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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Adam Adam, Carl Lone. She's a queen and talking and
so she's getting really.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Not afraid to fail Episode Soul.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Just let it blow. No one can do we Cid
carylne its sound a care line.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Because she's go ahead and start. Okay, wait does everyone say?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
What?
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Does everyone say? I feel like I've known you my
whole life.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
I think you either like like me or you really
have an allergic reaction to me.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
No chance. I don't believe no.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I think no.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I do because I'm not someone who comes in lightly,
and I come in so intense and then I want
to like get to know your whole life. And then
I add this like intense, like high pitched sprinkle tone
to it. Sometimes that just can wear people out. I
know if people have told me that they don't like
me when they meet me, really yeah, huh.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I think a lot of people do like love.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
But you're like, I come on intense. I'm like, you
should touch.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
My breasts, and it's if it is like, do you
want to fill my boob?
Speaker 4 (01:05):
I'm like, yeah, please, I've known you for four minutes.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
I knew okay, but I wanted to tell you when
I was watching your Instagram. You're who I wish that
I was. That's not because I relate to.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Your personality so much, because like you're so outgoing, you're
so empathetic, you're total romantic. You like to like be
whimsical and be all over the world and floating around
like a fairy. And you literally, though, are like genuinely
like I feel like you're care free. Like I don't
feel like you carry the turmoil and agony that I
(01:37):
do to sabotage all the good times I have, because
then I get all worked up about just.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
The worst things.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
I get, Like them in your head are like, yeah,
people might have thought of that scenario and you overthink it. No,
I do that well.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
I just think the world is so sad and I
can't live in it.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
I definitely overthink everything. And then the weird thing that
people would not ever expect about me is that I
deal with like really bad social anxiety. So like, as
wild and free as this one side of me is,
there's another part of me that will get to a
social setting and then I need to just like a
like go be alone for a minute. I feel like
to get used to like all the energy in the room.
I don't know if that makes sense. Yes, get very
very overwhelmed and I'm too empathetic. You can feel everything
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too much, saying so much.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
What are you doing to work on that?
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Hiding hiding at parties? No, I'm in therapy. Good, go
to therapy for that, trying to I think like being
forty one, all of a sudden for the first time
in my life, like I've never really understood boundaries ever. Yes,
I feel like it's.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Such a freakinging, functioning codependent. What does that mean? It
means that you we've never explored that in therapies. Maybe not, Okay,
I just found out about a couple years ago. It
changed my life.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah, you basically Terry Cole, who came on my podcast
a few weeks ago. If you just resonate, you should
go read Yes, which is called too much, But it's
about how you are so worried about everyone's happiness, and
that everyone in the room, no matter what room you're in,
no matter where you.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Are, but especially those closest to you. You need everyone
want to be happy and symbiotic all the time. And
so what you do is you you person.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Figurtip comes across as very just loving and you know
everyone's story, and you're so like engaged with people, and
you're so like it seems like you're so easy going,
but really what you're doing is you're taking note of
every single person's temperature and figuring out what they need,
how they feel, what's going on, then what you need
to do with your own personality to make sure they're.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Happy, how to like get the room to be the
right energy that you need so that you can feel comfortable.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
It's actually you've diagnosed me. It's your high function Codependence's
like even to the point of I don't it's like
almost getting worse old, or I get like we were
at husband loves like pop like Kyler.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Rich, which is so cute and y'are adorable together. Tell
him who needs to do all the videos that you
make up?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Because to participant in all the videos he makes me
like I know him as a singer, like keep your Wild,
that song so good about you?
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, obviously, but I'm like, I like him.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
So much more you participate because I see how cute
funny isn't how cute y'all are.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
He's got a lot of personality he's got to show
with the world because sometimes he's like, I'm a musician,
I shouldn't be doing TikTok challenges. I'm like, sometimes they're fun.
Sometimes we try to do I don't know. There's this
one where he like picks me up. There's like these
two gymnasts and like the husband picks up his wife
and he's spinning her legs around and he's like hopping
over her legs and we are obviously not two gymnasts.
(04:22):
I think it shows his fun side. Y'all are cute, y'all.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I was watching me. I was like, damn, they're such
a fun couple. So okay, so you're talking about your husband.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Well, no, I was just that when we were young.
Fists with Tyler on Sunday, and I don't know if
it's like if you know, it's like, I'm probably gonna
describe this horrible. It's it's pop punk music.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
It's a human is this person.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
It's like a whole festival of like like some forty
one to like my chemical romance. But anyways, my point
is that your favorite kind of music. No, okay, I
want to so badly, like I really want I really
want to like it. I'd like it. I had to
study for this weekend. But my point of bringing this
up is walking around and like, instead of being present
and having fun, I was like, this person looks to hydrated,
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They're by themselves, they're keeled over. Do they have friends around?
I'm like, are you okay? And it just felt like
my whole night was consumed. I'm like, when did I
become like this? Like I'm not a mom yet, Like
when did I become so concerned with like the person
over there? Like why do I? And I just I
like got in the way of my fun If I'm
being honest, Yeah, it make sure everyone was hydrated at
my own expense, gave someone my water.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I was like, fuck, I kind of wanted that well.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
And you know what Terry Cole said, which is what
also resonates with me, is she said this, and I'm
gonna say everything wrong that she said.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I'm totally I have a horrible memory and I'm awful
at saying things.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
But she said, basically, you can't save people, and you
have to let people be the hero of their own story,
and it's not our job to like be everyone's savior.
Even though I feel that same way. Mine was debilitating
and once I had a daughter. It took me down
so hard. I literally was like debilitating anxiety just because
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I was so worried about just her happiness.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Twenty for seven of the day.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I'm so I was so codependent with her. But anyway,
it's just like these people, like who's to say that
them hitting rock bottom and them having a moment that
like we are trying to prevent them from having because
we need them to be healthy and happy so we
can then try to relax. But who's to say that
them having that moment that they break down isn't the
moment that they need that's going to chart the whole
rest of them.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
And I could have interfered and ruined it.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, and they didn't need that to heal themselves. And
like we're trying to create the story, but like we
don't know how.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
The cookie supposed to crumble. So like thinking that people
might actually.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Need those breakdowns that's true is because like think about
your own life.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Have you learned the most from like your darkest moments?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
God, And they're the worst and you wouldn't wish them
on anyone, but you look back and you're like, I'm
glad I had that.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
One hundred percent. But it's yes, no, one hundred percent,
because I feel like my darkest days are the days
that kind of brought me to.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
My happiest days.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
But yeah, I keep, like, I really do keep thinking
about Sunday because even there was like an older gentleman.
It like makes you want to cry. He was emptying
the trash. It like he was emptying the trash, and like,
my dad is seventy five, my mom is sixty eight,
and there's just like they there's just this part of
me like I saw this guy emptying the trash and
I was like, I don't know, so I'm so socially
awkward in these moments because I feel compelled to talk
to him. I'm like, I just want to say thank you,
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thank you for keeping the grounds clean. And I didn't
know this was so awkward, and he's like thank You's
like it's just really hard on my back. He looked
like he was like honestly probably early seventies, and he
was like, just a lot of my back would thank
He was like, it's not easy pulling this stuff out.
I'm like, well, it's really I don't know what's to say.
I'm like, it's really you know. My brother was a
janitor for a long time and I know it's a
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hard job, so thank you, and then I walk away.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I'm like, what, why do I feel in need? But
I think that's great. I don't know, maybe it's sweet,
Maybe it's I think the only problematic when it like
takes you down.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Yeah, Because then I like left and I was sad
and I was like my friends were like I was
trying to find everyone, and I grew worry.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
I'm like having a moment.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Not sure why.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
They're super empathetic too.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
You always been, no, but I actually think I think
to what you mentioned, like they the darkest days make
you realize, Like have you had some dark days? Yeah?
I went through like a really really really tough time,
like a really awful breakup like ten years ago. And
I feel like there's this quote that resonates me, resonates
with me that.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Oh my god, now, like I love this quote. So
I don't know, I don't know where I heard it.
It's Oh my gosh, it's this out fire Jesus. What
is his name? Uh? This is Robin Williams.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Robin Williams.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Oh, I thought you're gonna quote missed out Fire? Yeah,
Robin Williams Robin Williams.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
He said, the saddest people try to make people the
happiest because they know what that sadness feels like. So
I feel like that's where my change happened. I feel
like I went to this really depressing, awful, horrible breakup.
I was betrayed by a long term partner, portrayed by
my best friend, awful, off awful, and then I feel
and you're like, thirty thirty thirty one. How long did
(08:59):
that take you down till like a year ago? No,
I mean really along, I mean for a few years
for sure. I feel like I had to deal do
like a lot of self help and therapy, and it
went away to this place called Hoffman. Are you sure
if you're familiar, It's like a it's kind of like
a life reset ten days, no social media, no phones,
just kind of like self meditation, like finding out who
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you are and forgiving people a lot of like work
about forgiving people that it might have hurt you, and
trying to have empathy with people, like why they've made
the choices they've made to.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Not Yeah, it was really helpful.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Yeah, do you feel like you changed in that relationship
or the betrayal happened, and that's where the heartbreak came
from that, So you were like yourself in the relationship
and then I feel like hit with like a yeah,
oh wham yes, and.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
So I feel like that's I feel like that was
the shift that made me be like I don't know,
I just like see every I feel like I see
the world differently in a way.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Because you broke that. It broke you so much. Man,
heartbreak to this, to this base boards to the studs
is like brutal. Yeah, So would you learn after that?
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Don't trust nobody to I know, I know.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
I'm just going through there right now with like a
best friends relation, and I'm like, oh, it's so hard
to let people in and I don't know if I
can do it anymore because I'm like people that you
think you love so much and that.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
You know so much, Like just they say like every
time you get hurt, you have like a little less
to give. Yeah, But I don't know if.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I don't know if honestly I feel like my pair,
I don't know if now that we're best friends, you're
gonna been mega.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
I don't want to come. You're strong, but I love
you so much and I love your mole. Never get
rid of it. I wanted to get rid of it
so many times.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Ever, whose people are like, you got something under your eye,
I'm like, it's a mold the best. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Your mole is like so perfect.
Speaker 4 (10:46):
Well, because you said it, I'm keeping it.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
It is adorable and it is precious and every time
I see it, your facial expressions are great. That's why
you're a wonderful actress. Anyway, this is Sabina everyone. I
haven't even introduced you.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
Welcome to get Really, we just really hit the ground running.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Yes, you're an actor. You're married to a country amazing
singer Tyler Rich.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Yeah, Tyler Rich.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
You have a great family that are Polish.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
They're amazing. I think they're the reasons I've stayed soft. Okay, yeah,
because you are soft, like not being like and have
like I don't know. My parents are just so joyful
and like truly love love love, love life.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
And my dad.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
I think my dad makes me feel comfy and wild
like because I grew up with like my my wild
dad that didn't care like he's just he doesn't take
life too seriously and I feel like he's who's like
I've watched growing up being like, Okay, life happens and
you can't get too hard and stay soft and there's
a lot of joy.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, I think he's How does he stay that way? Well,
it's up wait till you meet him.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
You gotta come over it. We don't have plans. Richie's
gonna be here, Okay, perfect coming, He's awesome. Oh how
how did he get that way though? How did he
get that perspective?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
How my mom and dad are from Poland?
Speaker 2 (11:54):
But your dad's name is Richie.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Yeah, and your last name is rich Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
That's cute.
Speaker 4 (11:57):
And so I actually hyphenated my last name. I was
going to do just Sabina rich. But I think it's
kind of sweet. Like I'm kind of like, oh, I
don't want to get emotional.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Just cry. It's so fun to cry. I love some tears.
Let him out, let him out.
Speaker 4 (12:10):
I just am like really like tied to my last name.
My my brother's battling brain cancer, and so I just
feel like he has two girls, and I just am
very like, I just love my last name. And so
you just love her family.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I love my family. Love what your last name symbolized?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
This? Yes?
Speaker 4 (12:27):
So I was gonna do Sabina Rich, but I hyphenated
it Sabina Godeci Rich. But it's kind of sweet because
my dad's name, you know, Rich Goadeki. So my last
name is like my dad's name in reverse.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Makes me happy. That's so sweet.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
I got to carry the name on even though our
children won't have that, but you know, maybe maybe they'll
take it.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
So what was your family vibes like? Because not everyone
has a family that they're just like giddy about.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
You know, that's true, and I think that's why, to
be honest, for so many years, I felt jealous of
my friends that were like, I can't wait to have
a family and they were so sure about having children
and it I always knew I wanted kids, but I
never felt like that, like I can't wait to be pregnant.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Same really, Oh yeah, I never even wanted kids until
I hit really twenty nine and then I thought I did.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
And then I hit about thirty five and it came
on like a freaking for eight dream same here, and
then I was like, oh shit, I don't want just
want kids.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I like half to have yas where I'm at immediately, Yeah, And.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
It was not easy process, but go ahead finish. So
people always were jealous that they wanted kids.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
Well, I think my hesitation of wanting kids was how
close I was with my family and seeing that not
everyone has that, And I'm always.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Like, what is what is the recipe for the process?
Tell us?
Speaker 4 (13:40):
I don't freaking know.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Love laughter, I think taking yourself too seriously? Yeah, what
y'all's family vibes?
Speaker 4 (13:46):
Like, like from my mom and dad are both from
poland only spoke Polish at home growing up when I
was a kid.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Are they were they born?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Yeah, so it's my first language.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
So they came over here together.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
H No, they met here, but my mom was nineteen.
I'm actually my mom was fifteen when she met my dad.
My dad was twenty two different time and they kept
their love strong.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
They just celebrated fifty years and so you brought your
mom's running dress out.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Yeah, and I recreated their wedding pictures. Like I was like,
they're gonna kill me for this, but I like had
their wedding album and I was like, Okay, there's this
photo of them, like saying, doing their first cake cutting.
There's this photo of them doing their first dance. So
like I recreated all these photos from their wedding day,
and I was running around the album like, I swear
it's gonna make sense. It's so cute. I have to
send it to you after. It's very sweet.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Love love love, love, love love love your family. I
do like so much.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
But like that was my fear of like having kids,
is that, like you can raise them and do all
the things, and then you see kids that are just
like not close with their parents. I'm like, that would suck.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Were your parents super like uh cuddly? They're like love,
Like what were they like?
Speaker 4 (14:49):
What?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
I would just I want to know because I'm in
the middle of raising a five year old, I'm like, what.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Is Yeah, I dive into what did they do? Because
I want this with our whole future kids that haven't
arrived yet.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Oh, they're coming on. Proud of you for your journey.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
I know it sucks what you're doing right now, Ivy suck.
I'm gonna cry for you. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
This jorney is really hard until you get in the
middle of it. It sucks falls any which way. It
is like some people get pregnant when they just look
at a penis.
Speaker 4 (15:29):
You know, facts and.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
They're just like, how did has happened? And I'm like,
you don't even know how? Looking yeah, and then other
people like cannot it is so hard.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
I never did IVF, but I had five miscarriages and
was struggling for almost like seven years. With eight years,
it's just like it is so exhausting and devastating. IVF
is like a whole nother layer.
Speaker 4 (15:52):
Oh, it's way more intense than I ever imagined. I
feel like I'll be honest, going into it, I was
like I kind of had a I feel bad because
I'd really been disconnected from so many of my friends
who had gone through it. It just was like freezing
my eggs. It just became such like a unfreezing my eggs.
And I didn't check in on friends that probably I
should have been checking in on.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
I was.
Speaker 4 (16:13):
It was hard to know though you don't tell you
go through it. You don't know, don't you don't know?
And actually, so three years ago what happened was I
just I just went to see like my timeline. Actually
I wanted to see what my timeline looked like if
we should be freezing eggs. I want to have two
kids and they just part of their protocol was just doing.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
I wasn't expecting this.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
They just did all this blood work, all this testing,
and then all of a sudden, we're like, we're calling
you with your genetic results.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
It's not something I sought out. And they called and
they were like, okay, so.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
We have your results. We're gonna wait for Tyler's And
they called and ty and I are both carriers for
the same genetic defect which is really rare but called
alpha tripsun deficiency and it would affect I hope I
didn't say that wrong. That sound really silly, but I
think I got it right. And it's the lung development
of our baby. So we have like a could have
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a really really sick child. So our first round of IVF,
there's this part of me that's like, is it I
don't know, Like you want to get pregnant naturally, but
once you have the knowledge that there's a twenty five
percent chance we could be a care have a really
sick child, Like it's when people develop COPD, people who
(17:26):
pass away from never having smoked before. We were trying
to do the responsible thing, but I was like, we
should still try naturally, and because for my age, you know,
I just turned forty one a couple weeks ago. So
they say to you want to have two children. We
were kind of embarking on the journey to be able
to like do twins, not to have twins. Well, this,
our particular clinic doesn't actually do that. Don't know why
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they like don't advise in doing that. I mean, now
I'm like, I kind of want to get it out
of the way, listen both. But anyway, so our first
round in March, I thought, I'm like, okay, well will
freeze and then we could try naturally, and we go
through the whole process, and then we ended up with
two healthy embryos at the end, and one is positive
of our genetic defect. Really yeah, and so it's an
(18:13):
ixt scared that did to like I thought we were
going to have like eight or nine embryos or more,
because you start off with so many, start off with
seventeen eggs, and then that gets halfed through your you know,
the while you're doing the hormones because they're not growing
at the same rates ever, and then some are too
mature too quickly, some don't mature like at the same rate,
and so it ended up with two embryos and then
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one was positive. And then when I talked to the doctor,
I was like, how much would this have affected our life?
She's like, your entire life moving forward would be. It's
kind of hard to talk abut because I feel like
people feel like it's like playing god.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
But just we know so much now.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
It's almost that we would never choose a sex or anything.
We don't want to like choose anything like that. But
it's it's literally just knowing. Once you have the knowledge
that I didn't seek out. It's like here, you know
that you would have a sick child, and then once
you have it, you're like, oh gosh, how do I
make a smart decision?
Speaker 2 (19:07):
This is such like a moral dilemma. Yeah, isn't it
the whole thing?
Speaker 3 (19:10):
It's like such a blessing because you can get pregnant
when otherwise maybe, you know, people run into so many
obstacles with Yeah, but then you do have all this knowledge.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
And I didn't even ask for I was just like,
all of a sudden, I was presented with all this
info and I'm like.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I would never have known otherwise. But it's like now
that you have the knowledge, oh my god, I.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Mean talk about moral dilemma for days. It is it
is so this, the whole journey is so wild, isn't it?
Speaker 4 (19:39):
And then it's like you expect to have more and
then like I never.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Really right, you would think you'd get like tons.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Well, then I'm like, you don't. I never really sat
and thought about my age. I feel like maybe living
in New York in LA for as long as I
have that, you just feel like age feels very different there.
And then we like moved to Nashville and my neighbors
I'm like Tyana Taku Love aren't neighbors and were like
I think there are same ties three years younger than me.
I'm like, I think that the same age as us.
(20:06):
I wonder and they have like children in middle school.
I'm like, I know I'm so far behind, Like I
did not think it until recently.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
You're not far behind at all, because you went and
you did a very big adventure that you have to
be able to give all cry You've got your eyes
make me want to cry because.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
You're so thoughtful, you have such a deep soul. But
like you went out and you.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
Chased your dreams, and the dreams that you're chasing, they
have to take all of your whole being. Like I'm
not saying you can't have kids when you are a
professional anything in the entertainment industry, but like it is
a sacrifice. Somebody is going to get a sacrifice. And
I think that it's totally honorable and amazing that you
went all in for it because you have to give
(20:47):
your full self. And also like I think that you
wouldn't have I mean, anybody can do anything with any situation,
but like the fact that you just wanted to focus
all of your energy on it is I think the
way to go.
Speaker 4 (20:59):
You know, it's so funny they say, like with I mean,
I don't know if you've ever heard this, but like,
if you want to book the biggest job of your life,
plan a vacation if you want to. And I feel
like that's what happened really started on this journey of
like I said, just really just educating myself to see
if we should be rushing, to see if I should
be freezing eggs, because they also really the goal at
the beginning was to freeze eggs so that we could
(21:19):
have more than one child, because you know, as you
get older, the more you lose, you know, and it's
a very real thing that I didn't really think about.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
But then lo and behold.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
The second we started on this journey, I booked fire
Country and I was like, uh, well, it's lovely, and
then it was like, oh, you're recurring because I didn't
know first it was just one episode two years ago.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (21:41):
So it's been two years. I booked it like Halloween weekend.
It was my first episode of season one, and so
I'm like, okay, so it's one episode, and you don't know.
When you're recurring on a show, you have no idea.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
You're like, it's always living with that constant limbo, but
then trying to be okay with it. Yes.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
So that's why when we were like trying to book this,
I'm like, oh, gosh, I have filming something next month
and I have literally no idea what day.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
It sucks.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
You literally just have to be like but you have
to learn how to like be calm in this like
constantly window and then it can come.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Through at the end. It could fall through at the end.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
And the thing that I also, yeah, I'm I Brady
booked it. I know that, But I'm also tracking my
cycle for our third IVF round and So when we
were talking about locking in a time, I'm like, I
don't want to be like TMI in the email, but
I was like, Okay, I don't know they I don't
know the dates that I'm shooting this film. But then
I'm trying I'm trying to track my ovulation for the
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next the next round of vibue yah. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
And that's a grueling process. Yes, Like you have two
shots for two weeks.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
Yes, and it's like you yes, And.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Tyler can handle the shots, he like passes out, which
is hilarious.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
You're over there with like the bruised up belly, like
shoving these shots into your body multiple times a day,
and Tyler's like like I can't handle it.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
It's funny because he's all tatted, he's all tough, but
he's like he's like when he's like, I heard it
broke the skin. I felt to break the skin.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
It's just like actually, he's gets like sweaty palms and
his feet starts sweating, and he's like he's like I
can't I care, and he like gets lightheaded. He almost
fainted in our appointment true story, And you're just.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Over there like I'm fine. Everyone. I can't wait for
your delivery.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
When the baby comes out.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
He's gonna pass out, pass out. That's funny.
Speaker 3 (23:19):
Okay, yeah, but that's no easy process. So like two
weeks of shots like multiple times a day.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Right, oh gosh, yeah, so they I mean specific So yeah,
this would be my third round. I mean, like I said,
like the first round, I thought we were gonna be
good to I didn't think I was gonna do a
second round, never mind third. It's a lot. You just
have to like carry around your medicine and on some
of it on ice. I could be like if you
try to go to dinner, you have to be like
in the bathroom bringing out your needles and your alcohol
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swabs and your.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Needle disposal kit.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
You know, it's a lot. You can tell me it's
very sore. And then because the eggs are growing at
different rates, they try to keep you from ovulating, so
then they add another shot in the morning, so then
you're having and then the dosages when you're like breaking
up the dosages, so some days you're doing like within
like five shots in a day because like one of
the vials has only three hundred milligrams in it, and
so that I mean everyone's gonna go.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
What the fuck do I care about this job? I
want used to write it down. You have to keep
a journal.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
And then when you're like divvying up the medicine on
one day, you're like, oh, this day, I have to
double shop to make up for the medicine that was left.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Over from yesterday. It's a lot.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
Meanwhile, you're sweating thinking about it show.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
I mean talk about like having to switch your brain
on it off. It's a lot.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
And then I'm like and then I'm like this again,
you got like this little pooch.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Well, because you're injecting yourself with just much hormones, it's
a lot.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
Are you actually Maybe that's why, Yeah, maybe that's why
I want to cry every four seconds with you. It
me it's your sweet eyes too.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Oh god, It's just like, that's a lot, Sabina, It's
been a lot.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
You said something.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
I'm gonna say I'm gonna write it down because I
thought that this might be what it is. But you said, um,
been a tough season on this side of the phone,
and you quit drinking for a while and you started meditating.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Yes, this is a tough season. That you're talking this
is a have season.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
I just feel like, yeah, I feel it became a
little bit of It's funny. My mom doesn't drink, my
dad loves his cocktails, my brother doesn't drink. I love
my cocktails, and I feel like it has sort of
become a I don't want to say problem, but I
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definitely started to. I guess I didn't realize how much
I reached for it. Yeah, Like every time I'd be
going every single flight, I couldn't wait to like sit
at the bar and have my wine. And then I'd
get on the plane and then have my wine. And
then I'd have a stressful day and I'd have my
wine and then and then Tie's song leave her a
while that all the Ties shows.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
It became this thing like in COVID, this like drinking
habit of like I love whiskey, picklebacks, I love them.
Why is that?
Speaker 4 (25:46):
Oh, maybe we should bring back the drinking today.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
We've we quit three years ago for the same reason.
Just finally, my husband was like, I gotta, I gotta.
I've won the game without breaking any of the without
anything falling apart.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I think it's time to have a pautful exit. I
was like, you know what, I'm a terrible drinker. So really, oh,
I like yell at somebody or make out with them.
Really yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:09):
So oh, I exchange numbers for everyone.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
I think everyone's up. That's why I'm a bad text
because I have so many strangers have my numbers. Oh
my gosh, I just show you and then I all
show you the adventures that you're gonna do with them.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
I just text this to Tyler went out to dinner
with his his sister in law, I mean his sister.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
I give my number to strangers.
Speaker 4 (26:28):
Friend, I got to show you this. This is Tie
and his my sister in law, And I said, who
is this? This is one of my final drinking nights, your.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Best friend that you made that day? Hey are you?
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Is that you?
Speaker 2 (26:40):
It's me and you're it's Alyssa. Our pick is fire.
So nice meeting you and you're doing kissy faces and
you don't even know her dad. I don't know who
this is, but y'all have numbers and kissy face pictures together.
I don't mean, so what what did this common?
Speaker 4 (26:54):
What is that?
Speaker 2 (26:55):
When you see that? What do you think? I go ooh?
She strikes again. She strikes again, I mean I have
so many.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
I have like two thousand. I have like fifteen open
text because it just like started to happen.
Speaker 3 (27:09):
Like hen you're what gets either you're either and I
know Timos the other you're either like no inbox?
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Like look at mine? Where is mine?
Speaker 4 (27:16):
Mine?
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Is mine?
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Is?
Speaker 2 (27:17):
It's okay?
Speaker 3 (27:18):
I have zero open tabs anywhere. Not one number is
on any kind of app. There is no alert anywhere.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
It is all clear. Well that's why I've been doing
the do not disturb because it just fake clear? Is
it free? Do you know that? But it's still stuffed
under that.
Speaker 4 (27:34):
I know it's under the rug. It's under there, Melissa,
my friend Alyssa's probably texting me.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
I don't even know it. You just block it, well,
you just push it away.
Speaker 4 (27:43):
I don't. I had to take a moment and I
just I mean, but it's not good. Oh it's not good.
So now what happens?
Speaker 2 (27:49):
Everyone reaches out to Tyler.
Speaker 4 (27:50):
Hey, I know Sabina will probably see this text messages,
trying to get a hold of her. I'm like, oh,
that's just that's how I yeah, I got So that's
kind of what started the no drinking.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
I just use too many friends to keep up with.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
You can't I can't have any more friends. I don't
even know who the people text me like you love
her too much.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
You've got to put some boundaries on it here.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
People coming to me at shows and be like whiskey
pickle back and I'm like yes, And then I do
another one and then another one, and then I felt
like this is gonna sound ridiculous because I am like
not comparing myself at all to like Jim Carrey at all,
but like I'll never forget. I met him at a
Halloween party in LA several years ago, and I don't
even know why we ended up having.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
This like heart to heart. You had a heart to
heart with Jim Carrey, heart to heart. I would die
to have a heart heart with Jim Carrey.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
He's so he's so sweet, brilliant, though he's so far out,
Like where'd you go with your conversation?
Speaker 4 (28:39):
We were talking about drinking.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Should you go into the stratosphere a little bit?
Speaker 3 (28:42):
Tell us a little much as you can tell. I
need to know what a hard heart conversation.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
With Jim Carrey.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
I'm not drinking, And then he was I don't even
see hilarious too, he was. That's where the conversation went.
The conversation was sort of people always having these expectations
of him. Why we why he chose to talk with
Sabina at the Howe party. Don't know, well, you.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Are amazing, empathetic, awesome, and everyone's like this, girls, I
don't know, this is the one.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
We're going deep, So we did, he said.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
He was saying, it's like, it's really hard for everyone
to always expect for you to be this person like always,
everyone's always expecting him to be funny and be the
character that they get to know.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
And that's why when you see all these interviews now
he's really like.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
Deep, yeah, really deep, like profoundly That's how he was.
He was very very yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
But I know this is gonna sound insane, but that
conversation really sat with me.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
And then and Ty is the best and writes all
these really sweet songs and then leave her wild and
then I'm like, I don't know. It's like my girlfriend's
bacherette party and she didn't want a stripper, and I
dressed up in a dick costume, and I did gave
her a strip tease and a dick costume. Can I
say that, Yeah, that's great, dressed as a dick, and
I gave her this dance and and then like and
(29:55):
then my bachelrett party was shortly after, and then I
got penis nails. And then there's like you're trying to
You're just a lot of fun. There's a penis trend happening,
a really heavy penis trend house. So everyone started. And
then ties song leaver World came out, so then it
started to happen.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Had nothing to do with penises, nothing.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
To do with penises. But now I have to tell you,
people come to tie shows wearing penises. They get penis
nails because they give me penis.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Are you in the music video of penis nails? But
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
There's penis correlation happening. People will bring me mugs that
will be like missus rich, but like in penises, I
swear penis like I got recently. Uh, I think the
mold it's either for pancakes or eggs, but it's penis.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
People just bring you penis, yes, designs.
Speaker 4 (30:38):
It's just happened. But the point of me saying all
this is, say you liked Dick.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
I'm not mad about it.
Speaker 4 (30:44):
I'm not mad about that kind of kind of like Dick,
I'm he is not mad about it. So this is
what really took a left turn.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
So yeah, Sackage and Carrie.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Basically I think, like my Dick lov him self, I
love this. It became this like thing that everyone would
come to the shows and get me.
Speaker 3 (31:05):
Like there were little whiskey backs with penises with Dix, Yes,
Dick's whiskeys pickles.
Speaker 4 (31:12):
It became this and Tyler and Tyler, and it became
this whole thing. And then I felt like to the
gym care, I felt like I needed to be Yes
I did. I felt like I needed to be the fun.
It is a big part of me, but it's not
all of me.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
And then that's what happened.
Speaker 4 (31:27):
I was just drinking and getting fucked up, like changing
numbers with people I don't know. Then they're like, hey,
I'm at the show. I'm like, I don't know what
this is, and I had my phone and then.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
At the moment is over, I'm sorry, it's over.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
I was really present in that moment, but it's got over,
and like, so that's why I've taken a break on
the drinking. And then yeah, and the IVF and just like.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
A lot of conflicting things going your do you know
Melissa would know.
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Her Instagram is Melissa Wood Health. She's like my really
near and dear friend and friends for like twenty years,
and she is like healthy.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
And she that's like the worst way to describe her.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
She's healthy and she's just really healthy. She has built
the most incredible platform and inspiring people's lives and just
she does fitness. She has like a workout with Pilate's
Pilates platform and then meditation and she's like, Sabina, you
need this. Just give me thirty days. Just like give
me thirty days of meditating and not drinking. She's literally
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been saying this to me for like four years, and
I'm like, I'm going to do it, and then I don't,
and then I say I'm gonna do it, and then
I don't, and I say'm gonna do it, and then
I don't. And then I just think with everything I'm
kind of going through in my life and like with
my brother with IVF, just sort of transition like trying
to find you know, from working the best couple of
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years of my life. You know, Fire Country was unbelievable.
I shot some like my biggest projects to being like, Okay,
I really need to be a mom because I'm gonna
this is going to pass me by. I'm going to
keep focusing on work and I'm going to lose the
opportunity to be a mom. Like crazy, how am I
forty one? How one day I was clubbing and hearing
forty one?
Speaker 2 (33:07):
I don't know how it happens. I know I'm supposed to.
I feel. My problem is is I feel like I'm
supposed to.
Speaker 4 (33:14):
Be more like.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Evolved, elevated or like what is the word I'm trying
to say.
Speaker 3 (33:25):
Like I definitely feel evolved in my mind, like I
do a lot of thinking and spirituality stuff, but like
I don't feel like I'm advanced where I need to
be as far as an adult, Like I don't feel
like I'm forty one at all.
Speaker 4 (33:37):
I mean, I just talked for twenty minutes about Dick.
That's one of the forty one.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
Year olds I knew when I was a kid were
like super adult together and adults yes, And I am
like not yes, So I feel the same way.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
I'm like, at least have a family. You're like that
feels way more evolved than where I'm at you're you.
Speaker 2 (33:53):
We were circling the same they We're in the same sphere.
It's all the same.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
I am literally I have had the same journey as
you with like being older, like figuring it out, very
to a musicians struggling in the journey, Like I promise
you we're at the same spot. It's all the same.
I understand exactly how you feel in a different way,
you know. But no, we're at the same spot. And
as soon as you have a kid, you'll be right
there and then maybe I'll grow up. No, you won't,
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but it'll just grow you in different ways. It just
makes you like totally expanded to another universe that like
you didn't even know.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Because it's gonna be a good mom. You're gonna be
great mom because you're so loving and kind.
Speaker 4 (34:29):
I feel like I could be a good mom.
Speaker 3 (34:31):
But you're gonna be so sweet and fun, and you're
gonna let your kid be wild however they want to
be or have.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Your kid is gonna but that's okay. I have her
too much. Honey's gonna regret. She's gonna be like my
mom never left me alone. She's gonna think you're so cool.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
I hope she's gonna think you're so quacked just town. Well,
she's my very best friend, like in the whole world. Yes, cute, yeah,
like for sure, like my best friend so and she's
my only child, and like she's gonna have Also it's
problems because I'm hovering thinking she's my best friend and
she's five.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
No, she's gonna be like, mom, get the hell out
of my gonna be like like there's gonna be like
wherever you go, I'm coming to. I am like you're
moving to uh Alaska?
Speaker 4 (35:11):
So am I.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
I'm here for that.
Speaker 4 (35:15):
It's not a joke though, No, I imagine I imagine
I'll be like that.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
I mean will yes, And because you're so creative and
amazing that you can be so flexible with your life
that like just you know, wherever your wonderful flower child
wants to do, you'll just go.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (35:41):
I keep thinking I've always wanted. I've always wanted what
I have, Like I have an older brother, a little girl.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Oh you know what I'm saying. I was a little girl.
Speaker 4 (35:49):
Yeah, Like I've always like thought I was gonna have
a boy first and then a girl. But for some reason,
like lately, I'm like, I think, girl, first, do you
have a knowing?
Speaker 3 (35:58):
Like I just knew I We've tried for a second
one for so many and it just didn't work. And
now I just feel like I've kind of lost the
faith for it. Yeah, just because like the journey is
so tedious, and after these last three miscarriacters, I was
just like, okay, after yes, two, before three, after and
I'm just like, I just feel like really tired of
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being in this cycle.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
And I'm just like, I'm so grateful for what I have.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
I love Sonny so much, and I knew I was
having her like before she came, Like I knew I
was having a girl, and I knew she was going
to be spirited.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Like exactly how she is. I felt it. I never
felt a boy.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
Really, do you have like a feeling? I for some
reason do, I like, for some reason, I don't know
what it is. I don't know if it's the closeness
with my nieces, I don't know. I do I feel
like I feel like our first is going to be
a little girl.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
I did too, Not that I know anything about you
besides today, but like in my heart, that's what I
feel it's gonna happen.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
I already have like names picked out, good names.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
I'm gonna tell us you are you.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
Okay, I'm obsessed with New York for a name, so
I can't. I'm not gonna say the name. No, no,
it's it's New York inspired. But don't guess, because I'm
a very bad liar. And if you guess it, I'm
just gonna give it away one second. I just yes, no,
I'm kidding. I just got my New York City tattoo.
I love New York makes me so happy. That's where
I'm doing IVF. Actually, and if you go to New
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York to do IVF, yes, that's a good idea. I
actually found this amazing place called Spring Fertility. My friend
Melissa actually Melissa Wood, and they can all connect shit.
I know, she just really inspired.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
So she connected me with this doctor there. She's amazing.
I love her.
Speaker 4 (37:42):
But it's funny because people have a lot of anxiety
in New York. Yes, and it's odd what happens to me.
I have like this sense of calm. I'm from Massachusetts,
so when I'm in I've always like dreamed about living
in New York. I lived there for ten years. So
when I go back there, I feel like that's like
been the saving grace and the IVF Journey is doing
it in New York.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
I have to tell you, I don't know what it is.
It's just like my happy place in life. You feel calm. Yeah.
Do you like that everyone is super busy and going places.
Speaker 4 (38:08):
Maybe that works well for me, that I can't stop
to thing that you.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
Just can keep moving, just keep moving, everyone's moving, everyone's moving.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
But also I can hop on the train. Amtrak is
two and a half hours for my family. I'm just
hop on a plane, same time a zone. It's nice. Yeah,
our baby's name is New York inspired.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Yes, don't. Okay, Well, I guess I don't even know.
We're start Canal River. You got it right.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
It's a second name I had in find really oh
killing me. I do like river, but unfortunately two of
my friends have rivers.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (38:37):
Every time I have a good name, I'm just getting
to the age and all my names are getting stolen.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
It's okay, you can do it anyway.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
I've decided, you know, I finally decided at forty one.
You can do it anyway if it's authentic to you,
even if your friend has it, and even if people
do it, and cause like nobody's gonna copy anyone at
this age.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
I mean you can, but like I'm not. I'm gonna
only do something that I generally want to do.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
So if someone else has already done it, and you
think I'm following your lead, you can think that, but
that's not true.
Speaker 2 (39:02):
I'm doing because I wanted to.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
I've actually been ever wanted this for a long time.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
Yeah, and you just got there first, and so great grass,
but like it's also what.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
I also what I want as well. Yeah, yeah, so
that's fine. Can I tell you a funny story?
Speaker 3 (39:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (39:12):
Maybe I shouldn't. If you should, just like came to mind,
don't hear it?
Speaker 2 (39:18):
So ty love's huskies. I saw you'll have one. We
have one, a surprise husky.
Speaker 4 (39:22):
He's a surprise husky. I didn't want him. Yeah, he's
my son.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
I love him. What's his name?
Speaker 4 (39:28):
Yuki ki yukon, but he's not a yukon.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
He's a sweet boy. So one time we were is
that polish the way you said that, I don't.
Speaker 4 (39:37):
It came out like I had an accino. I can
let's seem nash sush Yes, Kohan. Yeah, you go Gohan,
so I sin, I said, I that doesn't sound very polish.
Isn't very sexy? Is it?
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Kind of? I mean I thought it was hot.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
Okay, we wanted to name like one time, we were like, okay,
we love the name wolf and wild, like for a boy, wolfy,
wild for a girl.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
And Tyler's dad.
Speaker 4 (40:09):
He used to model, naughty, modeling, naked model, naught, naughty,
not in sex sexy magazines.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
He was.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Yeah, he was in sexy magazines. And Tyler's dad yeah,
is he gonna die that?
Speaker 2 (40:26):
We said this dad time might die? Hey, sorry about
your luck. It's in print out there somewhere. I'm gonna go.
Let's find it.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Well.
Speaker 4 (40:32):
One thing will reveal is that his I you see
bear bones, I've seen it's cropped.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
What I've seen is cropped. You've seen all? He said,
bones I've got Yeah, you've seen Tyler's dad No, no,
I what I saw was cropped. But he like what
you saw?
Speaker 4 (40:53):
See where I see where TI gets it from? But
his so I was like, we were talking to Tai's
mom when we were like, we like the names well
and wild, and she was like, you can't do wild.
That was his stage name, what he.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
Performed on stage. I'm not like, wait, some blurry parts,
but that was part part of Yeah, that's part of
his stage name. How was Tyler's childhood? What was it
like growing up?
Speaker 4 (41:17):
Did his dad do this as his dad?
Speaker 2 (41:20):
This is awesome.
Speaker 4 (41:22):
He's not super close. He's not super super close with
his dad. Okay, he had He's not super super close.
But I mean so, I mean, I wish I could
ask him these things. Maybe he'll maybe he'll circle back
and I can ask him about now, like he can't
say his first name to us. Are fine and really fast,
but just know that Wild was part of the name.
And that's and so this is why I think we
realized Ty's like, we can't share baby names because everyone
(41:43):
has a story. So we were like Wolf and wild
and then immediately we hear it's the stage name. Now
Wild's out the door. Can't be glad you know that story.
I know it would be kind of a bum or
fi after the fact.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
Yeah, I mean, but just in general, like that is
at an enriching life story to know about your husbands.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
You know, Janetta a photo that's awesome.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
So you and Tyler met at Stay Church, Yes, and
that's what spawned cowboy tears. Yes, because you guys were
hanging out and then he walked up with a face mask.
Yes you're good, and you're like, who is this handsome zoro?
Speaker 2 (42:16):
He was dancing. Are you handsome?
Speaker 4 (42:18):
Let's see, Yes, you're good at this.
Speaker 3 (42:21):
I just love to hear pool stories and this gives
me like the permission to get all through getting nosy
with people, which you can't do in real life.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Carey, that's true.
Speaker 4 (42:29):
Okay, this is Tyler. So he's got this song on
Spotify called real Love.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Okay, so you're his muse all the time, I'd like
to think so.
Speaker 4 (42:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
And in this video that plays, I just typed in
real olive.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
This song. This thing that plays in the background, this
is Tie dancing before we met. This is me and
my friends. And then that's ty hopping behind me before
we met with the bandana on.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
So this is like he's strategically the case we want
to show this. Can you see this?
Speaker 4 (43:07):
He strategically danced behind me.
Speaker 2 (43:09):
No, I feel like those influencers.
Speaker 4 (43:11):
This inst this lipstick and Okay, okay, so this video
this was before we ever met, and I was like,
my friend, my friends were like.
Speaker 2 (43:20):
That guy is so hot. So was he just jumping
around like a bopping around so by himself with.
Speaker 4 (43:26):
Well actually who ended up being one of our grooms men.
So Dustin Lynch was performing come here, Oh my goodness,
come on, come over here, come on, come on.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
Yeah yeah yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:42):
So Dustin was performing, and Ty had just been on
tour with Dustin. I didn't know anything about country music,
like at all, because you're just like living in La,
straight up living in La. I knew nothing.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
I was actually going through a really bad breakup. This
was that season. It was I've only had two boyfriends
before time. Was this the bad bad breakup? Or this
was do you have two bad breakups? This wasn't. This
was just a regular heartbreak breakup, yes, not like a betrayal.
Speaker 4 (44:07):
Yes, not like exactly okay, this one was just like
a my heart's broken, yes, okay exactly. But so yeah,
I've only had two boyfriends before Ty, And so we're
at and I was like not ready to meet somebody else,
and he's just bopping around next to us, just hopping
up a storm, and my friends are like, that guy
is so hot, and I was like, m it's all tatted.
I don't know if that's my thing, And he had
(44:29):
this bandana on his face and we're like, so.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
They didn't see his face. They just thought his presence
was hot.
Speaker 4 (44:33):
Presence was hot, and his bodies tattoos, his eyes, and
we're like, what if he pulls that bandan off?
Speaker 2 (44:39):
So he became I was like, yeah, we're all very
but he also just kind of came out of nowhere.
But the story's pull the bandan off and what's there?
No teeth? Yeah, or mug mug, just like an ugly mug.
Oh mug ugly?
Speaker 4 (44:52):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, we you know, it's actually funny.
The story starts before this, which I didn't know. So
Tyler had seen me on Friday of stage he saw
me walk by backstage and he was like, she must
be with somebody, and I guess he double. He like
looked at me when I walked by, and I didn't
look at him, so he's like, she's with somebody. And
then on Sunday of Stage Coach, he was on stage
(45:14):
watching Dustin because he had just been touring with Dustin
Lynch and he saw me in the pit dancing. He's like,
that's the girl.
Speaker 2 (45:20):
Izy to see you everywhere at these very crowded places.
Speaker 4 (45:23):
Well, the backstage area at stage Coach isn't like as
crowded as like Coachella and stuff is.
Speaker 3 (45:27):
It's like, I'm just saying, he like locked eyes right away,
he fell ties, he felt.
Speaker 2 (45:32):
But I was a connection.
Speaker 4 (45:33):
I I was just not in a place of ready
to meet somebody else at all. I had never been single.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
I was like, it is time to get some random dick.
I'm just kidding. Did you have that season at all?
No dany never, not even a little no never.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
I maybe when I say I've only had two boyfriends before,
it time like I was with one from twenty to
like thirty one and then two years and there's no
one between.
Speaker 2 (46:01):
So we're not on double digits. No we're on one.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Oh no we're not.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
We're not on double digit So you were like ready
to explore.
Speaker 4 (46:09):
Oh I was ready to explore.
Speaker 2 (46:10):
Good.
Speaker 4 (46:11):
Yeah, I was like, let's go, girls fucking go. And
then here and then here comes this tatted gentleman comes
over and he's like, takes his bandan off.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
He's like, does he's introduce himself to y'all, And he's like,
do I know you from somewhere? Stop?
Speaker 4 (46:24):
And I don't know how to flirt because I haven't
really ever been single, and I was like, do I
know you from somewhere? I just like repeated everything he said.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
And I was like, you look familiar too. He's like
maybe we follow the same people, like maybe, and.
Speaker 4 (46:36):
We're just like he's like looking and he's just see
his little muscles flexing and he's like looking at his
phone and I'm.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
Like, just you follow the same people? Is this that
people dates?
Speaker 3 (46:44):
Like?
Speaker 4 (46:44):
Maybe?
Speaker 2 (46:45):
Okay, there's no service.
Speaker 4 (46:46):
So I was like looking at him, I'm like, maybe
this is gonna be my one night stand. Maybe we'll
see I don't know. Then I like get very flustered.
I'm like he's talking to you, He's got this beautiful smile,
and I'm like I was like, well, it's very nice
to meet. You'll see you around. And I actually like
ran off from him. I was like, nice to see you,
and he's like where are you going? Like I'll see
you later, and I like left, and then I was
(47:08):
like asking our mutual friends, my friend Janis who was
later at our wedding, Jennis Janis. I was like, Janis,
where's that dude?
Speaker 2 (47:16):
That guy with the tattoos, and she's like, oh, Tyler Rich.
She's like, oh, all the girls love him. I'm like, oh,
I don't. I don't like him.
Speaker 4 (47:22):
I feel really bad. I like ran away, like in
a big hurry. We were ezy and we didn't see
each other rest of the night. And then ty had
my name and his phone.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
How did he already know your name?
Speaker 4 (47:34):
Well, he looked it up, but it was there was
no service, so he had screenshot it. And then he
screenshot your thing when you pulled it up, he couldn't
do so there's no service. So he was like trying
to find my name, but there's no service that you know,
in the desert your name. But yes he knew my name.
Speaker 2 (47:47):
You told him, yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (47:48):
And then the next day he d M me and
we started talking and then I got like shy again
because then he like sent me his number, and I
you know, when you read a message, you can see it,
and so I just left it.
Speaker 2 (47:59):
I don't want to open it. So I just saw
the number and they're like, oh, I can't open this.
I leave that in there for a moment.
Speaker 3 (48:04):
What were you thinking was gonna happen? If you like
continue talking to him, like, what were you like worried.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
About h.
Speaker 4 (48:12):
My first one night stand?
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Yeah, just you're back out there a while. I think
I just wasn't ready and I just like really had
like a crush on him.
Speaker 4 (48:19):
I really did.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
I was like, oh, I have cotton mouth. By the way,
I have cotton mouth. I feel really parched. I feel
like I had cotton mouth slash bad cold. Please yeah, okay, okay,
oh okay, why should I wrap this up? Okay?
Speaker 3 (48:34):
Yeah, we are already at fifteen minutes. No, we are
aready at fifteen minutes. But I like all your stories,
so we'll just like, no, we're just gonna wrap it up.
But I'm sad we're wrapping.
Speaker 2 (48:41):
It up because I actually really like, do you guys
edit it at all?
Speaker 4 (48:44):
No? Oh no? Oh yeah, oh shit, I talked too long.
Speaker 2 (48:47):
I don't think so my bad. All right, I've enjoyed everything.
Speaker 4 (48:50):
To wrap up the tie thing and then what they.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
Would make it good? Don't like wrap it up? Okay,
I miss details?
Speaker 4 (48:55):
Okay, so yes, So then we start talking only on
FaceTime because he's in Nashville, and he's like, you should
come out here.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
I was like, that sounds like I have to spend
the night that feels scary, scary, risky business.
Speaker 4 (49:06):
You're risky business, risky business.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Is he already gone from La?
Speaker 4 (49:10):
He's gone from La. But what he actually was being serious,
This is actually really sweet. He I had I was
in the Entourage movie and that had just come out
just so cool, and he had seen it, so he
knew it and he didn't know it was me, but
he meant it when he said you look familiar, and
he couldn't piece it. But he was actually being sincere.
And then the next day he really like he like
(49:32):
went researching, and then he apparently I don't know if
this is just a line, but he said he remembers
seeing me in the movie being like I love her.
Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah, and then he saw you like the next day.
Speaker 4 (49:44):
Yeah, well like a couple months later.
Speaker 2 (49:46):
Like he had such a strong love he manifested you in.
Speaker 4 (49:50):
But he was like, I remember looking at you in
the movie and being like wife, where future baby mama?
Speaker 2 (49:55):
Yeah, I'm not surprised at all. But then we were
engaged a year later. So what's what is different about him?
It's interesting he just has always felt like home.
Speaker 3 (50:07):
You posted that you said you have always had a
lot of anxiety and like laying with him the first night,
you're one night stand night.
Speaker 4 (50:12):
You're just kidding, what Actually it was our first night
that I ever like, Yes, it was our first night,
and I felt like it was the first time I
felt like just calm. There's something about his energy. I
don't know, there's something. I guess it's a very real thing.
When you meet somebody that you mesh with, you just
be relaxed. Yeah, that's really great. But that bandana he
wore a stage coaches. The bandana he used to spray
(50:34):
with my perfume. He would have on the road, keep
in his back pocket the whole time on the road,
and he, you know'd be on stage sweating and used
that bandana. And then that bandana he is the bandana
from our first look at the wedding, and he's crying
in this. I'll send you the picture. He's like crying
into that bandana.
Speaker 2 (50:52):
Fine, I've already stalked like, yes, you're good. Well, I
like to know what people are up to.
Speaker 4 (50:58):
No, that's where Cowboy Tears was born. But then all
of Our Tree came out with an album called Cowboy Tears.
It's actually in Breach of my trademark. I trademarked it
years ago, like before this, and now there's like all
these cowboy tears things coming out. Very stressful. Actually it
sul it's a lot.
Speaker 2 (51:12):
It's a lot.
Speaker 4 (51:13):
I'm like reaching out to my attorney doing like it's
like a lot of work. I'm like, what the fuck,
because like when you do a trademark, you have to
search high and make sure there was no cowboy tear.
Speaker 2 (51:21):
I trademarked it four years ago. You knew this was coming.
I knew was coming. How has it been having it
out in the world. And I saw that, like right
when it went live, there's like tons of people crying.
Speaker 4 (51:33):
It was like I couldn't believe because I I've had
this idea for about four years and I didn't saw
him with the bandana.
Speaker 2 (51:39):
That's when it started.
Speaker 4 (51:40):
And then it was when it was like crying at
our wedding in the bandana and I wanted to find
I wanted to ask, like our bridesmaids and grooms meant
to be in our wedding and I was trying to
find like really nice soft US made bandanas, and I
couldn't find him.
Speaker 2 (51:53):
Ruby's growling, Oh that's you grow.
Speaker 4 (51:55):
Oh yeah, you protect.
Speaker 2 (51:59):
Ruby.
Speaker 4 (52:00):
Oh my gosh, I thought you. I'm so sorry I
talked so much. I thought you guys were editing more
not need to be. I could have summed it up.
Speaker 2 (52:07):
Hey, so this is a normal thing.
Speaker 4 (52:11):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (52:11):
I would talk for two hours and I think that's
probably too long. Although Joe Rogan, Joe Rogan does right, guys. Yeah,
he'll go for ages.
Speaker 3 (52:22):
Oh yeah, I know you have to like skip he's
got like you have to like break from you, like
skip through some Yeah you're not, you know. I think
that's so great though, and it shows the beauty of
like the bandana, how it is for so many important moments.
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (52:38):
We're really hard on it, and I feel really grateful.
Speaker 4 (52:41):
I mean, I'm doing allful film on my own, which is.
Speaker 2 (52:44):
Super stressful, but like people do an order and you
send it out.
Speaker 4 (52:48):
Yeah, And I have this amazing girl her names Melissa,
started with me part time with like helping these socials,
and a lot of that was again like me just
not really understanding how to balance like my time with
my brother for example, like I want to be with
him present and when I'm with Tyler and be with
him in present, I didn't know how to balance like
my personal life and then socials. So she works with
me part time and now she's just become like my
(53:09):
right hand woman. I feel so grateful for her. I
want her full time. We're we're just not there yet,
but she helps me, like, yeah, it's my first person
that I've ever had like bring into my world like
that and that, because sometimes it just feels like I
have no business having somebody help, Like I'm not at
that level?
Speaker 2 (53:24):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (53:25):
You are?
Speaker 2 (53:26):
Let's just run through this.
Speaker 3 (53:27):
So we've been in False Positive, Entourage, movie, White Collar,
The Affair. These are like big movies, like big actors
like yourself, Narco's Official.
Speaker 2 (53:37):
Narco's I mean, holy shit, out Law Profit Inside Amy,
how do you say your listen?
Speaker 4 (53:42):
Amy Schumer, Amy Shoe, Amy Schumer and I actually studied
acting together in New York. So she's like she had Yeah,
she's amazing.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
Ellie's Finest fire Country Currently. That's so fun. How was
she was it fun to be her friend?
Speaker 4 (53:55):
She wasn't who she is now, and she's just like
people don't realize how much she's like hustled and worked hard.
She's so talented and she's like worked from the ground up,
saw some really good person I thought.
Speaker 2 (54:06):
You know so many interesting people. Who have you come
up with? Like who are some of your go to bessies?
Speaker 3 (54:10):
Who other people would know because it's like the national
It's like everyone's from you know, country music people, but
you know like Hollywood people.
Speaker 2 (54:16):
Oh that's sweet, you know. Oh my gosh, I don't
even know who to say, uh? Or who have you
liked working with the most?
Speaker 4 (54:23):
Like who was like a cool someone that I knew
because of my ex boyfriend was uh best friends with
Leo DiCaprio.
Speaker 2 (54:32):
That was always my number one. He's lovely, he's great.
So he's the only love of lover as an actor. Oh,
he's so lovely and my favorite thing is my mom.
Did you want to love him a little bit like
when you're riantically?
Speaker 3 (54:45):
Yes, I mean, how could you not be in his
presence and not want to, like at least like cuddle
up and snowb you bring.
Speaker 2 (54:51):
Out a little bit. Not anymore, babe.
Speaker 3 (54:55):
I love being married to you, but I'm saying pre marriage.
If you were not married and I was in his presence,
that be someone I would want to like help me.
Speaker 4 (55:01):
And if I had met him randomly, but I was
dating his best friend, so I guess that was never
never on the mind the table.
Speaker 2 (55:09):
But you know, it's so sweet.
Speaker 4 (55:10):
My mom and dad have no they don't know who
he is because he's there from Poland and they were
in town visiting us when he won the Oscar that
week and my parents watched it and we went to
like we went to celebrate him that night and went
with him. Yeah, and we went to we went out
into his house and everything, and he's so I don't know,
just so kind, genuine, present, remembers everyone. He's very very
(55:34):
eas easy to love. He's a really good human. But
it was really funny. We had like we went to
a birthday party like two days after for my ex boyfriend,
and my mom and dad were there with Leo, and
my dad goes, congratulations, I watched you. I watched you
in the award show. That's a big deal. Congratulations on
the Oscar. But they like don't they didn't know what
it was like.
Speaker 2 (55:54):
It's very sweet.
Speaker 4 (55:55):
It was very like just sweet and authentic and genuine.
And yeah, that's why that's I love my parents. They
just like they're just lovable.
Speaker 2 (56:03):
I just don't know who Leo is. I'm just congratulating
on him on the award, the biggest award of his life.
I don't know. They don't. We've got to wrap up
right an hour? How did she get into acting? Can
you read lines with your mom?
Speaker 1 (56:23):
Still?
Speaker 4 (56:24):
Still she's your best friend because I memorize best by hearing.
Speaker 3 (56:27):
But your mom is so sweet, like because you'll drop
your phone or zoom even if you're in different cities,
and she'll just she'll drop hours to read with you.
Speaker 4 (56:34):
Yeah, that is so.
Speaker 2 (56:36):
But I feel like I started.
Speaker 4 (56:37):
I feel like she created this bad habit because when
I was in high school, when I studied, for example,
she would take my notes and then read my notes
to me, and I studied by like like memorizing that way.
Speaker 2 (56:46):
But like if I I do, you know what?
Speaker 3 (56:47):
She loves you because like I'm now doing homework with Sunny.
She's five, and it is so exhausting and it's just
like five year old homework. So the fact that your
mom would like sit down and do all of that
like homework type stuff with you for hours every day,
do you know what time that takes? How much energy
and how much of like herself she's just giving to
you because she loves you so much.
Speaker 2 (57:06):
It's really true. Yeah, Like she'll be so much energy
to do that.
Speaker 4 (57:09):
She'll like sit in the car. She works as a
medical translator right now for Polish patients, and she'll like
pull over on the side of the road if I
have an audition or if I'm filming fire country, and
she'll like sit there with the script in the car
and like I'm gonna have to get off book, and
she'll just run the lines and correct me with each
word that I need to make.
Speaker 3 (57:24):
Sure it gets Really, she wants you need to be
successful in succeeed and be happy so much.
Speaker 2 (57:28):
I want to spoil them. I'm not there yet, but
I want to. I can't wait. I want to spoil them.
She wants you to be happy more than anything. Yeah,
that's true. That's so sweet.
Speaker 4 (57:36):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (57:37):
That is so sweet. I'm so happy for you that
you have this wonderful thing.
Speaker 4 (57:40):
I asked them what their dream car is not there?
But I was like, one day when I can get you,
guys your dream car. With your dream car, my dad
goes Honda Cord.
Speaker 2 (57:48):
It's reliable. I mean, it's been around for a long time. Reason,
But yes, that's what they.
Speaker 4 (57:53):
I was like, we're got well maybe hopefully yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (57:57):
And then one laws sweet video that I saw of
your dad's As you said, your dad loves to make
everyone laugh and like he was he posted this about
a happy birthday to your dad or something.
Speaker 2 (58:05):
He was like, song and his socks because your brother
has in the middle of chemo. This okay.
Speaker 4 (58:10):
My my brother like, yeah, he was in the middle
of chemo and he wasn't feeling good and he was
just like having this night with my dad in Martha's Vineyard.
We went there and my brother was like, should we
go to a bar? And my dad was like, yeah,
let's go. And it's very uncommon for my brother to
want to do that. And my dad didn't want the
night to end, and he didn't want to be like,
let me go up and get my shoes. He thought
(58:31):
the moment would pass. So my dad went to the
bar with my brother and his socks because he didn't
want the moment.
Speaker 2 (58:36):
He's like, anything, take it away from the moment happening.
Speaker 4 (58:39):
Nothing, And so when I when I went to meet
them outside after, I was like, Dad and your socks.
Speaker 2 (58:44):
He's like, yeah, damn to the bar. He's like I did.
He's just yeah, I didn't make your brother so happy.
Speaker 4 (58:52):
Yeah, it's nice to see people laugh. It's like the best,
especially when someone's hurting. Like to see that moment, like
a brother was going through so much at that time
and just like see him like laughing to the point
of like leaning on the wall just.
Speaker 2 (59:08):
Really was like my favorite. So I'm glad you got
to see that. That's just really sweet that y'all. I
feel like you and your family are such a great
representation of like true love. Thank you, you know, and
that's what we're all looking for. And I think, like
you said, I want to know the formula, but just
from like talking to you, I feel like what it
is is just like y'all just like love to be
with each other. You accept each other as you are.
Speaker 3 (59:28):
You'll love to bring joy and make to their laugh
and be there for each other, and you'll show up
and do like all the sweet hard things together try
to And it seems like y'all like to laugh a
lot and like time, and my dad and I like
to drink, but we're both we're both trying to reel
it in.
Speaker 2 (59:42):
So you know what a jolly roll just.
Speaker 3 (59:45):
Says something, So you can't quit all your bad habits
at the same time, you know you can't like not
that you can just.
Speaker 2 (59:51):
Could get it all worked out. You know it always
works out.
Speaker 4 (59:55):
But thank you for having me.
Speaker 2 (59:57):
This is awesome. Thanks for coming on. You're so awesome, Savina.
Speaker 4 (59:59):
Do you acting?
Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
I love you?
Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
Your last my last little question I want to ask
you though, is like I would feel so terrified to
be an actress because like I was watching on Fire
Country with your hot husband or is that who your boyfriend?
Speaker 4 (01:00:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
And you are like at the fair talking and you're
just like the thing that like do you have to
become this person? Or is it like because you know
that it's not you, you're obviously, but you're like acting
like this person.
Speaker 2 (01:00:21):
How does it just wash over you where you can
like really be in.
Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
Love with this person and really have all these interactions
but like it's not you, but like you're so in
it that you can be it.
Speaker 4 (01:00:30):
I said, it's so funny, Like you say that because
it's funny because we just had a screening the other
day here in Nashville and they're like put me on
the spot and like sabpin a Hop on stage and
I was like, uh, And I got on and I
got so frazzled, and I was like, hello, hello, hello,
And then I said, I just wanted to say hello, Tyler.
(01:00:53):
You go, guya, get off the stage.
Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
She's like, is that all you said? And I said more.
Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
I was like, just want to thank you for having me,
thank you for loving my character as much as you have.
And then my like my boyfriend on the show was
there with me, and I introduced him and like I
got to somewhere, but that was my intro. Hello, Hello, Hello,
I just want to say hello. I was like, you
could be like on set with like all the execs
from CBS are there and you're filming these crazy emotional
(01:01:16):
scenes and you're just so connected and present and not nervous.
Speaker 2 (01:01:21):
He's like, but you go on.
Speaker 4 (01:01:21):
Stage at this party here in Nashville and you just
get so frazzled and I can't even speak. I mean,
who's what's that?
Speaker 2 (01:01:28):
What's the switch? Though?
Speaker 4 (01:01:29):
How do you do that? Well? I do think I
work really hard to be prepared, so I don't I
get the most nervous when I'm not prepared.
Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
That makes sense. So that's why I work so hard.
Speaker 4 (01:01:37):
With my mom like with memorization, and I get coached
and so I like prepare, prepare, prepare.
Speaker 2 (01:01:42):
So iteah, and then you can kind of be natural.
Speaker 4 (01:01:44):
So you just like kind of like let it go.
But I studied really hard. I studied Meisner in New
York for Years's where I studied with Amy. So it's
Meisner training is really about just like being really really
present with the person you're with and really responding, not
having like choices in the back of your mind, like
I'm going to react like this, and I have four
choices and I'm gonna choose from one of them. It's
really being present and like responding to the other, being
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connected to the other person and how they make you feel.
So that's like what Maisner training is. So I think
if you're really really being present, you really do throw
those other things out.
Speaker 2 (01:02:14):
That makes sense. Yeah, yes, that's just a little spiritual
right there. Oh yeah, spirit blow Yeah. Actually that's cool.
Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
And I have a I keep I keep a crystal
in my pocket too, oh good to cleanse the energy. Yeah,
it's great, or to draw to you. What is the
crystal for? Someone gifted it to me. Actually, it's really sweet.
Speaker 4 (01:02:34):
Someone in Canada a woman had reached out to me
and the time that I had been there, and she
was like, I felt, really, this is a crystal I've
had and I feel drawn to giving it to you.
And she left it at my hotel front desk and
she was like, I hope this doesn't feel creepy. And
she wrote me a letter and then I ran into her.
The day she left at my hotel, I ran into
her at a store. I met her, her daughter and
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her husband.
Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
I don't know why this.
Speaker 4 (01:02:56):
Crystal is like, it just felt really spec that she
was like called to it and thought of me and
then I have it. Or maybe that's creepy. I'm not sure,
but I find it special. It makes me feel good
knowing it's there.
Speaker 3 (01:03:07):
I always drop up with leave your Light, and it's
super open ended and it's just what do you want
people to know?
Speaker 2 (01:03:12):
Drop some wisdom? Mm hmm.
Speaker 4 (01:03:14):
I did know that I should have been more prepared
for this moment. You never know anyone's going through, so
you gotta be freaking nice to anyone.
Speaker 2 (01:03:22):
And everyone is that lame? That is that lame? No,
just you just gotta be nice to everyone because it
comes back.
Speaker 4 (01:03:29):
I feel like I feel like energy I think life
is all an energy flow totally. So I think I
think if you're giving energy with pure intention, it comes
back to you. If it's with like, it's with good intention,
like comes back to you totally. I hope that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
What time is it that chance? Do you need to go? Says?
What you're doing? It's do we do a Timdute episode
of just would you rather?
Speaker 3 (01:03:50):
For a bonus episode? Okay, Sabina, I don't know how
to say your second name.
Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
Good DECKI good Decky Rich. Thank you so much for
coming on this podcast. You're amazing. I love you so much.
You're having quick Would you rather so? Y'all tune in.
It's gonna be da da.
Speaker 4 (01:04:07):
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