February 14, 2023 • 30 mins
Do you see relationships through the lens of love? It’s Valentine’s Day so we have a lot of fun quotes to celebrate…such as this one from Will Ferrell: “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” Also discussed: best candy ever, starving for salvation, how certain prolonged emotions affect our organs (ex. worry weakens your stomach), staying aware of your mood (+ other ways you can take better care of yourself!!), Chick-fil-a’s new cauliflower sandwich, and more!!!! It’s a jam packed episode with Amy & Kat. Hope you enjoy!!!
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Happy Tuesday, Welcome to the Fifth Thing. I'm Amy and
I'm Cat. And our quote today, well, I have lots
of them. They're Valentine's Day quotes because this episode released
on Valentine's Day, which speaking of Valentine's Day and love,
I did a devotional this last weekend that was talking
about how we need to see those that we love
(00:25):
through a lens of compassion. And you know, if you're
getting treated a certain way, sort of like they say,
hurt people, hurt people, and it's like, oh, okay, I'm
gonna try to understand why they're acting this way, and
I'm gonna see them through this lens. And obviously if
it's something severe and then it's work they need to do,
you don't need to really be a part of that.
(00:45):
But I don't know. It's just a reminder even in
all kinds of relationships, even if it's with the person
checking you out at the grocery store that's nasty and rude,
maybe if they are have compassion and be like, I
have no idea what's going on in their life today.
If it's your significant other that's nasty and rude, It
depends on the level and what you might need to
do with that, But see what maybe is a little
(01:06):
bit deeper, like, oh wow, I wonder if they're really
struggling with something right now, or something happened at work,
or they have something going on with a friend, or
they have a headache or they're hurting well, because you're
saying like, people aren't just mean for no reason. So
if somebody's snappy at you, it's like, oh, I bet
something's happening and they're not really trying to hurt my feelings,
So I'm gonna offer them some compassion the lens of love.
(01:27):
I like it because that was a good lens of
love on Valentine's Day. Thought it was a good reminder,
which you're going to vout New York not for Valentine's Day,
like to celebrate it, but for your one year anniversary
to big Peak. We are doing that. But I don't
think we planned it for an anniversary trip that it is,
but but it is because that's what we And so
(01:47):
I do you think you're gonna get engaged? Okay, I'm
gonna be honest with everybody. When we planned it, I
was like, oh, this would be a really good time
for us to get engaged because I knew we were
going to get engaged after a year, but the closer
we get it's not gonna happen. So I'm not going
to get my hopes up. Okay, but you've already looked
(02:08):
at rings. Have you said that publicly? Sorry, but we've
looked at rings. Okay. So it's some Balanda and stay
quotes for all kinds of people, because some people listening
are not in a relationship and they could care less.
But if you're madly in love like Cat and Big P,
if I could have anyone in the world, it would
still be you. You should use that one on him.
I'll put that in my card. But honestly, if you
(02:29):
could have anyone in the world, I'm just kidding, Patrick,
I would pick you. Patrick. If you're watching, she would
pick you a hundred million times over. My winking is
getting better. I just winked. We're filming this for the
first time, by the way, That's why I said I
winked into the camera. So it's something fun that Kat
and I are trying out because trying cool and we're
(02:51):
trying to try new things because we want to try
and this is one of them. And we'll see how
it goes like Cat's gonna probably try a bagel with
cream cheese also on camera. Well, I don't know that's
I'll do it in New York. I'll go to a
special bagel shop and I'll get a bagel with butter,
and then I'll get a bagel with schmir. I wondered
that's what you order when you don't want a lot
(03:12):
of cream cheese, Just like a tiny of cream cheese.
I'll eat a bagel with cream cheese. I don't record
it in New York. Can let you guys know how
it goes? It trying mainly, the point of that is
just try new things and don't be so scared of them.
Maybe next time you won't cry when you get cream
cream cheese is scary on your bagel. Okay, So if
(03:33):
you're testing out a relationship before you marry a person,
you should first make them use a computer with slow
internet service to see who they really are. That's from
Will Ferrell. How are you with slow Internet? I mean
it's not like we really have had to deal with
that in recent years, because I feel like we're all
pretty high speed. But sometimes if technologically something is going wrong,
(03:55):
I can get pretty fired up and frustrated. But I
would like to think that whoever is with you will
see me through a lens of love. And just know,
if you're going through a breakup, don't feel bad if
you see your ex with someone else. Remember our parents
taught us to give things we don't need to the
less fortunate unknown. If you deal with fear. This is
(04:17):
from my character on the Office, Michael Scott. Would I
rather be feared or loved? Easy? Both? I want people
to be afraid of how much they love me. You
want to know something interesting, Yeah, I've never seen The Office.
You should. I'll try it. I'll try that, try it
because trying it's cool. If you're looking to make a
drastic change. A man's job is to protect his woman
(04:37):
from her desire to get bangs every other month. That's
from Dak Shepherd. And did you see on It was
either on TikTok or Instagram reels, But Haley Bieber cut
her hair real short or listen. I'm not up to
date on her hairstyle when she did it, but I
just saw this the other day and this so it
shows Haley Bieber and she looks all good and her
hair is all short and awesome, and then it cut
(05:00):
to this girl sitting in her car and she's looking
straight into the camera and she's like, don't do it.
Don't do it, Like basically, don't look at this new
Hailey Biber hair do and go to your hair person
and get your hair chopped off because it's gonna look
real cute because your hair person did it. And then
a few days are gonna go by and you're gonna
have to wash it and then style it yourself and
it's gonna be a hot mess. So don't do it.
(05:20):
I did that during COVID. I chopped my hair off,
and I wanted to cry every single day after. Not
that the haircut was bad, but what was I thinking.
I often want to do the bangs, So I guess, yeah,
if you have friends or a significant other that can
keep you from chopping your hair off or cutting bangs.
That was a funny little quote from Duck's Shepherd. Another
(05:41):
thing I saw on Instagram to regarding Valentine's Day was
this video of the scroll going I do not want
flowers for Valentine's Day and she's like banging into the
camera and then people were using it as their own
little mix, and then it would cut to the person
that's making the video and using that clip and saying
I want cash. Then MO will work. Is that what
(06:03):
you want? I don't really like flowers. I like a plant.
I guess that's true. Like your flowers die in like
a week. I like the gesture of flowers, But you're right,
I guess I would like to have something that I
can like have forever. Yeah. I mean I don't have
plants forever because then the flowers die, then they like
the water gets brown, and then it becomes like some
(06:24):
people love fresh flowers flowers, and I am like, okay,
take it or leave it. Okay. I will never buy
you flowers. I think that flowers are good for other
people that love flowers. I think flowers are beautiful, but
for me, if you're going to spend money on me,
I would rather be something else. If I get flowers,
I'm not gonna be mad about it. Flowers are pretty
and they brighten my day, but it's not my first choice.
(06:45):
You wouldn't say I don't. Can you take these back? Right?
Can you exchange these? Yeah? I want cash? Then MO
will work? Which best Valentine's Day candy? You're asking me
a Rec's heart, A Rec's is the best candy any tree,
Christmas tree and egg Reese's egg, Rees's Heart. Is there
anymore Reese's pumpkin? Oh? Yeah, for Helloween, I stockpile the
(07:09):
holiday Rec's and I always have them around. You say Reese's,
and I say Reese's. Am I saying it wrong? Said Reese's.
It's Rec's, Reese's, Reese's cup, Reese's cup. Is this like
the almond and almond? And I don't know? And a
pom pom pom pom. Well, I think because you say almond,
(07:32):
and you say, I don't say almond. I say, some
people do, I say almond. I was gonna say. I
was using that as an example of how people say
things differently. Rec's Yeah, let me say Reese's cup. Let's
say Reese's. Now, I don't know what I say. Reese's pieces.
(07:55):
I saw that the cut put up a Valentine's daycandy
and they ranked it, and the op ones were the
Reese's peanut better hearts, which we love heart shaped ding dongs.
Thought that you've never had a ding dong, the little
chocolate cake with the white inside. That's not candy. I
guess since they make them heart shape for Halloween, they
added it in. I get it. Do the heart shaped
(08:18):
ding Dong made it a box of chocolates. Those are
so unpredictable because you don't know what you're getting, but
they're also fun, like I like kind of biting in
and then seeing and then being like, nah, I don't
like this. But do you like any of them? Sometimes? Uh? Yeah,
caramel like some with nuts a brittle, like if there's
a toffee on the inside there's a cherry inside. No.
(08:38):
And then chocolate on chocolate on the inside, or vanilla cream.
I don't that because it's like the soft moose on
the inside, like a truffle. I guess, so like fudge
on the inside. I know it's not my favorite. Um.
And then sour patch kid hearts. I didn't even know
they made those. I guess they do because they rank
as some of the Halloween candies and candy or flowers. Candy, Okay,
(09:04):
what about you? Candy or flowers? I would like to
have both of them, but I would take the candy. Yeah,
which speaking in candy and maybe even heard shake ding
Dongs cake anything makes you think of the Gwyn Chamblin
movie that you sent me that's on Lifetime? Did you
watch it? Did cake? Anything makes you think of the
(09:35):
Gwyn Chamblin movie that you sent me that's on Lifetime?
Did you watch it? Did? I don't have the channel
that's on I don't either. You sent me a link
and I clicked it and it worked, and then I
watched commercials like my Lifetime dot com. You sent me
the link, and that's how I watched it. I forgot
thirty minutes trying to figure out how to stream it
this week and I sent you a link. Yes, you
(09:57):
sent me the link and I clicked on it and
I was like, oh wow, okay, I can just watch
it right here from my computer. And then I had
to watch the commercials. But I was like, man, I
forgot how good Lifetime was because you see other movies
that are up. There are options, but it's called Starving
for Salvation. And I watched the HBO Max documentary, so
this was interesting. And Jennifer Gray plays Gwen and she
(10:20):
does such a great job. Did you watch her? And
Dirty Dancing? No? No, I've probably never seen it. Homework.
Dirty Dancing is one of my all time top three
favorite movies ever. But she does a really good job
playing Gwyn, Like it's crazy how good it is. And
you get a little bit more of the backstory of
how she really thought God was speaking to her to,
(10:41):
you know, start this diet and the way down workshop
and then ultimately make it a church because she decided
that the Trinity wasn't a thing. I don't know if
that was addressed in the documentary. Her trinity is different
for some right, Yeah, And gosh, it was really crazy.
I guess I didn't know some of the or I
didn't pay attention to the documentary, or maybe it is
(11:03):
a movie so they might be adding things here and there.
But I just thought it was really interesting seeing a
little bit of her life before it began and when
it all started to come to her. Because she was
a nutritionist and she said that like one of her
clients was like, I don't know, I just feel empty
or something, and she was like, what does that even mean?
What is she empty for? And then one day she
(11:24):
was like at her kitchen table eating cake and she
realized she she prayed and she said, Lord, I don't
want to eat this cake anymore. And she's she told
her husband and then I didn't want the cake. The
desire went away. So it's that simple. I was like,
oh gosh, this is crazy. I thought it was really good.
I liked it. I would recommend watching the HBO Max
(11:45):
special or the Lifetime movie. Do both, because what order
do you think? Watch the documentary first? Yeah, well that's
what I did, But you could do either. Did the
movie give you a better ability to look at her
with a lens of love of it? Sounds like you're
seeing from her perspective versus like, Okay, she's not She's
not nice. Not nice. I feel as though maybe in
(12:10):
the beginning maybe she was, but then it just got
she got so wrapped up in it. There was a
bridesmaid scene where she's about to get married to the
news she's gotten divorced from her original pastor husband and
she's marrying the guy that died in the plane crash
with her, the pilot that was also an actor ish
wasn't he Tarzan ye back in the day. And they're
(12:30):
in the bridle shop in the movie, and all the
bridesmaids are trying on their dresses and she tells one
of them that can't get it zipped up. You can't
be in my wedding. You've fallen off. You need to
get back on track. And I think that that was
the same girl. She's like, if you can't, then you
need to leave the church. What I've heard stories like
(12:51):
that before. Obviously everything is a rumor, but like, I've
been a bridesmaid in a lot of weddings and sometimes
the dress is too tight, and usually the response you, guys,
it's okay, like we'll figure it out, Like if you
have to wear a different dress, that's not the worst.
And she's like, you can't even be in our church. Well,
first you're not gonna be in the wedding, so I
don't think she stood up there, and then if you
don't get this under control, then you might as well
(13:13):
leave the church with her thinking, Yeah, it's very interesting
which dirty dancing? You have to watch it. The whole
time I'm watching Jennifer Gray, I'm thinking, such a different
character is Patrick Swayze. Such a good scene from the
movie is when they're in this cabin and they're dancing
to this song cry to Me, don't you feel like crying?
(13:34):
And I remember as a kid being so uncomfortable because
it's leading into like a love scene. And I was
a kid, and this is my favorite movie. My favorite
movies as a kid, Pretty Woman, dirty Dancing, still my noise,
all very serious topics. Yeah, I mean because yes they
even tackle abortion and dirty dancing. But I had no
idea that's what they were doing. I was like, oh,
(13:55):
she lost a baby, but you didn't know what was
going on. Baby's dad was a doctor, and yes, like you, yeah,
you have to watch the movie. Do you want to
know my favorite movies as a kid compare Lion King. Oh?
I was thinking more like adolescent sisters have the traveling
Pants and Princess Diaries. Cute, that's yeah, So who of
(14:17):
you an the love scene? The cry to me? I
just was saying, if you watch it, you might get
uncomfortable during that. But also we're adults now, but if
you're watching it with big pee like, oh, we can't
watch a love scene to guess, coming up with your eyes.
But that's how my parents took me a Pretty Woman
in the theater because I guess they wanted to go
(14:38):
see it and they couldn't get a sitter or canceled
or something. And I remember during certain scenes my parents
would just like my dad yeah, yeah, And I didn't
realize she was a prostitute. But well, now you know,
Now I know, Now I know. And anytime I hear
that song, cry to me. Have you ever read the song?
Don't you feel like crying? No, it's jam that's really good.
(15:02):
I cried at the grocery store because I dropped sour
cream the other day. I think it wasn't wait, just
over the dropped sour cream? Did it spill everywhere where?
I had to go get help? Where were you? And
then I'm crying. There's a worker helping me. It's the
whole thing. I'm not bawling crying, but I'm crying. But
I realized, Okay, there's gotta be something else going on
with me. This is deeper. This isn't just about the
(15:23):
sour cream. So I got in the car and then
I got home. I processed a little bit more, and
I realized, oh, I feel like this could probably be it.
And I've been suppressing it and acting like it's not
that big of a deal. And it is a big deal.
So now I'm going to try to journal through and
work through it and see if that was what it was.
Because I wouldn't normally cry in the dairy aisle. You
(15:44):
would take a big deal. I need to go get right,
like we're gonna clean this up and move on with
our day. But I definitely just had a little teeny
tiny meltdown. I had the day I needed to have.
I had the cry I needed to have. Fit the
employee at Publix. Now you're crying, I don't think so
how did she respond? It was a young teenage boy, okay,
(16:05):
how how did they respond? Old lady is crying. I
don't know what is happening. There wasn't a lens of love,
if that's what you mean. There was no compassion. But
he didn't know cleaning up the sour cream, and I
was like, you know, trying to keep it together again.
I wasn't bawling. The sour cream situation triggered the tears
(16:28):
that probably need not even probably I know they need.
They needed to come out good for you. So, so,
did you get another thing in sour cream or we
just don't have that now? No? I got it? Okay,
thank god. I love sour cream. I have to keep
that in the fridge at all times. I'm a little
bit obsessed with it because I mix it with the
daily harvest bowl that I'm obsessed with is this sweet
potato wild rice kind of got a little Mexican flared
(16:50):
to it, and I love stirring in the sour cream
to that and crumpling up chips on top with a
little lady Cholula on top. It's just called cholula, but
some for some reason, I call her lady on the front.
I know. I came across this article talking about which
organs are affected by our different things that we do.
(17:11):
Because what do you mean, Well, like me crying overream
our emotions if we hold stuff out, so what do
you affect when you drop the cream? I'm not a doctor,
but I found this fascinating. That worry, like if we're
worried about something that weakens our stomach. That's because anxiety
and worry can upset the delicate balance of digestion. And
(17:32):
some people stress slows down digestion, causing bloating, pain and constipation,
while in others it speeds it up, causing area and
frequently and frequent trips to the loo, so to the bathroom.
How the study came from the UK, and some people
lose their appetite completely, so worry weakens your stomach. Then
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grief weakens your lungs. When someone is sad, they hold
their breath and oxygen is decreased. The emotional blockage of
not letting go and the symptom of grief effects receiving
and letting go in the lungs to make sure you're breathing.
Fear weakens your kidneys, Stress weakens your heart and brain,
and anger weakens your liver. And people that hold on
(18:17):
to anger or they're like always angry, that can shorten
their life, like seventeen years. Do they die of like
liver disease? I don't know for sure. I feel like
each thing people could look up if this is interesting
to them, they could see like I did, for the
stomach and the lungs, like which one. But I don't.
I feel like most people, if they have a liver disease,
it could be something else. But I'm generalizing here. A
(18:40):
few alcoholics that I have known have been very angry.
So alcohol is aboud for the liver, and then anger
is bad for the liver, and then liver disease is common.
But it could just be the alcohol. Again, not a doctor.
Feelings make a difference. I I got sidetracked because when
you talked about the worry, I don't think I told
you this. Last week. I convinced myself that had colon cancer.
(19:12):
Why well, because I didn't go to the bathroom for
a really long time and it scared me, and so
I started googling it like how many days? What's a
long time? Thursday to what's today? Friday? Thursday to Wednesday. Yeah,
was basically a week. And so I started freaking out,
and I did a lot of research and I did
ed to do that. I know, but I've learned so
much about poop and I convinced myself I had colon cancer.
(19:37):
Then I was like, what did I do? Because colon
cancer is supposed to happen to like you're in your
fifties and like, I'm young, but now you're adding more worry, right,
So now, when you said that, I was like, oh
my gosh, it was probably like something happened. And then
because I was worried, then it added to my It's
like when you're angry and then you're an alcoholic, you
get liver disease when you I'm not well. I know,
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
(19:58):
But I was just just like, oh my gosh, how
do I relax when I'm scared about that stuff? So
then I don't make it worse. I don't know I
should have gotten a massage. I think the worst thing
we can do if we think we have something is
try to google about it. I don't even want to
put the thoughts out there that I'm We were just
talking about our friend Patrick, who we both know, and
(20:19):
he was on Outway with me, and then I was
on his podcast, Rooted Stories and Recoveries what it's called,
and he had a brain tumor. And the crazy thing
is he was always scared of having a brain tumor.
It was one of his biggest fears. He had no
reason to fear that other than I don't know, somewhere
he saw I'm not a brain tumor, and he was like,
oh my gosh, I do not want to get I'm
(20:41):
so terrified I'm going to get a great brain tumor.
And he got a brain tumor, but I don't think
he thought that into his brain. It's just wild to me.
I wonder if the brain tumor was already there and
somehow it was his body was about this because I'm here, like,
you need to worry about this because you need to
go get help. I like that way of thinking of it,
versus like like, oh, you manifested this in your body.
(21:03):
But I like that, So then you know what that means.
We need to really pay attention to when we have
those little worries. How do I pay at attention? How
do I pay attention to the worry without exaggerating it?
So I should have just gone to the doctor so
I could move on, but instead I was like planning
the end of my life. Okay, now you're making me
(21:25):
think that you need to pay attention to the facts
that your brain told you colon cancer. But then this
could get out of going the doctor on Monday. Okay,
good for other reasons, but I'll bring it up. Bring
it up. Maybe you need to book a colon oscarpy
because I have one book at the mid March. How
old do you do you start doing those? Well, I'm
forty two. I'm going to be forty two in March.
(21:45):
So because my mom died of anal cancer I at
age forty, I have to get one a year. Okay,
but that's because of my family history. I think most
people it's after the age of forty and maybe every
five years or so. But I mean, I would just
see what your doctor says based on what they find,
and when you go get the colonoscopy, then they'll say, Okay,
you're all good, come back and however, many years and
(22:07):
that's who you need to listen to, don't listen to me.
I went to my gynecologist recently and that's when she
reminded me, Hey, it's time you need to start doing this,
and I would recommend you get it done every year.
You have to do it every year. Yeah, starting now.
I should have started at forty, but I kind of
put it off. Get I turned forty in the pandemic. Yeah,
that's not real. Top of my list wasn't go get
(22:29):
a colonoscopy. But anal cancer is very real and that's
what my mom had. But she had to pay attention
to things. You have to pay attention to your body
and that's how she discovered it. But it is treatable
if you discover it early on. So rectal cancer, colon cancer,
and anal cancer all different. I learned that during my
research because my mom was basically begging the doctor to
(22:53):
let her say she had colon cancer because that sounded
better than anal and he said no. And then even
when it's spread to other parts of her body, when
I'm metastasized, she's like, oh, awesome, now I can say
I have liver cancer. And he's like, nope, you have
anal cancer in your liver. It's like, get rid of this,
(23:14):
you know, maybe to counter this, we can share some
ways we can take care of our organs. Okay, So
I looked some up, because that's where you're well. First
of all, eating lots of fruits and vegetables, which it
makes me think of your friend that doesn't eat any
fruits or vegetables ever. Show eat fruit sometimes, okay, but
(23:35):
never a vegetable for her. I'm not I'm not judging
that is what I'm saying. Well, it's okay if you
are why I don't want to. I think it's okay
that yeah, you're saying this is this might be scary, Okay,
you're not like, oh, you're a dumb, stupid person, just
saying like, yikes, worried for your organs to fine. We
tell her all the time, like we gotta work on this.
(23:56):
So eating a lot of vegetables and fruit. Don't use tobacco,
vey products, alcohol or drugs. I mean, I think it
means in excess. You know, I guess what. I was
only hearing what I wanted to hear, and I just
heard you say don't bait, but I'm like, oh, no problem,
but there's alcohol in there. I just ignored that part.
Exercise as often as you can. This one is big.
This was on the list. Stay aware of your emotions
(24:19):
and moods. So if you cry over sour cream, did
people pay attention, See what the root of the tears
are so that you're not stuffing it down and then
you know the stomach problems. Get enough sleep where proper
protection at homeworker play. I think that that's for if
(24:40):
you're wanting to protect your organs from getting external like yeah, injured,
because you can at homeworker. And then also, I'm just
going to say this to your healthcare provider, if you
think something really may be wrong, it's a small print
because I definitely don't want to be responsible for any
(25:00):
of that. You sent me a text message that said
Chick fil A's coming out with a cauliflower sandwich. Yes,
I didn't read the article. I just sent you the screenshot,
but it's some limited locations, so I don't know if
you can even get it in our area. But so
it's like a fried chicken sandwich like they do cauliflower, okay,
which I think is cool because it's for like, if
(25:21):
you're a vegetarian, now you can expire sandwich with a
cauliflower on it. But I just don't know if that's
what I would ever order at Chick fil A. No.
I get the Chick fil a sandwich, sometimes spicy, sometimes not.
No pickle, waffle fries, and a diet coke. Of course, pickle.
It's like the best part. Now, I hate pickles. You
don't remember I threw up a pickle when I was
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in Pep squad. I can't have a pickle. You can't
have a pickle? Yes, in sixth grade? What do you
put on your hamburger? Catchup? Okay? Okay, I'm like bun
meat cheese, catchup. Okay, I'm not judging you. Yeah, I
don't need to like pickles. I like cucumbers that pickle
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before their pickles, right, but I don't like pickles at all,
especially my Chick fil a sandwich ruins it Okay, Well,
if anybody's tried the sandwich, we need to review We
should review it on the show, on our show, our
new show, What do you somehow we've now turned on
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our show. I do want to say just quickly before
we wrap that the live is in Nashville on March,
which is Saturday. But on March that Friday, we're doing
a pop up shop for Haiti. It's going to be
at Restore hyper Wellness, which is where I do cryotherapy
in Brentwood. It's on Franklin Road. I say that because
there's more restores in town, but partnered with them to
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put a bunch of four things merch, pimp and joy
espoa all the things. The shot forward is going to
be mailing a bunch of stuff and it's going to
be special pricing for that day because like a flash
sale pop up shop to just raise money for Haiti.
Of the proceeds going to the orphanage where I adopted
my kids from, and we're very excited about it. It's
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gonna be from four to seven, so sort of consider
it a happy hour. There's gonna be a cocktail bar there,
a little bar cart with bartenders and all of that's
on the house. We're covering it. Actually, the bar cart
place said, well, oh, since this is for Haiti, we'll
cover it. I just need you to cover the bartenders,
and like, oh yeah, no problem. I want that to
be a gift to people that are coming. And there
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will be TIFFs, treats, cookies and maybe some other snacks
and different things. But I'll be there, likely working because
I feel like I'm gonna need to be checking people out.
But if you're coming to town for something different, or
you're coming to town for the live show, or you
live in town, then come be so fun on Friday.
It's something to do Friday from four to seven, a
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little pop up shop happy hour for Haiti. Got it?
Are you gonna come obviously? Okay? I hope. So we're
going to see how to bring man in the night
before you know that, right? I forgot. That's Thursday, Friday
in the show Saturday, we're very busy. You should have
hired me to be the bartender. Well no, legally they
have to use their bartenders that have like for t ABC,
you can't just serve it. I don't want to be
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liable for serving alcohol and I don't want to do that.
I just want to steer clear that I want to
make sure we don't want to get arrested by the
books there. So that's just something fun. I hope people
will come to. But yeah, heathern Van, Thursday night me
you and Bay Ray's wife. Friday night pop up shop,
Saturday two shows three pm, seven pm, and then Sunday
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maybe your relaxed breath breath, chill hang out. Except for
I feel some people are coming in town and they're
staying at my house, and so I feel as though
Sunday I'm gonna sort of be hosting in a way.
But maybe I'll just set the stage early on. These
are the expectations. Don't have any Just come hang out
and we wake up there, make yourself at home. There's
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a fridge, there's a pantry, there's food, bathrooms, whatever you need,
don't Yeah, I don't wake we have I don't know.
I'll probably be on cloud nine, so I probably won't
be able to sleep that much. You'll probably get up
like at six am, and who wants to hang out
and talk? Yeah, I made bacon, cinnamons, whatever you need, eggs,
Mega's it's a mega never had a Mega micas you
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never had megas. I don't know what a mega is.
MIGA's miga saying. I'm saying like I say, mega, we
got with an s mega. Okay, it's eggs maybe the
way I make it every place, it's a Mexican dish, eggs, cheese, hotel,
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cut up tortilla chips. Amount like eggs. You don't all
come for like something else that you make. You don't
like any kind of egg No, the smell of eggs,
the thought of eggs, the vision of eggs, pickles. I'll
come for the piles wonder. You don't know what megas are? Okay,
all right, I hope you'll are having the day that
you need to have. Imm
Happy Tuesday, Welcome to the Fifth Thing. I'm Amy and
I'm Cat. And our quote today, well, I have lots
of them. They're Valentine's Day quotes because this episode released
on Valentine's Day, which speaking of Valentine's Day and love,
I did a devotional this last weekend that was talking
about how we need to see those that we love
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through a lens of compassion. And you know, if you're
getting treated a certain way, sort of like they say,
hurt people, hurt people, and it's like, oh, okay, I'm
gonna try to understand why they're acting this way, and
I'm gonna see them through this lens. And obviously if
it's something severe and then it's work they need to do,
you don't need to really be a part of that.
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But I don't know. It's just a reminder even in
all kinds of relationships, even if it's with the person
checking you out at the grocery store that's nasty and rude,
maybe if they are have compassion and be like, I
have no idea what's going on in their life today.
If it's your significant other that's nasty and rude, It
depends on the level and what you might need to
do with that, But see what maybe is a little
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bit deeper, like, oh wow, I wonder if they're really
struggling with something right now, or something happened at work,
or they have something going on with a friend, or
they have a headache or they're hurting well, because you're
saying like, people aren't just mean for no reason. So
if somebody's snappy at you, it's like, oh, I bet
something's happening and they're not really trying to hurt my feelings,
So I'm gonna offer them some compassion the lens of love.
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I like it because that was a good lens of
love on Valentine's Day. Thought it was a good reminder,
which you're going to vout New York not for Valentine's Day,
like to celebrate it, but for your one year anniversary
to big Peak. We are doing that. But I don't
think we planned it for an anniversary trip that it is,
but but it is because that's what we And so
(01:47):
I do you think you're gonna get engaged? Okay, I'm
gonna be honest with everybody. When we planned it, I
was like, oh, this would be a really good time
for us to get engaged because I knew we were
going to get engaged after a year, but the closer
we get it's not gonna happen. So I'm not going
to get my hopes up. Okay, but you've already looked
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at rings. Have you said that publicly? Sorry, but we've
looked at rings. Okay. So it's some Balanda and stay
quotes for all kinds of people, because some people listening
are not in a relationship and they could care less.
But if you're madly in love like Cat and Big P,
if I could have anyone in the world, it would
still be you. You should use that one on him.
I'll put that in my card. But honestly, if you
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could have anyone in the world, I'm just kidding, Patrick,
I would pick you. Patrick. If you're watching, she would
pick you a hundred million times over. My winking is
getting better. I just winked. We're filming this for the
first time, by the way, That's why I said I
winked into the camera. So it's something fun that Kat
and I are trying out because trying cool and we're
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trying to try new things because we want to try
and this is one of them. And we'll see how
it goes like Cat's gonna probably try a bagel with
cream cheese also on camera. Well, I don't know that's
I'll do it in New York. I'll go to a
special bagel shop and I'll get a bagel with butter,
and then I'll get a bagel with schmir. I wondered
that's what you order when you don't want a lot
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of cream cheese, Just like a tiny of cream cheese.
I'll eat a bagel with cream cheese. I don't record
it in New York. Can let you guys know how
it goes? It trying mainly, the point of that is
just try new things and don't be so scared of them.
Maybe next time you won't cry when you get cream
cream cheese is scary on your bagel. Okay, So if
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you're testing out a relationship before you marry a person,
you should first make them use a computer with slow
internet service to see who they really are. That's from
Will Ferrell. How are you with slow Internet? I mean
it's not like we really have had to deal with
that in recent years, because I feel like we're all
pretty high speed. But sometimes if technologically something is going wrong,
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I can get pretty fired up and frustrated. But I
would like to think that whoever is with you will
see me through a lens of love. And just know,
if you're going through a breakup, don't feel bad if
you see your ex with someone else. Remember our parents
taught us to give things we don't need to the
less fortunate unknown. If you deal with fear. This is
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from my character on the Office, Michael Scott. Would I
rather be feared or loved? Easy? Both? I want people
to be afraid of how much they love me. You
want to know something interesting, Yeah, I've never seen The Office.
You should. I'll try it. I'll try that, try it
because trying it's cool. If you're looking to make a
drastic change. A man's job is to protect his woman
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from her desire to get bangs every other month. That's
from Dak Shepherd. And did you see on It was
either on TikTok or Instagram reels, But Haley Bieber cut
her hair real short or listen. I'm not up to
date on her hairstyle when she did it, but I
just saw this the other day and this so it
shows Haley Bieber and she looks all good and her
hair is all short and awesome, and then it cut
(05:00):
to this girl sitting in her car and she's looking
straight into the camera and she's like, don't do it.
Don't do it, Like basically, don't look at this new
Hailey Biber hair do and go to your hair person
and get your hair chopped off because it's gonna look
real cute because your hair person did it. And then
a few days are gonna go by and you're gonna
have to wash it and then style it yourself and
it's gonna be a hot mess. So don't do it.
(05:20):
I did that during COVID. I chopped my hair off,
and I wanted to cry every single day after. Not
that the haircut was bad, but what was I thinking.
I often want to do the bangs, So I guess, yeah,
if you have friends or a significant other that can
keep you from chopping your hair off or cutting bangs.
That was a funny little quote from Duck's Shepherd. Another
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thing I saw on Instagram to regarding Valentine's Day was
this video of the scroll going I do not want
flowers for Valentine's Day and she's like banging into the
camera and then people were using it as their own
little mix, and then it would cut to the person
that's making the video and using that clip and saying
I want cash. Then MO will work. Is that what
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you want? I don't really like flowers. I like a plant.
I guess that's true. Like your flowers die in like
a week. I like the gesture of flowers, But you're right,
I guess I would like to have something that I
can like have forever. Yeah. I mean I don't have
plants forever because then the flowers die, then they like
the water gets brown, and then it becomes like some
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people love fresh flowers flowers, and I am like, okay,
take it or leave it. Okay. I will never buy
you flowers. I think that flowers are good for other
people that love flowers. I think flowers are beautiful, but
for me, if you're going to spend money on me,
I would rather be something else. If I get flowers,
I'm not gonna be mad about it. Flowers are pretty
and they brighten my day, but it's not my first choice.
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You wouldn't say I don't. Can you take these back? Right?
Can you exchange these? Yeah? I want cash? Then MO
will work? Which best Valentine's Day candy? You're asking me
a Rec's heart, A Rec's is the best candy any tree,
Christmas tree and egg Reese's egg, Rees's Heart. Is there
anymore Reese's pumpkin? Oh? Yeah, for Helloween, I stockpile the
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holiday Rec's and I always have them around. You say Reese's,
and I say Reese's. Am I saying it wrong? Said Reese's.
It's Rec's, Reese's, Reese's cup, Reese's cup. Is this like
the almond and almond? And I don't know? And a
pom pom pom pom. Well, I think because you say almond,
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and you say, I don't say almond. I say, some
people do, I say almond. I was gonna say. I
was using that as an example of how people say
things differently. Rec's Yeah, let me say Reese's cup. Let's
say Reese's. Now, I don't know what I say. Reese's pieces.
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I saw that the cut put up a Valentine's daycandy
and they ranked it, and the op ones were the
Reese's peanut better hearts, which we love heart shaped ding dongs.
Thought that you've never had a ding dong, the little
chocolate cake with the white inside. That's not candy. I
guess since they make them heart shape for Halloween, they
added it in. I get it. Do the heart shaped
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ding Dong made it a box of chocolates. Those are
so unpredictable because you don't know what you're getting, but
they're also fun, like I like kind of biting in
and then seeing and then being like, nah, I don't
like this. But do you like any of them? Sometimes? Uh? Yeah,
caramel like some with nuts a brittle, like if there's
a toffee on the inside there's a cherry inside. No.
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And then chocolate on chocolate on the inside, or vanilla cream.
I don't that because it's like the soft moose on
the inside, like a truffle. I guess, so like fudge
on the inside. I know it's not my favorite. Um.
And then sour patch kid hearts. I didn't even know
they made those. I guess they do because they rank
as some of the Halloween candies and candy or flowers. Candy, Okay,
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what about you? Candy or flowers? I would like to
have both of them, but I would take the candy. Yeah,
which speaking in candy and maybe even heard shake ding
Dongs cake anything makes you think of the Gwyn Chamblin
movie that you sent me that's on Lifetime? Did you
watch it? Did cake? Anything makes you think of the
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Gwyn Chamblin movie that you sent me that's on Lifetime?
Did you watch it? Did? I don't have the channel
that's on I don't either. You sent me a link
and I clicked it and it worked, and then I
watched commercials like my Lifetime dot com. You sent me
the link, and that's how I watched it. I forgot
thirty minutes trying to figure out how to stream it
this week and I sent you a link. Yes, you
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sent me the link and I clicked on it and
I was like, oh wow, okay, I can just watch
it right here from my computer. And then I had
to watch the commercials. But I was like, man, I
forgot how good Lifetime was because you see other movies
that are up. There are options, but it's called Starving
for Salvation. And I watched the HBO Max documentary, so
this was interesting. And Jennifer Gray plays Gwen and she
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does such a great job. Did you watch her? And
Dirty Dancing? No? No, I've probably never seen it. Homework.
Dirty Dancing is one of my all time top three
favorite movies ever. But she does a really good job
playing Gwyn, Like it's crazy how good it is. And
you get a little bit more of the backstory of
how she really thought God was speaking to her to,
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you know, start this diet and the way down workshop
and then ultimately make it a church because she decided
that the Trinity wasn't a thing. I don't know if
that was addressed in the documentary. Her trinity is different
for some right, Yeah, And gosh, it was really crazy.
I guess I didn't know some of the or I
didn't pay attention to the documentary, or maybe it is
(11:03):
a movie so they might be adding things here and there.
But I just thought it was really interesting seeing a
little bit of her life before it began and when
it all started to come to her. Because she was
a nutritionist and she said that like one of her
clients was like, I don't know, I just feel empty
or something, and she was like, what does that even mean?
What is she empty for? And then one day she
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was like at her kitchen table eating cake and she
realized she she prayed and she said, Lord, I don't
want to eat this cake anymore. And she's she told
her husband and then I didn't want the cake. The
desire went away. So it's that simple. I was like,
oh gosh, this is crazy. I thought it was really good.
I liked it. I would recommend watching the HBO Max
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special or the Lifetime movie. Do both, because what order
do you think? Watch the documentary first? Yeah, well that's
what I did, But you could do either. Did the
movie give you a better ability to look at her
with a lens of love of it? Sounds like you're
seeing from her perspective versus like, Okay, she's not She's
not nice. Not nice. I feel as though maybe in
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the beginning maybe she was, but then it just got
she got so wrapped up in it. There was a
bridesmaid scene where she's about to get married to the
news she's gotten divorced from her original pastor husband and
she's marrying the guy that died in the plane crash
with her, the pilot that was also an actor ish
wasn't he Tarzan ye back in the day. And they're
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in the bridle shop in the movie, and all the
bridesmaids are trying on their dresses and she tells one
of them that can't get it zipped up. You can't
be in my wedding. You've fallen off. You need to
get back on track. And I think that that was
the same girl. She's like, if you can't, then you
need to leave the church. What I've heard stories like
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that before. Obviously everything is a rumor, but like, I've
been a bridesmaid in a lot of weddings and sometimes
the dress is too tight, and usually the response you, guys,
it's okay, like we'll figure it out, Like if you
have to wear a different dress, that's not the worst.
And she's like, you can't even be in our church. Well,
first you're not gonna be in the wedding, so I
don't think she stood up there, and then if you
don't get this under control, then you might as well
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leave the church with her thinking, Yeah, it's very interesting
which dirty dancing? You have to watch it. The whole
time I'm watching Jennifer Gray, I'm thinking, such a different
character is Patrick Swayze. Such a good scene from the
movie is when they're in this cabin and they're dancing
to this song cry to Me, don't you feel like crying?
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And I remember as a kid being so uncomfortable because
it's leading into like a love scene. And I was
a kid, and this is my favorite movie. My favorite
movies as a kid, Pretty Woman, dirty Dancing, still my noise,
all very serious topics. Yeah, I mean because yes they
even tackle abortion and dirty dancing. But I had no
idea that's what they were doing. I was like, oh,
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she lost a baby, but you didn't know what was
going on. Baby's dad was a doctor, and yes, like you, yeah,
you have to watch the movie. Do you want to
know my favorite movies as a kid compare Lion King. Oh?
I was thinking more like adolescent sisters have the traveling
Pants and Princess Diaries. Cute, that's yeah, So who of
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you an the love scene? The cry to me? I
just was saying, if you watch it, you might get
uncomfortable during that. But also we're adults now, but if
you're watching it with big pee like, oh, we can't
watch a love scene to guess, coming up with your eyes.
But that's how my parents took me a Pretty Woman
in the theater because I guess they wanted to go
(14:38):
see it and they couldn't get a sitter or canceled
or something. And I remember during certain scenes my parents
would just like my dad yeah, yeah, And I didn't
realize she was a prostitute. But well, now you know,
Now I know, Now I know. And anytime I hear
that song, cry to me. Have you ever read the song?
Don't you feel like crying? No, it's jam that's really good.
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I cried at the grocery store because I dropped sour
cream the other day. I think it wasn't wait, just
over the dropped sour cream? Did it spill everywhere where?
I had to go get help? Where were you? And
then I'm crying. There's a worker helping me. It's the
whole thing. I'm not bawling crying, but I'm crying. But
I realized, Okay, there's gotta be something else going on
with me. This is deeper. This isn't just about the
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sour cream. So I got in the car and then
I got home. I processed a little bit more, and
I realized, oh, I feel like this could probably be it.
And I've been suppressing it and acting like it's not
that big of a deal. And it is a big deal.
So now I'm going to try to journal through and
work through it and see if that was what it was.
Because I wouldn't normally cry in the dairy aisle. You
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would take a big deal. I need to go get right,
like we're gonna clean this up and move on with
our day. But I definitely just had a little teeny
tiny meltdown. I had the day I needed to have.
I had the cry I needed to have. Fit the
employee at Publix. Now you're crying, I don't think so
how did she respond? It was a young teenage boy, okay,
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how how did they respond? Old lady is crying. I
don't know what is happening. There wasn't a lens of love,
if that's what you mean. There was no compassion. But
he didn't know cleaning up the sour cream, and I
was like, you know, trying to keep it together again.
I wasn't bawling. The sour cream situation triggered the tears
(16:28):
that probably need not even probably I know they need.
They needed to come out good for you. So, so,
did you get another thing in sour cream or we
just don't have that now? No? I got it? Okay,
thank god. I love sour cream. I have to keep
that in the fridge at all times. I'm a little
bit obsessed with it because I mix it with the
daily harvest bowl that I'm obsessed with is this sweet
potato wild rice kind of got a little Mexican flared
(16:50):
to it, and I love stirring in the sour cream
to that and crumpling up chips on top with a
little lady Cholula on top. It's just called cholula, but
some for some reason, I call her lady on the front.
I know. I came across this article talking about which
organs are affected by our different things that we do.
(17:11):
Because what do you mean, Well, like me crying overream
our emotions if we hold stuff out, so what do
you affect when you drop the cream? I'm not a doctor,
but I found this fascinating. That worry, like if we're
worried about something that weakens our stomach. That's because anxiety
and worry can upset the delicate balance of digestion. And
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some people stress slows down digestion, causing bloating, pain and constipation,
while in others it speeds it up, causing area and
frequently and frequent trips to the loo, so to the bathroom.
How the study came from the UK, and some people
lose their appetite completely, so worry weakens your stomach. Then
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grief weakens your lungs. When someone is sad, they hold
their breath and oxygen is decreased. The emotional blockage of
not letting go and the symptom of grief effects receiving
and letting go in the lungs to make sure you're breathing.
Fear weakens your kidneys, Stress weakens your heart and brain,
and anger weakens your liver. And people that hold on
(18:17):
to anger or they're like always angry, that can shorten
their life, like seventeen years. Do they die of like
liver disease? I don't know for sure. I feel like
each thing people could look up if this is interesting
to them, they could see like I did, for the
stomach and the lungs, like which one. But I don't.
I feel like most people, if they have a liver disease,
it could be something else. But I'm generalizing here. A
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few alcoholics that I have known have been very angry.
So alcohol is aboud for the liver, and then anger
is bad for the liver, and then liver disease is common.
But it could just be the alcohol. Again, not a doctor.
Feelings make a difference. I I got sidetracked because when
you talked about the worry, I don't think I told
you this. Last week. I convinced myself that had colon cancer.
(19:12):
Why well, because I didn't go to the bathroom for
a really long time and it scared me, and so
I started googling it like how many days? What's a
long time? Thursday to what's today? Friday? Thursday to Wednesday. Yeah,
was basically a week. And so I started freaking out,
and I did a lot of research and I did
ed to do that. I know, but I've learned so
much about poop and I convinced myself I had colon cancer.
(19:37):
Then I was like, what did I do? Because colon
cancer is supposed to happen to like you're in your
fifties and like, I'm young, but now you're adding more worry, right,
So now, when you said that, I was like, oh
my gosh, it was probably like something happened. And then
because I was worried, then it added to my It's
like when you're angry and then you're an alcoholic, you
get liver disease when you I'm not well. I know,
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
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But I was just just like, oh my gosh, how
do I relax when I'm scared about that stuff? So
then I don't make it worse. I don't know I
should have gotten a massage. I think the worst thing
we can do if we think we have something is
try to google about it. I don't even want to
put the thoughts out there that I'm We were just
talking about our friend Patrick, who we both know, and
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he was on Outway with me, and then I was
on his podcast, Rooted Stories and Recoveries what it's called,
and he had a brain tumor. And the crazy thing
is he was always scared of having a brain tumor.
It was one of his biggest fears. He had no
reason to fear that other than I don't know, somewhere
he saw I'm not a brain tumor, and he was like,
oh my gosh, I do not want to get I'm
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so terrified I'm going to get a great brain tumor.
And he got a brain tumor, but I don't think
he thought that into his brain. It's just wild to me.
I wonder if the brain tumor was already there and
somehow it was his body was about this because I'm here, like,
you need to worry about this because you need to
go get help. I like that way of thinking of it,
versus like like, oh, you manifested this in your body.
(21:03):
But I like that, So then you know what that means.
We need to really pay attention to when we have
those little worries. How do I pay at attention? How
do I pay attention to the worry without exaggerating it?
So I should have just gone to the doctor so
I could move on, but instead I was like planning
the end of my life. Okay, now you're making me
(21:25):
think that you need to pay attention to the facts
that your brain told you colon cancer. But then this
could get out of going the doctor on Monday. Okay,
good for other reasons, but I'll bring it up. Bring
it up. Maybe you need to book a colon oscarpy
because I have one book at the mid March. How
old do you do you start doing those? Well, I'm
forty two. I'm going to be forty two in March.
(21:45):
So because my mom died of anal cancer I at
age forty, I have to get one a year. Okay,
but that's because of my family history. I think most
people it's after the age of forty and maybe every
five years or so. But I mean, I would just
see what your doctor says based on what they find,
and when you go get the colonoscopy, then they'll say, Okay,
you're all good, come back and however, many years and
(22:07):
that's who you need to listen to, don't listen to me.
I went to my gynecologist recently and that's when she
reminded me, Hey, it's time you need to start doing this,
and I would recommend you get it done every year.
You have to do it every year. Yeah, starting now.
I should have started at forty, but I kind of
put it off. Get I turned forty in the pandemic. Yeah,
that's not real. Top of my list wasn't go get
(22:29):
a colonoscopy. But anal cancer is very real and that's
what my mom had. But she had to pay attention
to things. You have to pay attention to your body
and that's how she discovered it. But it is treatable
if you discover it early on. So rectal cancer, colon cancer,
and anal cancer all different. I learned that during my
research because my mom was basically begging the doctor to
(22:53):
let her say she had colon cancer because that sounded
better than anal and he said no. And then even
when it's spread to other parts of her body, when
I'm metastasized, she's like, oh, awesome, now I can say
I have liver cancer. And he's like, nope, you have
anal cancer in your liver. It's like, get rid of this,
(23:14):
you know, maybe to counter this, we can share some
ways we can take care of our organs. Okay, So
I looked some up, because that's where you're well. First
of all, eating lots of fruits and vegetables, which it
makes me think of your friend that doesn't eat any
fruits or vegetables ever. Show eat fruit sometimes, okay, but
(23:35):
never a vegetable for her. I'm not I'm not judging
that is what I'm saying. Well, it's okay if you
are why I don't want to. I think it's okay
that yeah, you're saying this is this might be scary, Okay,
you're not like, oh, you're a dumb, stupid person, just
saying like, yikes, worried for your organs to fine. We
tell her all the time, like we gotta work on this.
(23:56):
So eating a lot of vegetables and fruit. Don't use tobacco,
vey products, alcohol or drugs. I mean, I think it
means in excess. You know, I guess what. I was
only hearing what I wanted to hear, and I just
heard you say don't bait, but I'm like, oh, no problem,
but there's alcohol in there. I just ignored that part.
Exercise as often as you can. This one is big.
This was on the list. Stay aware of your emotions
(24:19):
and moods. So if you cry over sour cream, did
people pay attention, See what the root of the tears
are so that you're not stuffing it down and then
you know the stomach problems. Get enough sleep where proper
protection at homeworker play. I think that that's for if
(24:40):
you're wanting to protect your organs from getting external like yeah, injured,
because you can at homeworker. And then also, I'm just
going to say this to your healthcare provider, if you
think something really may be wrong, it's a small print
because I definitely don't want to be responsible for any
(25:00):
of that. You sent me a text message that said
Chick fil A's coming out with a cauliflower sandwich. Yes,
I didn't read the article. I just sent you the screenshot,
but it's some limited locations, so I don't know if
you can even get it in our area. But so
it's like a fried chicken sandwich like they do cauliflower, okay,
which I think is cool because it's for like, if
(25:21):
you're a vegetarian, now you can expire sandwich with a
cauliflower on it. But I just don't know if that's
what I would ever order at Chick fil A. No.
I get the Chick fil a sandwich, sometimes spicy, sometimes not.
No pickle, waffle fries, and a diet coke. Of course, pickle.
It's like the best part. Now, I hate pickles. You
don't remember I threw up a pickle when I was
(25:43):
in Pep squad. I can't have a pickle. You can't
have a pickle? Yes, in sixth grade? What do you
put on your hamburger? Catchup? Okay? Okay, I'm like bun
meat cheese, catchup. Okay, I'm not judging you. Yeah, I
don't need to like pickles. I like cucumbers that pickle
(26:04):
before their pickles, right, but I don't like pickles at all,
especially my Chick fil a sandwich ruins it Okay, Well,
if anybody's tried the sandwich, we need to review We
should review it on the show, on our show, our
new show, What do you somehow we've now turned on
(26:25):
our show. I do want to say just quickly before
we wrap that the live is in Nashville on March,
which is Saturday. But on March that Friday, we're doing
a pop up shop for Haiti. It's going to be
at Restore hyper Wellness, which is where I do cryotherapy
in Brentwood. It's on Franklin Road. I say that because
there's more restores in town, but partnered with them to
(26:49):
put a bunch of four things merch, pimp and joy
espoa all the things. The shot forward is going to
be mailing a bunch of stuff and it's going to
be special pricing for that day because like a flash
sale pop up shop to just raise money for Haiti.
Of the proceeds going to the orphanage where I adopted
my kids from, and we're very excited about it. It's
(27:09):
gonna be from four to seven, so sort of consider
it a happy hour. There's gonna be a cocktail bar there,
a little bar cart with bartenders and all of that's
on the house. We're covering it. Actually, the bar cart
place said, well, oh, since this is for Haiti, we'll
cover it. I just need you to cover the bartenders,
and like, oh yeah, no problem. I want that to
be a gift to people that are coming. And there
(27:31):
will be TIFFs, treats, cookies and maybe some other snacks
and different things. But I'll be there, likely working because
I feel like I'm gonna need to be checking people out.
But if you're coming to town for something different, or
you're coming to town for the live show, or you
live in town, then come be so fun on Friday.
It's something to do Friday from four to seven, a
(27:51):
little pop up shop happy hour for Haiti. Got it?
Are you gonna come obviously? Okay? I hope. So we're
going to see how to bring man in the night
before you know that, right? I forgot. That's Thursday, Friday
in the show Saturday, we're very busy. You should have
hired me to be the bartender. Well no, legally they
have to use their bartenders that have like for t ABC,
you can't just serve it. I don't want to be
(28:12):
liable for serving alcohol and I don't want to do that.
I just want to steer clear that I want to
make sure we don't want to get arrested by the
books there. So that's just something fun. I hope people
will come to. But yeah, heathern Van, Thursday night me
you and Bay Ray's wife. Friday night pop up shop,
Saturday two shows three pm, seven pm, and then Sunday
(28:36):
maybe your relaxed breath breath, chill hang out. Except for
I feel some people are coming in town and they're
staying at my house, and so I feel as though
Sunday I'm gonna sort of be hosting in a way.
But maybe I'll just set the stage early on. These
are the expectations. Don't have any Just come hang out
and we wake up there, make yourself at home. There's
(28:56):
a fridge, there's a pantry, there's food, bathrooms, whatever you need,
don't Yeah, I don't wake we have I don't know.
I'll probably be on cloud nine, so I probably won't
be able to sleep that much. You'll probably get up
like at six am, and who wants to hang out
and talk? Yeah, I made bacon, cinnamons, whatever you need, eggs,
Mega's it's a mega never had a Mega micas you
(29:19):
never had megas. I don't know what a mega is.
MIGA's miga saying. I'm saying like I say, mega, we
got with an s mega. Okay, it's eggs maybe the
way I make it every place, it's a Mexican dish, eggs, cheese, hotel,
(29:41):
cut up tortilla chips. Amount like eggs. You don't all
come for like something else that you make. You don't
like any kind of egg No, the smell of eggs,
the thought of eggs, the vision of eggs, pickles. I'll
come for the piles wonder. You don't know what megas are? Okay,
all right, I hope you'll are having the day that
you need to have. Imm
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