love. How quickly can you move on? Is there
a timeline to it? Is there a time where it
just feels too soon? Does it differ and make any
difference if you've got children involved?
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Colin, what's your perspective on this?
Speaker 9 (11:57):
No, it's totally wrong how people can judge unless they've
experienced themselves. My brother and sister both died at quite
young age forty two and fifty one, and they were
with other people. They weren't marriage, and they did eventually
and within a year or so they had it like
another partner. And I heard even from my mother and
(12:20):
other people say cooks he or she must die. They
must have been having affair before then, you know what
I mean. It's a load of rubbish. Unless you've experienced yourself,
don't you become suddenly very very lonely? Yeah, And you
can attach yourself to people, someone who's kind and that
and you need that kindness and it can turn into
(12:41):
companionship which can turn into love. Don't ever judge someone
how long it takes them to find another partner, regardless.
It just makes me feel sick about it.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
No, I love that You're sir right, You don't know
unless you've been there and Simon, you have been there, right, Yes,
I have.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Tell us about it, Simon.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Well, my wife passed away. We've been together thirteen years.
My wife passed away seven years ago, and about seventeen
months later I got to I got together with someone
that we've actually been friends with for about seven five
years prior, and a lot of people didn't like it.
(13:21):
We actually lost quite a lot of friends because of it.
They didn't accept it, they didn't accept that she had
passed away, and they still haven't accepted. She's passed away
seven years on. I've got two boys and she's got
two boys, and they've all embraced it, and we all
have bought a house three years on. We've gotten engaged,
(13:44):
and we've taken kids. We're taking kids away every year
on holidays and they all love it, sit around the table,
eating dinner and talking about sports and everything. And you're
writing your own story.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
So that's exactly it. So none Elson really saying that
story you're writing.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I can good on you for having that conviction too,
and you're saying eighteen months later. I mean, I know
that you can't put a timeline on that, but you've
got two boys and you've got the chance for you
to have a happy family and have two parents looking
after your kids.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
I you know, I can't.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
See the issue with that, and I will not do
that and then have a miserable dad who's struggling on
his own.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Well yeah again, if you've been there, you know. So
how long should someone wait? Is there a rule around this?
Speaker 6 (14:29):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Eight hundred double four coast or figure text to two six,
nine to nine. We've got a phenomenal text we need
to read you after seven.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
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Speaker 3 (14:43):
How long should someone wait to fall in love again
after their partner sarely passes away? This has caused the
massive ripple in Hollywood after Bob sag At, the star
of Full House, died and eighteen months later his wife's
gone and his widow's gone public with a new boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
And everyone we have talked to so far says you
shouldn't judge. No one knows what it's like. What about
when I read you this text? This is another perspective, Hi,
Tony and Jason. My friend died just over a year
ago and was buried on May the fourth last year,
four weeks after the funeral, we found out his distraught
wife and quote Marx was already pregnant with his best
mates child. She was very clear that she didn't want
(15:18):
negative feelings to the relationship and that she would block
anyone on social media if this was true. But four
weeks to be pregnant after the funeral, we felt all
of our friends felt was way too soon. So we're
going to keep taking calls on this because I don't
think every situation is the same.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
No, I think you're right. Yeah, okay, so our phone
numbers are eight hundred double O forour coast or sold
that text to two six nine to nine. How long
or how soon should someone move on? Should they move
on too soon? It's you? I loved your thoughts. Bed
songs from the movie Bride's Maids right, which I love
that movie. Rose Byrne the bride from Bride'smaids Australian. Yeah,
she's quite way to birthday, thank yours. Hell she is.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
She'd be about fifty forty five. Yeah, she looks great.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
She looks amazing and very very funny in that movie.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
So, speaking of Hollywood, though, Bob Saget, who was the
star of Full House he was dad, you know, Danny Tanner.
He passed away sadly and his widow, Kelly has she
found love but seventeen eighteen months later and she's gone
public with it, and everyone's like, oh, whoa what? What
was too soon?
Speaker 7 (16:15):
Is it?
Speaker 10 (16:15):
Though?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
How long should you wait? How long can you wait?
Speaker 1 (16:17):
And we've had a couple of different perspectives here, situations
where someone has got pregnant within four weeks after their
partner's death to a best mate.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
What is your perspective on this.
Speaker 7 (16:28):
Kim Well, I was twenty four when I lost my
first husband.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
That's horrible.
Speaker 7 (16:35):
It was a long time ago. I'm well into my
fifties now and my son is dirty but he was
only eight months old when his dad passed away in
a car accident. And I met someone probably just under
eighteen months later, and it just went down like a
cold sick with my first husband's family. They just weren't
happy about it at all. And that eighteen months was
(16:57):
am a long time, know it was. It was hard,
and meeting somebody he's raised helped me raise my son
and we've been married twenty eight years.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I'm so glad you found happiness again. Did after time past.
Did his family come around after the initial shock?
Speaker 7 (17:15):
Well, I actually invited them to a wedding, and some
of them came, and some of them didn't, and some
of them struggled for a couple of years, but they all,
I mean, he became part of the furnature eventually.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
It's alreadable of you to do that. Thank you very
much for that. Hey, Maureen, what about you? What's your
take on this whole thing?
Speaker 11 (17:34):
Unfortunately we were our month passed away when I was
ten and my youngest brother was three, and I was
hard on Dad because then he didn't like to be
alone for starters, He needs that, he needs a companionship.
So I think he met his future wife maybe twelve
(17:55):
months I think, But it did upset a few people.
My oldest sister thought he was already having an affair,
you know. Yeah, so it was hard. So her and
dad did have a bit of a breakout. And I
think she was as I was ten, twelve, she would
have been fourteen. Yeah, So and they never I don't
think that relationship ever repaired itself.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
It's really it's really tricky, isn't it. Because I understand,
don't judge, don't judge, but Also, you imagine being the
parents when you've just had an eight month old grandchild
and then your son dies.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
It would be very hard to see someone then step in.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Even though it was was in a lot of cases
the right thing, It's still difficult, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
It really not like an easy transition.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
It is. So if you are going through that, if
you've been through that, we're thinking of you. It's hard.
It's hard on so many levels, puzzles of things. But
again there's a great text here on two six ninety
nine being through that. Nobody has the right to judge.
People deal with death of a partner very different ways,
and that's the thing. P You'll deal with death all
sorts of ways.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
And I also think this text is quite good. No
right or wrong answer. Age, gender, circumstances of death, kids
will not, personality of the widowed partner will all contribute
to what is right for that person, And unfortunately that
person has to do what's right for them even if
it does upset others.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Right, that's true. Yeah, well said.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
We're talking about this topic today around how soon is
too soon to move on after you lose your loved one.
Really different perspectives on this different scenarios where the kids
are involved. We did read a text earlier of someone
that fell pregnant within four weeks after her partner passing,
which you can imagine sent some shockwaves through friends and family.
(19:35):
But should we be judging as people that are potentially
getting in the way of someone finding love and being
happy again. It's a hard one to judge, it really is. Gail,
You've been there, but this on you were a daughter.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (19:47):
Yes, so, yeah, I lost my dad when I was eighteen,
So what had happened was his father's partner for two years,
which you know, they formed of relationship. He suddenly passed
away from cancer. And to be quite honors like, we
had no contact with the that much after he had passed,
(20:12):
and six of us siblings, and unfortunately, she took everything.
She took everything, and within six or seven months I
had heard she had already moved on, and to us,
she just seemed too soon for us. I mean, like
(20:32):
three years they came not a long time. But she
formed a relationship with our dad, and our dad was
very much in love, and unfortunately she walked away with everything.
The only thing we actually asked for was a medals
for an army and we didn't even get those. So
to me, it was like when we heard about the relationship,
(20:55):
to me, it was too soon, and when it come
was unveiling, she wasn't even going to show. My Auntie
was going to she forced to come to that bailing.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
So and I think, yeah, I always don't feel like
your feelings should shouldn't be validated too, because you can't
help the way you feel, and also grieving too, So
I think everyone in those circumstances has to actually make
allowances and understand that too. We have had quite a
number of texts on this and I thought i'd read
this one.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
It's quite interesting.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
So someone Derek has said to us found love again
after the sad loss of my wife who I was
with for eighteen years at fifty five last year to
pancreatic cancer. Very sad to hear. She herself told me
that she didn't want to be alone. I want him
to be alone, which I said, Nah, I'm I'm going
to be a hermit forever, is what he told his wife.
He got some advice from hospice which I felt interesting.
(21:51):
So they said to him, if you find a second
person in your life you connect with grab it with
both hands, as some people don't find one person in
their entire lives. Derek now has a great new partner
in his life who's fully understanding that he will always
missing grief for his wife, but he's very happy to
have a lady in his life again.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
See that's the thing. In the darkest of moments, I'm
just loving. There was so much happiness afterwards, you know
what I mean. And people are finding that light again,
which I love. I'm excited about this. We're chatting with
Jess Trevors, a private wealth investor advisor from Milford, to
discuss retirement. So she's here to answer a couple of questions.
But remember this is only information to help you understand
more and it's not financial advice. Cold I Jess morning,
How are you going? All right? Thank you? Is key?
(22:33):
We savor enough.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Great question.
Speaker 8 (22:35):
Look, I think a great place to start is actually
by working out how much you want or are going
to need when you get to retirement.
Speaker 4 (22:42):
How do you do that?
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Good question?
Speaker 8 (22:44):
So there's number of ways. There's some really helpful online
calculators you can use, or you can work with a
financial advisor. There's some very good ones out there and
they'll help you. I guess ask some key questions around
what sort of lifestyle do you want when you get
to retirement or close to it, and how much you're
likely going to need to support that large?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Do most people need more than just their key we Saber. Yes,
I thought that might be the case a lot more.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Well, it depends to what you're contributing. Everyone's different, right,
Everyone's created a different plan. But I think a lot
of people are contributing every month into their key we saber.
That's set amount, which is fantastic, but they haven't stopped
to do the exercise of is this going to get
me to where I need to be when I want
to retire?
Speaker 4 (23:25):
And if it isn't where you want it to be,
then what.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
Do you do? Well?
Speaker 8 (23:28):
You may want to consider some additional investments to support
you along the way, and there are some other great
investments that can work alongside key we saver. Really nicely
managed funds are a lovely type of investment which they're
similar to key we saber.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
They give you access to a broad.
Speaker 8 (23:43):
Number of investments. You're hiring a professional to do the
sort of investment investing for you, so you don't have
to pick all those shares yourself, but they also are accessible,
and that's really important because we are probably going to
have some other financial needs or goals during our lifetime
that we might want to meet before sixty five. So
(24:04):
having some other investments can see you well before retirement
and into retirement. So being able to access these other
investments is actually really really important. Key we Save is great,
but it's locked away to your sixty.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Five through and a lot of people are working past
that too, and they want to be able to live
and enjoy themselves as well as they're working post sixty five, right,
golden strips but still work.
Speaker 8 (24:28):
Yeah, absolutely, So understanding what your long term goal is, right,
long term goal, how much do I want to retire
with to have the lifestyle?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Really? What's my ambition there?
Speaker 8 (24:37):
Shorter term goals might be something like, hey, in a
couple of years, I might want to upgrade my car,
or I might want to save for my kids' school
fees in a while. You know, some of us have
got young kids, so that could be a big cost.
So having an investment alongside your key resaver can help
meet some of those shorter term goals as well, it's
really nice strategy.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
I like the idea of not having all your eggs
in one basket as well to have a couple.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Fus for you have some great tools and some great advice.
To go to Milford Acid all one word Milford ASCI
dot com.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Oh, this is very exciting news.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
We need to talk about the Olympic Games opening ceremony
due to start on Saturday morning five point thirty.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
If your super keen and want to.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Get up now, we have three big stars that are
rumored to be involved in that opening ceremony. The first
one we can confirm is Snoop Dog.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Snoop Dog and not only that, he.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Is carrying the torture head of the opening ceremony, so
he is literally carrying a flame.
Speaker 3 (25:33):
He's gonna light it up. There is it. He doesn't
do this, drop it like guitar.
Speaker 9 (25:38):
Drop it like guitar, drop it like guitar.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Snoop Dog to light the Olympic flame. Snoop Dogg is
at the bottom of my page.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I don't I don't look at Snoop Dogg and think,
you know, clean athlete.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
He was a track suit so I mean he does.
Speaker 4 (25:54):
And I love that it's bringing a bit of a
vibe to the Olympic game.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
Sure, sure someone's name that we have also heard rumin
you heard this this morning, Jase, is Lady Gargar And
I can see she's very inspiring with her tunes. I
can see this being part of the ceremony.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Yes, I hear this thing. Lady Gaga has been checked
into a hotel in Paris and apparently she's brought a
whole bunch of gear with her and it looks like
Lady Gaga is going to perform at the ending ceremony.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Okay, so we've got Snoop Dog, We've got Lady Gaga.
Now who do you think these Olympic Games are in France?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Right?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Who do you think when you think French singer that
would bring the house down.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
This is who we think of.
Speaker 7 (26:38):
And it was.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
Coming to her question, is is it all coming back
for Celine Dion in time? So her documentary has just
come out, The Harrowing Docco, where she talks in depth
about her stiff person syndrome and how she didn't think
or she hopes to sing one more time on the
big stage, and the rumors are now out that this
(27:05):
could be her ultimate comeback.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Okay, to tell you a couple of hours ago, Celene
Dion was spoiled in Paris and she's checked into the
same hotel as Lady Gagas.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
So be a huge moment for Selene, for the World
Music and for the Olympic Games if she steps onto
that stage and belts out a big number.
Speaker 3 (27:26):
Can you imagine it?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
I'm just picturing here doing River Deep, Mountain high in
the little sparkly dress.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Sitting Snoop Dogg standing by the side of the stage,
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I don't know. I don't know if any information come
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Speaker 2 (28:20):
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Speaker 6 (28:30):
Hi, I'm Rebecca and I'm from Northland and I'm going
to be taking on JAS today and i am going
to be spending the money on and also meeting with
my kids and open.
Speaker 4 (28:40):
It's so cool, Rebecca, where about to You're from?
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Rebecca, Northland, Northland? Fantastic? I think this is a little
niggly quiz today.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
It's one of those.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Ones where I knew the answer, but whether it actually
comes to you in the right moment.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
So I'm calling it a path three today.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Have you played the game before? Rebecca?
Speaker 2 (28:58):
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Speaker 4 (29:05):
Sounds like a good player, Chase.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
All right, we're going to send Jason out of the
studio twelve hundred dollars on the line today.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
All right, are you ready to go? I'm ready all
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Speaker 1 (29:21):
Your time starts now. Who was the very first American
Idol winner? Oh?
Speaker 7 (29:28):
Was it Kelly Clarkton?
Speaker 4 (29:29):
Yes? How many zeros are in a million? Yes? What's
the name of the pete dinosaur in the Flintstones?
Speaker 7 (29:37):
Ohno?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (29:38):
What Democratic Party member has been called a brat?
Speaker 5 (29:42):
A Republican?
Speaker 9 (29:45):
No?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Which percussion instrument is named after its shape?
Speaker 9 (29:52):
A triangle?
Speaker 7 (29:53):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (29:54):
Yes, that was a very good one. Just before the buzzer, Oh,
I could do. Jace is gonna have to be very good.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Let's bring him in, Jace, Jase, Jase, you're chasing a
four hor.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
And Rebecca got the last question just before the buzzer.
It was quite dramatic. You can do it, though I.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Was at three, You'll probably be a four hour one.
Thing's for sure. Rebecca would have beaten me today. I'm
very glad I wasn't rolls. Okay, here we go, Jace,
to save twelve hundred dollars, you need a four. Your
time starts now. Who was the very first American Idol winner?
Speaker 7 (30:38):
Know?
Speaker 4 (30:38):
How many zeros are in a million?
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Seven? I don't want to say.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
I thought it all right, you're gone, she's one.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
How many zero is are.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Rebecca reast of all? Rebecca?
Speaker 1 (31:01):
Congratulations you have won twelve hundred dollars.
Speaker 9 (31:05):
Oh my goodness, thank you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (31:07):
Congratulations, pleasure.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
I've never seen Jason explode like that. I need to
ask him the other three questions, just to see if
you can say.
Speaker 3 (31:19):
A million? Are you sure there are two sex figures because.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
The ones at the start, yes.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
All the two or the three?
Speaker 4 (31:28):
It was Kellie's cark, So which you should have had?
Speaker 7 (31:31):
Six?
Speaker 4 (31:31):
Is the million?
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Now?
Speaker 1 (31:32):
Would you have got the name of the pet dinosaur
in the Flintstones?
Speaker 4 (31:36):
Well done? Gets the really classic question.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
What Democratic Party member is being called a brat?
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Kamala Harris?
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Yes, and just so everyone knows, it's not a brat
in the sense of you're such a brat, it's like
a cool young person. Charlie Charlie x X calls them
bratts that it means she's cool basically. So that's two, Jayce,
And which percussion instrument is named after its shape?
Speaker 4 (32:08):
I didn't get.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
This, this is the one and Rebrica got this yep,
just before the buzzer the bongo.
Speaker 4 (32:16):
Yeah, because what's the shape of a bongo? Jace, It's
a triangle. You're a three out of five Rebecca twelve
hundred dollars. What a weird quiz? You deserve that?
Speaker 7 (32:26):
Well?
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Now, well then I absolutely imploded.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
Jace, you make me laugh.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
Oh good, I'll take what's your name?
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Seventy five percent of people don't like their names, Jace, You.
Speaker 4 (32:46):
One of them.
Speaker 3 (32:47):
No, I'm not. I like my name.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
I like my name too, although I have had a
lot of people throughout my life say to me, isn't
that a boy's name.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
I've got a made, the one called Lindsay. I think
it's the same thing. It's not a girl's name.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
using last names as first names.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
Yeah, you know, Hudson.
Speaker 4 (33:09):
Yeah, but I would.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Have predicted most people in the stats kind of show
that if you don't like your name, you just kind
of lump it and you move on, right. Yeah, Only
six thousand people changed their name year the past year,
and a lot of those people, of course getting married.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
So the question is, do you like.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Your name because your dad got his name changed name?
Speaker 1 (33:30):
So my dad changed his name, Well, he didn't change
his name, his parents did, so they named him. I'm
trying to remember what it was I keep saying Arnold,
I think it was. It might have been Gerald or
is something like that. And they actually brought him home
from the hospital, looked at him for a while, decided
he wasn't actually that name, and then got him changed
to Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Sponsor's personality started coming through.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
Speaker 1 (33:53):
But I get that actually because I remember with my
first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte was my number one.
I like Juliet as a second but I was like, kind
of like them both. I'll just see when she comes out,
and straight away something in my mind was like, she
is not a Charlotte.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
I don't know why she just didn't. I don't know
why she didn't look like a Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Really, well, have you changed your name or someone changed
your name for you? Who were you and who are you?
I'd love to hear your story. I eight hundred double
o four coast of Flickertis to two six nine nine
saw this on seven sharp on TV one the other night,
and they said that seventy five percent of Kiwis do
not like their own name. And I've had around six
thousand every year changed their name.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
So are you one of these people that have changed
your name because you didn't like it, or maybe you're
a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, Actually,
we got it wrong and went and changed it. Like
my dad, he was named one name for a few
weeks and then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey,
and they went and got it changed.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
Kirie, what about you? Would you change your name? Have
you changed your name?
Speaker 10 (34:55):
Changed? My name would have changed my lam But it
did give me a lot of green space all morning.
Speaker 5 (35:00):
I was carry the theory.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
Carry the fairy. Oh kids can be harsh, can't they?
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (35:08):
Yeah, so you know, you learn you do it.
Speaker 10 (35:11):
It's my dad's name. I love it.
Speaker 5 (35:12):
And then you got the last name's diamond.
Speaker 10 (35:15):
And no, I'm not related to Lil Barmond. Oh gosh,
I'm not a girl's best friend.
Speaker 1 (35:22):
Oh yeah, you can get marks for a name like Carrie.
I feel like you can be marked for anything. I'm
assuming people thought it was a girl's name, poor thing.
What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
you change it?
Speaker 9 (35:34):
No?
Speaker 12 (35:34):
And my sister changed her name. She was christened Gayleen.
Myrtle and my grandmother had a big input into the name.
So there were two issues festival. She was born in
the fifties and it was probably okay to be known
as gay in the fifties, but as time went by
she didn't like being called gay, and then the Myrtle
she absolutely hated. So she changed her name to Gabriel Maya,
(35:57):
so she kept the GM in initials, but she called
herself Allie, So that was a big change.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
Wow, I would have definitely been indicative of the time.
I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
mocked as much because it's it's acceptable that it's a
genuine term.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
So we had a we had a teacher called Game.
She'd always in herself he Hi, I'm gay, but she
knew what she was doing. She laughed about it.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was.
Speaker 11 (36:32):
Back in the seventies was known as lost Us. That
was I was just baby lost.
Speaker 7 (36:38):
Us and.
Speaker 11 (36:42):
Was adopted, so my name was changed.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
So hang on a minute, was your first name lost
Us on your birth certificate?
Speaker 11 (36:51):
Yes, the Lostice baby.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
I don't know it was lost Us. The last name
were her first name. I'm trying to work that.
Speaker 11 (36:58):
Out, known as lost us.
Speaker 4 (37:03):
Sarah well comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost us.
Speaker 11 (37:09):
Yeah, well that that was that was the adoption process.
Speaker 7 (37:13):
You weren't actually named, You were just the.
Speaker 11 (37:17):
Surname that you were given. Thank you very much for
my coffee this morning.
Speaker 3 (37:23):
Sorry, that sounds good.
Speaker 11 (37:25):
Actually, you know, you got to got to have a
coffee before you.
Speaker 3 (37:31):
Go study it. No, I get it.
Speaker 7 (37:34):
Yeah, No, Back in those days that you were just
known as the surname was your first name, and you
were just known as the lost us baby. That's what
you were known as.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Looks so harsh.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
I actually get that a little bit.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
Once you're adopted, though, because then it would be harder
to change the name if you wanted to.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
So there is something in that. I'm assuming that was
McCafe Brian. Are you happy with your name or did
you change it?
Speaker 10 (37:58):
No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
name was Gillage and the windsor it was sweep business. Really,
you know, people, what's your name? You say jee Age
and they said, well that's on you just sell it,
you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
chatting about business.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
How did you change it to windsor did you just
pluck a royal name?
Speaker 10 (38:22):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (38:25):
Are you going to change it?
Speaker 3 (38:26):
You might as well go high. Who's that walking? Who's
that driving? Who's that driving my car? Wreaking up infringements
around the country that I have no part of what
I'm blamed for?
Speaker 4 (38:36):
All these are a couple of theories here.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
One theory is you're in denial and someone has whether
it's you or your wife or I mean your kids
are too young. Maybe it's one of those rogue neighbors
out in who are I has got your car, they've
driven through a red light, member of the community has complained,
or and the other one was filling up a car
of petrol and then not doing anything about it.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
The other theory is.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
Someone has stolen your number plate or changed it, and
Jason has been trying to contact the police to try
and get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
So we thought we'd give them a call.
Speaker 12 (39:08):
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bread get this message. If you know the extension you
require islet now oh.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
Eight hundred criminals. So you've been trying to call the police.
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Speaker 3 (39:32):
I want to talk to a real person.
Speaker 12 (39:34):
Maybe this was flash ticket?
Speaker 4 (39:36):
Have you ever given your car to Sam? No, you
can cut it off. You're not leaving a voicemail voice
for information?
Speaker 3 (39:47):
You see what I mean? See No, I think it's.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
A voicemail Jase, I think. I don't think you can
get through.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
I want to get swallow. This is like I say,
it's not me. I know I didn't go to the
suburb at that time of this saying I was, and
I have never filled up it petrol station.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
So the petrol station that you're accused of filling and
running from?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (40:05):
Have They then told what? What was it a BP?
Was it a gual?
Speaker 3 (40:09):
It was a BP? So I thought to myself, okays,
So for example, my wife tried it because she's got
the BP app. So I went to them and I said,
can you can you because they still we've got we've
got the photo here. I said, what can I see
the photo? No, we're not allowed to show you. Well,
then how do we know?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
So does that BP then tell all its BP mates
that don't let this criminal in.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
That's a good point. I haven't tried it.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Another BP you might be switching petrol stations in the
short term.
Speaker 4 (40:31):
So what are you going to do today to fix this?
Speaker 7 (40:33):
Well?
Speaker 3 (40:33):
I don't know, Well do I guess? I just keep
trying to cool pext.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
I've actually had a lot of people texting from when
you mentioned it yesterday saying that it's happened to them
where they've noted down like the public's noted down the
number plate wrong. If that was the case, couldn't that
number plate end up anywhere in New Zealand. It's just
it's a little ironic. That's a little too close for home,
is what I'm saying. No, I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (40:58):
I know you don't believe me, but I swear is.
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
Today on the show, we carried on our criminal updates
with Jason running a red light not paying for his
petrol and so far we have no resolution.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
No that you'll hear what happens, but I'll tell you.
I promise you it's not me anyway. Also, seventy five
percent of key we do not like their names and
abound six thousand people every year trying to change them.
So we talked to a few people who have done
just that. Chances are you may have already done this
life skill. This morning, there'll be some people who already
have done this.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Is it an important life skill?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I think it is?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
And how many of us aren't doing it?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Thirty two percent of adults can't do this.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It's quite a large number. It is a when you
get these stats, it's only ten percent, you know, but thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Percent a third of us can't do this. Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Think that I do this.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I know you can do this, I hope because last
time you said it, I think you can do it,
and I feel like it was brushing my teeth, And
I was like, you think I've brushed my teeth, Jase,
how are you not one hundred percent competent?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No, I know you can do this. I know I
can do this. I don't I don't know if how
producer Rosie can do this. Rosi is twenty two years old.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Is it a generational thing?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
May?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh, it shouldn't be. Maybe for some people it is.
I don't know. It's a hard one answer. I don't
know if it is.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Is this a skill that I might hire a hubby for.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Nah, I don't think so. I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
No, not that I'm trying to say it's a sexist now.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
But in the same studies So Insurance Company's done the study,
twenty percent of people don't know how to change the
light bulb. That's shocking. Twenty percent don't know how to
change the light bulb. The same number don't know how
to boil an egg.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
That's what it is, boiling egg.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
No, it's not that, oh, twenty percent of people don't
know how to boil an egg.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
But I it's about to be a bit shocked to
say that you're looking at our producer and you're like,
I don't even reckon she can boil anything.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
That is rough.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I know Rosie can do that.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
However, from the guy whose father once put an egg
into a jug to boil.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
It jug, Yeah, exactly. No, Actually, look at that though,
I don't think my dad can do this, the skill
that we're talking about.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
We can't boil an egg. Can he change a light bulb?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I can change a light bulb? Come on, what's about that?
You just shove it in there.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Thirty two percent of us cannot do this certain skill.
What do you think it is? O eight hundred double
or forecast flick? It's eas to two six nine nine.
We're asking the question this morning because apparently it's estimated
thirty two percent of the world's adults don't know how
to do this. Tony, does I do I don't think.
I'm pretty sure my dad does not know how to
do this.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
And we're in the realm here on that same list
of people who can't change a light bol people who
can't boil an egg.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, that's exactly right.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Yeah, how can you not boil an egg?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
That's what I thought, because even if you over boil it,
you just literally chuck it in hot water. Right, yeah,
there's no other trick to her. I'm starting to doubt
my own boiler, Paula.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Apparently nearly a third of adults can't do or can?
Speaker 5 (02:58):
I just say, poor old suggesting that she couldn't boil me.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I didn't say that, thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I thought Jace was very, very judging rosiest and yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Jason's tuned into a bit of a criminal this week.
So just you're gonna forgive me speaking that he's been No,
he's under investigation from the police.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Watch.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
We're going to go into after seven story.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
But anyway, what do you think it is? That's a
great guess. It's not change a tire though, Okay.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Well that's definitely a blue job.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
I don't think I could change a tire right now.
I'm embarrassed to say.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Could you do it? He could you do? You could
do it though?
Speaker 7 (03:40):
Change your tire?
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Is that lifting up thing called the winch the jack? Okay,
that pretty much sums it up.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
You're so good, Paula, Thank you so much. Really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
By the way, why would you learn to change a
tire when you could just ring the AA road.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I get it. Hell Hellen, what do you think it is?
It's not a great guess, but it's not swim.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, I would be worried if he didn't think producer
Rosie could swims. I'm always shocked though, when I meet
an adult that can't swim.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Can you swim?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Are there? Ellen?
Speaker 8 (04:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Good?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Just checking yep. Before I come down on people who
can't swim.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I like to think that you're living in New Zealand
where we're so close to the coastal outlines. Anyway, we
should all learn how to.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
So many people are a product product of their parents.
If your parents didn't get them lessons, that's just.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
You know, and that's it. You know. We grew up
the schools had swimm pools, but a lot of schools
don't have pools anymore. Yeah, I get it. One more, Helen,
What do you think it is?
Speaker 7 (04:39):
Is it they can't distinguish between AI and real people.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
They're from higher than thirty percent. I struggle at times
the way I AI is now like, is that a
real person?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Who are the AI people that you talk to?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Jason? No, I mean sometimes on billboards and things like that. Oh,
the way that CGI is working. Now it's time to tell.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
I'm sitting here going I don't think I've ever spoken
to an aar person, which probably means I fall into
the category of not knowing.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Helen's not fair, but are you ready for this? It's
changed an eppie. A third of adults don't know how
to change, Helen.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Can you change a nappy?
Speaker 7 (05:10):
I certainly can, Yes, I.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Suspect, so, Rosie, could you change an eppy?
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Thumbs up?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Thumbs that No, No, I reckon you could. I mean
there might be a bit of a few issues getting
it to the right place. We're talking about a child's napier,
not those creepy adults that wear them for you know,
those kinky people that wear them.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
No, I watched that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Once on Oprah and it disturbed me for life. And
I'm sorry for bringing it up. Thing to have it
in your mind.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
My dad has never changed a nappy, and he's like,
I don't know if I could do it.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Has your dad never changed?
Speaker 3 (05:40):
And I think when you said before it's a generational thing,
maybe it is.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
No, no, no, my dad is the same generation he
changed men.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Your dad there is naughty from him.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
What was your mum's thinking leading away.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
With that crazy bird of the world's adult population cannot
change an eppy.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I think when you had when your children have children,
or did he change your grandchild? Barbie Mania it is
still sweeping the globe since the explosion of the film
with Margo.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Robbie still smashed.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So many different records, and even now if you go
into a lot of stores, there's still a whole lot
of Barbie merchandise everywhere. So it's clearly made such an
impression on us. And you will have noticed that mattal
has had a massive boost in sales as well, so
there is a whole new range of products and we've
actually seen that locally too, with the likes of sports Barbie,
(06:33):
Rugby Barbie with Melanie Robinson. Remember you got a Barbie
made about herself. Well, there's a new Barbie in town.
What do you think that Barbie is? You know, because
we've had we had a down syndrome Barbie, didn't we
Wi Barbie, Wilty Barbie, We've had political Barbie, We've had
doctor Barbie, and now we have blind Barbie.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Blind Barbie.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, so little blind children can have well not just
blind children, children that want a blind Barbie you can
get a blind Barbie. And they've had a girl that
went blind twelve years ago. When I say girl, she's
like in her thirties, and she said, what an amazing occasion.
It is, so the blind Barbie, because I did think,
how do they how do they make it obviously a blind.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Can you distinguish that one's the blind one?
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Well, they've got a blind walking stick?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Oh do we white stick?
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
I see yep. So does that mean if this is
the blind Barbie, the other ones could see? Were they
watching us?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Well, when you look at the eyes, you don't see
anything different in the eyes, Jase. I assuming the other ones, yes,
could see, this one can't. And they've also because they
are thinking it'll be mainly blind people that buy them.
This is what Mattel has said, even though I don't
know if that's necessarily true. They've even done things like
giving her an elastic waist skirt for better access because
(07:54):
the user of the barbie can't see.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Oh of course, very very.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Clever, isn't it. Barbie?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Do you think they should bring out next? Do you
think he's coaching Barbie?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
There, they'll be coaching.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I'd like to get a coach.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
But we wanted a track suit, surely, yeah, exactly eighties tracksuit.
I can just picture it now with a whistle and
a sponsored cat. Jason, I wonder if this criminal, Barbie,
I'm not a criminal. Listen, we need to get an
update on that after seven.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
If you've missed us, we'll tell you everything. That's after
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paper Plus has been loved by Keywis for over forty
years and they have helped us set up Tony's book Club.
And this week you've been flicking through the pages and
loving a book called The Love of My Afterlife. A.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Yeah, it's about a woman that dies, and I'm not
giving you anything away because it literally is on the
cover and having on the first page and she meets
the love of her life in the afterlife. But there
are a lot of twists that go with that. And
that sparked a topic, can you jays.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, bother if you want to be going to copy
that textbook to two six nine nine to get in
the drawer for that. Because you remember Bob Sagat who
used to host America's funniest term videos and he was
the on full House. Yeah, yeah, lovely lovely man. Anyway,
he sarely passed away a couple of years ago. Now
his widow has started dating again.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
What's her name.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Her name's Kelly Rizzo, Kelly Rizzo. And so she's found
love again with a guy called Brick and Maya. Now
you might not brick and Meyer who was in that
movie road Trip was on TV and ZID last week.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Yeah, I just googled him and if you if you
do google him, you'll know his face.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
He yeah, lots of movies. He's kind of the funny
guy that's right here.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
So she's in a relationship with him now. They started
dating about eighteen months after Bob Second passed away. A
lot of people had a lot of things to say.
In fact, just on Sunday, she's just hit out again
about the ugly truth about being a widow a widow,
and she's saying people have no right to comment.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Yeah, I'll read the comment that she made after getting
this feedback, and I mean, you've got to take the
feedback with a bit of a grain of salt, because
this is fearal social media feedback. Remember, people sitting on
their couches and just tap tap tapping.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
She says, unless you're a widow or a widower, you truly.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Have absolutely no place and no right to comment on
this because you do not know what it's like. You
just don't understand the incredible complexity of this and the difficult,
dynamic thoughts and feelings that come up during this entire process.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
So we just thought it would.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Be interesting to know whether you have found yourself either
in this position or whether you have known a close
friend or maybe a family member. And has there been
a time where people were shocked? I think eighteen months,
And I know you can't really put a time limit
on these things, but eighteen months at their age she
had no children with Bob Saggat, Because I'm sure if
you've got children with that person, that comes into it
(10:30):
as well, change the game. Not that they need our permission,
but I feel like eighteen months at the age they
were at they're in their fifties, no children, Why be miserable?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
It is my perspective.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Now, I totally agree with you. Okay, so eighteen months
about them? Would you got any earlier, let's say six months?
Is that too soon?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Do you think I cannot in a million years imagine
that for me.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Right now, I have three young children, love my husband,
and out of respect to them, I can't imagine it.
But then also I'm not in that position, So you
don't actually know this.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Is exactly that, neither of my I and God forbid.
But you know, if you've ever been there, or you
know someone who has, what sort of timeline is? Is
there a timeline? What are the rules around this? Let
us know, oh, eight hundred double four coast I figure
takes the two six ninety nine.
Speaker 7 (11:12):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Bob Saget, the dad on Full House, played Danny Tanner
and he was also the host of America's Funniest Home Videos. Anyway,
he sadly passed away with about seventeen months later, his
widow found love again and she's copped it. And still
months later, she's still defending herself on social media for
these Hollywood trolls.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, it cracks me up how people feel like they
have to explain themselves, particularly to randoms who don't even know.
You might be a bit different with your family and friends.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
But we have got the question.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Today about how it rolls when you lose someone that
you love. How quickly can you move on? Is there
a timeline to it? Is there a time where it
just feels too soon? Does it differ and make any
difference if you've got children involved?
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Colin, what's your perspective on this?
Speaker 9 (11:57):
No, it's totally wrong how people can judge unless they've
experienced themselves. My brother and sister both died at quite
young age forty two and fifty one, and they were
with other people. They weren't marriage, and they did eventually
and within a year or so they had it like
another partner. And I heard even from my mother and
(12:20):
other people say cooks he or she must die. They
must have been having affair before then, you know what
I mean. It's a load of rubbish. Unless you've experienced yourself,
don't you become suddenly very very lonely? Yeah, And you
can attach yourself to people, someone who's kind and that
and you need that kindness and it can turn into
(12:41):
companionship which can turn into love. Don't ever judge someone
how long it takes them to find another partner, regardless.
It just makes me feel sick about it.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
No, I love that You're sir right, You don't know
unless you've been there and Simon, you have been there, right, Yes,
I have.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Tell us about it, Simon.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Well, my wife passed away. We've been together thirteen years.
My wife passed away seven years ago, and about seventeen
months later I got to I got together with someone
that we've actually been friends with for about seven five
years prior, and a lot of people didn't like it.
(13:21):
We actually lost quite a lot of friends because of it.
They didn't accept it, they didn't accept that she had
passed away, and they still haven't accepted. She's passed away
seven years on. I've got two boys and she's got
two boys, and they've all embraced it, and we all
have bought a house three years on. We've gotten engaged,
(13:44):
and we've taken kids. We're taking kids away every year
on holidays and they all love it, sit around the table,
eating dinner and talking about sports and everything. And you're
writing your own story.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
So that's exactly it. So none Elson really saying that
story you're writing.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I can good on you for having that conviction too,
and you're saying eighteen months later. I mean, I know
that you can't put a timeline on that, but you've
got two boys and you've got the chance for you
to have a happy family and have two parents looking
after your kids.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
I you know, I can't.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
See the issue with that, and I will not do
that and then have a miserable dad who's struggling on
his own.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Well yeah again, if you've been there, you know. So
how long should someone wait? Is there a rule around this?
Speaker 6 (14:29):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (14:29):
Eight hundred double four coast or figure text to two six,
nine to nine. We've got a phenomenal text we need
to read you after seven.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
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Speaker 3 (14:43):
How long should someone wait to fall in love again
after their partner sarely passes away? This has caused the
massive ripple in Hollywood after Bob sag At, the star
of Full House, died and eighteen months later his wife's
gone and his widow's gone public with a new boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
And everyone we have talked to so far says you
shouldn't judge. No one knows what it's like. What about
when I read you this text? This is another perspective, Hi,
Tony and Jason. My friend died just over a year
ago and was buried on May the fourth last year,
four weeks after the funeral, we found out his distraught
wife and quote Marx was already pregnant with his best
mates child. She was very clear that she didn't want
(15:18):
negative feelings to the relationship and that she would block
anyone on social media if this was true. But four
weeks to be pregnant after the funeral, we felt all
of our friends felt was way too soon. So we're
going to keep taking calls on this because I don't
think every situation is the same.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
No, I think you're right. Yeah, okay, so our phone
numbers are eight hundred double O forour coast or sold
that text to two six nine to nine. How long
or how soon should someone move on? Should they move
on too soon? It's you? I loved your thoughts. Bed
songs from the movie Bride's Maids right, which I love
that movie. Rose Byrne the bride from Bride'smaids Australian. Yeah,
she's quite way to birthday, thank yours. Hell she is.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
She'd be about fifty forty five. Yeah, she looks great.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
She looks amazing and very very funny in that movie.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Hey.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
So, speaking of Hollywood, though, Bob Saget, who was the
star of Full House he was dad, you know, Danny Tanner.
He passed away sadly and his widow, Kelly has she
found love but seventeen eighteen months later and she's gone
public with it, and everyone's like, oh, whoa what? What
was too soon?
Speaker 7 (16:15):
Is it?
Speaker 10 (16:15):
Though?
Speaker 3 (16:15):
How long should you wait? How long can you wait?
Speaker 1 (16:17):
And we've had a couple of different perspectives here, situations
where someone has got pregnant within four weeks after their
partner's death to a best mate.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
What is your perspective on this.
Speaker 7 (16:28):
Kim Well, I was twenty four when I lost my
first husband.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
That's horrible.
Speaker 7 (16:35):
It was a long time ago. I'm well into my
fifties now and my son is dirty but he was
only eight months old when his dad passed away in
a car accident. And I met someone probably just under
eighteen months later, and it just went down like a
cold sick with my first husband's family. They just weren't
happy about it at all. And that eighteen months was
(16:57):
am a long time, know it was. It was hard,
and meeting somebody he's raised helped me raise my son
and we've been married twenty eight years.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I'm so glad you found happiness again. Did after time past.
Did his family come around after the initial shock?
Speaker 7 (17:15):
Well, I actually invited them to a wedding, and some
of them came, and some of them didn't, and some
of them struggled for a couple of years, but they all,
I mean, he became part of the furnature eventually.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
It's alreadable of you to do that. Thank you very
much for that. Hey, Maureen, what about you? What's your
take on this whole thing?
Speaker 11 (17:34):
Unfortunately we were our month passed away when I was
ten and my youngest brother was three, and I was
hard on Dad because then he didn't like to be
alone for starters, He needs that, he needs a companionship.
So I think he met his future wife maybe twelve
(17:55):
months I think, But it did upset a few people.
My oldest sister thought he was already having an affair,
you know. Yeah, so it was hard. So her and
dad did have a bit of a breakout. And I
think she was as I was ten, twelve, she would
have been fourteen. Yeah, So and they never I don't
think that relationship ever repaired itself.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
It's really it's really tricky, isn't it. Because I understand,
don't judge, don't judge, but Also, you imagine being the
parents when you've just had an eight month old grandchild
and then your son dies.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
It would be very hard to see someone then step in.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Even though it was was in a lot of cases
the right thing, It's still difficult, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
It really not like an easy transition.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
It is. So if you are going through that, if
you've been through that, we're thinking of you. It's hard.
It's hard on so many levels, puzzles of things. But
again there's a great text here on two six ninety
nine being through that. Nobody has the right to judge.
People deal with death of a partner very different ways,
and that's the thing. P You'll deal with death all
sorts of ways.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
And I also think this text is quite good. No
right or wrong answer. Age, gender, circumstances of death, kids
will not, personality of the widowed partner will all contribute
to what is right for that person, And unfortunately that
person has to do what's right for them even if
it does upset others.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Right, that's true. Yeah, well said.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
We're talking about this topic today around how soon is
too soon to move on after you lose your loved one.
Really different perspectives on this different scenarios where the kids
are involved. We did read a text earlier of someone
that fell pregnant within four weeks after her partner passing,
which you can imagine sent some shockwaves through friends and family.
(19:35):
But should we be judging as people that are potentially
getting in the way of someone finding love and being
happy again. It's a hard one to judge, it really is. Gail,
You've been there, but this on you were a daughter.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (19:47):
Yes, so, yeah, I lost my dad when I was eighteen,
So what had happened was his father's partner for two years,
which you know, they formed of relationship. He suddenly passed
away from cancer. And to be quite honors like, we
had no contact with the that much after he had passed,
(20:12):
and six of us siblings, and unfortunately, she took everything.
She took everything, and within six or seven months I
had heard she had already moved on, and to us,
she just seemed too soon for us. I mean, like
(20:32):
three years they came not a long time. But she
formed a relationship with our dad, and our dad was
very much in love, and unfortunately she walked away with everything.
The only thing we actually asked for was a medals
for an army and we didn't even get those. So
to me, it was like when we heard about the relationship,
(20:55):
to me, it was too soon, and when it come
was unveiling, she wasn't even going to show. My Auntie
was going to she forced to come to that bailing.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
So and I think, yeah, I always don't feel like
your feelings should shouldn't be validated too, because you can't
help the way you feel, and also grieving too, So
I think everyone in those circumstances has to actually make
allowances and understand that too. We have had quite a
number of texts on this and I thought i'd read
this one.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
It's quite interesting.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
So someone Derek has said to us found love again
after the sad loss of my wife who I was
with for eighteen years at fifty five last year to
pancreatic cancer. Very sad to hear. She herself told me
that she didn't want to be alone. I want him
to be alone, which I said, Nah, I'm I'm going
to be a hermit forever, is what he told his wife.
He got some advice from hospice which I felt interesting.
(21:51):
So they said to him, if you find a second
person in your life you connect with grab it with
both hands, as some people don't find one person in
their entire lives. Derek now has a great new partner
in his life who's fully understanding that he will always
missing grief for his wife, but he's very happy to
have a lady in his life again.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
See that's the thing. In the darkest of moments, I'm
just loving. There was so much happiness afterwards, you know
what I mean. And people are finding that light again,
which I love. I'm excited about this. We're chatting with
Jess Trevors, a private wealth investor advisor from Milford, to
discuss retirement. So she's here to answer a couple of questions.
But remember this is only information to help you understand
more and it's not financial advice. Cold I Jess morning,
How are you going? All right? Thank you? Is key?
(22:33):
We savor enough.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Great question.
Speaker 8 (22:35):
Look, I think a great place to start is actually
by working out how much you want or are going
to need when you get to retirement.
Speaker 4 (22:42):
How do you do that?
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Good question?
Speaker 8 (22:44):
So there's number of ways. There's some really helpful online
calculators you can use, or you can work with a
financial advisor. There's some very good ones out there and
they'll help you. I guess ask some key questions around
what sort of lifestyle do you want when you get
to retirement or close to it, and how much you're
likely going to need to support that large?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Do most people need more than just their key we Saber. Yes,
I thought that might be the case a lot more.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Well, it depends to what you're contributing. Everyone's different, right,
Everyone's created a different plan. But I think a lot
of people are contributing every month into their key we saber.
That's set amount, which is fantastic, but they haven't stopped
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Speaker 4 (25:13):
If your super keen and want to.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Get up now, we have three big stars that are
rumored to be involved in that opening ceremony. The first
one we can confirm is Snoop Dog.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Snoop Dog and not only that, he.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Is carrying the torture head of the opening ceremony, so
he is literally carrying a flame.
Speaker 3 (25:33):
He's gonna light it up. There is it. He doesn't
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Speaker 9 (25:38):
Drop it like guitar, drop it like guitar.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
Snoop Dog to light the Olympic flame. Snoop Dogg is
at the bottom of my page.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I don't I don't look at Snoop Dogg and think,
you know, clean athlete.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
He was a track suit so I mean he does.
Speaker 4 (25:54):
And I love that it's bringing a bit of a
vibe to the Olympic game.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
Sure, sure someone's name that we have also heard rumin
you heard this this morning, Jase, is Lady Gargar And
I can see she's very inspiring with her tunes. I
can see this being part of the ceremony.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Yes, I hear this thing. Lady Gaga has been checked
into a hotel in Paris and apparently she's brought a
whole bunch of gear with her and it looks like
Lady Gaga is going to perform at the ending ceremony.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Okay, so we've got Snoop Dog, We've got Lady Gaga.
Now who do you think these Olympic Games are in France?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Right?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Who do you think when you think French singer that
would bring the house down.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
This is who we think of.
Speaker 7 (26:38):
And it was.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
Coming to her question, is is it all coming back
for Celine Dion in time? So her documentary has just
come out, The Harrowing Docco, where she talks in depth
about her stiff person syndrome and how she didn't think
or she hopes to sing one more time on the
big stage, and the rumors are now out that this
(27:05):
could be her ultimate comeback.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Okay, to tell you a couple of hours ago, Celene
Dion was spoiled in Paris and she's checked into the
same hotel as Lady Gagas.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
So be a huge moment for Selene, for the World
Music and for the Olympic Games if she steps onto
that stage and belts out a big number.
Speaker 3 (27:26):
Can you imagine it?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
I'm just picturing here doing River Deep, Mountain high in
the little sparkly dress.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Sitting Snoop Dogg standing by the side of the stage,
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Rebecca, Northland, Northland? Fantastic? I think this is a little
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Ohno?
Speaker 3 (29:38):
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What Democratic Party member has been called a brat?
Speaker 5 (29:42):
A Republican?
Speaker 9 (29:45):
No?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Which percussion instrument is named after its shape?
Speaker 9 (29:52):
A triangle?
Speaker 7 (29:53):
Yes?
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Yes, that was a very good one. Just before the buzzer, Oh,
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Speaker 7 (30:38):
Know?
Speaker 4 (30:38):
How many zeros are in a million?
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Seven? I don't want to say.
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I thought it all right, you're gone, she's one.
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How many zero is are.
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Rebecca reast of all? Rebecca?
Speaker 1 (31:01):
Congratulations you have won twelve hundred dollars.
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Congratulations, pleasure.
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I've never seen Jason explode like that. I need to
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Speaker 3 (31:19):
A million? Are you sure there are two sex figures because.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
The ones at the start, yes.
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All the two or the three?
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Six?
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Is the million?
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Speaker 1 (31:32):
Would you have got the name of the pet dinosaur
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Well done? Gets the really classic question.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
What Democratic Party member is being called a brat?
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Kamala Harris?
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Yes, and just so everyone knows, it's not a brat
in the sense of you're such a brat, it's like
a cool young person. Charlie Charlie x X calls them
bratts that it means she's cool basically. So that's two, Jayce,
And which percussion instrument is named after its shape?
Speaker 4 (32:08):
I didn't get.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
This, this is the one and Rebrica got this yep,
just before the buzzer the bongo.
Speaker 4 (32:16):
Yeah, because what's the shape of a bongo? Jace, It's
a triangle. You're a three out of five Rebecca twelve
hundred dollars. What a weird quiz? You deserve that?
Speaker 7 (32:26):
Well?
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Now, well then I absolutely imploded.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
Jace, you make me laugh.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
Oh good, I'll take what's your name?
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Seventy five percent of people don't like their names, Jace, You.
Speaker 4 (32:46):
One of them.
Speaker 3 (32:47):
No, I'm not. I like my name.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
I like my name too, although I have had a
lot of people throughout my life say to me, isn't
that a boy's name.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
I've got a made, the one called Lindsay. I think
it's the same thing. It's not a girl's name.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
using last names as first names.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
Yeah, you know, Hudson.
Speaker 4 (33:09):
Yeah, but I would.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Have predicted most people in the stats kind of show
that if you don't like your name, you just kind
of lump it and you move on, right. Yeah, Only
six thousand people changed their name year the past year,
and a lot of those people, of course getting married.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
So the question is, do you like.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Your name because your dad got his name changed name?
Speaker 1 (33:30):
So my dad changed his name, Well, he didn't change
his name, his parents did, so they named him. I'm
trying to remember what it was I keep saying Arnold,
I think it was. It might have been Gerald or
is something like that. And they actually brought him home
from the hospital, looked at him for a while, decided
he wasn't actually that name, and then got him changed
to Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Sponsor's personality started coming through.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
Speaker 1 (33:53):
But I get that actually because I remember with my
first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte was my number one.
I like Juliet as a second but I was like, kind
of like them both. I'll just see when she comes out,
and straight away something in my mind was like, she
is not a Charlotte.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
I don't know why she just didn't. I don't know
why she didn't look like a Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Really, well, have you changed your name or someone changed
your name for you? Who were you and who are you?
I'd love to hear your story. I eight hundred double
o four coast of Flickertis to two six nine nine
saw this on seven sharp on TV one the other night,
and they said that seventy five percent of Kiwis do
not like their own name. And I've had around six
thousand every year changed their name.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
So are you one of these people that have changed
your name because you didn't like it, or maybe you're
a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, Actually,
we got it wrong and went and changed it. Like
my dad, he was named one name for a few
weeks and then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey,
and they went and got it changed.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
Kirie, what about you? Would you change your name? Have
you changed your name?
Speaker 10 (34:55):
Changed? My name would have changed my lam But it
did give me a lot of green space all morning.
Speaker 5 (35:00):
I was carry the theory.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
Carry the fairy. Oh kids can be harsh, can't they?
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (35:08):
Yeah, so you know, you learn you do it.
Speaker 10 (35:11):
It's my dad's name. I love it.
Speaker 5 (35:12):
And then you got the last name's diamond.
Speaker 10 (35:15):
And no, I'm not related to Lil Barmond. Oh gosh,
I'm not a girl's best friend.
Speaker 1 (35:22):
Oh yeah, you can get marks for a name like Carrie.
I feel like you can be marked for anything. I'm
assuming people thought it was a girl's name, poor thing.
What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
you change it?
Speaker 9 (35:34):
No?
Speaker 12 (35:34):
And my sister changed her name. She was christened Gayleen.
Myrtle and my grandmother had a big input into the name.
So there were two issues festival. She was born in
the fifties and it was probably okay to be known
as gay in the fifties, but as time went by
she didn't like being called gay, and then the Myrtle
she absolutely hated. So she changed her name to Gabriel Maya,
(35:57):
so she kept the GM in initials, but she called
herself Allie, So that was a big change.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
Wow, I would have definitely been indicative of the time.
I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
mocked as much because it's it's acceptable that it's a
genuine term.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
So we had a we had a teacher called Game.
She'd always in herself he Hi, I'm gay, but she
knew what she was doing. She laughed about it.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was.
Speaker 11 (36:32):
Back in the seventies was known as lost Us. That
was I was just baby lost.
Speaker 7 (36:38):
Us and.
Speaker 11 (36:42):
Was adopted, so my name was changed.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
So hang on a minute, was your first name lost
Us on your birth certificate?
Speaker 11 (36:51):
Yes, the Lostice baby.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
I don't know it was lost Us. The last name
were her first name. I'm trying to work that.
Speaker 11 (36:58):
Out, known as lost us.
Speaker 4 (37:03):
Sarah well comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost us.
Speaker 11 (37:09):
Yeah, well that that was that was the adoption process.
Speaker 7 (37:13):
You weren't actually named, You were just the.
Speaker 11 (37:17):
Surname that you were given. Thank you very much for
my coffee this morning.
Speaker 3 (37:23):
Sorry, that sounds good.
Speaker 11 (37:25):
Actually, you know, you got to got to have a
coffee before you.
Speaker 3 (37:31):
Go study it. No, I get it.
Speaker 7 (37:34):
Yeah, No, Back in those days that you were just
known as the surname was your first name, and you
were just known as the lost us baby. That's what
you were known as.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Looks so harsh.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
I actually get that a little bit.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
Once you're adopted, though, because then it would be harder
to change the name if you wanted to.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
So there is something in that. I'm assuming that was
McCafe Brian. Are you happy with your name or did
you change it?
Speaker 10 (37:58):
No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
name was Gillage and the windsor it was sweep business. Really,
you know, people, what's your name? You say jee Age
and they said, well that's on you just sell it,
you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
chatting about business.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
How did you change it to windsor did you just
pluck a royal name?
Speaker 10 (38:22):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (38:25):
Are you going to change it?
Speaker 3 (38:26):
You might as well go high. Who's that walking? Who's
that driving? Who's that driving my car? Wreaking up infringements
around the country that I have no part of what
I'm blamed for?
Speaker 4 (38:36):
All these are a couple of theories here.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
One theory is you're in denial and someone has whether
it's you or your wife or I mean your kids
are too young. Maybe it's one of those rogue neighbors
out in who are I has got your car, they've
driven through a red light, member of the community has complained,
or and the other one was filling up a car
of petrol and then not doing anything about it.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
The other theory is.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
Someone has stolen your number plate or changed it, and
Jason has been trying to contact the police to try
and get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
So we thought we'd give them a call.
Speaker 12 (39:08):
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Speaker 3 (39:32):
I want to talk to a real person.
Speaker 12 (39:34):
Maybe this was flash ticket?
Speaker 4 (39:36):
Have you ever given your car to Sam? No, you
can cut it off. You're not leaving a voicemail voice
for information?
Speaker 3 (39:47):
You see what I mean? See No, I think it's.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
A voicemail Jase, I think. I don't think you can
get through.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
I want to get swallow. This is like I say,
it's not me. I know I didn't go to the
suburb at that time of this saying I was, and
I have never filled up it petrol station.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
So the petrol station that you're accused of filling and
running from?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (40:05):
Have They then told what? What was it a BP?
Was it a gual?
Speaker 3 (40:09):
It was a BP? So I thought to myself, okays,
So for example, my wife tried it because she's got
the BP app. So I went to them and I said,
can you can you because they still we've got we've
got the photo here. I said, what can I see
the photo? No, we're not allowed to show you. Well,
then how do we know?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
So does that BP then tell all its BP mates
that don't let this criminal in.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
That's a good point. I haven't tried it.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Another BP you might be switching petrol stations in the
short term.
Speaker 4 (40:31):
So what are you going to do today to fix this?
Speaker 7 (40:33):
Well?
Speaker 3 (40:33):
I don't know, Well do I guess? I just keep
trying to cool pext.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
I've actually had a lot of people texting from when
you mentioned it yesterday saying that it's happened to them
where they've noted down like the public's noted down the
number plate wrong. If that was the case, couldn't that
number plate end up anywhere in New Zealand. It's just
it's a little ironic. That's a little too close for home,
is what I'm saying. No, I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (40:58):
I know you don't believe me, but I swear is.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
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