From Amy’s confusion over her shapewear to Kat’s fun date ideas that shake things up, this episode has a little bit of everything. You’ll learn about how the ‘boop’ method could come in handy for you when things are tense in your relationship (Amy recalls a sweet memory of her mom using ‘boop’ on her dad shortly before she passed away!), you’ll hear a voicemail from Mary (is she our older listener?) and you’ll love (or hate) Kat’s ratings system when it comes to ways to cope with anxiety! Also, if you’re ever in a situation where you need to shut a conversation down…Amy & Kat share ways to respectfully do so!
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
If you ever have feelings that you just wonts Amy
and Cat got your cover and locking m brother ladies
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telling front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and
the m but Swayne. Sometimes the best thing you can
do it jes stop you feel things. This is feeling things.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
With Amy and Kat.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm
Kat and we're kicking things off today with a question,
okay from me to you Kat and anybody else listening.
Are you aware of skims having little holes down there
when you put them on?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
What?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Wait? Yes, well I got this is gonna be something
very different, so you can okay to the bathroom without
taking them off.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Genius. I'm going to tell you all the different feelings
I had when I recently bought some because I have
a pair of skims that I've bought before and they
don't have a hole, so I don't think they all
have a hole?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Is it full butted? Full butted with shorts?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
No? Like compression? What are they called? They're like spanks,
but SPANX is the og, so I have spanks as well.
None with a p hole.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Na, huh Kat.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Obviously, the p hole is very new to me because
I didn't know. I bought these at Nordstrum last minute
for something, and I thought I got a bad batch.
Like I thought they were ripped, and I thought, oh no,
I ripped them because they're so tiny and they're tight,
and you put them on and they and I thought,
oh no, I pulled them too tight, and I ripped
a hole and then ill. But I didn't realize it
(01:48):
was well, it would make sense there's a seam there
that you could rip it. But then to your point,
I did feel around. I'm like, oh, this seems like
a well constructed soone hole. Oh my gosh, this is
a hole so I can go pee. Like if I
had not felt that or not known, if I had
to go to the bathroom, I would have pulled them
all the way down.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
This is interesting that you've never You've owned many pairs
of spanks.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
And I've never had a pair a hole.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Never had a pair without a hole really well, unless
it was not like.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I'll go show you mine. I mean, I believe you,
I know, I just feel like I thought I was
going to be shocking you with information.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
No wait, and did you try to return it?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
No, because I realized that the hole wasposed to be there,
but I almost I was really bummed I had I
bought them that day and had to wear them that day,
so it was putting them on really quick, and I thought, oh, dang,
I rip them and I'm like, I can't take these
back because I have to wear them. But this is
a bummer. Maybe I'll deal with it later, like I'll
take it back and be like I swear right wing
up with these on, there was a hole and then
they would be like, mana, this is a pee hole.
(02:54):
But luckily my trained eye because I used to sew
batter day, I realized like, oh, this is a a
purposeful hole.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
So then did it just like feel so amazing to
have that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
All the different feelings I had, I think when I
was telling you, I was like I have something to
tell you where I had a range of emotions, Like
at first I was like bums because I was like,
dang it, I just bought these and they're expensive and
I got like a dud, but I have to wear
them and am I going to be able to return them?
And then I was more perplexed and like curious, like hmmm,
and I'm feeling around, and then I was like, wow,
(03:30):
this is amazing. This is a hole.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Yeah, that solves a huge problem.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, I can see that for a lot of reasons.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay, I thought I.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Was gonna be like telling you something. You'd be like,
shut up, they had make ones with holes.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I thought you were gonna be telling me something really
crazy too. I was like, look, could this.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Week Okay, wait, Shannon and Cat are in here. Did
y'all know they make those with holes?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Wait? Really?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Okay Shannon didn't know Cat. Okay, three women, four women
in a room, and three of us didn't know they
made them with holes.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
This is like crazy to me because I've never had
them without the hole.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Where are you shopping?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Minor skims and spanks.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Simple pleasures or whatever that place is?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Oh, I know I'm shopping the same place as you're shopping.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Now, what are you and Big P are doing?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
So?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Well?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Because I have with the whole well.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Because that was my next thing that I wanted to
talk about, was you and Big PM blindfolds?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Yeah. I blindfolded him about five or six times yesterday.
Tell us more. Okay, so this turned out to be
a much cooler thing that I thought it was going
to be. Originally, we decided he loves march badness. I
don't love sports, but he loves it. So I wanted
(04:58):
to like be in it with them. So I was like,
I'll do a racket with you, sure, But to make
it fun, we had a bet. And so the bet was, obviously,
we're not going to bet money because you know we
share that and I doesn't feel like you win anything.
So the winner, no, the loser had to plan a
full day of surprises of all the winner's favorite things
(05:21):
as their price. Anyway, So I lost obviously, And again
this was like not a competitive thing. I probably knew
I was gonna lose, and so what I did is
yesterday I planned from like seven am to we got
home at nine to fifteen pm. Yes, yes, And I
originally scheduled a break in there, but then I was like, oh,
(05:42):
I have some things that we can go do.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Y'all were gone that you had stuff planned that were gone.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
We left the house at like eight and our first
and I blindfolded him everywhere we went, so he would
get in the car, put the blindfold on, then we
would drive there and then he would take the blindfold off. Well.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I know when I was watching this, I thought to myself,
I was like, can big peer doing life right? Like
whatever it is y'all are doing, like it just seems
so fun, Like your relationship seems so fun. And I
know you talked the other day or I guess the
other week on a recent episode about pretend vacations in
town and then now you're all blindfolding each other and
(06:20):
y'all do all these you take pottery classes and you
do those movie nights that you're talking about too, Like
y'all just y'all are doing it right. Yeah, whatever it is,
I need more of that.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well, and this is an easy thing to I mean, you.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Don't have to do there's a game to do it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
You could just do it, and you don't have to
spend a lot of money to do it either. One
of the places, multiple of the places we went, we
didn't spend any money.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
So, like, give an example of something you did.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So play pickleball free, went to the driving range that
was like ten dollars. We went to Pins, which is
a bar in Nashville that has all different kinds.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Of games, pins mechanical.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
And we played like Jenga and then this other game
for free. I got a diet coke was three dollars,
the most expensive one is. We went to TEJ Man.
He loves TJ Max.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Wait, wait, like why he loves it?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I mean I like shirts, yes, okay, I love home Goods,
but he just likes.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
To look for shirts there. He loves him because he
can get like a cool shirt for ten dollars. He
loves it. That's so yeah. That was when I was like,
we could go home. I was like, or I could
take you to TJ Max. And he also guessed that one.
He was like, you're gonna take me TJ Max, Like
he loves the shop. That's so cute. Only at TJ
Max he hates them all anyway. Then we ended at
(07:34):
david Busters, which was another game place we love to
play games.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
David Busters. That's makes me think of that NFL player
that lived here that got killed, Steve McNair. Have you
watch it documentary?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yes? Well I don't remember David Busters being part of it.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah he met oh girlfriend there.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
She wasn't there. Oh wait did she die?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Oh yeah, okay, murder suicide, but we.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Don't know who did what that one's still out.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
In that's that's that's tricky. Yeah, I mean I think
that there's conspiracy theorists. If you watch the documentary, it
seems pretty clear, but you can also tell that some
people are like, well but I think maybe that's okay.
It happened, so we don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
For I remember watching that and being like, we don't
there wasn't a resolution.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, that's a documentary that is interesting to watch. I
recently watched the The Fall of Brett farv That.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I watched that and you know what, yeah, total loser.
And you know that's my alma mater, alma mater.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Alma Mark. That's a hard word.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
That's about southern Mississippi. Yeah, that's our one claim to fame.
And it's him.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, well, hey you got a new volleyball court. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And when they showed a picture of that, I was like, Patrick,
that's what he that's what.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
He had to build something like it was small though.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
He was like, yeah, it holds like I don't know
ten people. It looks small. It looks small, and it's
still from welfare.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
A million from welfare to not worth it build it?
I mean, what a shady, shady.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Guy that was upsetting to watch.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
It's not to completely deras because we're not a sports podcast,
thank god. But whenever I think of David Buster's now,
I think of that like how more of like the
butterfly effect of how one decision to go somewhere one
day and meeting one person and then the changes your
(09:23):
whole life. I mean, all the little decisions that we
make add up. And have you watched Friends and Neighbors
or whatever it is with John Hammer.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I had to stop watching it. Why because I was
getting anxiety and I wanted to be like, stop doing that.
It's going to be bad.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yeah, because he's stealing from his neighbors, and you know
something bad's going to happen. So John Hamm is in
it pretty sure. It's on Apple or Max Apple or
Max Apple TV. It's Friends and Neighbors or something like that,
and he sort of says a line somewhere that like
(09:59):
it's not like one big thing just like happened to him.
Looking back, he realizes like it's a was a bunch
of like little tiny decisions that added up to.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
You know what that reminds me of what a million
little things. Yeah, he says that it's not one big thing.
It's a million little things that matter. So you can
look at that both ways.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, they all matter. It doesn't have to all and
tragically Yeah like that, Yeah it did well. So anyway,
Big P and Kat are like the feeling I would
give y'all assigned to y'all. It's just fun.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
That's what I asked him today. Uh, what three feelings
he felt yesterday? I'm gonna read way he said.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
His feelings were excitement, gratitude, and joy.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I mean, if that's not living life to your fullest,
then I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Also, it was it was a Sunday, and to me
that was a big deal because Sundays are usually very
routine for us, so this was a way for us
to get. In my head, I'm like, I want to
get the most out of life. Let's get something out
of a day. We normally wouldn't do anything. We would
get up, probably go for a walk, go to the
grocery store, lay around clean see.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
But that sounds like a pretty fantastic day to me,
Like if every single I'm trying to think, if you
were like blind guy, you're like Amy blindfold yourself. I'm
gonna take you to the vacuum.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yeah, uh, swiffer sweeper.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
And the little you know when it like shoots out
the little cleaner spray stuff and then you get to
mop it.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
And you're like okay, and now we're gonna go upstairs.
We're gonna wash your debet cover.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Well, your day would be really inexpensive.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
And then we're gonna lay down and just watch. We're
gonna binge. What did I just binge? The better sister? Oh?
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I want to watch that. Yeah, well, your boyfriend can
plan this day for you, and you've already given him
the perfect itinerary.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I mean I would go walk like you could plan
a walk and then maybe like pick up food, go
and bring it home. There was like any like out
of like do I want to go to Pins Mechanical?
Speaker 3 (12:04):
No, you don't want to go play games.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I want to play pickle ball, okay, and I would
go to the driving Range. I play pickleball, but I
don't I don't want to go to Dave Investors. No,
I don't want to go to Pins Mechanical. Like what
is that saying about me? Because when I was younger,
I love to go to Chuck e cheese. That's okay,
but like, why don't I like it now?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Because it's not a thing.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
I don't we I had the kids with me on
a work trip in Florida and they're like, we want
to go to Disney World and I was like, nah.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Because want to take your kids?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
They already went to disney Land.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
They're not the same.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
I know they're not the same, but already did Disney
And like, I don't. I guess this is one of
those things where as a parent, this is where you
just sacrifice.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Yeah, you stretch, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
But we already did Disney.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
What about or what if you went to Universal Studios?
Would you want to go to that?
Speaker 1 (12:55):
I mean, I guess a little bit, but not really.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
I'd rather go to like a pool and lay out
or something.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Yeah, okay under a cavanda.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
They're like, mom, can we go to Disney World? And
You're like, uh, I booked as massages at the spot.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yes, but you know, you see those families are the
moms and they've got like the ears and the fanny
pack and yeah, they're like so excited and it's like
their fifth time and they love Disney. I don't. I
don't understand I don't. I cannot.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Do you think I'm wearing a fanny pack to day
and Busters or something.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
No, but I guess I just thought this made me
think of that, like how I don't have a desire
to do that. And then sometimes as a mom, it
makes me feel like money aside, like put the expense
of it outside. I know a lot of people it's
like Disney is there's like, okay, there, you can do
a lot of money. It's a sacrifice that way too,
or whatever, but let's just act like it's something you
can just go do on a Tuesday. I'm not gonna
go do it. I don't. I don't want to go.
(13:46):
That's okay, I know, but I feel like I'm not
a good parent. Maybe there's some shame around that.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
M like you feel like you should want to go.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Like, because there's no way that not wanting to take
my kids to Disney equals bad parent. Yeah, but I'm nay.
I'm having that conversation with myself in my head, even
though I know that's not true. But it just feels like,
why are these other awesome parents all gung ho about
going to Disney.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
It'd be the same thing that you might Let's say
they really really wanted to go, Mom, please put and
they're begging you. You don't have to like put on them.
I wanted to say monkey ears, the mouse ears.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
I think the ears are cute. Okay, that doesn't bother me.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Okay, you can't. You don't have to go like all
or nothing. You could not really be like this is
gonna be awesome, but say, oh my kids want to go.
That would it's fun for them and you not really
enjoy it. Just like if Patrick asked me to go.
He asked me to go to a UT football game.
I didn't really want to do it, but it was
(14:49):
fun to go with him and he that's where you stretch.
And that's what I kind of liked about this thing
where we were watching basketball. I don't really care about
the basketball. I'm not excited about that, but I'm excited
to do something that brings him joy. So you might
be excited to do something that brings your kids joy.
Don't either track me?
Speaker 1 (15:09):
True, true, No, I love that. Yeah, I want to
do things that bring them joy. Just anything but Disney.
Okay that might be your hard rule, but I mean
I already did it. I'm like we did it once, like,
do we have to do a world because we did Land? Yeah,
I know they're different.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I love Disney World, so I mean, I don't want
to go by myself, but going with kids is so fun.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
See those words would never come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
See the kids be very exciting. You should take my
kids perfect. I would be honored.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Well, I love big piece feelings, Excitement, gratitude, joy.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I just asked him, like, what are three feelings that
you felt yesterday? I thought he was just rite that,
but he sent me a whole thing and he didn't
know I was going to read this, so sorry. He said, Excitement, gratitude, joy,
Excitement because of not knowing exactly where we were going
to end up. Gratitude because I'm very thankful for someone
that puts so much effort into everything she does, especially
if it's to make me and enjoy. Because every activity
(16:02):
we did was perfect and had me grinning ear to
ear throughout the whole day. And that's so like, that's
worth it.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Da, That's why I should take my kids to Disney.
Like that's a response, like, yes.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You would.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I guess you would love hearing that from your kids,
not that I just did it for me.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
But you know, yeah, I love that though. I just
y'all are you're the past couple of months, like how
I've been seeing y'all navigate life well actually ever since
I've been together. But I will say you've been upping
your game a little bit the last few months. But overall,
y'all are good at just living life and I get it.
(16:39):
Your seven on the enneagrammor That's another thing.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
My personality is different than yours.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
I know, Like, why am I not more fun?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Your fun? Your idea of fun is different than mine.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, but I want your fun. I just don't have it.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Well, then I'll force you to have it. I'm gonna
bring you to Pens and We're gonna play games. The
thing is, if you went to Pens with me, you
would have fun. Okay, Yeah, it's getting you there, Okay,
getting me out of that. Oh so now you're gonna
blind fly. You gonna show up at your house and
blindfolds you next weekend. It would be awesome. Okay. Also,
I will add one of the reasons this was already
(17:14):
planned because I lost March Madness. But one of the
things that I talked about recently in my own therapy
because there's a lot of things in my life that
are outside of my control. I've been kind of struggling
with trying to do a million things in that realm
to try to control it, and that's it's something that
I have literally no control over. So my therapist and
(17:34):
I talked about, Okay, if that's happening, why don't you
do some things that are in your control to kind
of settle that, like itch, And part of that is
like creating fun in my life. So that's why I'm
working on planning a trip to New England right now. Fun.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Yes, speaking of well fun And I guess we were
talking about parenting a second ago, like me with my kids.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Did you see.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Megan Markle has email addresses for her kids and she
emails them.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
She would not like that you just called her Megan.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Markle, well whatever, sussex, sussex. I guess maybe she was
talking on her podcast or somewhere, but I was talking
about it with my daughter. It came up around the
table that like, Megan is emailing her kids right now,
they don't have access to the email address they're little,
but she created these accounts and you know, like on
a Tuesday she'll be like, hey, it's Tuesday, like here's
(18:38):
a picture of you and your sister are eating breakfast
or and then she'll attach the photo or whatever. And
then one day, when they're like sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, whatever,
she's going to give them the login for the email,
and then they will have all these emails to read
through from over the years where she's sent them little
notes and Sshira's like, please don't do that. I don't
(19:00):
read them.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
She's like, please don't do that. I will not I
will not read them. How many is she sending me?
Speaker 1 (19:06):
I mean, who knows at that point. I mean they're
little now, but by the time and then will email
even be you know, like I used to hotmail?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I don't does that exist?
Speaker 1 (19:15):
I think so because I think my boyfriend has hotmail?
No he doesn't, Yeah, because I think I remember being
like what, oh no, he's Yahoo.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
That's same vibe. I had a Yahoo.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah I had a hotmail. But now why is that
different than email? I don't even think hot mail is
still around anymore, but but Yahoo must be a little bit.
But anyway, I'm thinking, like things evolve and then like
will it still be there? And she's putting all this stuff.
But I mean I was thinking about it and I
was like, oh, it might be nice if you had
like a handwritten note or a card. But then at
one point it gets overwhelming, Like you sit down and
(19:49):
open up your email and you're like, mom, there's hundreds
of emails. Like some personalities are going to be like,
think this is the sweetest thing in the world. They're
going to read every single one, and then others might
be like, this is a lot.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
I like that I have. I'm feeling conflicted. I like
that idea. That's really sweet to have those words from
your mom. Yeah, and can we do like one a month.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, or less or what every birthday?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Every birthday?
Speaker 1 (20:19):
But hers is like no, just like here's what you
read for breakfast.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
I don't need that. I need like it. Yeah, that's
a lot. I wonder if she's how old are her kids.
That's a lot to keep up with.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Don't know they ages.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
I feel like I would, knowing me, I'd start that
every day and then they turned seven. Honestly, they'd turned three,
and I'd be like, honestly, six months in.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
You'd be done.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
To be done.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Like that was fun while it lasted.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I'm not a royal enthusiast, Like I don't know a
lot about the royal family. I mean I was. I'm
intrigued by certain things, but yeah, I'm not like obsessed.
Like I watched The Crown.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
I tried to watch The Crown. I had to do
so much research to understand it that I.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Stopped, like what did you what did you have to research?
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Okay, no, I'm just because they know that was sorry.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I wasn't touch your No, I guess I'm asking like
they sort of it sort of covers the racing, like
it goes back in time.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Like it is education, Like what were you researching? I'm
just curious real like who they were, oh, like.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Like English, like the king, like her dad and where
dad came from, and like there's a lot of different
like her different stages in her mom and then the
thing with the brother and the.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Family and that he gave it up, and I don't
get like, well how did she become? I didn't really
understand who they all were, right, so I did do.
And then my thing is once I start, then I'm
researching more about what I'm researching, So then i'd beat
get fifteen minutes into an episode and I've been reading Wikipedia,
which maybe that's not the source I should be going
to for an hour, and then I still have forty
(22:04):
five minutes left of the episode. It was too much.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, that's I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Honestly, it's a valid question. It's a valid question.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Well because I was just like, oh, I felt like
I was learning through it. But I will google things
at times if I want to know more, and.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
I wanted to know. I wanted to fact check things,
and I wanted to know. I only got to a
couple episodes and obviously, but yea.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Because it's not a documentary, it's a scripted show.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
So his death and all spoiler, it's like.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
He ruined, just like that Sex and the City that
one time he does die. Cat loves to spoil when
people die. Have you seen any deaths, Like we've talked
about this before on the Bobby Bone showing like fun
Back Friday, but I saw a real the other day
that reminded me of it, and it just popped into
my head when you said this. But like JFK and Lincoln,
(22:56):
you know, they were both our presidents fun Factor, but
they were both assassinated and all these similarities around their
presidencies and their assassinations, Like Lincoln was shot in eighteen
sixty nine and JFK was shot in nineteen sixty nine,
(23:16):
so everything's one hundred years apart.
Speaker 3 (23:18):
Okay, what else.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Stuff like that? Like Lincoln was shot in Ford Theater
and then JFK was shot in a Ford Lincoln car
Wait really or yeah? And Lincoln and Ford are made
by whatever the other. Both of them had vice presidents
named Johnson, so Johnson became president after them, crazy, and
(23:42):
then both of them had their wives had miscarriages while
they lived in the White House or lost babies or
something like that.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
You know what a fun job would be what somebody
who finds fun facts like that?
Speaker 1 (23:57):
We do fun fack Friday on The Bobby Bone Show
every Friday. Tune in.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
But are you are you finding the fact or you're
just being.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Like, oh, well, I'm just googling the fact. But I
would think that like most people that are finding facts,
where are they getting them? Prom getting them?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
Know what I meant? Like the library, well I met
it's like the person who put all of that together,
the stuff about the Lincoln and yeah JFK or like
Patrick is always talking about like stats, and they're like
the most random. He's like, this guy is like the
forty second person ever to have four of these, three
(24:34):
of these, and twelve of these, And it's like, who's
researching that detailed of a statistic? You know, Yeah, that
would be a fun job, I think, to find random
stuff like that and then you know, people pay you,
I guess to come up with that stuff.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Okay, while you were talking about that, I googled, well,
all the other similatories because they're crazy. I don't know
who came up with all these. These are from different sources.
They both were assassinated on a Friday. They both were
shot in the b the head both. They were both
with their wives when they died.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
None of these are too crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Both assassins came from the South. Both assassins had the
last name Booth.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Shut up. That's when it starts to get wild.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Lee Harvey Oswald, John Wilkes Booth Wait, Lee Harvey Aldwalls
is not Booth. Assassins with last name Booth. Lincoln's assassin
was John Wilkes Booth and Kennedy's assassin was Lee Harvey
Oswald with a similar sounding what that must be a
typo either way. There are three names Lee Harvey, Olswald, Okay,
(25:35):
Johnny Wilkes Booth, same name on the vehicle. Kennedy was
shot in a car named Lincoln owned by Ford Motor Company,
while Lincoln was shot at Ford's theater.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
That I mean, it's that's interesting. Imagine a guy that's
putting that together. We would have never just thought of that.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
They were both assassinated by a single bullet. People from
their south. Both of the presidents were in their thirties.
Oh my gosh. JFK's personal secretary, Evelyn Lincoln warned him
not to go to Dallas. Her last name was Lincoln.
What anyway? I could keep going on and on. Both
assassin nations shocked the nation.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Now that's where it gets me.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Anyway, there's more. It's kind of crazy too, like even
like Johnson and Johnson, the two Johnson's, like they were
both born one was born in eighteen oh eight and
the other Johnson, was born in nineteen oh eight. It
was just like all these weird things. That's like, that's crazy. Wow,
this is like a like a parallel thing happening, but
a century apart. Anyway, did we get there I have
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no idea.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I don't know. I think we're talking about the crown.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
And then you said somebody, Michael, you said the king died.
And then I was like, speaking to death.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
I have some fun facts for you, but that's just
how my brain works.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
And then whenever we were talking about Megan Markle and
parenting and whatever, it made me think of my mom
and this thing that I also saw online called like
the boop method. Have you heard of it?
Speaker 3 (27:05):
The boop?
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Like, if you're everyone ever wanting to ease tension in
a relationship, like maybe you and Big P. I know
that y'all's theme is fun and life, right, but okay,
if you ever fighting, I want you to just like
look at Patrick and boop him on the nose. Just
look at him and go boop.
Speaker 3 (27:23):
If we were in an argument and he did that
to me he booped you, I would lose my mind.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
It's a happy tip, but it makes me think of
speaking of death. When my mom was dying my dad.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
This is crazy.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
She was in hospice is before we moved her to
my sister's house to die peacefully there because she was
able to express we were going to have her die
at the hospice house in Austin called the Christopher House.
I didn't know there were these houses where people go
to die, but I learned a lot. Shout out Christopher House.
But my Almo was like, I really want to go home.
(28:00):
Took her to my sister's house because my sister's house
was easier flow for people to come visit in in
and out, so and by that point my mom didn't
really have any.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Say in Austin. In Austin, your sister, I didn't know
your sister lived in Oh.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Yeah, she didn't move to Colorado till after my mom died.
It was part of her healing. Oh okay, which then
my mom died in her house. And I always wondered
if with my sister, I was like, when you were
selling your house, did you have to disclose that someone
died but it wasn't a murder. I don't think you
have to disclose if someone dies peacefully, but like, what
if they're murdered.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
I think you do have to disclose that.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But I don't know if they had to say, like
a woman had cancer and so on, hospice here and
died peacefully in the Yeah, no, because there's probably a
lot of people.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
That died peacefully, somebody could have died peacefully in this house,
in this room.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
So while she's at the Christopher House and she's still
a little bit with it because by the time we
moved her to my sister's house, she had fallen unconscious
and was still alive but not responsive much. So my dad,
luckily this is right before she this is her fine
day of consciousness. And she had been waiting twenty five
plus years for my dad to say he was sorry
(29:07):
for leaving her for another woman way back, and she
had forgiven him, but so much so that even after
my dad got out of that relationship and then my mom,
they were both way older and he wanted to maybe
start dating her again, and my sister and I were
so excited about that, but my mom was like, I
can't date someone who can't own up to and apologize
(29:28):
to what they've done. Not that she needed that because
she had forgiven him, but she wasn't gonna date him again.
And he now saw that as a good opportunity of like, well,
this is something that was really hard for him. But
there's anything that I'll push you to do something hard,
it's you know, Okay, this is the final moment, so
I've got to go ask her for forgiveness and apologize
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to her. And so he did it, and it was
this really serious moment, and my sister and I got
to witness it. We were the only people in the room,
and so it was really special and emotional and like
we were just sort of like flies on the wall. It's
not like we were right there next to them or anything.
And it was really sweet and he was like putting
his hand through like what hair she had left. It
was a really precious moment. And then my mom just
looked up at him and she goes boop and she
(30:15):
even did that boop right on his nose. And I
feel like that was her way of being like it's okay, okay,
or it was her way of being like I'm dying,
so like thanks for doing it now. That was their
thing though, no, oh, she'd never done that before.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
That's why it's so funny that I saw the happy
tip and it was such a happy moment for us.
It was like a boop moment and I don't.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Know it, Like, did you guys laugh when she did that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:44):
And like my sister and I still joke about the book.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
We're like, oh, boop, like when something's.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Like really hard, because it was like a real serious
hard moment and it just like brought levity, and so
you could bring levity with the boop.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
I like that more than in an argument, because I
think depending on who you are.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Yeah, Like, I don't even know if she fully processed
what was happening. I think she did, but I think
that's what she could must drop, Like that's the response
she could give was boom, sort of like it's okay, buddy,
thanks boom.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
Your Dad's like okay, uh huh. It was really precious.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I love the boop. So if you ever need levity
or you're looking for a happy tip, maybe with your
kids or your partner, give the boop a try. Boo
like I needed to do it to Patrick.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Okay, I'll do it in a different scenario.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
I'll try to boot Alex. Yeah you boot Patrick and
we were pore back.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
But here's the problem. He doesn't show a lot of sadness.
It might take a while for me to get there.
Oh okay, but I'll try it.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
Well.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
I have an update on if you need to disclose death,
Shannon says in most states, you are not required to
disclose if someone died in your house, even if.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
It was a peaceful death.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
However, if it was a violent death, like a murder,
m or death by suicide, disclosure may be required depending
on the state you live in.
Speaker 3 (32:06):
I think in Tennessee, you do. I think that I'm
making that up.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Would you be able to live in a house that
somebody was murdered in?
Speaker 3 (32:13):
No?
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Me, neither. Even let's say you get a really good deal. Like,
let's say this house is epic, it's perfect, it's your
dream house, it has a pick a ball corn.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
My dream house, nobody was murdered in. Okay, I get
nightmares anyway. And what if it was in like the
master or the primary bedroom? Then what am I to
put my kid in that bedroom? Because I'm not sleeping
in it?
Speaker 1 (32:36):
We could remodel? What if you read?
Speaker 3 (32:40):
Too many houses available for me to do that?
Speaker 1 (32:42):
You know what I'm telling you? Would you do a
perfect house?
Speaker 3 (32:45):
You would do it. I know you're like, actually, somebody
was murdered right where you're sitting, right in this room. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
No, where we live in Tennessee, you're generally not required
to disclose if someone died in your house when selling
it though.
Speaker 3 (33:01):
Oh shoot, well good thing. Okay. Somebody could have died
in my old house my new one. They couldn't have
because it was new.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
Oh you mean like last house.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
Yeah, well I mean there could have been murder in
my last house.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
I would be. It's better that I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I have a fun little game I want to play, okay,
And I don't know, speaking of seeing things online, I
don't really know.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
How you felt about them as a therapeutic tip.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
But I've seen therapists rating coping skills, like if someone's
feeling anxious, they can try X, Y Z, and then
therapists will rate zero to ten if they think that
it's helpful or not worth your time. So I'm going
to ten ten being it's amazing, do it every time?
Ten out of ten recommend zero means like nah, and
(34:01):
then obviously everything else in between. So I'm just going
to rattle off the coping skill and then you say, okay,
you're ready weighted blankets. It depends no, no, the game
is just like give a number.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
I know, but it depends if it depends on what
it is that they're having anxiety about. So it could
be a ten, it could be a zero, okay, but
I love a waiting blanket for myself, so don't give
it a eight. Oh okay there myself there, Okay, in
this moment, and.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
There's so much nuance, like you can't cats, like I can't,
I can't journaling.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
It depends.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
I knew you're about to say it defends a.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Seven, okay, and I was waiting for you to be
like I said, it depends, and I'm going to give
it a seven. But also for some people it could
be a two.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
So like, have you seen these trending videos?
Speaker 3 (34:54):
Just say, I get the point, but I think it's Yeah,
it depends.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
Okay, it depends. Okay.
Speaker 3 (35:01):
Disassociating, well, honestly it depends. It's gonna say zero, but
it could be very helpful.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Yeah, it's a coping skilled disassociating.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Give it a number. Well, in this moment, for me,
you would use zero.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
To associate from this you want to disassociate from.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Has saved people's lives. But also it then can really
interfere with it, So it depends. Yeah, it depends.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
It sounds like this trend is problematic because people might
see it and be like oh, this therapist just quickly said,
waited blanket ten.
Speaker 3 (35:40):
Well, I've seen it with like skin like dermatologists or estheticians,
and I've seen it with like different like health guru people,
and it's gotten me before. And then I'm like, oh,
I'm getting sucked in from this, like for an esthetician,
this product might be great for one person but not
great for another. Right, Well, don't worry.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
If we were to do this trend, it wouldn't we
wouldn't get people because if you honesty isn't people don't
buy it. People will be like, depends, that's not helpful.
It depends, well, it depends. They'll be like swite, No,
I like it. I love your honesty.
Speaker 3 (36:14):
Drinking alcohol do woant me to lie?
Speaker 4 (36:16):
No?
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Okay, I think this is funny. Drinking alcohol is.
Speaker 3 (36:20):
A copy I mean zero.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
And because some people if alcohol doesn't impact them, like
if they're not an alcoholic at all, they don't have
any trouble with alcohol. Sometimes maybe a margerita with your
girlfriends could be fun.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Exactly right, And like after a hard day, if if
my thing is copying skills after a hard day, it's
really not in me like that, but like coping skills.
I like having like a box of them, and you
it's never good to use all of them always just
grab excess. But to have a group of them a
toolbox which I can pool from, that's what is helpful.
So like alcohol always and an excess. No, but I'm
(37:00):
not saying blanketly it's a zero. But if I had
to rank it, I would say one. But also it
could be a three for somebody. Yeah, this is causing
me distress. I need my distress to I need my
coping skill.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
Blocking your ex as a coping skill. That's like a
really firm boundary's.
Speaker 3 (37:20):
Is that a coping skill or is that a boundary?
So I guess I don't think it's always healthy for
people to block people.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
With a relationship with my ex. Yeah, it depends. Are
you co parenting?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Yeah, it depends.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Doom scrolling not always bad.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
It also depends I'm going to limit. Yeah, I'm gonna
give it a five. Three.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Maybe doom scrolling for more than a certain amount of time. Yeah,
it's bad. Eating something sour. Have you heard that about
how if you eat something sour it can take the
anxiety away because your brain instantly has to fixate on
the sour.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
We have sour candy in our office.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
Oh so this is probably a ten. Just do that
real quick. Let's practice doing it sour candy and go
ten or five.
Speaker 3 (38:02):
You want to be the practice just giving you I
need it. Takes some sour candy. And then do this trend.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
Eating something sour. Six freezing cold showers.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
I love that. So six, seven, six, going for a walk? Okay,
this is the problem. Kinds blankly say they all depend
I am going to give a walk.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
And eight okay, but it depends.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
Yeah, what if it's raining?
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Oh gosh, okay, and then what about the last one
going to therapy?
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Ah? Are you trying to trick me? No, it's just
the last one. I mean a ten, A ten, ten,
you're like, but it depends, But that's not a I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Okay, going to therapy is a coping skill, is it not?
Speaker 3 (38:59):
I wouldn't say that's a skill or a coping trouble. Yeah,
I guess. So maybe I'm getting too into semantics. I'm
gonna give it a nine. Yeah you were You weren't
born for this game. Are you proud of me for trying?
I am?
Speaker 1 (39:13):
Okay, you got a I had fun yeah, I had too.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
That's just like a it feels like a trick game. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
I do like it though, like you said, when the
doctors do it or their thoughts on it. But then
I see sometimes they contradict each other, and then I'm
all confused because they're like red light therapy. You know,
it's like world renowned doctor athlete try athlete iron Man
hates red light. Well universally, I would say overall they
(39:39):
like red light. But then there's conflicting feelings on how
ona and cold plunge, and I'm like, well, what's what.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Well, here's what gets you, which I probably am the
problem because of how I rated therapy. I've watched those
videos and then at the end when they're like and
this is a twelve or whatever, then they're selling that thing. Mmm.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
So and I guess I sell I saw that, did this,
gave it was one through ten the whole time, and
then when it came to therapy, she goes eleven. Oh yeah,
which yeah, and she's like, here's my email.
Speaker 3 (40:09):
Sign with me. But that's a good marketing.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
It's like three Chords Therapy.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
Seriously, call me, google us, email me Catherine at three
Chords Therapy. Dot com.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Thank you. Oh, speaking of well, not an email. We
got a voicemail, yeah, that I want to play. I mean,
we've got awesome emails. We'll lover some on couch Shocks
on Thursday, but I do love a good voicemail. And
this is from a listener named Mary, and I will
let her do the talking.
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Hit it.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Hi, Amy and Kat, this is Mary. I emailed you
a long time ago when you were first starting out.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Amy.
Speaker 4 (40:54):
I have been listening to you since the very beginning
because I'm a fan of the Bobby Bone Show and
listen to the podcast I'm Driving. So I've been listening
to all your podcasts, and a long time ago I
emailed you because you were talking about wondering how old
some of your listeners were, and so I wrote in
and said, Hey, I'm sixty two. Am I your oldest listener? Well,
(41:17):
I am still listening and I'll be sixty eight this summer,
and I love listening to you guys. You guys have
been teaching me a lot, helping me with my feelings.
I love the new show and I just wanted to
tell you that I'm so proud that's one of my feelings.
I'm so proud of you, guys, because you have taken
something and grown it and you've reached so many people.
(41:39):
And I love listening to your relationship grow between the
two of you and how free you feel to talk
about the things that you are feeling and that you
are willing to share them with us so that all
of us know that we aren't alone in our feelings.
And so from Mary, maybe one of your oldest listeners,
congratulations on the show, and I love keep up the
(42:01):
good word, love y'all.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
Bye. Isn't that so sweet?
Speaker 3 (42:05):
So sweet?
Speaker 1 (42:05):
And her feeling is proud, She's proud of us.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
I know I felt like that was my mom calling
in me too.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
Thanks Mary, Thank you Mary. And I don't know for
sure if she is the oldest. I think we've heard
from a little bit older before. But maybe we just
have a pool of the older and they can all
hold the title crown where the crown together reach.
Speaker 3 (42:32):
All of the all ages.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, I know. Kat was looking at this like hat
that our friend Camille sent us as like a mock
up for something, and Kat's like, oh, there's cherries on here.
Gen Z is very into cherries right now, And I
was like, oh good, because We've got a voicemail from
Mary the sixty eight, which I don't know what that
(42:55):
makes her like, I'm a millennial.
Speaker 3 (42:58):
What are you millennial? You see you're an elder millennial.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
I'm an elder millennial.
Speaker 3 (43:03):
And that wasn't supposed to be rude. No, that's just factual.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
That's what my daughter would say, my mom. But my
daughter would say facts, this is facts, Mom. It's fine.
I know. She was trying to get me to wear
this outfit the other day and I was like to share,
I can't wear that, Like that's not no, I'm forty four.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
Facts.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
It was from this place called the garage or garage.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
Oh yeah, that's a new store and they have one in.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
At the mall.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
And I was like, I I'm not a shop at
Cold Water Creek.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
I'm not wearing this from the garage. She was like, no,
this is cool, Like I'm going to help you. Yeah.
She already reserved in Instagram and she hasn't done anything
with it yet. And I'm like, well, this is all
on you. You've got to do it and it's called
fashion for my mom. Stop, yeah, you want a follow her?
She hasn't done anything with the Yes, and I'm not
doing anything with this. I was like, you'll have to
if you want to do this, it's fine. And if
(43:54):
you want to dress me. She wants to dress her
millennial mom.
Speaker 3 (43:59):
I think you will. You get dressed with ease.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
I have to tell myself that, yeah, that's my mantra,
I get dressed with ease. But she thinks she could
help me because she did help dress me the other night.
In fact, I think I maybe wore this shirt.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
Like I told you that shirt's cool.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Well this I got on Amazon, and she kind of
like tucked it up, but it's like, I guess the
look is like you tuck it intentionally, but it looks accidental.
And then oh, I just I just like have this on.
And then she's like, trust this looks good. And then
she was trying to tell me about the Southfit from garage,
and I was like, if you want to do anything
(44:32):
on fashion for my mom, like, if we're not sucking
from garage, like that seems like a very gen Z
top store.
Speaker 3 (44:42):
I know what generation Mary is. What baby boomer.
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Is a baby boomer same thing as a boomer, because
elderly millennial the same thing as a millennial. But elderly.
Speaker 3 (44:56):
Whatever, like I'm a geriatric millennial.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yeah, I can probably link this shirt in the show
notes because I must say it's one of my favorite
Amazon purchases as well. And I think it's I know,
fast fashion. I have a love hate relationship with it.
That's what we call it, right, You and I were
talking about this the other day, right, not on air,
just as friends, but just like getting so I think
(45:23):
that up with like all the things from Amazon, but
also there's some that's like, well, okay, this is worth it.
And I can wear it as summer like I wore
this as a sleep shirt. I could wear it as
like overshworts. I can wear it lounging around. I can
wear it kind of messy tucked with jeans for dinner, with.
Speaker 3 (45:39):
My jeans from the garage. Well, I think that's one
of the things I was listening to another podcast talk
about this is the stress of having these black and
white virtues, or I can never shop there. I have
to do everything right, or I buy all my stuff there.
And that's okay if you make intentional decisions to try
to shop elsewhere where when you can and when it's available,
(46:02):
and when you have the means to and if you
ever now and then you do end up buying a
shirt from Amazon, so like, give yourself a break.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Right, Well, I love those socks we get from Amazon too,
so I don't want to give those up.
Speaker 3 (46:14):
Yeah. I bought some at TJ max too the other
day on.
Speaker 1 (46:17):
Your shopping trip with Big P. So you got to
buy self for you two.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
I got socks and a new water bottle. He picked
it out for me though, and then he got nine shirts.
Speaker 1 (46:28):
How many water bottles do you have?
Speaker 3 (46:30):
Well, I have my purple water bottle, I have my
new water. I wanted a water bottle that I could
hold like the handle. This is definitely a millennial of you.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Ad.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
One of my gen Z clients came in with this.
Speaker 1 (46:47):
Oh it had a handle because when you're.
Speaker 3 (46:48):
Walking on a walk, it's annoying to have to hold
the handle. It kind of hurts my oroth.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Oh see, I was thinking I was giving elderly, but
you're saying it's.
Speaker 3 (46:56):
Giving gen Z. This is I think this is gen Z. Okay,
Like when I drink out of this, I feel like
a baby because it's like a bottle.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
We'll add a little cherry on there and you'll be
very gen Z.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Anyway, that's just one of my water bottles. I just
feel like you have a lot of water bottles. Well,
I like to have them at all times.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
Shannon just looked up the color of my shirt combo
and it's dusty blue.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
Great. Now, if I get the link, oh, she linked it.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
If I check the link, I might have to be
like I might have to get a different color combo. Oh,
but it is not on sale right now. I bought
it on sale. Don't buy it unless you can get
it on sale. Okay, it's thirty six dollars right now,
but you know how everyone in a while Amazon will
be like twelve dollars. Yeah, it's seventy nine percent off
right now. And you're like, okay, so how much was
(47:44):
this to? Really? Look at this color combo? Though, that's cute.
You don't like it, Okay, you don't like it.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
I like it for you? What about this color combo?
I like that? Okay, See, I liked it.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
I thought you were real.
Speaker 3 (47:58):
Okay, like say by the bell.
Speaker 1 (48:01):
Ooh, this one looks very like a bee. Uh, what's it?
It looks like black and wis ripe? No? What what's
the school? Notre Dame Rudy, Rudy. Have you ever seen
that movie? You've never seen Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:14):
It looks like a bumblebee.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
You've never seen Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:17):
No, I've never seen Rudy the movie.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
I know we're on a sports podcast, but about the
little football player that.
Speaker 3 (48:25):
Could rude the blindside?
Speaker 1 (48:27):
Have you ever heard of Rudy?
Speaker 3 (48:29):
No, Rudy.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
Go home and just say to Patrick boop him and
then say Rudy, Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Want to don't myself doing that?
Speaker 4 (48:39):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (48:39):
Okay, and then.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
He's gonna say, why are you talking about Rudy from
Notre Dame?
Speaker 3 (48:44):
Okay, we'll see what if He's like, I've never what
are you doing? What's that from?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
That's so crazy to me? All the we should have
a movie night. You should pick that is your movie
and serve like Irish things?
Speaker 3 (48:56):
Is it? Oh? Yeah, are y'all going to do that?
We're doing it this Sunday.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Okay, Well, who's hosting?
Speaker 3 (49:04):
Patrick?
Speaker 1 (49:04):
Shut up at your house? Come yeah, I have to
do a thing with Dirk's Finley.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
Oh I have to do it. You can come after. Hey, Derek,
I have to go watch a movie at my friend's house. Sorry,
I didn't know CMA fest. Okay, well another time.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
Yeah, okay, Kat, where can people find us on Instagram?
Speaker 3 (49:26):
At you not that at Feeling Things podcast?
Speaker 1 (49:32):
That's right, which we are colimbing.
Speaker 3 (49:34):
Oh we are. Yeah, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
Loving that people are enjoying the Instagram videos. So you're
doing a really really really really good job with them.
Like it's so fun to have the reels and cats
making those. By the way, if y'all think there's some
team of people.
Speaker 3 (49:50):
No gen Z girl doing it, No, it's me.
Speaker 1 (49:53):
No, we have the other cat that's working the switcher
on the cameras that goes switch switch, so it goes
from like my face to Cat's face, my face, Cat's face.
And then and Kat is on her computer and she's
making the videos and then we come up with captions
and whatnot. Those are for the reels. And then obviously
in this room with Kat too, we have Shannon who
gives us all of our facts, fun facts like that
(50:17):
Mary is a baby boomer.
Speaker 3 (50:19):
Wait, no, I decided that in my head. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1 (50:24):
Oh I saw.
Speaker 3 (50:25):
I was like, oh, you just guessed it.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
She didn't typed it because she was born in nineteen
sixty three, which makes her a baby boomer smiley face.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
That's what that's what shit I was getting that I
didn't know.
Speaker 1 (50:34):
And then Channa goes, uh, link Amy's cute shirt in
the show notes, question mark question mark it's in color,
dusty blue combo. Here's the link.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
She just writing your script as you guys are talking. No,
I mean, that's just she's just letting us know, like
it's in there.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
And then she gave us a bunch of facts about
earlier when we were talking about hot mail. That still
exists technically, but it's now integrated into Microsoft Outlook. You
can access your Hotmail account by logging into a look
dot com using your hotmail. Couldn't you crazy? But you
didn't know that? I wonder if I could get into
my old hotmail?
Speaker 3 (51:05):
Could you use that for your fun fact this Friday?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
No, I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:09):
It's not very fun.
Speaker 1 (51:12):
It's not very fun, but like maybe it's maybe I
go fun fact. In most states, you're not required to
disclose if someone died in your house, that's not fun,
even if it was a peaceful death. However, if it
was a violent death, disclosure may be required.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
I think we can have that part now. I think
we can do better.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Okay, all right, Well catch us on socials, on YouTube,
Feeling Things podcast, All the Things. I'm Radio Amy. She's
at Cat van Buren on Socials. I'm Amy Brown. That
was taken by somebody else.
Speaker 3 (51:43):
Would you have not done radio Amy?
Speaker 1 (51:45):
No? I wanted Amy Brown Amy give her her name back.
Let me see who has the Instagram. I know that
Amy Brown dot com. She's a fairy artist. But on Instagram,
I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:55):
You know what's crazy? The Brittany I don't know her
last name from and her pump rules. Her Instagram name
is just at Brittany. How did she get that name?
Speaker 1 (52:06):
Well, she got it early on did she well? Or yeah?
And maybe she got it from Look Amy Brown Art.
That's the fairy artist. See her work. That's who Sometimes
people think I am.
Speaker 3 (52:21):
They do they think I make this fairy art.
Speaker 1 (52:24):
Oh that's not me, guys. She does watercolor fantasy art.
She's been doing it for thirty plus years. You can
follow her on Patriots.
Speaker 3 (52:32):
Who's Amy Brown? That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 1 (52:34):
And I guys, if this is available Amy Brown, there's
I guys. Let me see I see Amy Brown comedy.
It's not me. But if people think she's me. I'm
fine with that because I want people to think I'm funny.
Speaker 3 (52:48):
Wait, is there not a Amy Brown? Guys?
Speaker 1 (52:52):
There has to be an Amy Brown, otherwise I would
have Amy Brown. Why is it not coming up? Amy Brown? Oh?
Speaker 3 (52:59):
There is one?
Speaker 1 (53:00):
What is it? Why can't I find them?
Speaker 5 (53:02):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (53:02):
She's a school teacher, she is. Yeah, she lives in Nottingham.
Speaker 1 (53:08):
Oh, she's all the ways that across the pond.
Speaker 3 (53:10):
She's a qualified netball umpire.
Speaker 1 (53:13):
How many followers does she have?
Speaker 3 (53:14):
One hundred and fifty seven thousand, one hundred?
Speaker 1 (53:19):
Let me see?
Speaker 3 (53:20):
You could buy that from her? Wait? What?
Speaker 1 (53:24):
Wow, she's very what's a TPN girl?
Speaker 3 (53:27):
I don't know. I didn't say that she's very pretty?
Speaker 1 (53:31):
Do you see pretty?
Speaker 3 (53:34):
You should message and say you're pretty? Can I have
your Instagram name?
Speaker 1 (53:37):
What? Guys? I would have swore that the Fairy Artist
had that. I just know that it was taken back
in the day and who we didn't know Instagram was
really going to be a thing or how long we
were gonna have it. And so I just did radio
Amy or maybe I did radio a me on Twitter
first and then I just followed it over to Instagram.
Speaker 3 (53:54):
Yeah, I mean, I like radio, Amy, But well, what.
Speaker 1 (53:57):
If I'm not always in radio, then I can change
it to whatever I.
Speaker 3 (54:01):
Am podcast Amy. What would I be, uh, motivational speaker? Amy?
Speaker 1 (54:08):
Oh, I don't think I'm gonna be a motivational throwing
things out. Yeah, but you see that for me because I.
Speaker 3 (54:12):
Don't, Uh, you could be a speaker, Amy, author Amy,
Look at all this you have for me. Zoo keeper Amy, Oh,
I don't like zous. You have so many animals. Okay, bye,
All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
If you ever have feelings that you just wonts Amy
and Cat got your cover and locking m brother ladies
and felts, you just follow an the spirit where it
telling front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and
the m but Swayne. Sometimes the best thing you can
do it jes stop you feel things. This is feeling things.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
With Amy and Kat.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm
Kat and we're kicking things off today with a question,
okay from me to you Kat and anybody else listening.
Are you aware of skims having little holes down there
when you put them on?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
What?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Wait? Yes, well I got this is gonna be something
very different, so you can okay to the bathroom without
taking them off.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Genius. I'm going to tell you all the different feelings
I had when I recently bought some because I have
a pair of skims that I've bought before and they
don't have a hole, so I don't think they all
have a hole?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Is it full butted? Full butted with shorts?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
No? Like compression? What are they called? They're like spanks,
but SPANX is the og, so I have spanks as well.
None with a p hole.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Na, huh Kat.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Obviously, the p hole is very new to me because
I didn't know. I bought these at Nordstrum last minute
for something, and I thought I got a bad batch.
Like I thought they were ripped, and I thought, oh no,
I ripped them because they're so tiny and they're tight,
and you put them on and they and I thought,
oh no, I pulled them too tight, and I ripped
a hole and then ill. But I didn't realize it
(01:48):
was well, it would make sense there's a seam there
that you could rip it. But then to your point,
I did feel around. I'm like, oh, this seems like
a well constructed soone hole. Oh my gosh, this is
a hole so I can go pee. Like if I
had not felt that or not known, if I had
to go to the bathroom, I would have pulled them
all the way down.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
This is interesting that you've never You've owned many pairs
of spanks.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
And I've never had a pair a hole.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Never had a pair without a hole really well, unless
it was not like.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I'll go show you mine. I mean, I believe you,
I know, I just feel like I thought I was
going to be shocking you with information.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
No wait, and did you try to return it?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
No, because I realized that the hole wasposed to be there,
but I almost I was really bummed I had I
bought them that day and had to wear them that day,
so it was putting them on really quick, and I thought, oh, dang,
I rip them and I'm like, I can't take these
back because I have to wear them. But this is
a bummer. Maybe I'll deal with it later, like I'll
take it back and be like I swear right wing
up with these on, there was a hole and then
they would be like, mana, this is a pee hole.
(02:54):
But luckily my trained eye because I used to sew
batter day, I realized like, oh, this is a a
purposeful hole.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
So then did it just like feel so amazing to
have that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
All the different feelings I had, I think when I
was telling you, I was like I have something to
tell you where I had a range of emotions, Like
at first I was like bums because I was like,
dang it, I just bought these and they're expensive and
I got like a dud, but I have to wear
them and am I going to be able to return them?
And then I was more perplexed and like curious, like hmmm,
and I'm feeling around, and then I was like, wow,
(03:30):
this is amazing. This is a hole.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Yeah, that solves a huge problem.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, I can see that for a lot of reasons.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay, I thought I.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Was gonna be like telling you something. You'd be like,
shut up, they had make ones with holes.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I thought you were gonna be telling me something really
crazy too. I was like, look, could this.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Week Okay, wait, Shannon and Cat are in here. Did
y'all know they make those with holes?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Wait? Really?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Okay Shannon didn't know Cat. Okay, three women, four women
in a room, and three of us didn't know they
made them with holes.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
This is like crazy to me because I've never had
them without the hole.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Where are you shopping?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Minor skims and spanks.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Simple pleasures or whatever that place is?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Oh, I know I'm shopping the same place as you're shopping.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Now, what are you and Big P are doing?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
So?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Well?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Because I have with the whole well.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Because that was my next thing that I wanted to
talk about, was you and Big PM blindfolds?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Yeah. I blindfolded him about five or six times yesterday.
Tell us more. Okay, so this turned out to be
a much cooler thing that I thought it was going
to be. Originally, we decided he loves march badness. I
don't love sports, but he loves it. So I wanted
(04:58):
to like be in it with them. So I was like,
I'll do a racket with you, sure, But to make
it fun, we had a bet. And so the bet was, obviously,
we're not going to bet money because you know we
share that and I doesn't feel like you win anything.
So the winner, no, the loser had to plan a
full day of surprises of all the winner's favorite things
(05:21):
as their price. Anyway, So I lost obviously, And again
this was like not a competitive thing. I probably knew
I was gonna lose, and so what I did is
yesterday I planned from like seven am to we got
home at nine to fifteen pm. Yes, yes, And I
originally scheduled a break in there, but then I was like, oh,
(05:42):
I have some things that we can go do.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Y'all were gone that you had stuff planned that were gone.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
We left the house at like eight and our first
and I blindfolded him everywhere we went, so he would
get in the car, put the blindfold on, then we
would drive there and then he would take the blindfold off. Well.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I know when I was watching this, I thought to myself,
I was like, can big peer doing life right? Like
whatever it is y'all are doing, like it just seems
so fun, Like your relationship seems so fun. And I
know you talked the other day or I guess the
other week on a recent episode about pretend vacations in
town and then now you're all blindfolding each other and
(06:20):
y'all do all these you take pottery classes and you
do those movie nights that you're talking about too, Like
y'all just y'all are doing it right. Yeah, whatever it is,
I need more of that.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well, and this is an easy thing to I mean, you.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Don't have to do there's a game to do it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
You could just do it, and you don't have to
spend a lot of money to do it either. One
of the places, multiple of the places we went, we
didn't spend any money.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
So, like, give an example of something you did.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So play pickleball free, went to the driving range that
was like ten dollars. We went to Pins, which is
a bar in Nashville that has all different kinds.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Of games, pins mechanical.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
And we played like Jenga and then this other game
for free. I got a diet coke was three dollars,
the most expensive one is. We went to TEJ Man.
He loves TJ Max.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Wait, wait, like why he loves it?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I mean I like shirts, yes, okay, I love home Goods,
but he just likes.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
To look for shirts there. He loves him because he
can get like a cool shirt for ten dollars. He
loves it. That's so yeah. That was when I was like,
we could go home. I was like, or I could
take you to TJ Max. And he also guessed that one.
He was like, you're gonna take me TJ Max, Like
he loves the shop. That's so cute. Only at TJ
Max he hates them all anyway. Then we ended at
(07:34):
david Busters, which was another game place we love to
play games.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
David Busters. That's makes me think of that NFL player
that lived here that got killed, Steve McNair. Have you
watch it documentary?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yes? Well I don't remember David Busters being part of it.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah he met oh girlfriend there.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
She wasn't there. Oh wait did she die?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Oh yeah, okay, murder suicide, but we.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Don't know who did what that one's still out.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
In that's that's that's tricky. Yeah, I mean I think
that there's conspiracy theorists. If you watch the documentary, it
seems pretty clear, but you can also tell that some
people are like, well but I think maybe that's okay.
It happened, so we don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
For I remember watching that and being like, we don't
there wasn't a resolution.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, that's a documentary that is interesting to watch. I
recently watched the The Fall of Brett farv That.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I watched that and you know what, yeah, total loser.
And you know that's my alma mater, alma mater.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Alma Mark. That's a hard word.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
That's about southern Mississippi. Yeah, that's our one claim to fame.
And it's him.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah, well, hey you got a new volleyball court. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
And when they showed a picture of that, I was like, Patrick,
that's what he that's what.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
He had to build something like it was small though.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
He was like, yeah, it holds like I don't know
ten people. It looks small. It looks small, and it's
still from welfare.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
A million from welfare to not worth it build it?
I mean, what a shady, shady.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Guy that was upsetting to watch.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
It's not to completely deras because we're not a sports podcast,
thank god. But whenever I think of David Buster's now,
I think of that like how more of like the
butterfly effect of how one decision to go somewhere one
day and meeting one person and then the changes your
(09:23):
whole life. I mean, all the little decisions that we
make add up. And have you watched Friends and Neighbors
or whatever it is with John Hammer.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I had to stop watching it. Why because I was
getting anxiety and I wanted to be like, stop doing that.
It's going to be bad.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yeah, because he's stealing from his neighbors, and you know
something bad's going to happen. So John Hamm is in
it pretty sure. It's on Apple or Max Apple or
Max Apple TV. It's Friends and Neighbors or something like that,
and he sort of says a line somewhere that like
(09:59):
it's not like one big thing just like happened to him.
Looking back, he realizes like it's a was a bunch
of like little tiny decisions that added up to.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
You know what that reminds me of what a million
little things. Yeah, he says that it's not one big thing.
It's a million little things that matter. So you can
look at that both ways.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, they all matter. It doesn't have to all and
tragically Yeah like that, Yeah it did well. So anyway,
Big P and Kat are like the feeling I would
give y'all assigned to y'all. It's just fun.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
That's what I asked him today. Uh, what three feelings
he felt yesterday? I'm gonna read way he said.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
His feelings were excitement, gratitude, and joy.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I mean, if that's not living life to your fullest,
then I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Also, it was it was a Sunday, and to me
that was a big deal because Sundays are usually very
routine for us, so this was a way for us
to get. In my head, I'm like, I want to
get the most out of life. Let's get something out
of a day. We normally wouldn't do anything. We would
get up, probably go for a walk, go to the
grocery store, lay around clean see.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
But that sounds like a pretty fantastic day to me,
Like if every single I'm trying to think, if you
were like blind guy, you're like Amy blindfold yourself. I'm
gonna take you to the vacuum.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yeah, uh, swiffer sweeper.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
And the little you know when it like shoots out
the little cleaner spray stuff and then you get to
mop it.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
And you're like okay, and now we're gonna go upstairs.
We're gonna wash your debet cover.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Well, your day would be really inexpensive.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
And then we're gonna lay down and just watch. We're
gonna binge. What did I just binge? The better sister? Oh?
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I want to watch that. Yeah, well, your boyfriend can
plan this day for you, and you've already given him
the perfect itinerary.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I mean I would go walk like you could plan
a walk and then maybe like pick up food, go
and bring it home. There was like any like out
of like do I want to go to Pins Mechanical?
Speaker 3 (12:04):
No, you don't want to go play games.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I want to play pickle ball, okay, and I would
go to the driving Range. I play pickleball, but I
don't I don't want to go to Dave Investors. No,
I don't want to go to Pins Mechanical. Like what
is that saying about me? Because when I was younger,
I love to go to Chuck e cheese. That's okay,
but like, why don't I like it now?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Because it's not a thing.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
I don't we I had the kids with me on
a work trip in Florida and they're like, we want
to go to Disney World and I was like, nah.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Because want to take your kids?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
They already went to disney Land.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
They're not the same.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
I know they're not the same, but already did Disney
And like, I don't. I guess this is one of
those things where as a parent, this is where you
just sacrifice.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Yeah, you stretch, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
But we already did Disney.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
What about or what if you went to Universal Studios?
Would you want to go to that?
Speaker 1 (12:55):
I mean, I guess a little bit, but not really.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
I'd rather go to like a pool and lay out
or something.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Yeah, okay under a cavanda.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
They're like, mom, can we go to Disney World? And
You're like, uh, I booked as massages at the spot.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yes, but you know, you see those families are the
moms and they've got like the ears and the fanny
pack and yeah, they're like so excited and it's like
their fifth time and they love Disney. I don't. I
don't understand I don't. I cannot.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Do you think I'm wearing a fanny pack to day
and Busters or something.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
No, but I guess I just thought this made me
think of that, like how I don't have a desire
to do that. And then sometimes as a mom, it
makes me feel like money aside, like put the expense
of it outside. I know a lot of people it's
like Disney is there's like, okay, there, you can do
a lot of money. It's a sacrifice that way too,
or whatever, but let's just act like it's something you
can just go do on a Tuesday. I'm not gonna
go do it. I don't. I don't want to go.
(13:46):
That's okay, I know, but I feel like I'm not
a good parent. Maybe there's some shame around that.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
M like you feel like you should want to go.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Like, because there's no way that not wanting to take
my kids to Disney equals bad parent. Yeah, but I'm nay.
I'm having that conversation with myself in my head, even
though I know that's not true. But it just feels like,
why are these other awesome parents all gung ho about
going to Disney.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
It'd be the same thing that you might Let's say
they really really wanted to go, Mom, please put and
they're begging you. You don't have to like put on them.
I wanted to say monkey ears, the mouse ears.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
I think the ears are cute. Okay, that doesn't bother me.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Okay, you can't. You don't have to go like all
or nothing. You could not really be like this is
gonna be awesome, but say, oh my kids want to go.
That would it's fun for them and you not really
enjoy it. Just like if Patrick asked me to go.
He asked me to go to a UT football game.
I didn't really want to do it, but it was
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fun to go with him and he that's where you stretch.
And that's what I kind of liked about this thing
where we were watching basketball. I don't really care about
the basketball. I'm not excited about that, but I'm excited
to do something that brings him joy. So you might
be excited to do something that brings your kids joy.
Don't either track me?
Speaker 1 (15:09):
True, true, No, I love that. Yeah, I want to
do things that bring them joy. Just anything but Disney.
Okay that might be your hard rule, but I mean
I already did it. I'm like we did it once, like,
do we have to do a world because we did Land? Yeah,
I know they're different.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I love Disney World, so I mean, I don't want
to go by myself, but going with kids is so fun.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
See those words would never come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
See the kids be very exciting. You should take my
kids perfect. I would be honored.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Well, I love big piece feelings, Excitement, gratitude, joy.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I just asked him, like, what are three feelings that
you felt yesterday? I thought he was just rite that,
but he sent me a whole thing and he didn't
know I was going to read this, so sorry. He said, Excitement, gratitude, joy,
Excitement because of not knowing exactly where we were going
to end up. Gratitude because I'm very thankful for someone
that puts so much effort into everything she does, especially
if it's to make me and enjoy. Because every activity
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we did was perfect and had me grinning ear to
ear throughout the whole day. And that's so like, that's
worth it.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Da, That's why I should take my kids to Disney.
Like that's a response, like, yes.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You would.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I guess you would love hearing that from your kids,
not that I just did it for me.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
But you know, yeah, I love that though. I just
y'all are you're the past couple of months, like how
I've been seeing y'all navigate life well actually ever since
I've been together. But I will say you've been upping
your game a little bit the last few months. But overall,
y'all are good at just living life and I get it.
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Your seven on the enneagrammor That's another thing.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
My personality is different than yours.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
I know, Like, why am I not more fun?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Your fun? Your idea of fun is different than mine.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, but I want your fun. I just don't have it.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Well, then I'll force you to have it. I'm gonna
bring you to Pens and We're gonna play games. The
thing is, if you went to Pens with me, you
would have fun. Okay, Yeah, it's getting you there, Okay,
getting me out of that. Oh so now you're gonna
blind fly. You gonna show up at your house and
blindfolds you next weekend. It would be awesome. Okay. Also,
I will add one of the reasons this was already
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planned because I lost March Madness. But one of the
things that I talked about recently in my own therapy
because there's a lot of things in my life that
are outside of my control. I've been kind of struggling
with trying to do a million things in that realm
to try to control it, and that's it's something that
I have literally no control over. So my therapist and
(17:34):
I talked about, Okay, if that's happening, why don't you
do some things that are in your control to kind
of settle that, like itch, And part of that is
like creating fun in my life. So that's why I'm
working on planning a trip to New England right now. Fun.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Yes, speaking of well fun And I guess we were
talking about parenting a second ago, like me with my kids.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Did you see.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Megan Markle has email addresses for her kids and she
emails them.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
She would not like that you just called her Megan.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
Markle, well whatever, sussex, sussex. I guess maybe she was
talking on her podcast or somewhere, but I was talking
about it with my daughter. It came up around the
table that like, Megan is emailing her kids right now,
they don't have access to the email address they're little,
but she created these accounts and you know, like on
a Tuesday she'll be like, hey, it's Tuesday, like here's
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a picture of you and your sister are eating breakfast
or and then she'll attach the photo or whatever. And
then one day, when they're like sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, whatever,
she's going to give them the login for the email,
and then they will have all these emails to read
through from over the years where she's sent them little
notes and Sshira's like, please don't do that. I don't
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read them.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
She's like, please don't do that. I will not I
will not read them. How many is she sending me?
Speaker 1 (19:06):
I mean, who knows at that point. I mean they're
little now, but by the time and then will email
even be you know, like I used to hotmail?
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I don't does that exist?
Speaker 1 (19:15):
I think so because I think my boyfriend has hotmail?
No he doesn't, Yeah, because I think I remember being
like what, oh no, he's Yahoo.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
That's same vibe. I had a Yahoo.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah I had a hotmail. But now why is that
different than email? I don't even think hot mail is
still around anymore, but but Yahoo must be a little bit.
But anyway, I'm thinking, like things evolve and then like
will it still be there? And she's putting all this stuff.
But I mean I was thinking about it and I
was like, oh, it might be nice if you had
like a handwritten note or a card. But then at
one point it gets overwhelming, Like you sit down and
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open up your email and you're like, mom, there's hundreds
of emails. Like some personalities are going to be like,
think this is the sweetest thing in the world. They're
going to read every single one, and then others might
be like, this is a lot.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
I like that I have. I'm feeling conflicted. I like
that idea. That's really sweet to have those words from
your mom. Yeah, and can we do like one a month.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, or less or what every birthday?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Every birthday?
Speaker 1 (20:19):
But hers is like no, just like here's what you
read for breakfast.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
I don't need that. I need like it. Yeah, that's
a lot. I wonder if she's how old are her kids.
That's a lot to keep up with.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Don't know they ages.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
I feel like I would, knowing me, I'd start that
every day and then they turned seven. Honestly, they'd turned three,
and I'd be like, honestly, six months in.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
You'd be done.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
To be done.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Like that was fun while it lasted.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I'm not a royal enthusiast, Like I don't know a
lot about the royal family. I mean I was. I'm
intrigued by certain things, but yeah, I'm not like obsessed.
Like I watched The Crown.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
I tried to watch The Crown. I had to do
so much research to understand it that I.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Stopped, like what did you what did you have to research?
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Okay, no, I'm just because they know that was sorry.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I wasn't touch your No, I guess I'm asking like
they sort of it sort of covers the racing, like
it goes back in time.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Like it is education, Like what were you researching? I'm
just curious real like who they were, oh, like.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Like English, like the king, like her dad and where
dad came from, and like there's a lot of different
like her different stages in her mom and then the
thing with the brother and the.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Family and that he gave it up, and I don't
get like, well how did she become? I didn't really
understand who they all were, right, so I did do.
And then my thing is once I start, then I'm
researching more about what I'm researching, So then i'd beat
get fifteen minutes into an episode and I've been reading Wikipedia,
which maybe that's not the source I should be going
to for an hour, and then I still have forty
(22:04):
five minutes left of the episode. It was too much.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, that's I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Honestly, it's a valid question. It's a valid question.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Well because I was just like, oh, I felt like
I was learning through it. But I will google things
at times if I want to know more, and.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
I wanted to know. I wanted to fact check things,
and I wanted to know. I only got to a
couple episodes and obviously, but yea.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Because it's not a documentary, it's a scripted show.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
So his death and all spoiler, it's like.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
He ruined, just like that Sex and the City that
one time he does die. Cat loves to spoil when
people die. Have you seen any deaths, Like we've talked
about this before on the Bobby Bone showing like fun
Back Friday, but I saw a real the other day
that reminded me of it, and it just popped into
my head when you said this. But like JFK and Lincoln,
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you know, they were both our presidents fun Factor, but
they were both assassinated and all these similarities around their
presidencies and their assassinations, Like Lincoln was shot in eighteen
sixty nine and JFK was shot in nineteen sixty nine,
(23:16):
so everything's one hundred years apart.
Speaker 3 (23:18):
Okay, what else.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Stuff like that? Like Lincoln was shot in Ford Theater
and then JFK was shot in a Ford Lincoln car
Wait really or yeah? And Lincoln and Ford are made
by whatever the other. Both of them had vice presidents
named Johnson, so Johnson became president after them, crazy, and
(23:42):
then both of them had their wives had miscarriages while
they lived in the White House or lost babies or
something like that.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
You know what a fun job would be what somebody
who finds fun facts like that?
Speaker 1 (23:57):
We do fun fack Friday on The Bobby Bone Show
every Friday. Tune in.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
But are you are you finding the fact or you're
just being.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Like, oh, well, I'm just googling the fact. But I
would think that like most people that are finding facts,
where are they getting them? Prom getting them?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
Know what I meant? Like the library, well I met
it's like the person who put all of that together,
the stuff about the Lincoln and yeah JFK or like
Patrick is always talking about like stats, and they're like
the most random. He's like, this guy is like the
forty second person ever to have four of these, three
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of these, and twelve of these, And it's like, who's
researching that detailed of a statistic? You know, Yeah, that
would be a fun job, I think, to find random
stuff like that and then you know, people pay you,
I guess to come up with that stuff.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Okay, while you were talking about that, I googled, well,
all the other similatories because they're crazy. I don't know
who came up with all these. These are from different sources.
They both were assassinated on a Friday. They both were
shot in the b the head both. They were both
with their wives when they died.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
None of these are too crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Both assassins came from the South. Both assassins had the
last name Booth.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Shut up. That's when it starts to get wild.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Lee Harvey Oswald, John Wilkes Booth Wait, Lee Harvey Aldwalls
is not Booth. Assassins with last name Booth. Lincoln's assassin
was John Wilkes Booth and Kennedy's assassin was Lee Harvey
Oswald with a similar sounding what that must be a
typo either way. There are three names Lee Harvey, Olswald, Okay,
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Johnny Wilkes Booth, same name on the vehicle. Kennedy was
shot in a car named Lincoln owned by Ford Motor Company,
while Lincoln was shot at Ford's theater.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
That I mean, it's that's interesting. Imagine a guy that's
putting that together. We would have never just thought of that.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
They were both assassinated by a single bullet. People from
their south. Both of the presidents were in their thirties.
Oh my gosh. JFK's personal secretary, Evelyn Lincoln warned him
not to go to Dallas. Her last name was Lincoln.
What anyway? I could keep going on and on. Both
assassin nations shocked the nation.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Now that's where it gets me.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Anyway, there's more. It's kind of crazy too, like even
like Johnson and Johnson, the two Johnson's, like they were
both born one was born in eighteen oh eight and
the other Johnson, was born in nineteen oh eight. It
was just like all these weird things. That's like, that's crazy. Wow,
this is like a like a parallel thing happening, but
a century apart. Anyway, did we get there I have
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no idea.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I don't know. I think we're talking about the crown.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
And then you said somebody, Michael, you said the king died.
And then I was like, speaking to death.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
I have some fun facts for you, but that's just
how my brain works.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
And then whenever we were talking about Megan Markle and
parenting and whatever, it made me think of my mom
and this thing that I also saw online called like
the boop method. Have you heard of it?
Speaker 3 (27:05):
The boop?
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Like, if you're everyone ever wanting to ease tension in
a relationship, like maybe you and Big P. I know
that y'all's theme is fun and life, right, but okay,
if you ever fighting, I want you to just like
look at Patrick and boop him on the nose. Just
look at him and go boop.
Speaker 3 (27:23):
If we were in an argument and he did that
to me he booped you, I would lose my mind.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
It's a happy tip, but it makes me think of
speaking of death. When my mom was dying my dad.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
This is crazy.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
She was in hospice is before we moved her to
my sister's house to die peacefully there because she was
able to express we were going to have her die
at the hospice house in Austin called the Christopher House.
I didn't know there were these houses where people go
to die, but I learned a lot. Shout out Christopher House.
But my Almo was like, I really want to go home.
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Took her to my sister's house because my sister's house
was easier flow for people to come visit in in
and out, so and by that point my mom didn't
really have any.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Say in Austin. In Austin, your sister, I didn't know
your sister lived in Oh.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Yeah, she didn't move to Colorado till after my mom died.
It was part of her healing. Oh okay, which then
my mom died in her house. And I always wondered
if with my sister, I was like, when you were
selling your house, did you have to disclose that someone
died but it wasn't a murder. I don't think you
have to disclose if someone dies peacefully, but like, what
if they're murdered.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
I think you do have to disclose that.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But I don't know if they had to say, like
a woman had cancer and so on, hospice here and
died peacefully in the Yeah, no, because there's probably a
lot of people.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
That died peacefully, somebody could have died peacefully in this house,
in this room.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
So while she's at the Christopher House and she's still
a little bit with it because by the time we
moved her to my sister's house, she had fallen unconscious
and was still alive but not responsive much. So my dad,
luckily this is right before she this is her fine
day of consciousness. And she had been waiting twenty five
plus years for my dad to say he was sorry
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for leaving her for another woman way back, and she
had forgiven him, but so much so that even after
my dad got out of that relationship and then my mom,
they were both way older and he wanted to maybe
start dating her again, and my sister and I were
so excited about that, but my mom was like, I
can't date someone who can't own up to and apologize
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to what they've done. Not that she needed that because
she had forgiven him, but she wasn't gonna date him again.
And he now saw that as a good opportunity of like, well,
this is something that was really hard for him. But
there's anything that I'll push you to do something hard,
it's you know, Okay, this is the final moment, so
I've got to go ask her for forgiveness and apologize
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to her. And so he did it, and it was
this really serious moment, and my sister and I got
to witness it. We were the only people in the room,
and so it was really special and emotional and like
we were just sort of like flies on the wall. It's
not like we were right there next to them or anything.
And it was really sweet and he was like putting
his hand through like what hair she had left. It
was a really precious moment. And then my mom just
looked up at him and she goes boop and she
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even did that boop right on his nose. And I
feel like that was her way of being like it's okay, okay,
or it was her way of being like I'm dying,
so like thanks for doing it now. That was their
thing though, no, oh, she'd never done that before.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
That's why it's so funny that I saw the happy
tip and it was such a happy moment for us.
It was like a boop moment and I don't.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Know it, Like, did you guys laugh when she did that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:44):
And like my sister and I still joke about the book.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
We're like, oh, boop, like when something's.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Like really hard, because it was like a real serious
hard moment and it just like brought levity, and so
you could bring levity with the boop.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
I like that more than in an argument, because I
think depending on who you are.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Yeah, Like, I don't even know if she fully processed
what was happening. I think she did, but I think
that's what she could must drop, Like that's the response
she could give was boom, sort of like it's okay, buddy,
thanks boom.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
Your Dad's like okay, uh huh. It was really precious.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I love the boop. So if you ever need levity
or you're looking for a happy tip, maybe with your
kids or your partner, give the boop a try. Boo
like I needed to do it to Patrick.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Okay, I'll do it in a different scenario.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
I'll try to boot Alex. Yeah you boot Patrick and
we were pore back.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
But here's the problem. He doesn't show a lot of sadness.
It might take a while for me to get there.
Oh okay, but I'll try it.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
Well.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
I have an update on if you need to disclose death,
Shannon says in most states, you are not required to
disclose if someone died in your house, even if.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
It was a peaceful death.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
However, if it was a violent death, like a murder,
m or death by suicide, disclosure may be required depending
on the state you live in.
Speaker 3 (32:06):
I think in Tennessee, you do. I think that I'm
making that up.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Would you be able to live in a house that
somebody was murdered in?
Speaker 3 (32:13):
No?
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Me, neither. Even let's say you get a really good deal. Like,
let's say this house is epic, it's perfect, it's your
dream house, it has a pick a ball corn.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
My dream house, nobody was murdered in. Okay, I get
nightmares anyway. And what if it was in like the
master or the primary bedroom? Then what am I to
put my kid in that bedroom? Because I'm not sleeping
in it?
Speaker 1 (32:36):
We could remodel? What if you read?
Speaker 3 (32:40):
Too many houses available for me to do that?
Speaker 1 (32:42):
You know what I'm telling you? Would you do a
perfect house?
Speaker 3 (32:45):
You would do it. I know you're like, actually, somebody
was murdered right where you're sitting, right in this room. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
No, where we live in Tennessee, you're generally not required
to disclose if someone died in your house when selling
it though.
Speaker 3 (33:01):
Oh shoot, well good thing. Okay. Somebody could have died
in my old house my new one. They couldn't have
because it was new.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
Oh you mean like last house.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
Yeah, well I mean there could have been murder in
my last house.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
I would be. It's better that I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I have a fun little game I want to play, okay,
And I don't know, speaking of seeing things online, I
don't really know.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
How you felt about them as a therapeutic tip.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
But I've seen therapists rating coping skills, like if someone's
feeling anxious, they can try X, Y Z, and then
therapists will rate zero to ten if they think that
it's helpful or not worth your time. So I'm going
to ten ten being it's amazing, do it every time?
Ten out of ten recommend zero means like nah, and
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then obviously everything else in between. So I'm just going
to rattle off the coping skill and then you say, okay,
you're ready weighted blankets. It depends no, no, the game
is just like give a number.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
I know, but it depends if it depends on what
it is that they're having anxiety about. So it could
be a ten, it could be a zero, okay, but
I love a waiting blanket for myself, so don't give
it a eight. Oh okay there myself there, Okay, in
this moment, and.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
There's so much nuance, like you can't cats, like I can't,
I can't journaling.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
It depends.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
I knew you're about to say it defends a.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Seven, okay, and I was waiting for you to be
like I said, it depends, and I'm going to give
it a seven. But also for some people it could
be a two.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
So like, have you seen these trending videos?
Speaker 3 (34:54):
Just say, I get the point, but I think it's Yeah,
it depends.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
Okay, it depends. Okay.
Speaker 3 (35:01):
Disassociating, well, honestly it depends. It's gonna say zero, but
it could be very helpful.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Yeah, it's a coping skilled disassociating.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Give it a number. Well, in this moment, for me,
you would use zero.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
To associate from this you want to disassociate from.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Has saved people's lives. But also it then can really
interfere with it, So it depends. Yeah, it depends.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
It sounds like this trend is problematic because people might
see it and be like oh, this therapist just quickly said,
waited blanket ten.
Speaker 3 (35:40):
Well, I've seen it with like skin like dermatologists or estheticians,
and I've seen it with like different like health guru people,
and it's gotten me before. And then I'm like, oh,
I'm getting sucked in from this, like for an esthetician,
this product might be great for one person but not
great for another. Right, Well, don't worry.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
If we were to do this trend, it wouldn't we
wouldn't get people because if you honesty isn't people don't
buy it. People will be like, depends, that's not helpful.
It depends, well, it depends. They'll be like swite, No,
I like it. I love your honesty.
Speaker 3 (36:14):
Drinking alcohol do woant me to lie?
Speaker 4 (36:16):
No?
Speaker 1 (36:17):
Okay, I think this is funny. Drinking alcohol is.
Speaker 3 (36:20):
A copy I mean zero.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
And because some people if alcohol doesn't impact them, like
if they're not an alcoholic at all, they don't have
any trouble with alcohol. Sometimes maybe a margerita with your
girlfriends could be fun.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Exactly right, And like after a hard day, if if
my thing is copying skills after a hard day, it's
really not in me like that, but like coping skills.
I like having like a box of them, and you
it's never good to use all of them always just
grab excess. But to have a group of them a
toolbox which I can pool from, that's what is helpful.
So like alcohol always and an excess. No, but I'm
(37:00):
not saying blanketly it's a zero. But if I had
to rank it, I would say one. But also it
could be a three for somebody. Yeah, this is causing
me distress. I need my distress to I need my
coping skill.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
Blocking your ex as a coping skill. That's like a
really firm boundary's.
Speaker 3 (37:20):
Is that a coping skill or is that a boundary?
So I guess I don't think it's always healthy for
people to block people.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
With a relationship with my ex. Yeah, it depends. Are
you co parenting?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Yeah, it depends.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Doom scrolling not always bad.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
It also depends I'm going to limit. Yeah, I'm gonna
give it a five. Three.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Maybe doom scrolling for more than a certain amount of time. Yeah,
it's bad. Eating something sour. Have you heard that about
how if you eat something sour it can take the
anxiety away because your brain instantly has to fixate on
the sour.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
We have sour candy in our office.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
Oh so this is probably a ten. Just do that
real quick. Let's practice doing it sour candy and go
ten or five.
Speaker 3 (38:02):
You want to be the practice just giving you I
need it. Takes some sour candy. And then do this trend.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
Eating something sour. Six freezing cold showers.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
I love that. So six, seven, six, going for a walk? Okay,
this is the problem. Kinds blankly say they all depend
I am going to give a walk.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
And eight okay, but it depends.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
Yeah, what if it's raining?
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Oh gosh, okay, and then what about the last one
going to therapy?
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Ah? Are you trying to trick me? No, it's just
the last one. I mean a ten, A ten, ten,
you're like, but it depends, But that's not a I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Okay, going to therapy is a coping skill, is it not?
Speaker 3 (38:59):
I wouldn't say that's a skill or a coping trouble. Yeah,
I guess. So maybe I'm getting too into semantics. I'm
gonna give it a nine. Yeah you were You weren't
born for this game. Are you proud of me for trying?
I am?
Speaker 1 (39:13):
Okay, you got a I had fun yeah, I had too.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
That's just like a it feels like a trick game. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
I do like it though, like you said, when the
doctors do it or their thoughts on it. But then
I see sometimes they contradict each other, and then I'm
all confused because they're like red light therapy. You know,
it's like world renowned doctor athlete try athlete iron Man
hates red light. Well universally, I would say overall they
(39:39):
like red light. But then there's conflicting feelings on how
ona and cold plunge, and I'm like, well, what's what.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Well, here's what gets you, which I probably am the
problem because of how I rated therapy. I've watched those
videos and then at the end when they're like and
this is a twelve or whatever, then they're selling that thing. Mmm.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
So and I guess I sell I saw that, did this,
gave it was one through ten the whole time, and
then when it came to therapy, she goes eleven. Oh yeah,
which yeah, and she's like, here's my email.
Speaker 3 (40:09):
Sign with me. But that's a good marketing.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
It's like three Chords Therapy.
Speaker 3 (40:16):
Seriously, call me, google us, email me Catherine at three
Chords Therapy. Dot com.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Thank you. Oh, speaking of well, not an email. We
got a voicemail, yeah, that I want to play. I mean,
we've got awesome emails. We'll lover some on couch Shocks
on Thursday, but I do love a good voicemail. And
this is from a listener named Mary, and I will
let her do the talking.
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Hit it.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Hi, Amy and Kat, this is Mary. I emailed you
a long time ago when you were first starting out.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Amy.
Speaker 4 (40:54):
I have been listening to you since the very beginning
because I'm a fan of the Bobby Bone Show and
listen to the podcast I'm Driving. So I've been listening
to all your podcasts, and a long time ago I
emailed you because you were talking about wondering how old
some of your listeners were, and so I wrote in
and said, Hey, I'm sixty two. Am I your oldest listener? Well,
(41:17):
I am still listening and I'll be sixty eight this summer,
and I love listening to you guys. You guys have
been teaching me a lot, helping me with my feelings.
I love the new show and I just wanted to
tell you that I'm so proud that's one of my feelings.
I'm so proud of you, guys, because you have taken
something and grown it and you've reached so many people.
(41:39):
And I love listening to your relationship grow between the
two of you and how free you feel to talk
about the things that you are feeling and that you
are willing to share them with us so that all
of us know that we aren't alone in our feelings.
And so from Mary, maybe one of your oldest listeners,
congratulations on the show, and I love keep up the
(42:01):
good word, love y'all.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
Bye. Isn't that so sweet?
Speaker 3 (42:05):
So sweet?
Speaker 1 (42:05):
And her feeling is proud, She's proud of us.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
I know I felt like that was my mom calling
in me too.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
Thanks Mary, Thank you Mary. And I don't know for
sure if she is the oldest. I think we've heard
from a little bit older before. But maybe we just
have a pool of the older and they can all
hold the title crown where the crown together reach.
Speaker 3 (42:32):
All of the all ages.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, I know. Kat was looking at this like hat
that our friend Camille sent us as like a mock
up for something, and Kat's like, oh, there's cherries on here.
Gen Z is very into cherries right now, And I
was like, oh good, because We've got a voicemail from
Mary the sixty eight, which I don't know what that
(42:55):
makes her like, I'm a millennial.
Speaker 3 (42:58):
What are you millennial? You see you're an elder millennial.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
I'm an elder millennial.
Speaker 3 (43:03):
And that wasn't supposed to be rude. No, that's just factual.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
That's what my daughter would say, my mom. But my
daughter would say facts, this is facts, Mom. It's fine.
I know. She was trying to get me to wear
this outfit the other day and I was like to share,
I can't wear that, Like that's not no, I'm forty four.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
Facts.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
It was from this place called the garage or garage.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
Oh yeah, that's a new store and they have one in.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
At the mall.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
And I was like, I I'm not a shop at
Cold Water Creek.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
I'm not wearing this from the garage. She was like, no,
this is cool, Like I'm going to help you. Yeah.
She already reserved in Instagram and she hasn't done anything
with it yet. And I'm like, well, this is all
on you. You've got to do it and it's called
fashion for my mom. Stop, yeah, you want a follow her?
She hasn't done anything with the Yes, and I'm not
doing anything with this. I was like, you'll have to
if you want to do this, it's fine. And if
(43:54):
you want to dress me. She wants to dress her
millennial mom.
Speaker 3 (43:59):
I think you will. You get dressed with ease.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
I have to tell myself that, yeah, that's my mantra,
I get dressed with ease. But she thinks she could
help me because she did help dress me the other night.
In fact, I think I maybe wore this shirt.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
Like I told you that shirt's cool.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Well this I got on Amazon, and she kind of
like tucked it up, but it's like, I guess the
look is like you tuck it intentionally, but it looks accidental.
And then oh, I just I just like have this on.
And then she's like, trust this looks good. And then
she was trying to tell me about the Southfit from garage,
and I was like, if you want to do anything
(44:32):
on fashion for my mom, like, if we're not sucking
from garage, like that seems like a very gen Z
top store.
Speaker 3 (44:42):
I know what generation Mary is. What baby boomer.
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Is a baby boomer same thing as a boomer, because
elderly millennial the same thing as a millennial. But elderly.
Speaker 3 (44:56):
Whatever, like I'm a geriatric millennial.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yeah, I can probably link this shirt in the show
notes because I must say it's one of my favorite
Amazon purchases as well. And I think it's I know,
fast fashion. I have a love hate relationship with it.
That's what we call it, right, You and I were
talking about this the other day, right, not on air,
just as friends, but just like getting so I think
(45:23):
that up with like all the things from Amazon, but
also there's some that's like, well, okay, this is worth it.
And I can wear it as summer like I wore
this as a sleep shirt. I could wear it as
like overshworts. I can wear it lounging around. I can
wear it kind of messy tucked with jeans for dinner, with.
Speaker 3 (45:39):
My jeans from the garage. Well, I think that's one
of the things I was listening to another podcast talk
about this is the stress of having these black and
white virtues, or I can never shop there. I have
to do everything right, or I buy all my stuff there.
And that's okay if you make intentional decisions to try
to shop elsewhere where when you can and when it's available,
(46:02):
and when you have the means to and if you
ever now and then you do end up buying a
shirt from Amazon, so like, give yourself a break.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Right, Well, I love those socks we get from Amazon too,
so I don't want to give those up.
Speaker 3 (46:14):
Yeah. I bought some at TJ max too the other
day on.
Speaker 1 (46:17):
Your shopping trip with Big P. So you got to
buy self for you two.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
I got socks and a new water bottle. He picked
it out for me though, and then he got nine shirts.
Speaker 1 (46:28):
How many water bottles do you have?
Speaker 3 (46:30):
Well, I have my purple water bottle, I have my
new water. I wanted a water bottle that I could
hold like the handle. This is definitely a millennial of you.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
Ad.
Speaker 3 (46:44):
One of my gen Z clients came in with this.
Speaker 1 (46:47):
Oh it had a handle because when you're.
Speaker 3 (46:48):
Walking on a walk, it's annoying to have to hold
the handle. It kind of hurts my oroth.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Oh see, I was thinking I was giving elderly, but
you're saying it's.
Speaker 3 (46:56):
Giving gen Z. This is I think this is gen Z. Okay,
Like when I drink out of this, I feel like
a baby because it's like a bottle.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
We'll add a little cherry on there and you'll be
very gen Z.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Anyway, that's just one of my water bottles. I just
feel like you have a lot of water bottles. Well,
I like to have them at all times.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
Shannon just looked up the color of my shirt combo
and it's dusty blue.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
Great. Now, if I get the link, oh, she linked it.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
If I check the link, I might have to be
like I might have to get a different color combo. Oh,
but it is not on sale right now. I bought
it on sale. Don't buy it unless you can get
it on sale. Okay, it's thirty six dollars right now,
but you know how everyone in a while Amazon will
be like twelve dollars. Yeah, it's seventy nine percent off
right now. And you're like, okay, so how much was
(47:44):
this to? Really? Look at this color combo? Though, that's cute.
You don't like it, Okay, you don't like it.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
I like it for you? What about this color combo?
I like that? Okay, See, I liked it.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
I thought you were real.
Speaker 3 (47:58):
Okay, like say by the bell.
Speaker 1 (48:01):
Ooh, this one looks very like a bee. Uh, what's it?
It looks like black and wis ripe? No? What what's
the school? Notre Dame Rudy, Rudy. Have you ever seen
that movie? You've never seen Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:14):
It looks like a bumblebee.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
You've never seen Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:17):
No, I've never seen Rudy the movie.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
I know we're on a sports podcast, but about the
little football player that.
Speaker 3 (48:25):
Could rude the blindside?
Speaker 1 (48:27):
Have you ever heard of Rudy?
Speaker 3 (48:29):
No, Rudy.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
Go home and just say to Patrick boop him and
then say Rudy, Rudy.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Want to don't myself doing that?
Speaker 4 (48:39):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (48:39):
Okay, and then.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
He's gonna say, why are you talking about Rudy from
Notre Dame?
Speaker 3 (48:44):
Okay, we'll see what if He's like, I've never what
are you doing? What's that from?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
That's so crazy to me? All the we should have
a movie night. You should pick that is your movie
and serve like Irish things?
Speaker 3 (48:56):
Is it? Oh? Yeah, are y'all going to do that?
We're doing it this Sunday.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Okay, Well, who's hosting?
Speaker 3 (49:04):
Patrick?
Speaker 1 (49:04):
Shut up at your house? Come yeah, I have to
do a thing with Dirk's Finley.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
Oh I have to do it. You can come after. Hey, Derek,
I have to go watch a movie at my friend's house. Sorry,
I didn't know CMA fest. Okay, well another time.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
Yeah, okay, Kat, where can people find us on Instagram?
Speaker 3 (49:26):
At you not that at Feeling Things podcast?
Speaker 1 (49:32):
That's right, which we are colimbing.
Speaker 3 (49:34):
Oh we are. Yeah, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
Loving that people are enjoying the Instagram videos. So you're
doing a really really really really good job with them.
Like it's so fun to have the reels and cats
making those. By the way, if y'all think there's some
team of people.
Speaker 3 (49:50):
No gen Z girl doing it, No, it's me.
Speaker 1 (49:53):
No, we have the other cat that's working the switcher
on the cameras that goes switch switch, so it goes
from like my face to Cat's face, my face, Cat's face.
And then and Kat is on her computer and she's
making the videos and then we come up with captions
and whatnot. Those are for the reels. And then obviously
in this room with Kat too, we have Shannon who
gives us all of our facts, fun facts like that
(50:17):
Mary is a baby boomer.
Speaker 3 (50:19):
Wait, no, I decided that in my head. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1 (50:24):
Oh I saw.
Speaker 3 (50:25):
I was like, oh, you just guessed it.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
She didn't typed it because she was born in nineteen
sixty three, which makes her a baby boomer smiley face.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
That's what that's what shit I was getting that I
didn't know.
Speaker 1 (50:34):
And then Channa goes, uh, link Amy's cute shirt in
the show notes, question mark question mark it's in color,
dusty blue combo. Here's the link.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
She just writing your script as you guys are talking. No,
I mean, that's just she's just letting us know, like
it's in there.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
And then she gave us a bunch of facts about
earlier when we were talking about hot mail. That still
exists technically, but it's now integrated into Microsoft Outlook. You
can access your Hotmail account by logging into a look
dot com using your hotmail. Couldn't you crazy? But you
didn't know that? I wonder if I could get into
my old hotmail?
Speaker 3 (51:05):
Could you use that for your fun fact this Friday?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
No, I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:09):
It's not very fun.
Speaker 1 (51:12):
It's not very fun, but like maybe it's maybe I
go fun fact. In most states, you're not required to
disclose if someone died in your house, that's not fun,
even if it was a peaceful death. However, if it
was a violent death, disclosure may be required.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
I think we can have that part now. I think
we can do better.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Okay, all right, Well catch us on socials, on YouTube,
Feeling Things podcast, All the Things. I'm Radio Amy. She's
at Cat van Buren on Socials. I'm Amy Brown. That
was taken by somebody else.
Speaker 3 (51:43):
Would you have not done radio Amy?
Speaker 1 (51:45):
No? I wanted Amy Brown Amy give her her name back.
Let me see who has the Instagram. I know that
Amy Brown dot com. She's a fairy artist. But on Instagram,
I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:55):
You know what's crazy? The Brittany I don't know her
last name from and her pump rules. Her Instagram name
is just at Brittany. How did she get that name?
Speaker 1 (52:06):
Well, she got it early on did she well? Or yeah?
And maybe she got it from Look Amy Brown Art.
That's the fairy artist. See her work. That's who Sometimes
people think I am.
Speaker 3 (52:21):
They do they think I make this fairy art.
Speaker 1 (52:24):
Oh that's not me, guys. She does watercolor fantasy art.
She's been doing it for thirty plus years. You can
follow her on Patriots.
Speaker 3 (52:32):
Who's Amy Brown? That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 1 (52:34):
And I guys, if this is available Amy Brown, there's
I guys. Let me see I see Amy Brown comedy.
It's not me. But if people think she's me. I'm
fine with that because I want people to think I'm funny.
Speaker 3 (52:48):
Wait, is there not a Amy Brown? Guys?
Speaker 1 (52:52):
There has to be an Amy Brown, otherwise I would
have Amy Brown. Why is it not coming up? Amy Brown? Oh?
Speaker 3 (52:59):
There is one?
Speaker 1 (53:00):
What is it? Why can't I find them?
Speaker 5 (53:02):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (53:02):
She's a school teacher, she is. Yeah, she lives in Nottingham.
Speaker 1 (53:08):
Oh, she's all the ways that across the pond.
Speaker 3 (53:10):
She's a qualified netball umpire.
Speaker 1 (53:13):
How many followers does she have?
Speaker 3 (53:14):
One hundred and fifty seven thousand, one hundred?
Speaker 1 (53:19):
Let me see?
Speaker 3 (53:20):
You could buy that from her? Wait? What?
Speaker 1 (53:24):
Wow, she's very what's a TPN girl?
Speaker 3 (53:27):
I don't know. I didn't say that she's very pretty?
Speaker 1 (53:31):
Do you see pretty?
Speaker 3 (53:34):
You should message and say you're pretty? Can I have
your Instagram name?
Speaker 1 (53:37):
What? Guys? I would have swore that the Fairy Artist
had that. I just know that it was taken back
in the day and who we didn't know Instagram was
really going to be a thing or how long we
were gonna have it. And so I just did radio
Amy or maybe I did radio a me on Twitter
first and then I just followed it over to Instagram.
Speaker 3 (53:54):
Yeah, I mean, I like radio, Amy, But well, what.
Speaker 1 (53:57):
If I'm not always in radio, then I can change
it to whatever I.
Speaker 3 (54:01):
Am podcast Amy. What would I be, uh, motivational speaker? Amy?
Speaker 1 (54:08):
Oh, I don't think I'm gonna be a motivational throwing
things out. Yeah, but you see that for me because I.
Speaker 3 (54:12):
Don't, Uh, you could be a speaker, Amy, author Amy,
Look at all this you have for me. Zoo keeper Amy, Oh,
I don't like zous. You have so many animals. Okay, bye,
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