It is well-known that PMS symptoms can deeply affect how women are feeling, including their mood, pain, and energy levels. But why exactly does this happen? Today, we’re going to dive into the science of sex hormones and the menstrual cycle, including how hormone levels affect women’s sexual motivation and tips for navigating sex at different phases of the cycle.
I am joined by Dr. Sarah Hill, the author of This is Your Brain on Birth Control. She has spent most of her 20+ year career studying women, relationships, and health. Her latest book is titled The Period Brain: The New Science of Why We PMS and How To Fix It.
Some of the specific topics we explore include:
- What’s the deal with PMS? Why did women evolve to feel like crap for half of the menstrual cycle?
- How do the rise and fall of different hormones during the cycle affect women’s brains?
- Progesterone is a hormone that’s supposed to make us feel good. So why doesn’t it have that effect during the second half of the menstrual cycle?
- How do estrogen and progesterone affect sexual motivation and desire?
You can check our Sarah’s website to learn more about her work.
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