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May 29, 2025 41 mins

Guess who’s back? My dear friend Dana Sheheane. I wanted to get super practical as we end this school year with “best of parenting one-liners.” What one-liners do you remember from your childhood? What works in your house?


We go rapid fire today and cover many topics - but you will get a taste of how we tried to keep respect a priority in our homes. We also talk about the new wave of “gentle parenting” and get honest about our concerns for this approach. As a children’s pastor, Dana sees many kids that have not learned about authority and some simple obedience. Let us know what you think!


I hope this episode is practically helpful for you - and you get some ideas on how to incorporate some helpful little phrases. 


We compiled the list HERE (insert link) for you to print - and be sure to add your own. On social media this week, we will give you space to do that and we want to hear what’s working in your home. 


Of course, the most effective and most lasting one liners you can ever use can be found in God’s word. Don’t forget to have scripture in your home and try to memorize as you go. You can find ABC Scripture Cards at Cleerely Stated - these are the updated versions of the cards I created for my kids when they were young. Looking back, I’m so glad these truths were hidden in their hearts from an early age.


Congratulations on the end of the school year mommas - you did it!


Love,

Courtney 


(02:50) Summer Plans and Community Engagement

(06:00) Health Updates and Family Challenges

(12:09) Parenting Insights and One-Liners

(21:28) Navigating Disappointment and Attitude

(22:34) Encouraging Independence in Problem-Solving

(23:58) Instilling Values of Love and Acceptance

(24:26) Awareness and Responsibility in Life

(25:09) Teaching Accountability and Contribution

(26:09) Raising Considerate and Kind Individuals

(27:16) Understanding Self-Worth Beyond Appearance

(28:21) Teamwork and Shared Responsibilities

(29:40) Learning from Mistakes and Growth

(30:57) The Importance of Punctuality and Respect

(32:01) Assuming Positive Intent in Relationships

(34:37) Planning and Responsibility in Adulthood

(36:39) Setting Boundaries and Respecting No

(37:10) The Power of Kindness and Empathy

(41:31) Intentional Prayer and Connection with Children



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Resources from today’s show:

Link to one-liners PDF

Dana’s first episode on PTM

Mountain Brook Community Church

Connect with Dana

ABC Scripture Cards

Scripture Affirmation Cards

Noteworthy Prayers

Noteworthy Kids

Christian Parenting products


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