In today’s show, we’re exploring how kink and BDSM can potentially be therapeutic to persons with ADHD. Research finds that kink can help provide a supportive dynamic to people with ADHD through addressing sensory integration needs and cultivating an environment that reduces distractions and enhances attentional focus.
I am joined once again by Dr. Leann Borneman, a licensed clinical social worker, AASECT certified sex therapist, professor, and clinical sexology researcher. She specializes in the intersection of ADHD, relationships, and sexuality. Leann runs the podcast ADHD Realities and is currently writing a book on ADHD and low sexual desire.
Some of the specific topics we explore include:
- In what ways can kink enhance sex for persons with ADHD?
- How can BDSM help people who might have sensory sensitivities?
- In what ways can scene negotiation help people with ADHD in terms of attention management?
- Why is there a link between neurodivergence and kinky interests more broadly?
- What can all of us learn from kinksters in terms of having better sex?
You can check out Leann’s website to learn more.
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