Self Obsessed

Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

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August 15, 2025 28 mins
friendships are harder than relationships sometimes… and no one talks about it. this is the ✨ULTIMATE ✨guide to friendships — the advice i wish i knew earlier to build real, aligned, and lasting connections. we’re diving into red flags, green flags, setting boundaries, and why so many of us settle for surface-level friendships. if you’ve ever felt misunderstood, drained, or unsure of your standards, this video is for you 🤍

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mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life an...

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the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you...

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July 18, 2025 14 mins

<p><strong>feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeli...

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<p>💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶</p>


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tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someon...

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we’re halfway through 2025, which means it’s time for a mid year reset. in this video, i’m sharing the 6-step process to help you get back on track with your goals, upgrade your routines, and shift into your highest self. whether you’re feeling behind or just need a fresh perspective, this is your sign to pause, reflect, and move with intention. let’s make the rest of 2025 count 💫


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00:00 Introducti...

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ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop comparing yourself to others. we’re also talking about normalizing your wins, trusting your timeline, and how to stay focused on your own g...

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REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort) — if you’ve been doing the journaling, the meditations, the affirmations… but still feel stuck, this video is your wake-up call. we’re unpacking why effort alone isn’t enough — and how real transformation starts at the subconscious level. i’ll walk you through the shifts that helped me rewire my mindset, align my environment, and finally start seeing res...

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this is your ultimate "that girl" summer glow-up guide 🌞 to become unrecognizable by summer 2025. from beauty rituals that’ll have you feeling like her, to mindset shifts that level you up from the inside out—i’m sharing everything that helped me step into my hottest, most confident self. we’re talking self-care, daily habits, lifestyle changes, and the energy shifts that turn your dream life into your real life. get cozy, take no...

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This is the ultimate guide to becoming the main character of your life—because life is a movie, and it’s time to step into the spotlight. In this video, we’re diving into the mindset shifts and reality checks that helped me stop waiting for permission and start writing my own plotline. From rewriting your inner dialogue and ditching external validation, to building confidence and romanticizing your daily rituals—this is about becom...

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Protecting your energy is the ultimate form of self-care 🫶 In this video, we’re talking about the quiet habits that can shift everything—from avoiding draining conversations to being intentional with the content you consume. I’m sharing the small mindset shifts that helped me stay grounded, protect my peace, and stop pouring into things that don’t pour back into me.

If you’ve been feeling overstimulated, low-vibe, or just off latel...

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navigating your 20s can feel overwhelming—so here are 10 life lessons that helped me find clarity, confidence, and purpose ✨ from building self-worth and mastering your mindset, to creating financial flow and embracing failure, these are the tips I wish I had when I was starting out. this video is your guide to glowing up in your 20s—inside and out. we’ll talk daily habits, communication skills, manifestation, and how to truly step...

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trying to prioritize your mental health without getting overwhelmed? in this video, i’m breaking down 10 simple habits and tips that can help you feel more grounded, balanced, and in control. from journaling and setting boundaries to creating joy lists and resetting your mindset—it’s all about building a routine that actually supports your well-being.


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  • 00:00 Introduction: Personal Mental Health Struggles...
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it's that time again...Dilemma Q&A! Answering all your questions so you can progress onto the next stage of your Self Obsessed journey. https://tamkaur.com/ PODCAST INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed PRE ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER: https://tamkaur.com/pages/self-obsessed MY INSTAGRAM: ...

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