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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I refuse to split my mother's inheritance with my siblings
because they have their own.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Yeah, it looks like you already have all of the
money and property.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
I twenty eight female, have six siblings. Our mom recently
passed in November from stage four cancer. Oh no, I'm
so sorry.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yes, super, super sad.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
I had a really great relationship with my mom. We
would spend time together, and my four children, five year
old twins, a three year old, and a one year
old all loved her. I am the youngest of all
my siblings. My older siblings didn't prioritize much time with
my mom until the last few months when she couldn't do.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Much for herself anymore.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
By the way, this comes from top Protection sixty three
sixty seven. And if you want to submit your own stories,
go to our slash okay storytime Separated it You heard her, folks.
So I currently live with my boyfriend thirty eight male,
and our four children in a three bedroom apartment. It's
a nice apartment, but of course it's not ideal for
our large family. Over the summer, while my mom was
still very coherent, she signed a transfer on She signed

(01:02):
a transfer on death of her house five bedroom, three
bath to me for myself, my boyfriend, and our children
to move into. She did the transfer so I wouldn't
have to buy the house as we would not be
able to afford alone for her house, and her house
had only had less than a year left until it
was completely paid off, so we would be able to
afford her payments that way. All of my other siblings

(01:25):
own their own homes and have plenty of room in
their homes for their individual families. I didn't ask my
other siblings if they were okay with this, but I
didn't see it as their decision or whether they had
a say, considering it's our mom's house and she had
a final say.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
Anyway, exactly, that's right, straight up exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, like when she was literally alive and clear it
like she made her decision. Dude, yeah, hay to break
it you guys. I didn't ask oh wait wait yeah,
And like I said, all of my siblings own their
own homes anyway. Once my mom passed, she had some
medical bills that needed taken care of, so it seemed

(02:02):
as though we would need to sell the house to
take care of them. After looking into it more, my
boyfriend said that he would buy the house add just
enough to cover the medical bills rather than what it's worth,
considering we cannot afford what's worth. Plus, my mom had
planned on us just moving in and not doing any
sort of loan anyway. She had a cash inheritance which

(02:23):
she left my oldest sister, Melanie forty three female, to
split equally among all of my siblings. Since my mom
had passed, we have asked Melanie how much is left
in the inheritance, as it would be split seven ways,
and she would always kind of dodge the question.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
I see you, I see.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah, I just realized why these are here now, and
that makes so much more sense.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
And money.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
She would say she hasn't counted it yet, or she's
unsure smell lies.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
I mean, I mean, I haven't counted The number that
I'm gonna tell you is the real number. But right
I haven't come up with my fake number yet. I
gotta do some more math.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
My mom also had some coins that were worth some money.
She had four coins worth about three two hundred dollars
and a fifth coin worth about twelve hundred dollars. I
only found out about these coins from my other sister
Rachelle thirty five female, because she told me Melanie thought
about giving the coin, giving the coin worth wait, yeah,

(03:30):
giving the a coin worth thirty two hundred dollars to herself, Rochelle,
my brother Nick thirty seven mail, and myself the coin
worthless to another hand picked sipling.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Well, real quick, you can't give one coin to three people.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Oh yeah, I'm really doing. I'm assuming she would pay
for it or like get it, get the money for it,
and then split that up. I don't know the way
to look at it, to maybe just.

Speaker 3 (03:57):
Give each person a coin or something.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah, totally gets so much value that way, you should
have each.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
Of them flip the coin, which of them gets to
keep it?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
There you go? There you go the coin? Oh wait,
and then just never telling the last two siblings about
the coins at all. Why that's so sneaky? That really
upset me? Makes sense. I understand the coins gained value
over time, and that's why they didn't want to pawn
them for cash to split equally. But that is really unfair,

(04:26):
and considering that there are not seven coins, I believe
the fair situation would be to pawn them for cash
so everyone could be involved. I suggested that I suggested that,
and then never heard anything else about the coins after that.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I wonder where they could be going into someone's pocket.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
And then one day last week, when I had Rochelle
and my niece over for dinner, she dropped a gold
coin out of her purse and quickly put it back.
Oh no, she's ratting herself out an amateur thief. Oh
my goodness. I never I never said anything, but I
couldn't believe that they didn't that they decided to kick

(05:09):
me out of that inheritance because I stuck up for
the three siblings that were going to be slighted. Well
flashed to. A couple days ago, my boyfriend got approved
for the loan. I told Melanie about this to keep
her in the loop, and her response shocked me. She
told me that she did not feel comfortable selling the
house to my boyfriend. I didn't understand because selling the
house to my boyfriend was just a way for us

(05:31):
to keep the house so that my mom's medical bills
would be paid, and my mom's wishes were for my
family to move into the house. After I got off
the phone with Melanie, I called Rochelle to see how
she felt, but she couldn't talk right away.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Oh yeah, probably because she was still already on the phone.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
With the other stinkers.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah. Once I was able to talk to Rachelle, it
was very clear that Melanie had gotten to her first
and manipulated the situation. So I texted the group trot
with my siblings. Essentially, they all want to sell the
house at full value to a stranger so they can
receive an inheritance of cash from the house selling. Melanie
had very obviously made them believe that my mom only

(06:11):
transferred the house into my name so I could take
care of selling it and splitting the money with all
of my siblings. That wasn't the truth, and I telled
and I tried telling them that our mom did not
do that, but Melanie had manipulated the situation.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
That's crazy to manipulate that while your mom is like
actively as medical dead, that she needs to get yes,
like you're the scummiest.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Absolutely, I'm selfish. For context, Melanie is the oldest, and
all of our siblings can pretty can be pretty easily
manipulated in a situation when it comes to Melanie. It
sounds terrible, but it's true. I can see right through it.
And tried to say my side, but they are all
on Melanie's side. They all want cash from the house.
But I want to live in it like my mom intended. Yeah,

(06:57):
it's what she wanted. Okay, what the mom wanted, respect
her wishes. Yeah, come on now, Like I said, my
mom transferred the house into my name. So I'm going
through with selling the house to my boyfriend to pay
my mom's medical bills and so us and our four
children can live there. My siblings feel like I have
scammed them out of an inheritance, but I feel like

(07:20):
I found a way to get the medical bills paid
so that my family can live there, which is what
my mom intended when she was here.

Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
Absolutely, Hello, there's a house. Hello house?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Yeah? So am I the a hole? What would you
say a Dakota, Well.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
If I was one of your siblings, I'd be like yeah,
But I'm.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Not so no, because they're stupid.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
They're just all want is the money. Yeah, they just
want the money, money, money, money.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
I'm wonder I wonder how much they would even get
the house for and how much the medical bills are,
because it's like you're still gonna have to pay for
those you know, and like the boyfriend is basically like
offering to pay for all the medical bills with this
whole house, Like I will.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Buy the house for the cost of the medical bills, right,
And so it's like then the house stays in the family.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah, And it's like totally not his responsibility to do that.
It would I would think it would be split amongst
the siblings if they were to take care of all that.
So it's like, how much money would you even be
getting from the like house payment if you have to
pay for that?

Speaker 3 (08:17):
True, it's like you know what I mean, I wonder
let's I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
It'd be like a little bit more quick google still.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
On the median house sale price and then split it
between how many siblings was that like six?

Speaker 1 (08:28):
House?

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Like seven?

Speaker 2 (08:29):
I think seven siblings? A lot of siblings in the
house sale A lot of siblings.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Usa.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
Uh so it's around four hundred and twenty thousand dollars. Wow,
So that's like what like fifty thousand dollars for each
of them?

Speaker 3 (08:48):
Yeah, or a house.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
Then they have to split it.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
Yeah. And then not only do you split that needs
you got the taxes that come out of it. You
got you got whatever. You know, I'm not a tax guy.
I don't know all that stuff, but I, oh, it's
not as simple as everyone gets fifty grand, right, so
it's probably gonna be closer to thirty.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, and then again medical bills. Yeah, so it's like
not not that much that they're like fighting those.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
I would rather have the family house stay within the
family than to just get like thirty grand.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, that's it's not gonna last forever. It's just not
up to them.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
It's just up to their mother.

Speaker 5 (09:19):
Right.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
That's also the biggest place.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
It's like huge, like they got their other inheritance and
like the stuff with the coins and so yeah, I
don't know. There are some relevant comments. Comment number one says,
why are you selling the house to your boyfriend? If
you want to be able to keep the house, he
could just pay your mother's bills and debts instead of
buying the house.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Then the house would stay.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
In your name. Eta, not a whole. Your siblings got
their inheritance, don't split anything with them. OPI responds, this
is also what I don't understand. Her mom made sure
that wait, oh.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
This is just a.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
Yeah yeah, someone else replies the siblings Yeah, Yeah, this
is also what I don't understand. Her mom made sure
that she has a home. Now she's selling it for
less than it's worth to her boyfriend. If the relationships ends,
she has nothing. Comment number two, I mean, those are
actually good points.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
Actually is a good point, because I did wonder, like
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
Maybe it's some sort of complicated tax government thing where.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
It's like it would perhaps maybe if it goes outside
of the family, that you don't have to pay estate
taxes on it or something taxes or who knows, I have,
But I'm sure that they wouldn't do that if it
wasn't like a serious relate, you know, who knows how
long they've been dating.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
Yeah, I'm gonna trust that they're just like making the
right decisions. I mean, they're married and they have kids,
you know, So I'm I'm gonna assume that they know
what's going on there.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yeah, because I sure don't so.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
But Comment number two says, you don't have to pay
your mom's medical ls. The house was passed down to you.
There's no obligation because she did not pass away in
intestinate intestate without a will regarding the home. You don't
need alone. You are essentially giving your inheritance to a boyfriend.

(11:00):
And oh, I guess they're not. They've been using boyfriend.
They're definitely not married.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
My bad.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
Get the home put in your name only. Even if
it has to go through probate as a formality, it
is still your home only. Your mom did not intend
for you to pay her medical bills.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
She knew you did not have to.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Don't let her.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
Wait, don't you have to do that? I don't know,
don't medical bills. I'm pretty sure medical bills can be
passed down the line. Yeah, it's like, oh, hey, he's
your mom's bills.

Speaker 5 (11:29):
Get in here.

Speaker 3 (11:30):
They're like the freaking mafia, do well.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
I wonder if like does anything in the will like
pay for it, or do you have to like specify that.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
I don't know. I really don't know.

Speaker 2 (11:39):
We're operating in the dark a lot here in terms
of how much we know about selling a house and
what the legal implications in general.

Speaker 3 (11:46):
But I think they do have do they not have
kids with together?

Speaker 1 (11:50):
I think they do have boyfriend? Yeah, they do have kids.
He other there.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:55):
I think that's okay.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
And I think maybe if you're worried, it is true
if you're worried about the boyfriend and everything, though, just like,
have the boyfriend by it and then put the house
in your name.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
Yeah, have the deed transferred to you. If it's a video,
maybe that's the thing.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
If the medical bills do get passed on to the siblings,
maybe they have to pay for it rather than the boyfriend.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
So maybe that's why, but I don't know.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
The comment continues, your mom did not intend for you
to pay her medical bills. She knew you did not
have to. Oh yeah, don't let your other siblings rob
you of your inheritance. Forget about the coins. Keep your house.
Do not put your boyfriend's name on it. You need
a home for you and the kids. He can live
there with you and even get married, but always keep
your house separate and don't get convinced to take out

(12:38):
a huge equity loan on it either. If you do
anything different than this, you will have regrets in the future.
And we do have another update, so shall we jump
into it?

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Yes, yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
So first I want to say that I am so
appreciative of all the comments that are seemingly that seemingly
are truly looking out for my best interest. My older
sister and Melanie excuse me, had made me believe that
the debt needed to be paid from the house, not
the cash estate. She would never disclose to us that
there was enough to pay off my mom's medical bills.

(13:13):
A sneaky girl, sneaky, sneaky, sneaky. I contacted an a
state attorney and ended up speaking with the attorney who
was directly handling my mom's medical debts. He told me
that there was no need to sell the house right now,
that my family could move into it with no worry
of paying the medical debt until the future if I
ever decided to sell it. Interesting, So that's what we're

(13:35):
going to do if we ever decide to sell it,
which I don't see right now why we would, as
finding a five bedroom house is really hard to come by. Yeah,
we will split the sale of the house after her
medical debts are paid, and of course subtract any money
we put into it going forward from their portion. I
do agree that keeping the deed of the house in
my name is the wise decision so that I will

(13:57):
always have the security with my children if something were
to ever happened between myself and my partner. I really
appreciate all of the comments making that. Comments making that
are aware to me, and all of the comments wanting
to make sure I seeked out a lawyer. As far
as the coins go, I didn't mention them because I
was upset I wasn't getting a Portionugh, Okay, I understand

(14:20):
getting the house is a big deal. I mentioned what
was happening with the coins to give an example as
to why I don't feel like in trust Melanie and
why I feel like she is not being honest about
the money in the estate, which she wasn't. There is
more money than just the coins that she is not
being honest about. The deceptiveness is what hurts me. I
feel like I am very open and honest with my

(14:42):
family and would never try to deceive them. I would
rather all the conversations, especially with my family, hold integrity.
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Speaker 3 (15:01):
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Speaker 1 (15:09):
Yes, and there is a little bit more. But what
do we have any like? Final thoughts?

Speaker 2 (15:13):
First, of all high five to me, right, I'll just
we have to get because my I SeeU was on point.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
Yeah that yeah. Woman. As soon as she got that money,
she was like, oh, I have mine.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
I have a little scheme to make and she yeah,
and then she started taking coins. Yeah. I don't know
why the freaking siblings can't just get on board here.
I know it's a five bedroom house. Literally, freaking keep
the house.

Speaker 3 (15:44):
You already got your inheritance. It's useful. And then if
and then if need be, if the house gets sold.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
Then we'll split it. But for sakes exactly, the house
is gonna you don't want to sell it now anyway,
it's gonna be worth it a trillion dollars.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
The line hart to talk to an estate lawyer, because like,
get a professional's opinion on this, that's what you gotta do.
And she did it, and that's great. But honestly, if
I was a p I would be okay letting the
coins go by. I feel like a five bedroom house
is like way more in value than like these like
three thousand and one thousand dollars coins. Yeah, I would
let them have that.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
The description of it just like jingling out of her
purse onto the ground and she like scrounches it up
really quick, and like she just puts.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
It back in and it's like, yeah, yeah, she's got
a hole in her purse. She needs that coin, she
needs the coin.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
Yeah, but there is a little bit more.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
So let's let's see what happens next.

Speaker 1 (16:36):
Once I had felt settled and secure with talking to
the lawyer, I texted my sibling group chat to let
them know what was going on.

Speaker 3 (16:43):
That the house will stay in my name.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
Melanie has been manipulating the situation, and once she thought
I was selling it to my boyfriend, I knew she
would tell all my other siblings that the problem is
not what I was keeping, was that whoa is not
that I was keeping the but that it would no
longer be in my name. I can tell she's very
angry that she can no longer spin the story for

(17:06):
her narrative. But this is what my mom had intended
in the first place. That's what we're saying.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
Yes, it all goes back to literally the undisputable fact.

Speaker 3 (17:18):
Yes, this is what the mom wanted.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yes where was I Oh for myself and my children
to have someone to live. And she always knew my
boyfriend was in our package deal. Melanie still seems mad,
but I don't see the problem anymore. I'll keep this
post updated if anything else happens to come up. Again,
thank you to everyone for the advice. It really helped

(17:40):
me out so much and put me in a much
more secure position. And yeah, we have a few replies.
Shall we read them? Riley? Do we have your stamp
of approval?

Speaker 3 (17:50):
Indeed?

Speaker 1 (17:50):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Cool?

Speaker 1 (17:51):
Comment number one, I am so relieved that you're not selling.
Don't ever sell your house even in the future. That's
your children's inheritance. As for Melanie, it's time to cut
off the court and count your losses. Opie replied, I
truly do not plan on selling the house. I would
love to keep it in our family for my children.
Another reply, and do not ever add someone's name to

(18:11):
the deed. Very important, And that's it. That's the end
of it.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
Yeah, that's I would say that that that's that's the
one thing is that if it's supposed to be your
house and your family, make sure that that after he
pays for it, that it's your name on the paper.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Right right. I wonder if op he can talk to
like whatever lawyer is working with Melanie, like with the deed,
you know what I mean, or not with the deed,
but the inheritance stuff like the will, Like can't she
just go directly to that lawyer and be like, Yo,
this is what's going on getting scammed over here?

Speaker 3 (18:43):
I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
I think there's like conflict of interest stuff that goes
on if like a lawyer has already taken a case
with somebody else.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
But like, oh, interesting, but.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
I don't Yeah, But in regardless, she needs to get
a real law a lawyer, a lawyer.

Speaker 3 (18:59):
Yeah, I would say, you say, it's not okay. My
brother's name is Sawyer and some people call him what
do you call them, sawyer? Sawyer? Okay, we chose to
go by that though. If you say sawyer, he will
not respond. But you say, it looks yeah, but he
has he has sawyers. Just it's it's not what you

(19:22):
he told you. Yeah he told me, he told you.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, he told me that. Everyone that doesn't know Riley
grew up on of sawmill over there in North Carolina. Okay,
so apparently, oh yeah, it has to.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
It comes out every time she visits.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
It's so easy to pick up, like you.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
It's so easy around about.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
Like the pronunciation of the words. It's about like your
inflections and stuff. So it's just it's like, a, yeah,
it's so easy. If you hung out with valley girls
all day, you would have a value.

Speaker 3 (19:49):
My Texas family would kill myself anyway.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
Anyway, so he brought me to the saw mill. I
gotta see all of it. It was so cool, you guys.
But anyway, there's a there's a person, there's a job
on the saw maill called a sawyer, okay, and then
literally brother sawyer. I wanted to go by that because
of that job, and because because that's.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
A so chose to not be sawyer instead being sawyer.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
And it makes sense more in the saw Maill thing,
because it's like you're like sawing logs and stuff.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
Saw your saw and his first name is Richard, and
Richard works the sawyer.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
There you go, so so yeah, usually to be perhaps sawyer,
but but I support his name is Saire.

Speaker 3 (20:36):
But that does not mean that lawyer means lawyer.

Speaker 5 (20:40):
What's going on?

Speaker 3 (20:41):
They're making fun of my brother's name over here. That's
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Speaker 3 (21:09):
Wait, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry Riley. What are you doing
with your new fangled technology. It's heart in my brain? Uh, Teddy,
thanks for the four dollars and eighty eight cents.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
Another donat because I'm irresponsible, just kidding, I'm actually not.

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Nikki, all right, I go by Angie. Also, just by
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Speaker 3 (21:42):
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can never please you enough.

Speaker 5 (22:35):
Everything is It's a tomato tomato, potato potato.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
I don't know what you want.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
I'm sorry for wanting a room temperature room Okay.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
I'm sorry for wanting HomeOS exactly.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
I can also have a blanket. You are also in
like jackets you want to, I can have a little
blanket or we Yeah, you sure, I can be bundled up. Thanks,
thank you, thank you such nice blankets. By the way,
I'm gonna I'm gonna read some comments while you guys
figure that out. First time joining Love you guys, Spring joke,

(23:11):
Welcome first Live. It's fun here, the lives are fun.
How long has this been on for Sasha Cone? I
don't know. You'd have to look. Jellybod's asking what part
of Missouri you're from, Dakota because you might have a
native twang yourself.

Speaker 3 (23:32):
That's classified information.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
Classified.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
I'm coold, that's my girl. Oh my god, really quick,
I do all right, welcome to the stream.

Speaker 5 (23:47):
I'm Angie and I have a head. That's it.

Speaker 3 (23:51):
So about where I'm from?

Speaker 2 (23:53):
Uh, and my accent they're like way back in the
day on Facebook they had like the where's your accent from?
Test or you'd answer like how you pronounce things? And basically,
my accent is in St.

Speaker 3 (24:04):
Louis, which is.

Speaker 2 (24:05):
Where I'm from, and then like a tiny bubble like
somewhere else in Missouri and then nowhere else and that's.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
All all right, thanks for sharing. Now they're gonna hunt
you down, find you.

Speaker 4 (24:18):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
Teddy responded, Oh yeah, sorry, I should have been getting
that ready for you. I did not get into the
next Storta and his cakes are back.

Speaker 5 (24:29):
Hime.

Speaker 3 (24:34):
Let's see, we're almost out of time, so sad oh
we are.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
We have nine minutes left unless something crazy and we.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Have a slow reader and a long story crazy.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
If you need me to read again, I can. We
got a donation to thirty six dollars. Thank you so much.

Speaker 6 (24:53):
My goodness, some some oh Angie doesn't know that you
just got you do you know what a mog I
have hands right now, do you know what a mog?

Speaker 1 (25:03):
No? Yeah, I work with kids and one day, like
an eight year old pull that out and it was
the funniest thing ever. She was like she crawled under
a table and they went and it was.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
And then disappeared and it was so funny, hilarious. It
is so good. Anyway, shall we start? Yes, go ready, Yes,
let's do it. My sister excludes me and disrespects me.
I can't take it anymore. You don't have to her,
especially if you're one of our own because this is

(25:34):
from our own family members. Okay, story, who again? Who
is it? I'm about to tell you?

Speaker 1 (25:40):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (25:41):
I just need event about an extremely dysfunctional sister and
maybe good advice. I thirty three, thirty four female. As
a sister thirty seven. Despite being extremely close in age,
we have not been close for the majority of our lives.
She was always catty and nasty tours even when we

(26:01):
were children. For instance, when a friend of hers came over,
they were maliciously caddy towards me and wouldn't let me
hang out or even be in the same room as them.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
M dang that.

Speaker 3 (26:14):
That sounds like like brother, get out.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
Yeah, but I guess if it's like their whole lives,
you gotta grow Okay, okay, okay, Well I shouldn't be
saying this to her own family members.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
My bad, and my parents would do absolutely nothing but
shot from the other room. Stop being mean.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
That's right.

Speaker 3 (26:36):
And of course she was always hung out with me.
And of course she always hung out with me and
my friends. By the way, this comes from Catch the
Wave three two one, And if you want to submit
your own stories, go to our slash Okay story Tom.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Yes, Sun off if you're in the chat too.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
By the way, we want to see you.

Speaker 5 (26:53):
I want to see them. If they're not here, yell
at them.

Speaker 3 (26:57):
As we grew into teenagers, it always as if she
was sort of jealous of me. Mmm. She would take
my clothes but not let me borrow hers. Ew unfair
cut her hair the way I cut mine. Oh if
I put highlights in my hair. A month later she
puts highlights in her hair too, date my ex et cetera.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Oh my gosh, she's going in. She's stealing your identity
at this point.

Speaker 6 (27:25):
No, she's just inspired, guys, she's looking at her older
sister or sister or whatever, and she's like, I want
to be here, just literally I want to be here, literally,
I want to be her.

Speaker 5 (27:37):
Does your brothers have your brothers done that with you? Riley?
Like you haven't inspired them?

Speaker 3 (27:41):
Like, uh, well one of them wants curly hair now, Saire,
the one we're speaking out Sawyer, he wants curly hair.

Speaker 4 (27:48):
Now.

Speaker 5 (27:48):
I feel like this is kind of like a sibling thing.

Speaker 6 (27:50):
Other until he got to the ex part, until I
got to it's going a little too fas too far,
but like, I feel like siblings. I saw that, and
with my friends who had siblings, they're like, oh, I
want to copy you know what you have?

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Yeah, I get that. I think as long as like
she's being nice. If she's like excluding her but then
also copying her, then it's like what, Yeah, what's happening?

Speaker 3 (28:10):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (28:10):
I mean?

Speaker 3 (28:11):
What my brothers got with my ex I'd just be like, bro,
what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Come on, You're like we already figured out that that
doesn't work out.

Speaker 3 (28:17):
Come on.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Oh wait, Angie's mom have fun kids. Oh hi mom,
that's so fun MYI mom, thank you so much? As
so sweet and so your money decided or donated twenty
five dollars.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Well, let's go. I think I may know who that
somebody is.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Yeah, who.

Speaker 3 (28:41):
My dad? Yeah so much? Could have said that.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
Well, if it is, then that would be really sweet,
Thank you so much. And if it's just some random
person saying that you're Angie's mom, that's cool too. That
would be really funny. Either way, Thank you so much.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
Yeah, I can say I can't say your last name. Okay, cool,
thanks Angie's mom. Yeah all right. Fast forward to.

Speaker 5 (29:05):
Say missus Angie or like missus Angie's mom.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
Yes, thank you. Fast forward to when we both went
to the same college and I went out on a
couple of dates with this guy before we ended up
high fiving and going separate ways because we just weren't compatible.
I found out a couple of months later from a
third party that my sister was now full on dating
this guy and has been since he and I parted ways.

(29:32):
She was in the bushes, Hey you want to you
want to go back to my place? Follow me?

Speaker 1 (29:38):
I think that's exactly how it went down.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
Same She and I lived in the dorm room next
to each other and saw each other every day, and
she never mentioned it. I don't think she had to
because you were gonna find out anyways.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
Yeah, some way or another.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
I confronted her and she said she didn't want to
upset me, to which my reply was, I didn't even
like the guy. The only thing that's upsetting is that
that the only thing that is upsetting is that my
sister would hide it from me. They got married two
years later, but not before I let her know that

(30:16):
her fiance was a complete womanizer. To that, she called
me a liar and said I was just jealous.

Speaker 4 (30:25):
What what? So?

Speaker 1 (30:28):
Not only did she like date her ex but she
married them too.

Speaker 3 (30:33):
Oh my gosh, just to just to give them a
little stab. That's crazy. My thought is, op, whenever you
give someone else and that doesn't work out, what is
she gonna do?

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Yeah, she's can divorce and try again, following your footsteps.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
Maybe maybe we'll get an update. Someday we're like, maybe
a fifth through.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
Let's let's keep going. Then probably it could happen. It
was her Yay, thanks mom, that's so sweet.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
Fast forward to seven years of their marriage and she
found out that he had cheated on her hundreds of times,
pretty much their own marriage.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
If only someone had warned her.

Speaker 3 (31:17):
She completely changes the way. Oh, she completely changes the
way she was after that, no longer a self righteous
budget you know it all, and we became best friends.
She stays with the husband though during this time I
broke up with them.

Speaker 5 (31:33):
Wait wait wait wait, why did you say like she
stays with the husband though? Like when what she stays
with the husband?

Speaker 3 (31:38):
Probably probably after.

Speaker 6 (31:39):
She Oh, because you don't worry. You lost a husband,
but you still have them, But now you gained your
sister back I love.

Speaker 3 (31:46):
Yeah, well this is one of her own. We'll see,
we'll see. We know they got their hair.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
You know, things are complicated. If someone's not being treated
well and they stay, it's usually a little bit more
going on though too.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
Yeah, so so her hearts are going out to you.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah, true to your sister, I guess.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
Anyway, During this time, I broke up with a boyfriend
of a year and a half whose family and him
com commenced commenced to dragging my name through the mud
on social media, calling me all sorts of horrible things,
such as about or I broke up with him because
he barely worked, play video games ten hours a day

(32:24):
and forgot birthdays and was a virgin when he and
I started dating.

Speaker 5 (32:30):
Why is that like a big thing.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
That's the worst thing about him.

Speaker 5 (32:34):
He just didn't know what he's doing.

Speaker 3 (32:36):
You had no idea. That's okay, I don't know. That
was a bad joke. Anyways. I found out a year
later that my sister, who is a relator, my mom's here.
I was like, no, your audience and maybe of course
every time I try to say something wild and here here, well,

(33:00):
I guess we can be here for longer.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
But holy cow, oh my goodness, thank you so much
with you just gave everyone more time.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
That was such a gift. Yeah, but anyway, what happens next? Anyways,
the comment okay, people back me up bad in bed?
This is ugg, says o gikorra woor. Yeah, this's crazy.
I found out a year later that my sister, who
is now a relator, has not only kept in touch
with him and stayed his friend X, but has even
shown and sold a house to him and his new girlfriend. Yes,

(33:36):
she knew the verbal abuse about him and his family
put me through. When I broke up with him, I
just felt like it was a stab in the back,
seeing as I would have zero relations or conversations with
anybody that treated my sister that way. Making a cell
is not more important than family, though in my opinion,
I mean, get the bag. Get the bag. Fast fool.

(34:00):
A few more years and I'm married and pregnant with
my first born.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
Congratulations. That's so exciting.

Speaker 3 (34:06):
Well, you're still close, as her new personality has stuck
thus far. She is my duela.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
Uh, your doula is it's something that like assists with
the birth.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
Oh, she's my doula for the birth of my firstborn
and a great auntie for the next couple of years.
She slowly becomes herself, a righteous, stuck up self again.
Now here's where it all goes to sheet for rills.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
No boy.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
Fast forward two more years, and I'm pregnant.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
With my second Congratulations.

Speaker 3 (34:41):
As soon as I get pregnant, she and I make
a plan that she's going to be my doula again
for this birth as well, which she acts over the
moon about great so far. At eight months pregnant, our
brother forty informs me that she's planning on going out
of town November first. I am due October twenty eighth,

(35:06):
What but like a baby's out though, you know.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
Yeah, She's like, well, that's your duday. That's when the
baby's gotta be born, or else you get a bad
grade in school or something, right like you get a
C plus, you can't. You can't have the baby late.
That's that's not how it works.

Speaker 3 (35:22):
Where were you expected to be born?

Speaker 4 (35:23):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (35:24):
Sometimes in October? I think I was early?

Speaker 3 (35:26):
You're early, mom, Let me know.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
I want to know in the chest in the chat
I was supposed to be at. No, actually I was
a sea section. Oh it was like planned orso in.

Speaker 5 (35:36):
But I thought I was like, oh, you're srian. Let's go.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Yeah, you were what sea stood for? We all were?

Speaker 3 (35:44):
You were playing that's nice. No, I wasn't.

Speaker 5 (35:47):
I wasn't.

Speaker 3 (35:48):
The delivery was playing, oh gotcha, gotcha. But I was
supposed to be born on the seventeenth, but it took
till the twenty third before I came around. So this
is like, if you go by that, dude, she's gonna
be she may only be there.

Speaker 6 (36:00):
God, you guys want to hear something crazy? What I
was also a C section? But I was born a month.

Speaker 3 (36:04):
Early, A month early.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
Yeah, we're you okay, Look where I'm at now? Look
at me now?

Speaker 1 (36:14):
Not so sure anymore?

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Extra month.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
Man.

Speaker 5 (36:17):
Yeah, but that that would have been on July fourth,
and that would have been not fun.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
Oh I have a friend that's born on July fourth.

Speaker 3 (36:23):
We make it work.

Speaker 5 (36:24):
America celebrates your friend.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
I guess exactly fireworks are for her.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
She gets angry at him and says she didn't want
me to find out because her entire trip was able
to be rescheduled without paying fees, and if I had
her treat was able or wasn't able, not sure was
able to be rescheduled without paying fees, and if I
had a given birth by the time her trip rolled around,
she'd simply pushed the trip out. She also said that

(36:54):
she doesn't really want to go in on it anyway
because it's hurt with her cheating husband that she barely likes,
so I don't worry about it. Oh boy, I'm confused
by this.

Speaker 6 (37:08):
Now.

Speaker 3 (37:08):
It's my du date and I get a message from
my sister asking if I'm in labor yet. I tell
her no, But then my doctor has scheduled me to
be induced on November three, literally a couple of hours
before she messaged me.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
Oh wow.

Speaker 3 (37:23):
She then commences commences She didn't commences me to get
super ups She then commences to get super upset and
telling me that I am South Salfish for scheduling my induction.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
Yeah, induction, got induction in the middle of her vacation.

Speaker 3 (37:46):
What can it not wait? Can maybe not wait? Like
hold it in?

Speaker 4 (37:52):
Just like.

Speaker 3 (37:54):
Like, come on, Tampa.

Speaker 1 (37:56):
She doesn't know how birth works work.

Speaker 3 (37:59):
Really, I thought the tampon's keep the babies in.

Speaker 5 (38:02):
No, you put in your nose.

Speaker 3 (38:04):
You puck your nose in your nose. They're like, you
put it on, you put it in and it keeps
the baby and so it does come out.

Speaker 6 (38:11):
Yeah, no one gets that reference. Are you guys too
young for that?

Speaker 1 (38:14):
Oh you put the tampon in your nose?

Speaker 5 (38:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (38:16):
Oh I know what she's the man.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Yeah nosebleeds.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
Yes, yeah, it's for nosebleeds. Do you like Do you
like cheese?

Speaker 1 (38:24):
I don't know that one. I actually didn't watch the
whole movie anyways.

Speaker 3 (38:28):
Anyway, come on, come on, come on, come on, hold
babies in.

Speaker 5 (38:33):
We need to Sorry, someone has the one that gets
off the rails here to code.

Speaker 3 (38:37):
Let excuse me for not taking your vacation you planned
a month ago into consideration. I've only been pagnant for
almost ten months. I told her I didn't understand what
the problem was, since she said she could reschedule her trip,
and that it wasn't fair for her to act like
I was the bad guy for not having a baby

(38:57):
on time. She asked me to change, to which I
say no, because I will literally have to wait an
extra week, which would make it also yeah, and.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
So uncomfortable too, like I've done so many, so many.
I've known one pregnant person that that had like right
around when you're like gonna have the kid. It's like,
are you like just get out already, because like that
is so painful to be like ready to pop and
just have to wait a week when you don't just

(39:30):
because your sister sister, Yeah, just because your sister's on vacation.

Speaker 3 (39:36):
Come on, come on, come on, come on. We both
called my mother to Vince, who simply tells me to
get over it because she's my sister. The same thing
she has always low contact, no contact.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
What are we doing here, I'm gonna say low contact.

Speaker 6 (39:52):
I'm gonna go ahead and do elsie and then uh
and see you want to do no es.

Speaker 3 (39:56):
Elsie stands for low contact and NC stands for no contact,
or you can put like one low to no anyways,
whatever you want to do, keon and cheers.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
Got it? There you go.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
Me, Well, right now, I know that she is becoming
more self righteous because OPI already said it, because she's
at the end of the story. If I saw my
sister being a horrible person and then she's nice for
a couple of years, but she's kind of acting a
little bit weird, Yeah, probably go low contact right now.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
Low contact.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
I don't think it's enough to like cut it off
completely yet. Yeah, but definitely distance yourself.

Speaker 3 (40:30):
You need to be around because you're, like, you're seeing
some stuff she did at childhood and you're probably like,
h but I still want to give her a chance.
I'm not gonna be like, yo, what's up? Hey, But
if she texts me, I'll respond right like, you don't
need to be putting in the effort, but you can
like react when she does. Yeah yeah, yeah, but if
we're if we had the full context like we do now,
I would go no contact. Mm hmmm, because like she

(40:53):
said that, she's going back to herself, right, So yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
Yeah, dang, well, we'll ask again at the end of
the story about that.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
A year later, and it's close to Thanksgiving time, and
I find out two weeks before Thanksgiving that she and
my mom have planned it for the entire family, not
including me, who's also a woman of the family and
a mother in the plan making. They said they were
simply going to pick up cracker barrel.

Speaker 1 (41:24):
It's censored.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
Yeah I know, yeah, yeah, And I would know that
plan when I showed up for Thanksgiving dinner with my
homemade dishes, to which I said, since I wasn't involved
in this plan making, me and my husband and children
would not be participating in the family Thanksgiving this year.
I will say, coming from where I come from, you

(41:47):
don't plan this out. It is a big thing because
the dish in a way resembles the family.

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Interesting the whole dish are everyone's individual dishes.

Speaker 3 (41:56):
I think everyone's individual dishes. It's sort of like our
family brought the pumpkin pie and the pumpkin pie is like, yo,
you've had my mom's pumpkin pie. Well, not pumpkin pie,
but the pumpkin cake. Yeah, the pumpkin Oh yeah, oh no,
the pumpey cake, but the pumpy cop Like.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
Oh yeah, I've had it. It's so good.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Yeah, so good. And then when you think the Wilson's,
you think that and you're like, oh my gosh, they
know how to cook. Yeah, I get you.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
It's like it's like representing your your tribe, your family.

Speaker 3 (42:24):
That's kind of how we go about it.

Speaker 1 (42:26):
Sounds great. No one will tell you that, but but
it's like the silent rule.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
Yeah yeah, yeah. We made other plans and went through
social media. On Tea Giving, I find out they actually
were now having a full fledged everything homemade Thanksgiving on
my sister's farm. They didn't go by, they didn't swing
by Cracker Barrel, They just did it all themselves.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
What without telling Op?

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Without telling? They lied to her.

Speaker 1 (42:54):
They set her on a wild goose chase, and they
stood her up.

Speaker 3 (42:57):
They stood her up for Thanksgiving dinner. Shouldn't go to
crack Bro Nobody want to?

Speaker 1 (43:00):
Oh well, well no, I'm just imagining, like if OPI
went to Cockerbail to meet them and then no one's there.
Can you imagine that would be rough? I don't know
if that's exactly what happened, but yeah, at.

Speaker 3 (43:11):
This point my feelings are more hurt than ever. Yeah,
is not only I am not seen as a matron
of the family. I'm not treated as one either. We
have barely spoken or seen each other since now my
birthday was a month ago, and since my oldest was born,
I have said how I want to take him to
NASA to do their field trip for my children. My

(43:35):
entire family knows this, as I talk about it constantly.
A week after my birthday, which my sister didn't even
say Happy Birthday to me on I find out through
think through Facebook that she took her children and my
parents for the day to a mass trip that I
have been saying for a couple of years now that

(43:57):
I want to do for disrespect. Ye yeah, yeah, they do.
They do the trip. They do the trip that she's like,
I'm gonna take my kids on without her. She goes
to NASA. Wow, that was a NASA and I heard
about this, I'd be like, hey, we got new rocket,
we're testing out up.

Speaker 1 (44:12):
On listen not about idea, not about idea.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
Yeah, oh man, I don't even know how to put
my feelings into words. Not only did she exclude me
purposely from it when she knows I've been really wanting
to do it, but she invited and drove my parents
there who didn't have the decency to tell her, to
tell me, or to reach out to me themselves and
let me know. So everyone is.

Speaker 1 (44:39):
Just like neglecting and forgetting her.

Speaker 3 (44:42):
Oh this is crazy. I've been treated as a secondary
family member by my mother, my sister, and even my
maternal grandmother, my entire lives. At this point I went
to pretty much cut them off completely. She made a
huge announcement to the family and extended in fail family
last week through group text messages that she was having

(45:03):
Thanksgiving at her farm again this year. I made a
point to say that she had already discussed the plans
with a few of the women in the family. Guess
who wasn't talked to. Oh, p, I'm so sorry when
I don't respond to it. She texts me and asked
if I'm coming because I planned it for you. Basically

(45:27):
it's a.

Speaker 1 (45:27):
Really good impression. Oh my god, that's so sad. Like, like,
of course, in general things, it's nice for someone to
plan things for you, but like when it's something that
everyone else is being included in the planning, it's like, well,
why are you planning it for me?

Speaker 3 (45:44):
Nicole age? Why does she hate you? I am wondering,
that's what's going through my head too.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
Literally, the Kimberly finds us the one problem jay Z
didn't have.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
Yeah, great, aceh makes it. Ace makes it, says no
contact for the parents too. They enable and even encourage it.
This is so crazy that it is.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
So upsetting that this has been the way.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
It is is like her entire life. Yeah, it sounds
like you might need to make a new family. Yeah,
hopefully the husband's side of the family's all right. Yeah hopefully,
because you know, if a basically planet, because you know,
the last time she commemorated Thanksgiving plans and then include
me in the planning, it worked out so well. I

(46:30):
simply told her I wasn't if. I simply told her
I wasn't sure if we'd be able to make it.
I don't want to go, but I kind of feel
like I need to for my oldest who loves her
and his cousins dearly and never gets to see them.
Our family is so tiny, we don't have many She
makes no attempt to see us or even call or

(46:52):
text us and see how we're doing. She takes their
daughters to dance class every week, about two miles from
my home and never tries to see me or my
kids before or after that, never tries to plan play dates,
never includes me in the bonfires that she does at
her house and advise my parents and my brother and

(47:12):
his wife. But then she will send me these ridiculous
reels on Instagram about my sister is my best friend,
my rock, the person I can tell anything to. Blah
blah blah blah blah. What a load of crap. What
that's so weird?

Speaker 5 (47:30):
Do we call her out?

Speaker 3 (47:31):
Like you can't? You can't because the family is encouraging this.

Speaker 5 (47:36):
I would call her out.

Speaker 6 (47:37):
I don't care if the family's this is like if
you're you're kind of patriotizing me at this point where
like all this crap on Instagram.

Speaker 5 (47:43):
Like, oh my best friend is my sister?

Speaker 6 (47:45):
Oh my god, you dove and you were I'm not
even hanging out.

Speaker 3 (47:50):
It is two face but her whole life. Anytime to
get in an argument, Oh, be just shut up.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
You're fine, Yeah, be quiet.

Speaker 6 (47:57):
I mean you you kind of have the facts. You're like, oh,
you had a on fire literally last night. Talking to
me about it.

Speaker 1 (48:04):
Having a conversation would be great, being like hey, like
I would love to contribute to Thanksgiving and like, why
were you Why did you tell me it was gonna
be here when it was actually over there?

Speaker 5 (48:14):
Yeah, what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (48:15):
Op? What you can do, because you're one of our
family members, is we can get on the phone with
her and tell her ourselves. We actually could do that.
We could.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
That would be really crazy, but we can bring it
up in a nice way. I think that's a very
nice way to bring it up at first.

Speaker 5 (48:30):
No, No, it's it'd be good.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
The phone with this girl, because no, we we could
be nice at first, and then if she starts.

Speaker 6 (48:39):
Being mean, then we could be like, good, he's gona
be good.

Speaker 3 (48:41):
Cup, Like, hey, we just.

Speaker 1 (48:44):
If you guys are going to fight her off the bat.

Speaker 5 (48:46):
We're both the bad cuts.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
What are you talking about? Yeah, I'll try.

Speaker 3 (48:54):
Anyways.

Speaker 5 (48:56):
I just meant uh audience.

Speaker 3 (49:00):
By the way, No, not like that. I'man like you know, whenever,
don't stop it, just stop it just that not that
kind of white kean.

Speaker 5 (49:11):
I didn't say anything. I just had wrong audience.

Speaker 3 (49:14):
Anyways. By the way, you can listen to full episodes
of stories just like this. Just go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts,
or your podcast app whispers Okay, so time search and
we have a little bit more diving in head first.
So I don't know, I just need to completely cut
her out of my life, dang man.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
I think definitely have a conversation first. Definitely talk to
her about it. Be like, hey, like this is really
upsetting me, Like if you don't want me around, I
can go like that's something I'm considering. Yeah, but but yeah,
I just be like, this is already my feelings not
to go.

Speaker 3 (49:48):
To Thanksgiving even though my cousins and their children will
all be there. Or do I need to unload all
of this on her?

Speaker 5 (49:55):
Wait, so where's the first of the family in this?
So I'm sorry, you're.

Speaker 3 (50:02):
My family does not communicate. My family does not do communication. Well.
If you tell my sister or my parents that they
have wronged you in any way, they pretty much just
tell you to get over it. Wait, just click on it. No,
No you can't, you can No, that's not it.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
Just just wave over like you did for me.

Speaker 3 (50:27):
No, oh my god, oh my gosh, that's not no, Ezekiel. Anyways,
my head does not go to those places. By the way,
y'all all right, my family does not do communication well.
If you tell my sister or my parents that they
have wronged you anyway, they pretty much tell you to
get over it. They never apologize or try to right

(50:50):
the wrongs, obviously, so I feel like I'm letting her
know what a crap sister she is. Would be a
waste of time and emotion when it fixed our relationship,
when it fix her personality, and it wouldn't fix our family. Sorry,
this is long, but it's been my entire life and
I'm over it. Thanks for reading. I guess it's just
kind of what I just kind of want a third

(51:11):
party on boy his opinion, but whether I should drop
her completely or let her have it verbally, here's what
we do. What happened last time that made her become
a better person. Ex husband was a horrible person, So
what are we gonna do this time.

Speaker 5 (51:27):
We're not bringing the next husband to.

Speaker 3 (51:29):
Make her current husband also a horrible person, so then
she can blossom into a beautiful butterfly of a person
for maybe three more years.

Speaker 5 (51:38):
I don't think that's fixing the problem. Okay, what's the problem.

Speaker 6 (51:42):
The main problem here is her, not the I mean,
the problems are bad, the husbands are bad, but she's
also the main problem here, just like put her through.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
Some trauma to realize that, Like it's you gotta be
good in this.

Speaker 5 (51:55):
To get good, you know, give.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Her some person that dude, I don't know. I think
just talk to her. It feels like, I mean, I
don't know if we've if she mentioned talking to her, right,
she didn't say anything about.

Speaker 3 (52:08):
You, she said it would be a waste of time
if she did. I say, give it a shot.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
I understand, because I mean if you're deciding that you're
like okay with no contact already, then it's like, might
as well.

Speaker 5 (52:18):
Did you put it out there?

Speaker 6 (52:19):
Yeah, as long as you put it out there, then
it's like all right, it's it's it's the ball is
in your court.

Speaker 5 (52:23):
Do whatever you want. I'm done.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Op is like a non confrontational person here. Sure every time, yes,
she has tried to say something, it probably has never worked.

Speaker 1 (52:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (52:32):
What I what I was saying earlier when I was
being so rude to Riley trying to cut them off,
is where the hell is the rest of this family? Like,
where's no one standing up for her whatsoever? Cousins? I
get the parents are enabling the sister, but.

Speaker 5 (52:49):
Like, still, where is he showing up. Yeah, no one.

Speaker 6 (52:52):
It seems like no one has reached out to OP
about any of this. Yeah, that's what's like noticing it.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
No, they are, but they just say be quiet, stop
bickering every time. That's what she's saying.

Speaker 5 (53:04):
Yeah, but you're not children anymore. You're adults.

Speaker 3 (53:07):
But if they do that as their children, just shut up,
be quiet, and that's all they know as parents to do,
they're gonna keep doing it when they grow up.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
I think, Yeah, I don't know. I still think it's
worth the shot.

Speaker 3 (53:19):
Op.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
I think that's a very crappy situation, and I'm very
sorry that is so uncomfortable like that that they're all
putting you in this situation. Maybe go to her house
if you need to be, Like, we're gonna have this
conversation one way or another. We're gonna talk about this.
You don't have to go in fighting, actually, like you
really don't. I think you can just be like, hey,
I miss you and I miss hanging out with everyone. Yeah,

(53:41):
what's the big idea, what's the big idea going on here? Yeah,
they'll teach you a valuable lesson about standing up for yourself,
stand up to bullying.

Speaker 3 (53:50):
Yeah, yep, and that's the end of that story.

Speaker 2 (53:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (53:54):
Do we have any donations? We have one. Let's read them.

Speaker 5 (53:59):
I have a Dakota.

Speaker 6 (54:03):
All right, return.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
Again. Thank you for the one hundred. Bruno's so much.
Every from the Swamp I.

Speaker 1 (54:16):
Don't think so. I think all the green ones are
the ones we've read.

Speaker 3 (54:19):
Yeah, we didn't read it every from Swamps. Thanks for
the five bucks. This is why Keon is my bestie?
Do you like cheese? My favorites?

Speaker 5 (54:30):
She's the man such a good movie.

Speaker 3 (54:32):
Ah, somebody's donated five bucks, Riley. Does Angel know about
the recent purchases? Okay, as teammate?

Speaker 1 (54:40):
Is that your website?

Speaker 3 (54:42):
Maybe?

Speaker 1 (54:43):
I I think if that's it, then I am aware.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
Yeah, she's aware. I'm aware, and I was really, you
know what the best thing about it is she knows
about it, but then't ask me questions? Well, I well
the question I did ask? Is it a corn side?

Speaker 2 (54:58):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (54:59):
Yeah, I was like, just what are you guys talking about?

Speaker 3 (55:03):
Does you do not watch the stream? Keon? You're not
watching them on the stream over here?

Speaker 1 (55:09):
The children?

Speaker 3 (55:10):
All right, everyone watch the stream the stream if you
go to the these two sides, drain your dad dot com?
What sank sank that or go to spank your daddy
dot com.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
My questions.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
We you cannot buy it as a domain because the okay,
Storytime family has bought it, and what we are going
to do is sell paddles. So basically, what do you Okay,
I'm not stating you. You guys know, Okay, everyone check
dot com. I don't like that. Okay, okay, just wait,

(55:48):
just wait, just wait.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
I don't know yet.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
I'm not done yet. No, you don't need to be.
I guess what we're gonna do with the paddle, you know? No, yep,
We're gonna paint his butt any color you want, no,
pay some with it and send it right to you.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
What is this?

Speaker 3 (56:08):
We were read, Hey, we're making business.

Speaker 1 (56:11):
Because okay, Riley texted me. He's like he's like, just
bought this site and I was like, you didn't like
and then he was like, it's our website.

Speaker 3 (56:19):
Does that mean I'm daddy, I'm daddy or dag a website? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (56:28):
So he texted me and I was like, he was like,
it's our website. Because I was like, what is this?
He was like, it's our website and I was like,
I hope you don't mean you and me because what
And then and then my next question was is it corn?
And I was like, that would be so so unexpected.

Speaker 3 (56:44):
No, there's no but booty cheeks coming out. Sorry what
were you saying?

Speaker 1 (56:48):
I mean, that's pretty much it?

Speaker 3 (56:49):
How much so unexpected that you personally would buy that?
And then my next I was like, okay, storytime did it?

Speaker 1 (56:55):
Don't know why?

Speaker 6 (56:56):
But yeah, here as long as the commission on anything
getting spaked with fifty you got to bring that up
to the boys. Let's just say we you get my cheeks. Well,
let's just say you get a pay raise and you
asked no questions?

Speaker 1 (57:13):
Oh my gosh, has some sort of HR issue?

Speaker 5 (57:19):
Yeah, how much are that right?

Speaker 3 (57:21):
Take that up for the boys. We're actually gonna have
this is I really want an answer? You can go
through that door to the next door and get to Sam's.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
Sam in here.

Speaker 6 (57:31):
Wait wait, no, no, this is not even on any
of you.

Speaker 5 (57:35):
Maybe on Riley and you're in the clear, Dakota.

Speaker 1 (57:37):
Is any clear?

Speaker 5 (57:38):
This is on you chat to chat you about this
and it doesn't say anything to me.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
This is true. Our members did not say anything.

Speaker 1 (57:45):
Wow, Wow, you're a conspirators.

Speaker 3 (57:48):
All of this. This was on yesterday's stream, on the
members only stream yesterday. Yeah, so asked for cake. Well okay, no, anyways,
back to the donations.

Speaker 5 (58:03):
Wait what so what what are the links?

Speaker 3 (58:06):
I already said it, you know, is it already made?

Speaker 5 (58:10):
He's made on it.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
I clicked on it and said, like, the content isn't
there yet?

Speaker 3 (58:15):
What are the links? First link or thing will probably
be key on the butt right there with a paddle.
Here there, we got a prototype. Can you hear that?
Can you hear me that?

Speaker 4 (58:24):
No?

Speaker 3 (58:24):
I don't want Okay, this is a cutting board. It's
a Connery board has cuts on it from this time
yours for nineteen ninety nine. I can you know how
many Storytime members that's not our product we're gonna get.
This is a prototype, I said, prototype, it's us streaks
of nice times are getting paddles for me? Okay, okay,

(58:46):
use okay, okay, I'm getting haze. Do you know how
many butts have been smacked with this thing?

Speaker 4 (58:53):
I know.

Speaker 3 (58:55):
It smacked three cutting but mine yours, I definitely have
Sam's and I think John's once. It has not touched
the graceful cheeks of Dakota yet and will never touch
any of.

Speaker 6 (59:08):
The does chat want Dakota Chata Chata?

Speaker 5 (59:16):
Who's getting spanked?

Speaker 3 (59:20):
No, no, no, no, no, no no, no Dakota or Kean. No,
I've been spanked. You can't spank me.

Speaker 5 (59:27):
Yeah, we cannot.

Speaker 3 (59:30):
It's up to chat.

Speaker 5 (59:31):
It's up to chat. You know what we're gonna do
to code?

Speaker 6 (59:32):
Riley?

Speaker 3 (59:35):
All right, do we want? Okay, Kimberly Halley going back
to the Dons. Thanks for the five bucks because I'm
so proud of Riley's reading improvement. Thank you, Kimberly. Thank you,
miss buff.

Speaker 1 (59:46):
Using the chat for Riley.

Speaker 3 (59:48):
Put steaks in the chat.

Speaker 5 (59:51):
All right, pull us up.

Speaker 3 (59:52):
We've got another Dono pulls up. No, everyone, everyone says
to no God, put one. If you say two, no
not me, please just press one. Okay. Anyways, scroll up.

Speaker 5 (01:00:10):
Checking here.

Speaker 3 (01:00:12):
Caitlin van Camping. Thanks for the two dollars. To be fair,
I'll take a Dakota one.

Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
This is see listen to you guys. Maybe this is
how we get all of our Yeah yeah, maybe democracy.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
I love this. I love you guys.

Speaker 1 (01:00:30):
Another one.

Speaker 5 (01:00:31):
I think we are I worked too hard.

Speaker 3 (01:00:33):
To get my cheeks spank. This is kind of crazy
and they don't work.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
Hard.

Speaker 3 (01:00:38):
They getting your cheek spanked wouldn't be working hard. It is,
but like I work all lot.

Speaker 5 (01:00:43):
This is crazy, dude.

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
There was no internet. There was no internet like three
hours ago. Now there is.

Speaker 1 (01:00:50):
Because of that notion.

Speaker 5 (01:00:53):
I'm giving it till three minutes.

Speaker 6 (01:00:54):
I'm giving actually a two is in the chat I approve, guys,
I'll give it to. I'll give it to two and
a half minutes.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
Okay, there's only one? What God, no one chat? Your
mom's here?

Speaker 1 (01:01:03):
Okay, you know what you what?

Speaker 3 (01:01:05):
I'm pretty sure her mom voted for you? Wait?

Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
Really?

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
No way?

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
No great question, great idea though?

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
Who even bought the website?

Speaker 1 (01:01:19):
Between?

Speaker 3 (01:01:20):
Oh? Well, but Sam and I did it together, and
John was just like, why not?

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
You guys are so silly.

Speaker 3 (01:01:28):
I pulled the trigger. They were they were, and I
was the.

Speaker 1 (01:01:32):
Who's in the chat for that? Because whoever, whoever bought it,
whoever chose to do it, came up with that idea
should be the ones getting spanked.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
Someone just donated to spank Dakotas that should count for
like five votes.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
Dang, why are people voting?

Speaker 5 (01:01:46):
This is crazy?

Speaker 6 (01:01:48):
I hope you realized. For the other pole, we got
like sixty people were at a hundred people for this.

Speaker 3 (01:01:54):
If it's me, I would like to vote someone else
in this room besides Kean.

Speaker 1 (01:02:00):
No, it's Zakona.

Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
No, my god, oh my god, it's it's fifty fifty yeah, yelly,
I would I have Nona's so much fun, isn't it?

Speaker 3 (01:02:18):
Guys? Please please okay one if you guys, okay, let
me let me tell you why you should speak my cheeks.
You spake my cheeks. This is what you're gonna hear.
You spake Dakota's cheeks.

Speaker 1 (01:02:32):
It's an explosion.

Speaker 3 (01:02:34):
You're gonna hear the nuclear bomb.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
Alright, I voted? Oh my god, Riley's another Yeah, I'm
going on my second account.

Speaker 4 (01:02:40):
Now what chat? Yay?

Speaker 3 (01:02:51):
This is so the things I've done I helped make
this pullpar.

Speaker 5 (01:02:56):
That's fine, but chat, this is democracy manifest?

Speaker 3 (01:03:03):
Why is this so many? I want to see how long?

Speaker 5 (01:03:06):
How many people?

Speaker 3 (01:03:08):
That's why everyone votes? To wow? Wow, thanks babe, thanks babe.
Let me see all of the twos you voted your
you know you voted me.

Speaker 5 (01:03:16):
I didn't vote. I mean he's in bystandard that set
this up because apparently how.

Speaker 3 (01:03:22):
Many Okay again, not even one hundred and fifty people
voted yet to the three hundred people that haven't voted, please,
for the love of God, press one and sit it
in one. I know your children are sleeping. Will keep
yelling until you press one. Please one.

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
You would have saved your ear jesiest one.

Speaker 4 (01:03:44):
Thank you, Come on God life yeo, I can yell too.
Oh my God, say this is insane to me. We
have one hundred votes for I never vote.

Speaker 7 (01:04:00):
In the time you decide to vote, there's a vote
this I've never seen the vote bar ever.

Speaker 3 (01:04:12):
Get that high. Everyone vote to don't listen to Riley's voice.
Listen to my.

Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
Vote to keep it up, Keep it up.

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
We wanted to win by a landslide, no questions.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
Tell them to storm the studio.

Speaker 3 (01:04:33):
Storm the studio everyone. I know that it was ten
days ago, the actual day, but today's the day we
stormed the studio. We go after Dakota.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
No, but this is I mean, evidence is right here
for you. We got all the votes. Everyone can count them.

Speaker 5 (01:04:47):
Then it's almost two hundred votes because of this. This
is insane, dude.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
Oh it's the end of the stream. I didn't even notice.

Speaker 3 (01:04:55):
No way. We just broke a record by spanking yeah,
all right, you still go subscribe?

Speaker 5 (01:05:01):
Wait wait wait, no you don't know, Angie, where is it?
Where's the paddle? You get? You get, you get, you
get you get to do it right now? Yeah, I
feel like someone else needs to do that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:19):
I only feel comfortable.

Speaker 6 (01:05:20):
You did you do that?

Speaker 3 (01:05:23):
Yeah it is. I don't want this.

Speaker 5 (01:05:26):
I don't want this, dudere look at the boats. It's
still going for you, Riley, she's stove.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
How do I do this? How do I do this?

Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
We were doing? Oh footage of me spanking your butt
on here to bad no no, no no, no to
CoA loss he gets to he gets I was.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
Gonna spank his booty if he lost, it was gonna
be key on. Okay, well like he no, someone else
do it?

Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
Get salmon here, all right, spank his but t twenty
five dollars, thank you so much? Witty? Oh oh oh
one Sam wanted it. Two y'all need to create a
campaign to either be picked or not.

Speaker 6 (01:06:06):
And three spank cheeks banga bank them and then we
call it all right, get over with all right, get up?
Yeah no no no no, get on the ohet, get
get on your camera, the camera.

Speaker 5 (01:06:22):
There we go. Yeah, there we go. There, we go,
let me zoom it out.

Speaker 6 (01:06:26):
Are getting ready?

Speaker 1 (01:06:27):
Is everyone ready? Is everyone ready? For some some one
hundred and twenty eight votes backed up spanks cheese.

Speaker 6 (01:06:40):
O, Walmar, No, yes, what more?

Speaker 3 (01:06:48):
All right, let's super suit. Whoa, that's aggressive?

Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
Do you?

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
Let's do the car.

Speaker 5 (01:06:57):
We're doing the finish, all right, guys?

Speaker 3 (01:06:59):
Oh my god, alright, what away? I love I'm seeing it.

Speaker 5 (01:07:03):
I'm seeing it like slowly, like lagging in the actual video.

Speaker 3 (01:07:07):
That is hilarious.

Speaker 5 (01:07:09):
So good wow, alright, good ah. Justice is served, Justice served.

Speaker 3 (01:07:16):
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