Cat & Nat Unfiltered

We’re talking about confidence, the real, unshakeable kind. And we know exactly where ours came from: our moms, who truly didn’t give a f*ck and showed us what it looks like to be confident. Confidence gets passed down. Be the example. Raise kids who know they belong. Because confidence is taught, lived, and inherited. We want to hear from you! What brings you those tiny pieces of confidence? What makes you feel like you’ve done a ...

This is a personal story. Everyone's story is different. This is our story. Kids are masters at being chameleons. They don't want to be different or learn differently. They are very good at hiding their struggles, until one day the wheels come off. Teachers and school systems are not always equipped to fully understand learning disabilities. But you don’t have to rely on the system to teach your child how they learn. Understanding ...

We’re diving into the classic relationship book 'Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus' because some things about the opposite sex will never make sense. Men try to fix our feelings, women try to fix the men, and everyone ends up feeling unappreciated and annoyed. This book stayed on The New York Times best-seller list for 121 weeks, and yet we still have no clue how the opposite sex works. Should we bring back this ’90s classic?

It’s a little “December to Remember” recap, and this one was so much fun! We’ve been doing this for ten years now! We were twelve people sleeping on a bus like a very loud, very tired summer camp. There were salaries, flights, food, and back-to-back shows where we somehow got up and delivered the exact same energy night after night. Now we pull it all together for one BIG night in Toronto. The magic you see on stage comes with a wh...

Before we did the research on Roblox, we honestly thought it was just a simple video game. Most parents probably do. But the reality is far more complicated. Roblox is a massive gaming platform with millions of user-created games inside it. Anyone can build a game, and kids can jump in and play — which means there’s essentially no real regulation. And because kids are kids, they don’t always recognize what’s happening. Groomers oft...

We are chatting about the rise of grey divorce and something even quieter, the silent divorce, when couples quietly unravel without ever officially announcing a thing. Cat opens up about her own divorce story and how it shaped her. And if you’re a parent going through it, put your sh*t aside. Your shrapnel doesn’t need to land on your kids. Be the grown-up. They don’t need the messy details, they need stability, they need love, and...

There has been a NASTY sickness bouncing aroumd our houses so we are bringing you a repeat episode to avoid spreading germs! We’re diving headfirst into Nat’s true-crime obsession, because apparently murder mysteries are her version of self-care. One of us cannot figure out the appeal. It’s twisted, it’s weird… and yet it somehow puts the biggest smile on Nat’s face.

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As our American friends enjoy Cyber Monday we are bringing you a repeat of an infortive interivew with Phinnah Chichi. Adolescence naturally comes with risk-taking, but for parents, it can feel like navigating a whole new world. Phinnah is a parenting consultant and coach who supports parents of tweens and teens as they move through these years together, strengthening their relationship instead of drifting apart. She’s the author o...

We are bringing you a repeat of one of your faves for Thanksgiving Friday! We covered it all in this one—from the bedroom to the big screen. First up: Viagra. Why do men get an instant boost with that little blue pill, while women are still waiting for something to spark their libido? Next, we’re tackling the empty nester myth. Do couples really heat things up once the kids move out, or is that just wishful thinking? And of course,...

We had to bring back one of our all-time fave BFF stories! Jessica Herzberg and T.H. Irwin are basically the ultimate besties who got engaged, married, and divorced—pretty much all at the same time. Because they couldn’t find the resources they needed during their own divorces, they created exEXPERTS and the Divorce Etc… podcast. They’re here to remind you: divorce sucks, but it doesn’t define you—unless you let it.

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We’re talking about doom scrolling — why we do it, why our kids do it, and how it can quietly become the way we mute feelings we don’t want to deal with. Scrolling can make you feel everything, or it can make you feel nothing at all. Either way, it pulls you out of your own life without you even noticing. At some point, your kids will need to study or focus without you taking the phone away from them, and understanding their doom-s...

Marriage and relationships aren’t all candlelight and spontaneous passion. Sex can feel like a chore, and desire doesn’t just magically appear. Women are carrying all the mental load—and it’s exhausting. Men? They’re just horny. From feeling like a house manager instead of a partner, to forgetting to flirt, laugh, and touch, we’re breaking down why intimacy fades and how to bring the spark back in a long-term relationship.

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When Nat discovered her daughter was reading The Push for school, she knew we had to talk to the woman who wrote the book! Ashley Audrain is the powerhouse behind the global sensation The Push and the international bestseller The Whispers. Ashley's debut became a New York Times, Sunday Times, and #1 international bestseller, landed a spot as a Good Morning America Book Club pick, and is now headed for a limited TV series. We explor...

We’re talking about an important part of growing up that often gets overlooked: rejection. Boys need to know that being broken up with isn’t something to be embarrassed about. Not every connection is a fit. Admitting they were rejected isn’t a weakness — it’s part of learning who they are and how to move forward in a healthy way. When we normalize rejection, we help them build resilience and emotional confidence. As parents, our jo...

Men and women run differently—and let’s face it, we usually get them more than they get us. In this repeat episode we chat about whether an older woman and a younger man actually make the perfect pair? When you mix her experience with his fresh perspective, wisdom with curiosity, something sparks. A young guy who’s still learning isn’t insecure—he’s open, adaptable, and maybe that’s exactly where the magic lives.

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We just got back from a media trip to Club Med Punta Cana! We met real influencers (the ones who actually do this for a living), and wow, it’s a hard job. It feels like you don’t have control or power over your life and that someone is dictating what you’re worth. They literally hit the ground running and didn’t stop. No one really knew who we were — and that’s just fine, because we know that the moms know who we are!

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Katherine Schwarzenegger, New York Times bestselling author and mother of three, joins Cat & Nat (once again!) to share her candid insights on the journey of motherhood. She takes us inside her new children’s book, Kat & Brandy, inspired by her own childhood pony, Brandy. Katherine explores themes of courage, trust, and overcoming fear, while reflecting on the powerful bonds we form with animals—connections that help us fee...

It’s appointment season for Nat—colonoscopy, mammogram, heart check, dermatologist—you name it, she’s booked it. We’re talking blood, heart, boobs, face… the full tune-up! And because balance is everything, while we were in the Dominican, Nat stocked up on some of the good over-the-counter stuff to round things out. From midlife maintenance to Dominican travel hacks, we’re covering it all.

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Our hormones are all over the place and we’re just trying to keep up. We’re talking about what happens when your hormone levels start doing their own thing, how finding the right medication feels like a full-time job (and a reminder that we’re absolutely not doctors, just two women trying to find the right balance), and why every Google search somehow leads to more confusion. We’re also getting real about aging and the habits that ...