July 26, 2024 • 21 mins
Our favourite moments from the show this week - Toni's holiday medical drama, Jase's issues with the law and some new controversial dating advice!
0:00 Holiday Highlights
3:10 Toni’s Medical Drama
6:50 Is Jase a Criminal?
10:15 Have You Changed Your Name?
16:20 Controversial Dating Advice
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's Best show Moments podcast, the
very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This week, it's been a holiday for the school holiday,
spending some time with the family.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How was your holiday, Tony.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
I had a great holiday.
Speaker 5 (00:13):
Jas We did have a couple of medical mishaps that
I'm going to tell you about after eight today, one
that included fainting in another a broken boat. But the
first week of holiday was great. But I want to
talk to you about a moment that I was proud of.
So I like to I kind of like to think
I'm a bit of a dare devil when it comes
to going to theme parks. And I went to Wet
(00:34):
and Wild and SeaWorld over in Australia's.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Gold Coast, right.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
And as you get older, I don't know what it is,
but you kind of lose a bit of your courage.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
You know.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
ME hate small spaces, so don't put me in anything confined,
like I didn't want to do the black Hole. It
went wild, But anything with heights and thrills, I'm usually
up for it, right, And I was with only one
of my children. I was with my eleven year old
daughter Juliet and another family. The little ones were at home,
and so she wanted me to go on this one
particular ride at.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
SeaWorld, which was called the Vortex.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
And if you've ever seen it, you know everyone sits
in like a grid and then it flips you backwards.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
It's almost like a wave and it rolls and I don't.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Know what it is, but I just got I got
a bit of anxiety about it, and I was like, no, no, no,
I'm going to feel so I won't go on it.
So I did it the first time, and I watched
them and it didn't make me feel any better. And
then there was that moment where they were going on
a second time and my daughter looked at me with
pleading eyes, please, Mum, can you come on it? And
I had that moment where I paused and I was like,
this could go one of two ways. I'm either just
going to be a coward and go and sit over there,
(01:38):
or I'm going to man up and go on this
ride with my daughter, because what's the worst that can happen?
And I just hopped in the line. I hopped in
the line and went, Okay, I'll do it whatever, you
know what, I loved it. It was so good and
I don't even know what I was scared about. I mean,
it threw me around like a washing machine. But I'm
just so glad that I said yes, because I could
have easily just sat there and gone, nah, I'll sit
(01:59):
there one out. I'm like, come on, just because you're
forty now you can still go on rides, Tony.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
See that's on prices is someone who I can't even
go to swing anymore, that feeling nauseous on a swing anymore.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
So did you have a good holiday?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I had a great holiday, thank you. Yeah. If it's
something happened at Eden Park.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We took our eleven year old to his very first
ever live All Blacks match, and something happened in Eden
Park that made me just realize amazing, how amazing people are.
So we sat in our seats. We had some really
nice seats. We sat down there and the guy said,
in experience, you know, my name is Colin. I figured
we're going to sit in next to each other during
the game. We're going to be seat mates. So anything
you need tonight, bro, I'll go and get it for you,
because I don't get you. A little man with you
and and so we were hugging during the game.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
When the allbox finally won, we hugged each other.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Who whoa whoa You and Colin?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Me and Colin. I don't know who Colin is, but
what an amazing man. He sat down and shook my hand. Said,
we're going to be seat mates for this game.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Mate.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I'm here with my mates. You're here with your little boy.
So that said to have a good time. I was like,
what a great way to start the game.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Who did Colin go to the rugby with two of
his mates? I think you just picturing him on his
own for a second. Jason really pleased about that.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Sounds great, that's good anyway. Nice.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Actually, you have got to visit a COLLEGEXT you.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Come to visit the studio, Come on and go. I
like to when I go on and you'll leave do
quite a lot of admin. That sounds so boring, but
it's just easier I think when I've got the kids
home that not at school, and get it all done
so that when you come back to work you're not
concerned with things like vaccinations, any form of medical like
I In the time that I was away, I went
(03:25):
and saw the cardiologist I had a CT scan on
my face.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
I went and saw my GP, like I just went
the cardiologist. Is just a check up. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I don't have hearts yet that I do have it
terribly on both sides of my family. Anyway, I also decided, right,
let's get the kids all sorted, and I really wanted
the flu has been really nasty at the moment, so
I wanted to make sure that they got their flu jabs.
You can get them free, by the way at our
show sponsor Bargain Chemist. I was going for a multiple
appointment because my husban also had to go and see
(04:01):
this GP because he was out running and he kicked
an exposed tree root that was coming up through the
concrete and he really badly bruised his toe. And when
I got back from being away in Australia, I looked
at his foot. It was four times the size as normal,
and I said, have you not gone and seen anyone
about that? And he goes, no, I thought it was
(04:22):
just bruised it all come right. I looked at it
and went, that ain't bruise mate, that is broken.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Anyway.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
To cut a long story short, he got an X
ray and he has cracked all the way through his
toe down to his foot joint, and we're waiting to
find out on Wednesday whether he's going to need surgery.
It's actually really really set surgery on it. Yep, he's
going to have to potentially have screws in the side
of his foot.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Like Richie mccaugh. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
So you picture this day.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I've got a limping husband going in to see the
initial GP appointment to see.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
About his foot.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
I've got all three kids with me, and I wanted
to get all three of them a flu jab, and
I wanted to get myself a lab test.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
And I also wanted to get my eleven year old.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Daughter her boots stricks, which is the big s that
they normally get at school. But it was on the
same day as Nippel, and I didn't wanted to have
a dead arm. You know how I'm a psycho coach.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Sure, So anyway, I had to.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Drag my eleven year old out of bed at ten
past eight for an eight thirty appointment, right because I
wanted to let her sleep in sure, So as we're
going out the door, I'm like, you need to eat something,
and I threw her an apple and she decided not
to eat it. So we get to our medical center.
I've got a limping husband, got three kids. They get
all their jabs, no problem, great, but they make you
(05:28):
stay twenty minutes just check everyone's okay. And at that
point my husband said to me, you shoot across the
road and go and get your blood test. I'll go
up and pay for all these for the boot Stricks vaccination.
So he goes up to the reception.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I'm at lab test. Next thing, there's a man shouting
someone we need help here, we need help here in
the waiting room.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
My husband turns around and our eleven year old is
out cold on the floor and she's banged her head
on the chair.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
What final.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
So she's passed out because she got the flu jab
and the boots Stricks together, and look, you're allowed to
do that. But because I'd ripped her out of beard,
no food and she hadn't eaten. So I get a
curried call from the lab test that our daughter's passed out.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
So I'm running back from lab tests. We go and
put her in a room.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
They take your blood pressure, give us some sugar, and
she comes aright. And as that's happening, my nine year
old starts going pale and woozy and they have to
put her on the other beard because she is suffering
the same thing. So the moral of the story is people,
wow when it rains at pause, and if you're going
to get your jabs next.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Just to eat breakfast first like a responsible human.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Okay the trophy Now, thanks for listening to the Best
Show Moments podcast. This week's very best from Coasts Tony's Street,
Jason Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I was thrilled the.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Other day because I've got a leader in the post
and it wasn't a written outlet of it.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I was like, oh, what is this? Have a full
name and everything on it.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
It's probably just a bill.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
I get that excitement too, and you get disappointed when
it's like my bank saying here's your statement.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
I was thinking the same thing, so here is my
full name? Was what is this? And opened it up.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It wasn't a bill that There's a big logo on
the top left corner, the police logo, and it's a
letter saying that.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
I've been accused of something.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Now, this is the second time this sort of stuffs
happened to me in your life.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Not recently last few months.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
So something's going on and I don't know what. So
the letter says that I ran a red light, and
I've been I've been dobbed in by a member of
the public, and it says if they make a further complaint,
we're gonna have to investigate in criminal charges.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
My follow the letter.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Did you run a red light?
Speaker 3 (07:36):
No? And here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No, I wouldn't do that, but well not that I
know of. But also it sees where I was driving.
I was nowhere near that suburb that day at that time, Like,
I don't drive that part, not that it's a dodgy part,
but I just don't go there suburb.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Jud it's you.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
That's where I'm supposed to be, right, But this was
not where said the car was.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
You don't strike me as a running uh the a
red like kind of guy. But if someone's seen you,
they've seen you, and you're getting a leader.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Through my diary. Was I supposed to be there?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
I was not.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
It was like about eleven in the morning one day,
a weekday, and I looked at the diary and I
knew that we were in a planning meeting on that Thursday.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
So I couldn't have even been.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
There in case.
Speaker 5 (08:18):
We all know our attendance at those training meetings aren't regular.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You know, I've always had those meetings. But this is
the second time something like this has happened the last
few months.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
What else has happened?
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Okay? So we went to a petrol station, right and
I pulled in there and I went in there.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
To prepay, and the guys that I know, we can't
serve you fuel, like, what is that that vehicle has
been involved in a drive off?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
What?
Speaker 4 (08:40):
What?
Speaker 7 (08:41):
Now?
Speaker 2 (08:41):
This is a petrol station I hardly ever go to
because we fill up at Costco. We've got a Costco
card and it's cheap a fuel. So it's way off
the motorway and that's where I got to fill up
both our cars.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Let's just get let me get this straight. So within
the space of the last month, Yes, you have been
accused by a member of the public and sent a
letter from the police for unning a red light and
now you're not paying your patrol.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
This is what they said.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Now are you okay? Maybe who else drives your car?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
So this is what I'm thinking. So I see to Louise,
where have you been, babe? She's well, no, because I
had the car on the g say it.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
Like that, did you go? Where have you been? Or
did you go? Where have you been? Babe?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
It doesn't matter how I asked the question, but I
was like, could you have been? Could this have been news?
She's no, because again I had the car on that
Thursday nowhere near this red light, but someone hastopped us.
And now I'm thinking to myself, this person's got the
wrong number plate.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Easy to do. But the petrol station Rickens is a
drive off.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
No.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
I asked to see the screen because he had a
photo on the screen. He said, no, it's the number plate.
Can I see the screen?
Speaker 6 (09:42):
No?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I can't see you the screen.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
I suspect most people that engage in criminal activity have
foggy memories too.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
That's all I'm going to say, Jason.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I mean one incident. We could explain away to it. Incidents.
I'm starting to worry.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Anyway, No, good lawyer.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
What's the out come here?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
I'm I have to call the place and go. I
think someone else has got another plate, or you should.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Just confess, say lock me up. I am the coast criminal.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
No, not guilty? Or what's your.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
Name seventy five percent of people don't like their names.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Jason, you one of them.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
No, I'm not. I like my name.
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Yeah, I like my name too, although I have had
a lot of people throughout my life say to me,
isn't that a boy's name.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I've got a mate, the one called Lindsay. I think
it's the same Thing's not a girl's name.
Speaker 5 (10:35):
Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
using last names as first names.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Yeah, you know, Hudson.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Yeah, but I would have predicted most people. And the
stats kind of show that if you don't like your name,
you just kind of lump it and you move on, right.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yeah, Only six.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Thousand people changed their names yea the past year, and
a lot of those people are getting married.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
So the question is do you like your name?
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Because your dad got his name changed dame.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
So my dad changed his name. Well, he didn't change
his name, his parents did, so they named him.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
I'm trying to remember what it was. They keep saying Arnold.
I think it was.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
It might have been Gerald or is something like that.
And they actually brought him home from the hospital, looked
at him for a while, decided he wasn't actually that name,
and then got him changed to Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Sponsor's personality started coming through.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
Speaker 5 (11:29):
But I get that actually because I remember with my
first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
Was my number one.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
I like Juliet as a second but I was like,
kind of like them both. I'll just see when she
comes out, and straight away something in my mind was like,
she is not a Charlotte. I don't know why she
just didn't. I don't know why she didn't look like
a Charlotte.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
So, really, Wed, have you changed your name or someone
changed your name for you? Who were you and who
are you? I'd love to hear your story. I eight
hundred double O four.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Coast or Flickers the two six nine nine.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I saw this on seven sharp on TV one the
other night and they said that seventy five percent of
Kiwis do not like their own name. And I've had
around six thousand every year changed their name.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
So are you one of these people that have changed
your name because you didn't like it? Or maybe you're
a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, actually,
we got it wrong and went and changed it.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Like my dad.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
He was named one name for a few weeks and
then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey, and
they went and got it changed. Kirie.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
What about you, would you change your name? Have you
changed your name?
Speaker 6 (12:31):
No, we have changed my name. Would have changed my name.
But it did give me a lot of grinks through school.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Mo nay, I was carry the theory, carry the theory.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Oh, kids can be harsh, can't they.
Speaker 6 (12:44):
Yeah, yeah, so you know, you learn, you do it.
It's my dad's name.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I love it.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
And then you got the last names Bamond and no,
I'm not related to Lil Barmon. Oh gosh, I'm not
a girl's best friend.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Oh yeah, Well, you can get mocked for a name
like carry. I feel like you can be mocked for anything.
I'm assuming people thought it was a girl's name.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
Poor thing.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
you change it?
Speaker 8 (13:11):
No? And my sister changed her name. She was christened
Gayleen Myrtle, and my grandmother had a big input into
the name. So there were two issues. Firstival, she was
born in the fifties and it was probably okay to
be known as gay in the fifties, but as time
went by she didn't like being called gay, and then
the Myrtle she absolutely hated. So she changed her name
(13:33):
to Gabriel and Maya, so she kept the GM in initials,
but she called herself Allie. So that was a big change.
Speaker 5 (13:41):
Wow, it would have definitely been indicative of the time.
I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
mocked as much we have. It's more acceptable that it's
a genuine term.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
So we had a teacher called Game and she'd always
herself he Hi, I'm gay. But she knew what she
was doing. She laughed about it.
Speaker 7 (14:00):
Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was back
in the seventies was known as lost Us.
Speaker 8 (14:13):
That was I was just baby lost Us and was adopted,
so my name was changed.
Speaker 4 (14:23):
So hang on a minute. Was your first name lost
Us on your birth certificate?
Speaker 8 (14:28):
Yes, the Lostice baby.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
I don't know was lost us. The last name were
a first name. I'm trying to work that out.
Speaker 8 (14:36):
Just known as lost us.
Speaker 5 (14:39):
Sarah, Well, comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost Us.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Yeah, Well, that that was.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That was the adoption process.
Speaker 6 (14:50):
You weren't actually named, You were just the surname.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
That you were given. Thank you very much for my
coffee this morning.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Sorry, sorry, that sounds good.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
Actually, you know you got to got to have a
coffee before you go studying.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
I get.
Speaker 7 (15:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
No, back in those days, you were just known as
the surname was your first name, and you were just
known as the lost ofs baby.
Speaker 7 (15:19):
That's what you were known as.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
So harsh.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
I actually get that a little bit once you're adopted, though,
because then it would be harder to change the name
if you wanted to. So there is something in that.
I'm assuming that was McCafe Brian. Are you happy with
your name or did you change it?
Speaker 6 (15:35):
No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
name was Gillage and educated the Windsor. It was through
business really, you know, people say, what's your name? You
say jee Agen. They said, well, so you just spell it,
you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
chatting about business.
Speaker 5 (15:55):
How did you change it to Windsor did you just
pluck a royal name? If you're going to change it,
you might as well go hi.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
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Speaker 2 (16:17):
When it comes to love though, it must have been
loved and even on married at first sight.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
I don't think they do this.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
What your name do? I? Ken? Baby, I'm married to.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
A stranger mate, John Aikin, right, phenomenal doctor on their
relationship expert relationship guru.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
Yep, roots here in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
That's right, exactly, yes, so he wouldn't ever I don't think.
I don't think he.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Would ever say this. But it's a relationship expert the
name of Jake Meddick. Now, he's also been on TV
a few times, different TV shows, and he says he's
a tough love dating coach, tough loves where it's at.
He said, if you want to succeed, women should immediately
block anyone their partner tells them to.
Speaker 7 (16:56):
No.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Questions asked, are we talking social media?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Social media? That's right?
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Does this extend to men should block any woman? That?
Speaker 3 (17:05):
No, he does not say that. Jake does not say so.
He sparked the furious debate on this.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Ladus all claim that women who value your relationship if
you value your relationship, you will block other men.
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Well, do you know what this is? This is what
I'm going to take where I'm going to take this here.
My husband would not ask me to block anyone. Do
you know why? Because he trusts me. Ah, there's a
trust me. And if you're having to tell your partner
to block someone, it means the trust is not there
and you've got to ask yourself why it's not there.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
That's a really good point. Yeah, yeah, so because.
Speaker 5 (17:39):
I just think, isn't that just a desperate sort of
jealousy thing.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
And why you're feeling jealous?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
And why is the guy making you feel jealous that
you have to block someone over it?
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Weird?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
What kind of age are we living where a guy
has to thump this fiscally you cannot talk to that person?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
What what ye are you living in?
Speaker 5 (17:56):
I mean, I'd love to know who it is that
he's warning her to block. You know, I don't know,
But when you really his name's Fabio with a six pack?
Speaker 3 (18:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
But when you really boil it down, is there someone
on your context list that you know your partner's probably like,
I don't know about them? Or is there someone on
your partner's contact list, that you're not entirely happy about it.
Speaker 5 (18:15):
I suspect it would be a bit different if it
was an ex partner. Maybe Yeah, you know you can
feel a little bit threatened about that because they've been
romantically involved list.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
I mean, I don't think anyone's going to agree with
this guy, Jake Maddock, who as soon as your back,
if your man says to you you cannot you have
to block every other man.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
I need to get a visual on Jake.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
It's everything you expect. He's everything you expect.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Think gold chain, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Anyway, honestly, call right now and no names at all.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
But is there someone in your contact list you reckon
your partner's not happy about, or is this someone on
your partner's contact list just a little bit iffy about?
Honestly called send it text to two six ninet nine
if you want to call, you can. I'll wait one
hundred double low four coasts. I'll read you this headline
here through the rounds. This Morning Relationship Experts says women
should block other men, no questions asked. And when you
(19:00):
dive into the article, I was like, this is ridiculous,
A tough Love Dating coach has declared women should immediately
block anyone online if their partner tells them to no
questions asked. Jake Maddock sparked a furious debate with his
latest row Butty claims that women who value relationships will
block anyone immediately.
Speaker 5 (19:16):
Yeah, but also you've got to have a bit of
trust in the relationships too. And I don't know about you,
but my kind of policy is I could hand over
my texts, my emails, my Instagram, anything and show my
husband right now, and if you're not happy with that,
then there's probably something wrong.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Right, So he could lead to them all that's good idea.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
I go and take them to a place where No, honestly,
he could have an open book, he could read all
my messages and I would have no issue with that.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Well, I'm with you on I think there's going to
be a level of trust in this. But a few
texts on two six nine nine disagree. Listen to this one, Hey, guys,
I think Jake is onto something. I immediately wipe any
contact with someone I split with. The baggage isn't worth it.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Yeah, the baggage is a different thing though, versus something
happening again between the two of you, and we have
had a text that see is I asked my ex
to block her ex because they started talking a lot
a year into our relationship and she wouldn't and then ended.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Up going back to him. So that was a red
flag and you were correct. So when there is a
red flag, usually is something.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Comes under the trust.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
Do you think, though, if you went to your husband
man said, I think you should wipe out ex. Could
you ask Matt to delete his ex's numbers? Does he
even have them?
Speaker 5 (20:23):
I don't think he does, and if he does, I
wouldn't know about it. Someone has text here. This is
an interesting perspective High Team. I kind of agree with Jake.
Sometimes it's just simply about respecting your partner's request to
remove someone. Whether you agree or not, Sacrifice and compromise
is part of a healthy relationship. Me and my partner
did a similar thing when we met. Trust doesn't always
come into it, and I guess you're right. It's not trust,
(20:44):
then it's insecurity, And if you know it's making your
partner feel insecure, then it shouldn't be a big deal
because that's more important to you than that person.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Get that, whatever its make them feel as special as
the most special person in your life.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
I think, yeah, maybe something in that.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
Everyone has doubts and insecure here. It is, particularly when
it's with the person you love and you don't want
it to go away, right Yeah? Yeah, I mean I
don't want to fully agree with Jake, but he's got
me halfway.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
You know what I was against.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
That's okay. If it goes the other way. I think
you've got to be like that too.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I agree if you have, if you're open enough to
have that conversation, that's a good starting point there.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Just communicate there it is. We love the new license you.
Speaker 5 (21:21):
Show me Jackie in when I look at him, take
that gold chain off.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
He's good to go.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
This week, it's been a holiday for the school holiday,
spending some time with the family.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How was your holiday, Tony.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
I had a great holiday.
Speaker 5 (00:13):
Jas We did have a couple of medical mishaps that
I'm going to tell you about after eight today, one
that included fainting in another a broken boat. But the
first week of holiday was great. But I want to
talk to you about a moment that I was proud of.
So I like to I kind of like to think
I'm a bit of a dare devil when it comes
to going to theme parks. And I went to Wet
(00:34):
and Wild and SeaWorld over in Australia's.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Gold Coast, right.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
And as you get older, I don't know what it is,
but you kind of lose a bit of your courage.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
You know.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
ME hate small spaces, so don't put me in anything confined,
like I didn't want to do the black Hole. It
went wild, But anything with heights and thrills, I'm usually
up for it, right, And I was with only one
of my children. I was with my eleven year old
daughter Juliet and another family. The little ones were at home,
and so she wanted me to go on this one
particular ride at.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
SeaWorld, which was called the Vortex.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
And if you've ever seen it, you know everyone sits
in like a grid and then it flips you backwards.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
It's almost like a wave and it rolls and I don't.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Know what it is, but I just got I got
a bit of anxiety about it, and I was like, no, no, no,
I'm going to feel so I won't go on it.
So I did it the first time, and I watched
them and it didn't make me feel any better. And
then there was that moment where they were going on
a second time and my daughter looked at me with
pleading eyes, please, Mum, can you come on it? And
I had that moment where I paused and I was like,
this could go one of two ways. I'm either just
going to be a coward and go and sit over there,
(01:38):
or I'm going to man up and go on this
ride with my daughter, because what's the worst that can happen?
And I just hopped in the line. I hopped in
the line and went, Okay, I'll do it whatever, you
know what, I loved it. It was so good and
I don't even know what I was scared about. I mean,
it threw me around like a washing machine. But I'm
just so glad that I said yes, because I could
have easily just sat there and gone, nah, I'll sit
(01:59):
there one out. I'm like, come on, just because you're
forty now you can still go on rides, Tony.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
See that's on prices is someone who I can't even
go to swing anymore, that feeling nauseous on a swing anymore.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
So did you have a good holiday?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I had a great holiday, thank you. Yeah. If it's
something happened at Eden Park.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We took our eleven year old to his very first
ever live All Blacks match, and something happened in Eden
Park that made me just realize amazing, how amazing people are.
So we sat in our seats. We had some really
nice seats. We sat down there and the guy said,
in experience, you know, my name is Colin. I figured
we're going to sit in next to each other during
the game. We're going to be seat mates. So anything
you need tonight, bro, I'll go and get it for you,
because I don't get you. A little man with you
and and so we were hugging during the game.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
When the allbox finally won, we hugged each other.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Who whoa whoa You and Colin?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Me and Colin. I don't know who Colin is, but
what an amazing man. He sat down and shook my hand. Said,
we're going to be seat mates for this game.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Mate.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I'm here with my mates. You're here with your little boy.
So that said to have a good time. I was like,
what a great way to start the game.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Who did Colin go to the rugby with two of
his mates? I think you just picturing him on his
own for a second. Jason really pleased about that.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Sounds great, that's good anyway. Nice.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Actually, you have got to visit a COLLEGEXT you.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Come to visit the studio, Come on and go. I
like to when I go on and you'll leave do
quite a lot of admin. That sounds so boring, but
it's just easier I think when I've got the kids
home that not at school, and get it all done
so that when you come back to work you're not
concerned with things like vaccinations, any form of medical like
I In the time that I was away, I went
(03:25):
and saw the cardiologist I had a CT scan on
my face.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
I went and saw my GP, like I just went
the cardiologist. Is just a check up. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I don't have hearts yet that I do have it
terribly on both sides of my family. Anyway, I also decided, right,
let's get the kids all sorted, and I really wanted
the flu has been really nasty at the moment, so
I wanted to make sure that they got their flu jabs.
You can get them free, by the way at our
show sponsor Bargain Chemist. I was going for a multiple
appointment because my husban also had to go and see
(04:01):
this GP because he was out running and he kicked
an exposed tree root that was coming up through the
concrete and he really badly bruised his toe. And when
I got back from being away in Australia, I looked
at his foot. It was four times the size as normal,
and I said, have you not gone and seen anyone
about that? And he goes, no, I thought it was
(04:22):
just bruised it all come right. I looked at it
and went, that ain't bruise mate, that is broken.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Anyway.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
To cut a long story short, he got an X
ray and he has cracked all the way through his
toe down to his foot joint, and we're waiting to
find out on Wednesday whether he's going to need surgery.
It's actually really really set surgery on it. Yep, he's
going to have to potentially have screws in the side
of his foot.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Like Richie mccaugh. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
So you picture this day.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I've got a limping husband going in to see the
initial GP appointment to see.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
About his foot.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
I've got all three kids with me, and I wanted
to get all three of them a flu jab, and
I wanted to get myself a lab test.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
And I also wanted to get my eleven year old.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Daughter her boots stricks, which is the big s that
they normally get at school. But it was on the
same day as Nippel, and I didn't wanted to have
a dead arm. You know how I'm a psycho coach.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Sure, So anyway, I had to.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Drag my eleven year old out of bed at ten
past eight for an eight thirty appointment, right because I
wanted to let her sleep in sure, So as we're
going out the door, I'm like, you need to eat something,
and I threw her an apple and she decided not
to eat it. So we get to our medical center.
I've got a limping husband, got three kids. They get
all their jabs, no problem, great, but they make you
(05:28):
stay twenty minutes just check everyone's okay. And at that
point my husband said to me, you shoot across the
road and go and get your blood test. I'll go
up and pay for all these for the boot Stricks vaccination.
So he goes up to the reception.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I'm at lab test. Next thing, there's a man shouting
someone we need help here, we need help here in
the waiting room.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
My husband turns around and our eleven year old is
out cold on the floor and she's banged her head
on the chair.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
What final.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
So she's passed out because she got the flu jab
and the boots Stricks together, and look, you're allowed to
do that. But because I'd ripped her out of beard,
no food and she hadn't eaten. So I get a
curried call from the lab test that our daughter's passed out.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
So I'm running back from lab tests. We go and
put her in a room.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
They take your blood pressure, give us some sugar, and
she comes aright. And as that's happening, my nine year
old starts going pale and woozy and they have to
put her on the other beard because she is suffering
the same thing. So the moral of the story is people,
wow when it rains at pause, and if you're going
to get your jabs next.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Just to eat breakfast first like a responsible human.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
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Show Moments podcast. This week's very best from Coasts Tony's Street,
Jason Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I was thrilled the.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Other day because I've got a leader in the post
and it wasn't a written outlet of it.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I was like, oh, what is this? Have a full
name and everything on it.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
It's probably just a bill.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
I get that excitement too, and you get disappointed when
it's like my bank saying here's your statement.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
I was thinking the same thing, so here is my
full name? Was what is this? And opened it up.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It wasn't a bill that There's a big logo on
the top left corner, the police logo, and it's a
letter saying that.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
I've been accused of something.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Now, this is the second time this sort of stuffs
happened to me in your life.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Not recently last few months.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
So something's going on and I don't know what. So
the letter says that I ran a red light, and
I've been I've been dobbed in by a member of
the public, and it says if they make a further complaint,
we're gonna have to investigate in criminal charges.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
My follow the letter.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Did you run a red light?
Speaker 3 (07:36):
No? And here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No, I wouldn't do that, but well not that I
know of. But also it sees where I was driving.
I was nowhere near that suburb that day at that time, Like,
I don't drive that part, not that it's a dodgy part,
but I just don't go there suburb.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Jud it's you.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
That's where I'm supposed to be, right, But this was
not where said the car was.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
You don't strike me as a running uh the a
red like kind of guy. But if someone's seen you,
they've seen you, and you're getting a leader.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Through my diary. Was I supposed to be there?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
I was not.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
It was like about eleven in the morning one day,
a weekday, and I looked at the diary and I
knew that we were in a planning meeting on that Thursday.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
So I couldn't have even been.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
There in case.
Speaker 5 (08:18):
We all know our attendance at those training meetings aren't regular.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You know, I've always had those meetings. But this is
the second time something like this has happened the last
few months.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
What else has happened?
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Okay? So we went to a petrol station, right and
I pulled in there and I went in there.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
To prepay, and the guys that I know, we can't
serve you fuel, like, what is that that vehicle has
been involved in a drive off?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
What?
Speaker 4 (08:40):
What?
Speaker 7 (08:41):
Now?
Speaker 2 (08:41):
This is a petrol station I hardly ever go to
because we fill up at Costco. We've got a Costco
card and it's cheap a fuel. So it's way off
the motorway and that's where I got to fill up
both our cars.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Let's just get let me get this straight. So within
the space of the last month, Yes, you have been
accused by a member of the public and sent a
letter from the police for unning a red light and
now you're not paying your patrol.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
This is what they said.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Now are you okay? Maybe who else drives your car?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
So this is what I'm thinking. So I see to Louise,
where have you been, babe? She's well, no, because I
had the car on the g say it.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
Like that, did you go? Where have you been? Or
did you go? Where have you been? Babe?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
It doesn't matter how I asked the question, but I
was like, could you have been? Could this have been news?
She's no, because again I had the car on that
Thursday nowhere near this red light, but someone hastopped us.
And now I'm thinking to myself, this person's got the
wrong number plate.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Easy to do. But the petrol station Rickens is a
drive off.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
No.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
I asked to see the screen because he had a
photo on the screen. He said, no, it's the number plate.
Can I see the screen?
Speaker 6 (09:42):
No?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I can't see you the screen.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
I suspect most people that engage in criminal activity have
foggy memories too.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
That's all I'm going to say, Jason.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I mean one incident. We could explain away to it. Incidents.
I'm starting to worry.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Anyway, No, good lawyer.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
What's the out come here?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
I'm I have to call the place and go. I
think someone else has got another plate, or you should.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Just confess, say lock me up. I am the coast criminal.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
No, not guilty? Or what's your.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
Name seventy five percent of people don't like their names.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Jason, you one of them.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
No, I'm not. I like my name.
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Yeah, I like my name too, although I have had
a lot of people throughout my life say to me,
isn't that a boy's name.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I've got a mate, the one called Lindsay. I think
it's the same Thing's not a girl's name.
Speaker 5 (10:35):
Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
using last names as first names.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Yeah, you know, Hudson.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Yeah, but I would have predicted most people. And the
stats kind of show that if you don't like your name,
you just kind of lump it and you move on, right.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Yeah, Only six.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Thousand people changed their names yea the past year, and
a lot of those people are getting married.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
So the question is do you like your name?
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Because your dad got his name changed dame.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
So my dad changed his name. Well, he didn't change
his name, his parents did, so they named him.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
I'm trying to remember what it was. They keep saying Arnold.
I think it was.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
It might have been Gerald or is something like that.
And they actually brought him home from the hospital, looked
at him for a while, decided he wasn't actually that name,
and then got him changed to Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Sponsor's personality started coming through.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
Speaker 5 (11:29):
But I get that actually because I remember with my
first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
Was my number one.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
I like Juliet as a second but I was like,
kind of like them both. I'll just see when she
comes out, and straight away something in my mind was like,
she is not a Charlotte. I don't know why she
just didn't. I don't know why she didn't look like
a Charlotte.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
So, really, Wed, have you changed your name or someone
changed your name for you? Who were you and who
are you? I'd love to hear your story. I eight
hundred double O four.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Coast or Flickers the two six nine nine.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I saw this on seven sharp on TV one the
other night and they said that seventy five percent of
Kiwis do not like their own name. And I've had
around six thousand every year changed their name.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
So are you one of these people that have changed
your name because you didn't like it? Or maybe you're
a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, actually,
we got it wrong and went and changed it.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Like my dad.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
He was named one name for a few weeks and
then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey, and
they went and got it changed. Kirie.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
What about you, would you change your name? Have you
changed your name?
Speaker 6 (12:31):
No, we have changed my name. Would have changed my name.
But it did give me a lot of grinks through school.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Mo nay, I was carry the theory, carry the theory.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Oh, kids can be harsh, can't they.
Speaker 6 (12:44):
Yeah, yeah, so you know, you learn, you do it.
It's my dad's name.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I love it.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
And then you got the last names Bamond and no,
I'm not related to Lil Barmon. Oh gosh, I'm not
a girl's best friend.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Oh yeah, Well, you can get mocked for a name
like carry. I feel like you can be mocked for anything.
I'm assuming people thought it was a girl's name.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
Poor thing.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
you change it?
Speaker 8 (13:11):
No? And my sister changed her name. She was christened
Gayleen Myrtle, and my grandmother had a big input into
the name. So there were two issues. Firstival, she was
born in the fifties and it was probably okay to
be known as gay in the fifties, but as time
went by she didn't like being called gay, and then
the Myrtle she absolutely hated. So she changed her name
(13:33):
to Gabriel and Maya, so she kept the GM in initials,
but she called herself Allie. So that was a big change.
Speaker 5 (13:41):
Wow, it would have definitely been indicative of the time.
I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
mocked as much we have. It's more acceptable that it's
a genuine term.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
So we had a teacher called Game and she'd always
herself he Hi, I'm gay. But she knew what she
was doing. She laughed about it.
Speaker 7 (14:00):
Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was back
in the seventies was known as lost Us.
Speaker 8 (14:13):
That was I was just baby lost Us and was adopted,
so my name was changed.
Speaker 4 (14:23):
So hang on a minute. Was your first name lost
Us on your birth certificate?
Speaker 8 (14:28):
Yes, the Lostice baby.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
I don't know was lost us. The last name were
a first name. I'm trying to work that out.
Speaker 8 (14:36):
Just known as lost us.
Speaker 5 (14:39):
Sarah, Well, comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost Us.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Yeah, Well, that that was.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That was the adoption process.
Speaker 6 (14:50):
You weren't actually named, You were just the surname.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
That you were given. Thank you very much for my
coffee this morning.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Sorry, sorry, that sounds good.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
Actually, you know you got to got to have a
coffee before you go studying.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
I get.
Speaker 7 (15:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
No, back in those days, you were just known as
the surname was your first name, and you were just
known as the lost ofs baby.
Speaker 7 (15:19):
That's what you were known as.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
So harsh.
Speaker 5 (15:22):
I actually get that a little bit once you're adopted, though,
because then it would be harder to change the name
if you wanted to. So there is something in that.
I'm assuming that was McCafe Brian. Are you happy with
your name or did you change it?
Speaker 6 (15:35):
No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
name was Gillage and educated the Windsor. It was through
business really, you know, people say, what's your name? You
say jee Agen. They said, well, so you just spell it,
you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
chatting about business.
Speaker 5 (15:55):
How did you change it to Windsor did you just
pluck a royal name? If you're going to change it,
you might as well go hi.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
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Speaker 2 (16:17):
When it comes to love though, it must have been
loved and even on married at first sight.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
I don't think they do this.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
What your name do? I? Ken? Baby, I'm married to.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
A stranger mate, John Aikin, right, phenomenal doctor on their
relationship expert relationship guru.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
Yep, roots here in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
That's right, exactly, yes, so he wouldn't ever I don't think.
I don't think he.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Would ever say this. But it's a relationship expert the
name of Jake Meddick. Now, he's also been on TV
a few times, different TV shows, and he says he's
a tough love dating coach, tough loves where it's at.
He said, if you want to succeed, women should immediately
block anyone their partner tells them to.
Speaker 7 (16:56):
No.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Questions asked, are we talking social media?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Social media? That's right?
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Does this extend to men should block any woman? That?
Speaker 3 (17:05):
No, he does not say that. Jake does not say so.
He sparked the furious debate on this.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Ladus all claim that women who value your relationship if
you value your relationship, you will block other men.
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Well, do you know what this is? This is what
I'm going to take where I'm going to take this here.
My husband would not ask me to block anyone. Do
you know why? Because he trusts me. Ah, there's a
trust me. And if you're having to tell your partner
to block someone, it means the trust is not there
and you've got to ask yourself why it's not there.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
That's a really good point. Yeah, yeah, so because.
Speaker 5 (17:39):
I just think, isn't that just a desperate sort of
jealousy thing.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
And why you're feeling jealous?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
And why is the guy making you feel jealous that
you have to block someone over it?
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Weird?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
What kind of age are we living where a guy
has to thump this fiscally you cannot talk to that person?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
What what ye are you living in?
Speaker 5 (17:56):
I mean, I'd love to know who it is that
he's warning her to block. You know, I don't know,
But when you really his name's Fabio with a six pack?
Speaker 3 (18:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
But when you really boil it down, is there someone
on your context list that you know your partner's probably like,
I don't know about them? Or is there someone on
your partner's contact list, that you're not entirely happy about it.
Speaker 5 (18:15):
I suspect it would be a bit different if it
was an ex partner. Maybe Yeah, you know you can
feel a little bit threatened about that because they've been
romantically involved list.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
I mean, I don't think anyone's going to agree with
this guy, Jake Maddock, who as soon as your back,
if your man says to you you cannot you have
to block every other man.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
I need to get a visual on Jake.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
It's everything you expect. He's everything you expect.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Think gold chain, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Anyway, honestly, call right now and no names at all.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
But is there someone in your contact list you reckon
your partner's not happy about, or is this someone on
your partner's contact list just a little bit iffy about?
Honestly called send it text to two six ninet nine
if you want to call, you can. I'll wait one
hundred double low four coasts. I'll read you this headline
here through the rounds. This Morning Relationship Experts says women
should block other men, no questions asked. And when you
(19:00):
dive into the article, I was like, this is ridiculous,
A tough Love Dating coach has declared women should immediately
block anyone online if their partner tells them to no
questions asked. Jake Maddock sparked a furious debate with his
latest row Butty claims that women who value relationships will
block anyone immediately.
Speaker 5 (19:16):
Yeah, but also you've got to have a bit of
trust in the relationships too. And I don't know about you,
but my kind of policy is I could hand over
my texts, my emails, my Instagram, anything and show my
husband right now, and if you're not happy with that,
then there's probably something wrong.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Right, So he could lead to them all that's good idea.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
I go and take them to a place where No, honestly,
he could have an open book, he could read all
my messages and I would have no issue with that.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Well, I'm with you on I think there's going to
be a level of trust in this. But a few
texts on two six nine nine disagree. Listen to this one, Hey, guys,
I think Jake is onto something. I immediately wipe any
contact with someone I split with. The baggage isn't worth it.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Yeah, the baggage is a different thing though, versus something
happening again between the two of you, and we have
had a text that see is I asked my ex
to block her ex because they started talking a lot
a year into our relationship and she wouldn't and then ended.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Up going back to him. So that was a red
flag and you were correct. So when there is a
red flag, usually is something.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Comes under the trust.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
Do you think, though, if you went to your husband
man said, I think you should wipe out ex. Could
you ask Matt to delete his ex's numbers? Does he
even have them?
Speaker 5 (20:23):
I don't think he does, and if he does, I
wouldn't know about it. Someone has text here. This is
an interesting perspective High Team. I kind of agree with Jake.
Sometimes it's just simply about respecting your partner's request to
remove someone. Whether you agree or not, Sacrifice and compromise
is part of a healthy relationship. Me and my partner
did a similar thing when we met. Trust doesn't always
come into it, and I guess you're right. It's not trust,
(20:44):
then it's insecurity, And if you know it's making your
partner feel insecure, then it shouldn't be a big deal
because that's more important to you than that person.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Get that, whatever its make them feel as special as
the most special person in your life.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
I think, yeah, maybe something in that.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
Everyone has doubts and insecure here. It is, particularly when
it's with the person you love and you don't want
it to go away, right Yeah? Yeah, I mean I
don't want to fully agree with Jake, but he's got
me halfway.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
You know what I was against.
Speaker 4 (21:11):
That's okay. If it goes the other way. I think
you've got to be like that too.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I agree if you have, if you're open enough to
have that conversation, that's a good starting point there.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Just communicate there it is. We love the new license you.
Speaker 5 (21:21):
Show me Jackie in when I look at him, take
that gold chain off.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
He's good to go.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
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