Messy Situations

Messy Situations

Messy Situations is the podcast where your favorite sister shares her unfiltered thoughts on messy topics.

Episodes

March 13, 2024 75 mins

I'm back with another episode....finally! This week's episode I have a special guest, my friend Ayanni! During this week's episode my friend share's her story and gives us a life update about where she is mentally, her relationships with family and friends, and her hopes for the future. Enjoy this weeks episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share



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I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I send my condolences to Tina Turner & Jacky Oh. I also share my thoughts about British Williams fraud case. During this week's episode I share my thoughts on work place harassment, club etiquette for women, and thirsty men in the club. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share



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May 19, 2023 30 mins

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions about Tokyo Toni & Blac Chyna's relationship. This weeks topic is about my encounter with a black man who celebrated my blackness but was disgusted with the additives that black women use these days. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

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May 5, 2023 28 mins

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how I felt about Nick Cannon's response to RTT getting canceled and eating around the tissue. This weeks topic is about vetting someone intentionally and realizing the superficial questions don't teach you about a persons character. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, fol...

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April 14, 2023 24 mins
I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how this Shanquella Robinson case is playing out. This weeks topic is about motherhood and how it made me fall into a deep depression because I didn't establish boundaries. I also share how I got out of it and ways that I choose me unapologetically. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, fo...
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April 7, 2023 24 mins
I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I touch on doing things right by societies standards and ending up alone and unhappy and also resolving miscommunications between siblings. This weeks topic is about my point of view on polyamory and how I can and cant understand why people live that lifestyle. If I would indulge or not and my reasons why. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. ...
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March 29, 2023 25 mins
I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I congratulate Blac Chyna on her transition back to Angela. In this episode I'll share a little story time and how repeating conversations can lead to the destruction of relationships and being mature enough to have hard conversations with people when your feelings get hurt. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & sha...
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March 10, 2023 33 mins
I'm backkkkkk with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my opinion on the Mexican kidnappings and Bishop Whitehead. This week is all about unlearning bad communication habits some of us witnessed as a child. I share how those bad habits effected me and my reasoning for wanting to undo those bad habits. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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February 27, 2023 25 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode and for this week's history lesson I talk about how General Marcelite Harris career was so inspiring to black military members today. I also share the reasons why I joined and how I'm thankful for the decision I made to join at 17. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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February 7, 2023 30 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode and is ready to celebrate Black History Month! This week for the Red Hot Topic I give a little history lesson about a Black way maker that doesn't get the shine she deserves. I also speak on the recent situation with the Memphis police and how i feel about all of it! Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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January 6, 2023 30 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode and a special guest! This week we me and my husband discuss introducing potential love interest to our families and whether or not doing so is still considered sacred. We also touch on Nick Cannon and his village of baby mommas. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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December 31, 2022 33 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This weeks episode is all about how 2022 was for me and the lessons this year taught me and where I want to be in the new year. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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December 16, 2022 29 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I share a story about a new friendship quickly went south and other random messy situations from Coach Stormy to trending TikTok relationship drama. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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October 24, 2022 29 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I talk about how important it is for me to protect my peace. How dealing with my triggers and going to therapy helped me get to a space where peace is my priority over all things. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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October 3, 2022 33 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week with my special guest Lay, we discuss what it's been like livin' in LA for one year.  The highs and lows of moving cross country away from our families, trying to fit into the LA scene, and being a dark skin women in the land of dreams.  Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations
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September 19, 2022 27 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week is about I give my opinion on men who seek out young women. I also talk speak on whether on not as a women you should be expecting your man to propose to you. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share. 
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September 4, 2022 28 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I share my recent experience of going to lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share.
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August 16, 2022 16 mins
Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I speak on being a dream chaser in my mid 20s and what my options were growing up with big dreams. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share.
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June 20, 2022 22 mins
Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we talk about how our feelings towards black people who fake like they mixed and they not. Black girls wearing colored contacts in 2022 and the token black person among their group of white friends. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_situations. Comment, like subscribe, follow & share.
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June 13, 2022 23 mins
Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! In this episode we share how we feel about these 2022 churches. How it's hard to find a good church these days, the music has changed and how the vibes are way different as we've gotten older. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_situations. Comment, like subscribe, follow & share.
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