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March 11, 2025 61 mins
On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society’s expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there’s ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo’s influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion’s relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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