Physical intimacy is one of the keys to maintaining healthy and satisfying relationships. But I’m not just talking about sex. Non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more so! In today’s show, we’re going to explore why touch is so powerful and tips for introducing more touch into your relationships. We’ll also discuss why, paradoxically, intimate partners often retreat from touch at the times they need it the most—and how to deal with this.
I am joined once again by Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, the co-creators of PleasureMechanics.com. They have devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy, and connection. They also run a podcast called Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics.
Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include:
- Why do we need touch, and why are so many of us “touch-starved?”
- How can we open the door to intimate touch when we feel stressed?
- How can lovers experience more affection and physical intimacy in their relationships?
- What are some things that people can do to become better at both giving and receiving touch?
To learn more, sign up for the Pleasure Mechanics Erotic Touch Mastery course.
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