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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to another episode of Tell You What. Yeah, I
had a question for you. Yeah, pre nups. How do
you feel about them?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Prenups? Chris, I've never thought about a prenup before.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Well you're not married?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Nope, sure not.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
And I bring it up as I guess I don't know.
Somebody dropped one on his fiance two weeks before the wedding.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
And they had never had a conversation, never had.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
A conversation about it.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
How does she read it?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Lunch? She was taken aback.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, I probably would be.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
And at this point it just kind of happens. So
now she's just kind of sitting and she's literally wondering
what to do with her wedding because it's a significant prenup. Yeah,
And they'd never talked about it, and he had never
talked about it, and he kind of got convinced to
do it by friends of his, and he didn't come
across very stern with it. He was just like, this
is something that we need to do, and this benefits
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you as much as it benefits me. Huh, what do
you say? Talk back on the iHeartRadio apps. I would
love to hear what the audience has to say on this.
I had everybody after me, my guy friends twenty years ago,
telling me to get a prenup.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Twenty years ago, Well that's when I get married. No,
I know, but I feel like even then it was
a conversation. I feel like it's even Probably I think
prenups are more relevant now.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I feel they've always been. But I'll bet I'm willing
to bet you're right, probably more so now. But I
and you said it was a conversation then or whatever
you kind of inferred there, It actually wasn't so much
with us. I blew it off. Okay, I did bring
it up with Steph, and both of us were kind
of disgusted by it. Yeah, but I maybe, but this
is twenty twenty five. Yeah, this isn't, you know, twenty
(01:35):
twenty two? Yeah, or I'm sorry, two thousand and two.
And I just wonder if is that what everybody's doing now?
Is it kind of weird to not have one now?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeah? I don't. I don't know. It's not a conversation, Chris,
I've ever had to have. I think sometimes people say
it's a it protects both of them if there is
a divorce that happens. But then I think people also
feel that like, if we're already talking about divorcing before
we even get married, are we setting ourselves up to fail?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
And so good point.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I don't really, I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Anybody feel one way or the other strongly talk back
in the IHEARTRADIOPP you listen to kimin or two. You've
got the app on and and you hit that little
red button. It's the microphone and that's talk back and
lot of rip because I just feel like me personally,
I don't I don't really get them. I don't what's
the point of getting married, Like.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
You said, I've never.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Really thought about like okay, like we're doomed any in
any way. But I mean it was a very quick
discussion because I said to Steph years ago, I'm like,
everybody's telling me to get a prenup. Yeah, and I
don't know why because you're it. Yeah. I mean I
knew she was it, and it proves me right. I
mean not saying that something couldn't happen. But I can't
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picture that now. I can't picture that now. I mean
I couldn't picture it then even more so now. I
mean I just loved the beans up.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
She is the greatest thank you surely. Yeah, yeah, she
is wonderful.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
And I just looked at her and I said, this
is just not there's no prena potential here. Yeah, if
anything would benefit her, she can lay one on me
if she wanted, I guess, you know, to get her.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Sure, but she take you for all your worth get Yeah,
but I.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Was worth about a box of macaroni. And she is
back down as a disc jockey. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Well, and I think, like I guess, I don't know,
maybe their financial situation here, but I mean maybe there
is money.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yet he's ahead of the game a little bit.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, So I mean who knows. You never know what
people are thinking in those moments. But yeah, I would
be interested to hear what your listeners have to say
if there are strong opinions one or the other.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
So you you would not it'd be a red flag
to you.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I think out of the blue. Yeah, like if you
had had a conversation about it, maybe before, but like
two weeks before the wedding, that all of a sudden,
he's just gonna drop this on me. I'd be like, well,
are you getting cold feet? Is this just cold feet?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't would you sign one? Do you think.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I probably, I don't know, probably not. I hope I
wouldn't have to consider that.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
To lunch and.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Just says, here, would we need to talk before we
get married?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
He said, look it over? He said, look it over,
like the whole thing over. You could talk to whoever
you want get legal advice. I just think this is
the smart thing to do. And she's literally still sitting
there going what am I going to do with this?
And what am I gonna do? I mean, the last
thing you want to do is just rip it up
and throw it. I mean you want to kind of
take a look at what's in consider it. Consider it, yeah,
I guess, or look over and see what he's up to.
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Because if there's stuff in there that's a little nefarious,
then it's like okay, now, I know.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah, like read the fine print.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I don't know, but a lot of guys are a
lot of people in general do stress that to get
one to absolutely get one to lay it all on
the line. But you're right, you're setting yourself up. I
think you're going to set yourself up to fail. Relationships
you know are meant to be, They're meant to be forever,
and I know they don't always do that.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
That is true. That is true.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Unless you're in Hollywood. Then I think it's a whole
different deal.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Well, and that's what I mean by like the money
piece of it, where like, yes, I think if you've
got if there is a lot of money at stake,
or you just never know, Yes, Hollywood is a different story.
But I don't think I would do it.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
She had more money than I did. She had like
three hundred dollars more than I did. I think when
we before we got read by one.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That's a reason to sign a prenup.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah, she should have got it. Thank Keep it on
chimital too and drop that. Yeah, do you believe in prenups?
Do you don't believe? You don't believe in prenups? What's
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Thank you