Navigating Dating as a Believer

Sho, Genge!

Welcome back to another episode of ASIAS, with your girl, Sis G.U.

In this episode, I made the effort to double down on the previous episode, that I had with my friend, Khanya. It was of a serious urgency to re-explore the topic of dating, as a Christian woman. With the growth and wisdom that I've gained since the last time I spoke about matters in this regard, it was only right to open the table of conversation and share my thoughts with you, as the Genge.

You see, in the scope that I've chosen to understand this phenomenon, I've come to the realization that the hunt to find someone who values the morals and ideologies that I stand for, as a Christian woman will always be hard - especially because we're in a world where everyone has a difference in backgrounds and religious views, but that's the moment where one needs to be assured of what God's plan is for their life, in terms of finding a partner.

I wanted to use this time to share where my headspace is at, by comparing my thoughts from the past and where my mind fixates in this current moment. From expectations that I would anticipate from an ideal partner to the differences we could face and the deal breakers. All faucets of these fall under the guide of my path in my spirituality and my walk with God.

I hope you can find some gems that you can store for your own path in life, as you discover what your ideal partner is, that not only fills you up in the physical, mental and emotional aspect but in the spiritual aspect too!