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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to another edition. Tell you so, why do men
never ask for details?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That's my question for you two, because I just don't
get it. I don't understand. I see videos about this
all the time. I hear people talk about it.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
All the time.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Like I just saw this one person online talking about
how her husband went out golfing with his buddies he
found out that one of his best friends broke off
his engagement that they had already had saved. They already
had the date for the wedding. They were in the
planning process. The engagement's done, and she's like, oh my gosh,
what happened? And he's like, I no, no, And she's
(00:35):
like what It's not important? She asked, like who broke
up with? Who? Did she give the ring back?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's not important?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Did somebody cheat?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
And none of that is important?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Are they going to send out a cancelation thing since
they already set up save the date?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
You already know it's over. What are the logistics? No,
but don't you want to know anything? It's not there's
none of none of that is important. It's over. I mean,
it's done, right, and then you move on and somebody else.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I'm not even it's not even like a gossiping thing,
because I'm not a gossiper. But this is a friend
of his and she's like, what what happened? Like, what
did you guys talk about after that? He's like, Oh,
we just went back to golf and it was a
really great day.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Can I clarify something. We care very much for the
people around us and our friends and such as men,
but we don't care for the details it's done. We
care very much for the person, but all the other stuff,
it's it's really not important. We don't. We don't really care.
It's kind of hard.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
It's kind of part of like talking about it and
hashing it out. Guys, move on, guys, move on, but
also talk about your feelings.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Are you feeling neanderthals one?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
She asked her husband. She's like, well, how's he doing?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Is he okay?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
And he's like, I think he's fine, but he doesn't know.
He didn't ask.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, we don't. We don't. It's none about it. We
don't know. I just don't care. Oh he broke up there,
all right? Cool? So uh, anyway, yeah, we don't. You
don't need to know. What more do you need to
know about that? You know the major thing. Don't you
know the major issue? Now? Why what are you gonna
do about it? Because that it becomes my problem? But
don't you want to know? Point? We don't like having
that to be our problem.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Don't you want to know if they're okay?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Well, he knows they're okay, they're alive, right, nobody died, died? Yeah,
I mean, why do you need to that is it's
it's it's only self serving, your gossipyer stuff. If you continues,
if they wanted, if they wanted you to know, they
will tell you that stuff. I don't know. I'll tell
you this too. A lot of times they do tell
you that stuff, right, A lot of people tell you stuff.
(02:27):
They give you all the details. Most guys just we
forget them. We don't remember any of them. We just
know what happened. So he may have heard all the reasons,
he just doesn't remember. My wife. Every day there's something.
How's your day? It works good? What happened? I don't know.
I mean I really don't know, right, I don't really
know what happened. I went I came in and he
went to work. You know people, you know, we chatted.
We had a good time people won stuff. Sam and
(02:50):
I fought and dumbs and I talked about stuff. Probably
shouldn't talk about that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Yeah, but I just don't get it because I've seen
other ones where people are like, yeah, oh, so and
so their baby, Oh my gosh, yeah what what what
they name it?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I don't know what's the gender? I don't know, Well,
we don't do you not know what? You know? The
baby's healthy, but you would know the baby's healthy, do
you know that? Yeah? Absolutely, that's a guy would ask
that is a baby healthy? Right, baby's healthy? I just
don't I mean the name. You probably hear the name,
but you forget right away.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't have to worry about this with Hawthorne, thankfully, because.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
He's a detailed guy.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
He loves getting all the details and he loves talking
about them and hatching out feelings.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
So you're not really married to a man, you're not
really man wowwd's pretty damn. I'm not saying he's not manly,
but I'm just saying that the true definition. I mean,
that's doesn't really qualify. Don't definitely a man? Well, obviously,
I mean there's been some implantation going out. We're very
simple creatures, Sam, and we love it that way. I
(03:51):
just don't we have fire, I believe, And a lot
of people can test this and may sound sexist, but
I think there's far less drama. Guys. If there's an
issue in another guy, you go eat the snot out
of them and then you hug out, or you do
a bro hug, shake hands, you move on, go get
a beer. Am I wrong with that? No, you're not wrong.
I just don't get it.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I am not a gospeler. I also don't want drama.
And if it's someone who's not within my circle of
people I care about, I really don't care and don't
ask walk in the manhood, but that circle. I mean,
this is one of the guy's best friends.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah you have not asked. No, you don't. It's because
there's too much drama. Yeah. Like I had a best
friend for like twenty years and Lauren goes, oh, what
is he doing? I go, you know, I don't know, Jesus,
my best friend. I was in your wedding, wasn't it.
Yeah nothing, it's just the way it happened. Really weird.
Like I mean, I shouldn't say it's really weird because
(04:40):
it's normal. But it is. I guess when you think
about it, it is kind of weird. It's just sometimes
this stuff drops off. Is he still alive? I don't know.
Thank you for listening to this episode. I tell you
you'll find more on the iHeart Radio app. Editor Worre
I get your podcasts. If you would, please rate, review, subscribe, download, share,
and thank you
Welcome to another edition. Tell you so, why do men
never ask for details?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That's my question for you two, because I just don't
get it. I don't understand. I see videos about this
all the time. I hear people talk about it.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
All the time.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Like I just saw this one person online talking about
how her husband went out golfing with his buddies he
found out that one of his best friends broke off
his engagement that they had already had saved. They already
had the date for the wedding. They were in the
planning process. The engagement's done, and she's like, oh my gosh,
what happened? And he's like, I no, no, And she's
(00:35):
like what It's not important? She asked, like who broke
up with? Who? Did she give the ring back?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's not important?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Did somebody cheat?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
And none of that is important?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Are they going to send out a cancelation thing since
they already set up save the date?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
You already know it's over. What are the logistics? No,
but don't you want to know anything? It's not there's
none of none of that is important. It's over. I mean,
it's done, right, and then you move on and somebody else.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I'm not even it's not even like a gossiping thing,
because I'm not a gossiper. But this is a friend
of his and she's like, what what happened? Like, what
did you guys talk about after that? He's like, Oh,
we just went back to golf and it was a
really great day.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Can I clarify something. We care very much for the
people around us and our friends and such as men,
but we don't care for the details it's done. We
care very much for the person, but all the other stuff,
it's it's really not important. We don't. We don't really care.
It's kind of hard.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
It's kind of part of like talking about it and
hashing it out. Guys, move on, guys, move on, but
also talk about your feelings.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Are you feeling neanderthals one?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
She asked her husband. She's like, well, how's he doing?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Is he okay?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
And he's like, I think he's fine, but he doesn't know.
He didn't ask.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, we don't. We don't. It's none about it. We
don't know. I just don't care. Oh he broke up there,
all right? Cool? So uh, anyway, yeah, we don't. You
don't need to know. What more do you need to
know about that? You know the major thing. Don't you
know the major issue? Now? Why what are you gonna
do about it? Because that it becomes my problem? But
don't you want to know? Point? We don't like having
that to be our problem.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Don't you want to know if they're okay?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Well, he knows they're okay, they're alive, right, nobody died, died? Yeah,
I mean, why do you need to that is it's
it's it's only self serving, your gossipyer stuff. If you continues,
if they wanted, if they wanted you to know, they
will tell you that stuff. I don't know. I'll tell
you this too. A lot of times they do tell
you that stuff, right, A lot of people tell you stuff.
(02:27):
They give you all the details. Most guys just we
forget them. We don't remember any of them. We just
know what happened. So he may have heard all the reasons,
he just doesn't remember. My wife. Every day there's something.
How's your day? It works good? What happened? I don't know.
I mean I really don't know, right, I don't really
know what happened. I went I came in and he
went to work. You know people, you know, we chatted.
We had a good time people won stuff. Sam and
(02:50):
I fought and dumbs and I talked about stuff. Probably
shouldn't talk about that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Yeah, but I just don't get it because I've seen
other ones where people are like, yeah, oh, so and
so their baby, Oh my gosh, yeah what what what
they name it?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I don't know what's the gender? I don't know, Well,
we don't do you not know what? You know? The
baby's healthy, but you would know the baby's healthy, do
you know that? Yeah? Absolutely, that's a guy would ask
that is a baby healthy? Right, baby's healthy? I just
don't I mean the name. You probably hear the name,
but you forget right away.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't have to worry about this with Hawthorne, thankfully, because.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
He's a detailed guy.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
He loves getting all the details and he loves talking
about them and hatching out feelings.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
So you're not really married to a man, you're not
really man wowwd's pretty damn. I'm not saying he's not manly,
but I'm just saying that the true definition. I mean,
that's doesn't really qualify. Don't definitely a man? Well, obviously,
I mean there's been some implantation going out. We're very
simple creatures, Sam, and we love it that way. I
(03:51):
just don't we have fire, I believe, And a lot
of people can test this and may sound sexist, but
I think there's far less drama. Guys. If there's an
issue in another guy, you go eat the snot out
of them and then you hug out, or you do
a bro hug, shake hands, you move on, go get
a beer. Am I wrong with that? No, you're not wrong.
I just don't get it.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I am not a gospeler. I also don't want drama.
And if it's someone who's not within my circle of
people I care about, I really don't care and don't
ask walk in the manhood, but that circle. I mean,
this is one of the guy's best friends.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah you have not asked. No, you don't. It's because
there's too much drama. Yeah. Like I had a best
friend for like twenty years and Lauren goes, oh, what
is he doing? I go, you know, I don't know, Jesus,
my best friend. I was in your wedding, wasn't it.
Yeah nothing, it's just the way it happened. Really weird.
Like I mean, I shouldn't say it's really weird because
(04:40):
it's normal. But it is. I guess when you think
about it, it is kind of weird. It's just sometimes
this stuff drops off. Is he still alive? I don't know.
Thank you for listening to this episode. I tell you
you'll find more on the iHeart Radio app. Editor Worre
I get your podcasts. If you would, please rate, review, subscribe, download, share,
and thank you
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