Cat & Nat Unfiltered

What defines good parenting and how do you know if you’re doing it right? In the first ten years, we felt like we were exceeding expectations—an A+—even though it was physically and mentally exhausting. There were routines and the satisfaction of giving kids structure. Parenting changes as they get older. Now, it’s about sharing the role, letting them make their own decisions, and shifting into more of a coaching mindset. Parenting...

• In this episode, Cat and Nat explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges of maintaining intimacy amidst the chaos of parenting. They candidly discuss how their attention is often diverted to their children, leaving little room for romantic connections. Despite this, both express a sense of stability in their marriages, acknowledging that while date nights may not be a priority, their r...

Cat decided to be proactive with her health and booked a colonoscopy and what followed was a masterclass in anticipation, oversharing, and full-body surrender. The wait for the prep drink to kick in felt eerily similar to waiting to go into labor. Constant check-ins of “Has it happened yet?” and then suddenly… a total system cleanse. We’re talking power-hose energy. Nothing left behind. It’s a very real reminder that taking ca...

Parenting teens feels like uncharted territory. It doesn’t get easier, it just changes. This might be one of the most challenging phases yet: helping our kids learn how to launch. What used to be a natural progression into independence now feels far less automatic, and more dependent on us. We love that our kids still want to be close, but does that closeness help them grow or quietly hold them back? Will we have to literally push ...

We all know how important a mom group can be for your mental health and support, especially when you don’t have family around. Mom groups are supposed to be your safe space… until they leave you out in the cold. We’re talking about Ashley Tisdale feeling excluded from a celeb mom group that included none other than Hilary Duff. If you’ve ever found yourself on the outside of a group thinking, What did I do? What’s wrong with me? Fo...

Every girl needs to watch Martha Stewart’s documentary. Martha is peak feminist goals! She ran the world and didn’t apologize for it. A man would have been praised for doing half the stuff she did, but Martha got called a b!tch. No dad ever hears that he's “non-paternal” for not staying home with the kids—so why did we shame Martha like that? Then, she went to prison, came out swinging, and somehow even scored a new BFF in Snoop!

We promise to be back soon with new episodes but life is just life'ing. In this repeat episode Nat shares how not one, but two people completely broke down in tears right in front of her. And while we all get that emotions can run high, Nat is definitely not the “let’s hug it out” type. After today’s episode, it’s clear she’s also not the shoulder to cry on type. Nat prefers to shut it down before things get too carried away!

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Since Nat is currently "celebrating" with her inlaws we thought it was appropriate to bring back this episode! It's the season for traveling and getting creative about keeping the spark alive, even when you’re stuck in a house with paper-thin walls. We’re serving up the ultimate hacks for sneaky holiday sex at your in-laws!

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In this repeat episode we’re talking about holding space for the “ugly” days—the ones where life just feels messy. Maybe you do the same thing as yesterday, but it still feels off. And if we need space to have an ugly day then guess what? So do our kids. Let’s normalize not loving every single moment. Stop fighting the feeling—there’s always tomorrow, or even later today. It’s okay if things don’t change. Bad days happen… for you, ...

In this repeat episode, we’re celebrating the next powerhouse generation of girls. Whether it’s the aftermath of Covid or just life doing its thing, we’re seeing a shift: young girls who are bold, fierce, and unapologetically themselves. They speak up, stand their ground, and sometimes get stubborn just to prove a point. It’s inspiring, it’s game-changing, and it’s completely redefining what the future looks like for girls everywhe...

We hope everyone is having a safe and happy holiday season! In this repeat episode we want to know—does dry humping still happen? Do kids even call it that anymore? Are they skipping that step altogether? Because back in the day, that was essential! We want all the details!

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Christmas is right around the corner, and things are getting a little chaotic. Moms, we see you—juggling a million things just to make the magic happen. Don’t miss Cat’s paper plates vs. platters analogy… it’s kinda mind-blowing. We’re taking a short break to soak up the holidays with our families, so kick back and enjoy some of our favorite reruns until we’re back with a brand-new season. See you soon, and happy holidays!

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In this repeat episode we are bringing you another parenting conundrum: you decide to spend your life with someone… but how much of the really important stuff do you actually talk about first? Parenting styles? How you handle conflict? The tricky stuff—like your kid’s sexual orientation or dating rules for your teens? Most couples barely scratch the surface before walking down the aisle. You can bet we didn't!

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We are officially on holiday and bringing you encore episodes of some of our favourites, starting with this one! Cat’s already planning her 69th birthday bash—because, well... 69! Expect doggy-style cupcakes and a few surprises we can’t spill just yet. And of course we had to talk about Nat’s “Puss Power”. Curious? You’ll have to listen to find out!

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We’re talking about confidence, the real, unshakeable kind. And we know exactly where ours came from: our moms, who truly didn’t give a f*ck and showed us what it looks like to be confident. Confidence gets passed down. Be the example. Raise kids who know they belong. Because confidence is taught, lived, and inherited. We want to hear from you! What brings you those tiny pieces of confidence? What makes you feel like you’ve done a ...

This is a personal story. Everyone's story is different. This is our story. Kids are masters at being chameleons. They don't want to be different or learn differently. They are very good at hiding their struggles, until one day the wheels come off. Teachers and school systems are not always equipped to fully understand learning disabilities. But you don’t have to rely on the system to teach your child how they learn. Understanding ...

We’re diving into the classic relationship book 'Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus' because some things about the opposite sex will never make sense. Men try to fix our feelings, women try to fix the men, and everyone ends up feeling unappreciated and annoyed. This book stayed on The New York Times best-seller list for 121 weeks, and yet we still have no clue how the opposite sex works. Should we bring back this ’90s classic?

It’s a little “December to Remember” recap, and this one was so much fun! We’ve been doing this for ten years now! We were twelve people sleeping on a bus like a very loud, very tired summer camp. There were salaries, flights, food, and back-to-back shows where we somehow got up and delivered the exact same energy night after night. Now we pull it all together for one BIG night in Toronto. The magic you see on stage comes with a wh...