Selective Ignorance : Ep. 40 | Public Outrage: Blowing Bubba, Guilt &"The Files" feat. Jason "Jah" Lee - Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However,

(00:03):
before we get to this week's episode, I want to
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wherever you read your books. Again. That is No Holds Barred,
a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power, written by
yours truly and my co host of the Decisions Decisions podcast, Weezy.
Make sure y'all get that. Now, let's get to this
week's episode. This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance,
a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network and Iart Radio.

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Yo Yo yo, Welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance.
I'm your girl, Mandy B. And here we mind our
business except when the tea is scorching and the government
is lying on This week and this is America, the
Epstein file are being released. Yes, those files, y'all know,
the ones that they said didn't exist.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Of course, of course.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
But somehow now they are out and about and ready
for us to explore. But we'll also see because they're
redacting mad shit out of it. So who knows what
we're gonna get. It's giving a fallacy. Meanwhile, the Maggers
are finally burning their little red hat. And not because
Trump is out here showing us again that he doesn't
care about basic human rights. Oh no, it's because he

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might have allegedly put a little dick in his mouth.
That's the line in the sand for the Republicans apparently.
And why are the barbs in the White House? Why
is Trump acting like he gives a fuck about Nigeria. Well,
we're getting into that as well. Then in Celebrities say
the darness things, Repper the Game admits that he's losing
sleep because he realized he wasn't a good man and

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wasted women's time. White ceiling, Sir, that's not insomnia, it's
called consequences. And is this another case of men no better?
They just choose not to do better. We're gonna get
into that. And then also apparently all these celebrities are
meeting with rabots.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
I feel really blessed to be able to sit here
with dj D and just take accountability.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Do they even speak the same language. I don't know
what's happening, y'all grab your side eyes and your ignorance
because we're diving into it, and per usual, I am
joined by my super producers. I got journalism Jason Gang

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Gang Gang, which unfortunately he's not here for. He's not
here to get inside of a king the side inside,

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but that's what I'm saying. He puts something he back
from the back.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
I just like Redactive File.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Y'all know that.

Speaker 5 (03:11):
Robinson.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
We were up in New York and got to record
quite a bit of episodes and I just felt like,
can you showed up as somebody that I hadn't seen you?
As it was? It was given combat Jack Potter, Okay, okay,
it was regular.

Speaker 6 (03:27):
Yeah, you asked some I think it was what we
were talking about. I think this is the ebbs and
flows of the conversation. In those conversations, you know, we
got Today's gonna.

Speaker 5 (03:42):
Be quietly in your crib, like do.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
I pod quiet do anything?

Speaker 5 (03:47):
It's do you mean the house? Like discussing ship bouncing?

Speaker 2 (03:50):
You know, it's like taking shots.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
I do that ship. I had the mics on it.
The crib. I'd have been I had no friends, I do.

Speaker 6 (03:57):
I was lighting everybody up the other day when I
saw the with all the action.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
What I was like, I do listen to pods and
suck my teeth and be like, what the fuck are
y'all talking about? Like I be mad at what I
listened to? But you know, well, part of the fun
is introducing you. Y'all have heard him before. He is
the man behind all of the dopest, funniest titles from Boston.

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But also he is a man of many opinions, and
I'm really excited to have him join Selective Ignorance a
lot more often. Y'all are about to hear. Okay, here's
the thing now because Jason Lee the Jon, but you
know there's the other Jason Lee. So are what are

(04:45):
you gonna do? Are we able to be? Like? Can
say jay z Ambulance?

Speaker 5 (04:51):
Oh that's a good car. I should bring back the lot.

Speaker 7 (04:56):
You know jay Z used to have it used to
be j A y Z with the over the.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Age, over the Yeah, bring that, bring.

Speaker 7 (05:04):
That into jo that's sophisticated, bring that in the fashion
yeah yeah, yeah, bring back toine.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Okay, So are we gonna though, expound on your voice
as John, are you just gonna be or do you
want to be Jason Lee the black one?

Speaker 6 (05:19):
Here's what because Ja, we do have a white to
ray and a black to that's true.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
The tour, you know what's crazy. We y'all kept talking
about so To gonna come on the show.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
For sure.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
When y'all kept saying that, I thought it was the
nigga with the curly hair with the glasses.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
That's the white white the rappertoire.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
That's who I always thought y'all were trying to get
me next to. Because I see a lot of his videos.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
I don't see black.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
He's not white. He's like he's.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Because he's he's light skinned.

Speaker 5 (05:55):
But he's from Brooklyn though shout the tour.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
I think it's from like Boston. Originally he's got he
got his stripes and he was LOOKI I'll.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
Be seeing him running around Park Slope.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
I love that we're starting off this problem.

Speaker 5 (06:11):
You know, I saw a video of him. You're not
gonna like that. He got a video.

Speaker 6 (06:14):
Encourage everybody to see it. It's from to and it
says which one white.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
We got to stop that?

Speaker 7 (06:23):
You know the reference that's real. Pod Lord, if you know,
if you know, but know to A.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
Has a excellent breakdown of why he hates Drake on YouTube.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
So I hate Drake.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
First watching it, I want some reasons this hates Drake.
I won't be watching that by the way. By the way,
I just love the white black whatever polkadont everybody just
want to get off by talking about how they hate
the biracial Drake And ain't nobody got time to be
seeing or listening to why people hate people?

Speaker 7 (06:57):
Well listen, well, we're gonna get it. We get into
the topics. I have more Drake slander, but that's that's
neither here. That's neither here nor that we'll get We'll
get to that.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
This is not going to be a podcast that we
lean on hate Drake.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Okay, we don't not like him? Yeah I don't, I don't,
I don't know. I listened. I was listening to this
ship the other day. But where the shoe? Where the shoe? Fish?
I'm gonna make the nigga wear it. That's it.

Speaker 7 (07:19):
But I'm gonna answer your question directly though about about
the duality of Jason Lee.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
And yeah, yeah, give me the.

Speaker 7 (07:25):
I'm not gonna let that nigga soil the brand, like
the brand the brand of Jason Lee.

Speaker 5 (07:32):
Like niggas know me around here.

Speaker 7 (07:33):
You know my body, you know what I'm saying and
so like, and when they know me, they don't know
me anything the way they know him. And I'm the
bossip nigga nigga, and niggas don't know me like that.

Speaker 5 (07:43):
Niggas know me in a different kind of way.

Speaker 7 (07:44):
The niggas know me in a way of like dignity
and respect and like, you know, to let us know
like how real it is. So yeah, I'm not gonna
let him soil the brand. I'm Jason Lee and that's
just what it is.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Period.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
But versus but versus get that both.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
By the way, I love Jason, So of course the
next time you next time and because you're about to
be up here, like y'all about to get to know
this whenever that motherfucker says foot on Atlanta soiling.

Speaker 5 (08:22):
It's been a long time coming. But he got the
ancient Josh, so that makes him him.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah, and that's how like A stands for him.

Speaker 5 (08:29):
Right.

Speaker 7 (08:30):
But here's the thing, right, like people that if you
see me in the street, right and you call me Jason,
I know what time period in my life you know
me from right from like eighth grade to through college
and all of that.

Speaker 5 (08:45):
If you call me Jah, I know what point after.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
I May two thousand and nine and beyond.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
So the name came about in like two thousand and.

Speaker 7 (08:55):
Six, okay, And like, I don't know if we have
time to go through this whole, Lord.

Speaker 5 (08:59):
Not, but it's not.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
We'll get we'll get get We'll get.

Speaker 5 (09:02):
Well, get that eventually.

Speaker 6 (09:04):
But yeah, but the whole because you smoke greenery, I
thought you were Jamaican too, people.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
That's that's normally.

Speaker 7 (09:09):
Normally, that's how it's I would say that, and people
are like, that's the far Like I hate to break you,
I hate to bust your bubble player, but that's.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Not I'm actually African American.

Speaker 5 (09:25):
Said, I'm a nigga.

Speaker 7 (09:26):
Okay, but but the disappointment in people's face when I
tell him it's not Rostar is always funny. But yeah,
but people know me from being a certain kind of way.
So now you know now that I came up in
the world and I can be on this here Steam platform,
you know what I'm saying. I can I can introduce
people to both of us.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
Okay, I love that. Well, then we'll start off shout
to shout out.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
He came up this year.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
About to lit and ship.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
What did.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
You know out of Philly? He's like a he's like
a political commentation.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
We stopped adding to it, like what would we got
the whole Verses episode, we.

Speaker 7 (10:15):
Got the white Toray black would probably be like Muslim yeah,
Muslim yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah Philly yeah yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
So we're gonna start off I want to I want
to kind of just you know, what we're gonna start
doing is sharing our ignorant moments throughout the weeks. And
I want to start with you. I know my ignorant
moment that I've had recently that I've am going to
blindly share on this podcast for that to keep judging

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me for all of eternity. But do you have an
ignorant moment that you that you realize that you want
to share with the Actually.

Speaker 7 (10:58):
And it took me a minute to think about it,
but it was really that long ago. This should be happening, right.
So I'm on the couch, I get a text from
my lady that says I just got into a confrontation
with the white man.

Speaker 5 (11:14):
The fuck Now we're on the phone. What's going on?

Speaker 7 (11:19):
She says, she's at the gas station trying to get gas.
Some white man in a home depot truck. Was I
guess trying to take the spot that. You know, people
get greedy at the gas statione. She's trying to get
in the gas pump. I gainst the guy's blocking or
trying to get in, whatever the case is. She asked him, Hey,
I'm trying to get in this spot.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
Can you help.

Speaker 7 (11:37):
You're talking to me, bitch. The white man said that
to her, you're talking to me, bitch. I know you're
not talking to me, bitch. What the gas station is
right down?

Speaker 3 (11:51):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (11:51):
Niggah. I throw on some pants. Now by this she's like,
everything is cool. I'm good.

Speaker 7 (11:57):
I'm about to just leave out of here. She got
her gas. It happened already. No no no, no no no.
It might have happened already, but it ain't over. It
ain't over. So I put on some pants. You don't
even know this yet, but I can put on some pants.
I go to the gas station across the street. I'm
looking for the white home depot van. Where's the van
at I don't see the van. I go up the street.
As I'm going up the street, I see a home

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depot van pull out of the Walgreens.

Speaker 5 (12:21):
Busty you right in the middle the street.

Speaker 7 (12:24):
Hold on, mashed down on this home depot van. We
get right at the red light where both of us
are side by side. I look over there.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
It's a brother long locks. Okay, okay, cool.

Speaker 7 (12:38):
But now he's looking at me because I done ran
down on him Minnesota. He's looking at my assistant goes
with me everywhere.

Speaker 5 (12:47):
I got to ask that my assistant.

Speaker 7 (12:51):
Unless we're somewhere in the Federal building or where I
just doing, Pat dawns that.

Speaker 5 (12:55):
My assistant is with me. But it's not. It didn't
have to be any of that.

Speaker 7 (12:59):
But I'm looking at this guy like, all right, it's cool.
But now he thinks he thinks he didn't.

Speaker 5 (13:06):
Say anything, he didn't get out of pocket.

Speaker 7 (13:08):
But I just know the look on a black man
when a black man is tired of whatever the fuck
is going on, and uh yeah, yeah yeah. So I'm like,
all right, drive now he drives up on me. He
don't say nothing, he don't roll the window down. He's
just looking like what's up?

Speaker 5 (13:27):
Ain't nothing?

Speaker 7 (13:28):
Use bro, we straight. I thought she was somebody else,
both on our separate ways. Okay, everything was all good.
So my ignorant thought was like, but.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
You didn't but you didn't get the white man.

Speaker 7 (13:39):
No, And I was mad about that, Like I'm still
starting about it right now.

Speaker 5 (13:42):
To be honest with you, look like you're ignorance. Was
what my ignorance is.

Speaker 7 (13:46):
I'm about to go down here and it's gonna be
whatever it's gonna be with this white man, because who
the fuck are you talking to?

Speaker 5 (13:53):
Second off, watch who the fuck? You don't know who?

Speaker 7 (13:56):
You don't know who that person knows. You don't know
what the other side of that looks like.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Were you more or all right because the man was white?
Because if a black man did the same thing, would
you not have had the same response.

Speaker 7 (14:04):
It would have a woman a little extra sat on top,
but little literally a little slather on that hit sandwich
where I'm like, oh, hell no, I.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Got a valid, valid, valid, valid, valid, valid, valid, valid.
So I have also an ignorant moment that I would
like to share with y'all, And it kind of leads
into a little bit of what you did, But it
wasn't all the way white people. It's a little ignorance,
but but it does have to do with ethnicities, I guess,
and color and biases, and my this is my selective ignorance. Okay,

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So y'all know, the movers was one thing at the
top of the air. But now I'm like juggling trying
to find cleaners. Because what I enjoy about making money
is that I offload all the things that a bitch
don't want to do. Fuck the domestication. I live with
a cat. I ain't got a nigga, so yes, I
don't want to watch it'shus. I don't want to fold
my clothes. I don't want to clean like when my

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when my house start getting a little messy, I'll be like,
I gotta get a cleaner. So the cleaners that I've
been having just don't do a great job. So I
was like, okay, So I asked my neighbor. I said, Yo,
do you use a cleaning service? He's like, yeah, I
use this app. So he sends me the app, of
course with his cold so that he gets his little
points or whatever. And so I download the app and

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I go, and of course it books you to cleaners
that accepts the job, y'all. I had to sit with
myself because I felt so bad. So I get matched
with a cleaner. Y'all, it's a dreadhead black man. And
I immediately is like, this nigga ain't cleaning my house.

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I don't care what type of black que was. A
man with dreads my house the way I think a
nigga's like, my house ain't gonna get cleaned by a
black man if you had waves. No, I don't care.
A black man cannot clean the house like others can.

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Versus we're gonna get that that. We're gonna get into that,
mind you. And the problem isn't why I wanted someone new,
is because the cleaners that I was using I didn't
speak no English, but so they weren't getting it. Just
they weren't landing. So I was like, okay, but I'm

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not gonna go from aditya to a nigga with dress.
So then I canceled it. Luckily, it didn't make me
choose why, but I cancel it and say find me
another cleaner. So it finds me another cleaner. The cleaner
is a white woman. Now I was willing, actually I

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will need to give the white woman a chance also
because I was like, Okay, she ain't gonna know who
I am. Maybe this white woman knows how to clean.
I don't know, but I was like, I'm gonna give
her a chance. This raggedy bitch two hours before the
clean tries to cancel on me because her child is sick,

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not knowing it's fucking them kids. You can think, give
a fuck about your sick kid. Ask somebody else, nigga
my house clean. No, it was true to app and
she tried to cancel it. But also if I canceled it,
I was gonna get charged for canceling. So I said, bitch,
you cancel it. She was like, no, it's gonna charge me.
I said, well, you lose your money and take your

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little motherfucker kid to wherever it need to go. But
I was like, you know, I don't give a fuck
about your kid being sick, bitch, my house need clean.
So this is all me being super selfish, super ignorant
all the things. And so I was like, damn, not
giving no white to try anymore, because bitch the nerve.
So you just think you privileged enough to cancel on

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me two hours before the clean and then and then
you thought I was going, it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
It wasn't given.

Speaker 5 (18:09):
It wasn't giving.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
It wasn't it wasn't given. Jacques Jean, Okay, it wasn't
given that. So anyways, then the white woman cancels. So
then I decide to go back to not the app
to the person who speaks no English. Well, I decided

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to also ask my my other friend, you got any cleaners.
He said, yeah, it's a it's a husband and wife.
So the husband and wife comes over and they don't
do a good job. So anyways, all I know is
I am willing to try hundreds of Maria's to get
it right, because they're gonna get it right. But I

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have zero intention on having a black man or now
a a white woman attempt to clean my home. And
here's the other really really ignorant and self like I
think highly myself. I also don't want any black women
cleaning my house because I feel like they're gonna know
who I am, or they're gonna have friends who know
who I am. I'm very particular with where I know,

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people know where I live, and I just feel like
niggas who don't even speak Spanish not gonna listen to
any of the ship put out. But I literally was
in my head like I'm reaching out to all my
friends like do you have a cleaner and what language
do they speak? And what they look like? I'm literally
asking what they look like. And I was just like, damn,
this is really ignorant than me. But also and.

Speaker 6 (19:40):
No, it's safety. It's safety, and you you have. It's safety,
and then you have a particular style and expectation of
how you want your be clean.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
And is it bad that I only feel like an Espanole. Eventually,
on chet GBT, I made a wholess of I want
done and then made my husband chutch you b t
literally put it in Spanish and then send it to
them like don't leave the house to all this is done,
but it's it's in Espano.

Speaker 6 (20:10):
Yeah, you want you want to you want to name
the ends in a O A or gonna use fabuloso, aonia,
get your beach, You're gonna use all of the elements
of clean.

Speaker 5 (20:22):
We don't want that.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
Fabuloso that's that's a nigga, that's we do that.

Speaker 5 (20:28):
That appropriate people they do that.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Okay, you want to know what what we do and
maybe maybe you'll do this or maybe y'all don't. This
is some This is okay, this.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
Is really I'm confused when you say.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
We might so not even really using the fabulous So
but if you put it on the stove and your
whole house spell.

Speaker 4 (21:05):
I've heard that you but you think it's us, right,
I think I think you'll.

Speaker 7 (21:08):
Pioneers it's but it makes sense how I might have
to do that.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
But yeah, okay, So am I ignorant? Or is this
a generational or what is it?

Speaker 4 (21:19):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (21:20):
An American ignorance that we can all accept that we
want at Spaniols to clean our house and probably not,
because they could be Dominican, Puerto Rican, Mexican, just at
Sponiols all around.

Speaker 7 (21:37):
Well, here's what it speaks to, Honestly, here's what I
say it speaks to, probably more than anything, is that.

Speaker 5 (21:44):
People who come here from other countries.

Speaker 7 (21:46):
Immigrants, they're cleaner than us, not even it's not even,
it's not even the cleaner. It's taking pride in your work,
whatever whatever work you do. I put in a hard
days work. This is this is my job. I try
to do it to the best of my ability. Show
up here, every day, I bust my ass, I get
it done. I try to do it the right way.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, Americans like American they like and yeah I want
no corner un white Okay.

Speaker 5 (22:17):
And Maria's mom is she probably Maria's mom.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
I did not call them Maria. I would rather say
it than Maria Spanolspanola, Maria.

Speaker 6 (22:28):
The subjects mom probably taught her at a young age
how to get every nook and cranny really how to
clean as Let's be.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Very clear, that's why a black man broad because because
what black mom. It was a sorry y'all say, some
crazy are teaching their young black boys how to literally

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elbow grease, do dishes? Really? Yes, So how can y'all
forget when y'all grow up?

Speaker 5 (23:06):
Because that's correct, what.

Speaker 1 (23:13):
Ignorant conversations I didn't been to enough grown man's homes.
Hold on, And for the ladies listening who date men
and have to go to a man's home that doesn't
have to touch up a woman to grow between the bathroom,
the kitchen, and I'm not even talking about how you
interior decorating things. There are ways that in which throughout
my twenties and even into my thirties, well, no I

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was with a man in my thirties, like was in
a relationship, but throughout my twenties, when I was going
over men's homes that lived by their selves, it was like, yes,
it was good, it's not even it was like the
other shit like dust, Okay, you know, maybe you're not
dusting the ceiling fan. But in terms of as a

(23:56):
grown man, why does your home look like this? And
why I so I'm supposed to suck your dick and
do everything else I'm being judged to why I'm not
cleaning your house? Like That's been a constant thing, even
men with money, right, Like when I used to get
flown out, a man would be like, oh, I'm not
wifey material because when he go to practice and come
back the house ain't clean. Nigga, why are you flying

(24:17):
me into a dirty, dirty though? And so like Okay,
it sounded brash when I started it off. I get it, but.

Speaker 6 (24:26):
I do have I know people going to be in
mandy because I like to do that. You work hard,
you work hard, you work to get to that place
where you can do these things. There's no there's no foul,
no harm, no foul there, so you have you should
be entitled to have these services. However, however ignorant. Take

(24:47):
that you lean back. I want you to be more ignorant.
People to be listening, like so, you might have blocked
your own blessing. That could have been your soulmate.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
I was thinking the same thing.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
I got your house clean and context.

Speaker 6 (25:02):
And he probably had drawn up some good conversations with her,
and then she would have found out, oh.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
He has Do you think that somebody cleaners?

Speaker 5 (25:10):
Well you had to, you're going to be there.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
I don't want to talk to the person just cleaning
my home.

Speaker 5 (25:16):
She worried that her draws are gonna end up on eBay.

Speaker 7 (25:19):
That's what I mean, That's what But I will say
this though. Me when I was single, boy, I was notorious.
If I go to a woman's house and I go
to the bathroom, killing bat that shower, killing that show.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
What did you find? What did you find?

Speaker 5 (25:39):
Soap scum?

Speaker 1 (25:42):
Make a make up marks, making my brains full of hair?

Speaker 5 (25:48):
The the thing is not clean. It might be a
new razor and a rusty razor right next to each.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Other, So what we forgot to throw the old one away?

Speaker 2 (25:55):
Nah?

Speaker 1 (25:55):
No, it's not as bad as what a man's back,
we thought we're not doing I'm pretty sure.

Speaker 7 (26:00):
However, I want to eat the pussy of a rusty razor.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
But maybe you know what's crazy about that bringing up
we all went to one music fest together, and what's
crazy is I walked into the man's bathroom because the
woman's line was way too long.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
I've seen that you walked out.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
Shut up, I will say. In terms of public restrooms,
oh yeah, women's women's public restrooms, I can't believe I
eat pussy when I disgusting place.

Speaker 5 (26:35):
I haven't heard of women that says no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
It is one of the most disgusting places like ever.
And I don't understand why women when they go out
in public and have to use the restroom, why apparently
they don't understand the concept of wiping their seats, rolling
up their pads, double flushing, if there's still blood or

(26:58):
remnant slept in it is. It is the most foulest
place like fuck. I know everybody just did the Haunted
Houses and ship during Halloween. I know that I can't
think of actually in my head something more disgusting than
the public female restaurant.

Speaker 7 (27:17):
Well, this is why Dick's are convenient, because we can
have urinals. We can just step in with and play.
Y'all don't want to sit on the seat, so it's
a whole.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
Joint, y'all. I have no control, So it's.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Just my knees are not strong. And if and the
best in the best of restrooms, well they have the
papers that you can I normally do three if they
have like the ones that are already they're already shaped
like the seat three status too thin. And then if not,
which sucks, especially if you gotta be real bad, I

(27:50):
line I line the seats. I'm gonna sit, but I'm
gonna line it.

Speaker 5 (27:53):
I would say three like.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Raw bear ass. They'retty bad, but not as a seat.

Speaker 7 (28:01):
I've just seen his Instagram video of this. Uh, I
don't know what I mean. Listen, she said she was
a scientist.

Speaker 5 (28:06):
We just take whatever.

Speaker 7 (28:09):
But the lady was trying to make an argument for
the fact that public restroom seats are cleaner than a
lot of people's.

Speaker 5 (28:17):
Cell phones cell phones or or in home like bathrooms.

Speaker 7 (28:20):
You think it's like the good bathroom these ad a
lot of times the public bathroom is actually more clean
and or and or.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
This is why they don't believe science.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
But this is why.

Speaker 5 (28:30):
Because instan cleans the seats.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
No no, but not before that, like you got multiple asses,
mind you, white people don't even if they don't shave
their lower legs, they don't.

Speaker 5 (28:45):
They don't accept it.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
Person.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
No, no, no, no, I accepted a white person. And this
she pissed me off because she thought I gave a
funk about her kid sick. Damn. I sounded like trash.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
You know what.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
Let's get as a this is America.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
We't got to see.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
Let's talk about the goddamn country we's living. All right,
Let's start with let's just do the Epstein files. Trump
made it seem like we should be so excited that
he passed the bill to release these Epstein files. Again,
not only do I question science when it's you know,

(29:24):
proposed to us as facts, I question everything the fucking
government decides to feed us. Right, And so apparently we're
supposed to be giving, uh, given these Epstein files and
believe them to be true in nature to what apparently
it is. Now they are supposed to be redacting some
ship apparently, John you said, you said, you heard that

(29:45):
they're pretty much gonna redact all the Republican names and
only give us the Democratic names.

Speaker 7 (29:50):
So the rumor that was going around after the House
passed the vote was that, I'm sorry. After the Senate
past the vote was that, Okay, the files are gonna
come out, but Republicans are going to try to redact
all Republican names, any reference to anyone on the conservative side,
and the only names that were going to be left
were Democrat names that had some relationship with Jeffrey Epstein.

(30:13):
But that's that's like, that's a I don't believe it's true.
I never heard that confirmed by any news source or
anybody credible. That was just something that people started talking
about on the internet after this thing happened.

Speaker 5 (30:26):
But that's like, now, who's gonna believe that.

Speaker 7 (30:29):
No one's gonna believe that Bill Clinton was the only
person that knew Jeffrey Epstein like we've seen.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
But here's my question then, with when it comes to
the Epstein files, if there was so much damaging information
and it's what's being alluded about Trump, I do like
the question as to why the Biden administration just didn't release.

Speaker 5 (30:49):
These There was an ongoing investigation.

Speaker 4 (30:51):
Part of it wasn't why because it was ongoing investigator,
but the nigga.

Speaker 2 (30:55):
Died, but still.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
Instigation, but also what was but the investigation there's a
list Thelarity and Jail are dead.

Speaker 4 (31:03):
Yeah, but their investigation also ends up being like twofold
because there'll be like a house investigation in a federal investigation,
and so like one goes on and when the other
one goes on, the second one and it's a lot
of like bureaucratic process that makes it just drawn.

Speaker 5 (31:15):
Out and not for nothing. They're trying to and.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
They didn't explain that well by the way.

Speaker 7 (31:20):
Yeah, yeahahssaging, The messaging wasn't great on that. But they're
trying to But now Republicans are trying to run the
same thing because now they're saying, oh, well, Trump is
going to demand the dj have another investigation.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
So it's like, here's my question about this too. The
Epstein files.

Speaker 5 (31:36):
Epstein died when twenty nineteen, So.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Twenty nineteen, it is twenty twenty five, right, he was
locked up prior to that in terms of a lot
of sex crimes, and it's what we talk about a.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Lot convicted prior to that too.

Speaker 5 (31:49):
Yes, but that's my thing.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
There's a statue of limitations on a lot of sex crimes, right,
and so if what we're deeming to be a raveled
in this in these Epstein files, what doesn't matter this
much longer outside of public opinion. But outside of public opinion,
a lot of people that would assumably be in these

(32:11):
files can't be charged for the crimes that are.

Speaker 4 (32:14):
But I think, I think monetary lawsuits, right, Like I
think I think it's.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Like family members and like family and some of the
victims still.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
But they're coming out saying that they're in these files,
but they're still like shame that exists, right, like like
like Trump, like like Trump's.

Speaker 4 (32:31):
Superpowers that he has no shame, right, Like he says
wild ship and he doesn't go down. But like some people,
like this is dude Larry Summers, who's like the typical
like Republican Trump, like big Donner.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
He used to be the president of Harvard.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
He was like ahead of like economic committees in the
White House. He's like classic like Republican dude. And so
like he was in the files because he was emailing
Epstein trying to get advice on like how to date
this young girl, right, and so like that works.

Speaker 5 (32:57):
For him, go to work.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
But they're like they're like a little bit, but.

Speaker 4 (33:01):
Of age but too young for him, right, and so
nothing illegal, but he still had like that that old
school shame and so like he resigned from the job
that he had right now, like that was like the
old school way shit used to work. And also like
people now now, like people is like impervious to that shit,
Like they're just gonna keep like talking through it.

Speaker 7 (33:18):
Well, that's the thing about it, right, there's there is
that impression that that you know, obviously we know Trump
doesn't really have a lot of shame, but people under
Trump still do. There's a lot of Republican names that
aren't Trump or Ted Cruz or people who we see
talked about the news every day that probably don't want
their shit on the street.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
It's crazy at all. But when we lean into ignorance,
right especially of this country, we're no longer ignorant to
the fact that we know old rich white men and
niggas with money and niggas with power are kicky ass,
nasty ass motherfuckers. Like so a lot of the things
that could come out, of course they do that. Like
I don't even think where we're at right now in

(34:00):
twenty twenty five, I don't think we as a people
would be surprised to hear what niggas is doing on
islands on their time off. To be fair, it's what
we're seeing, like with the response from the whole Didy trial. Bro,
they're not surprised.

Speaker 5 (34:16):
Well, no, no one, no one will be surprised.

Speaker 7 (34:19):
But I still think if hey, this was most of
this is Trump's fault, Like he ran his campaign saying
first time, the first time, first time, saying.

Speaker 5 (34:28):
That these things were going to come out. The people
that he put in positions.

Speaker 7 (34:31):
Dan Bongino had a Secret Service, Secret Service director director
Cash Betel.

Speaker 5 (34:40):
I guess c II that's what it is. Dan Bongo's
ahead of the CIA. They are on this like before the.

Speaker 7 (34:47):
Democrats was even saying anything about the Epstein files or
wasn't talking about it in a mainstream kind of way.

Speaker 5 (34:53):
Trump's own people were.

Speaker 7 (34:55):
On this Epstein thing because a lot of there a
lot of their I guess conservative drain the swamp thing
is about pedophilia, Pizzagate and all that kind of shit
that didn't just come out of a vacuum. They really
want to attack and get rid of pedophiles.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Waightfair order now because it's gonna come out that way
is really selling kids out of the cabinets and surprised.
But do y'all care? I want to ask the room
because for the people even listening at the end of
the day, it's a whole bunch of white people that
was doing some fucked up ship that we already know
they were probably doing it. That's why they've been trying
to hide it this long.

Speaker 5 (35:30):
Do we care to come?

Speaker 4 (35:32):
We don't care, but we don't vote for them, right, like,
like the people to vote for them have like the
Christian values.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
Like that Florida christ trash like that.

Speaker 5 (35:39):
I think.

Speaker 6 (35:40):
But what happens is what happens if you're a celebrity
and you get invited and you go and you see
this ship, and over time you don't say anything. You
just know what happens or whatever, and then you keep
your mouth shut. Then it's like, oh wow, we got
these files and it's like, oh shit, well I was
at the island before.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
I'm like yeah, But but it's the same thing that we're hearing.
Even with the ditty parties, right, people are admitting I've
gone the ditty parties, but I never saw the things
that you know we're talking about. I think even us
bringing up the Christian values to it and I want
to keep it Trump and keep it all the stuff here.
It's interesting because when we talk about Christian values, I
guess kids, no one gives a fuck about that. We

(36:15):
see what happens to the Catholic Church even but the
fact that now we're seeing this uproar or this or
people being irate to see that this nigga might be
bisexual or might have had a dig or two in
or around his mouth, you know what I mean. It's like,
this is what y'all mad at, Like that he might
have grabbed, grabbed some dick. He already admitted to grabbing kuchie.

(36:36):
Y'all wasn't even mad at him grabbing women by the pulssy.
But now he might have been around some penises. Y'all
are in an uproar, which is also crazy considering just
a couple of months ago he on his goddamn plane
talking about I ain't going to heaven.

Speaker 5 (36:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
So and so, even when we talk about the the
Trump administration leaning heavily into religious values, it's like your
leader right now has also kind of shamed the parts
of the religious belief system that y'all really align yourself with.

Speaker 7 (37:14):
And he was never a Christian like, he was not
like that. He's not a He was a proxy for
white Christian nationalists to be able to feel good about
who they were voting for, who they were supporting. But
that man doesn't know about church. That man doesn't know
shit about the Bible or God. Like, that's not his bag.
And and he's been a public figure now for forty

(37:37):
five years.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
And I gotta look, the only church you might have
went to is the Easy Church. Until we know Kanye
was standing beside of me, he went to Easy Church.

Speaker 5 (37:48):
He went to Jimmy Carter funeral.

Speaker 7 (37:49):
Outside of that, I can't tell you about your church
that Donald Trump ever been in his life. That's about
as far as it's gonna go publicly for Donald Trump.
But ultimately, like, yeah, I don't, I don't care as
from the standpoint of I wake up every day thinking
about whether but yeah, I do want this shit to
come out. I do want to. And the thing about
it is is that Republicans are fighting this. Democrats aren't

(38:12):
really fighting this, and it's going to be Democratic names
in there. At one point, Bill Clinton, Bill Clinton was
still stumping for Kambla Harris's last election, he was still
so he's still a major figure in the party, and
Democrats are at least on the face of it or
willing to.

Speaker 5 (38:27):
Say everyone can cook. Yeah, everyone can cook.

Speaker 7 (38:31):
It doesn't matter if it's our team, your team, whatever
it is, everybody can get it. And I think that's
what American I think that's what the American people want.
Trump ran on draining the swamp, and all his Republican
people were down for because they know that this shit
is corrupt too.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
The only thing I guess I would like from this
standpoint would be if these files go, especially seeing what
just happened with the government shut down and us only
having what a democratic votes, it would be that people
step down that are Republican and we're able to reshift

(39:05):
some of what's happening before then with what's happening. If
people step down, the only problem is too, I guess,
of course checks and balances. Does this also allow Trump
to reappoint whoever steps down, or do we go into
different votes like This is something that I don't think
we've ever witnessed, like to where all three branches of
the government can have people impacted by these files.

Speaker 7 (39:27):
I mean, I think some of that stuff you cross
that bridge when you get to it. But I do
want to say this because we've talked about like all
the other angles of this thing, but I do want
to make sure we say this part about it. The
reason that all this has happened is not really just
because of Donald Trump and the Republicans who want it,
and not just because of the Democrats who want it.
A real big reason why this is happening is because
the victims are not fucking around.

Speaker 5 (39:47):
God.

Speaker 7 (39:47):
These people are traumatized, They've had their lives changed by
this shit, and they are pushing the line on it.
They have political backing, and they have media backing. The
media is not gonna let this story go.

Speaker 1 (40:00):
With Elon running X and whatever is happening over at Meta,
I will say it has been the way a lot
of the victims were being pushed into our faces around
Bill Cosby, are Kelly and all these other things. I myself,
my algorithm, I've seen very little.

Speaker 5 (40:18):
Of the victims.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
Yeah, you know, and you know what's crazy about that too.

Speaker 4 (40:22):
Yeah, it's like like you know how joh mentioned earlier,
like the pizza gate and all that, Right, It's like
Republicans do interesting things around like words and languages, right,
and so like speaking of the victims and maybe why
you don't see them. A lot of what they're trying
to do now is like they're playing around with the
idea of kids and young ladies, right and so like
like yeah, Megan Kelly's like first and foremost, like a

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lot of these victims are like fourteen years old, and
so like now you'll have like Republican figures and media
who they'll say like, oh, these young women, right, because
they're trying to paint them as the idea like these
guys had kinks for young women who because they want
you to think that they were eighteen and nineteen and
twenty and not like teenagers, right, because they're trying to
like bury the idea like these these victims are you know,

(41:03):
these were just fast women who are loose and like
now they're regretting it, which I'm sure, Like that's a
framework that I'm sure.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
I mean it were probably Yeah, and to.

Speaker 5 (41:11):
Your point, we haven't.

Speaker 7 (41:12):
We didn't see these women as like we don't see
pictures of them as little girls.

Speaker 5 (41:17):
We don't the first time as grown people.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
Yeah, we are.

Speaker 5 (41:20):
So when they say young women.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
And significantly they're like thirty five.

Speaker 7 (41:24):
Yeah, it's been twenty twenty five years since a lot
of this stuff happens. So now when you see their
faces and you hear the words young women, for some people,
to Jason's point, that would just let them like oh okay.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
Well not only that way when a woman is in
her thirties or forties coming out about a sexual assault. Unfortunately,
and it's the ignorance within our community that we see,
and not even community, I would say, society is that, well,
what took you so long? So yeah, h but if
a girl was experiencing this level of abuse at thirteen, fourteen,
fifteen years old and just now coming out speaking on it, unfortunately,

(41:57):
the senses and it's what we've seen with a lot
of men who come out about their abuse, is well,
why didn't you say something when it happened? And again,
I think you're right. I think it's skewing what really
took place because a lot of these women were actual children.

Speaker 7 (42:10):
And I don't have any faith that this will change
people's lens on these type of situations, on sexual assaults.

Speaker 5 (42:17):
Rapes, etc.

Speaker 7 (42:18):
But there's like a cognitive dissonance of conservative people people
in general, right in society, but in this case, conservative
people who hate Jeffrey Epstein, who think Jeffrey Epstein rightfully
was a piece of shit. But they think that if
anyone else says that that they were abused or then

(42:39):
it's automatical, like you said, what took you so long?

Speaker 5 (42:41):
Or that didn't really happen. The jump is to defend
other people.

Speaker 7 (42:45):
But they're so confident that Jeffrey Epstein, they know for
a fact that Jeffrey Epstein did this, and wouldn't have
any compassion for other people who come out and say
they've been sexually assault, that they've been raped, etcetera, etcetera
by other people. It becomes this question of like, prove
it to me.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
That's and that's I mean, and you can't.

Speaker 5 (43:04):
That's just not it's he's.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
Say versus she said. That's essentially what's happening here. Yeah,
it sucks, but.

Speaker 4 (43:10):
It's like but it's like he's SAYD versus like they say,
And it's.

Speaker 1 (43:15):
Still I think it's I think it's goofy, but not
as goofy as Nicki Minaj two weeks ago chose to
speak at the United Nations in support of the Trump
administration and their concern around what's happening with the Christians

(43:36):
in Nigeria. It's interesting because I guess over the last
couple of weeks, Yay, the the the the, the presidents
of the barbs are coming out saying they no longer
support Nicki Minaj, and there's there is There's been a
few people that he did it. And to be fair,

(43:59):
since she's been going on these rants over the last
couple of months, people have been of course noting her
follower count dropping by the hundreds of thousands, so she's
lost quite a bit of the support in her barbs.
She is ruining her legacy, is what we're seeing. And
do we have a clip that we want to play
because I know, here's my issue where a lot of

(44:22):
people are upset that Nicki Minaj went up there and
spoke at the United Nations on behalf of the Trump administration. However,
she is allowed to have concern over a religious group
that is experiencing you know, there's a human elementary cool However,

(44:42):
one of the things that people are confused about and
why this is happening. And boy not me shouting out
a man of seals, but I was able to understand
maybe what the what's the angle here? And Amanda Seals
did a great job in kind of expressing why Trump
might have any sort of care about what's happening in Nigeria.

(45:04):
And let's hear what she has to say.

Speaker 8 (45:06):
Nicki Minaj working with Trump admin on plight of Christians
in Nigeria. Either she's getting a check, or she was
nagging the whole time, or she genuinely thinks that she's
doing something good, which, by the way, is why y'all

(45:29):
need to have people around you that know more than you.
And by y'all, I don't just mean celebrities. Everybody. Everybody
should have people around them that they can consult with,
that think differently than you, that hold you in a
place of values. Just so you understand what's happening here

(45:51):
with the plight of Christians in Nigeria. There is a
plight of Christians in Nigeria. However, the US, what does
that have to do with the United States? The United
States is using this as a ploy as a proxy
to find their way into Nigeria so that they can
then find their way into the Sahel States of Burkina, Faso,

(46:15):
Molly and niger who, as you know, are coming together
to begin a process of Pan Africanism on the continent.
They are taking back their resources from friends. They are saying,
we are going to build our own infrastructures. This undermines
the global empires.

Speaker 5 (46:36):
Goal and so they have to try and shut it down.

Speaker 8 (46:40):
Now we saw earlier this year with Afrikaan and that Cone,
that general who tried to say, oh you know, they
got some problems going down in Burkina Faso. They're continuing
to try to make this happen the same way that they're.

Speaker 1 (46:54):
Making Vetch happen in Venezuela right now. And so it
was it was really interesting because yeah, again we just
talked about how Trump you ain't really Christian. Now you
hear about the plight of Christians all the way Nigeria.
By mind, you not sure if Trump or Nicki Minaja

(47:14):
has ever even stepped foot in Nigeria, you know what
I mean. And so, I mean, we know she's been
to Prague, can you even spell it? But I'm not
sure if she's gone to Nigerian. So even her having this,
even if she had a spiritual awakening to care about
this plight, that's happening on the continent of Africa, and

(47:37):
what's happening across these these different countries. I'm like, girl,
you are standing next to someone who is going against
not only people of color, but immigrants. Mind you, you
are from Trinidad, so you are aligning yourself with someone
who not only goes against many a lot of people

(47:58):
of color, you're also going again someone who is against
lgbt Q I A plus plus plus rights, which in
fact is your fan base.

Speaker 5 (48:06):
Also, just to stay on Trinidad real quick.

Speaker 6 (48:09):
Venezuela is right there, and between Venezuela and Trinidad right now,
that I believe looks like it's to be exploited.

Speaker 5 (48:15):
And that and that's why it's like why.

Speaker 6 (48:19):
Used when people there's usually something a precursor to that,
like we've had some kind of sample size that suggests
that she cares or anyone in that position.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
I don't think that's why.

Speaker 4 (48:29):
That's why such a good con right like the whole
because because like the way that she like defends herself,
she's like, like, you guys don't care about people, you
don't care about Christians, And so it's like it's a
good con that like Republicans use with that, and that's
why like Christians get played, right. So it's like Trump
doesn't care about the church or any of that stuff,
but he knows that like if he says a couple
of these words and made like waves the magic wand
like this group is going to get activated. And so

(48:52):
like for Nicki, who's probably just we know, she's like
doom scrolling just like all of us, Like you know,
she's just looking and she's like, oh my god, these
Christians are in true And then it's like it's like
wording right, It's like who are the Christians in.

Speaker 2 (49:03):
Trouble from Muslims?

Speaker 5 (49:05):
Right?

Speaker 4 (49:05):
So then like now it makes it so easy to
kind of like activate like that certain base in the
US and then turn on them, and then you may.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
Activate this and care about Christians who for the most part,
and yet I'm gonna say, I don't give a fuck,
do not care about the LGBTQI plus the community because
it goes against their religious beliefs, who, oddly enough, are
the biggest supporters of Nicki Minaj. Sure, so who are
we activating here? Who are we actually acting like cares like?

(49:33):
And for her to act like she she does care,
it goes against this religious essential group, that goes against
everyone who supported you damn near your entire career.

Speaker 7 (49:41):
Well, the whole thing on both sides is just it
makes your like cynicism since its tingle right. Because on
the government side, I don't like the government, at least
under this administration.

Speaker 5 (49:54):
I won't.

Speaker 7 (49:54):
I'll try to cast a smaller net than I was
about to, but at least under this administration, I don't
belie even any altruistic agenda that this government has. They're
not trying to help people, They're not looking out for
the well being of others. That's not the reason that
they're doing this. Right on Nicki's side of it, I
agree with you. I think she is being used, but
I think the I think her willingness to be used

(50:16):
is honestly just.

Speaker 5 (50:16):
Because it's for her.

Speaker 7 (50:18):
It's like a good look in her mind, because when
else would Nicki Minaj be attached to the White House.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
Or maybe maybe she want her a rapist brother to
be part of.

Speaker 7 (50:30):
Maybe maybe so maybe maybe, But like for her, I
get I'm Nicki Minaj. I get to stand up in
front in this prestigious position and talk about something like Christianity,
like she probably looks at it like this is this
is a win win situation for her. I get a
good look and I get to talk about Christianity. How
can anyone be mad at me for this?

Speaker 1 (50:49):
It's interesting because it brings you saying that immediately made
me think of the Philadelphi, the Philadelphia Eagles and the
players who chose not to go to Yeah, you know
what I mean, right, but it reminds me of that

(51:09):
as as as someone who.

Speaker 5 (51:15):
What what is it folk?

Speaker 1 (51:17):
And so you do still have black people who feel
like being on that podium is.

Speaker 7 (51:24):
It's important, It's important. It's good for me to be that,
you know, and with like and even and like. This
is probably going to piss off the parts too. But
like the difference between her and Carti is that like
to your it was it you and Jason to talk
about like you would you would have seen some precursor
precursor to this.

Speaker 5 (51:40):
Behavior, like Cardie.

Speaker 7 (51:43):
You mentioned the time she said these things on her
lives on her Instagram all the time.

Speaker 5 (51:49):
So Cardi standing up there with Kamala Harris.

Speaker 7 (51:51):
As much as people want to denounce the idea of
bringing celebrities and rappers into the d n C or whatever.

Speaker 5 (51:56):
She cares, you can care. You can tell she cares
about this stuff. And she thought about this a long time.

Speaker 1 (52:02):
And since she was since she was on a pole
star ten years ago. She interviewed Bernie Sanders ten years ago.
And so it's interesting, You're right, we've not seen Nicki
Minajbi Vok any way politically about anything.

Speaker 7 (52:20):
And like even when I watched, I didn't watch the
whole thing. I watched enough of it just to get
an idea of how she performed. And the first thing
she said, she got up there, you know, I'm very nervous. Okay, fine,
I get it, you're nervous you're standing in front of
But also if you care this deeply about something, even
if I was nervous, if something was really on my
heart and there was one hundred thousand people in the crowd,

(52:41):
I could still be able to speak and from my
heart and be convincing and talk to people as if
I know that I give a fuck sitting there reading
a paper about this speech about Nigerians and Christians and
how this it just doesn't come off as genuine in
any way, shape or forms. So it's just like that
the whole thing, I think It's just I think she

(53:02):
just wants the look of saying she's performing.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
I mean, I mean, I just I just that wasn't
the case.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
Formative or does she get played?

Speaker 1 (53:12):
No, well, I mean she said she's Unwell you.

Speaker 5 (53:15):
Say a lot. Everybody got a price.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Oh for sure. But that's what I'm saying. We don't
know if it was the check, if she was promised
to pardon, if she genuinely like, we don't know because
because we don't know, the same way celebrities don't get
paid to perform at the Super Bowl, or they don't
get paid like, we don't know if this was paid,
or if she just got the invite and was so
excited to be behind that podium and and have that look.

(53:41):
We don't know why she, of all people, no.

Speaker 5 (53:44):
Reaction with any United Nations when she said that, did anything?

Speaker 7 (53:48):
Oh no, I didn't see any reactions. I mean, listen,
it's almost like she was in the room by herself,
because the people in the room that she's talking to
don't respect her. The people that wanted her to come
on there to say that don't respect her.

Speaker 1 (53:59):
I mean, it's say, we saw Trump next to fucking
Wayne and next to Kodak and.

Speaker 5 (54:07):
You know it's all goofy, but it's all for looks.
They don't.

Speaker 7 (54:10):
Trump doesn't give a damn about what happens to Wayne,
or give it damn about what happens to Kodak. And
and somebody what it was is somebody probably at the
u N who is on their media team, saw these
nikkis saying these tweets and was just like, get here's
an opportunity.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
That's what it was.

Speaker 5 (54:26):
And she was gonna go for.

Speaker 7 (54:27):
She wasn't gonna say no because this is the opportunity
for me to be in this prestigious and she That's.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
What I'm saying. She seemed like she was just so
excited to be mentioned on the White House page and
the social media page because they did her little TikTok
trend that they're like, oh, she'll come up here. That's
what I'm saying. I don't even know if it was
for a bag. You don't even know if it was
for a bag. Well, let's get it to celebrity set
adorn this things because they do. Look at me, I'm

(54:54):
already signed, bro, I'll be so annoyed. Let's play this clip.
So the game recently sat down on it's the show
that I don't know what this show is.

Speaker 2 (55:07):
It's it's a Kurt Franklin show.

Speaker 1 (55:08):
Well, it's Dinner Kings, and it's and it's men who
sit around and talk about their mental health. Let's go
ahead and play this clip. You might have to chop
it up because it's kind of long, but let's let's
let's let's play this ship.

Speaker 9 (55:25):
Sometimes, Like when I was in my twenties and my thirties,
it was just exchange, you know what I'm saying. It was, Hey, hey,
I'm giving you this we have in our moment, and
the I'm gona get back to my life. You get
back to yours and emotions because you're young. Everybody got
their whole.

Speaker 4 (55:37):
Life ahead of them.

Speaker 9 (55:39):
When you're getting your forties, man, you start feeling like
you womanize it and you and I'm taking emotions home
with me, or she's taking emotions out the door with
her if you are, you know, living that type of lifestyle,
and I'm I'm like not sleeping good after that because
I feel like I had no pure intentions for this person.

Speaker 5 (56:00):
And this person is also late.

Speaker 9 (56:02):
You know, thirties or you know, mid thirties and they
got a life, and so like when you got you know,
when you're young and you're dealing with a young woman,
ain't the white tripman, It's all good. But when you're
older and you know that that woman has trauma from
her past relationship and all of that, and you know,
you dinner is cool, going out on the date, it's cool.
But then once you start getting intimate with people and

(56:23):
you know for sure that they are invested in you
even a little bit, and you know you have no
you know, you know you ain't talking to this person
after tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (56:32):
Man, you carry like, you know, you just feeling it.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
Thank you for cutting off Matt Barnes, because that's the
last person we want to hear from with this conversation.
The man who at the top of the year just
cheated on his wife with eight women within thirty days,
all found out by a private investigator. By the way,
let's not let's cut off. I don't care that he's
on the Black spect network. I don't know a fuck.

Speaker 5 (56:56):
You got cousins that do shit.

Speaker 1 (56:58):
He isn't well into his forties, still cutting the fuck up.

Speaker 2 (57:02):
I don't give a I'm.

Speaker 3 (57:05):
Glad that you He was like, yeah, man, you you
know what that reminds me of you remember, by the way,
by the way, not only is this a table.

Speaker 1 (57:18):
First off, let's talk about the messengers the game is
saying this the game who if you guys are unaware,
just welcomed a new baby into the world with Evely
Lozada's daughter, the same man who publicly was out here
full blown relationship out of uh teenageers. Then we have

(57:41):
Matt Barnes already said would have to say about Barnes,
not sure about Dion Cole or big Boy who's also
at the table. But then we have motherfucking uh Kirk
Franklin who don't like his gay son.

Speaker 5 (57:54):
So this table.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Brouh and so it's it's it's like this these group
of men that, well, in today forties you could trigger
me after I get I've already triggered because because what this,
what this clip essentially is saying to all the women
out there, you bet if you're dealing with a nigga
under forty, he gonna waste your time. Yeah, because these

(58:18):
niggas don't know no better. But then also based on
the table, when they're in their forties, they still gonna
waste your time. Since, because what are we talking about?
Like at his big age of forty, Evelyn Lozada's daughter
still don't have a ring on her finger. You made
her a baby mama.

Speaker 5 (58:35):
Another one another one another one.

Speaker 1 (58:38):
Like in terms of Matt Barnes, you left your you
have a wife right now who's now a single mother, divorced,
say of fucking five children that she's now raising by herself.

Speaker 4 (58:50):
I feel like worse than the action is like the
like the almost like the reward he wants for the awakening,
Like it reminds me of like do you want to
Oh wait, that's what it's like that it's like that
Chris Rock routine where he's like, I.

Speaker 2 (59:03):
Take care of my kids.

Speaker 4 (59:04):
Yeah yeah, And it's like he wants an applaud for
and it's like, yo, that's baseline.

Speaker 5 (59:07):
You want to have a.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
Pause for the acknowledgment.

Speaker 4 (59:09):
But if you that's nothing, that wasn't that deep, but bro,
But also that was like if you genuinely, if you
genuinely felt like that, if you genuinely knew better, you.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Do better, and you wouldn't have just made another baby
mind mind you. I think Evely Lozada's daughter might be
thirty one so still early thirties. Let me look that up. Actually,
I'm gonna look it. U. I'm gonna look it up.
But he's forty five, and like that's something he should like.

Speaker 4 (59:33):
Again, good, good statement. He said much better if it
was like thirteen years ago.

Speaker 5 (59:38):
Well that's the problem right.

Speaker 1 (59:39):
By the way, just turned thirty two.

Speaker 5 (59:42):
Okay, well yeah, but that's what I was gonna say.

Speaker 7 (59:44):
Jay, is that like, yeah, he didn't say he didn't
say anything wrong, But you have to consider the messenger,
because I guess one question is like, Okay, what does
those words sound like a good thing? But like I
think what we gotta get to in society in general
when people say things that okay, yeah, that sounds like

(01:00:05):
the dude, but what does that.

Speaker 5 (01:00:07):
Look like in practice, practice and in practice?

Speaker 7 (01:00:09):
I guess my question is if I if I came
up to the game and was like a nigga with
a hose at, you would point me.

Speaker 5 (01:00:17):
To the hole.

Speaker 7 (01:00:18):
If I said a game, I got follow me, follow me,
come come bride you Jason.

Speaker 5 (01:00:23):
I'm a Jason.

Speaker 1 (01:00:26):
By the way, By the way, I do like the game.
This isn't no no, no.

Speaker 5 (01:00:32):
Here you go.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
I was like three, but I like the game.

Speaker 1 (01:00:47):
I like his music. If this was on mute, I
would still watch it because he looks good. He's a
he's a fine brother. But to me again again, back
to the Messenger at the age of forty five, at
this shared table of men, I just feel like we're
in an echo chamber of men knowing how to say

(01:01:10):
the things that maybe we want to hear. Again, the
acknowledgment of it is there, you know it, but the
practice is not. Yeah, we're not seeing men execute or
practice the things that they actually know, which is why
when I open up, I was like, damn, a lot
of these niggas do know that they know. So it's
not like it's not. What it is is selective ignorance.

(01:01:33):
Here you go, you know better, you genuinely don't choose
to do better. And in terms of dating and wasting
women's time, this is a constant thing. It's what kind
of and I don't know if we even got to
talk about it, but it's the same conversation around Big
Sean being with Jane I ego for ten years and
not doing what you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (01:01:50):
Yah, I want to bring our big sister Grace.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
Here we go. I don't like that.

Speaker 5 (01:01:56):
I know, but we don't even got the same daddy,
so I don't know.

Speaker 6 (01:02:02):
But look what if the game perspective has changed in
how he maybe he had a self reflective moment in
that interim of having another child where he's able to
sit on the platform now and say, hey, I'm evolved,
I'm dumb, I'm doing the work.

Speaker 5 (01:02:17):
Maybe he's in therapy.

Speaker 6 (01:02:18):
Maybe that's how he's able to and and to articulate that.
But to your point, I think we still have to
now that he put that out there, let's see what
happens the next twelve months ago live that right, And
once you put yourself out there now saying that you
corrected your ways and you have compassion and you understand,
you know where you landed with these women previously, then

(01:02:41):
I want to see the growth now.

Speaker 5 (01:02:42):
I want to see the growth.

Speaker 4 (01:02:44):
The growth would have been him saying that and then
also saying like, and we're engaged, and we're.

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
Engaged to have a family.

Speaker 6 (01:02:52):
What's the example, right, Because there's other there's other kids
or the other gentleman young men that follow him that
that hold his words to a high.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
But to reach this place of awareness at fucking for.

Speaker 5 (01:03:07):
That right, and that's yeah, bruh.

Speaker 4 (01:03:09):
With a thirty two year old girlfriend, like like you know,
my thing is It's like when when again the notion.

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
That's his girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:03:19):
What he said was what.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
He said was good, right, like in a vacuum, what
he said was good when when men say this, the
partner that pisses me off the most about it is
like ye, like men know how to like men like
him know how to get pussy, right, and that's different
hard and that right, but that but that's different than
like getting a companion. That's that's different than getting a
companion or starting a family. And it's like like just

(01:03:40):
knowing women, right, like the if you have kids or
and game has kids, so he knows this. Yeah, if
you're a woman and you're over thirty five and you're pregnant,
that's considered high risk.

Speaker 2 (01:03:50):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:03:51):
And so again, like the Big Sean and the jene Aiko,
it's like men will lead these women on for years
and then they're like thirty six, thirty eight, forty two,
and then they're like peace and then they leave and
it's like all right, cool, So now this woman has
to start all over, right, Like if she wants to
start a family, it's gonna be high risk. And it's like, yo,

(01:04:11):
you like when she was in like certain years where
she could have had this family and listened to all
this shit that you were saying, like you was just bullshitting.
You was just bullshitting, And now you're putting her in
a position where it's just making her like harder.

Speaker 2 (01:04:24):
And so it's like for him to say that now at.

Speaker 4 (01:04:26):
Forty five with this thirty two year old girlfriend or
baby's mom, like, we don't know what it is. Like
That's why I just feel so empty, And that's why
it doesn't feel like a moment where he like educated
people like a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Of these words that are spewed onto these mics feel empty,
like because they come again from spaces where it sounds
good but it's not being practice. And so for me,
when I saw that clip, I was just like uh.
But then again I also was just like damn, so
do I need a skew older? And then forty five,

(01:04:58):
like does a man not realize like this until later?

Speaker 7 (01:05:01):
I think you got to take it on a case
by case basis because I think there's there's some men
who you know, I know they might to women, they
probably don't feel like plentiful in the dating pool. But
I think there's some men who know they want to
get married, No, they want to have a family, and
whether they find that person or not at whatever age,
that's up to them in the universe how they connect.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
But have I want to know just.

Speaker 5 (01:05:28):
Quarter it? Yeah, yeah, it's funny.

Speaker 2 (01:05:32):
I was gonna wear quarters.

Speaker 5 (01:05:34):
Some call hans. You know what I'm saying. Well, if
it didn't have the like the continuing zip.

Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
Oh wait, you're talking about just the zipper that comes
from the titties.

Speaker 5 (01:05:46):
A teacher that would you date a fifty five year
old teacher?

Speaker 2 (01:05:51):
About a principal?

Speaker 5 (01:05:52):
A principal, Yeah, he had to be a principal to
own the school.

Speaker 7 (01:05:57):
School administrator se man walking with a swede elbow patch.

Speaker 5 (01:06:02):
No, I can't imagine. Oh, you know what.

Speaker 1 (01:06:09):
The last guy I was with with seventeen years my senior.
I don't mind older guys, okay, but also he.

Speaker 5 (01:06:15):
Had a lot of I'm learning to do okay, but
he read Corduroy.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
Blazers, Corroy Blazers.

Speaker 5 (01:06:22):
You never dated to do that, will Wallabies Clarks, I.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
Don't even know these words. They're trying to give you
a different, different example. I don't even know.

Speaker 6 (01:06:36):
We're gonna say, you would clarks are and then he
probably dated somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
That Wallaby Clarks.

Speaker 5 (01:06:42):
Yeah, wallabyes is the style of it, Clarks of the brand.

Speaker 2 (01:06:44):
Yeah, you know what it is.

Speaker 5 (01:06:46):
That's a type of for sure.

Speaker 2 (01:06:48):
You know that you see in Brooklyn, Like God, yeah,
there's no way you lived.

Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
I never even dated a guy in Brooklyn. No, I
don't look at niggas in Brooklyn.

Speaker 5 (01:06:56):
Wow, I didn't know that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:57):
What I don't like Brooklyn niggas? What? That's not my ignorance,
I'm aware. Anyways. Anyways, speaking speaking of Brooklyn, we're gonna
talk about rabbis. What transition.

Speaker 7 (01:07:20):
Rabbis is crazy, that is wild.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
Listen flies for men, Listen, listen. I told y'all, if
y'all listen to all the episodes, Like Brooklyn was the
first place I saw.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
The Hasidic juice.

Speaker 1 (01:07:37):
Okay, I got to see the little hats with the
curls and the skirts and the wigs like that is
a whole You know, they got their own school buses, hospitals,
like they closed down based on when they want to
close down. It's crazy. But let's get into our thoughts.
Young Thug recently sat with a rabbi. We've also seen

(01:08:00):
their celebrities do this as well, such as Kanye Kyrie
I wasn't aware of, just does Sean Jackson, which again
is another form of eagle Ezeia Banks. We just don't
even need to talk about her as we kind of
can't because she doing some goofy ship too. But Young
Thug sat visited a rabbi and asked for a spiritual reset.

(01:08:24):
This was after clearly his release recently of prison. And
we have a clip for this.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
Yeah, the audio is funny, but let's play it here.

Speaker 1 (01:08:36):
This is crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:08:38):
Who's talking?

Speaker 4 (01:08:41):
That's the music there, but it's just it's just him
talking to Rabbi Yoshi Yahoo. Yes, yes, what is there?

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
Talk is there? First off? You know what's on mute?
Or is it just music playing?

Speaker 4 (01:08:56):
It's just music playing. Every clip of this is just
music playing. You can't they did it so you can't
hear the cross talk.

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
What language are they speaking because the rabbi don't speak English.

Speaker 6 (01:09:05):
Guy right there at this above his shoulder, he's translated translating. Yeah,
he's the same guy that was in The Easy The
Easy Kanye when he visited the rabbit.

Speaker 5 (01:09:13):
How you say whoop? And Hebrew whooped.

Speaker 6 (01:09:17):
Translating right now, telling him, you know, I thought that
you can practice like Santadia. There's other ways. It's not
saying that. That's not an effective way. I just don't
know too much about.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
But with the spiritual reset, does this mean they're becoming Jewish?
I don't know what.

Speaker 5 (01:09:32):
Let me go back with Kanye.

Speaker 6 (01:09:34):
He was he was asking for a toonement for things
he said about the Jewish community.

Speaker 1 (01:09:38):
He was, he was asking for forgiving.

Speaker 5 (01:09:40):
Right forgiveness, and he was, you know, trying to correct
with that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:43):
I get right, what the is what is doing? Because
I thought, okay, it's gonna be.

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
Ignorant ad let it rip.

Speaker 1 (01:09:51):
Shouldn't he be going to like Mohammad?

Speaker 5 (01:10:08):
Because I'm like, how the fair that used to be
the regular thing?

Speaker 7 (01:10:13):
Like if you was a rapper and you got well
minutes of fair cons that's when you got your life
right and you start He chased his like some.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
That's this is confusing. Yes, it's confusing. I was.

Speaker 4 (01:10:25):
I just finished this book on John Singleton that my
homeboy wrote, and there's a chapter with John Singleton the
same thing, like it was going through some ship and
he went to a rabbi instead of going to like
a different type of minister. And I was confused when
I got to that chapter. I was like, why would
he just go to a rabbit? Like why wouldn't he
go to somebody in his own denomination?

Speaker 1 (01:10:43):
Like that's but also what happened to?

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
Confusing?

Speaker 1 (01:10:46):
Okay? And maybe they don't align with the religion, but
the Christian religion amongst us, I feel like it's still
Christian and then Muslim for for our community, not you Jason,
but for we can't super Catholic. But why they're going
to these outside religions that they're least familiar with, that

(01:11:08):
their family members and friends probably are least familiar with.
But why why are they going to a pastor?

Speaker 5 (01:11:14):
Mandy?

Speaker 4 (01:11:15):
Do you think that they feel less judged if they
go outside of their own denomination?

Speaker 1 (01:11:21):
But that doesn't make sense to me either, Like in
terms of in terms of what your religious belief system
is or what you've probably been raised around, you would
you should feel more inclined to go to that religion
to ask for forgiveness or to have a spiritual resents
the same way? Who do we just see or maybe
it was just like one of those influencers. I just

(01:11:43):
saw a grow man get baptized, right, or you go
in pledge your allegiance to the church, like those are ours.

Speaker 6 (01:11:51):
That all these you know what maybe maybe churches in Atlanta.
I'm going, Yeah, you didn't go get t Jakes, you
didn't go get a pastor.

Speaker 7 (01:12:12):
Yeah you didn't go to crestlow Dollar.

Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
Y'a wouldn't think.

Speaker 4 (01:12:18):
It's like like like a therapist where it's like you're
trying to find you first.

Speaker 5 (01:12:22):
He don't believe the probably listen to advice, but he
just went to do.

Speaker 1 (01:12:27):
He went to a rabbi.

Speaker 4 (01:12:28):
But I wanted, like cleft Dollar probably knows who he is,
so he's probably like I'm gonna go to farthest away
from somebody who don't know who I am.

Speaker 5 (01:12:35):
Publicize it.

Speaker 2 (01:12:36):
Now, that's a good question.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
Thug going away. I choose my cleaners, let me go,
don't listen to music because the job. They go do
the job.

Speaker 7 (01:12:50):
But also is it a thing like again this is
me being like Captain Cinical, but like in this time period,
is there a chance that of just thinks let me
align with someone Jewish and and that will I mean,
if he's one of these niggas who and I can
see Thug being one of these niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:13:10):
Is he one of these niggas who think.

Speaker 7 (01:13:11):
That like, okay, Jews run the world, Jews run the bank,
Jews run everything. So these are the most powerful people.
So I need to be within, which.

Speaker 1 (01:13:21):
Is essentially, let's be very clear, which is essentially what
we see Floyd Mayweather doing.

Speaker 5 (01:13:26):
Oh he gave it up word earlier too, he did.

Speaker 7 (01:13:33):
Him and Eric Adams are fighting to be the most
Jewish niggas in America.

Speaker 6 (01:13:39):
Right now because they both wild out. I serve you
as a New York mayor, Bro, bigger than that.

Speaker 7 (01:13:46):
I'm your brother, Bro, You're the mayor of New York.
You didn't serve Israel as the mayor of New York.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
I mean, Williams the biggest Israeli population outside of Israel.

Speaker 7 (01:14:04):
I'm sure literally, but they in Brooklyn, they're not an
Israel He didn't served, right, he didn't go to Bedford average.

Speaker 2 (01:14:12):
Still it's still New York's interests.

Speaker 3 (01:14:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:14:14):
So it's just like, I don't understand why you have
to go that far.

Speaker 1 (01:14:18):
I don't get it.

Speaker 7 (01:14:18):
Have you ever had like a white homie who was
like too eager to like defend black honor. People like
people accuse Rosenberg of this a lot, right, like Rosenberg
something that happened in the black community. Rosenberger goes super hard,
and it's like, I don't know if you believe what
you're saying or not, but you're just going so hard

(01:14:40):
that it almost becomes a caricature ish to where it's like, okay,
now that you shouldn't say the right thing, but like
mis mis misinterpretation, Like it's like you're working over time
to prove you're Dawn, and I'm just like, bro, you

(01:15:02):
ain't got to do all of that.

Speaker 1 (01:15:04):
It's just interesting. I'm looking up right now to the
musical references of a prayer or God in Thugs work,
because I feel like he has aligned himself with Christianity
and a.

Speaker 5 (01:15:19):
Guy he never said yeaheh, not one time. I promise
you said by the.

Speaker 1 (01:15:23):
Way, which is also crazy safe. He literally thanks God
and thanks Allah. So there's two religions that you could
have leaned on, and you chose to go be with
the rabbi something on God. There's a lot of records
where he talks to.

Speaker 5 (01:15:45):
God as a big rap fan.

Speaker 6 (01:15:46):
I don't believe a lot of these rappers when they
mentioned I think they just be saying it because they
fit in the bar. But I don't think they have it,
and it sounds weighty indicatedence of whatever they're talking about.
They throw that in there as the word adjacent to
some they're not Muslim. It's just in the moment, like

(01:16:08):
they'll do that ship. I'm like, come on, stop it.
Just to your point, like you see the.

Speaker 2 (01:16:13):
Performing, you gotta check them mathematics.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
And I'm mad because as a thug fan, yeah, really
wish him and a lot of these niggas would just
stop showing up on my social media.

Speaker 5 (01:16:24):
Just drop the music, making music bullshit making content.

Speaker 1 (01:16:30):
But I don't want to see you sitting would a
god damn Rabbi. I don't want to hear you talk
about therapy. I just need you and you better have
not gotten my good system right than scientists pregnant? Don't
you better not.

Speaker 5 (01:16:41):
I'm shocked she's not pregnant already.

Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
To be honest, there's rumors around.

Speaker 5 (01:16:45):
Okay, I want to say, like I'll.

Speaker 1 (01:16:47):
Be pissed anyways before we get out of here, let's
do what am I ignorant?

Speaker 2 (01:16:51):
Jason we're doing one. Chill, We're doing We're doing one.

Speaker 5 (01:16:55):
We're doing one, all right.

Speaker 4 (01:16:56):
So do you want to do one boyfriend, one relationship
one or one of family one?

Speaker 1 (01:17:02):
Let's do family because we get we in the holiday season,
all right?

Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
So family?

Speaker 4 (01:17:07):
Was it ignorant to refuse to split my inheritance with
my cousins already? Yeah, here's the scenarioguies cousins, right, They said,
my grandfather my grandmother passed and left me twenty five
thousand dollars, specifically me, not my cousins. She lived with
my parents for years, and I was the one who
took her to her appointments, handled her medications, and spent
weekends with her. Now my cousins are demanding I share

(01:17:31):
because family money should stay in the family, they said.

Speaker 2 (01:17:35):
They also said.

Speaker 4 (01:17:35):
Grandma was old and quote didn't understand finances when she.

Speaker 2 (01:17:39):
Wrote her will. Clearly only one of my cousins.

Speaker 4 (01:17:42):
One of my cousins even said I manipulated my grandmother
into leaving it to me. I told them I'm not
sharing because I actually earned the inheritance through years of
caregiving and they never offered to help her. Now the
family's divided and I'm being called greedy. Was I ignorant
to keep their hands as is? Or are they ignorant
for acting like they were entitled to something they even entitled?

Speaker 5 (01:18:06):
How many niggas is it?

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
But not only that it's only twenty five thousand dollars.

Speaker 5 (01:18:10):
They don't go to economy.

Speaker 1 (01:18:12):
That's like, that's like four cartons of eggs pretty much. Honestly,
when it comes to this, cousins are never considered direct family.
So in terms of wills and inheritance and stuff.

Speaker 5 (01:18:26):
Like that, cousins because it's a grandmother, I guess they feel.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
No, it's a grandmother though No, that's still.

Speaker 6 (01:18:33):
Not saying that that's why they feel Selm saying, I
think the person the grandchildren, there's a caregiver, a care giver,
take her whatever. Then they have to hold that like, yo,
we acknowledge that you took care of grandma and it
is what it is.

Speaker 5 (01:18:48):
Plus twenty five grand.

Speaker 1 (01:18:49):
Is twenty five grand right? How many is well?

Speaker 6 (01:18:51):
And usually when you're caretaker, your your your it's for
equity in terms of the time and love, right, aint I.

Speaker 1 (01:19:00):
Ain't gonna hold you playing cut them cousins off?

Speaker 5 (01:19:04):
Fuck them, yeah, fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:19:06):
Them literally, I don't think that you should feel ignorant
for keeping it. We are in a recession. You need
every every goddamn coin you can get, and apparently it's
not every penny anymore because they're not making those no more.
But but you need like I'm not even gonna hold you.
I hate when people feel entitled to money if it

(01:19:27):
wasn't left to you and the will literally said, this
goes to me, bitch, it go to me, y'all feeling
like I'm tired of to split it with y'all motherfuckers.
Y'all got me fucked up.

Speaker 7 (01:19:37):
Yeah, I mean a, it's to your point, like it's
twenty five grand, like I bought your niggas a steak of something.

Speaker 5 (01:19:44):
Yeah, go to dinner and y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:19:46):
Can get the wagon put out, ball out. I'll go
buy twenty Yeah, I would.

Speaker 5 (01:19:51):
Go buy y'all a two thousand dollars.

Speaker 7 (01:19:52):
Men, we go sit down and eat them all the
good shit you every wanted to eat, and we're gonna
go about a business and.

Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
You have fun shitting it out. That's all you're getting.

Speaker 5 (01:19:58):
Now.

Speaker 7 (01:19:58):
What I say is this, if the money, if there was,
it was significantly more money. Yeah, and you and you
do love your cousin, these aren't your direct whatever. But
if you love your cousins and Grandma leaves you twenty
five million dollars, then yes, cool.

Speaker 5 (01:20:14):
Give them a couple of dollars. Help everybody out the
way you can.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
And what am gonna give you fifteen hundred dollars?

Speaker 5 (01:20:19):
Literally two thousand dollars.

Speaker 6 (01:20:21):
And it probably doesn't meet the expenses that was put out,
not at all.

Speaker 1 (01:20:26):
And let's be very clear in terms of talking about
people and when you give them stuff, right, he could
have gave them fifteen hundred two thousand. Do you know
how many people will still feel like that? Ain't No,
it's never enough. A lot of times when we deal
with family, nothing you do is ever enough. And so
the entitlement that normally comes from our family members or

(01:20:48):
our close friends or even sometimes our spouses, fuck them.
The entitlement is you can never do enough for some people.
And so again we don't know how many cousins, we
don't know what you would have given them or what
would have made them feel like like did they want
to bust it down? Equally?

Speaker 5 (01:21:05):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:21:06):
I think people, I think I think people choose, like
with your grandparents. It's like, you know, you get older
in your relationship with some changes, and I think they
probably have like this idea of like what their relationship
was with their grandmother, whereas like the person who got
the money, like they saw a much different side where
they take care of them. So it's like to me,
it's not even equal, like you were there at the
end all that like that's just part traumatic, part hard work.

(01:21:28):
Like take the bag.

Speaker 1 (01:21:29):
I agree. I agree. Well, you in this case are
not the ignorant one. It's your cuzins. But we're gonna
go ahead and wrap up. I guess before we get
out of here, I do want to let y'all know
where I'll be for the rest of the month and
shout some things out. If you are in Atlanta, Jerkier,

(01:21:50):
you can catch me and a king. We will have
a moment at jingle Ball on the eighteenth at the
State Farm Marina, So if you see us, speak to us. Also,
if you haven't yet, make sure you get my book
No Holds Bar to Doing Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power.
If you're looking to give it as a gift and
you also live in Atlanta, you can get the signed

(01:22:11):
copy from Weezy and I over at the Barnes and
Nobles in Buckhead and yeah, yeah, go ahead and cop that,
go ahead and cop that And what else did I
have to say?

Speaker 5 (01:22:22):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:22:23):
If you are interested in joining me, y'all know I
have been coined as now a Carnival chaser. I am
doing Kingdom Carnival in Ghana.

Speaker 5 (01:22:33):
I will be there.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
This is with the same group that I went to
Malta with last year. So shout out to Soka Abisa.
I will be there. Let me give you all the dates.
April twenty third to twenty eighth. Go to at Abisa
Soca to get your tickets. The link is in their bio.
But it's Carnival Kingdom Ghana twenty twenty six. I will
be there and again y'all are I'm really excited to

(01:22:57):
y'all for y'all to be introduced two more of John
and his thoughts. Let the people know a where they
can follow you. And if you have anything going on
before the year ends.

Speaker 7 (01:23:09):
You can follow me on on Twitter, even though I
don't really be there no more.

Speaker 5 (01:23:17):
Yeah, it's shout the thread. That's crazy. Twitter turned into
Walmart and threads turned into Target. M m before Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:23:29):
But you can follow me on Twitter at a hip
Hop Obama. You can follow me on Instagram at mister
hip Hop Obama.

Speaker 5 (01:23:34):
And if you clean houses, hopping and let her know
how good you clean houses.

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