The Art of Love With Lucia

The Art of Love With Lucia

Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!

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October 21, 2026 • 11 mins

Your ex finally came back. Now what? Getting an ex back is one thing, but keeping the relationship from falling apart again is another.

In this episode, I reveal five strategies inspired by Robert Greene’s The Art of Seduction and The 48 Laws of Power to help you avoid the biggest mistakes people make when reconnecting with an ex.

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Your avoidant ex broke up with you, but are they keeping you around as an option, in case they change their mind?

In this episode, I explain why avoidants leave relationships they're not 100% sure they want to end, why they keep the door open and how to avoid becoming their backup plan.

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If your ex hasn't reached out, you might be accidentally making it easier for them to stay silent.

In this episode, I explain the mistakes that can stop an ex from contacting you - even when they miss you, think about you or have thought about reaching out.

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September 30, 2026 • 13 mins

Want to make your avoidant ex start worrying and become anxious about losing you?

In this episode, I'll give you specific tricks, along with real client examples, designed to take away the certainty that you'll always be there waiting for them.

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There's one emotion that can change the way your ex sees the breakup, and make them question whether walking away was a mistake.

In this episode, I explain how this emotion develops in an avoidant and what to look for once they reach out to you.

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If your avoidant ex seemed completely done, but you're wondering whether they could change their mind, this video will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface.

I explain the psychology behind why avoidant exes come back, after they seemed so certain the relationship was over.

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If you're in no contact with an avoidant ex, you may think they want distance and don't care what you're doing, But what an avoidant says they want and what they may secretly want can be very different.

In this episode, I explain what may be happening beneath the silence, and why giving them space can change the dynamic.

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Your ex may seem completely certain they want to stay broken up - but what they feel today isn’t necessarily what they’ll feel forever.

In this episode, I explain why an ex may defend the breakup even when feelings are still there, how relief can be mistaken for certainty, and why giving them space allows time, absence, and new information to change the way they see their decision.

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How do you make an avoidant feel so safe that they finally let you in and don't pull away?

In this episode, I reveal the 3 phrases that create the emotional safety an avoidant needs to stay connected and move a relationship forward.

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If your avoidant ex says they want to be friends after the break up, what does that mean? Do they still have feelings for you or are they trying to make the break up easier?

In this video I explain why avoidants offer friendship, what’s happening emotionally beneath the surface and the question you need to ask yourself before you say yes.

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If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever thinks about you and if they'll reach out, this episode is for you.

I explain why some people stay on an avoidant's mind long after the relationship ends, and why it has absolutely nothing to do with chasing.

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July 29, 2026 • 11 mins

One of my subscribers finally received a text from her avoidant ex. Was it a breadcrumb? Did she respond?

In this episode, I analyze her journey from heartbreak to healing, and break down what happened after reached out.

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One of the biggest mistakes people make after no contact is assuming that because their ex reached out, they want to get back together. Not necessarily!

In this episode, I'll walk you through a real coaching email from someone who did an excellent job with no contact, but then almost fell into a situationship because she skipped one crucial step.

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What does it mean when your avoidant ex reaches out after months of silence, asks to see you, and tells you they missed you?

In this episode, I discuss whether it means they want to get back together or if something else is going on.

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Are you accidentally helping your avoidant ex move on? In this episode, I analyze a real viewer’s heartbreaking story and show exactly how breaking No Contact at the wrong time changed the outcome of her relationship.Her avoidant ex admitted he always runs from relationships. He regretted the breakup, questioned his decision, and even begged her not to leave. But when she reached out and started making him feel emotionally sa...

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Have you convinced yourself that you'll never get your avoidant ex back?

In this episode, I explain why silence doesn't always mean it's over, how people with avoidant attachment process breakups differently, and why your ex's breakup words aren't always their final words.

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Just because an avoidant ex hasn't reached out, doesn't mean they don't care or that they've moved on. Sometimes, they're waiting for you to reach out.

In this episode, I share 5 signs your avoidant ex may be hoping you'll make the first move, even if they haven't contacted you. You'll also learn how avoidants often signal interest indirectly.

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Does your ex seem cold, distant or like they don't care anymore? What if their behavior isn't telling the whole story?

In this episode, I explain the psychology behind why some exes act cold after a breakup and what it may actually mean.

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Your ex starts watching your stories, liking your posts or quietly orbiting your social media. Does it mean they miss you and want to come back?

In this episode, I break down a real-life case study and explain why reacting to your ex's breadcrumbs can be one of the biggest mistakes you make after a breakup.

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Are you giving someone all the benefits of a relationship while they still refuse to commit?

In this episode, I explain why overgiving to an avoidant or emotionally unavailable person can keep you stuck in a situationship instead of moving toward a real relationship.

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