Imagine you just met an attractive stranger and want to strike up a conversation. What are you going to say? More often than not, people play it safe and stick to small talk, but that makes it hard to really connect with someone. In today’s show, we’re going to discuss tips for moving beyond the small talk and establishing deeper, more authentic connections, as well as tips for improving sexual communication.
I am joined once again by Lindsay Jill Roth, an award-winning television and live-events producer who has created and developed a wide variety of programming globally. She is also author of the new book Romances & Practicalities, which is based on a set of 250 research-backed questions designed to help you initiate tricky conversations and find lasting love.
Some of the topics we explore include:
- What are we doing wrong when it comes to getting to know others?
- How can we ask more meaningful questions to people we’re romantically interested in?
- What are some other good conversation starters for getting to know someone?
- How do you normalize conversations about sex with a new partner?
- How can talking about sex outside of the bedroom help us in the bedroom?
You can check out Lindsay’s website to learn more about her work.
Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.
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