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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Well, I do.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Get a little that up. Hi am Teren.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
I'm Mari, and you're listening to the top.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We hope you're picking up what we're putting.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Down, Like what if I like put some Diddy oil
on it? Are you guys following? Yes, I'm so into it.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Oh wait, no, is there more ship now?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I'm just it's like going to trial.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
So yeah, it's in trial. Trial began.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
It's more stories coming out about this yeah, fucking loser.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
It's the thing that was did no one know?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Not necessarily most interesting so far, but his kids have
shown up every day in support of him, and then
when stories get like too dark, they leave and then
they like come back when it's safe.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
And how many children does he have?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, probably a lot, I would imagine, but I think
I saw like two sons and two daughters.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
I don't know if that's all his kids.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
He's got a lot. There's a Diddy, B Diddy, C Diddy,
D Diddy.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
And he did all the way down to Diddy Diddy.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot of Diddy.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
That's a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Having a baby's a lot of work.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I know, you know, you know, Renee Blair. Welcome everyone,
Renee Blair r e n e E Renee.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
You're hot, You're swaggy. I know you're swaggy. Wait where
are you from.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I'm from the lun I'm proud you're from the What
a Nelly lyric? Nelly's from Saint Louis. I'm from Saint
Louis Sat. I grew up in Saint Louis, went to
Catholic school and would like wear tape on my cheek
because I wanted to be Nelly so bad.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
And ship did you do something with him?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
He's been in my house a few times.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
My husband wrote and produced a little bit and some
other songs. They just did a song called G String
but it's like I want to pick her uh G
string a banjo and then the hakice.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Banjo riff and it's it's pretty. It's pretty cool.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So is he cool?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
He's the coolest.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Like they say, don't meet your idols, but meet Nelly. Okay,
Nelly was so sick. There's a video of the first
time he came over. Budweiser had sent me a whole
box of his twenty year anniversary of Country grammar. Like
it's a big, tall Budweiser can with his face on it,
a hat and a T shirt, all the Budweiser logos,
but with like Nelly and I have. I'm obsessed with
(02:28):
the Cardinals, so I had like Cardinals jerseys in my closet.
So I was like the most hungover I'd ever been.
My husband's like and my husband I never fight. The
one time we ever got in a fight, we're like
not talking, we're hung over.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
We were drunk. And he wakes up and he's like,
Nelly's on his way over.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Nelly had never been to our house and I've sprung
out of bed nothing. Here's a hangover like Nelly coming
down there. Nelly and I put my Nelly hat, Nelly beer,
had my Nelly T shirt and a Cardinal's jersey, and
I was like, is this too much? And so I
walked in to meet him dressed head to tell his face, Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
How much did he appreciate it?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
It was just like, you were insane, amazing and followed
me right away and we became friends.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, He's like, I have to follow this. Poor girl's incredible.
Make a wish. I met him a couple of years
ago with Carly at the Rhyman doing something very brief.
But yes, I went, oh my god, Nelly is really Nelly. Yeah,
fucking Nelly's here. And he came up and introduced himself
to everybody, and he was just so kind and personable.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
He's actually like one of the funniest people. Didn't see
that coming, but like he could be a stand up comedian.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
He's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I love that she would let that out more.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah, he was, I will say.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
When I saw him a few weeks ago, we passed
each other in the hallway at my house and him
and Ashanti, you know, just had a baby.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
This just happened.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Well, this is another time he's been over a few times.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
We stood in my hallway talking about breastfeeding and I
was like, this is awesome.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
What his life and he was yes, Yes, got back
together like over a decade later. Then, Yes, they're precious.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Do they live Do they live in Nashville?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I feel like I know he has a place in
Saint Louis still, but I don't think that's their main residence.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Maybe La actually.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
A good couple. She's she's hot.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Does he still do the band?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I don't think so that was.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yeah, that was like a thing. Yeah, that was a tan.
Yeah it's no longer now he does a whole head
wrap with gauze his entire body. The Mummy. Great.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I love that that you have, Nelly, that's so cool
in your back pocket all the times, Cash Cash, who's your?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
I don't even know whom I like? Is that your?
Was that your only? Like hero?
Speaker 4 (04:45):
It was a big one. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
I probably got like Britney spears like obviously, but yeah,
I've been wanting.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
To talk about Robe so like it's going it's getting
darker and darker and weirder and weirder.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I want to book a flight to Cabo because she's
out in the at the bars at.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Cabo supposedly have you seen this? What?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
With her, there's like looks like one or two security
guards at all times, but like random pedestrians have like
snapped a video and you can see like one of
the security guys holding.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
A camera and she's dancing and it checks out.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Is the video that's on her Instagram From like the
other perspective.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
She's influencers in the wild. Now, Oh yeah, so she's alive.
Let's just get that my TikTok.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Algorithms do show me a lot of This is why
it's a fake Brittany. This is why it's not really her.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Why I fake Brittany.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
That's the whole conspiracy. Yeah, they're like her tooth gaps different,
this and then, No, she's not taking care of her teeth.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Yeah, when I don't wear Minds Line for like a month.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
She's not taking care of herself. She looks crazy. The
dancing is a whole other level now, and the outfits
are I thought like she hit rock bottom, but it
is just going darker and deeper. Maybe she's hit rock top.
Maybe she's hit rock top. I love her so much,
so much. I want to be your friend so bad.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
So bad. Should we go to Mexico?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I have like two weeks left of travel.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
As soon as as soon as you're ready, okay, or
you could give birth in Mexico, I will fuck it.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
We just were like Britney spears.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Hunting International Passport. Yeah, we're on as I would go
Britney spears Hunting and the Heartbeat.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
I just feel like she needs good people around her.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
It's sad, it's sad.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
It sucks.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I wonder if she could even like really recognize like
who is good for her who's not.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
That's why I'm like, is it health at this point
or is it drugs? Or is it both? Or is
it what on the wrong drugs for a really long time? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Does something desensitizle?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Yeah, it's almost like, I mean, she didn't do math,
but it's like when you're on meth for a long time,
you're like your your chemistry and your brain the way
it's wired, it's just forever changed, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
And it's like your family, your parents, wouldn't you be like,
we got to stop this and like get you into
like actual help for you to get you off.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
No, because they would have and they didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
And then' do like a Lindsay Lohan moment because damn sligh,
Lindsay low who's right now?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Show us is your doctor? Bitch you, Lindsay Lahan.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
She looks insane. She's also like what thirty two?
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Do you? I think she's like actually like thirty seven? Y?
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah, she's older?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Well yeah yeah maybe really just hit the four zero.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah No, there's no way I'm one year older than her.
There's no way, she's got to be around like thirty six,
thirty seven.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Thirty okay, yeah, that's a good that's a really nice
age though, to look really fucking dope.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
I've started a list with the face like her and Christina.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
I feel like we're the first two that really Then
Anne Hathaway forty two.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Oh yeah, yeah, she's like my age, I think.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
But did you see you within the last week the
new face and Hathaway Chris Card or yeah, Chris card
Chris Jenner.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Chris Jenner, Yes, what's the new face?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Like? Add the cart she who she went to Lindsay's doctor.
She hit her up and was like.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
So are these are we talking half facelifts right now?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I don't know what it is and I want to
know so bad because they look She's.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Just like, I think it's half face lips. I think
that's what everyone says what it is.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
But it's like I feel like there was an era
like ten years ago, everyone was doing filler and you
could tell the filler face, but it didn't always look good.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
This looks because this looks.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
So good, so good. This doesn't look it looks like
the gate keeping it.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I'm like, I don't know how much it is, but
I will figure out a way to make that amount
of money half facelift.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
I honestly, I think it's just like really good, like
just like a that thing, like really pretty soft filler tweaks. Yeah,
it's so good, it's so good.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
I don't think we're at the point though, guys. Well,
Lindsay allahand probably wasn't at the point.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yeah, but she also like really used and abused her
body for many, many many years. Remember when people are like,
you don't look great, you look older, you look like
she was heading towards the Britney Spears kind of thing
because of like drugs, and she.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Too was in this cabo doing some funky dance moves
on cruise boat and.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
When she also had a little bit of an accent
too for a second that yeah that was great. Why
did they do that? It was like a little bit.
Oh no, she went to like like Israel.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yeah, I think she lives in Dubai did for a while.
Isn't that where her husband's from? Maybe?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Oh yeah, she became yeah yeah and had to buy accent.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Fucking fucking Brittany and Lindsay can do it. I sure
can't too sure, can't.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Britney, Brittany's not doing anything. When Brittany doing, kids.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
Have the accent. You can't.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
I couldn't stick, I couldn't Madonna my way through anything.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
You don't trust Hilaria. Hilaria Baldwin. I just met Hilaria.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Yeah, thats CUCUMBERT. That was my favorite movie.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Wait, she's like it came out.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
This was like during COVID we were so bored.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
In alec Or. I heard is it alec Yeah, Alex,
but it really mean to him.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
She like went on like good Morning America or something,
and like they had her on because I guess she
was like I don't know if she was dropping a
cookbook or what, but she was like.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
From my native land, Like, how do you say, how
do you cut this? What do you call it? How
do you say? I say CUCUMBERT And it was cucumber
And then Reddit went crazy. It was all these girls
were like I went to high school with her in Boston.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
You know, I'm saying she.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Knows how to cucumber.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
CUMBERT Almost they cucumber as they come, Oh my god,
what a You're like, your name's Hillary, dude.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yeah, Hilaria and people from the woodworks of her high
school started coming out and calling her and be like, nah, well.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Yeah, well that's what kids. You can't just do that.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
That's what happened over so sorry in.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
The in the limelight without people going that's actually not
who you are.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Yeah no, sorry, sorry, broh.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Sorry, do work like that. You can't be like you're
of Spanish descent. It's like, all of a sudden, like
I am at that.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Yeah, right right now, this is who I am. Actually
you pulled off very well.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Then that's funny.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Wow, Oh who I met recently?
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Ricky Lake?
Speaker 4 (11:34):
What Renee tell me?
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Oh you don't know you're Lake?
Speaker 4 (11:40):
Like you wait? Wait is this the old talk show host?
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Okay, good, okay, good.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Yes, girl, she looks great. She had a half facelift.
Oh she looks great. Where did you mean?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
She came to Tricia's show in New York and we
giggled about the Blake Lively ship. Really she's She's fantastic.
She was a wonderful human.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Oh I love that so much like her lad.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I also like didn't like comprehend how like monumental it
is to have like uh uh talks a talk show
host who was like of bigger body, just like Oprah
and like a black woman with a bigger body. I
didn't like that, never like registered to me. How great
that was?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Killed it? And then she was also started as the
lead in Hairspray. She was fantastic.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
She was a way.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
The movie with John Travolta was the dad.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
Wait which one was she?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
She was the main she was the Nicki Blonski.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Oh but first, oh, okay, so not the not the
John Travolta movie then.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Though, No, she was in the John Travolta movie.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Okay, as the main character. What is her name? Don't know?
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Wait, here's where I've seen it's thirty thousand times. Wait
not the young high school.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Girl with John Travolta in it?
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Yes, I thought she was like young, yeah, young Ricky.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Lakes only forty eight.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
I mean she's not old now, okay, I think I'm
thinking of someone totally different.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Well, thirty years ago.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
We'll get back to that.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Yeah, this was a while ago.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
She was was that before or after her talk show?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
You know before? Oh she was young?
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yeah she was woh okay, yeah, she had like to
remember the blonde on top with the dark on the bottom.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Looked out with the big bow. Yeah, what a great
movie and is.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
One of my all time favorites? Is it? Zach Brons question.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
H h what a great movie?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
So good?
Speaker 3 (13:48):
You know?
Speaker 4 (13:48):
Amanda Bynes speaking, Oh.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
My god, wait wait wait waita TikTok me to show
everybody me too.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
This morning with her tiny little but she got her
banks are growing. Yeah, she wanted to let her bangs
are going in her Are you following Amanda Bynes?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
I haven't in a couple of weeks, but I've seen
the banks. I really saw she was becoming a nail text.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I would be on that waiting list for as long
as it took to get me in to get my
nails down. I'd love to have are you kidding me?
To have Amanda b this podcast.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
To clean up.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
She'd clean up.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
We're all waiting for you, honey, to get When is
the shop opening? I need you to do my nail.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
She would make so much, so much money.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
I won't even care what they look like.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
It doesn't care, stare. I would just say do.
Speaker 4 (14:42):
Whatever whatever you want to say, say it.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
I don't If you want me to ask questions, I
will if you don't want me to that's cool.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Also, do whatever you want with my nails. Yes, how
do you like look in the mirror and go, this
is it? The eyebrows are this long, this wide, black
as could be. Yeah, it works for her though, No
it doesn't. Karen just trying to be kind. No, it
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doesn't work for her.
Speaker 4 (15:10):
We don't want to save her.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Huh.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
We all want to save her, yes, yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
We all want to help, like some where are her friends?
Where are her family? That's going?
Speaker 1 (15:19):
What do you?
Speaker 2 (15:20):
There's just letting her just do it.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
But that's the thing with famous people, is there. So
this is like the not that it's everyone else's responsibility,
but when you surround yourself with yes people, your reality
is worse. Yes, forever, that's what's going to tell you. Yeah, hey,
you're nobody gives a shit about your bangs. Everyone's laughing
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at you.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Ye are fed up?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
You have many snicker bars on your forehead. Yeah, let's
let's clean hitler mustaches.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
Yeah oh yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
People just they the worst. Why do you think there's
so much shitty music and shitty movie happening?
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Because it could be like, what a genius, genius? You're
a genius, But then.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Don't they that's such a short term approach because ultimately
it's gonna sink that person. And if you're profiting off
that person because you work with them, yeah, like temporarily
letting them do their thing, like your cat. Your check
is still going to cash, but like it's not gonna
cash for a lot later.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Yeah, But like I don't make bad decisions, And I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Know if people think that way though.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
I think there are like, as you know, there are
some incredible managers, and there's incredible agents, and there's incredible
pr and there's also people that are dangerous.
Speaker 4 (16:40):
Yeah, and no, I know this all too well.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
Yeah, yeah, you know it better than you do. Yeah,
you're in it.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Yeah. Yeah, You've had a couple of bad a couple
of two tree shitty deals.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
A couple My husband also is a writer and producer,
and so I know he has like a really tough
time dealing with some artists that he works with, and
him and the artist might be so pumped about a
song there to drop, and then the label will.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Just come in and be like no, and then the.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Artist like wants to make the label happy, so then
they'll be like okay, but secretly they're like crushed inside.
And then the song if it doesn't perform, well, it's
like who do you blame?
Speaker 4 (17:13):
And it's just a whole difference.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
And like, y'all are the artists, Like, yeah, creatives behind
all of this. These are business people. These are people
that don't know how to play a fucking guitar or
write a song or do so. They actually have no
right to tell you like, yeah, you do this because
you This is who you are, this is your passion,
this is your livelihood. And then you have people that
just because they see dollar signs, they don't care about
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your integrity behind it. They just want to make money
off the and they yeah, and that sucks.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Yeah, it's like the most powerful people aren't creative, just
like in like the movies are in Hollywood, Like the
most powerful people that are making the decisions for everything
aren't the creative people. They're hiring the creative people to
do things. Yeah, sometimes they hire the wrong people. Yeah,
And then a weird movie comes out and you're like, what,
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I was a weird movie?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (18:06):
Are you guys watching the studio?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
No, Okay, I don't know that I'm into it.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Well, do you know what the premise? Uh?
Speaker 3 (18:13):
He's like making fun of Hollywood kind of.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
But it's also like, I mean, I feel like Entourage
was kind of a peek behind the curtain. Yeah, this
is very similar. It's seth Rogen and it's just really
well done. He's like an executive in Hollywood who has
like all the power, but then behind the scenes, he
has no idea what he's doing. And yeah, it's but
the the script is so well written, it's it's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
It's kind of obvious that he has no idea what
he's doing the way he.
Speaker 4 (18:35):
Acts in the show.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Yeah, have you ever seen it? I watched, I just
have seen clips on line and it's.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
It's one of our favorite shows we've seen a while.
It's pretty improble, it's really good. Okay, Plus Hyra's in it.
And you're like, is.
Speaker 3 (18:50):
It just a bunch of celebrities being ironic? You know,
like sometimes when they get together and you're.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Like, yeah, I I would like to think it's them
like vent their kind of like grievances. Yeah, like their
ship stories of what's happened to them.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
And kind of being like a lot of people don't
know what they're doing. Yeah, a lot people don't know
what they're doing.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Oh they I'm sure the stories that they have that
they've had to sign Crazy and dynas for yeah and
DNA's Indiana.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
That sounds like something I want to get in Jack.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That sounds like that is on last weekend Era.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Let's let's dive into your music career because that's how
I met you.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Yes, through Ford, right, yeah, I think yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
We did glam on like oh wait, no, was it
through Ford or was it through the Blonde Lady? Her
husband is the guitarist for Clarkson. Yeah, that was the
same shoot.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Okay, So yeah, Tarn you've done for like my wedding,
my all my album covers everything like Terren's my good.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Oh yeah, I've seen I've seen your I've seen your
face for years now.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
You're that one carpet with the red dress still probably
my favorite was so goodlam of all time.
Speaker 4 (20:10):
I think my first carpet was it first or second?
Speaker 1 (20:13):
I always do red for BMS, so it was BMIs.
But yeah, so my first deal I had that was
for the first like album or EP that I put
out was when I met you? Okay for that Okay,
So I also just had a kid A couple of
months ago. So mom brain was that what is my.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Seven years ago? That's right, long time to my daughter's
eight and I still have it.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
So I thought women were lying when they said, like
mom brain, I was like, there's just like being lazy.
I've started mixing up my words like actively, like my
two of our best friends are Megan and Mitchell, and
I like stumble and say like Mitchell and.
Speaker 4 (20:53):
Megan, Meg and mitg. But I do that like in
sentences multiple times a day, and I'm like, Okay, at
what point should I actually be concerned?
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I put socks in the refrigerator the other day. Oh wow,
good move. I opened it up and I was like,
what the fuck? I haven't done that yet.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
Rolled up pair of socks right next to the milk.
I'm sorry for you, but that's comforting for me.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Yeah, it's comforting me too. I don't think it ever.
She's always laughing at me because wow, I got dumb. Yeah,
she's getting dumb. I'm getting dumb, real fucking dumb.
Speaker 4 (21:23):
It's okay, you're not alone. Okay, we're just all idiots,
you know. Yes.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Music, So that was like, I feel like that was
almost ten years ago.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
It was about eight because.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
I remember, uh, you being on like a random LA label.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
I was, but I wasn't. Yeah, So they were so
back in the day.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Gretchen Wilson's first album and actually Miranda's were on Epic Nashville.
And then that division that was like under the Sony umbrella.
That division like closed and then La Reid signed me.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
To Epic in LA.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
But they were reopening that chapter in Nashville or trying to.
And then the day I went in with Shane McNelly,
who was my producer at the time, to cut my
first few songs for my project, La Reid got fired
and I'll never forget Shane's husband came in. Shane's husband
came in and whispered something in his ear and put
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his head down, and La Red had just gotten fired.
So we're like, great, We're in the studio making all
this music and we don't know who's going to put
it out. So I feel like that's been a lot
of my story in Nashville is like timing has just
never been on my side up until what I feels
like now.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
But in a long ass time.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Well, La Reid is that's crazy. What did he get?
Speaker 1 (22:47):
He was honestly supposedly very very early what I from
what I heard, I don't know this to be true,
Like in the me too era, it was like before
all the Harvey stuff.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Yeah, but I say, but I don't think think it
was like that.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
I had just heard like maybe like him and his
assistant had a thing.
Speaker 4 (23:04):
Yeah, maybe, I don't know. I don't know. These are rumors.
I'm speculating.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
It's kind of a little typical, but that's.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
What I was.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
That's I remember being like, yeah, but maybe wife got mad,
he had to break it off.
Speaker 4 (23:21):
Who knows, I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
I don't know all the details, but I just know
that I no longer had a chairman, and the person
that came in after him didn't want anything to do
with like the Nashville Countryside, so she pretty much like
stopped the progress of reopening that label in Nashville. Okay,
So I had like this music that I thought was
so badass, like you know, could have changed everything for
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everyone and uh or at least for girls, and then
I had no one to put it out. So then
I started chopping a new deal. And then as soon
as I got a new deal, COVID happened.
Speaker 4 (23:56):
So yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
Timing head has always been like really interesting for me,
but I always feel like it was you know, God,
the universe, whatever you want to call it, being like
how bad do you want it? Because I truly do
feel like if you want something bad enough in life,
you will stop it nothing. Yes, and now my hurdle
is like, okay, well I just all of a sudden
blinked and had two kids, as I had my first
number one as a songwriter.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
And so fucking wild ye wait in the truck.
Speaker 4 (24:22):
By Hardy and Lanie Wilsons.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Yes, yeah, I'm Hardy. I was like, she's she's put
it with your husband.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
So the real story is my husband Hunter Phelps and
Hardy started writing the song and they knew it was
going to be a duet. Hardy had been talking to
another female artist about doing a duet, so they were
at first trying to write it towards that, but then
Laney came in. Actually Laney didn't come in for a
while because after anyways, they texted me and said, Hardy
wants to know if you'll come home and sing the demo.
(24:49):
So I did, and then I love I mean, I
grew up with like Mariah Carey Whitney Houston. Those were
kind of my vocalist idols, and I heard this like
thing in my head those that have mercy section and
the song like.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
Have Mercy, have Mercy, have Mercy on me?
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah, And so I was like can I try something?
Like can I just try it? And I could all
I could kind of see them being like okay, like
don't fuck our song up. Sure God, And so I
did that pattern and then Hardy actually left for the day.
So then about six months went by, I didn't hear
anything about this song, and I texted Hardy and was like, hey,
my label like will pay for you know, the music
(25:27):
video or promotion, like if can I do this song
with you? Like everyone says I crushed it, like if
you're not going to drop it just sitting there like
let's put it out, And he was like I should
you not? Literally two days ago Leanie just put a
vocal on it and it's going to be a single.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Fuck you.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
So I was like cool, like still very very cool,
like a little bit bummed, like wish I could have
done it, but it did amazing things for me and
was my first number once Like that's in no way
was I like hell yes, yeah, yeah, plus like Lanie's
rocket shift and you later started.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
To explode, an icon, a legend, yeah, and an angel
I keep hearing.
Speaker 4 (26:04):
Yeah, she's she assault of the earth, human like I have.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
She will have vity in this industry for it. She
will be like a Dolly Parton.
Speaker 3 (26:12):
Because I don't even know how many people I can
say that about it.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
You can't, you really truly like she was meant to
do this. This is, and this will be until the
day she dies. She will be like Landy Wilson. Everyone
will know who she is. They won't. There's no ten
minutes of fame there no.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
I think, at least what I've learned in Nashville I've
been here like sixteen almost seventeen years, is like it's
the hang, Like we all see each other and we
all have to hang out in some capacity multiple times
a year.
Speaker 4 (26:38):
Like if you're a good hang you can stay around.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Yes, and that's what is. Yeah, it's ninety percent of
who you are. You can everyone's replaceable everyone. There's so
many talented people here, but like you, you're like people.
People see genuine people yeo, real recognize as real. I think,
so they don't want someone like it doesn't. It doesn't
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get you far. People see it. It will catch up
to you eventually. I agree, Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
So do you love songwriting more or the artist thing more?
I know it's so different.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I always equate it to people saying, how can you
pick your favorite child?
Speaker 4 (27:22):
Like I.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
When I'm in the writing room, I'm like, this is
what I meant to do. I could never be an
artist and just write songs. But then when I'm on
stage and I'm like crushing a crowd, I'm like.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
This is all I ever need to do.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
And then now with my well, let's just go to
your jewels, ladies, let's take out. So now I have
a crazy business. That's like, I feel like this is
my like Jessica Simpson moment of when she just had
her crazy lines right and she didn't reinvent the high heel.
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So that's when people like, so, anyways.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Do you love doing this?
Speaker 4 (28:00):
It's a lot.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Oh my god, they're fucking heavy.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
They are.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
We're working on a thinner one. But you ever been
out in high heels all night? They're nothing in comparison,
Like I would take those over high heels. People ask
if they're heavy and complaint. I'm like no, no, like
you can.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Get very well.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Are they inspired off the Hillbelly Hill Betty song?
Speaker 1 (28:19):
So I've got a couple of Hill Betty songs. Oh yeah,
we did the Hill Betty shoot together. Yes, when I
was hiding my baby.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Yes, yes, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
It was such a fire glam and was incredible.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Where did the name come from?
Speaker 4 (28:31):
So? Uh?
Speaker 1 (28:33):
I have always kind of been like a little rough
around the edges or potty mouth or like I can't
help it but always feel like I'm the loudest girl
at the bar, Like I'm.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Just I would say. People probably say I'm obnoxious.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
I'm obsessed with the thanks thank you? What had on?
I recognized them. I didn't even know anything about, and
I was like, oh my god, those earrings are amazing. She
goes Hill Betty, Hill Betty hope part of this with
Renee thank you?
Speaker 4 (29:04):
Yeah, they they're good, They're good. Yeah. Uh. So I
was making music.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
I always wanted to make music that was like you know,
I would say, Gretchen Wilson was a big inspiration always
for me, or like Mirianda, like just women that are
sassy that will light.
Speaker 4 (29:21):
It on fire, fu shut up, Like I just love
a bad bitch. I love a bad bitch.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
So much and yeah, oh gosh, so like because I
feel like people just want women to sometimes be gentle
and calm, and I, for some reason, it's in my
blood and always have been.
Speaker 4 (29:38):
I just love to break a role.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
And not even like like not to do harm by anyone.
Speaker 4 (29:44):
I just like I like to defy on this is
a better way to say it.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Yeah over here.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
So my husband I got married and we went on
like a little weekend to get away like write a
fair wedding, like a pre honeymoon, and I burped and
in front of him like a loud, nasty ass man
verb and I was like, sorry, my hill billy is showing.
And in the same like and like same second that
came out, I felt this like wave of anger and
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I was like, my hillbilly's showing, but like, I'm not billy,
I'm a I'm a girl. Why can't like, why does
everything have to be about dudes? Where's the female version?
Where's the hill Betty?
Speaker 4 (30:21):
And I was like, oh, like Beyonce has Sasha Fierce.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
There's a country artist named Granger Smith who has his
alter ego Earl Dibbles, which is just like huge in
the redneck world.
Speaker 4 (30:31):
It's it's look into it.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
It's fun.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
I feel like you and your man would have fun.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Earl Dibbles, Earl Dibbles.
Speaker 4 (30:38):
So yeah, he's like he comes out. It's Grainger's encore.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Grangers no longer really touring, but back then he'd like
come out as in his encore and like overalls in
a shotgun and like.
Speaker 4 (30:51):
A hot country nights. Okay yeah. Uh.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
So this Hill Betty thing came to me and I
was like, whoa, I can like blame my wild and
crazy and like, oh, that's just like my hillbuddy coming
up because like behind the scenes now I'm a little
more like calm or settled, but like when I go out,
I still, you know, have that me inside of you.
So uh started writing music for this Hill Betty album
and project and tour.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
Holy Cowboy, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Boy, Oh such a fucking smash. I feel like that
took the internet by storm. It was like every bitch
with bell bottom shorts or like a little boots were like.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Someone told me Holy Cowboy became the first trap song
of TikTok.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
It did, and so when I announced.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
It, we knew it and we knew that was gonna happen,
but I.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Always like announced it. It shows.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
I'm like, there were women showing body parts I didn't
even know we had on the internet to the song.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
I mean there were strippers.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
It was great.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
Yeah, it's a we'll make sure you attitude playlist.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Yeah it needs to be added to everyone's You need
a playlist.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
Real quick to have on fould Er Silver take them both.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Yeah, oh yeah, we're generous here. So I did Rich
Hill Betty tour last year and I had found a
similar pair on Revolve for like over one hundred and
sixty bucks, and I was like, I can't buy those,
but I did because I was like, if Hill Betty
was a earing, that's what she looked.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Like, what the buckle? The pop chads?
Speaker 1 (32:25):
And so I would start posting music on you know,
TikTok and Instagram, and girls would like slide in my
dms and be like hey cool.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
So I'm like, where the hell do you get those earrings?
And often when I do.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
Shows, especially in the country music space, like people don't
have a lot of disposable income, and I felt really
cringe and gross, like kind of admitting that I'd paid
a lot for them. So I have no problem like sharing.
I've said it on TikTok a million times. They're essentially
a dupe because I started touring and I was like,
every artist has hats, sweatshirts, koozies, you know, and I
wanted something different for the girls. So I just went
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on like this website called Ali Baba Yeah, and I
just tied pop tabby rings and ordered a couple hundred
in bulk. They sold out so fast and I was like, Oh,
I might be onto something. But then girls approached me
like do you have this color? Do you have this color?
Speaker 4 (33:11):
And I was like no, but I can ask.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
And so the place i'd ordered from in bulk said
no customization. So I started messaging other factories around the world,
was like, hey, can you customize? And so my whole
Hill Betty philosophy is that like I want these for
the Bartender Betties, the single Mom Betties, the Walmart Betty Like,
am I someone else can be the ermez Burkin.
Speaker 4 (33:32):
I will be the Walmart broken Yes, but I never.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
Want to have anything in the Hill Betty line like
cost over one hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (33:38):
That's very important to me. Yeah, So this is for
the girls.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
That like just you know, are being a baller on
a budget and don't have a ton of money to spend,
but they still want to feel like a rock star.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:47):
And also the chances of somebody losing them are fifty
to fifty, right.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Yeah. Also, I don't I go dupes on everything. I'll like,
if I see something, I'm like, let me see if
it's cheaper on allibob or like Amazon, yes, I'll go
there first, yes, or anything yep. And I used to
buy expensive stuff and now I'm like, I have no time.
I'm like, everything already exists in the world. It's already
out there. Yeah, and you can find it for cheaper.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
So the first I was a little weird because like,
once it actually start, I never saw that it was
gonna pop off on tick I have one of the
hottest selling stores on TikTok.
Speaker 4 (34:16):
I'm not even kidding. Fuck, I've had to hire people.
So all I've ever.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Done my whole life is write songs and sing them.
And now all of a sudden, like I'm like having
to figure out wholesale pitch deecks and this and getting
in stores and blah blah blah.
Speaker 2 (34:31):
Your retail business owner now.
Speaker 1 (34:33):
What Yes, And it all happened the same weekend I
was in the hospital giving birth this year, Like, literally.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
Wait, how do you know that you're the hottest?
Speaker 4 (34:41):
Like it has a hot sticker on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Bitch, get the actually out of here now.
Speaker 4 (34:46):
I'm not gonna lie all my way here. My uh.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
One of my reps called and said that in the
past few weeks are stores out selling Sabrina Carpenter's store
on TikTok. But she doesn't really push it, but still, right.
Speaker 2 (35:00):
There are they buying your sweatshirts there? And your hats
are just earrings?
Speaker 4 (35:03):
This is the sample not out yet.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
This is well, I want to be like the juicy
cotur of country.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
Please. So I'm putting hill Betty on.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
The ass, thank god. And these are for fall, thank god.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
So perfect hats for sale now. But like so, I
mean also, I had a little bit of downtime because
I gave birth, so I'm just sitting at home, so
I'm like designing new pieces that these are also kind
of a dupe. I modified the design a lot more
on these, but oh my, I found a similar crazy
designer pair of these for over eight hundred dollars and
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when they came in the mail.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
They were plastic and tarnished.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
I got them on like a like a poshmark type
website because I was just doing homework, like western redneck jewelry. Yeah,
and I'd seen there's a bunch of different buckle earrings
out there, but I liked that these don't have like
the like like they're flat at the top or straight
across versus like a hookah.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
They're not a dangle.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
They're just the pushing Yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
Okay, so anyways, yeah, just like never saw this coming.
But this is the first time also in my career,
I'm not on a label, and so I'm like getting
to fund my own everything and be my own boss,
like all across the board.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
And uh, it's it's wild, it's insane.
Speaker 2 (36:18):
That's so fun. You've seen people shipping everything out and.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Allowed to film at center.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
You have a fulfillment as I'm like moving in in
the next week or two. But Aubrey, who's another awesome
makeup artist in town.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
That's where I met her. Uh, she used to work
at Coyote Ugly.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
So when I explained what a hill Betty is, the
hill Betty mantra is that inside every woman, there's a
bad girl and you might let her out and one
probably every day.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
Mine's pretty once a week. Yeah, hell yeah yeah mine
yeah once a week, twice a week.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
But also think about being in Nashville the bachelorette parties.
When girls are here, they want to do one thing
and that's just like rage, rage get discussed. Yes, I
want to be the playlist for that moment in their life. Yes,
and have the accessories to match of what they want
to wear in that.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (37:08):
So that's kind of like the whole picture.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
So what does Aubrey do for you?
Speaker 1 (37:13):
So when I had the baby, the video went I
the buckles arrived at my house for the very first time.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
I'd never seen them in person.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
I'd only been messaging back and forth overseas with the
factory designing them. They came in and it was a
night or two before I gave birth, and I unboxed
on TikTok TikTok unboxing videos go crazy.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
So I unboxed the.
Speaker 1 (37:33):
Thing and I was like, I was like, I got
babies in this box and a baby in my belly,
and let's let's see what they look like. And I
just pulled them out of the box and I was like,
oh my god, they look so good, better than I expected.
I get to the hospital, ding ding ding ding starts
hundreds of orders bitch and on TikTok. If you don't
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send it out in the mill within forty eight hours,
like your store gets flagged like get in trouble on there.
Speaker 4 (38:01):
So I came home from the hospital, handed the baby
to my mom.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
My husband and I are stuffing envelopes, getting everyone their
ear rings, and my son was like three or four
weeks old, and everyone was like you are going to
run yourself into the ground and like perish.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
So yeah, Alby was like, I will take this to
my house.
Speaker 1 (38:19):
Yeah, I will be your employee and enjoy your newborn.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
That's wild.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, that's so crazy, and just like that, it just
happens like that, like that, just like that.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
Yeah, which, like I will say, you know, it's weird
because obviously all I've ever done is put blood, sweat,
tears into music, and now that this is like being
the most recognized so far, it's like a little annoying
because I've.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Put like no like but it's still years of yeah
prep into it.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Yeah, but it's gonna come back around on something though.
Speaker 2 (38:51):
Yeah, that's what I mean. And I was like, now
you have like all of this like a new group
of people who are like know who you are now? Right?
Oh yeah yeah, so they're like, who's this dope woman
behind this incredible jewelry that I love so much? And
use that platform.
Speaker 1 (39:07):
Well it's cool because a lot of girls on TikTok
that are now wearing the jewelry will like add my
song to their video exactly. So that's really exciting. So
it is helping the music. But that's you know, obviously
it was the ultimate goal. Is I truly just planned
on having these to sell it my merch table on tour.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
You were like, let me just get a little fun
little jewelry just to Yeah that's exciting. Yeah, that's very cool.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
It's crazy, like just some.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
You know, all I need is like a million dollars
worth of side money, right, I'm just looking to get
a little side money that made me a million dollars.
Speaker 4 (39:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:40):
But now it's like so cool because I'm like, Okay,
well where else can I take this?
Speaker 3 (39:44):
Well, like yeah, and it's already done this Yeah, Well
you could do a store, you could do like an
uncommon James Situash Situash, and you could also like it's
still you, right, this is still all for you. And
also I was just watching some thing. I'm sure this
happens all the time. I just don't pay attention to it.
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But where songs have been out for a long time
and then all of a sudden, like I was watching
an interview with Lizzo and the Truth Hurts was out
for three years before.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
It blew up.
Speaker 4 (40:15):
I'm thinking Holy Cowboy might resurface.
Speaker 3 (40:17):
I feel like that's what's gonna happen with Holy Cowboy,
I hope. So yeah, like she started getting asks for
like commercials, and she was just like sure, sure, yeah, whatever, whatever, whatever,
Like that song's went out for three fucking years, whatever,
and then it blew up three years later.
Speaker 4 (40:31):
So I'm hopeful it's all about the time. Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
I mean, of course, like I feel so lucky and
excited about it. It's just weird because I never saw
it coming. Yeah, So sometimes I talk about it. I
don't want to sound ungrateful, because I certainly am. It's
just like there's that part of my heart that was
like I always thought it would be the music first.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
Yeah, but it doesn't.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
Matter, like doesn't matter, and it also could. It's it's
like a trifecta. You have money coming in this one.
This is how fucking rich people get rich by the way.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
You have like multiple.
Speaker 3 (41:05):
Streams of revenue, and now you have this stream of revenue,
you have songwriting, and you have like whenever you feel
like you want to tour and physically be an artist,
which is like you could do whatever the fuck you want.
Speaker 4 (41:20):
Amen, that's kind of great.
Speaker 2 (41:25):
Yeah, what's it called DAP? I don't know you Yeah,
I know, well we are. We have a podcast number podcast.
Speaker 4 (41:39):
I know.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
But I'm like thinking of, you know, like the only
fans thing, but go back and forth on but I
don't want to.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
Do because I always go back and forth on only thing.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
It's a lot of work. It's a lot of now
like it's like porn and it's like really degrading. There's
a hole.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
I wanted to make an account called preg Nancy or
Nancy preg pregnancy and just every.
Speaker 4 (42:01):
Day because people have like belly fetishes.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
When I was pregnant, every day one picture of growth
of the belly and I was too scared.
Speaker 3 (42:09):
Oh yeah, I thought, dude, their fucking pregnancy. Anything I
post about being pregnant.
Speaker 2 (42:17):
Dudes, they really huh.
Speaker 3 (42:20):
I'm like, I'm so obviously in a relationship. Yeah, why
do you think I.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
Give a fuck? It's yeah, just like.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
Hot mama mommy milkers sah, you're wearing pregnancy so well,
Like just like dudes I slept with a long time
ago that don't even follow me.
Speaker 2 (42:43):
It's like they.
Speaker 3 (42:45):
Sensed something and then they've come back around and started
following me again.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
And I just nobody slides into my DMS. What No, Yes,
I know they don't.
Speaker 4 (42:58):
I thought they know they.
Speaker 2 (43:00):
And I get really excited when I see like hello,
and I'm like, and it's like a fake account.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Do not hurt?
Speaker 2 (43:09):
But which I mean obviously your makeup account. Nobody's going
to slide into your No, one's sliding into that.
Speaker 4 (43:14):
Are you putting them milkers on there? Is that what
we need to do? Up? Okay?
Speaker 2 (43:18):
I just put them on my mommy Milker's up. Just
keep something, just keep doing it okay.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
And if you see somebody's hot friend online, you.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
Follow them too? Oh? Is that what you do? You
got to follow hot guys? Doing it all wrong? You're
doing it all wrong.
Speaker 4 (43:33):
You don't follow hot guys.
Speaker 3 (43:35):
Oh well there's your fucking problem. Oh my god, Wait
that brings me. Is your brother a single?
Speaker 4 (43:40):
How does he?
Speaker 2 (43:40):
I was like, Renee's brother is so hot.
Speaker 4 (43:42):
Of course yesterday him and his girl had there one year.
Oh and I love her. I love her.
Speaker 2 (43:48):
They broke up.
Speaker 1 (43:50):
I've never approved of one of his girls until now.
Speaker 4 (43:53):
Okay, this one's a good friend.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
But my brother, if he was single, I'd be like,
he's the most eligible bachelor there is. He's amazing. Yeah,
he's awesome. Thirty thirty one, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
That's probably banging age. It's a good yeah.
Speaker 4 (44:07):
I mean he's a stud like inside too nice.
Speaker 1 (44:10):
That's like kind of our families saying when we say
you're ugly, it means you're inside like you're being ugly.
Speaker 4 (44:15):
On the inside.
Speaker 2 (44:15):
I know you're being just filthy on the inside.
Speaker 4 (44:18):
You're heading out so much when you're.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
One hundred percent yeah, one hundred percent. Yeah, everybody peaks.
That's my age bracket with guys right now. Though. We're
like that, like thirty to thirty, thirty thirty four, so yeah,
sure whatever, it like ten years younger, but I'm not
because I'm twenty seven.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
You know what I mean. Yeah, we're both twenty.
Speaker 2 (44:37):
Yeah you're young at heart too, Yeah, you're young at heart.
Speaker 1 (44:40):
I just had the realization the other day, like with
my now to children, which sounds so crazy to say.
So it's like we don't get to relive our twentieth
get It's not like kids leave and then you go
back to where you were once you had them. No,
And I that dawned on me, and I was like,
when they leave the house, I will be like older.
Speaker 3 (45:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (45:00):
But then when they're like almost sixty, I'll be almost fifty. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
But like my daughter's eight, and I'm still like doing
awesome things like that I did in my twenties. Yeah,
having a great time.
Speaker 4 (45:11):
You look hot doing it. I hope I look as
as you too.
Speaker 2 (45:15):
Yeah. Yeah, you just got to get through like this part.
This is what keeps telling me.
Speaker 4 (45:21):
This is the part. You're about to be there.
Speaker 2 (45:23):
Yeah. And then when they're like of cool age and
then you get like the sitters Jennifer Coolidge Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
And you can start going back to the gym and
like I told that yourself again.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
But right now, ye, pity, that's a priority. Like they're
only little bus.
Speaker 4 (45:40):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
Yeah, what's your other child's name?
Speaker 1 (45:44):
Old, This is fisher Fish only call him Fishy like
a little fish.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
I see Donna post about him all the time.
Speaker 4 (45:51):
He's so sweet, very cute.
Speaker 2 (45:52):
He is gorgeous, gorge well your baby.
Speaker 4 (45:55):
And the baby even like a cuter baby.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
So I don't know if he's gonna block so, I
don't know, but younger baby's Franco.
Speaker 2 (46:03):
At the baby shower, he took my breath away.
Speaker 1 (46:05):
We got pregnant in Italy, so it's actually a year ago.
We were there a year ago today. We went for
a delayed honeymoon and uh got pregnant Italy. So his
name is Franco because my husband has a lot of
Franks on his side of the family, but they were German.
Speaker 4 (46:20):
The frog.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
I didn't know that.
Speaker 4 (46:23):
Yeah, friends, he's Franco.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Franco. That's so cute.
Speaker 4 (46:29):
It's cute.
Speaker 2 (46:30):
She's a big dudo. Yeah, that's so cute. That's so cute, cute.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
It's still so weird.
Speaker 1 (46:35):
Like even saying this out loud, I'm like, they're going
to know you're not a mom, like I'm a mom.
Speaker 4 (46:39):
It is so weird. It I can't wait to see
you as a mom.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Though, did you ever like when you were younger? Did
you were you like I want to same? See that's
why when you have that and for her too, the
three of us like, are you kidding the little girl
who's like, wet deal, I've had my wedding plan for
my whole life. Never name four kids, two girls, one
and you're.
Speaker 4 (47:05):
Like what No.
Speaker 1 (47:06):
I was like much designer are we partnering with for
the Grammy? So that was like the only yeah, because
I love fashion obviously and then music, Like those were
my only two things I ever cared about, you know what.
I had a big realization though, around Mother's Day was
that last weekend or weekend before. And people might like
get mad at me for saying this, but I think
it's actually so vulnerable and beautiful as mom's There is
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a difference between saying I love being a mom, or
I hate being a mom and I love being his mom.
Like being a mom kind of sucks in a lot
of ways, Like you're tired, you don't have any time
for yourself, you're picking up after them, you're cleaning poop,
you get poop in your fingernails, Like being a mom
is not necessarily awesome. But when I look at the
way the molecules formed this perfect little face and his soul,
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I'm like, I love being his mom, Like I will.
Speaker 4 (47:53):
Be your mom. Love that.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
I love being your mom more than anything. Actually being
mom very hard.
Speaker 2 (48:00):
I agree with everything. Yes, that's real, that is real.
That's real.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Yeah, because I don't really like children that much. I've
never been a huge fan of kids. There's certain children
that I I feel like a soul connection with or
like I really care about. But I'm not just like,
oh my god, it's a baby, Like it's like I
love this person. I'm going to love their offspring. But like,
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I just have never really had a huge, huge, huge
desire to be a mother.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Yeah, like I had.
Speaker 3 (48:30):
I was kind of like, eh, whatever, I mean whatever,
and but now I'm like really excited.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (48:36):
Yeah, I I never like dreamed about being a mom ever.
But when I met my husband, I was like, I
want your babies because like the world needs more of
him because he is so awesome.
Speaker 2 (48:46):
He is pretty awesome.
Speaker 4 (48:47):
He's like, I'm obsessed with my husband. He's the best.
Speaker 2 (48:51):
Said like we never fight. I was like, talk to me.
Speaker 1 (48:53):
I mean it's a big blowout, but it's like once
or twice a year, So like I'd rather be very
few and far between.
Speaker 4 (48:59):
We get all of our shit out.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
But like as far as like nitpicking about you know
I've had those relationships.
Speaker 4 (49:04):
Yeah, I'm sure we all have, and.
Speaker 2 (49:09):
So I will never go back to that place again
because it's awful. It's awful. Yeah, you're like the worst
version of yourself. Yeah, that where you're like, probably have
so much respect for this person.
Speaker 1 (49:18):
I think it's like once you actually like live to
like make sure they're happy, and they do that for
you rather than like, oh god, what are they gonna
annoy me with today? Like it's just a different mind shift. Yeah,
Like I love making sure you're your best self, like
you're covered, you're good.
Speaker 2 (49:34):
Yeah, that's that's that's that's healthy love, healthy love.
Speaker 4 (49:37):
Yeah, healthy If I never knew it before, god damn it.
Speaker 2 (49:42):
Goddamn.
Speaker 4 (49:42):
Yeah, it feels different.
Speaker 2 (49:44):
It does feel so different.
Speaker 3 (49:45):
It's like, uh, easy, so easy, and he's bad.
Speaker 1 (49:51):
He's annoyingly Like my husband's good at everything and being
a dad is maybe his best job. My oldest son
doesn't even like, come to me, Dad is life. He will,
he'll turn around, dad, he will. He just worships Shorten
like that. It is like Jordan will go pee and
he has a meltdown. He just wants to be attached
(50:12):
to Dad's hip every second of the day.
Speaker 4 (50:15):
Loves Dad. That's really that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (50:17):
Yeah, but Jordany keep saying the little one, He's like
Franco is going to be yours.
Speaker 4 (50:20):
It's okay, No, I.
Speaker 2 (50:21):
Want be mommy. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (50:28):
And plus, like I think when he's a little bit
older and like needs some more like nurturing and emotional capacity,
mom will step in.
Speaker 4 (50:36):
Yeah, because you know, men and women are different in
that totally are of life.
Speaker 2 (50:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (50:41):
I think I definitely think like they get different things
from different from each parent.
Speaker 2 (50:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (50:47):
And like the biggest thing is I keep like reading
about a bunch of stuff just because I'm in it
so deep. But it's it's more important for your sons,
especially to see how well your partner treats you, because
you're the nurturer, right, So like it's just like this
circle of like they see him love you, and then
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you love them, and then it's just like this.
Speaker 4 (51:11):
Little what are you most nervous about dropping him?
Speaker 2 (51:16):
Uh No, definitely not.
Speaker 3 (51:18):
I think I'm most I'm most nervous about birth and
I'm okay. I mean I've had like thoughts of like
how am I gonna be with work now? Or am
I gonna want to work? Or am I gonna hate
my job? Or like I don't know how I'm gonna be.
(51:40):
And I hope I like him, and I.
Speaker 2 (51:45):
Hope I like him. I hope I like him. Yeah,
I hope I like him cause you're like, you know
when they say like that your baby, like this, I
made this, I'm your pardon me, but I'm looking at
you and there's nothing there.
Speaker 4 (51:53):
There's nothing there. I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (51:58):
You're just not a really good I pay switch switch room?
Yeah yeah, can I get Can I get that black
Bay one in the back? Yeah? Your one? Yeah? Yeah,
it's it's that's amazing. I mean, I think it all
(52:18):
works out, Taran.
Speaker 3 (52:19):
I know, and I'm and I'm aware, but you can't
help these invasive, intrusive thoughts, the crazy. I mean, how
many times I've been like I killed him, I killed
him on accident. I felt a move or like whatever
it is, like how like, oh my god, I've had
a headache. Well, I guess I have fucking pre clamsya
so fuck me. Yeah, Like I mean, the intrusive thoughts
(52:42):
are fucking wild. Or I've woken up and just been like.
Speaker 2 (52:47):
Oh shit, I'm fucking pregnant.
Speaker 4 (52:48):
Yeah, I forgot. And then you will have the baby.
Speaker 1 (52:51):
And then in the middle of the night, once they're
finally asleep and you're like, yes, I can sleep, then
you're like, is he breathing, he hasn't made a noisy?
Speaker 4 (52:57):
Yeah, oh my god, he's dead in his crib.
Speaker 2 (53:00):
Yeah. The like thoughts are just like fucking crazy real
because it can happen, that's the that's the thing. Like,
but like you just.
Speaker 3 (53:08):
You can't help it, or like you know, I've just
just reading on like what kind of birth I want
to have or even though who knows whatever, but I'm
just trying to educate myself.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
But just like still birth, oh my god, oh well,
having like a healthy baby like be like us, even
just being born, just like on this earth is a miracle,
a miracle how often it happens? Yeah, and still births
or yas carriages, Yeah, a baby fucking suffocating in the
crib or this and that, like it it has reality.
(53:40):
So like the fact that like we're thriving our children
are thriving, your child will throt like everything. Yeah, it's
a fucking miracle.
Speaker 1 (53:47):
Yeah, it's I know, it is insane. And then you
also realize like how finite life is. Like that's been
a big realization for me. It's like, you know, when
we're younger, I just feel like we think we're kind
of going to live forever. And and my husband his
parents now are both older than when their parents passed away,
(54:07):
So you know when we think about, okay, well now
we've lost our grandparents. Now our kids are gonna, you know,
one day lose their grandparents and then like lose us,
And you just think about it more than you ever have.
Speaker 4 (54:19):
But it also in a good way, like makes you appreciate, oh.
Speaker 2 (54:22):
Stay present, yes, understand that, like literally this is all
a gift. Yeah, this is such a privilege to be
alive and to have when you like get up in
the morning and have your health and your family. Yeah,
because it could all be taken away.
Speaker 4 (54:35):
And like lately i've been older, you get the I
could die from anything. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (54:40):
Yeah, I've had a few feelings even in the last week,
of just being so overwhelmingly grateful that I'm like, oh
my God, is that when you die, when you reach
the maximum point of gratefulness, once you have everything you've
ever wanted and you realize you don't want anything else
all of a sudden, that being like to fulfill and
so then I get like, but.
Speaker 4 (54:59):
Your brain, it's just it's crazy. I know, like I've
never been happier. Is this the peak?
Speaker 2 (55:04):
Stay there? No, because it's ebb and flows of life.
So like yet in this like beautiful flow right now
where the older you get and the more you have
that you've worked so hard for, you have pure bliss
and gratitude and love and you see things differently now
and you know that like life's gonna throw different little
curve balls, oh you, but like in those moments you
have to appreciate them. Yeah, So gratitude is so important
(55:27):
in life. It's everything is to be truly grounded and
humble and grateful because it could all just be taken
away in an instant. And god, I know.
Speaker 4 (55:39):
It's like it is wautiful, but it's so awakening.
Speaker 2 (55:43):
Yeah, and you have to say those things out loud,
even like saying this and having conversations like this, it's
so real and like hits my heart that like We'll
walk out of here and be even more grateful.
Speaker 4 (55:52):
Yeah, you know, Oh I love that. I love this.
Speaker 1 (55:55):
I've never been you know the people that are like
write down five things when you wake up, what you're
grateful for, Like sing it has never like made me
feel truly grateful, even if I write it down. But
like it's more like yeah, looking at the kids and
looking around and being like.
Speaker 3 (56:09):
Wow, yeah, yeah, this is the little moments of kay
kind of like how you said, like if I want something,
I'm gonna make it happen.
Speaker 2 (56:14):
Yeah, I want this thought, I want my music. I
want this song like I've made it happen. I have
a vision for it. It's the same thing with like
how you like this the inner the inner stuffy? Yeah,
you know, which is just as important.
Speaker 3 (56:27):
What is next for you music wise or anything wise?
I mean, I know you're like you're like, I fine,
Darren Chill, Yeah, but I what is exciting?
Speaker 2 (56:38):
It's like coming up.
Speaker 1 (56:40):
I've written a whole Hill Betty album. Fully, Cowboy was
the first song from it. So that was just the single, Yeah,
and that that was the first single. It came out
almost two years ago. Okay, so it's been processing, you know,
long process. Yeah, but I've got a lot more music
(57:00):
for the album, and I like have to see that through,
Like I have to get the Hill Buddy album out. Yeah,
I don't care how long it takes. Yeah, it's got
to come out.
Speaker 2 (57:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (57:10):
Uh, and then we'll see where I feel like with
music then, I mean, you know, because at the same time,
like I don't want to be forty really having like
my career pop off as an artist.
Speaker 4 (57:22):
I'd like, so I feel like clock is ticking.
Speaker 1 (57:24):
I've got like three to four years to see this
album through and give it all. I've got to blow
it the f up, Okay, which I think the songs
are that good, Like I truly, I truly do.
Speaker 4 (57:34):
Yeah, I believe in them.
Speaker 2 (57:35):
Well in the brand. This is why it's like dope
that you stumbled upon, like sick fucking merch y.
Speaker 4 (57:44):
Yeah who knew, Yeah, not this idiot.
Speaker 3 (57:47):
Just because it's so like well rounded as a brand,
and people fall for the brands.
Speaker 2 (57:52):
Yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, the juice.
Speaker 4 (57:54):
Yeah, so that's inspire. I feel really good about that.
Speaker 1 (57:58):
But I kind of for the first time, I'm like,
I don't want to have any expectations of like and
there is a side of me too, because I grew
up in more of like the old school in Nashville.
Of like when TikTok started to come about, people were
like that's inauthentic or like that's the easy way, like
it used to be, like you know, you pay your dues,
you go play shitty clubs, you go hustle, and then
you build it. They will come and like, you know,
(58:19):
you post one video that goes viral, like do you
even know how to perform?
Speaker 4 (58:22):
Like and so there's this kind.
Speaker 1 (58:23):
Of but you know what I'm like, if the one
thing standing between me and selling a lot more tickets
is a couple more videos on TikTok, like I just needed.
Speaker 2 (58:31):
Yeah I know. Yeah, So you.
Speaker 1 (58:34):
Know it's like I can make excuses all day long.
But and then also I didn't want to do that
as much, like put a camera in front of my
face when I was basically pregnant the last two and
a half three years.
Speaker 4 (58:44):
So that's why I need to not get pregnant.
Speaker 1 (58:46):
Oh, I was gonna tell you guys a story before
when we were chatting, before we started, Yeah, let's talk pregnancy.
Oh I'm not pregnant again. But every day I wake
up and think I might be Okay. Well, so when
you have a child and you're breastfeeding, you're not supposed
to get a period. You probably won't get a period
whole time your milk or is your milking. Okay, so
(59:08):
but after six weeks when your doctor clears you to
have sex again.
Speaker 4 (59:12):
My husband was like, I'm not I'm not pulling out.
That's boring.
Speaker 1 (59:16):
That's like why I'm with you. That's the perk. And
I'm like, okay, well have you heard of condoms? He's
like an absolutely, not not as enjoyable, not doing I'm like, okay,
well what do you want because with my first son,
my doctor gave me this no progesterone or low progesterone.
Speaker 4 (59:32):
I'm not even saying right progesterone. I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (59:37):
Birth control that she said would not give you a
period the whole time you're on it, and not slow
down your milk supply. Okay, Well, with my first son,
within one week got a period, milk was gone.
Speaker 4 (59:48):
So I was like, I don't want to take this
birth control.
Speaker 1 (59:50):
Yeah, because all the other regular birth controls, like you
do lose your milk.
Speaker 2 (59:54):
Oh so.
Speaker 4 (59:57):
Yeah, okay, So I was at a baby shit.
Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
Like a month ago, and I asked another girl there
and she's like, just get ovulation strips and I was like, oh,
genius stuff. But then I thought about it after I left,
and I was like, if you're not getting a period
because you're breastfeeding, like, do ovulation strips even work?
Speaker 4 (01:00:14):
Right?
Speaker 2 (01:00:15):
Might not a little period? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:00:17):
So when pat do you know you're ovulating? If you're breastfeeding,
you're not getting a period. So what did I do?
Like most people in twenty twenty five, I went to Reddit.
Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
So I went on Reddit and I was like, do
ovulation strips work when you're breastfeeding?
Speaker 4 (01:00:31):
I just had two kids. I can't get pregnant again, Like,
mommy has goals and things she needs to get back to.
Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
My husband also doesn't want to wear a condom, and
you know, like I'm scared I can't get pregnant. Hundreds
of comments ditch the husband, major loser energy, Fuck that guy,
and people were literally like, you your body went through
this for nine months, and then so with breastfeeding if
he can't put it on for five minutes, if you
lost that long and.
Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
People were like, oh, leave your husband.
Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
My husband, I told him this He's like, yeah, break
up a family because I don't want to put a
condo on.
Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Well, yeah, nobody wants to wear a cor right, But I.
Speaker 1 (01:01:08):
Just was hilarious, like I want to He was like
a sleep and the comments started coming in.
Speaker 2 (01:01:14):
I'm so sorry. The internet hates you, buddy. Like also,
these are comments from single women because no one's in
this situation going I'm just gonna leave him. You never
leave your husband because of that.
Speaker 4 (01:01:24):
And I'm like, but do I wake up and tell
him like major.
Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
Like fucking loser. I hate you, You're a loser.
Speaker 4 (01:01:35):
Not no one really even commented on the ovulation.
Speaker 3 (01:01:38):
Strips, and actually, for nothing, guys, it's the.
Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
Husband major loser energy, So just forewarning that. Uh but anyway,
So I did the birth control that was not supposed
to and then in the last week my milks dried
up and I have a period.
Speaker 2 (01:01:55):
So so you're good.
Speaker 4 (01:01:57):
I unfortunately my control before No.
Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
Yeah, no, I've been told I was barren by multiple doctors.
You did, yeah, I know they were wrong. Probably.
Speaker 3 (01:02:08):
I was really devastated by it because it's like one
thing when I mean I was like not really, I
didn't really ever physically want to do this, but whether
you do or you don't, it's kind of like, oh.
Speaker 2 (01:02:23):
Damn, okay, so that's not even an option. Huh, damn.
Every I think every innately like were like, well, but then.
Speaker 3 (01:02:31):
I I was diagnosed with PCOS and I had so
many cysts on my ovaries and then stopped eating meat
and started taking really good care of myself and all
the cysts went away naturally. I didn't have surgery, yes,
And then went into a different a female doctor, and
she was like, your your parts look great. I feel
(01:02:53):
like you could have a baby if.
Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
You wanted to.
Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
And then but I just in my head, I was like,
I mean, I've been with this guy for like ten
years and I've never been on birth control. I think
I was on birth control for six months maybe one time.
Maybe Hunter can't have kids, but I obviously I can.
Speaker 4 (01:03:13):
But were you careful about like ever, never, ever, ever, never,
I've never.
Speaker 2 (01:03:21):
I was on birth control for about two months when
I was like seventeen years old. My mom found out
and she was like absolutely not really yeah okay.
Speaker 3 (01:03:29):
And then when I was single, I was on it
with one specific partner just because he had kids, and
I was like, I just don't even want to get Yeah,
but that was even like not even six months, and
that was it.
Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
It just it was timing.
Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
And yeah, no we've had sex twice without protection. I
have two kids, so do the math. So that's why
I'm like so paranoid. I gotta figure something out.
Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
Holy shit. Yeah, well, if your loser husband would just
put a condomal is there, slap a conum on your
d man?
Speaker 3 (01:04:02):
Wow, that's wild, that's fucking wild. Okay, you got careful,
you gotta be careful.
Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
I know.
Speaker 3 (01:04:11):
Well, I'm like if I have a c section, I'll
be like, well you're in there. Can you just do
a little tube tig Okay, I'm not going to be
forty something else. Yeah, having a second child.
Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
Yeah, is it tie them? T them? This is it? Yeah?
Yeah I wish I did that.
Speaker 1 (01:04:28):
Are you do you think you're gonna wait for him
to come or you think in c section?
Speaker 3 (01:04:33):
Or did they like the reason why I don't want
to be induced potosin freaks me out. Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:04:41):
If it's like.
Speaker 3 (01:04:44):
Thirty five, thirty six, thirty seven, thirty eight weeks and
they're like we got to get the baby out, I
think I'm just gonna go cool. Just see section mean,
let's call it today. Okay, but if I if the
only reason why right now she is like, you will
probably deliver early is because of my age, she says,
my placenta my age quicker than like somebody younger than me.
(01:05:07):
And the second the placenta is done, like what's feeding
your baby?
Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
So like you gotta get the baby out.
Speaker 3 (01:05:12):
Okay, if that's real, If that's a thing, then I
will see section it. If that doesn't happen and I
make it and my water breaks and I go into
birth naturally, great, But I just don't want.
Speaker 2 (01:05:27):
To be induced. Yeah, I just feel like I don't
really want that as of right now.
Speaker 4 (01:05:35):
I was induced first time. It almost died, yeah, but
for real.
Speaker 2 (01:05:39):
Yeah, but Ptosin's wild.
Speaker 4 (01:05:41):
But I didn't know anything.
Speaker 1 (01:05:43):
Yeah, I had it the second time and it was fine,
but I had a very small amount. And I was
also like dialogue when I went in to be induced
first time, wasn't dilated, wasn't a face, and so I
forced it.
Speaker 4 (01:05:54):
That was a problem.
Speaker 2 (01:05:56):
The thing that breaks me out.
Speaker 3 (01:05:57):
It's forcing your body into something that it's not ready for.
Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
And to me, I go, well, then just do do
a certain sea section. Then I wish it. Don't make
me do something that I can.
Speaker 4 (01:06:08):
You're already dilated or a face.
Speaker 1 (01:06:11):
The potosin is not as bad. But if you're at
zero zero, I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (01:06:14):
Okay, I was at zero zero and they fucking potosa.
Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
But then they ended up giving her a sea section
fucking thirty hours later.
Speaker 2 (01:06:22):
So it's like you know what I mean twenty something.
Speaker 3 (01:06:25):
Yeah, but also they gave you They were like, do
you want to try and do a natural birth?
Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
And you were like, yes, Yeah. I went into everything
so blindly, like I was just yeah, I didn't overthink anything.
I was like, I trust you, I trust the most. Yeah.
I think most women do go into it blindly.
Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
It's like and also I'm aware that everything's different for everybody.
I'm aware of that, Like I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
It just fucking freaks me out.
Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
Yeah, just stay by day, like trust your intuition. That's yeah,
best best advice. I don't listen to anyone, not even me, like, yeah,
listen to you.
Speaker 2 (01:07:01):
But researcher like she've you you know more about birth
giving birth now than anyone I've ever known. She's like,
I don't do I don't know I don't do this
like you do that, Like that's what you do when
you when you're become very focused on something, you die
really hard into it. So now she is a delivery doctor.
(01:07:26):
Look great, nurse in the delivery. That's incredible, George, because
I'm in the art.
Speaker 3 (01:07:33):
Yes, yeah, great, great Yeah. Anyway, enough about our vaginas well. Anyway,
where can everyone find.
Speaker 4 (01:07:41):
You any social media? You listen to music? Yeah? Or
now we have Hillbetty account you do, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:07:50):
We'll go follow all of them.
Speaker 3 (01:07:52):
Yea, everyone go buy everything.
Speaker 2 (01:07:55):
Do you know how many compliments I'm going to get
on the Do you know It's going to be a lot.
Speaker 4 (01:07:59):
That's like the reason I'm also dude.
Speaker 2 (01:08:02):
And I was like, you're you're dope. She was like,
Hill Betty. I was like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (01:08:06):
Like, yeah, yeah, their conversation starters, and I feel like
it's just slowly.
Speaker 4 (01:08:11):
Adding a little bit of a sparkle to the world.
Speaker 3 (01:08:13):
Yeah, just a trashy sparkle track in a high class
Hill Betty.
Speaker 4 (01:08:17):
Way hottest girl at the trailer park.
Speaker 3 (01:08:19):
Yes, yes, oh my god, yes, Renee Blair, Yes, Hill Betty.
Speaker 2 (01:08:27):
Even though you probably have a beautiful home.
Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
I know it's not it's not of a trailer park.
It is nothing of that.
Speaker 2 (01:08:40):
No, you're making affordable fashions.
Speaker 4 (01:08:43):
Yeah, I didn't buy my house my husband.
Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
Great, but you're still making affordable by the next one.
Yeah great.
Speaker 4 (01:08:50):
I'm not going to stop until I get hill Jettie
and we'll end on that.
Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
Note, Oh my god. And then we'll take that to
go to kan Kun and yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
Yeah, well you'll get our nails done first. We'll stop.
Speaker 1 (01:09:05):
We'll get our nails done, We'll go see Lelo's doctor.
Speaker 2 (01:09:11):
Half, we'll get half spaciac, get our nails.
Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Did find Brittany find.
Speaker 2 (01:09:18):
Yeah, fucking sick.
Speaker 4 (01:09:19):
There's something else.
Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
Thank you so much for stopping by. Yeah, I love
you so much. Thank you so much, See you later,
Bye bye.
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Speaker 2 (01:09:46):
Bye,