BobbyCast Presents: Middays with Morgan

Bobby’s day-to-day manager, Morgan Massengill aka Morgan1, shares her two cents on trending topics and her personal experiences in life and dating.

 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey guys, Bobby here. Uh, this is not a Bobby Cast,
but this is a collection of mid Days with Morgan.
Morgan number one used to be the executive producer of
the show. Now she works for me over on the
management side, which you know, it's basically everything that's not radio, TV, touring, books, etcetera.
But she started this thing on Instagram called mid Days

(00:22):
of Morgan where she just talks about stuff, and I said, hey,
you're actually pretty funny. Um, keep doing them and let
me post them on our Bobby Cast feed. I don't know,
maybe you like these. If you do, let me know.
You can follow her at Morgan masson gil or you
go to my page and find her up there. But
here's a collection of mid Days with Morrigan. Let me
know if you like these. All right, here you go.

(00:43):
You know what the moment is more time. Okay, we're
gonna talk about getting ghosted. We're ghosting somebody. We've all
been there on one side of it or the other.
So I'm gonna play a clip and then we're gonna
break it down. Let's go. I'm just sad. I'm not
gonna lie. Okay, I'm gonna reread her message in case
you didn't have time to. She wrote to this guy

(01:05):
who I guess coasted her. She said, Hey, I'm going
to interpret your silence as disinterest. I'm really disappointed and hurt,
to be honest, especially since things started out really nicely
with you. I don't know what's going on in your life,
but it takes two minutes to send a text to
let me know you're no longer interested, or to communicate
that you need some time. I'm a strong person. I

(01:25):
can handle rejection, but this silence is just cowardly on
your part. I did enjoy getting to know you in
best of look seek um. You know she typed that
out in her notes up y'all. You know she did,
and I get it. I mean, being ghosted sucks. It
definitely sucks. But I would advise if you've been ghosted

(01:49):
to just not do that. Don't say anything like they're
telling you without telling you, even though it's not the
right way of going about it. Take their silence for
what it is. It really really sucks, but you're typing
up and spending your energy on a response that that

(02:09):
is not gonna make that guy do the right thing,
like he's already done the wrong thing. I guess that's
what I'm saying. Um, but I just laugh at this
because we've all been ghosted. I got ghosted recently actually,
and um, it's always the Christian Boys guys. It's always

(02:29):
Christian bloyees that it always got a scripture and their
bio and then they go and ghost you. I don't
know what it is. Um, but this guy we had
talked for a little bit and he kept on throwing
out dat ideas, which cool, like let's go on a date,
let's do something. But I felt like any time it
got close to the day that we had talked about

(02:52):
doing something, he wouldn't follow through, or there'd be something
come up or whatever what have you. And this last
time that we're supposed to do something, he texted me
and was like, oh, hey, like this came up, I
can't And I just responded, okay, thanks for let me know.
And then he never said anything back, which, listen, I'm

(03:14):
gonna call all the Christian Boys, John Luke. If you're
just straight up gonna ghost a girl, maybe take relations
out of the Instagram bio. That's all I'm saying. Like,
I have a friend who this happened to her recently too,
and the guy has something about Jesus and his Instagram bio. Okay,
I get that people are gonna ghost, but if you're
claiming to be a follower of the Lord, maybe step

(03:37):
up and just tell you're not interested. That's all I'm saying.
But at the end of the day, we've all everyone
has experienced one side or the other of ghosting. Okay.
It's just an an inevitable part of life, and it
can be a discouraging part of dating. I'm twenty none
years old and when people ask me why are you single?
Why are you single? Because honestly, it's hard off here

(03:59):
in these streets, like the guy, the pool of I'm
not gonna sit here and say Alman sucked because they don't.
But the pool of what we have to work with
these days, the good ones are few and far between,
and even the ones who are talking about their love
for Jesus are doing the same thing that any other

(04:20):
person would do, like step it up, John Luke. So anyway, um,
my advice would be, if you've been ghosted, do not
type up some long narrative in your notes oup to
send him about how he should have done better. Because
some men just ain't and that's okay. Like I've heard
this phrase before, rejection is God's protection, and that's so true.

(04:45):
If it didn't work out, that was not your person.
Don't send the long text. If he didn't have the
decency to let you know he wasn't interested, what in
the world makes you think he would be a good partner? Okay, okay,
And I've been on the side of things where I've
not been really that into a person and have had
this in that text. It's like, hey, like I appreciate

(05:06):
getting to know you. It literally does take two minutes,
and you don't have to say something specific. You don't
have to be like I didn't like the way your
teeth look and I just can't imagine look at those
teeth for the rest of my life. You have to
say that, But you could say I appreciate the time
you've taken getting to know me, and vice versa. I
really enjoy getting to know more about you. I just

(05:27):
don't see a romantic connection sparking out of this or
whatever however you want to phrase it, like. You can
keep it sweet, keep it keep it short, but let
that person know because it's just the right thing to do.
And if not take Galatians on the Instagram. By the
thought of you, as a male, I could have eighteen
thirty fifty women pregnant at the same time. As a female,

(05:52):
you can only be pregnant by one man at a time.
And further, it benefits you as a woman to stick
to that man, because is the more you get pregnant,
the more your value declines. Stretch marks, losing the vaginal elasticity,
and all of these meaningful things that attract meant It
really is a shame there's not some sort of human
decency tests people have to take in order to have

(06:13):
a podcast. When I came across that, my blood pressure
got so high. It's wild to have somebody's but you
chalked up to basically what they look like physically, and
I hope no one ever reproduces with that. That man
who work in his girlfriend's jack at that a. Now

(06:36):
I'm not a mom, but I know a couple and
they're badasses and they arguably pull more weight than the
guy in this situation. So to hear that it's more
beneficial for women to be in a committed relationship with
a man, it is just kind of astounding to me.
Because most women I know, even in marriages, are so independent.

(06:58):
They have their own income, um, they have their own hobbies,
they have They bring so much to the table, optionally
and monetarily. So do you're a man grab about some
stretch marks knowing good and dangwell, he's gonna have a
receding hairline in the next five minutes, Sir, what are

(07:19):
you bringing to the table If you're saying basically, the
only thing you bring to the table is the fact
that you can have sex with a woman, that's not
that hard for us to find, sir, kid or no ladies,
I'm beginning to question if we even need them. You
know what I did this weekend? Me and my sweet roommate,
who I have such great conversations with on a daily basis.

(07:42):
We genuinely enjoy each other's time and living together. We
cleaned up our house, we cleaned out the garage. Neither
one of us had to beg the other to help
because we're just happy to do so, and we had
a peaceful weekend. Now, if I were married to that guy,
he probably would have impregnated me by all, because it
seems like he was trying to do that with a

(08:03):
lot of women and look at me as less than
because I'm raising his child and probably mothering him as well,
and then also having to do all those house projects
because he's too busy impregnating other people to help me. Disclaimer,
Today's mid Days with Morgan is rated M for mature.

(08:24):
So if you're in a public place listening to this,
are the kiddos are beside you, maybe just to hit
pause for a second and grab some earbuts, we're about
to break down this clip. Let's go. Curius is about
to do a single lady a pool and this is
gonna be my reaction. Is this your group with a
single lady? Yeah, Chrysland, I've been so excited to do

(08:45):
it right Ready, you didn't even play good job girls.
But she used to get her strip, going to give
it to her man's for beating Okay, so maybe I'm

(09:06):
just real vanilla right and that's actually hot or something,
But in my mind, that is quite literally the worst
gift I've ever seen in my life. First off, props
to this girl for going in and getting her whole
cuccini wax in one strip. That I mean, if you've
never had a wax, they do it in portions so

(09:28):
you don't die there on the table. So when she
said she was looking forward to having it all done
in one strip, that's when I knew she was a psychopath.
I should have seen it coming, but I was shocked
when we got to see it. I did not expect
that they were going to show it to us and
that she would take it home as a gift for
her partner. Like, I really want to know what that

(09:52):
interaction was like when she walked through the door and
was like, bay bath, they I got you a gift.
I got you something, come quick, And he walks in
and he pulls out a piece of hard wax that's
got all her Cuccini and Buccini hair up in it. Like, girl,
I don't know. Maybe it's just real vanilla and I
shouldn't be hating on this chick, but I mean, never

(10:15):
again can she complain about her man getting his beard
trimmings on the bathroom scene Because it's a gift, Tiny,
it's a gift. No, I'm too vanilla for this. This
leads me to want to know what was the worst
gift you ever got from a significant other? This girl
is at the bar extremely high